a_cat_in_the_stacks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
77	Taking the red pill is resulting in the LTR of my dreams.	FIELD REPORT	a_cat_in_the_stacks	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/16 05:19 AM
14	He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it?	ADVICE	a_cat_in_the_stacks	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/16 06:38 PM
8	Etiquette for vacationing with LTR's family	ADVICE	a_cat_in_the_stacks	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/16 01:06 AM

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3	What is that you love about being a woman? I love the innocence of pure, soft femininity, like gushing over cute things, wearing frilly dresses, or feeling safe on my SO's arm while walking. There's a whimsical decadence that surrounds a feminine lady and I enjoy capturing that type of energy and letting it flow through me. I enjoy practicing gratitude and kindness through acts of service as other ladies here have mentioned. Nothing is more welcoming than a gentle, supportive woman. Also, I don't have a place of my own yet but I will def…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/16 11:12 PM
1	Etiquette for vacationing with LTR's family Wow I really like the hand written note idea. That sort of courtesy really is a lost art! Part of me is wary of going overboard to earn their approval, but I think a thank you card would be perfect for the occasion. Thanks for the tip! I wouldn't have thought of it myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/16 06:05 AM
3	How often does your SO want sex with you? We are in a bit of a semi-LDR so we see each other once a week on average. When we spend the night together we will go at it easily three times in one night. He almost always initiates. Our record at the very beginning of the relationship is seven times in one night. I don't think I've ever turned him down unless I really wasn't feeling well. I am still frothing at the mouth for his D after 1 year haha.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/16 12:05 PM
3	Taking the red pill is resulting in the LTR of my dreams. Thank you! He is definitely Captain material. The fact he's given me a second chance to be a part of his life like this is a testament to his care for me. He has told me to not expect him to ask me to marry him or move in with him, although he did say that doesn't mean not ever. He's still in college and has never had his own apartment on his own before and I still live with my parents so it's understandable marriage is not on the table. I can tell he's still a little wary of me, but full on sub…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/16 11:04 PM
2	Taking the red pill is resulting in the LTR of my dreams. Oh wow. I'd say the one aspect that encompasses the changes I've made involves practicing gratitude, meaning cherishing what you've been able to achieve thus far as opposed to focusing on the ideal end goal alone.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/16 10:26 PM
1	We hit 15k members! Lurkers and newbies come out and say "hi"! Greetings! I'm relatively new here. I took the red pill a few months ago after waking up and realizing that my world view as a feminist/SJW stemmed from some deep self esteem issues and fear. Long story short, I was devastated and confused about healthy gender roles after my high school sweetheart, my first and only sexual relationship for years, and the man I was prepared to marry eventually confessed they were transgender and transitioned to female within a month. I went through a grieving pro…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/16 09:46 PM
7	I have aspergers/HFA and am quite "masculine", how do I exist well? Oh wow I was just considering writing post on here about my experiences as an aspie woman but I'm thrilled to see another of my "kind" involved with RPW values! I know exactly what you mean about having difficulty navigating female dominated spaces. While it takes extra effort for me to pick up on body language and social cues with anybody, female communication involves subtle intricacies and covert understandings between women. I often fail to realize what's going on in a woman to woman situati…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/16 06:08 PM
2	The Red Pill Documentary I can't wait to see this! I wonder if the documentary will do a good job differentiating between different sectors of the "manosphere." MGTOW, TRP, and the MRA community tend to get mashed together into one blob. It's important to know the distinctions.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/10/16 02:25 AM
1	Any tips on starting an interesting conversation? He's currently still in college for computer science but got a job offer pending where he will be programming and working with systems. He's a hard worker and witty as heck. He keeps me on my feet like no other.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/16 08:05 PM
1	How do you avoid needy/clingy behaviour? We are both introverts so I'm also pretty grateful for my space. I just have to be careful because he does not tolerate clinginess from me in the slightest and will pull away the moment he perceives complian-y behavior from me. The amount we see each other is already at the threshold of what I can tolerate in a relationship before my needs are not getting met so I do find myself frustrated. I try to appreciate the moments he does make an effort to contact me and he's always very attentive and af…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/16 05:37 PM
2	Any tips on starting an interesting conversation? Sometimes I fret a little about coming across as an interesting woman, especially since my man is still vetting me for long term potential. He's extremely talented as a logician. He's the type of guy who can factor numbers on the fly and multiply two digit numbers together in his head. He could talk all day about physics. I think the scope of his knowledge is impressive and I gush all the time over the amazing observations he makes. While I would consider myself as possessing intelligence a few …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/16 02:05 AM
3	Monthly Goals Also new here! I'm getting my life on track slowly but surely. My goals are: -Do leg lifts, crunches, and squats routine at least 5 days a week for toned bottom and legs. -Track my calorie consumption accurately. I've been doing this with an app called MyFitnessPal. -Make my own bath bombs. -Pay off the largest of my student loans -Cut out drinking pop completely -read more... Less time watching videos online	/r/RedPillWomen	08/10/16 04:08 PM
2	How do I forgive myself for being a fool? I'm still looking back on my early twenties and trying to piece together what exactly happened. My story is not typical, but it definitely speaks to why I ended up where I did. In high school I had a serious relationship with a guy that ended up lasting 7 years altogether (we started dating when we were 15). He was my first when it came to many things and I was fiercely loyal to him, but he often had suicidal thoughts and he always seemed to be discontent with himself (lots of red flags to be ho…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 05:21 PM
1	He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it? I really like your insight. I thought I could only derive security from him calling me his girlfriend or telling me he loves me or cares about me more. I found it suspicious that his family would introduce me to other family members and family friends as his girlfriend, but I have never heard those words straight from the horse's mouth, other than commenting "You're my girlfriend in front of my family." His actions and the effort he's put into treating me well do indicate he thinks highly of me.…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/16 12:44 AM
6	How do I forgive myself for being a fool? I can relate to that sentiment of self shame. A year ago I could easily describe myself as a feminist. I repressed my femininity and thought open relationships and sexual "experimentation" could be fulfilling. I hated the idea of children and never really considered marriage to be on the table for me. I'm surprised that I made it out of college with a reasonable low single digit N count considering my beliefs ( although I never was much of a partier or bar goer). I fell in love with a guy from a…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/16 05:04 PM
2	He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it? Sorry if the question was confusing. I guess I was wondering if it's still worth it to continue seeing the guy or not. I think he realizes he might deserve a higher SMV woman, but I would have expected him to cut off contact or not initiate plans if I wasn't bringing enough worth to the table, which I would accept and expect. This hasn't happened, and it looks like he's even moving the relationship toward an LTR rather than away, which is why I'm hesitant about moving on. It's true he is just no…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/16 12:49 AM
6	He has given me a conditional offer to move me to LTR status based on my self-improvement. Take it or leave it? Thank you for your honest insight. I always thought that plates were girls who never get introduced to family or friends and the guy puts forth only enough effort to sustain a sexual relationship. I'm under the impression a guy would not continually bring me around family or have dinner with my family if he did not have more serious intentions as he has. He has even brought me over to his grandparents' house and seemed excited to show me his family's traditions. He has already been getting sex f…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/10/16 01:38 AM