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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	There is a loneliness epidemic, yet people keep "problematizing" even perfectly consensual relathionsips Your perception is so mechanical, it’s like you’re trying to find meaning in the noise of different voices saying what’s right and what’s wrong, without actually thinking critically about the meaning behind it. And because of that, you don’t know what’s appropriate, so you tense up and repress yourself. You need to actually comprehend what’s being said, not take things so literally. Yes, those billboards are generalizing men to a significant degree, and that’s because they have to somehow encaps…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 09:47 PM
5	Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they them You perfectly summarized my beliefs haha Another way to put it is that many people’s sense of love is clouded by a crippling, overwhelming fear of failure, because a significant amount of people haven’t actually tried to pursue what they want, or they’ve never fallen flat on their face, or they didn’t fall hard enough If you’ve had REAL life experience, with relationships or friendships or whatever you’re pursuing, you should be able to talk to someone without being afraid of fumbling, and witho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 03:54 AM
1	The Philippines Is A Potentially Viable Solution For Loveless Men To Find A Relationship. I never made that generalization, I said two things: - when you’re abroad, the dollar goes farther - OP’s ideal woman would be “impoverished enough to exploit”, in the immigration system or otherwise I grew up in Asia and LATAM, and I’ve seen every form of prostitution. I trust my own sense of what’s ethical and what’s not	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 12:49 AM
4	The Philippines Is A Potentially Viable Solution For Loveless Men To Find A Relationship. This is absolutely grotesque, as a matter of principle and as an actionable plan. In addition, English is widely spoken in The Philippines, Christianity is prevalent, and their country has some of the most active social media users in the world. ... Certain countries have VISA restrictions for Filipino citizens, and in order for Philippine citizens to travel to VISA restricted countries You want a woman who is impoverished enough to exploit and culturally-compatible enough to understand what you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 09:06 AM
1	What Do You Expect From Your Bf/Gf them: enticing (I love a healthy sense of pursuit) creative/sophisticated but realistic affectionate able to cook, accepts my dietary issues reflects well on me self-sufficient I’m silly and self deprecating (to a healthy extent, but more than most people), and I need a lot of trust in them to put myself on the line like that I’m flexible about some of my expectations, but it ought to be worth it in some other regard. me: I hold myself to a high standard of what I provide, of what I want to buil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 12:57 AM

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