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| 1 | Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestlyI'm an attractive (or so I'm told) kind nice guy. I strike out left and right with girls 😭 | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction.Yeah they do. Getting the number/starting a conversation is the easy part. Keeping her interested long enough to get date, where game/seduction come into play is the challenge. Trial and error, but she just straight up wasn't interested, nothing in world can change that | /r/seduction | 02/08/23 09:04 AM |
| 2 | How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop?How do I make conversation interesting and get out of the hi, how are you, how was your day loop?A lesson I learned when I was trying to date in college. Don't try and build a spark through texts. Even the "players" when they get a number all they have to go on is "good morning beautiful" and "how was your day", where they don't strike out early is they don't STICK to texts, texting is a means to get her to meet you in person. Also in the early stages, don't ask if she's free or when can you see her. Position it more like "I had an idea for the two of us this weekend" or "I was thinking we … | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?Yeah because by then most people have in a sense "found themselves". They know who they are and know what they want, so once you start hitting like 25-26 on up the games stop and people are usually trying to be serious. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 03:26 AM |
| 4 | I dont want end up being "too much nice guy" any advice ?Make your intentions known, if you're not confident she's into you enough for you to ask her out/make it official, atleast run the idea by her in a casual way and gauge her response. To not be the nice guy, you need abundance, not douchebaggery. Flirt with girls, talk to girls, message girls, but focus on you, your hobbies, your life, your social life, and don't always be available. Abundance eventually leads to more confidence, confidence makes you interesting. Back to not being so available, t… | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 09:42 AM |
| 20 | drug abuse gets you laid. Has anyone noticed this?A lot of girls been through shitty relationships and find comfort in chaos. Healthy actually genuinely scares them. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Any hobby that attracts women is a good way to meet female friends just be casual. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 5 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Adapt new hobbies | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Shoot your shot at anybody that catches your eyes/attention (within reason, ex: not your professors, chicks in relationships etc.) Start talking to girls sooner, and I don't mean on a relationship level, get female friends. Your female friends and your Player friends will put you on game. Get advice to GET the girl from them, once you got the girl, get relationship advice from your friends in healthy relationships (me and a lot of guys did it the other way around, what that does is either gets y… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:11 AM |
| 191 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Shoot your shot at anybody that catches your eyes/attention (within reason, ex: not your professors, chicks in relationships etc.) Start talking to girls sooner, and I don't mean on a relationship level, get female friends. Your female friends and your Player friends will put you on game. Get advice to GET the girl from them, once you got the girl, get relationship advice from your friends in healthy relationships (me and a lot of guys did it the other way around, what that does is either gets y… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?"Proved yourself" I platinum trophied a ps4 games the day it came out once. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | is this a thing or am I delusional?Trust me when you're older it's different. 9/10 we'll say yes unless we're dating someone. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | is this a thing or am I delusional?Trust me when you're older it's different. 9/10 we'll say yes unless we're dating someone. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:56 AM |
| 7 | is this a thing or am I delusional?Guys won't admit it, but cute girls we're genuinely interested in make us nervous in some way or another, whether the guy displays it or not (a lot can mask it, the most common mask is walking up and introducing ourself). Also we overthink whether or not she's genuinely being interested or just being nice and we don't want to come off as creepy. Also the quick look aways are to not come off as creepy as well. On top of that guys Also assume that if a girl is attractive, she's probably dating som… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 18 | is this a thing or am I delusional?The world would flow a lot smoother if girls approached sometimes. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Why does every girl seem to be with a guy at bars?Cuz girls are only at bars for free drinks | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on male simps and game*incel | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 18 | [NSFW] I’m tired of jerking offYou 9/10 end up paying for it regardless, but I get what you mean. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone here date women they’re not attracted to for practice?Maybe to flirt but not actually date? Nothing wrong with banter and chemistry. Leading people on is bad. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 25 | How to approach a chick at the club for a one night standBobs and vagene pliz? Have on day to live, escuse bad England. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 12:12 AM |
| 10 | If a relationship doesn’t work out, move on. Trying to win back an ex is a waste of energy and opportunity, and will usually yield the same resultsThere IS a special somebody, but if it didn't work that WASN'T the special somebody. He/she may be a prize but so are you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If they brag about anything (not just women) they probably aren't that great. I believe in moving in silence. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so persistent?idk who that is. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 39 | Why are men so persistent?This is how I feel as a man. Don't let her reject you, but BEFORE YOU FLAME ME this is what I mean. You can tell if someone's into you when you're flirting by the way the respond, their body language etc. If she radiates hard "I'm not into this vibes" don't push it further. Say "well it was cool chatting with you" and walk away before she rejects you. If you can read and do that, that's emotional maturity. Also as far as already being in a relationship, a lot of guys think like this. If she's si… | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 4 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?My advice speaking from experience is try not to overthink it and just roll with the flow. There is no definitive how to flirt, that just comes naturally and varies on the people and I guess situation is the right word. Just remember worse she can say is no and if she says anything worse than no, you didn't miss out, you dodged a bullet. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl when they're typically never by themselves?If you can manage to get cool with her friend(s), it boosts your chances. If she's not interested, you'll still possibly have her friend(s) to fall back on. Don't go 100% on the initial approach. Just introduce yourself, ask questions, go from there. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or for every dating advice there is an opposite advice?My best answer for that question is simply everyone isn't the same. What works on/for some might not work on/for others. You also gotta know how to adapt (easier said than done especially depending on the person you're ADAPTING to, even for me and I'm the person telling you lol) and any advice you get (for anything not just dating) you gotta take it with a grain of salt because no matter how good or bad, you're not guaranteed the same results as the person who gave them to you. "Hope for the bes… | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Confused about flirtingWas this a DM or direct face to face? Also a more bold approach would've been instead of saying "I hope you don't mind... ", say "Just wanted to tell you I think... ". It has the energy you want to put out, but it's bolder. Also flirting itself is a feeling that just flows naturally and depends on the person/people, it's the initiation that's tricky. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 6 | I have a date with an absolutely stunning blondeCurrently experiencing something like this myself. They say 1 in a million, quite literally convinced I found that 1 in a billion. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 03:19 PM |
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