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12

With online dating it’s harder than IRL
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:22 PM
1

What I meant by that is you might not look like a body builder but you can absolutely get fit and look muscular. It just takes time homie
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:04 AM
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If you are naturally small your bones will not be able to support very heavy weights so you will have a size limit, though if you eat more calories than your Maintenance and at least 1g of protien per lb of body weight and work out 5 days a week then you’ll eventually get larger, should only take a year or two to get where you want
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:59 AM
2

The age and place don’t matter, but the person should be someone you connect with and care about imo
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:23 PM
1

Keep yourself busy and limit to 1-2 times per week at first or else you will come off as needy or like you have nothing else going on
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:52 PM
2

Set a date for as soon as possible, sent a text the day of to confirm and let them know you’re looking forward to meeting
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:43 PM
3

Find some friends to join you and you’ll have more fun
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:18 AM
10

If you can’t be tall, focus on status and value
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:35 PM
1

Your ability to not drop the ball
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:58 PM
1

Only thing you can do is continue to Focus on your life and not be needy. Just back off and let her come back to you, also doesn’t hurt to just ask if you want but don’t get upset if you get an answer you don’t want
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:18 PM
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If she agreed to a date with you she’s rooting for you, hoping you’re the man she wants you to be. Just have fun with it, if you have insecurities, figure out what they are stemming from and work on yourself to improve that area to build confidence
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:55 AM
45

Focus on pleasuring her more than yourself is the way. Be dominant and smooth
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Frequent smaller calorie dense meals. 1 gram of protien per pound or body weight to gain muscle. If you don’t eat alot it’s hard to adjust but it’s the only way to get bigger
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:02 PM
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Music producer/audio engineer, snowboarding, hiking/backpacking, music festivals, gym, cooking
/r/seduction20/03/22 07:10 AM
4

It’s a fine balance, if you take too much time talking on the phone trying to get her interested or comfortable she can also lose interest. It’s all about making a strong initial conversation that leads to a good date
/r/seduction19/03/22 02:17 PM
19

Women almost always prefer taller guys but will often overlook that if you are high value. If you are short and low value then it’s pretty hard unless you significantly lower your standards
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:18 PM
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If you react in any way other than just moving on you just come off as weak and insecure man. Trying to get back at her by making her feel bad is only gonna make her ignore you more
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:34 PM
2

This is good advice to an experienced person but for someone who has no game their idea of the energy they want to give off usually involves being clingy or overly excited which is known to not help the seduction process
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:06 PM
3

People who are interested respond. Give her space so you don’t seem needy, only option really
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:32 PM
1

Focus on getting a good job, badass hobbies, and going to the gym. That will help more than being sad about being short. It will take time but if you work on those things your chances increase
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:32 PM
3

You aren’t your past, you are who you are right now and you can choose to be whoever you want to be
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:28 PM
1

It’s takes time. As most will say, work on yourself and go to the gym. Continue with hobbies or find new ones, and spend time with friends and family.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:24 PM
0

Just be like, hey I was really hoping to get to know you, let me know if you’re still interested.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:30 AM
3

To be honest from my experience if she was that interested she probably would’ve responded. At this point your best bet is to send one more message in case she’s been busy and not looking at tinder often but don’t get your hopes up
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:07 AM
42

Watch comedians, hang out around funny friends, also don’t try too hard, just relax and have a good time and crack a joke when you think of one
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:53 AM
10

Become more attractive or lower your standards
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:19 PM
1

If she’s not excited, then it’s not worth your time. Unless she has conflicting schedule (which she would mention) then she is trying to avoid hanging out.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:19 PM
4

If after the first date or two she isn’t putting herself into your orbit giving you an opportunity to ask her to hang out then she isn’t very interested. Not all women will ask to hang out, but they will start conversations with you hoping you ask them to hang out
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:00 PM
2

You don’t need to be jacked, but you should be in shape. If you are overweight, or very skinny, then going to the gym will help- also great for your mental health. But focus on your career as top priority
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:57 AM
8

If I had to guess You probably just put off insecure energy when your around girls you like tbh. Please don’t consider hurting yourself man there is more to life than just trying to get girls
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:25 PM
2

Start a normal conversation about their profile, if they don’t start it first. After a few fun messages back and forth, ask her if she’d like to meet up somewhere for a drink to get to know each other. That simple. If she says no or doesn’t respond she wasn’t worth your time.
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:56 PM
4

If you don’t hear from her for over a week and you were the last to initiate then it’s over move on
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:56 PM
1

RGB LEDs behind every piece of furniture
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:06 AM
2

3 dates
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:07 PM
5

6-8 hours on the phone is enough for her to subconsciously lose attraction. Like Corey Wayne says, the phone is used for setting dates only. You gave away your mysteriousness and made it seem like you don’t have a busy lifestyle.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:34 AM
7

Whatever you do don’t chase her, she may end up coming back around when she changes her mood.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:21 PM
1

Hour is the most if drive, but only if I really liked the girl
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:43 AM
5

Here’s a better way to put it. She is hoping you are the high quality man she desires, and not like the other guys she’s had to deny in the past. She’s not rooting for your well being, she just hopes you’re the man she’s looking for
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:28 AM
1

Texted 20 times with no response lmao. Have some self respect!
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:40 PM
1

You did the right thing, she treated you like a back up option
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:42 PM
2

Start with a hug when you first meet. Then if the date goes well just casually touch. Kino escalation. If she’s receptive, continue
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:26 AM
1

Find a common interest, make a joke, ask her out
/r/seduction19/12/21 11:16 PM
1

30 min. I’ve done an hour before and it was kind of annoying
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:52 PM
2

Stick to planning One date per week until you are exclusive or they constantly hitting you up. As for setting it up, wait until at least the day after the date
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:49 PM
7

Cook food together or watch a movie (or both)
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:50 AM
3

Probably had money or status tbh
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:00 AM
38

Don’t take advice from a fish while fishing
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:36 PM
4

$ or status
/r/seduction27/11/21 01:30 AM
1

Simple. Some are above 6ft and have jawline, others don’t. Haha just kidding it’s probably just simple social skills
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:03 PM
2

She found someone else
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:23 AM
2

Maybe go to some live music events and meet some people, most people at festivals I’ve met are very open to meeting new people
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:08 PM
2

What you need to do is stop putting so much pressure on yourself to talk to people and just focus on having fun when you go out. If your having a great time People will approach you. Also, if you have any guy friends with girlfriends, spend time around them so you can get comfortable being around and talking to females
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:01 PM
1

Focus on yourself and your goals, and when she is available hang out have fun and hook up. Nothing more, over time let her come to you at her pace
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:09 AM
1

Sometimes people unmatch without a good reason, I won’t sweat it. On the the next one
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:01 PM
1

It’s okay to look, just don’t stare. Maintain eye contact
/r/seduction20/03/21 12:23 AM
9

Sauvage Dior
/r/seduction09/03/21 05:11 AM
1

There’s plenty of women who feel comfortable without the safety of a guy so this isn’t always the case
/r/seduction19/02/21 06:15 PM
1

Yeah they can be confusing no doubt. Either way the next bus comes in a few minutes
/r/seduction09/01/21 01:09 AM
1

The fact that your getting so worked up over it means you probably showed something to her that made her less attracted to you at some point that night
/r/seduction08/01/21 10:35 PM
369

You stop expecting anything
/r/seduction03/12/20 03:25 AM
1

Just making a disclaimer for those guys who think that if they attempt to improve then they are entitled to getting whatever girl they want
/r/seduction15/11/20 04:48 PM
6

The act of trying to improve isn’t what gets women, it’s the successful results that do
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:00 PM
2

If you believe in evolution, then it makes sense that women want to be with more physically attractive guys, but there are definitely women out there who much prefer a guy with a solid masculine and friendly personality over looks if you had to trade one for the other. Just keep putting yourself out there (in the real world not tinder because girls can’t tell your personality over an app) and just meet people.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:38 AM
5

Hang out with masculine men and learn their traits, go to the gym 5 days a week for multiple years if your not alreasy
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:43 PM
3

You sir sound like a bitter person. Alpha traits can be learned
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:44 PM
3

High quality meaning a guy with an alpha mentality and lifestyle. Hence why in your example girls like “thugs” because they aren’t betas like most nerds
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:32 PM
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High quality women want high quality men. focus on yourself and create a solid career, body, and personality first
/r/seduction28/06/20 10:56 PM
2

There is a lot of women in denver
/r/seduction10/05/20 02:55 AM
2

Stay on your purpose guys
/r/seduction06/05/20 02:29 AM
6

Improving yourself so that you have more options is really the only way
/r/seduction06/01/20 03:11 PM
2

As long as she shows signs that she is ready then absolutely
/r/seduction05/01/20 04:30 PM
1

Either you try a whole lot and succeed sometimes or you don’t try at all and never get satisfied
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:10 PM
1

If you know she is interested, you could ask “ do you like massages”? And if she says yes then offer give her a back massage. This will warm her up and then initiate kissing
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:36 PM
12

Should prob go get checked for std before you go back out to approach more
/r/seduction02/12/19 12:32 AM
1

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5-sfG8BV8wU
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:09 PM
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