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I didn't wonder where you would be, I wondered what it would be like. I wonder if you will feel fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 01:59 PM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:02 PM
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I was actually more referring to the fact that you didn't learn anything, as evidenced by you making a false comparison and dismissing emotional trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:57 AM
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Wonder what your life will be like in 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:51 AM
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You all just don't have a lot of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:11 AM
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How is it shaming to point out observations? You guys do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:11 AM
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I know. People who are unempathetic/not touchy feely/have toxic mentalities are very aversive to the concept of therapy. There is definitely a correlation at least
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:24 PM
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I have been. You're right, maybe it's time to go back. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:22 PM
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Ehhh I think that you definitely believe you have the ability to think things through for yourself...but really, like I said, it's just bias and your worldview that clouds from any kind of rational conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:16 PM
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Why is it on her to control your behavior again? Big boys know how to control themselves. If you arent absolutely sure if she wants you do something or not, you shouldn't do it. You only have to let off the gas if she wasnt into it, which you would be aware of if you cared about consent. Do you care about getting consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:08 PM
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Enthusiastic consent. Don't look for a no. Look for a yes. Has nothing to do with "luck", it has to do with not caring about the alpha/beta mentality and treating her like a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:44 PM
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Yeah, no kidding. I don't do that shit. Maybe you should care more about consent. Let me guess, here come the terms like beta and cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:35 PM
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And if you did listen, your opinion about it would still likely be clouded by your obvious bias, which at a deeper level speaks more to your world view and the way you think about life (life is only about sex, money, and power, etc etc). It's a jaded worldview that a lot of TRPer's share and it probably has something to do with how shallow you all are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:31 PM
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You probably think of therapy as just talking to people for hours on end and that's it. This is ignorance. You are ignorant about many things but refuse to learn. I'd explain it to you, but would you listen? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:30 PM
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Honestly, I doubt you learned anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:28 PM
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If you were correct, sis, every single man in the world should be in jail I've never done any of that and I'm male. Maybe you should open your eyes a bit and realize that rape culture is a thing, and that you don't have to act like a fucking caveman. Rape culture isn't about rape. It's about the dismissal of female experiences when they tell you that these things are happening. It's about dismissing poor, toxic behavior as "just dating" and telling women that they should just shrug it off. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:27 PM
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You've been watching too many "feminist debunking videos". That stuff isn't all that common. Sexual assault is...except people like you don't even consider it to be sexual assault or abhorrent behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:24 PM
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This right here says a lot about you. First that you don't consider it to be a service, and second that you consider them to be losers. Why am i not all that surprised though? People who have shitty opinions and beliefs about one thing tend to have shitty beliefs about other things
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:17 PM
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Let me guess, you don't believe in therapy either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:53 PM
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I don't know if I'd go that far but yeah the OP has his head up his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:53 PM
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How about you treat people like human beings and stop dismissing negative experiences as just "feelings being hurt". It's a lot more than that and part of the problem is that people like you don't take it seriously. When you are constantly harassed and belittled because of your gender (and yes, it is constantly. sure, it doesn't happen on a daily basis but the majority of women experience it and suffer from it), the experiences add up and do take a toll on your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:53 PM
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Every single social interaction we have is manipulative My points are not made up. Having this view shows that you have a deeply ingrained belief that everyone is manipulative. I wonder what things would be like for you if you tried to let things be without judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:47 PM
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That's what many men in this topic are suggesting, but I'm suggesting otherwise. Most women do not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:38 PM
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How so? The question was if I would date someone who accused a man, and why. I gave my answer and my reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:38 PM
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The way you describe peoples' intentions leads me to believe otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:37 PM
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That redpiller mod would be too busy lifting, taking testosterone supplements, working on his game, talking about pussy...how much fun it is to get it...strategies on getting it...and how to avoid being a pussy beta. It's a pretty exhausting lifestyle. No time to mod a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:14 PM
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I wonder what things would be like for you if you tried to live a more in-the-moment, genuine life...without these instilled beliefs. People do not have to be as cutthroat as you make them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:12 PM
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Sure. Lots of guys do shitty things to women, and they have for a long time. Lots of guys don't even consider some shitty behavior to be shitty, and are inherently dismissive of womens' experiences. Lots of guys would call me a "beta" or a "cuck" for even pointing this out. As such, it's really not that hard to believe that most women have experienced something that puts them in the #metoo movement. It wouldn't really surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:10 PM
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I mean I agree with you but I would like to point out a few things. 1) Not many women put that much money into cosmetic surgery to look good. Most women just wear makeup. 2) I would say just as many men go the extra mile as women to look good (going to the gym). 3) I think there's a biological disparity too. Men are programmed to want more sex (does not mean they have to act in a toxic manner or without empathy). Just because a man has kids or is in a relationship, he will still want sex. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:05 PM
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Except everyone will have different standards for what they consider a "slut", and everyone views that word differently....not to mention the fact that there are many different things that could go along with "opening her legs", such as maybe it isn't about the sex, maybe she just likes the intimacy but has a hard time trusting people so her relationships don't last long? Jesus dude, is anything NOT about sex to you? I already know the answer to that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 10:31 AM
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Because I consider empathy to be truly important. Especially in relationships. But you're right, I rarely fully read TRPers' posts. It keeps me sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:35 AM
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Yeah I mean, why would you get married, she's giving you sex already right? And marriage leads to less sex according to TPRers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:20 AM
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I base it on things I've read TRP'ers say. The bulk of the posts contain no empathy. It's all about looks. It's all about sex. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:19 AM
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nope Only a sith speaks in absolutes. There are shades of grey in life. its because you have nothing better to do with your time. Young attractive women with options are not on reddit. What makes you so sure I'm female? Uh oh, let me guess, that makes me a "beta" or a "cuck". These labels you use so often are just lazy insults used to destroy any kind of conversation. They are pointless, as human beings are capable of much more than whatever meaningless label you give them. TRP is comfirmed by w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:31 PM
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Leave it to males to try and make a link between financial loss and rape. They are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:24 PM
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I'm a monster who rarely feels any sort of emotion beyond rage and anger The problem with most people from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:23 PM
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Assume we are starting off with 100 sluts and 30 alphas/players. And once again it's hard to read past the first line of something someone from TRP posts. You know that people & human psychology are complicated, right? People are more than just "sluts" and "betas" and "alphas". Your ability to reduce human beings down to these simplified labels is ignorance and it's one of the main problems I have with TRP and ideologies like it. Of course, none of you will admit it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:17 PM
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If anything I would think it's those who follow TRP that have the mental illness. Can't feel any emotion, too busy reading up on darwinism and thinking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:06 PM
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Many women aren't. There are very few who are, you are just watching too many youtube videos that mock those women/looking at tweets from radicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 07:05 PM
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If you love and connect with someone, why wouldn't you want to marry them? Of course, I know love is something that many TRP'ers don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:52 PM
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Jesus man...i can see that you've totally been brainwashed with toxic viewpoints. I hope you learn to find some peace in life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 12:18 PM
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His experience "proves" nothing? I'm not disproving his experience, only pointing out that it is not a representation of all experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 11:55 PM
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Sounds a lot like the type of stuff TRP'ers spout
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 11:55 PM
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I'm not trying to prove anything. I'm attempting to disprove his narrow worldview and present a case for alternatives to his mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:09 PM
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Okay? You are 1 of billions of women. What exactly are you trying to prove? Some women are less emotional than you. Some women are more emotional than you. Different people have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:55 PM
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Maybe one of OP's problems, but he has many more to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:54 PM
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What do you gain by typing like that? Nothing really. I just think that the assumptions about women in general that many individuals (especially from places like TRP, incels.me, etc) make about women are only based on their own personal experiences and experiences of those like them. Women are people. People vary. There are women who are gold-diggers...there are women who don't care about money...there women who want a submissive man...there are women who want a dominant man...there are women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:48 PM
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I think it's great that someone who has such a depth of insight into the minds of 3.5+ billion individuals would grace us with their knowledge and presence on such a meager forum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:38 PM
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Just because you don't see it happening doesn't make it true? What exactly fuels this belief of yours that you are the arbiter of truth when it comes to what women want? Why not let them decide? Women like emotional men. They don't like men who are pushovers. There's a difference. For all you know, some women DO like men who cry at the end of titanic. Just because it doesn't fit into your narrow worldview doesn't make it false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:26 PM
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Nope they never want that From you maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:06 PM
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...it means many women want men who are emotional...the ones who want more than just sex...the ones who don't think like someone from TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:03 PM
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I have a question for you. Are you a robot? You know that hugh-man relationships are more than just pointing coins into a machine and getting things in return, correct? You know like, real hugh-man emotions are involved, yeah? Beyond like...OH YOU WOMAN, YOU GIVE SEX....ME MAN...ME GIVE RESOURCES...ME GIVE RESOURCES AFTER TRIAL PERIOD...IS NO FAIR You know people can care about one another, right? Are TRPer's for real sometimes? Shit, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:00 PM
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Does it matter? Most of TRP talking points are either easily refutable and/or there is no argument to be made against them because their whole mindset/worldview is shrouded in narcissism and a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:57 PM
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Men obsess over sex because they are hardwired to do so. People (men more so) get more pleasure and gratification from sex than almost anything else in life. Not all men. Sure, maybe physical gratification...but guess what? People grow up and realize there is more to life. Maybe it's time to grow up and stop dragging your knuckles on the ground like a caveman? The most miserable and suicidal people on the planet are on average the least sexually active (just look at incels, Elliot Roger, Japan, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:49 PM
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They are a completely different culture. Anything that their culture "proves" is proof above their own culture individually, and not about men/women as a whole...and I use "proof" lightly here, considering the confirmation bias among the /incel/TRP/typical-internet-male-mindset is pretty rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:37 PM
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You seem to have a lot of anger. I would assume you are one of those men who are not sexually successful? Who are you to judge all women based on your limited interaction? Even if you've literally spoken with thousands and thousands of women, that's limited interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:35 PM
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Maybe you'll find one then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:51 AM
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Women like that don't want to date men who are so obsessed with sex though. Or at least are that focused on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:49 AM
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The just world fallacy is the belief that if something bad happens to someone, they must have done something bad. Likewise if something good happens to someone, they must have done something good. This is not what I am saying. You need to re-read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:20 PM
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You are looking at the world through a lens that is not accurate. Plenty of average guys lead normal lives with women who find them attractive. Cut that "alpha daddy dom chad" shit outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:18 PM
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It has less to do with the fact that they are bad people and more to do with their actions have consequences, which is not the just worl fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:17 PM
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These aren't isolated exceptions. Having such a toxic mindset causes you to go for the kind of women that perpetuate your stereotypes. You need to open your eyes mate. Your reality is clouded in bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:55 PM
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You would rather be a douchebag who passes on his genes than some pathetic cuck erased from the gene pool. 1) You would rather be a douchebag 2) You put a huge amount of weight into "passing on your genes", as though all that matters in life. This shows a lack of empathy. 3) You use insults like "pathetic cuck", except people on TRP consider any male who expresses any kind of empathy to be "cucks", at least from what I've seen 4) You again emphasize the importance of "passing on your genes". 5) …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:53 PM
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????????????? You can't actually believe this can you? This just points towards your misunderstanding of what rape culture is about. Rape culture is a culture that minimizes an individual's experiences (typically female, but potentially male too) by dismissing that there is a problem (e.g. catcalling doesn't point toward a bigger issue). You honestly don't think that a male obsessing this much over getting sex, to the point where he wonders if there is a point to being morally good is an indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:50 PM
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It isn't reality. Well, it's not everyone's reality. Plenty of good people get sex. Plenty of women don't want bad boys. Your stereotypes about what women want are clouding your perspective. People are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:37 PM
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Guess that's why you voted for trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:35 PM
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Okay...but when you are questioning whether or not you should be "morally good" because bad people get more sex, that's is a mindset that is linked to toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:33 PM
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Not sure what's so difficult to understand about the fact that when you want something, you will behave in a manner to get it. Behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:23 PM
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Rape culture has nothing to do with rape. It has to do with victim blaming and toxic masculinity. His mindset is directly related to toxic masculinity, so rape culture relates. I explain it very clearly in my original post. You need to read better. Also, yes, karma is a real thing. As I said in my main post, it's not a mystical force. If you act like a douche, people will treat you like a douche, and you'll attract douchey women. Why is that hard to understand? Did you just skim my post looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:22 PM
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No, I'm not. The OP is talking about acting in "morally good" or not morally good ways. Even if it's just a mindset, behaviors follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:20 PM
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Your mentality is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:20 PM
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...Plenty of guys who have high testosterone don't act in that manner. That's just an attempt at justifying poor mentality/behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 06:35 PM
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The obsession a lot of people seem to have (especially when talking about TRP) surrounding sex...about how it's all that matters...questioning whether or not you should be a good person because it doesn't get you sex...that right there is toxic masculinity, which is a cornerstone of rape culture. That's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 06:19 PM
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Did you even read my post? Rape culture is not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 06:12 PM
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When people are asking this kind of question, whether or not they should bother being a "good" person because they get more sex when they aren't....it's a good indicator of what living in a rape culture looks like. No, rape culture does not mean that people excuse rape or that rape is acceptable. Its cornerstones are victim blaming and toxic masculinity. When people start valuing getting sex above being a good person, you know there is a problem. To directly answer your question, what kind of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 03:47 PM
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No, the problem is that we live in a society where men feel the need to get casual sex. Yeah yeah, you can point towards cavemen days all you want, but not every society is like this. It comes down to respect. You clearly don't respect women. Not only that, but those who are male and say stuff like I'm saying you assume several things (or just one of them): 1) Beta (not everything in life comes down to terms of alpha and beta...this kind of mindset is what I am talking about) 2) Cuck (not everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:01 AM
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rolls eyes women are responsible because they have to be. they are the ones who get pregnant. they are responsible because they in the end have to make a choice about the life of a child and their bodies. men literally have to make the choice whether or not to stick their dick in someone. with that choice comes the potential consequence that they might have to pay child support. when they stick their dick in someone, they accept the fact that that is a potential outcome, do they not? adult actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 12:51 PM
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A man is the one who impregnates women. Women do not impregnate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 05:11 AM
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It's not a privilsge to be able to decide what happens to one's own body. It's a right over autonomy. The law is there in this case to give women autonomy over their body and then to give the child the best chance at life. It sounds like you want to have your cake and eat it too, as you said above. You want sex with no consequences, but that's not how sex works. The reality is that men and women have different stakes in sex and its outcomes. It has already been explained as to why women are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:59 AM
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Again, you know what the potential outcomes are, you just aren't accepting them. No one is going to give you permission to hump and dump...which, let's be honest, is really what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:52 PM
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You don't consent to being killed, but you accept the risks associated with it. You consent to those risks. You can bury your head in the sand, but you're still paying child support. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 09:41 PM
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1) You know that having sex makes babies. 2) You know that if you have sex with her, there is a chance she could get pregnant 3) You know that if she gets pregnant, she gets to decide what happens with the fetus and that ultimately, you have little say in the matter 4) You know that if she decides to keep it, you will be forced to take responsibility of the child as its father 5) Knowing all this, you still choose to engage in sex. Sounds like consent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 01:27 PM
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Okay well you consent to that if you consent to having sex. Problem solved. Don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:40 AM
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Yes, but not physical risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 01:11 AM
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They are held to the consequences because they're the ones that get pregnant. At that point, it is not about the baby, it is about her right to choose what happens to her body. A male has no say in this because it is not his body and he does not suffer any physical consequences of getting pregnant. If she chooses to keep the baby (since it's her body), now it is about the baby. As such, the father can't opt out because it is about the baby's welfare, not his own. The woman is on the hook. She st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 08:06 PM
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I'm not female. I just use common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 06:01 PM
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Right now you KNOW that if you have sex with someone, and she gets pregnant, you can't opt out. You KNOW this to be the case. That is what all this complaining is about. If you still have sex, knowing this to be true, then you are consenting to the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:04 PM
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A woman can "opt out" as you put it because she has physical risks associated with the pregnancy. The man has none. She creates children, but the man consents to the whole process by having sex to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 04:02 PM
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No. These are not the same thing and I will explain why. If you have sex with someone, you are consenting to your penis being inside them. You are fully aware that this can impregnate them. Knowing the risks, you make a full choice about the situation. You also make this decision KNOWING YOU CAN'T OPT OUT OF IT IF SHE GETS PREGNANT. Her physical well-being comes into question. Her body is physically changing, and depending on her situation, it's possible this might not be a good thing. There are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 03:58 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 02:29 PM
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No I'm not, I'm saying I got sexually assaulted and I didn't care. Who gives a flying fuck? Because everyone isn't you? Tons of people get sexually assaulted and aren't traumatized. Many are. Don't care Again, part of the problem. I'm answering your original question, as to why we should care this much...because there are people who are dismissive and don't care. A lot more than you think there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:04 PM
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Because it's more about the fact that a lot of people (like you) are often dismissive of the things that do happen to women. This can be seen by...instead of saying things like, wow that's terrible it has happened to so many women...you say things like why do we care so much. Instead of saying wow 1 in 5 women are victims of sexual assault? how awful...you say What about the men? Those stats are inflated anyway. What would you say if I told you that your response and attitude to the MeToo moveme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 04:27 PM
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Okay but she still could have a type. She could still look for a type of appearance. I doubt she hooks up with everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 06:04 PM
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So you don't look for anything? You just do whatever with whoever, regardless of their looks or personality? Interesting concept
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 02:24 PM
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The thing about this whole "league" argument is that it is very limiting and if I am being honest, a bit misleading when it comes to attraction. Sure, if you only care about looks, and you typically go after men/women who only care about looks, then it matters. However, a lot of people tend to go for substance. This might sound like a cliché, but think about it critically for a second. I have met several woman who are out of my league (or who I perceived to be out of my league) who were interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 03:20 PM
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He sounds like a shitty dude/a TRPer. Shitty dudes go for shitty women. If you are a shallow dude, you will get a shallow girl. Pretty simple really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 02:20 AM
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Sex and money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:27 PM
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This is why people are opposed to TRP. You actually believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:04 PM
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It's not a meta-debate. These are the same talking points that people in TRP have parroted for years. You need a change in values.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 05:04 PM
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Lol! Everything comes down to survival and reproduction? Maybe in the caveman days, where it actually was about survival and reproduction. Has to do with empathy, I think. Most of TRP has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:12 PM
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It's not about semantics. You're speaking generalities but those generalities are based on a specific subtype of men/women. That's the problem. Most TRP talk about very shallow women, which do exist, but to consider their behavior to be the norm is short-sighted. The game you are talking about is only in your head. Join us in the real world, where these generalities are shrouded in clichés and stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:11 PM
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Sure, I like it...but there's more to life. It isn't just about finding someone who "puts out" dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:23 PM
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typo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:23 PM
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Maybe it's all she had that was clean in the laundry for that day? Is that not a possibility? Has that never happened ever to anyone in the existence of the universe? It's an alternative. The fact so many TRPer's will say it's bullshit shows that they really do think about the world in a narrow-minded, non-neutral way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:07 PM
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Except not all men are like that. I'm a man, and I'm not like that. You might like your stomach full and your balls empty, but a woman wants more than that. Maybe you should learn to be more complex. You aren't a caveman. Actually, I would say "Gee, what happened there?" If he cared enough about his wife, he would figure out why she isn't "putting out". I can tell the problem is with your PERSONALITY (I know that fact might trigger you) and your mindset about relationships, rather than with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 03:05 PM
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Like what? Suppose it's all she had left in her laundry that was clean that day? There's one possibility for you, but many people in TRP will call bullshit on this...meaning that even though there ARE alternative possible explanations for certain behaviors, they won't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:58 PM
5

Except I have plenty of my own evidence that indicates NAWALT. Aren't people from TRP big on personal responsibility? Women don't like how men act a certain way. If men keep acting like that, they will keep getting the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:57 PM
8

How can a man experience AWALT? Anecdotal evidence is not AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:48 PM
1

Neutral? Not so much. They have a very focused, narrow-minded outlook. How is that neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:44 PM
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There can be many reasons why someone would wear a low cut top. What you consider to be "denial" is really just the fact that not all things are as they seem (edit:...or, if you prefer...not all things HAVE to be a certain way). Not all women are after a man's resources. Not all men are just after sex. Etc, etc etc. The problem with TRP is that everything is in black and white, when in fact life is full of grey and nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:17 PM
2

Maybe that's just how you interpret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:23 PM
5

Pretty much anything someone from TRP posts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:59 PM
1

Right...but since you feel your opinions and beliefs are so valid, can you be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:36 PM
1

The basis. Doesn't mean that's all there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:36 PM
2

Jesus dude...is this really how you view relationships and male/female interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:32 PM
0

Except the flaw here, as is in a lot of TRP posts, is that all males care about is sex. Suppose he wants a meaningful relationship with someone he cares about? Or are we pretending that males don't have emotions? (could be accurate given messages on TRP)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:29 PM
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Do people in TRP believe they can do wrong? A lot of answers here that just seem disrespectful. I guess they don't respect anyone unless they can get sex? Even then, doubt they respect them. That's what I've gotten from most of these answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:10 PM
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Lol...SJW...okay guy. Maybe you should get off the internet and go out into the real world and actually talk with people. Uh, yes, showing your dick to a random woman in public does perpetuate rape culture. Why? Because it deals with consent. Rape and flashing someone deal with consent, and make people feel unsafe. If a man is willing to come up to you in broad daylight and ejaculate on you, for example (which IS actually sexual assault, by the way)...what else would he be willing to do? I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:56 PM
1

I guess the opinion of one man trumps the collective voice and opinion of millions and millions of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:25 AM
1

Except rape culture is a lot more than just "women get naked"...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:46 AM
1

Your assessment doesn't sound very objective to me. Lots of opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 04:37 PM
2

No, men are not realistic with their expectations. Some are, some aren't. The men who are angry they can't find any women eventually just wallow in their insecurities and often they are not realistic about the world or their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:21 PM
1

The terms alpha and beta are pretty ridiculous regardless. There are shades of both in each. People act differently in different situations. No one is all alpha or all beta. People act at different levels of alpha and different levels of beta throughout the day. Therefore the concepts of "alpha" and "beta" are pretty stupid imo and really only serve people on the internet by allowing them to make sweeping generalizations about human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:12 PM
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Uh, no. Try and take a step back and objectively look at the way men treat women in society. As they grow up. Take a look at the way young boys act towards young women. Take a look at the way young adult males act towards women. Try and not include any of your own personal feelings in it. It's pretty shocking the way women are used and objectified in our society. And yes, obviously men are too but there are differently levels of usage. I doubt anyone would deny that women have been systematicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:09 PM
1

Because that's what people in the TRP do about relationships. They make assumptions about everything...her motives (she just wants money, etc)...his motives (he just wants sex, etc)...how ALL women behave (they just want to bang chads and after they are done with their "prime" years they just wait for a "Betabux"). It's hilarious how black and white the world is to some people. They even come up with their own terms like chad and betabux. It's such a limiting thing. It's also kind of sad - like …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:05 PM
1

True that my man, but I am referring to his original comment about how rape culture is a thing. This is just another piece of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:07 AM
0

Okay but plenty of people get accused of rape, not just men who have money and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 03:01 AM
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Rape culture exists. It isn't just about rape. It's about aggressive sexuality in general. Take a look at how sexual our culture is and how common it is for people to use other people in that manner. The great majority of women have at least a handful of sketchy stories and while I don't think people think this is okay...most people don't say anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:36 AM
1

Why is it all or nothing? A woman can laugh at a man she is attracted to because she finds him genuinely funny. A woman can laugh at a man she is attracted to, but only laughs because he is attractive. A woman can laugh at a man she is not attracted to, and by making her laugh she finds him to be more attractive. A woman can laugh at a man she is not attracted to, but is still not attracted to him. The problem with generalizations is that they are generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 04:36 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:45 AM
1

Because you're deeply invested in the blue pill narrative that seeks to justify the relegation of men to second-class citizenship? Because professional victimhood is easier than working hard for a tough soul? I don't know. Why do you Ah yes, "blue pill". You spend way too much time online. There are no pills. You don't have to think you're a victim or an oppressor to acknowledge what is going on in society. Basically anywhere you go, most people behave like... people. They keep to themselves, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 02:00 AM
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It's a shit opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 01:58 AM
1

It's not a strawman, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 01:40 PM
1

It's not the boogyman. It's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 01:40 PM
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It's a legitimate question. You are talking about what makes a man a man and what men "should" be doing and I'm asking why. Or in other words, what the fuck do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 12:50 PM
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Many guys and the majority of women saying it's a problem, but yeah you think it's horseshit. Why am I not surprised? And yes, it's the majority of women saying it. They don't all describe it the same, but you don't have to be a feminist to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 12:49 PM
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Then what the fuck do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 12:43 AM
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Except "there" is basically everywhere. This is sort of what people are talking about when they talk about "rape culture". It's the idea that basically anywhere you go, men behave like animals. Few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 12:43 AM
1

Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:19 PM
1

Are we all males?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:19 PM
2

Lol. So I guess testosterone level relates to the amount of empathy one has? Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:18 PM
5

No. They try and teach men to act like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:16 PM
3

Lol, conforming to gender stereotypes. If men should be working in these places, maybe you should get off of reddit and go to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:15 PM
5

Except I'm male and I am pretty tired of the "locker room talk". It's not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:14 PM
5

Do you think there could be a reason men are mostly targeted? Perhaps that's because it's mostly them who perpetrate? Take a look at sex crimes by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 04:14 PM
1

I've had the shit kicked out of me a number of times and no one particularly cared because I'm a guy and guys just have to deal with it. Is that what you mean about being treated differently? Nope. I'm talking about stuff like random people offering to help you change a tire if you are female because they assume you don't know how to. It's called benevolent sexism. This is just one example. I get belittled every day, too. But because I'm an adult, I can let it slide off me. Grow up. Most women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:50 PM
1

Privileged in some ways, sure. Hillary Clinton won't be treated like a black man. I'm not ignoring it. You're just looking at it the wrong way. You have been socialized differently and are treated differently than women, although you have the same rights. This puts you in the position where you are able to "not become a meek little child" far easier than most women can. Women get belittled every day, even if it's just in subtle ways. These things matter, and to just ignore them is intellectually…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:24 PM
1

Not a platitude. Males are privileged. It's pretty much a fact at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:15 PM
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Those with privilege fail to see it. That's the nature of privilege. Maybe one day you'll see it, but only if you try to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:05 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 01:30 PM
2

Right...except you don't live in a world where you are the gender that is often weaker/more often oppressed by the other gender
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 04:35 AM
2

Anecdotal evidence with no consideration of the thousands of stories you can find that go against what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 01:03 AM
1

I care much, much more about the effects of women's sexual predilections on men than I care about men's sexual predilections on women This is bias. It is likely clouding your judgment when it comes to relationships and how women relate to men. Women's sexual predilections have much worse, more damaging, and more pervasive effects on men and society than men's sexual predilections have on women and society This statement is not fact. It is your belief that is only based on your opinion and belief…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 02:27 PM
2

Life is all about money when you have nothing else. That is a typical response from people who believe life is all about money/sex. Companionship is a resource in the same sense that a man's money is a resource. It is something that people want from others. And yes, you do work for 30 years to develop a "companionship account". That's what a relationship is. I can see now that my hypothesis was correct. You believe life is all about money and have become jaded based on experiences. Perhaps these…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 02:25 PM
1

I am just saying that perhaps your problems are coloring your judgment and your opinions. It's something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 02:21 PM
1

Have you ever had someone threaten/yell at you for rejecting their advances? Have you ever had someone follow you after you rejected them? Ever had a random guy beat off while looking at you on a subway? Ever have someone spam your phone looking for your attention after you constantly told them no? Basically ever woman has at least one terrible story. Funny how very few guys have one. Eventually you just stop trying to tell people no because you don't want them to hurt you. And yet people say ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 02:00 PM
1

That's the point. A lot of situations contain gray areas. Consent awareness shines a light on those areas. You can't list every single way because there are a ton of them, and it doesn't have to look like "brutal rape" to be against her wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:58 PM
1

Life is about more than money and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:50 PM
2

Er, don't men do this too? If you consider finding a mate to be a type of resource (which it is...companionship...rearing children...etc), then men only want women for their resources! There is more to life than sex and money. That is your problem. You fail to see that. In fact, I'd go as far to say that's the problem of the majority of people who follow TRP/MGTOW/post on /r/Incels. You need to realize not everyone walks around only thinking about money and sex. Obsession of these things does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:47 PM
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The reason people say that is because when she is emotionally attached to someone, that emotional attachment is enough to keep her loyal...most of the time...depending on the relationship. Why did you make this a gendered question though? Guys cheat too, and I would assume that a similar argument could be made for a guy who has lots of casual sex when he is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:41 PM
1

And you don't think that is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 01:37 PM
1

I have empathy for men. What are you even talking about? This conversation isn't about men, so obviously my empathy will not come out. It's pretty telling that you keep calling my empathy phony, yet you know nothing about me. What makes you think I wouldn't care if you live or die again? Faulty assumption. You base it on whatever assumptions of me you have. It isn't about treating women like children. That is just an excuse to refuse to acknowledge the behavior. It's about acknowledging that the…
/r/MensRights16/10/17 05:35 AM
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Because you still have advantages in those situations over a woman. Men, in general, are larger and stronger than women. They also are more aggressive than woman, and as a result someone is less likely to see you as vulnerable/approach you/do something to you because they know you will do something about it. Like I said, maybe your wife doesn't have any stories, but when the collective majority of women DO have stories of creeps doing creepy things because males, there is a problem. Why are you …
/r/MensRights15/10/17 05:34 PM
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Yeaaah it's called empathy. Also, women don't "feel creepy". They get harassed and creeped on. If it happened to you it would be very unsettling...having someone follow you around, not leave you alone, not take no for an answer. It doesn't, because you're a male. It's not a pity party. This is just what happens. It's a fact.
/r/MensRights15/10/17 12:15 AM
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Not sure why you are unable to see that there is a difference. Yes, men face unfairness sometimes, but women are harassed and belittled on a daily basis. Even if it's just a subtle offhanded comment at their job related to their gender. Ask women about it. Talk to them. Yeah, obviously if you go on the internet you will find the occasional woman who doesn't feel this way but when the good majority do, there is clearly a problem...why does men having problems deny this fact?
/r/MensRights15/10/17 12:05 AM
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Maybe you shouldn't make it seem like you defend shitty behavior dude. Lol, obviously men face it too...but women face it more frequently and it's more sexualized.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 11:40 PM
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You think that was thick and heavy? Maybe you're a sociopath man. That wasn't heavy at all lol. Guess that's fair, you don't have to think there's a problem, but when basically every female has multiple stories of a creepy dude doing something creepy, maybe there's a problem. You'll never want to see it though.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 04:14 PM
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Lol. There is a difference between having sexual thoughts and trying to engage in that behavior without the consent of another person. Why are you trying to justify abhorrent behavior? And yes, people DO follow women around and sexually harass them. Quite often, in fact.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 11:16 AM
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What you consider "annoyance" most people consider being treated less than human. Ever had someone follow you on the street and then ejaculate on you simply because they can and because of your gender? Ah yes, such an "annoyance".
/r/MensRights14/10/17 06:29 AM
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I mean, sure, it cuts down on it, but doesn't eliminate it. So in a sense, yes, no matter what they are do they are helpless to stop the harassment apart from not going outside ever.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 02:32 AM
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Lol what a lot of these guys don't get is that even women who dress modestly get hassled.
/r/MensRights13/10/17 02:18 PM
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You are posting this out of context. She is referring to how people often say things like, "As someone with a daughter...I find this abhorrent!" When people could have just as easily left the daughter part out. You don't have to have a daughter to think his behavior was shit.
/r/MensRights13/10/17 02:15 PM
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