aFida95 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Women Responding in Bunches Same shit with jobs, sales and business. Real skill is knowing how to ride the downturns	/r/seduction	13/07/26 07:37 AM
3	100% serious: should I give up? You’ve figured out the approaching part which most men who start never do, usually the hardest part of game. Now learn how to run dates by leading teasing, qualifying and going for the close	/r/seduction	27/05/26 04:18 AM
3	Went to a fitness event what would you say instead?	/r/seduction	12/05/26 10:59 PM
2	has anyone figured out how to reduce flakes during daygame ? 10 percent conversion is considered good. Most women are not in the market for new dick	/r/seduction	06/05/26 12:35 AM
1	The casual sex marketplace Think lots of hooking up has shifted online now. Girl needs to see you’re high smv on old/ insta before agreeing to come out	/r/seduction	30/04/26 04:41 AM
17	What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove? Definitely a universe energy when it pours it rains type of thing. Also ahppens with job offers, sales etc	/r/seduction	15/03/26 05:56 AM
16	I hate him, but am I wrong for wanting some of the kind of attention that Clavicular is getting? Most of these women are OF hoes looking to promote themselves and make a dime out of his clout	/r/seduction	15/03/26 04:05 AM
15	Keep getting rejected at the club by her friend Which is also why picking up girls in the club is a pain in the ass. Finding a girl attracted to you is only like 25%of the battle, logistics and her friends are 75% Girls get crazy jeslous when their friend is getting attention and will ruin sets. Solution is to go for the group leader so her friends wouldn’t want to piss her off Much rather prefer daygame/OLD where I can find a girl by herself willing to engage.	/r/seduction	09/03/26 02:55 PM
8	How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women? There’s a huge amount of make up, fillers and lighting trickery that goes on to look good on social media. Big chuck of them end up looking pretty meh irl.	/r/seduction	01/02/26 05:41 AM
7	The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributes There’s more millionaires than guys with 6 packs abs. Take that as you will	/r/seduction	28/12/25 05:14 AM
1	The dark side of this game Yeah man definitely at an all time low life wise. Lost my job sometimes ago and started a business. Still building it up so finances are a mess. Also been dealing with hairfall issues which never affected me before but suddenly I’m too insecure about it. It is what it is. I know the come up is going to be the best time of my life, got to keeep grinding.	/r/seduction	08/12/25 01:07 AM
5	The dark side of this game Going through this right now, talk and attractive. Have had hot girls chasing me but seems am in a big slump recently where even the mid ones are curving me lol	/r/seduction	08/12/25 12:52 AM
1	I'm devastated and hopeless Listen man I know it hurts and I’ve also sometimes compared my sex life with women’s However it’s not the same. It’s comparing apples to bowling balls. An above average women at the club would be able to pull faster than drake is she really wanted to. Female game is who they can get to put a ring on their finger. No women goes on forums like these to learn how to fuck men.	/r/seduction	05/12/25 01:04 AM
1	I'm devastated and hopeless Yeah man your energy is probably coming across as depressed. Women go out to clubs to have fun. I would suggest you put a break on going to clubs and join an activity where you can platonically interact with attractive women. This will bring back your confidence little by little. Taking rejections after rejections at the club will just make you feel worse.	/r/seduction	05/12/25 12:55 AM
1	I'm devastated and hopeless If a girls is constantly bumping into you mean a she finds you attractive, must be your vibe/how you open that’s messing it up	/r/seduction	05/12/25 12:49 AM
4	Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date? Yes a girl will forgive you for being too bold but never for not being bold enough.	/r/seduction	04/11/25 08:34 PM
6	Women like being approached a lot more than you think This is good if you’re a beginner and looking to get comfortable talking to attractive women. Otherwise, there’s no point spending 30 mins with a girl who has bf/ is not into you. Can’t remember the amount of long pleasant conversations I’ve had with women that went no where. I’m a busy person and i don’t run a feel good service, I’m looking for women who are open to dating me. Women will take up all your attention and social energy out of politeness. Thats why you got to push the interaction fo…	/r/seduction	26/10/25 10:22 PM
3	Pulled hot college Latina girl 5 dates of 97 approaches is not bad for a starter, usually you won’t pull more than 10% off cold approach. Learn how to lead dates better and keep approaching. It will start clicking	/r/seduction	26/10/25 03:46 AM
2	You Are Simply Not Doing Enough Volume. And as you get in more reps, you’ll keep getting better if you’re even a bit self aware	/r/seduction	22/10/25 12:01 AM
1	Starting to lose hope. I agree. If you’re starting out, focus on a couple of channels till you perfect it and then move to different channels. The channels you pick will depend on your strengths.	/r/seduction	14/10/25 10:21 PM
0	Girl ghosted me after our first date, now she’s back — how should I handle it? Invite her over to your place, if she still hesitates then you drop her. Women are moody, flakey and emotional. Don’t take it to heart.	/r/seduction	08/10/25 01:13 AM
2	PUA vs Chad. who wins? While chads do have it easy I feel the king68 ones do seem staged idk	/r/seduction	07/10/25 01:16 AM
1	Can’t seem to get Cold Approach down… but doing really well online That’s impressive results online. Can I ask you what you profile looks like? As it comes to cold approach, you’ll have to improve your volume or only go for women who are giving choosing signals.	/r/seduction	07/10/25 12:32 AM
9	Having close proximity with women is more important than any other factors Things with social circle game is that it highly limits your options especially after you’re out of school. It’s a great strategy if all you want is an attractive LTR. Unless you work in a field like nightlife with a high amount of rotating attractive women, you’re better off improving your looks and learning old/ cold approach. Also from my experience, the average dude from grad school didn’t really get anywhere with hot women, they were the classic orbiters while the women were getting blown o…	/r/seduction	05/10/25 10:22 PM
18	Is it common for you to get laid when you are least focused on it? It’s an interesting dichotomy where you want to put in effort but in a detached way. Like yes you wanna go the gym, dress nice and approach women but in a let’s see what happens way, not the desperate I need to get laid now way.	/r/seduction	01/10/25 11:20 PM
2	This is Without a Doubt the Best Way to Attract Women Yeah social circle maybe a good way to find a wife but it’s really limiting if all you want it to date many attractive women. Also there’s no guarantee that the girl you met through social circle is also not meeting people on Apps/ bars. Your usual rules for having game also apply, there’s lots of betas who are friendzoned in any given group cuz they’re not attractive. Lots of women also prefer dating outside their close circles so as to not make it awkward if things go south.	/r/seduction	29/09/25 02:41 AM
6	The most successful guy you ever saw Oh I 100% agree, rather be a stoic than an emotional pussy. They’re also going through a lot of internal turmoil which hurts no matter how much pussy you get. Women also don’t respect you, you’re just a dildo to discard when things start getting too real.	/r/seduction	19/09/25 09:55 PM
15	The most successful guy you ever saw I know seddit likes to talk about stoic alphas but usually I’ve seen that the emotional guys do pull. The drama reels them in and they’re more relatable to women.	/r/seduction	19/09/25 08:27 PM
2	Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested in His photos suck/ some people aren’t photogenic and need to work hard finding their angles/lightinj.	/r/seduction	19/09/25 07:41 PM
1	Are there many examples of looks taking a backseat? These days, this social circle/ proximity game can work but it wouldn’t be enough. Women these days can go on dating apps to find exactly the guy they’re looking for.	/r/seduction	07/08/25 11:38 PM
2	Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women? They’re definitely extreme outliers out there who have IT and can pull hot girls. However if you’re here reading this, you don’t have it and a better use of your time would be to improve your looks. That level of personality you’re just born with. Other than that, most average guys who are players sleep with average/ above avg women. Nothing wrong with that either.	/r/seduction	07/08/25 04:26 AM
23	My Asian Parents Indians mom are Redpilled AF haha.. Mine always told me to focus on myself, keep safe from hoes and their manipulation and to find myself a nice girl from the community. I used to find her rants stupid and over bearing but now that I've grown up, I've come to see the wisdom in her words	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/20 05:36 PM
15	My experience with Online Dating Apps and why you should delete them all now Adding to your point on attractive women with no friends/social life, be really careful with them If she's not new too the town, the reason she's friendless is because she is toxic and creates drama... Avoid like a plague or she'll try to ruin your life too	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/20 03:49 PM
4	I highly recommend getting some platonic female friends. Yeah OP's advice works if you're not on the highest levels of SMV... Sometimes she doesn't even find you attractive but wants you to find her attractive to placate their egos and when you don't reciprocate, they resort to character assassination and cockblocking in your social circle turning betas and other women against you Adding on to that, you can not rely on your female friends as much as your male friends, they're flaky when making plans, disappear when in a relationship and are always loo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/20 04:14 AM
1	How often do you actually get sexually harassed or catcalled? Don't listen to her... Women love being complimented by an attractive, calibrated guy out in public Also what looks good to her friends? Met him on Tinder or met him at the grocery store	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/20 03:02 AM
2	If you're a straight guy that gets hit on by gay guys is that what it feels like to be a girl? Male sexuality is fluid too. You know how many of those tough guys start sucking dick once they are in prison or the army	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/20 02:05 AM
1	Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities) Many lol So many ethnic, mixed women who want nothing with white guys and see them as dorky Point of the post is to focus on who likes you	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/20 03:56 AM
137	I Have Other People For That Incels hate women because they don't know women Betas love women because they see them as this mystical creatures Players look down on women because they've seen everything behind the curtain	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/20 02:45 AM
3	What a whole year of TRP does to you – how I slept with my first MILF I've got buddies who are 5's and fuck 4's and when they do they think they are George Clooney. Probably 70% of the manosphere. Nothing wrong with it though, a man's got to eat	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/20 04:05 PM
6	Using feminine strategies to create Feelz Same story here. I used to go all gay manipulative on women and it would actually work as OP describes but in the end all it brought was bad energy for my soul. Now my game is highly sexual,extreme eye contact, in or out and my life is way better	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/20 05:18 AM
5	Every Bitch is a Movie Star Incels will come up with Reliogionmaxx now	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/20 06:42 PM
13	Every Bitch is a Movie Star Better to be the guy besides her than the guy on the screen. You're smashing and that's all that matters	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/20 06:40 PM
1	How did you get majority of your lays? I already did man... Now i understand why these scum don't get laid and it's not just their looks	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 12:17 PM
6	How did you get majority of your lays? Not true! Pictures matter a lot, so does being photogenic and knowing your angles. I am both tall and attractive and get Jackshit	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 01:25 AM
3	How did you get majority of your lays? It's great to hear someone is doing well on Tinder. What are your tips for tinder and what do you look like? In real life i clean up, women approaching me and all the nines. However i am getting no matches on Tinder	/r/askTRP	30/07/20 11:09 PM
1	How do I keep myself from becoming bitter? It's also how you carry yourself. I've had taller bitches say i look taller than i am because i have big dick energy	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 02:55 PM
1	Possessiveness is attractive and is needed for a long term relationship? OP wants Alpha male to grab him by him by the balls	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/20 02:44 PM
9	Possessiveness is attractive and is needed for a long term relationship? You have to consider a lot women are clueless and are looking for your guidance on how to behave	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/20 02:41 PM
3	How do I keep myself from becoming bitter? I'm 5'11 i say six, never had a bitch question it	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 02:29 PM
2	Why do plates friends (never met them) dislike me and try to interfere and influence plate. OP, that's why you have to do something slightly romantic for her to hook on. Get her some ice cream, take a walk in the park, go to the beach...etc and her friends will hamster that you're actually a good guy	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 02:20 PM
3	Why are bisexual women much pickier with men than with women? or just made out once with a girl at a party to get attention and now they think they're bi.	/r/askTRP	29/07/20 02:15 PM
2	Does this seem credible “[W]omen with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce” in Wikipedia entry for “Female Promiscuity” also Bald gives you quite few dominance points and many chicks dig that	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/20 11:19 PM
2	Should you ever call out a girl for game playing? Bro i understand where you're coming from, she takes 3 weeks to reply so your ego is bruised and you want to take longer. However most of the time this happens,she is not actively ignoring you. She has a lot on her plate and doesn't want to play pen pals. However when she's horny she'll hit up a few guys and get with the first one to answer. Think of it as sales. Would you not take a clients money because he took 3 weeks to reply to your mails?	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 07:52 PM
2	Why Are So Many Men Unaware of the Female Reality? Goodlookingloser calls it sense of entitlement,google it and read it. I know rich good looking guys who couldn't get women because they thought they didn't deserve them while broke losers run harems because they had what you call "personal worth"	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 07:39 PM
3	what are some peacocking things that wont make you look like an 80s rock star Ivy league style Unless you look like a model, this is going to put you deep into boyfriend category who's mom dresses him. For quick sex, you need an edgy style	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 02:57 AM
18	Why do girls after there heartbroken destroy themselves Why do guys take TheRedpill,learn game and become players when they find out their innocent virgin oneitis fucked a dude in the club bathroom?	/r/askTRP	28/07/20 02:42 AM
3	Brutally Effective Strategy For Dealing With Guys Who Try To Steal Your Girl Yeah man, It gives you some empathy for women. Most of them are hormonal and emotional messes who are just finding their place in the world	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/20 01:11 PM
1	Brutally Effective Strategy For Dealing With Guys Who Try To Steal Your Girl It was the same for me including all the female staff literally harassing you, although i used to be at the bar. Made me realize i actually like the chase lol	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/20 11:48 PM
3	Alpha Male Habits: The Art of Embellishment Another reason not to worrying about lying is women lie all the fucking time, for the tiniest of things. Once you train your brain to look for it, you'll see inconsistencies in their stories everywhere	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/20 04:31 PM
2	Does being RedPill attracts deceiving people? The wall isn't when you reach the 30's for all women. Many of them smarten up by their mid 20's and start looking for Alpha fucks to settle down with I guess maybe she did a cold read like the other guy said Yeah women are masters at this, that's how they survive. This shit happens to me too, I've had women telling me about threesomes and shit one day and literally flip the script the next day saying they don't go to bars because they're not hoes(her exact words). Saying all that, women are emot…	/r/askTRP	26/07/20 06:58 AM
3	Brutally Effective Strategy For Dealing With Guys Who Try To Steal Your Girl Better yet get a job at a Bar or club...preferably front of house. Redpill training like investment training from Warren Buffet	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/20 07:31 PM
0	Does being RedPill attracts deceiving people? Other than being a hooker, yeah.. But at least she's smarter than the hoes giving it away raw for free so who knows	/r/askTRP	25/07/20 07:12 PM
6	Why are girls so bad at replying? Is it me? Yeah Women are flaky and emotional, you can be a tall handsome millionaire and she'll still flake on you to watch The Office the 10th time.	/r/askTRP	25/07/20 07:06 PM
4	Why are girls so bad at replying? Is it me? Getting new leads is always more effective than trying to rekindle unresponsive ones. With that said, just shooting a message every 2 weeks does not hurt... She may not be "fuck yes" now but can be down the line	/r/askTRP	25/07/20 07:04 PM
0	At what age does it start to become harder to fuck younger women? Dude i'm not going to argue with you. Yeah they fuck Chad but they also fuck the older bartender or banker or businessman	/r/askTRP	25/07/20 05:16 AM
1	At what age does it start to become harder to fuck younger women? Well if you live in bum fuck nowhere, yeah its a problem. However an urban campus in a big city, the girl is getting around. Also you wouldn't know when they get with older guys as they keep it under a secret. Keep in mind older, i mean mid twenties to early thirties	/r/askTRP	25/07/20 12:11 AM
2	Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably Making It depends on what your strengths are. If you are photogenic and craft an interesting profile, you'll do better online as you have demonstrated SMV. If like me you're goodlooking and have a sexual presence but not photogenic, real life is going to give you better results.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/20 12:02 AM
3	Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is Hot Chad here and this only works for women who are way low SMV then you. If you think an HB8 and up will keep waiting for you to make a move while she has a line of hot rich guys hitting on her, you're out of your mind	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/20 11:33 PM
6	Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is Hot Don't fret it you live and learn man, every dog has it's day. One thing i noticed about these naturals who have high body counts when young start slowing down in the mid to late twenties. Been there done that type of situation I've had one such player tell me that he is tired of sex and he'd rather go on a romantic date lol, saying that even in casual sex he gives more than he gets.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/20 11:29 PM
3	Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is Hot Reading choosing signals is 50% of the game. Many people when starting out are clueless but once you train your brain, you can notice all the women sending sexual energy towards you.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/20 11:22 PM
6	Women Will Only Be Attracted For A Brief Window: Strike While The Iron Is Hot True!! Rules are for Betas... Unless you're SMV is really low, not giving a fuck about social conventions while also being somewhat calibrated is a big DHV. Unless it's work, hit on women wherever you want. I've had so many times that a woman politely rejected me first but then came around after running into me a few times. This doesn't mean to be a sperg and hit on the chick while she is squatting 200 lbs with her headphones on or aggressively escalate on a girl you're talking to in a church	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/20 11:15 PM
2	At what age does it start to become harder to fuck younger women? I own my baldness, definitely. I've been bald or balding for the past 25 years I thought you were recently balding and hence my advice haha. My point still stands though, you have to develop an edge. I'm balding myself too and am already mentally preparing for the worst But yeah man i might be considered a chad right now but i can't count the number of times I've lost women to literal ogres at bars because i couldn't make a move	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 10:16 PM
2	At what age does it start to become harder to fuck younger women? I'm not saying that balding doesn't affect SMV but i think you should do a whole makeover to overcome this setback. There are actually women out there who like bald guys or overlook it if everything is right You won't be able to pull off pretty boy game, but you can now pull off bad boy game. Get seriously jacked, pierce your years, get tattoos and grow a beard. If you can't grow a beard, get some minoxidil and apply it to your face and you'll see results within a year. Your style game should al…	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 09:52 PM
1	At what age does it start to become harder to fuck younger women? Bullshit! Young women have been fucking older guys since time immemorial. High school girls sleep with college guys, college girls sleep with more established guys as women mature more quickly than their male counterparts Those women go out to bars, have a part time job and are on dating apps where you can interact with them. If you have your shit together, it's literally shooting fish in a barrel.You have to realize most college guys do not have any game even if they look good. The only advanta…	/r/askTRP	24/07/20 09:40 PM
5	Why are women so degenerate on online dating apps? She could have said that to make herself seem more desirable. Or, it could've been a test to see how you would react to hearing that, which could go several ways. This is True. Girls see OP as a guy who fucks and want to impress him by seeming Open minded™	/r/askTRP	04/07/20 02:09 AM
2	High interest women and pursuing them differently This is the right answer... Be straight forward and ask her out but don't also turn into a simp available 24*7 or she'll loose all attraction	/r/askTRP	30/06/20 08:30 PM
1	I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tell Yeah man i feel you on this,I live in Toronto and it's bitch central. This is one of the downsides of being high SMV, you don't get just the highs, you have to deal with the lows too. Generally i'd say if a women is being a bitch to you without any reason, she's at least somewhat attracted. Otherwise you'd be invisible to her Now if you're talking about models, you gotta understand that they have been jaded by nice guys, sociopaths trying to manipulate them to get in their pants and other women …	/r/askTRP	30/06/20 07:40 PM