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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 80 | Grown Men with Room Mates | DISCUSSION | a20922 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:36 PM |
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| 12 | Please be careful not to give out any personal information about yourself!!!What do you mean by scrubbed your history? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 51 | Please be careful not to give out any personal information about yourself!!!I searched my username too and found the same thing! The sites they are linked to are all super weird too. One had the word “porno” in the name but was linked to a comment I made on Reddit completely unrelated to porn. I didn’t click on it but this is for sure scary! Thanks for pointing this out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Intuition vs fear with CPTSDThis was a really insightful post, thank you. I do enjoy poking fun at men who are silly but these types of posts are way more helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Where to start...It was terrible! Everyone said things like “do you come with the package” 🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 56 | Where to start...Gross !! I’m afraid it’s way more common than we think too. Weird story but, I briefly had a job right out of high school where I basically had to cold call people to sell them porno dvds. And on day two, one of the customers asked if we had any “donkey show” type videos. I had to break his crusty heart and say sorry, it’s not legal to sell those in the U.S. So he asked for “chicks with dicks” instead. Probably the worst job I’ve ever had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:34 AM |
| 43 | Where to start...😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 55 | Where to start...Yesss!! Not that I’ve ever made pornos, but I certainly always kicked my cat out of the room during sex. That’s so awkward! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 291 | Where to start...Who makes a porno with their cat in the room ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 32 | She proposes to him only for him to tell her no and ask “why are you asking me?” So much secondhand embarrassment rnWhy did she have to go and bring the kid into this desperate plea!! He is far from fabulous but damn, can’t she at least set a better example for the little girl? Or do this silliness in private at the very least! I’m sorry but after watching this, I don’t want to marry her either. 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:44 AM |
| 76 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!Ahhhh to be young and naive again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:57 AM |
| 211 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!I’m suspicious about the fact she was friend zoned for three years and now they are roommates who attend the same college. Seems awfully convenient for him.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:54 AM |
| 81 | Boundaries : Enforced!Try to avoid double texting any guy or oversharing about yourself. It was way too soon to even put in half the effort you did towards this random man. Who cares if he doesn’t respond or seem interested in your life, just find a new one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 27 | Two small successesGood work !! I was asked on a walk date last night and responded with hahahahahaha, that’s exercise, not a date. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 12 | Dean (from 90 Day Fiancé) has his own problematic issues, but what he is saying here is absolutely correct, a man who values you will put in the effort, and do his best to impress you. A man who is cheap with you does not value you.Thank you !! I was yelling at the TV watching this couple! That Uber driver specifically told her to leave her designer clothes back at home because he’d “take care of her” and then takes her to the thrift store. He was selling her dreams knowing damn well he couldn’t afford them. And clearly looking for a free hot baby sitter to sleep with, on his COUCH. Despicable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 7 | I bought myself some new bling for the new year. I was shocked at how transgressive it felt to wear a ring like this as a single person. Almost as if I am not allowed. That societal messaging runs deep.Can I ask where you found this one? I love the mystic topaz! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 13 | 😭😭😭😭Can’t pee without turning a light on to check for snakes first 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:59 AM |
| 60 | What would you think of a guy who likes the fact that you’re “pure”?I wouldn’t share the number of sexual partners you’ve had with any men moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 6 | Before my FDS awakening, I had a long distance “friend” who said he loved me first, and that he’d date me if not for the distance. Each time we talked, everything had to be on his terms, or nothing. This is one of the times where me simply saying “I love you” supposedly “stressed” him out.Girl, delete these screen shots/anything else involving this person from your life and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 9 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manMy grandpa grew up very poor. He met my grandma and wanted to change his life around so he could provide for her. He didn’t have a formal education so he enlisted in the army and fought in the Korean War. He sent her the cutest love letters while he was overseas. He also sent her money to start preparing for their wedding. As soon as he came home, he married her within days. He didn’t grow up religious but converted to her religion to make her happy and to get her parent’s blessing. He would con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Grown Men with Room MatesVery smart idea ! I’ve been considering putting a tiny home or rv in my backyard for the same reasons. Double the rental income instead of trying to buy a whole separate property for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Grown Men with Room MatesCompletely agree with you ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Grown Men with Room MatesYesssss!! Exactly how I feel ! Especially the part about getting a better job if you want a better lifestyle. Thank you for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Grown Men with Room MatesThe defaulting to your place for private time is exactly what I’m trying to avoid lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Grown Men with Room MatesDid she end up moving into the house or did he buy them a new house ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:52 PM |
| 10 | Grown Men with Room Mates🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 yes! How would I know if he’s clean or not if there’s another adult in the house. His room is only a small fraction of this. Great point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 15 | Grown Men with Room MatesYes! And it’s not because I’m making doctor dollars or come from a wealthy family. I just have priorities and good money management lol. Before this sub, I had the attitude of “don’t judge guys because they aren’t where you’re at in life”. But now I’m thinking, if I can get where I am today on my own, what’s his excuse? We all know men are paid more. And if he’s not there yet that’s fine, but I want someone who can take care of me the way I can take care of me or better. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:02 AM |
| 13 | Grown Men with Room MatesEhhh sorry you have that creature living with you ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:39 AM |
| 17 | Grown Men with Room MatesVery true! $800 in my current city would get you a small room with 3-5 other room mates in a nasty area. $800 where I came from, was my whole mortgage payment for a 2 bedroom house lol. These housing prices are crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:17 AM |
| 22 | Grown Men with Room MatesRight ! I don’t want to have to put a bra or pants on after spending the night (assuming this is a committed relationship) because he lives with other strange men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 15 | Grown Men with Room MatesNow that you put it that way, I suppose this new criteria could also help me to determine what his income/financial situation is without asking. I’ll take the guy in the studio over the guy sharing expenses with other adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:11 AM |
| 10 | Grown Men with Room MatesI completely agree with you !! I did the same thing. Bought my house at age 24 in a small town making like $12 an hour and now rent in SF. Luck didn’t get us where we are, hustle did. Thank you for your input queen 👑 (Edited because I think I replied to the wrong person, oops) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 29 | Grown Men with Room MatesI feel the same way! This ain’t motel 6. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | What would I cook?Hate to say it, but you’ll likely have 5700 other opportunities to use this line lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 5 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!At least take an drawing class first and invest in something other than a child’s washable marker to draw her dream ring 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 24 | What would I cook?What I’ll cook depends on the kitchen inside the house they’ll buy me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | How LVm expect to be treatedI have no idea how she didn’t slap the funk out of him with that corn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 16 | Don't ever allow a man to "we" youThat’s when you hit him with the old “oh you speak French now?” line lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 20 | I love that I see more and more people finally exposing LVM’s. AND I LOVE IT when it’s other men. Yes tell THEMMan I was dating a PRIVATE PILOT who’s body odor put the homeless community to shame. I have no idea how they even allowed him on a plane. I literally had to tell him to shower before allowing him into my bed out of fear of his stank ruining my high thread count sheets. He’d wear the same stank shirt for 3 days in a row claiming he had multiples of the same shirt but smelling like he had never touched a stick of deodorant. Haven’t dated since lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 3 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?The emojis kill me !! Like grow up, we aren’t highschool girls anymore. Use your words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Damnit, you just described my ex 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 17 | OMG All that for $20?? 😩🤮Based on how he speaks, $20 is probably his entire life savings lady lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | A scrote has some of my stuff he isnt giving backI’d just let the stuff go and show him you’re fine without it and without him. He’s keeping it so he can maintain control. Don’t give him that satisfaction. I’ve made this mistake more than once and each time, it was just a silly little minded game to them to keep getting a rise out of me. They’ll also reverse this and have you hold their stuff as an excuse to stay in contact. I had an artist have me “keep his original art work safe” before. I was too dumb at the time to realize why he did this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | How to make friends with women?I’d love the info too please ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 44 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportNo one told this guy not to pull out. Actions have consequences 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 19 | Little boys man.... like what???I like how he told you that you were thick af, as if you didn’t already know lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 5 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡Return it !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 21 | I better get my clown makeup on 🤡I’m sorry but if you have time to dog sit for a loser you have time for therapy. Do a video call with one if you must. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Printer Friendly White-Background FDS Handbook?You can select to print in black and white instead of color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:48 PM |
| 9 | Beware of the pandemic relationshipI made the same exact mistake ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:32 AM |
| 20 | Dating in your 30s - men with roommatesYes it’s a deal breaker. I also live in one of the most expensive cities in the country (SF) alone. I used to think “oh it’s expensive out here and hard to afford living alone, cut the guy a break”. But recently I’ve realized, if I as a single woman can make it happen then he needs to be able to make it happen too if he wants to date me. Otherwise I’m led to believe we aren’t on the same level and I don’t see a reason to date down or provide a private place to hang out. Sure, there are exception… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:48 PM |
| 20 | Which one of you Queens was this?It could of easily been me !! Had a guy want me to buy a third round of drinks in a casino, where drinks are easily free. Yes, I told him I’d buy him a beer because he asked after the second round. But I didn’t think he was actually serious 😅😂No one told him he had to pay for the first two rounds lol. So I escaped that situation quickly by “going to the bathroom” and sneaking on out of the casino. Of course, I was wearing my finest gown and did not necessarily blend into a nonexistent crowd easi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:59 AM |
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