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Um, do you want to get together again or not? You're overthinking this. Whether you come off as alpha/beta doesn't matter. If you're not interested, move on. If you're interested, say, "Miss you too. Let's hang." Simple Simon.
/r/seduction24/11/18 08:29 PM
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DM me, dude. I'm there often,
/r/seduction04/11/18 05:09 PM
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What I've found: hardly anyone lacks interests. Sometimes, they don't really think about it or or consider their true interests enough to bring that up in a conversation with a new person they met. That's where embracing your inner Jimmy Fallon/Larry King comes into play. I like to treat whomever i meet like they are a celebrity with a rich backstory. Everyone has one. What drives them? What makes their motor run? What do they surround themselves with day to day? Where did they come from? Why ar…
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:13 PM
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This! I've made so many friends through three avenues as an adult and then branched off from there and they were all passions I've fallen into: politics, swing dancing, and standup comedy. Also, don't look for friends in just these places. Strike up conversation with that guy who has a cute dog you want to pet at the park. Chat up that dude reading an interesting book at the coffee shop. Talk with Brad in the break room who you exchange hellos with in passing in the hallway. Facebook friend them…
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:46 PM
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Bouncing off of this (all good advice), I've implemented much of the mindset described and I've found it to be rather helpful. When I see women out and about that I'm interested in, I like to say, "Let's fuck" internally. And then with my approach. "I'm a sexual being. You're a sexual being"...let the chips fall where they may friends wise. If I get friendzoned, I accept it and either hang out with them on that level or move on. I've got enough male friends I don't hang out with enough that unle…
/r/seduction04/10/18 10:37 PM
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As a comedian, I write/tell jokes that amused me first. I will see something, find it amusing, and share w others. Whether on stage or not. Funniness come from viewing the world in a playful and curious way.
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:39 PM
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Recently, I had a chick use the line, "hi" on me while we were sitting on my couch, right before we started making out. Loved it! Because that is basically what kissing is: a greeting....that leads to more.
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:06 AM
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Nah! You don't need friends to go out and about. Be interesting. Bring a book to read or a notebook to write in. When people trickle in or sit next to you, ask them about the beer they're having. What do they think of it? Or comment on the baseball game they're paying attention to. Make a joke about someone dropping a plate. Anything. It's not hard. And it isn't creepy.
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:35 PM
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It's not terribly complex. I try to approach pairs or groups of women like I would if I met some dudes. You might be standing closer to one or see an item that catches your eye on that person. Comment. And then, play off of whoever responds. Recently, I got Instagrams from two chicks visiting my city, Seattle, from Rochester, NY. I saw them near a jukebox and I fucking love jukeboxes. And they made some eye contact w me as I walked over. While trying to find songs, I motioned to them in an amuse…
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:30 PM
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I've known her as a friend for nearly two years now, so she isn't a total stranger. You are right; it is a little soon for that. Still, I like her a lot!
/r/seduction11/06/16 01:36 PM
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I committed the "give a woman too much attention" error recently on two occasions. One is a girl I built some good rapport with after a conversation at a hangout with friends following a weekly swing dance in my area. She went to college and came back recently and I touched base with her last week with a "how's it going?" Had a good conversation but I jumped too fast on asking her out, right after she said, "it's late; going to bed. Talk later?" When I dropped the question, she responded with a,…
/r/seduction18/06/15 07:03 PM
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Throughout my life, I've had the bad habit of mumbling and not speaking clearly. My dad had railed on me about this for years. Since I started working retail 5 years ago, I began to realize that dad was totally right. Until recently, I still struggled with it. That was until I studied a linguistics course; now, I make it a point to elocute and have found a drastic improvement of other people's ability to understand me. It's been a long road, but combined with my involvement in a Toastmasters clu…
/r/seduction22/02/15 09:32 PM
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I've found that complimenting older ladies on their attire/fashion choices and mild flirting is excellent practice for talking with women my own age. With older ladies, there's absolutely no sexual tension; it's easier to dispense with the compliments, even if you don't come up with just the right words. Besides, if you can start to build rapport with everyone you meet, it makes you that more attractive to the females you actually want to get with. Also, if you strike out on a date, you can reve…
/r/seduction14/02/15 03:53 AM
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This! Always supply yourself with brain food when you're not talking with people.
/r/seduction04/02/15 08:27 PM
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Since I started getting out and doing more social activities in the past year, especially swing dancing, I've started to notice how much more attractive women (and people, in general) are beyond their social media profiles. As someone who lives in a small town and was starting to see my childhood friendships dissolve or morph into something different, I gravitated to social media to find other like-minded people during my late-high school years up until earlier last year. Many people don't put m…
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:55 AM
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This! As a kid in junior high, I always felt inferior to other dudes when it came to playing baseball. In that setting, I was the nice, hardworking guy who never was allowed to play a full game and was treated as a glorified bat boy. When it came to music, however, I could make the jocks envious of me. From kindergarten, I had been taking piano lessons and could play at an advanced level by the time I was twelve or thirteen. Eventually, I decided to ditch baseball because I was getting little ou…
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:54 PM
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Don't turn down social invitations, especially the first time they're offered. It's amazing how many connections one can make this way.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:32 PM
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Hey guys, So, in the past two weeks in going through the local mall, I've noticed this beautiful lady at the makeup counter in Macy's (I think she's a cosmetologist). In passing, I heard her speak and think she has something of a Russian/Eastern European accent, which is just enchanting. Being that it is a makeup counter and I have little reason to frequent that section of the store, besides perhaps buying something for my mom or sister, any suggestions on some ways that I can initiate conversat…
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:02 AM
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You do make solid points. If anything, I can take or leave interaction with this girl. She's beautiful and nice, but I'm not the desperate type. After high-fiving, we still danced multiple times that evening. Regarding blues dancers, you're totally right! There's a ton of kino going in that genre of dancing. And swing dancing too, although there is a little bit more personal space that can be emphasized by a follow if that is wished. As far as my length of time swing dancing, I got serious about…
/r/seduction16/11/14 09:45 PM
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