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Yes. But you will know if it's because she has no other options OR because you have become of higher value You want to be the latter, trust me. Girls will notice but that shouldn't be your mindset. You should focus on improving yourself In every aspect. Talking about career, hitting the gym, focusing on your fashion, your side hustles, your social network, your hobbies etc. But do all this for your own good and future. A byproduct of that will be girls. This is were some may start to come around…
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:19 PM
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There, that's all it literally was. A simple answer and to the point. Based of what a few others are sating, I agree with you. It was either this, or telling her something like I don't kiss and tell to avoid "answering" the question. Never to lie. Thank you
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:51 PM
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Because as I stated, maybe she saw something I didn't see? So curiosity made me ask? Nothing wrong with asking You, just like others here, seem to get the impression I just want sex. She already stated sex after marriage so why would I not respect that decision. This is a girl not to mess around with. Given our age, I'd hope others understood that we are both looking for serious relationships here. My days fucking around are over, I'm 27 years old. And I was just seeking for advice on this post …
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:42 PM
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How am I a douchebag for want to be with this girl? I respect her boundaries and won't cross them. I do have an interest in what she wants. I'm not trying g to get at her just because I want to. But because I see her as a potential long term partner. Sex is already not bound to happen until after marriage which is fine with me. This comment doesn't even answer the question at hand. Only tells me to not do what I already know not to do. I'm not trying to fuck around with this girl.
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:38 PM
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Right which I understand she wants marriage. This is a girl who isn't trying to mess around. An neither am I hence why i stated our age. I'm not trying to escalate to the point where she changes her mind. If anything, I'm aiming for a long term partner with this one. Idc if she doesn't put out before marriage. On the contrary, this is beyond sex. Yeah plenty of details are left out because that's not the point of the post? I literally came in here to ask for advice on what would be more interest…
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:35 PM
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Never said she did want sex? Further more sexual tension doesn't equate to sex. Can be any sort of flirting or playful teasing so long as you establish yourself as potential interest not just a platonic friend. If you are getting confused then just replace sexual tension with tension. Bold of you to assume we dont have the same ideals. But perhaps you assume that because I am not a virgin? Leave her alone? You're making it seem as if I am constantly hitting on her, or putting pressure, or being …
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:27 PM
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Elaborate, this was rather brief wouldn't you say? I didn't write multiple paragraphs or go into ao much detail. It was rather quick and to the point no? And I writs the post to get some advice on the question being asked in the title section?
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:19 PM
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Yeup, saw it :). And I agree. Also, yeah not being very young anymore sucks lol. Those fucking around days are coming to an end
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:13 AM
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For your sake, it's whatever it is you feel my guy.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:07 AM
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Right, like the example I just told you about. I don't see anything wrong with answering with "I don't kiss and tell". What if I was geniuenly not comfortable asking the question. Anyways thanks again, and yes I deserve anything that comes my way 💯
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:04 AM
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How lol? I'm clearly telling you the truth and came I here asking for advice. Perhaps you are choosing not to understand my comments.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:59 AM
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That is a good point. I just wanted to know if others thought they can a moment like this and use it to create sexual tension, that's all. I never had intentions of lying. Simply trying to see if a response like " I don't kiss and tell 😉", would cause mystery and her to be Intrigued. And even so, still wasn't sure if that response was better than a straight "No, I am not a virgin".
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:58 AM
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I stated the age hoping that people would get that both of us are serious in finding a long term partner. My time fucking around is coming to an end. Not sure why being 27 year old would be turn off, but everyone is entitled to their opinion :). Thank you for answering. The truth is perhaps a better way was just trying to see if any others could use this moment as an opportunity to create mystery by diverting the question. Good question, I don't know.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:54 AM
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What? This answers nothing lol. What benefit of the doubt? There is no pretense here. There is no playing here, that I can assure you. I'm not trying to fake or lie about anything. Yeah you clearly misunderstood the post. Regardless, thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:43 AM
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I have, and I do not see that. I clearly state I won't lie. And the whole post is basitcally asking what would be better. Talking the truth or basically not answering the question by diverting with a clever line? Lying or manipulating any truth was never an option.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:36 AM
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How are we both dishonest. She has not lied and neither have I or plan to?
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:11 AM
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Lmao bro you have problems. First of all, what's with all these comments? Second, what's with the name calling? ​ And that was the clever line???. Or a line that doesn't answer the question basically sheesh. Stop projecting your shit on me. Tried to be clarify for you but at this point you are choosing to not understand.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:10 AM
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What do you mean not understand? I said she does not know. She could think that I am or that I am not. I never told her whether I was or was not. I can care less if she thinks I am or not. I was asking for advice because I have the option to tell her the truth which is that I am not a virgin. Or I can choose to play on the question as in leaving it a mystery. For example, just answering by saying "I don't kiss and tell". That's not a yes or no and may leave room for her to wanting to know more. …
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:05 AM
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How are you getting that I am going to lie to her? I ask because someone else had the same thought. I am specifically saying I wont lie to her. Why would I, when I know what she wants? Additionally why ruin something this serious? I don't simply want to "bang". Perhaps you also misunderstood.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:56 AM
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You know exactly what this girl wants. It's not the same thing as you, so you're willing to lie and make it seem like you want the same thing? ​ I do know, and who says I was going to Lie. I specifically state I won't lie -_-. Because I am not like that. ​ 'I'm the sort of guy who lies to woman out of fear of losing them.' Loosing her? Did you not read I had a rotation going on? Did you not understand that I don't mind her not being interested? You came at this from a whole different perspective…
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:52 AM
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You're making it seem a big deal, as If I was doing something wrong to her. Perhaps you are misinterpreting the context. I was simply asking a question.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:39 AM
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Curious to ask what makes you say that? Just trying to see what you see because you may be right. Thank you.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:36 AM
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I think I'd be lying if I say i wasn't thinking about it even a bit. I mean, I would rather not get kicked out. So just analyzing the situation a bit different compared to others lol
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:24 PM
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Lol yeup trying not to man. Playing it smooth for now. May the force be with me 🙏
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:41 PM
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Figured :). Now I need to capitalize on the established tension. Yeah no ill intention here. I'll escalate further when we are alone and I'll read her as I go. Thanks for some clear input
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:40 PM
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Fuck ..this is all well put. Thank you! Like most on here, you seem to be telling me to go for it and make moves already lol. I'll do what I can. Won't let the other guy bother me. I'll definitely keep the focus on us, and read the vibe. I have a few inside jokes I can use to make the conovs a bit flirty or teasful. And I'll also see myself as the prize here because you are right, confidence is key here. Whether or not she reciprocates, I'll stay positive, inquisitive, and upbeat. Thanks again.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:11 PM
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I'd hope so, but straight up, I think probably not. But there are certain things she does, that make me question it. So it peaks my interest. It's a tough situation but I'll try one last time and won't press the matter if I see she isn't feeling it. I haven't given it my all simply because she isn't my priority atm. Our vibes aren't always sexual, but aren't too friendly either. It's the unfortunate middle ground, where some sense of nervousness or shyness slips in from both ends, at least it se…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:07 AM
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Noted brother. I'll do what I can while keeping everything natural. But perhaps you re right in missing the chance. I definitely know I don't play too nice but I also don't escalate in every covo we have. Unfortunately, she may be more attracted to this other guy which if so, I don't mind moving on because it is what it is. But talking to her when she comes back will give me better picture of where I stand. As far as playing nice I would disagree since I do make the effort when I can regardless …
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:26 AM
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Crap, this is a good point. Don't know if this works in my favor but I am keeping some distance between me and her occasionally, to avoid becoming too close of a friend (in this case, the emotional towel). And I do try and escalate when we talk but only here and there. But I make sure to ask deep, thoughtful questions to show her I also do care and want to get to know her more. Just finding the balance is sometimes a bit vague since I am just starting to try and talk to her. So you are essential…
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:35 AM
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This is gives me much awareness of the situation, thank you. curious as to what makes you say she has some romantic potential in me? I ask because funny enough, she does act different around me when we are alone chatting. Shy and almost nervous like, but she does engage in the convos. Either way, I agree with what you say. I'll try to steer the convos in that direction and let her bring up what she wants. I will throw in some inside jokes, tease her a bit and gauge her facial expressions/body la…
/r/seduction10/04/22 06:34 AM
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I hear you. And will not compete, I'll just be myself. I wont ask questions and simply escalate things between me and her when I can. I'll read the mood and go from there. The best I can do is turn up the intensity and hope for the best.
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:32 AM
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Thank you, this is well said. Definitely opening my eyes to the situation a bit more. I agree and will take use this as guidance. This is why I mentioned I will not focus on my competition. Meaning, I'll try not to see him as such. I'll do what I can to seek the compability. In the end, you are basically saying, let things flows naturally. As in, don't bring him up in the convo unless she does. Be myself and just see if there is a connection
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:58 AM
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I don't think I would though? Lol So long as I don't make it a big deal or uncomfortable/awkward for anyone I should be fine right ? Lol Besides, only me and her know what is between us. Her parents don't know jack shit lol
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:32 PM
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This! . My question though, what is the act of reseducation? First I hear of it and while I can guess what it is, does it even work?
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:59 PM
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Lmao but there must be one where I come out on top right?!
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:17 PM
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Lol well if only Iit was that easy for me hahaha. Why did it end between you two?
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:44 PM
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How did it end up for you? Will do :). I'll test the waters even further lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:36 PM
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This is the play. Taking it as it comes and won't force any matters
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:35 PM
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yeup definitely thought about how to handle the cards. Will approach ever so cautiously lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:52 AM
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Though of it beforehand already :). Thanks for the reminder. I won't push any matters.
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:50 AM
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So....shit where then ? lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:49 AM
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move on to another one in my rotation lol. Is just the truth, to prevent from being hung up or putting her on a pedestal. Even if I do make a move and shit doesn't pan out for me, so be it. But it won't be awkward so long as I don't make it awkward :)
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:49 AM
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Yeup ahead of you just in case :). Let's hope it goes well
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:51 PM
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Sounds like a plan, and I definitely will. Something about only us knowing what's between us, makes it a bit risky and exciting. Lol well let's hope I can pull through like your dad 😅
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:30 PM
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Lmao would definitely be a plus. But I'm just trying to see where things can go with this girl.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:26 PM
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How so? I've heard, don't shit where you eat, for dating someone at your workplace.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:01 PM
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