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Lmao could be brother. Luckily this is all just fresh and IK I'm not her friend like that. Not much of it was sought out from my end. It just happened. I'll just be honest and slowly drift into the wind before my feelers do develop. Thanks 😊
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:26 PM
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Not a red flag. Either she will let you know very soon, or a soft rejection. In either case, the ball is in her court. There is nothing more you can do at this point. You've shot your shot. Now, best thing to do is pull back and focus on yourself. If youd like, on other girls as well. Do not come off as desperate. She will hit you up if she really wants it. For now, it is what it is bud. Continue with your day and keep grinding to become the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:11 AM
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Start building a rotation. As in, begin trying to date/talk to other women. Develop an interest in them. While it may not seem like you are into other women at first, since the girl in question is at the top rn, eventually time will settle in and you will developed interest in these other women. Additionally, work on yourself while you are at it as well. Develop your career, hobbies, and hit the gym. This will keep you focused on yourself for your own future and good. You can keep this girl arou…
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:12 PM
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Thanks for the reply m8. Ill give you an update. So far its going well. Talking a lot more about anything and everything. From dating, to life goals, to passions, to career, etc. Building rapport. Honestly it feels nice. Definitely teasing and trying to flirt in the mix. She is finally opening up and chatting more. For what it's worth, I'd like to believe it's working. She did say nothing is serious but is trying to date a guy she is interested in but currently it's not going their way, or so sh…
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:38 AM
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I see were you come from. That last analogy really hit it. No one is at fault or should be upset of either outcome. And I shouldn't feel like this but it Is why I asked. To get some outside perspective on this inner conflict. Thanks for some further clarity.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:30 PM
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They are. And I know they see me as stable. Thank you for the insight. Reality can be a bitch at times but it is what it is. And for me, I know I need to protect my peace and love myself. When the time comes, I'll do what I can add on value to the right one, but I'll need to be ready
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:43 PM
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This brings comfort. I'm glad you brought it up from the other end as well. It was what was also making me conflicted. You bring up good points and have made it clearer for me to see. Thank you stranger
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:14 PM
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Damn OP this hit home. Recently experienced this. Was chasing a girl who wanted to save sex after marriage. Okay cool, but then there were conditions to earn her attention/time to eventually "crack" her. She once said, I'm a tough one to crack. Overtime I got nothing but small hints of progress despite how much flirting/teasing I implemented, and all within her boundaries to respect her fam and religion....but now.......I've lost complete interest and have moved on. To the point where her and he…
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:22 PM
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A good question indeed. I guess your saying, just find out? Either take, she will let me know if she is indeed interested in talking or not. And it's up to me to read those social cues...
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:40 PM
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Option 2 lol. So in other words, acting on it as opposed to communicating it?
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:37 PM
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Bro I navigate this sub often and I have recognized you tend to post quite substantially lol. Whatever the reasoning is, just saying 👋 and keep up the advice/consistency for those before us.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:46 PM
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Crap forgot to link previous post.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:42 PM
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Lmao this is motivational brother. Needed to hear this 😆. May the force be with me
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:54 AM
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I understand. It's only fair to assume it can happen to us if it happens to others right? But thank you, your response is reassuring in some sense. While some of us do have decent game, there is always room for improvement :). For now it seems I'm on the right path
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:30 AM
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I agree. Occasionally I do overthink certain things, but I will say this....on things that could possibly imply interest. Which unfortunately leads me to not act on it and see it as perhaps, a friendly thing. Which is basically what you have said. Being direct is the best and I need to do it more often. I always feel like I need to build up tension before I fully commit. Is that a bad thing?
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:55 PM
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In the stages of getting to know her, spend time with her. Grow the interest more before being direct. Hopefully that makes sense
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:43 PM
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Will do. May the force be with me
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:54 PM
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Meaning? I don't think I am haha. Pretty confident and if she says naw then I'll take it as it is and move on :)
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:37 PM
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Yeah you right lol. Well then, May the force be with me this weekend
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:32 PM
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Perhaps you haven't created much sexual tension? I don't know since you did not mention, but have you flirted with her plenty, teased her here, and there? If it's always just been friendly vibes, then there's your answer. If you believe you've implemented some kino, tossed in some compliments, flirt with her here and there, then she is probably waiting for you to make the move. Only you will know if you have made it clear.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:34 PM
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My fucking man, laying it out the way it is. I hear you and will act. May the force be with me 🙏
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:15 AM
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She probably sense you aren't looking for that based of he vibes? Regardless, if that's what she wants and not you...then she may not give you a shot. If fwb is what you seek, then that will need to be explicitly stated. Otherwise she may think you just want in, and then dip lol
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:31 PM
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Sorry to hear that op. But like you, I would have probably thought the same, especially after all that physical contact. As far as going for the kiss, did you build up sexual tension with her (not that the physical contact isn't sexual tension)? Like flirting or teasing? Sounds like you were almost there but something maybe wasn't sitting right with her. Her telling you she is looking for a relationship, and how you are also not mature enough is first of all, dumb/immature on her end, since she …
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:25 PM
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That's my boi. Giving it to him straight. Tough love but also the harsh truth. Keep your head up man. Welcome to the real world
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:35 PM
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Good questions indeed. I've known her for almost 2 years now. Just that neither of us made a move. But now it's different. And yes I have. If anything I've been more touchy than I've ever been. And surprisingly, she is fine with that but perhaps cuz she sees me as a friend. Either way kino escalation is working
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:04 AM
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Yes. She seemed a bit nervous as well but I don't want to assume anything
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:47 PM
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Think you misunderstood. I didn't get with her because I was already with someone else. However, things ended between me and the other girl. I wanted some tips on how to try for the first girl since we are both single.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:08 AM
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Lmao well said
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:15 AM
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I guess I wanted to see if I read the situation correct or not. But you are right I shouldn't worry about it and won't. I'll let it be :). Thank you kind stranger for keeping me grounded
/r/seduction25/06/20 05:15 PM
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Some very insightful information without a doubt. And honestly I would have to agree with everything you mentioned. Your comment has made me realize when I know I am overthinking it and thats what may be happening here but not to extensively. The reason I say that is because you do emphasize confidence, posture, and peace of mind while talking and thinking. All of which I fortunately had here :). Which is why, now that I recall, she would comment on a few things, Giggle, and stayed interested in…
/r/seduction28/05/20 05:21 PM
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