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| 1 | Circumcision: "Sometimes it seems like every boy is born with a coupon for $300 on the end of his penis..."Cool beans. :) | /r/MensRights | 07/06/13 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Circumcision: "Sometimes it seems like every boy is born with a coupon for $300 on the end of his penis..."Do you want me to link a pic to a penile sub-incision? I really don't want to . . . | /r/MensRights | 07/06/13 01:58 PM |
| 1 | "He leaned against the wall, his shoulders began to heave, and he collapsed, alone at last, not needing to be strong for anyone, and he wept for his boy."Not showing emotion should not be a masculine trait. Yet it is. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 06:27 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend's mom is a psycho cunt and she's trying to have me arrested for rape. Help would be greatly appreciatedI would be very careful about this. Cops are not judges. I'm not a lawyer, but some quick googleness brought me this for Virginia "close-in-age" exceptions: "The second statute deals with someone 18 years of age or older having sex with someone age 15, 16, or 17 years of age, which is a class one misdemeanor and punishable with up to one year in jail and a $2,500.00 fine." Don't risk your future. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Feminist here- Let me explain some things a few of you have misinterpreted.I must interject regarding the birth control v. viagra part. It's just not very accurate: http://www.factcheck.org/2008/07/mccains-viagra-moment/ According to this (admittedly old) fact check, 86% of insurance plans covered birth control, compared to ~50% covering Viagra. Further, the Affordable Care Act provides guarantees for birth control coverage, and none for Viagra (or even vasectomies... separate issue...(edit) on second thought, no its not). That's not to say that there are not legitimat… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/13 08:06 PM |
| 1 | "33 men 'die in South African circumcision ceremonies'"A socially conscious Die Antwoord? When the heck did that happen? | /r/MensRights | 23/05/13 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Diane Abbott to warn of British 'masculinity crisis'What exactly are peoples' issue with the Lilly Ledbetter Act? All it does is extend the statute of limitations on wage lawsuits. There's truly nothing about it that's anti-male. I mean . . . I guess you could be against it on tort reform grounds, but that's something unrelated to gender. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Sluts vs players? More like sluts vs really awesome sluts - it's not gendered.A lot of this is not slut-shaming per se, although it is all sexual shaming - I think that's a decent umbrella term. It's all bad. Pretty simple: don't shame people for their sexuality or their sex lives, period. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/13 11:52 AM |
| 7 | From r/feminism - Fuck you battered men, we don't want your problems hereI've made a few donations to Planned Parenthood (screw Komen), does that count? He could have just, ya know, just asked for donations instead of the accusatory "bet you wont do anything about this". Was the point of that post actually to raise money for a DV shelter or was it just to create material for this post? I'm pretty sure it was the latter. That post sucked and by proxy this post sucks. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/13 05:30 PM |
| 2 | A post on males and hyper-masculinity from male feminist site mendaredo.com. Txt posted to avoid clicks?Honestly, I think this is a decent article you have written, much better than your pro-shaming catalogue. A lot of things I would agree with, such as the idea of a "Leave it to beaver" masculinity and the loss of that leaving a gap to a mode of traditional masculinity. Here's where you fall off the tracks though: So you get this group of men, again, mostly white, mostly middle class, who feel that they're deserved something that has been denied to them. And what's being denied to them isn't just… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/13 05:35 PM |
| 6 | A friend of mine submitted a list of reason's why she's a feminist. I create a similar list for MR.I don't think the feminist movement, to the extent a unified feminist movement exists, has a single position on circumcision. Yeah, and that's a problem. When did bodily autonomy become negotiable? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/13 12:55 PM |
| 2 | girlwriteswhat: A reading on Judith Grossman, some updates, and my opinionated self...Actually not true. People are starting to see the light with regards to alimony. http://www.bizjournals.com/jacksonville/blog/morning-edition/2013/04/florida-lawmakers-pass-alimony-reform.html | /r/MensRights | 19/04/13 02:09 PM |
| 9 | Men's Rights necessarily always opposed to feminist principles?I'm not sure how many MRAs think ONLY men have disadvantages, but more that both sides have issues to address. I think a lot, though, will disagree that they have the same root causes (this attitude implies mens' issues are already being dealt with, which strikes a lot of men as hollow). Kyriarchy, and more to the point - Intersectionality are under-utilized concepts in ye old gender wars. Patriarchy does not exist independently in the real world - privileges come from all different places, not … | /r/MensRights | 04/04/13 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Apparently men are innately bad.For that to happen, the focus of the conversation needs to change from talking aabout negative male traits to talking about, and reinforcing, positive male traits. That discussion simply does not take place right now. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/13 02:37 PM |
| 12 | Anne Rice...great philanthropist, gay rights activist, author and . . . misandrist? (x-post: Intactivists)So one side wants to stop genital cutting for one gender. The other side wants to stop genital cutting for both genders. Tell me again, which one is sexist...err, "prejudiced on the basis of gender"? I get the whole point about not derailing topics, when it is a topic that doesn't affect you, but if it affects everyone, and you only talk about one side, I'm going to call you on your exclusionary bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be an MRA and a liberal at the same time?I'm a total left winger. Gender relations are the second most important social issue to me after LGBT rights. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/13 12:48 PM |
| 13 | Feminist says "man flu" (a term used to mock males who admit symptoms) is actually misogyny, because women (who are allowed to have symptoms) look weak by comparison.It's been 14 years since my kidneys failed. During that time, most of which I spent on dialysis, I've built a career, built an independent life and never collected a single red cent of from disability, despite qualifying (I could have "retired" at 21). I find shit like this to be Profoundly insulting. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 03:42 PM |
| 22 | Feminist says "man flu" (a term used to mock males who admit symptoms) is actually misogyny, because women (who are allowed to have symptoms) look weak by comparison.The article actually seems to get that "man flu" is an insult, but then misses the point after that. Author asks "is this a feminist issue?". How can it not be? The author acknowledges this is based on gender stereotypes. One of Feminism's big things is dismantling those. But this author (and they are not alone) requires "proof" of misogyny before accepting it as a valid feminist issue. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/13 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Men oppressing themselves- Confirmation bias!http://www.zazzle.com/feminism_real_men_are_feminists_t_shirts-235543257050668797 | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 03:06 PM |
| 22 | Donglegate: Why the Tech Community Hates FeministsNot sexual jokes. Anatomy jokes. Apparently certain anatomy is offensive now..... | /r/MensRights | 29/03/13 03:37 PM |
| 24 | What's it like to walk around as a male knowing that females are likely suspicious of you simply because you're a male?I take public transit almost everywhere (staunch urbanite) and work on the 17th floor. It's buses and elevators all over the place! It's very blatant on the bus, and it sucks. I get unfriendly looks, or at least someone who chooses to stand rather than sit next to me, most days (these buses are packed like sardine cans). I pretty much spend that time reading a book and try not to take it personally. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there any legitimate legal argument against gay marriage ?I agree with you. The problem becomes that people are people are trying to defend the word "marriage" from some peoples' pesky civil rights. There's a lot of people that feel that a separate but equal term would be ok. Personally, I feel it would be kind of a silly governmental exercise to have two institutions that perform the same function simply to let some people feel better about the word. Plus, "Separate but equal" has never really worked well. Removing the government from the marriage gam… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Obamacare discriminates against men: Sebelius "also said that some men and younger customers could see their rates increase while women and older customers could see their rates drop because the law rOh please. This is the principle concept of insurance. All insurance systems exist by pooling together funds together with other people to mitigate risk. The people who cost less end up paying for the people that cost more. If you don't believe in that concept, you don't believe in the general concept of insurance (I have a couple of friends that hold that view, and that's fine). If you want to talk about the problems with this, talk about how male birth control options and vasectomies are not c… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is there any legitimate legal argument against gay marriage ?I don't think "tradition" works as a legal argument. Otherwise you could never change anything. Besides, the word "marriage" is just a word. If it was called "dfjdfjkdflkdfs", but limited to hetero-ness, the same civil rights argument would be going on, in that everyone should have equal access. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Gay rights are men's rights.Well, there is an issue where if a same-sex couple lives in a state that does not recognize same-sex marriage, then they cannot even GET divorced (for example, if a NY couple relocates to Philly, or just drove to Manhattan to get married). Just one reason why I think "states' rights" is a bad idea with regards to marriage. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 03:22 PM |
| 4 | I'm sorry, but whoever runs the mensrights reddit Twitter account should not be retweeting stuff like this.Then kindly go fuck yourself. You do not speak for me. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/13 06:32 PM |
| 24 | Why can't men take a flower workshop at Home DepotGood job Home Depot on pulling some shitty stereotyping of, well, everyone. This is probably a misguided attempt to appeal more to women like pink pic pens or underpowered pink laptops. You are a man and want to grow a garden? Nah, here's how you can refinish some cabinets. You are a woman and want to refinish cabinets? How about you go play with flowers instead. EVERYONE is gonna have a field day with this. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 06:33 PM |
| 2 | UniteWomen.org posted this, acknowledging that men CAN be rapedThis acknowledges the issue of rape affecting everyone. Great! +5 justice points! But the "imagine if I was a woman" quip serves no purpose except basically say "I was raped, but at least I wasn't victim blamed" which suggests it was somehow "less bad". -4 justice points. Plus, didn't we deal with this just a few months ago? http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4670780/university-bans-male-students-from-drag.html | /r/MensRights | 25/03/13 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Unhappy that young men are losing interest in women, Jezebel compares date no-shows with rape: "We make romantic life less risky for women by challenging men to show the fuck up. The myth that excusesThat's one of the more horrific articles I've seen. And I like pegging. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | What does masculine mean?Try being bi. A majority of women will call that an absolute dealbreaker (either its gross, its unmanly, or you actually are just gay and in denial). This is a big factor for many bi-guys that choose to remain closeted. It's exhausting how so much of het-male attractiveness seems to be tied up in macho-manly-masculinity. It would be nice to be able to pursue my interests without worrying about how 'attractive' they are. Can't you just judge me by my looks or something? | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 06:07 PM |
| 9 | BBC calls Adria Richards a "whistle-blower", feminist propaganda swings in full gear.There also was an "I'd fork HIS repo" joke. Apparently gay sex is sexist. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on a post by George TakeiI've always liked his posts, but they have started getting shittier and shittier. This one is not even true. http://www.deredactie.be/cm/vrtnieuws.english/news/1.1490407 | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Resources for male victims of domestic violence...Its great to see something focused truly on male victims! One thing that is weird, though, is that they say In the U.S., 15% of domestic violence victims are men. That is over 45 million victims each year. That figure is from the Bureau of Justice and based on reported incidences. Then right below that they have a section on how male victims under-report. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/13 02:04 PM |
| 10 | Vaselgel (RISUG male contraceptive) passes early trials.Great news! Vasgel is good for everyone! I can't be alone in thinking this was dead in the water, due to funding. It still makes me worried that it's still lookin at crowdsourcing (please donate if you can!) | /r/MensRights | 21/03/13 08:25 PM |
| 27 | Adria Richards fired from SendGrid.Gotta love that word game. Ok, fine - what is the word that means "prejudiced against a person on the basis of race", when power is not in place? Oh, what's that? There isn't one? English has over 600,000 words, but none that simply means prejudice on the basis of race? That seems rather ungood . . . I pretty much dislike everything about this situation though. People's jobs getting canned because of overzealous peoples sense of interweb social justice is just bad all around. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/13 05:18 PM |
| 14 | Men’s Alternative Safe House forced to close due to lack of funding | Canada"If he calls the police, studies have shown that there’s an 80% chance that he’ll be arrested" Does anyone know a source for this statement. I know there was a study done in 1985 which showed men being 3 times more likely to be the arrested party when they call the police, but that's practically obsolete (it was a U.S. study pre-VAWA). | /r/MensRights | 21/03/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Question Regarding the Correlation Between MRAs and the Right Wing/Libertarianism.Mao Tse Tung was a communist, not a socialist. And honestly, more of just an outright dictator. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding the Correlation Between MRAs and the Right Wing/Libertarianism.I think you have the idea of masculism (as a movement) backward. Breaking down traditionally imposed male-gender roles is a huge thing to me (I absolutely rail against terms like "man up", "real men", etc). Even very progressive minded people do this and don't even realize it (take Eve Ensler's quote on the "passivity of good men", for example, where she basically calls men complicit for failing to live up to gender role: "man as protector"). There needs to be better awareness about male gender … | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Question Regarding the Correlation Between MRAs and the Right Wing/Libertarianism.This exactly. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Question Regarding the Correlation Between MRAs and the Right Wing/Libertarianism.I'm a democratic socialist. Of course I also prefer to identify as masuclinst as opposed to mra for nuanced reasons. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Man makes movie to find parentally-abducted daughterThis hits soooo close to home for me. When we were young, my father faught for and won full custody over my mother, who has schizophrenia. When I turned 8, during visitation, she kidnapped my me and my brother. She hid us with some people in a house in the center of Crip turf in Inglewood, Ca. This was probably about a year before the L.A. riots. Anyways, unlike the OP's story, mine merely crossed state lines (my pops was teaching at Arizona State at the time), yet in neither place would the pol… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 07:03 PM |
| 0 | A friend of mine liked this on Facebook today. While I'm not against abortion, I'd like to know what reproductive rights the government could possibly take from men at this point.No. You gotta do better than trying to circumvent "her body her choice". You can address "his choice" without that. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 06:12 PM |
| 1 | There are people who fervently believe in this.No, it is not. Don't make stuff up. The only way, according to the FBI, that a woman can rape a man is by forcibly inserting something into his anus. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 02:57 PM |
| 5 | SRS in real lifeOh yeah, the fact that an MRA can understand and respect trans* theory is "disturbing". /facepalm | /r/MensRights | 18/03/13 02:25 PM |
| 11 | Criticism of feminists in Scandinavia could soon be effectively illegal, if a men's 'reform group' has their wayNeckbeard is a common SRS slur; I'm sure it was just a coincidence... I have trouble getting my head around how noun+noun can equal "socially retarded person with severe delusions regarding his own importance, his sexual appeal and how the female brain works" through pure translation (although I don't speak norwegian - could you provide the original norwegian term(s) you are trying to translate so we can understand?) Also, "retarded" is ableist. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 05:41 PM |
| 25 | Calgary Men's Shelter Closing"The house in which Men’s Alternative Safe House was based – Silverman’s home – has now been sold. He says he will still provide a pull-out bed at his condominium for any men who need it. He will also continue to operate the men’s helpline." The guy's house. This is what male ipv victims get - spare space in some guy's house. Until the house is sold, that is. Even if someone believes the incorrect idea that "95% of IPV victims are female", how could this this fair to the remaining "5%" demograph… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What men and women shouldn't do (x-post from r/feminism)Cats! They forgot cats! Real men can't have cats. http://valerielise.wordpress.com/2012/06/22/why-men-cant-own-cats-do-us-women-reinforce-sexism-and-gender-roles/ | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Shaming and vilification of Korean men as sexual predators; Great article on current issue in rapidly modernizing Korean/Asian societiesSexual shaming is a thing. Focusing on slut-shaming or creep-shaming, etc, etc, etc is artificially narrowing the scope. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm doing a project on male birth control and I need help finding a certain picture.You might want to add something about male birth control funding. In the U.S., new insurance mandates do not guarantee any male birth control (vasecomies are not guaranteed under "Obamacare") and the funding issues slowing RISUG development (it's relying on crowdsourcing at this point and the Gates Foundation gave money, but only for research as a female birth control option). | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Wage gap corrected for work-mortality rateWhat price tag do you place on workplace deaths? That's pretty impossible to quantify. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 04:17 PM |
| 1 | This is a absolutely terrible way to think.This statement has so many flaws. First, it assumes homophobia is a male-gendered thing (apparently all the conservative bible-beating women have died off), and that homophobia is a man's natural state. Second, it basically takes the attitude that male sexuality, hetero or homo, is predatory by default. Lastly, it's totally co-opting a core LGBT issue (homophobia) and making it about hetero women. To quote one of the commenters: "As a gay man, I hate this line of thought, it assumes all gays are… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/13 01:44 PM |
| 2 | It's been four years and I'm still afraidOh ffs, Men's Rights spends so much time trying to get things like this treated seriously, and then when someone actually posts in here, the comments are like "so what?", "brush it off" and "this sounds fake". WTF guys!? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 06:47 PM |
| 5 | There's no gender bias in the court system! Men just don't get custody because in general, they suck!The Mass. study is being used deceptively. "The rate at which mother's requests for sole custody were granted is 65% higher than the rate at which father's requests for sole custody were granted." http://www.breakingthescience.org/SJC_GBC_analysis_intro.php | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 09:43 PM |
| 0 | "...Open mic off limits to cis-gendered men (we all know you talk enough)". And they really wonder why some people feel feminism is anti-male.You think scope is actually relevant here? Pacific Islanders make up .4% of the U.S. population. Are they also "abnormal"? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 09:01 PM |
| 1 | An explanation for the "lack" of male slut-shaming terms.The framing of this whole debate is wrong. The issue at hand is the shaming of sexuality. Limiting it to finding a male equivalent to the word "slut" is asking you to compare apples to oranges and only succeeds in limiting the scope of the argument to score points. Terms like slut, creep, whore, skank, womanizer, "neckbeard virgin loser" are all ways to engage in sexuality shaming. It is hypocritical to view some of these as ok and others as not. Just don't go around shaming people of any gender… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Conversation on OKC: "every single one of the issues the MRA is seeking to correct are byproducts of misogyny."Child Custody: The Tender Years doctrine said women are naturally better for raising children and was a major victory for early women's groups. I guess those women's rights groups really hated women, eh? Legal Circumcision: (I'd love to hear how this could be construed as misogyny, as I have no idea) This is all moot though. You are left with one of two choices: A. Acknowledge men have their own issues, and should advocate to address them, or that B. it actually IS a result of misogyny and femin… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/13 03:11 PM |
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