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I'm a war vet. That wouldn't be an issue for me. But I don't consider myself a badass. That's just a normal man thing. Those women are not badasses. Like the women in the military today, they are just trying to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:05 PM
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That isn't being a badass. That's just masculine women trying to act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:33 PM
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Women can't be badasses. Women who are Army Rangers (and in the Army in general) actually weakened the military because they necessitated the lowering of standards for the sake of equal rights. I definitely wouldn't call that being a badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:19 PM
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To me, tattoos are indicative of being low class and go hand-in-hand with obnoxious behavior. I don't date women with tattoos (even hidden ones) because I assume that we have different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:13 PM
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No. It's fun for all involved. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:27 PM
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A combination of tricking them into sex and being very aggressive. A non-Chad has to do what a non-Chad has to do, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:02 PM
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Easy for you to say. You could just go on a dating app and have all of your deepest sexual desires met in minutes. Us non-Chad men actually have to put effort into things. :\
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:16 AM
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My mum says I'm a handsome young man. Does that count? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:14 AM
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Who claims to never have been complimented? I've never seen this. I'm a black pilled (certainly non-Chad) short guy and even I've been complimented on my looks by random women (and have eaves dropped on conversations where I heard woman talk about how cute I am). I think most guys know where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:15 AM
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Women's tastes are universal. They like the same things, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:12 AM
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This sub is realistic. Women do tend to like the same kinds of men and those men are usually tall and good-looking OR they have some degree of social status. Bonus points if the guy has a big dick (but he would have to get to that point for her to even judge that). If a guy is short, ugly, and has no social status, he might as well just give up on dating. No woman will like him. I'm not sure why this would stop you from dating. I don't think that there are many Chads in this sub. So it's likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:11 AM
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This is false. If a guy is really good looking, he will have tons of girls throwing themselves at him. If a guy does not have any women showing him interest, there are no girls interested in him and he shouldn't bother trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:04 AM
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PUA works (or used to work) really well. Most people (and certainly all women) don't know what it really is. Of course, I'm not and was never a super attractive guy. I'm just an average guy who was trying to get above average poon. I wanted to get girls out of my league. It worked. The whole thing was fun too. There's a lot of strategy involved. I kind of looked at it like a game of chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:56 AM
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Nah, PUA works (or at least used to work). I did a lot of pickup during its heyday (2007-2013) and I did really well. It was fun too. I loved the strategy involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:52 AM
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You talk like a Zoomer without much life experience. Here's a life lesson for you, kid: politics is nonsense and politicians are full of shit with just about everything they say. What in modern politics currently affects your life and how does it affect your life? I am hoping that you can answer these questions with a coherent statement and argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:07 AM
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Dark Triad guys are what they intentionally select for. It's what women are attracted to. I don't know many women choosing spineless betas to have wild sex with. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:18 AM
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No they're not. Most political issues don't relate to the lives of many people. I'd be far more concerned about a girl's views on money than I would about a girl's views on politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:05 AM
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Okay. You're talking about things like gangbangs. I'm talking about regular normal people dating. So your whole argument isn't super valid because it's not really pertaining to the issues being discussed. If you wanted to find a good-looking guy to fuck (no other weird fetishes, just good old fashioned fucking), you would have no problem finding one without paying or traveling for it. True or untrue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:02 AM
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Well, if he had movie start good looks, then that would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:59 AM
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Unfortunately, being tall and good-looking is the only way something like this would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:42 AM
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Oh yeah, for sure. But I did personally know some couples like this where the girl was clearly in love with him, though the guy did usually act younger and was pretty cool. Personally, I'm looking for marriage. So I don't care all that much about looks (obviously, I have to be into the girl though lol). I'm more interested in the values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:15 AM
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My point was that it's no more selfish to not want to be friends with someone for any reason than it is to not want to date someone. The fact that you want to force a guy that has feelings for you back into friendship also sounds very selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:10 AM
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I'm not offended. Why do you keep saying that? Which country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:05 AM
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No, that's being too picky. And, yes, I have driven that far for a girlfriend before. Hell, my father drove 6 hours every other weekend to see my mother when they were dating. It's not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:49 AM
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The terms of the relationship have now changed. They have the right to walk away at any time. Also, it's in bad taste to downvote opinions that are valid, but that you simply disagree with. It reflects poorly on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:45 AM
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Yes. It didn't really matter. We just didn't talk about those things. In terms of the distance, I just drove to her. It wasn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:42 AM
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My point was that things like different political views, distance, and a bad story aren't a big deal and shouldn't be disqualifiers. But because western women are so picky, they are disqualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:33 AM
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First, I'm talking about your personal genetic line, not your family's. Second, there's about a 90% chance that he won't be a Chad. Even if he is good-looking, he can struggle if he doesn't act correctly (which is very possible if his mother is a feminist). But I do agree with you: it'll definitely be better for you if you have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:30 AM
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Haha you must live upstate in bumblefuck somewhere. You must have been dying during the pandemic. Still, I'm surprised that you're only 33 and skinny and having issues finding decent people to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:21 AM
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This is the problem with western women - too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:15 AM
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It's fine if you're at a random party where no one knows you. But, yes, it's a bad idea in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:11 AM
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Then he won't be able to reproduce and your genetic line will be fucked. Also, you'll get to see what life is like for an average western guy (since the likelihood of him being Chad is slim).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:08 AM
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I haven't been able to find a girl like that (who was also a decent person that I would want to settle down with) pretty much since college. I'm fluent in a few languages and don't have an issue learning another language. In terms of converting to a religion, I actually converted to Mormonism when I was dating a Mormon girl. I have no shame in this regard. I will do what it takes. Most people I meet in real life find me to be likable and I certainly don't have an issue with carrying my own weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:07 AM
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lol bullshit. If you're skinny and not super old (I'd love to hear how old you are), you can get sex with anyone very easily. The only possibility is that you live in a very small town with literally no attractive men around (meaning that you can still get laid, but just don't want those guys). Especially if you live in the New York area, there are tons of good-looking guys everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:53 AM
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First of all, I'm not average, I'm in the top 10%. Second: I have travelled for sex. I have paid for sex. I have seen other women pay for sex. Bullshit. Women don't need to pay for sex. And they certainly don't need to travel for sex. This goes for fat women too. Stacies can literally jump on OLD and order any guy to their house for sex. Either way, didn't you say that you settled down at 18 with a 5'3 guy? ​ Sex requires effort for everyone, including top tier Stacies such as myself. The reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:49 AM
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Don't even bother, man. People in this sub literally believe that there are many men out there that would prefer a landwhale over a skinny girl. There's no hope for many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:44 AM
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Damn, you are the best female poster I've ever seen, by far. I really find it hard to believe that you're a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:42 AM
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I'm 5'6 and have been to Asia several times. I plan on moving there next year. It's much easier to make a ton of money than it is to grow taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:40 AM
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It's more like a 20-30 hour flight. In reality, all women have to do is get off their fat asses every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:39 AM
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You are rejecting the guy as a boyfriend for no fault of his own. So why should a guy care about rejecting your friendship for no fault of your own? If the guy is willing to give your friendship a chance, then you should be willing to give him a chance as your boyfriend. If not, then he is justified is in his actions. Ultimately, he does not owe you his friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:35 AM
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I'm a short white guy with a good-looking face (even western women call me cute). While I get little attention in the US and can't even find a girl in my league (not in debt, no kids, short and cute, single), it's insane the girls that I get when I go to Asia. I can throw a rock and hit 5 awesome girls in any of the countries. Planning on moving there for good next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:28 AM
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I've been to all of those places. I've seen really ugly, old dudes with really hot girls in all of these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:25 AM
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I can't believe that a woman would even say that. I'm impressed with the honesty and logical thinking, but skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:21 AM
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Damn, great comment. Are you actually a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:20 AM
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Men are not like women. We can develop feelings for someone as we get to know them. We don't just slot people in the friendzone or the fuckzone within 5 seconds of meeting them like women do. Try being more empathetic to your male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:19 AM
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Okay, then go for it. I hope you have a son in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:14 AM
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This has happened to me many times (where I met a woman that I became friends with and then developed feelings for her). As you've succinctly stated, women, the non-romantic gender, tend to only respond to instant tingles and do not develop attraction over time. So they can't understand this. That's why the friendzone exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:11 AM
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Maybe they did not befriend them initially with the intent of pursuing them romantically. It's possible that the feeling developed over time. In my experience, women either want to fuck the guy right when they meet him or he's in the friendzone. Men don't operate like this. We get to know women and start to become attracted to them with time. Then we confess our feeling and, if we get rejected, it stings. It's hard to just move on because of our limited options (average looking men and below any…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:09 AM
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Yeah, I heard that India is becoming anti-male too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:00 AM
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No, I see your gender as brainless idiots. You've barely addressed any argument at all, except to say "I know men better than you know them". Again, this is very funny coming from a feminist who I'm sure gets very offended when men claim to know more about your gender than you do. Of course, you can't see the reasoning behind this particular argument (which you've consistently failed to address) because you're a moron. Getting back to the original point, there are few (if any) guys that would pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:30 AM
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All I'm proving is that you don't know shit about men, but you're trying to be an expert. Yes, you are a typical feminist and, yes, a feminist is a bad thing. A feminist is a nasty, vile, man-hating woman. So congrats, I guess? And, like most women, you are complete shit at arguing. All you do is sling insults and never actually address any of my points, while I address all of your points, even the idiotic and insulting ones. You clearly know nothing about psychology and you have poor reasoning …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:17 AM
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This is a good thing. American women are awful people and shouldn't reproduce anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:56 AM
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Again, typical feminist. Hurr durr he says things that I don't like so he must be an incel. Moron. Anyway, you are not making any good points. You are being insulting. I can be insulting too. Men do not like fat women. Period. If they claim to, they are either lying to you or lying to themselves. I've known plenty of men like this in real life. They date fat women because they can't get pretty women. Hell, I even went slumming a few times when I was horny and there was nothing better around. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:50 AM
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I'm delusional because I know what men like? Sounds like you're the crazy one, lady. You don't know shit about what men like and what they don't like. Stick to what you do best: speaking for women. Because you're a woman. Jesus, feminists are so obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:27 AM
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Yeah, I haven't heard good things about Europe either. I didn't think it was as bad as the US though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:43 AM
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That's all well and good, but from real life situations that I've personally seen, men are fucked. Don't get married and have kids in the US if you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:58 PM
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Being that I'm not neither a fat nor skinny woman, it is not a harsh reality for me. However, you are simply wrong, uninformed, and somewhat defensive about this. Skinny = hot. I guess you missed the memo. I don't think you understand men and what they like. It's funny that so many feminists throw a shitfit whenever a guy talks about what women like and how they think. Then they proceed to tell me (a guy) what men like and how we think. Go figure. ETA: No offense, but I'm not searching through y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:49 PM
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I think you are trying to justify being fat here (I'm guessing you're fat). I'm a guy. I know guys. And no guy would take a fat woman over a skinny woman. It just wouldn't happen if the guy had options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:02 PM
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If I were an American woman, I would not date myself. The first statement is my shortcoming and the second statement is what I would think if I were a girl. Why? I'm short (why date a short guy when I could have an average height or tall guy?) I do have adequate social skills and most people like me, but I don't like being social (why date a guy who isn't social when I could date a guy that is very social?) I have an average size penis (why date a guy who is just average when I can date a guy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:43 PM
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No, men are not turned on by fat chicks. They may rationalize their lack of ability to attract actually attractive women by saying that they like unattractive women, but they don't actually like fat women. I'm a guy. I know what guys like. There are certain things that are attractive across the board. One of those things is being skinny. Just like no woman truly would prefer a short guy over a tall guy, no man would prefer a fat woman over a skinny woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:02 PM
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It's possible that something might come out like that within the next 10-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:00 PM
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Oh yeah, I'm absolutely aware of this. I would have to put in crazy amounts of effort just so a fat cow could use all of my money on food and then divorce rape me. No thanks. Even if I had fat women throwing themselves at me, which did happen in the past (I'm a bit older than most here so I find it humorous that having land whales chase you around is now worthy of bragging rights, whereas when I was in college, it was embarrassing), I would still not be interested. I'd choose the hot hooker eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:58 PM
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Men are thirsty and desperate and there are not many skinny women out there. So of course some guys would get with the fat girl. They don't have any other options and they're super horny with low standards. I'm just saying what I would rather do, personally. However, it's worth noting that I don't deal with women at all. But, if you put a gun to my head, I would definitely pick the hot prostitute over the fat girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:54 PM
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Does that benefit me personally in the long run? I'm not so sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:51 PM
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Hmmm....but are there really many loving wives these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:33 AM
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Well, I rarely see women here (or anywhere else) singing the praises of men. Why would men care about women and their issues if women don't care about men and their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:30 AM
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I'm an average looking guy. I'd rather fuck a hot hooker than be desired by a fat chick (and fat women are now considered average so I guess that would be my looks-match).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:24 AM
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Yeah, that sounds pretty awful, but not surprising based on what I've read. Hopefully, some good sex dolls will come out for you guys soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:20 AM
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Interesting. I'm a millennial. I had trouble dating early on, but read PUA and adjusted my behaviors and then I started have a lot of success (despite not being a specimen of physical perfection). It sounds like this is no longer possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:48 PM
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I don't meet people from your generation often. Just wondering what your dating experience has been like. Do you foresee a lot of your generation getting married or just staying perpetually single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:21 PM
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