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| 36 | How to tell if she is not interested or just shy? | a_critical_person | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 06:48 PM |
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| 19 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?Well... | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you break off when you're not interested?As long as Girl 1 didn't show a super clear sign of romantic interest you shouldn't tell her that you're not interested. Just be honest about the relationship and treat her like a friend. If Girl 1 tries to make a move tell her that you don't see her that way and give it a little bit time as she'll most probably be sad about it. Just don't fuck with anyone's feelings & be honest and you'll be ok. | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 03:47 PM |
| 3 | What you think people see when they look at you vs what they actually seeI guess he meant that there are two kind of ugly people. Those who have the potential to look at least average and those who are "truly" ugly (like deformations etc./the ones he is referring to). | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Is it bad to admit to a girl you haven't had sex in a long time?Sounds like you try to convince yourself that women will be turned off when you tell'em about your dry spell. To be honest: It doesn't even matter. If you continue to believe that girls will be turned off by this you'll never end up having sex with one of them. Also, there's no common opinion on that. Some women will like you more for that, some not for a various amount of reasons on both sides. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 10:25 AM |
| 1 | ConfessionFirst of all I would recommend you to take a look at /r/SuicideWatch, I'm not judging you for being depressed and showing suicide potential, I truly care and don't want you to throw away your life. But now to some fundamental things to understand: First: It's not about who's struggling or not or how hard someone works, it's about radiating emotional security (financial/material security isn't primary) and confidence. People always look up to those who can handle their shit because it inspires es… | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys do when you have an off day? When you just don't feel like your normal, confident, secure self.It's quite normal to feel off once in a time. It's like a muscle that needs regeneration or a cool-down-phase after being stimulated. Just take some time for yourself and relax. | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 09:47 AM |
| 8 | Girls I've never met "accidentally" adding you on FacebookYou: "Have we ever seen each other before?" She: "No :) lulz hihihi xD rofl" You: "Why not change it?" Done. What can happen? Either she goes with it or she says no. If she says no you haven't lost anything and even less since she "initiated" the interaction. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 03:00 PM |
| 9 | I know too many people to daygame.Sounds like an excuse. Why should it seem weird to talk to women while being seen by people who know you? | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Step 1: Don't Be ObliviousIf your self-perception is that you are not attractive than - of course - you are not attractive. What makes a person attractive? Answer that question and try to turn into that person. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Step 1: Don't Be ObliviousWhy? Why do they assume girls automatically aren't interested? This could be total bullshit but here's my explanation: The loss of social acceptance plays a huge role. The one who is investing more into someone (even if it is just a thought) is the one who is on a lower social lvl. That's because the person who invests wants something from the person he/she invests into (aka putting women on a pedestal). The thing is that this is strongly bound to how you perceive the social hierarchy. Historica… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 05:32 PM |
| 124 | Step 1: Don't Be ObliviousHow can you not be oblivious? The better advice would be "Always assume attraction" and escalate. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guys Are NOT Attractive – The Shocking Truth Behind The FriendzoneThe article doesn't really cover the underlying psychology. It's really shallow. The reason why nice-guys don't have success is because they a) don't seem confident because they b) create no friction or they a) create no friction because b) they aren't confident. | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I show an unknown girl that I like her(and find out if she likes me as well)?I think that's taken for granted ;) | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 01:54 PM |
| 9 | How do I show an unknown girl that I like her(and find out if she likes me as well)?It's only creepy if you let it be creepy. Imagine a random girl going to you and say "Hi". Isn't that weird, isn't it? Just walk up to her and say:"Hey, I see you quite often here and was wondering what you are doing." Even though you know she's like a researcher, she doesn't know that you know. And even if so, why would she decline a conversation with a guy she held eye contact with for more than the normal time? Now go out and get her, tiger! | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 10:43 PM |
| 3 | When she asks "Is that ALL you called for/wanted?"I think this one of the biggest sticky points to INTxs. (Almost) Every relationship we have needs to serve a practical purpose in our minds. The biggest challenge is to go from logic based relationships to emotion based relationships, which is a skill that we need to build. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if she is not interested or just shy?Sounds plausible. Do you know what it's like with texting? I didn't want to ask too specifically but now that you're here... ;) | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:46 AM |
| 3 | How to tell if she is not interested or just shy?Some people use this sub to build up longer relationships... | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:41 AM |
| 5 | How to tell if she is not interested or just shy?Yup, it was a good read but not the answer I was looking for. If you are just out to get a ONS, then sure, don't waste your time on girls who are not interested off the bat. But it doesn't really do justice to a person who's simply shy but otherwise a great person (not to bash shy people but you know what I mean). | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:39 AM |
| 5 | How do I escalate my kino properly and non-creepilyWe all know how this ended... | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:38 PM |
| 4 | How do I escalate my kino properly and non-creepilyGerman for "cinema" seduction-term for physical contact | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 09:43 AM |
| 6 | I've learned here a couple of maneuvers to approach and seduce a girl, which got me wondering. what are some tactics and techniques girls use on us?yup, it's /r/fPUA | /r/seduction | 06/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 13 | This is what we're all fighting: TIFU my whole life. My regrets as a 46 year old, and advice to others at a crossroad (xpost /r/tifu)Common, even if it was fake you can still learn a valuable lesson. | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Does this stuff work internationally?What's your german like? Which city are you talking about? How old are the girls you usually interact with? And what is their occupation? | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 06:14 PM |
| 5 | How to feel "worthy" of a woman?I'm 5"8' as well, but I wouldn't really consider it short. And even if it was we both couldn't change it, so why worry about something you can't change? The "baby face" thing can be fixed by growing facial hair. On top of that I'm 21 and live with my parents, don't really have >any direction with what I wanna do in life, and my current job is nothing noteworthy. I know the obvious answer is to fix the problems I've stated, but they're not quick fixes. Well, it sounds like you know where the prob… | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 09:53 AM |
| 2 | 8 Scientifically-Backed Ways To Feel More Confident (Even When You're Not)I take a guess. When you start a new thing you'll have success early on. After a while you'll realize what you've learned over a relatively short amount of time and thus be more confident. If we leave the biochemical processes out and take lifting as a thing to "learn" then you'll gain confidence the first time you see noticeable changes. | /r/seduction | 08/09/14 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Some theory for those who have trouble taking action.While this might be right, you gotta remember that every person is different and in different stages. What might be helpful for you doesn't have to be helpful for me. But I think exposure therapy is a great thing (which shouldn't be done without supervision though) and should be done right after following OP's advice. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 08:35 PM |
| 3 | #-closes don't mean shit appearantlyThat's not much info but I'll try to help. It seems as if you don't make the right impression since day 2 doesn't happen. Girls might tend to give you a(ny) number to get rid off you but I can't tell. Make plans right away and wrap the deal before getting the number. The convo should be like this (as soon as she's comfortable with you): You: "Let's grab a "beverage" at "day" at "time" at "location"!" Assume attraction and say it like you've known her for years, make it definite, don't ask but "d… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 10:31 AM |
| 17 | BF shit test aka how I fucked upYup. Other good lines: "Don't worry mine will be there, too." "He doesn't have to come if he doesn't want to." "I won't tell him." | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 09:51 PM |
| 1 | No gf. No friends. How to pass summer holidays off work?As I said, the real problem is moderation and porn works like any other drug. You get a dopamine-kick and your brain wants more. Another problem, besides the chemical reactions, is that you aren't in need of real women with access to billion minutes of porn. It's like you're an animal in a zoo: Someone feeds you which means you don't need to hunt and get disinterested in hunting. If you sent a zoo-animal into wilderness it's probably dying by starvation. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 05:25 PM |
| 2 | No gf. No friends. How to pass summer holidays off work?I second this! Cut down your fast food to a minimum, eat clean and drink lots of water. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 01:25 PM |
| -1 | No gf. No friends. How to pass summer holidays off work?It's more porn-related. Check out yourbrainonporn.com and you'll see what porn is able to cause to your brain. After all it's like alcohol, if you drink in moderation everything's fine but if you binge you cause some serious damage. It's less about wasted time but more about your brain-chemicals that cause a loss in confidence and higher voice. EDIT: On another note: It's like living of welfare, you can cover your most primitive needs but you aren't able to go out in a restaurant and buy a big j… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 01:15 PM |
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