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aRtistic_kindling/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 01:00 PM
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Why anyone downvotes these comments is baffling. WTF is going on here? All these cnuts have gone soft.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 10:36 AM
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It’s hard not to get excited when you start to see results, and you want to share your winnings with other people, I get it. That said, the power of STFU cannot be underestimated. You don’t need other people to tell you you’re doing a great job if you know you are….. unless you do need other people to validate you? Either way, sounds like you’re on the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 11:41 AM
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You didn’t mention how long you were together before you got married but troubles with connection after the first year, in couples counselling after 3? She was telling you back then, through her actions, that you weren’t her first choice. Get yourself organised and leave when you’re ready. She had an affair, she’s told you everything you need to know THROUGH HER ACTIONS. So you fucked up? Doesn’t matter any more, if you’ve been here long enough you know the play, STFU, lift, read. It works.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 11:13 AM
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Ok then. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 11:35 AM
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Put yourself in motion, act, do something, do ANYTHING. If you don’t have something you love to do you’d better bloody find something. Don’t make excuses for not acting by hiding behind weird pseudo-philosophy. Less time writing nonsense, more time lifting and doing what you love. Action above everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/23 11:15 PM
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Why can’t YOU choose to have a good time? What do you enjoy? Fishing with your best friend? Having a beer at the golf range? Going out for steak night with your best pals? Finishing a great workout? 3 years ago I made a list of all the things I used to love before I let other things get in the way. Now I have weekly non-negotiable activities that are for me. If this fucking elephant of yours says you can’t do those things you do them anyway. Unless I misunderstood? Like you said, don’t take thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/23 11:29 AM
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Glad to see you’re still here. Noticed you’re the only one not puking your ‘guilty’ feelings all over your wife in order to feel better about yourself. There is nothing to feel guilty about, your frigid wife’s not fucking you so you fuck other women, nothing more. Having an affair then disclosing every last detail to your wife because she found out is blue-pilled. Fucking other women because your wife won’t, but not rubbing her nose in it mean’s you’re ready. I wouldn’t be poking away on the sid…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/23 03:36 AM
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#2. Going to try using this as my mental notepad. WORK & STUDIES I kid myself, I’ve done this for years. I started my second undergrad a couple of years ago, to retrain as a technology teacher. Thing is, I don’t want to be a technology teacher any more, at least not full time. When I started the degree I told myself it was for the good of my family and would benefit everyone. I convinced myself it’s what I wanted and, perhaps at the time, it was true. Things have changed a great deal since June’…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/22 01:08 AM
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You fell hard for each other, but she needed her papers? I recall Aaron Cleary yelling at the screen about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/22 10:32 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience, really appreciate it. The only thing most seem to assume is that my household is a bad environment for my kids. Hard for me to compare to others but I need to be the judge of my own experience and I think it’s good…NOW. It wasn’t always like this, if I’d read this 18 months ago I would have agreed whole-heartedly, signed the papers and never looked back. My wife treats me well, but doesn’t drain my balls often enough. That’s it. I know that I’ve still got a fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/22 06:43 AM
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Consensus seems to be that wife gets first refusal on my libido. Still getting my head around this one. Leads to abundance mindset I guess. What’s your experience with that?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 11:07 PM
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Yeah it did happen. Doesn’t mean that much though…it’s happened before and always goes back to the status quo, I.e. every few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 09:26 PM
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Joining this community has been a much needed kick in the balls. I thought I was getting ahead, miles ahead until I started talking to a few members and realised I'm at the foot of a cliff. But I like climbing so, fuck it, I'm up for the challenge. Don't intend to wank on about what's going right, just what I want to fix, or un-fuck. I'm too skinny. At 6"1' and 70kg (sorry, Aussie) I'm ripped, but too close to the machinist. After 14 months of gym work I now know I need to take gaining weight mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 01:00 PM
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Appreciate that. I’m still learning, got some serious work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/22 11:50 AM
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Is your point that if I stay I’m a bad example to my kids because I accept a sexless marriage? And that in turn means that I won’t be raising ‘good kids’? Is it that binary that if I stay I’m raising bad kids, and if I leave I’m raising good kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 02:44 AM
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I want to raise good kids 100% of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 09:59 PM
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I wasn’t down playing my wife’s behaviour. Trust me, 18 months ago it was a very, very different story. Replace all my adjectives with the opposite and you’d have a good idea of who she was.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 01:23 AM
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I just want to be with my kids 100% of the time. I don’t understand why that’s using them as a crutch but my ears are open, that’s why I’m here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 01:20 AM
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This is what I came for. Thanks for your to-the-bone honesty. I do need a fucking good slap in the face.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 12:51 AM
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Appreciate that. Thanks mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 11:28 PM
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Well I still want crazy sex and zero sex I can’t do any more. I would be fooling myself if I said I was okay staying to be with my kids with no sex life. I don’t choose to live without it, but I am limiting my options to my wife right now. Would I feel guilty about having sex with other women? No I don’t think so. How would I deal with it coming out? Not too sure I have the strength of frame for that yet. I’m very autistic but i try not to kid myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:16 PM
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Thanks. I am special, very special but only in the autistic sense. I appreciate being called awesome though, makes me feel like I’m part of the tribe. I look forward to continuing my aRtistic adventures with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 05:28 AM
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Yes I am. Documents are in order. Emergency place to stay on standby. Sex cadaver polished and packed in her coffin. Firm eye on the rental market for newly single father.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 04:16 AM
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UPDATE. I just got a message telling me she wants to make love. This is a first.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:14 AM
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Thank you so much this is gold, very insightful. I used to straight out ask for sex but now I touch and tease a lot, then try to up the anti. I’m not initiating a lot though and that’s one of the problems. She used to get angry and shame me for wanting sex but that has gone over the last year. It’s all soft no’s now, no angry shaming. If she does get angry these days I look at her like she’s one of my kids. It’s usually entertaining but tbh her anger is non-existent these days. A far cry from a …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:41 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to write that response, I really appreciate it. I know I don’t need to rush out of the door. The change in her personality has been nothing short of miraculous, compared to a year ago she is a different woman. I’ll give your tips a go 👍
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 11:56 PM
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Straight up avoidance on her part. I feel sick or there’s not enough time etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 11:39 PM
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Leaving, cheating, or beating. It’s an ugly trio of choices but yes, at 44 I’m not done with the fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 10:00 PM
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Ok, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 09:46 PM
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Yes lifting. No to posting in oys. Initiated a couple of times.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 09:45 PM
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I am stupid Rian, very autistic. I struggle daily with the idea of ‘hard nexting the bitch’ because of my kids. The idea of not being there in the house with them makes me feel sick. But yes, I’m very fucking stupid because all my friends have told me to move on. I’m also stubborn as well as stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 09:31 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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