aCOWtant Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	FR: A busted "reunion" date leads to leading a gorgeous foreigner around all night.		aCOWtant	/r/seduction	10/09/17 09:57 PM

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1	read this if you smoke 420 before going out, bruh lol no. Going overboard definitely kills your game, but maintaining a slight buzz can keep you calm, relaxed, confident and ultimately more outgoing—all good things.	/r/seduction	16/09/18 09:03 PM
9	Compliments are very viable I compliment my boys, and complete strangers, on their style all the time. It’s not like I’m fishing for a compliment myself, it’s just beautiful to see someone’s mood brightened by a quick, simple gesture. Pass it on.	/r/seduction	01/06/18 05:55 AM
2	Where is the best place to meet weird girls? But like, weird how? Do you watch My Little Pony and discuss it's deeper implications (cause that's fucking weird), or like, stupid-random-weird? And get more social hobbies (like coed sports), and work on your sense of humor/storytelling. Listen to standup comedy on your drive to work everyday, and analyze how they build their stories. Do cool shit so you have cool stories. Be. Better.	/r/seduction	26/02/18 06:32 AM
3	Is Bad First-Time Sex Always A Dealbreaker? Feel you, I've been too blown or drunk to perform in these sorts of situations. Dropping would be a different situation entirely, but still, I can imagine I'd be pretty lackluster while dosed. But, in my experience, it depends on the girl. Did she know you were on the tail end of dropping? She had to, and if she's cool, it's forgivable. I have gotten second chances in the past, but don't apologize for anything. In my experience, maybe just don't try and fuck next time you're flying and you know …	/r/seduction	07/10/17 06:13 AM
5	Dont get it, so I have a girl touching me and all over me. I try to physically escalate back and she pulls away. How?? Some girls crave attention, almost in a competitive fashion. There's a chance that they just wanted to know they were desirable, and that's all. I'd take it as a compliment, and move on. Keep doing what you're doing, being the alpha, and the real, worthy ones will find you. Jk, you've gotta find them ;-)	/r/seduction	23/09/17 06:36 AM
3	What are your personal favorite thigs to do when making out with a girl at a club? It creates tension, like when you're about to go down on a girl, you never dive right in. You kiss every inch of her, teasing until she's practically begging for it. Trust, this shit works.	/r/seduction	21/09/17 02:21 AM
2	How do you get new friends and fun groups to be a part of after college? Most of my buddies in college were formed through drinking excessively wayyyyy to often. Don't do this, although I have no regrets, and lifelong friends. Join an intramural sport, find hobbies, and the friendships will come. At 28, in a city 2k miles from where I went to college, I have three circles of friends: my coed kickball team, old coworkers, and music festival friends (turned art project friends). Hobbies man, get them NOW. It took me years to realize that was the true basis for real fri…	/r/seduction	06/08/17 09:41 AM
2	Getting Girls to text first It won't happen initially. In my experience (mostly in the 8-range) they will text you first after you've taken em down, but even the most interested women tend to want you to lead at first. Once you've bagged n tagged 'em, they'll open you more. I've flat out told a few I'm a busy man, and if they want my attention, they'll have to reach out occasionally. Works most of the time... and when it doesn't, my life continues to be great.	/r/seduction	29/07/17 04:06 AM
17	You are not trying nearly enough 10,000 hours, is it?	/r/seduction	22/07/17 12:55 PM
1	how to get a new social circle when you're older? This. Get hobbies besides drinking and chasing tail. Join an intramural [coed even?!] team. If you're actually good at the sport, and just want some buddies, skip the coed aspect. I met my best local-friends at a camping music festival 2 years ago. My other social circles are constructed of work friends, and kickball friends.	/r/seduction	18/07/17 04:59 AM
2	How much does gaining muscle and being lean help with attracting girls and hooking up with them? Being more physically attractive will give you more opportunities with hotter women, period. Turning opportunities into moist panties is a-whole-other thing. Developing a sense of fashion will also catch more eyes. r/frugalmalefashion – although I think that style is a little played out, it's a great start. As I mentioned, I live in LA, so that basic-bro shit doesn't really fly here. And getting great at sex early in your escapades will keep em coming back. r/sex for tha win.	/r/seduction	18/07/17 04:33 AM
6	How much does gaining muscle and being lean help with attracting girls and hooking up with them? I've never been either super skinny, or super fat, so maybe my opinion here is meaningless. But anyways, my transition was from skinny-fat(dad bod!) to appearing in-shape, athletic, and potentially owning a 6-pack beneath my shirt. And you know what? I think losing those 15-20 extra lbs made me much more fuckable. But that's what I think, what I've chosen to believe, and thus the energy that I radiate. I lost weight and added a bit of muscle all for myself, to be a better, more attractive versio…	/r/seduction	18/07/17 03:50 AM
6	I keep telling myself I'm not interested in her This guy gets laid on occasion	/r/seduction	14/07/17 08:04 PM
3	Help me score this chick You're a man, make your own decisions. The uninterested girl sounds like she's flirting just to get a rise out of you, to know she's still got you wrapped around her finger. Her own ego-boost if you will. I'm willing to bet the one that vanished is hotter, yeah? "Grass is always greener," bud, remember that.	/r/seduction	04/04/17 03:36 AM
2	Do you ever ask if she's hooking up with anyone else? I don't ask because she definitely is, have you met the girls I date?	/r/seduction	01/03/17 08:34 AM
–	Should I go on the date? Can you dance? If you can dance without her, show much fun you're having just in the moment... I bet she'd let you grind up on dat ass.	/r/seduction	05/02/17 10:27 AM
2	Short guy, gets girls You know, when sexy time happens. "I'm gonna take control, you lay back and enjoy yourself for a bit" type shit.	/r/seduction	05/02/17 10:12 AM
8	Short guy, gets girls 5'7-5'8 checking in. Can confirm, most women under 5'10 don't care unless you do. I can often be found in boots with insoles (for comfort, boost is a bonus). Great style helps. Confidence, confidence, confidence. I haven't had a woman bring up height in years, but when I did, I'd respond "your height means nothing when you're on your back." It's cocky, but fuckit, she's trying to get a rise out of you.	/r/seduction	05/02/17 08:59 AM
4	Should I go on the date? She's getting tix to a bomb concert for the price of standing next to you the whole time? I don't know man... women have been known to go to dinner with guys for the sake of free. If she's hot and fun, and you don't mind spending the evening in her company, take her. But if you would have more fun alone, talking up randos and it leading no where(not outcome-dependent), then I'd do that.	/r/seduction	05/02/17 06:45 AM
1	How should a guy show IOI's in a girl without being too creepy or blatantly obvious? If she's locking eyes with you across the room and smiling, she's at the very least attracted to you.	/r/seduction	02/02/17 09:05 PM
2	How should a guy show IOI's in a girl without being too creepy or blatantly obvious? If she blushes, if she maintains eye contact, if she flips her hair or plays with it, if she fidgets with hers hands, if she laughs at dumb shit that isn't funny... She want tha D.	/r/seduction	02/02/17 07:08 PM
2	How do you develop a social circle when moving to a new city? I met my best friends in LA at a camping music festival. My other circle of friends is coworkers, but I benefited from a large, young, hip working environment. With those work friends, we networked different friend-circles to form a coed kickball team. I know what you mean about short conversations, but if the person really seems like someone you would kick it with, ask if they (or the group) wants to grab a beer or bite to eat after the class/gym/game. It's tough man, it was a very depressing f…	/r/seduction	26/01/17 07:48 PM
1	How to treat an ex when social dancing? Yeah man, you're right about it being a poor idea to push for more. She's since updated her FetLife profile to detail exactly what she looking for: poly and MMFs. I'm gonna ghost on her and see if she chases, but I'll let her down in a similar fashion as you did your dancer girl. Something along the lines of: "I don't like to share, and I don't want to get emotionally invested in someone who doesn't share similar intentions. We can still be friends, go to concerts, etc. but that's all it'll be. …	/r/seduction	25/01/17 07:27 PM
1	How to treat an ex when social dancing? I'll try to keep it short, and I won't keep this post up for but a day or two because it's pretty personal.. but advice is welcomed if you've got any. There's woman I've been seeing in an undefined(FWB/open) way, and while I want to push for something more exclusive, it's most likely not in the cards– and lets be far, the man bringing it up shows weakness. Also worth noting this is my first "open" anything, so it's all new to me. I'm trying to wrap my brain around it, how to approach and handle …	/r/seduction	24/01/17 07:26 PM
1	How to treat an ex when social dancing? Slightly off topic, but your post has given me a good reference point in a different situation, approaching it from an angle I just didn't know how to word myself. Thank you.	/r/seduction	23/01/17 09:11 PM
20	How does one respond to a "that was smooth" text? That's the point.	/r/seduction	21/01/17 10:24 PM
1	Should I feel bad about how I handled/viewed this date? "Your height will mean nothing once I've got you on your back." I've only hooked up with a few women 2" taller that I, max. In a relationship, yeah, I could see it might be a problem for her, but I wouldn't let if affect me. Go after what you want, and fuck any universal "truths."	/r/seduction	19/01/17 11:27 PM
1	Do women care about your music taste? As dominant, high-value men, we should qualify them: if it matters to you, then it matters. If you don't care, just roll with it and stay confident/passionate about what interests you, and the quality women will appreciate that. For me, it's almost a deal breaker for anything more than a ONS, but I'm a festival-head.	/r/seduction	19/01/17 05:56 PM
3	What to do if a girl says "I'll let you know?" She gave you a polite "no" because your suggestion was too boring. I get it, you want to spend time with this chick chatting one-on-one, but she just doesn't seem interested in sitting across from you and sipping whiskey-gingers all evening. Lead with more interesting dates (at least initially), and frame them in a positive, fun way. Instead of "let's grab drinks" suggest checking out a jazz bar, or a brewery tour...anything that stands apart amid the mass of Tinder "drink-date" invites she gets…	/r/seduction	18/01/17 06:22 PM
1	I'm looking for tips on hooking up with a girl who knows I'm in a relationship. Any advice? It's dangerous territory, but if you insist, I hope you have to learn on your own. Keep in mind that if she gets over-invested in you, and you don't reciprocate these feelings, she's liable to drop a FaceBook message to your gf that may not paint you in the greatest light.	/r/seduction	12/01/17 05:38 AM
1	Don't know what to expect on the "first date" She knows it's a date. Go have conversation, ask her about herself, her passions, what she does for fun when she's alone... She's just a friend you're hoping to impress enough she lets you twiddle 'er twat. Building attraction requires deeper conversation than small chat. Just be confident in who you are, what you talk about. Try to be funny, but nothing outlandish – I always try to listen to some good standup before a first date, keeps the mind moving. And maybe have prepared a good story or tw…	/r/seduction	06/06/16 04:42 AM
2	Am I just lazy or am I picking up the wrong hobbies? You sound young, but I could be wrong.. Find something you enjoy, and devote time to it. It won't come easy, but getting good at anything takes time. If you're only half-interested, you'll only ever be half-decent. Plus passion is sexy, and women will see right through it.	/r/seduction	05/06/16 06:33 AM