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Given the context of your post, it implies that you think 30+ is "older". Moreover, you mistake "men prefer younger women" for "men don't like older women" and the two statements are not congruent. A preference for one does not mean a dislike of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:50 AM
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Your very first sentence is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:46 AM
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Abortion doesn’t abandon a child. And this is why you are not a serious person. You can advocate for the murder of a child, but not the abandoning of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:37 AM
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Whatever you say. There's nothing to be gained from a conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:35 AM
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You mistake me commenting on your derangement for wanting to have a conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:23 AM
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Your rant is deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:41 AM
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To put it plainly, the whole OP is gynocentrism smuggling. Perfect summary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:27 PM
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Who here says that men should leave their wives because she's aged? Find me one. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:08 AM
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Women willingly date ex cons and drug dealers. I don't listen to them when they start talking about "red flags".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:21 AM
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A loving life partner It's far easier to find that outside of the United States if we want that kind of thing. Given the divorce rate and who initiates them, it's a bad bet. Family Same as above. Sex You don't need to be in a relationship to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:45 AM
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We do not care if you think it is "cowardly". Until Western women can give men an incentive to date them, we will act in our own best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:41 AM
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Lots of words to miss my point. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:15 PM
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Quit the bullshit. It's not an attempt to shame women's preferences. It is pointing out the absurdity of caring about a man's height while simultaneously demanding men not care about women's weight despite one of the two being controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 09:47 PM
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Quit your gaslighting. Telling women they aren't entitled to protection is a response to their entitlement of thinking that they are owed something from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:07 PM
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You're telling him to "pick better" when the problem is women shaming him for the profession that he is in regardless of how lucrative or successful it is. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:18 AM
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18 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:14 AM
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Who is better at building houses: the person who builds ten houses that fall down, or the person who builds one house that stands for a hundred years?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 11:21 PM
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Men are not good at building friendships HAHAHAHAHAH Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:19 PM
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Because people work to alleviate the loneliness of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 06:12 PM
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Everyone is lonely. People just care about female suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:52 PM
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Women who allow men to mistreat them place themselves beneath those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:33 PM
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Middle aged and dating a nice woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:50 AM
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Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:15 PM
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The point I'm making is that married women are just as capable of paternity fraud. Please don't act like you missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:04 PM
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Because married women never cheat, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:48 PM
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Guys that don't get it don't want to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:14 PM
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No, it isn't their confidence. It's their looks. Confidence without looks is seen as posturing and women don't like it. It earns mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:14 PM
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Bet that he won't get any substantial response from the usual man haters because he brought actual data and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:10 PM
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I mean, to do that you'd have to ask about the specific person in question. I'll give you some examples: I have a friend named Wanda and she's got the biggest and most forgiving heart of anyone I've ever met. Vanessa is reminds me that no matter how strong I get, there's always someone putting in more work. [Name redacted] is such a damn tramp, but she leans into it and I'm here for it! (No, we've never even kissed btw) If you point to any woman in my life (just like the men) and ask "why do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:11 AM
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I'm an egalitarian. I respect people, regardless of gender, based on their character, actions, and how they treat me. The problem that I notice a lot of women have is that they don't want to be given the treatment that men get - they want preferential treatment because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:55 AM
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Don't confuse red pill with what individuals who are red pilled may think. Red pill doesn't talk about anything outside of approaching intersexual relationships from a reality and outcome based approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:53 AM
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Most young women aren't alone, most young men are. This is why her whole post is bullshit and I didn't even bother engaging. It's wildly out of touch with actual reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:16 PM
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That's a bad take. We just don't respect them any more than people respect men who use their physical strength to take things. It's the easy way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:24 AM
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I don't have the fucking time!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:02 AM
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Like everyone I keep in my life, I enjoy the women. I don't allow people in my life that hurt me or detract value. Women aren't some kind of exception to that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:26 AM
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The trick is determining what you need vs what you want. My current girlfriend checks all my "need" boxes, so she can get away with the "this is fucking annoying" stuff. Edit: and she has a little dog too!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:09 AM
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Nobody can, and the pursuit of "it all" only leads to misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:53 AM
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Shit, I'll trade you. My woman is a god damn warhorse and sometimes I just want to watch "is it cake" in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:44 AM
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Sorry man, but you're wrong. Women do love sex. They just want it with attractive men. Your entire post is loser talk. Any attractive man can tell you that moving through the world of women is easy because most men aren't aren't attractive. You can cope, you can deny, or you can grab your fucking dick and do what you have to do to win. To directly address your post, a lot of men (and women) stop doing the things that create attraction when they get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:40 AM
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Because we can tell the difference between someone who is posting fitness content and some slattern who is linking her OnlyFools.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:58 AM
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Whatever you say. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:57 PM
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If you can't see that linking a person's economic standing with their character is fallacious thinking and why I reject it when we live in a society where people work multiple jobs just to survive and there are literal criminals who have exorbitant wealth, then I cannot explain it to you. I reject fallacious positions and opinions because they aren't worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:53 PM
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Good counter argument. Very well reasoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:40 PM
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I see it. I just reject it. It's a false assumption that we have that poverty is directly linked to some sort of character or moral failing. We have multiple examples of unscrupulous and immoral people who have great wealth as well as people with integrity and work ethic who struggle to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:58 AM
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I see it. I just reject it. It's a false assumption that we have that poverty is directly linked to some sort of character or moral failing. We have multiple examples of unscrupulous and immoral people who have great wealth as well as people with integrity and work ethic who struggle to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:57 AM
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No, that's not how words work. Broke is defined as "having completely run out of money" - you don't get to ascribe other things to it to suit your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:20 AM
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Why is it weird? I work hard to maintain my body. A fat woman is not only unappealing to me, it runs (or rather, 'doesn't run' /rimshot) counter to my lifestyle. What you're doing is how fat people cope with being fat rather than fixing their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:43 PM
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You are. It's amazing that you think you know my preferences better than I do. This just goes back to women not liking or understanding when men have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:42 PM
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If she has all 5, then I'm good. Less than that, I'm less likely to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:41 PM
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In that exact order Edit: you edited your question, and I can't answer your edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:55 PM
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I don't know why you're trying to tell me what my preferences are. It's fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:32 PM
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I don't mind ugly. I don't mind low libido. Those aren't the things that make a relationship last.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:26 PM
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Those are my green flags. I recognize how hard it is to meet those requirements so I don't tack on extraneous bullshit that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:03 PM
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I have seen women I know support their actually broke musician live in boyfriends They are, by your own words, broke. I bet they're attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:42 PM
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Nothing pisses me off more than a male feminist. Like, my guy, you're a wolf wearing sheep's clothes and we all see through it. At least with me, you know you're getting a wolf. Male feminists don't respect women at all - they think women are too stupid to realize that they're just manipulating feminist goals, language, and spaces in order to get access to women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:35 AM
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It's actually kind of sad that this is real. I've had women tell me "you're too nice" before I figured out how they work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:32 AM
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In this podcast clip a woman explains how she feels bored and uncomfortable when males treat her well. Read that again. Remember it. It's important. The problem is not her. Did you remember? Good. Because she is ABSOLUTELY THE FUCKING PROBLEM IN HER LIFE. She gets uncomfortable when a man treats her well. She gets bored when a man treats her well. You know what that means? It means she is comfortable being treated like shit. She is excited about being treated like shit. What you need to stop and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:29 AM
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Well, we both know that the previous post was a prime example of how women purposely push blue pilled nonsense in order to keep men supplying them with free attention, time, and resources. RP truth: Women will never tell you how to attract them. It is not in their interest for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:21 AM
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There we go. You just saved me a whole lot of typing. Edit: nevermind, I couldn't leave it alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:18 AM
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Well, when a man is asking that question, he isn't asking about your money. We expect women to date as if they're broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:10 AM
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You keep making this assertion, but you haven't given any data to back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:06 AM
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The standards of economic success are different for men. As unfair as it is, that's what it is. A woman making 55K is viewed as "making it" but a man making the same amount is seen as "broke".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:05 AM
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[Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:04 AM
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Fit Feminine Friendly Fun Family-oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:21 AM
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Wealth isn't a factor that most men filter for in women. Due to the nature of female hypergamy, it's somewhat expected that men will date down economically. The only relevant question is "does she offer enough to offset the economic loss of dating her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:19 AM
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You know what, I was really unfair to you. I just get a bit jaded after a while with voting I fully understand that feeling. It's hard participating and feeling like it doesn't do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:24 AM
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You said every bill gets voted on I mean, do you want me to schoolhouse rock this for you? As a native born American I only see immigrants parrot that shit Well I was born here so your no true Scotsman doesn't stand. I don't believe the founding fathers would have appreciated conflicts like the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, I agree, but we're talking about voting and the transfer of political power. Your red herring doesn't stand. I can say with 100% confidence their deaths meant nothing, yet many …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:55 PM
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This sounds good from a female perspective. What's not to like? A plethora of men who will flood you with attention, energy, time, and resources while their own interests are conveniently ignored. For men, this is a losing strategy. If I am romantically interested, not making it known only gives other men an opportunity to move in. If I am romantically interested, I am not trying to put myself in a position where you see me like a brother. This isn't Alabama, we don't marry our siblings. If I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:22 PM
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I have a feeling you aren't American, Wrong. this is so naive that I can't believe you subscribe to it You haven't demonstrated that anything I've said isn't true, you've only made personal attacks. It really speaks to the strength of your position. And a way to control people This is the view of someone who has abandoned the very hope of the founding fathers. Do me and every other voter a favor - sit elections out. You aren't informed enough to make a good choice and by sitting out you'll only …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:10 PM
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This is retarded (in part). On a micro level, you're right. The majority of your life is dictated by your choices in your decisions in real time. Most politics even of the state and local level doesn't have a day-to-day impact on the life you live or the quality of it. On a macro level? Voting obviously changes the course of nations. Literally every bill that has ever been signed into law in this country has been voted on by people who have been voted in. Every bill signed every bill vetoed has …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:38 PM
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Maybe not a specific policy If you want policy that benefits you from Republicans, you better be wealthy. Otherwise, "fuck you" is their answer. Seriously, what policy did this recently elected administration campaign on? republicans usually advocate for Christian, family oriented living. With their words, maybe. But only a fucking rube would listen to what someone says instead of watching what someone does, right? ...right? I mean, there's no way that an entire party of multiple-divorced sex pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:32 PM
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there isn't conscription at all in the USA :) He's referring to the fact that men are required to sign up for the draft. Please stop pretending you don't know what he means. I thought you wanted gender neutral laws? Is maternity fraud even possible? Please stop pretending that there is an equivalency here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:19 PM
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It's always bait with you. You post an obviously absurd and inflammatory title, then you write a small novella (or post a video rather than making your own argument) that's loosely related. When people respond telling you that you're insane, you run to "you didn't read the post" as if anyone wants to wade through the morass that are your fake scenarios and thoughts. Or, you make snarky comments that should be getting reported for contentless rhetoric (how you haven't gotten reported yet eludes m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:09 AM
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No no no no, see, it's only sexual assault if a man does it. Clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:06 AM
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The day my wife/girlfriend says "you touched me without permission" is the day I start looking for a woman who actually likes my presence. I understand consent for sex, but if I want to give you a hug and I need to get express consent, then we're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:05 AM
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Men: if you have a wife that demands explicit consent to be touched, divorce her and find a woman who actually loves you. Honestly this shit is wild. Imagine "loving" someone and making them walk on eggshells like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:03 AM
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You're doing that thing where your title is a clear position, but your post is an unhinged rant that is loosely related to the title and crammed with extraneous bullshit, then you get mad when people don't respond to your ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:01 AM
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You're doing that thing where your title is a clear position, but your post is an unhinged rant that is loosely related to the title and crammed with extraneous bullshit, then you get mad when people don't respond to your ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:59 AM
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I'm glad you responded. The premise was full of bullshit that I couldn't have addressed in a manner that wasn't insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:36 AM
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Only unattractive men say this. You just said that men have to be romantic or they won't get sex. Plenty of hot guys have sex with zero romance. Again, romance is necessary for unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:59 PM
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Thats exactly why dudes who dont have a lot of sex options resort to dinner dates w women just to have sex with them, because they know without romancing them they wouldn't get the sex Romance is a tool of unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:19 AM
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The standard blue pill lies: Just be yourself Women like romantic guys *Looks don't matter" I mean, that's just off the top of my head. The fact is this: if you're attractive enough, you write your own rules. Women don't give a shit about anything else if you're hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:42 AM
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If we are mad at anything, it's the lies we were told. TRP is about opening your eyes to intersexual dynamics as they are. It's rough at first, because nobody likes realizing they've been duped, but in the end RP men get better outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:32 AM
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the average woman can easily get a 6ft charismatic rich guy by swiping on a dating app for a few minutes. The average woman can get fucked by that guy. But women usually don't like trading sex for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:31 AM
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You're proving my point, radish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:29 AM
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That it's better to know that a woman desires you for you rather than the uncertainty of wondering if she's just with you for the stuff you provide? Sorry, I don't have a scientific study in APA format to reference for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:52 PM
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I've heard about this from some guys. About how they liked a girl, but she didn't want him. He tries to move on and date other girls, but then the original girl gets jealous and possessive. Congratulations, you found a narcissist. Women like to bandy that word about as if - for some reason - every guy they date is a "gAsLiGHTinG NarcIssIsT". It's projection. What you have here is a woman who loves the energy and attention that you're giving her, but she doesn't want to give you anything in retur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:39 AM
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If you are attractive, a woman will remove obstacles from your path, ignore red flags, and cut others off to be near you. If you aren't attractive, that's when you have to jump through hoops to keep her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:29 AM
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Usually, I don't agree with you but...two out of three is a change! Confirmation bias. These guys WANT to believe women have unrealistic standards so they focus on women that confirm their beliefs. Women, generally, do have standards that are unrealistic, but not because they're unattainable. They're unrealistic because they don't want the things that come with attaining the goal. If a woman wants a man to check all the boxes, she has to ask herself "am I the kind of woman that man wants? And wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:27 AM
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Because the fact is that plenty of women marry men they aren't attracted to, but the lack of attraction is offset by other things. That's why it's infinitely better to be the guy she's only attracted to for sex and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:08 AM
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It isn't a surprise to those of us who took the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:40 AM
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But sure, keep trying to tell me you know better. 🙄 You can take my comment however you please. It wasn't about you, it was highlighting that women will put men in one of four boxes based on if he is attractive/unattractive and/or relationship viable or not. But you can get all offended. Don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:19 AM
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This is perfect. Some dudes I just wanted to have sex with. Attractive, but not viable for commitment Some dudes I wanted to have sex and spend time with. Attractive and viable for commitment Some dudes I wanted to be friends with. Unattractive, but viable for commitment Some dudes I ignored and rejected. Unattractive and not viable for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:09 AM
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I find that this is absolutely true. Remember, the golden rule: Be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:07 AM
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Yes, as I said the rates are equivalent until 50ish. Highest divorce rates are the 25-39 bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:10 PM
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No, you tried the "women are wonderful" defense. Not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:58 PM
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Those men exist. But would you respect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:53 PM
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I said women initiate divorce more and you blamed men. So I removed men from the equation to see if men were really the cause. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:52 PM
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Okay whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 AM
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Then why are you on a debate post when you dont want to debate? Oh I'm here to debate the things I disagree with. Namely, the generalization of your title. Your post isn't really controversial. Assholes do asshole things, news at 11. That isnt a flex to come on to a debate and get upset when someone gives you a reply, You got upset that I didn't respond in the way you like, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 AM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:26 AM
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Even if you're admitting you only read the title (lol The title is the only thing I felt the need to respond to. As I said, the title and your post aren't related. One is a mass generalization (which always goes over well here) and the other is specific examples of assholes being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:15 AM
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Again, take it up with the men who are doing it. My response was to the assertion in her title. Edit: when I see someone who isn't my type, I just ignore them. I have other things to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:51 AM
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You do this bullshit all the time. You say an inflammatory thing in your title that merits a direct response then make a wall of text that isn't related to the title. I'm not interested in your observations of what some men do. Take it up with them. I'm interested in your direct shaming of men who have standards that you either doesn't meet or don't approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:46 AM
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She does this bullshit all the time. She says an inflammatory thing in her title that merits a direct response then makes a wall of text that isn't related to the title. I'm not interested in her observations of what some men do. Take it up with them. I'm interested in her direct shaming of men who have standards that she either doesn't meet or doesn't approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:45 AM
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I don't care about your disclaimer. You don't want people giving you responses, then keep your bullshit out the public space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:42 AM
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I don't care about your disclaimer. You don't want people giving you responses, then keep your bullshit out the public space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:41 AM
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You know what's sad about it? If you tell women "men like young fit women with no kids", women don't think "hmmm well, I can get fit and not get pregnant and that will increase my dating options!" No, they think "men are assholes", they do the opposite, then get mad when men don't want them. Men can't get away with that. Imagine a man saying "I'm just gonna eat Cheetos and live in my basement and never shower" then acting like women are the problem when they don't want him. He get laughed out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:34 AM
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You can't shame us into preferring (all other factors being equal): Single moms over women without children We will always be number 3 (at best) to this woman and we don't have any investment. We would literally be wasting our time, attention, and resources on the child of another man that could be going towards our own children. Older women over younger women There is nothing an older woman has more of that a man values than a younger woman does and far more downsides to contend with. Fat women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:23 AM
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You’re changing the subject. No, you changed the subject. I asked who is walking out of marriages more, and you attempted to obfuscate and make excuses for women so I pointed out that relationships with no men (lesbians) have the highest rate of failure and relationships with only men (gay men) have the highest rate of success. Argue with the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:35 AM
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Again, you fail to respond to the point. You can call me emotional if you want, I'm only responding to your logic-free response. Don't be mad at me for calling you out. Be mad at your failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:33 AM
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The data do not support that assertion. Feel free to present the data you have. Also, men being insufferable assholes so that their partner leaves is a thing. Ah, the "women are wonderful" effect. Why do lesbians have higher divorce rates than heterosexual couples and gay men? Also, women doing the paperwork for a mutually agreed on split is a thing. This is speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:31 AM
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The core of TRP isn't harmful to anyone except women who seek to manipulate men. TRP is about understanding intersexual dynamics as they are instead of how they're presented. The rest is what individuals do with that knowledge. Unfortunately, many people find it due to their failure with women and are drawn towards PUA bullshit (because they see it as a solution to their primary problem).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:23 AM
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Every argument for abortion can be used to support financial abortion. I don't care either way, I've given up on humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:17 AM
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What does your husband say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:14 AM
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what makes you guys think finding someone to marry is voluntary? It's precisely that. What you are proposing here is that a woman should get married with a guy even though she's not 100% sure. I'm gonna let you in on something: decisions are rarely made with absolute certainty. In fact, I challenge you to present a single significant choice that you've made with absolute certainty. What we do, to varying degrees of success, is factor in risks and try to mitigate/manage them when we make our deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:13 AM
1

Shaming language AND a failure to respond to anything he said? From a blue-pilled feminist? Who saw that coming?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:05 AM
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Ah yes, because I know abusers are the ones leaving their victims. First, women abuse men too. Second, why do lesbians have higher divorce rates than heterosexual couples and gay men? Tapdance around that. The rest of your post is just dross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:01 AM
1

Men and women cheat at equivalent rates (until you get past 50ish) Who is walking out of marriages more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:14 AM
2

why would women choose to waste their "good years" by getting married at 20 If you don't want to, don't. Literally nobody is forcing women to get married. With that said, it's your best opportunity to secure the best quality husband that you can. becoming a bangmaid to a man that will find them old and ugly in 10 years time Men are more loyal than women are and far less likely to initiate divorce. Moreover, your use of "bangmaid" tells us exactly how biased you are and how you see marriage. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:39 PM
2

Fine. Don't vote. Men will vote and when we get to the "your body, my choice" phase act of this play, you can rest easy knowing that you did everything EXCEPT decide who is in office making policy, appointing judges, and passing laws. GOOD LUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:46 PM
1

If you're gonna pretend that a woman's age isn't directly linked to birth defects, then we can't have a discussion because you aren't dealing in facts. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:24 PM
1

Fine. Link ONE study that shows the odds of a woman having a healthy baby at that age. Your rant doesn't mean shit to me. I listen to medical experts. https://eirmc.com/blog/entry/is-there-a-best-age-to-get-pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:46 PM
1

Please cite even ONE medical journal that recommends women have kids at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:38 PM
2

As an aside, I'm a hot misogynist. Women aren't going to "cut me off" over politics because women are as sexually motivated as men are. Why do you think women routinely sleep with men who clearly don't respect them and treat them like total garbage? That's another reason your idea is dumb. It flies in the face of observable reality. If women won't even organize to vote against this nonsense, you think they're gonna put aside their sexual imperative as a collective? Sure, you might get a couple w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:27 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:45 AM
2

women are not a hive mind so we will never be perfectly aligned and there will always be women who value different things. By that logic, neither are men and nobody should be considering punishing them en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:39 AM
2

Fine, but I don't wanna hear shit about 4B or how women should hold men accountable for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:16 AM
3

You're making the claim, back it up with facts instead of snark.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:05 AM
3

That's not how contracts work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:52 AM
2

they will not answer in good faith I know. They can't admit that, while not perfect, the western woman is the most cared for, empowered, and protected class of women in the world. The mere fact that women, if they really gave a shit as a collective, can literally decide our government should tell you how much power they have as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:49 AM
2

I'm pretty sure the reason a lot of women didn't vote is because while many do want a woman as president, we want one who actually represents us rather than war interests. Yes, refrain from voting for the candidate who isn't perfect. That's a good strategy when they're running against a literal rapist who is one of the main reasons you lost reproductive rights. Surely that will send a message. Surely, you will finally be heard. This is why Democrats lose all the fucking time. If there were an el…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:45 AM
4

Women are more emotionally intelligent than men I'm sick of hearing this bullshit. By what metric is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:37 AM
3

They don't want to have sex with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:37 AM
3

/grabs popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:35 AM
7

Why is it my job to pressure other men into acting in a way that they perceive isn't in their best interest when women cannot even be bothered to do the bare fucking minimum to protect their own rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:34 AM
3

It's a thing undesirable women use as a cope as to why the men they openly loathe don't want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:33 AM
2

The women who don't get on board will be awash in male attention and the perks that come with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:32 AM
4

Because the last Gender War won them everything they wanted, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:31 AM
5

Women don't care. They refused to do the most direct, effective, and influential thing they could do. The rest is dross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:14 AM
5

Because the context of this entire damn post began with "after the recent election..." Implying that the OP thinks that the 4B movement should be embraced as a result of the election. Hell her whole post was explicitly political and how normal political actions like voting don't work. I swear, feminists just like to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:17 AM
11

Your anger is pointed at the wrong place. Did men vote for Donald Trump? Sure. But men also voted for Harris. If women actually gave a shit they would have shown up to vote. Women voters outnumber men voters. Even if every single man said "fuck women and their rights", if women bothered to show up for their own freedoms and rights, it wouldn't be an issue. Really, this is just blaming men for women's actions. You all have the right to vote yet you're blaming men for not doing enough to protect y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:39 AM
31

If you want a prenup that isn't going to get tossed out, here is what you do. Get a lawyer to draft it before you even get engaged. Have her lawyer review it. Have a notary present when you both sign it, no later than 6 months before the wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:16 AM
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You're full of shit. He wasn't trying to overturn jack shit He and his sycophants spread lies that the election was stolen for months then he called for his supporters for a "stop the steal" rally. Id believe you if, at any time, he told them to go home. But he didn't. His staff asked him to stop them. He didn't. You're a bigger idiot than the traitors on Jan 6. and requested additional National Guardsmen to protect the Capitol in case they didn't listen to him. The Commanding General of the D.C…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:24 AM
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If immigration were actually the issue, voters would have rebuked Trump - border apprehensions and turn backs were still being done under title 42 during the Biden administration. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-65574725.amp Moreover, Trump had his Republican allies kill a border bill that would have added funding and manpower for CBP solely because Trump wanted to campaign on the border. https://www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/politics/trump-proposes-adding-10000-border-patrol-agents-after-de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:11 AM
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Of course people have a bad perception of Democrats - there's a massive disinformation campaign that's been waged since Watergate and the electorate has gotten increasingly disengaged and lazy so they don't bother to take the time to discern the truth from the outright lies. I'll give the Republican party this - they're damned effective at doing the things to get into power. They just tend to fuck shit up once they're in office.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:46 AM
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You're spewing nonsense in defense of a man who attempted to overturn an election and almost got a vice president lynched. Shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:43 AM
5

This whole movement is pitting woman against woman and it's sad to see. Like it or not, dating is competitive. There are more women wanting marriage than men wanting to offer it. Bemoaning the competition becoming global isn't going to solve your problem. It's the easy way out. Yes, because it's easy to become a man who has the disposable income and free time to travel around the world. /Eyeroll Western males need to step up and rise to the occasion. These men have done just that, and now that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:56 AM
-2

Feminist. Can't ever date them. If a woman used to sleep around, I wouldn't care so long as she got on my program. Feminists are unable to submit to save their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:37 AM
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I, personally, lose nothing from a Trump presidency (outside of the dangers of a fascist with unlimited governmental power and Carte Blanche to abuse it) and I still couldn't vote for Trump for a multitude of personal and political failings that he has. What blows my mind is that any woman did vote for him knowing what we know about him and his political history and agenda. If women actually voted in the numbers they should be, we would be having a much different next 4 (lol, who am I kidding?) …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:35 AM
3

Wild, that men (who you say only want casual sex) are the ones that do the overwhelming majority of proposals. Get out your own fart-bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:17 PM
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I had a whole thing, but I'll let the liberal commie Cato Institute say it. https://www.cato.org/publications/separating-tariff-facts-tariff-fictions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:52 PM
1

I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:38 PM
1

So you want her to "change" (i.e. be someone else) Assuming she couldn't do that, is there anything she can say or do that will make you attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:09 AM
1

No. I think that strength is for two reasons: Protecting the weak Laying low the proud I'm not saying to defend women because they're women, I'm saying to defend those weaker than you because there is honor in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:41 AM
1

You, sir...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:34 AM
3

Fine , let's run a thought experiment. If you met a woman whom you found repulsive, what could she say or do that would make her attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:33 AM
5

You're an ugly nerd with a hot body. That is a niche that pays dividends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:25 PM
20

Red pill rule: You cannot negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:15 PM
70

There are no unfair standards if you can accept the competition that comes with them. You can demand whatever you want from the dating market but the dating market is not obligated to give it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:05 PM
2

Notice how she didn't argue with what you said, but with what she thought you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:20 AM
4

Again, no. It isn't. Let's go through her response: I know men want value women for sex it's all they think about. I did not say this. This is an aspersion she is putting onto men because of her trauma. nothing else about the woman matters to them. I did not say this. Again, more trauma. Moreover, reality does not bear this out. We have plenty of examples of men literally dying for women and their safety. Exactly a man would put their dick in anything. I did not say this. I said that a man will …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:39 AM
-1

It isn't what I wrote. It's a take on what I wrote that a damaged woman would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:09 AM
0

I like how you saw what I wrote and said "fuck that, I'm gonna draw my own conclusions regardless of what I just read." Well done. /Sarcastic clap
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:06 AM
2

If you don't understand why, then you don't understand what men value from women. A man will put his dick into a woman he cares nothing for, so long as she doesn't add complications to his life or demand anything from him except dick. We don't have to want a relationship with a woman to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:43 AM
2

As a man, you earn your respect. You want validation, you go out there and make something of yourself. Here's the thing: men don't enjoy easy validation. It's empty. It leaves us wanting. The validation we crave comes through triumph and other successful men raising their glasses to us. Your recommendation is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:00 AM
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Well, around here, a man who doesn't cave to women is a huge piece of shit. Edit: I was tempted to reply "Jennifer is quite happy with me, KEVIN. But I'm glad you approve."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:48 AM
1

The gender that initiates 70% of the divorces needs to shut up forever about broken homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:52 AM
3

Thank you for demonstrating why marriage is a thing that men should avoid. Imagine a man saying "Yeah I broke apart my family. She didn't do anything wrong, I just wasn't happy." Modern women are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:23 PM
1

PULL MY HAIR DOMMY MOMMY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:55 AM
1

I'm a masculine dude but unless she's into pegging I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:55 AM
42

Then why do women use "incel" and "Virgin" as insults for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:48 PM
1

Red pill is simply one thing: Understanding intersexual dynamics and then making your own choices. The rest is shit that people tack onto it based on their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:20 PM
4

God that show was vomit inducing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:19 PM
2

Mostly because it's poorly written drivel that feeds into delusional thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:18 PM
1

They have a lot of anger at two people deciding what they want for themselves, don't they? I suspect all of it comes from women who have never been married and have no prospects, so they see any man who doesn't want to get married as a perpetrator of the most heinous crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:43 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of women want marriage. You don't get to speak for her. If she wanted marriage she would either speak up or find a man that does. he's just using her and keeping her around Using her for what? We are both two grown adults who know what we want from our relationship. He is isolating her from other men I am not isolating her whatsoever. She's free to come and go as she pleases. You are making a stupid assumption. that could give her what she really wants I'm giving her wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:17 PM
0

Really, why do you have a problem with what two people agree to in a relationship? It literally has zero effect on you, yet you're clearly bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:14 PM
4

Well, I'm glad your compassion and empathy are taking the reins here. I was just looking at all the responses and I ran across this. What a fucking joke. I'll be sure to show her this thread when I get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:13 PM
0

Whatever you say lady. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:32 PM
1

And dude I don't care about your answers I know, because you asked in bad faith. We're done here. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:18 PM
1

Again, your mixture of assumptions and projection have coalesced into an emotional argument rather than a logical one. I'm not here to argue against your feelings. I answered your questions - it isn't my problem that the answers aren't satisfactory for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:51 PM
1

No it's an ethical argument. Now you're actually making points rather than just having an emotional reaction. Which is why I'm not going to just dismiss you this time. Does she openly and adamantly ssy that she doesn't want marriage? We agreed that we aren't getting married. Have you discussed this with her? Yes Do you even care about her wants or is it all about you? Why is it that women assume that all other women want marriage and that anything less is "wasting her life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:37 PM
0

Oh no the bitter woman is upset at my happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:20 PM
1

Not at all Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:16 PM
3

Not my fault you can't understand that she's an independent person who is capable of not only making her own decisions, but that not all women want what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:15 PM
1

Whatever you say, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:06 PM
2

It's quite telling isn't it? These "feminists" get awfully mad when a woman chooses to be in a kind of relationship that they themselves disapprove of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:31 PM
4

I'll give you the reply I gave to another user because it fits: I'm not dodging anything. You're making an assumption that she doesn't want the same thing I want for two reasons: You're assuming she doesn't have the freedom, agency, or ability to leave a situation she doesn't want to be in You're projecting your emotions onto her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:30 PM
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I'm not dodging anything. You're making an assumption that she doesn't want the same thing I want for two reasons: You're assuming she doesn't have the freedom, agency, or ability to leave a situation she doesn't want to be in You're projecting your emotions onto her It's kind of fucking pathetic that you're doing it and then framing it as me dodging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:29 PM
0

Because you know that your point is a non sequitur?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:56 AM
1

Your personal attacks and complete lack of debate only proves me right. I won't even report you for this - I invite you to try again with an actual rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:55 AM
2

I think you misunderstood me. I'm saying that she and I have discussed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:54 AM
2

Do I need to be married to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:53 AM
1

This is an emotional argument and it also speaks to how women don't respect the agency of other women. Did you ever stop to consider that she wants this as well, since she's a thinking agent who is free to leave a relationship that isn't suitable to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:53 AM
2

No, she's over here enough though (/sigh)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:51 AM
3

One question? Does your girlfriend know about this? Yes Me personally? I would dump the guy right away if he just plans on keeping me to pay half the bills forever with no ring. Fuck that noise. You do your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:51 AM
3

Namely, legal rights to my shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:50 AM
12

We've discussed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:33 AM
6

Whatever you say. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:33 AM
4

You're asking women for advice on how to deal with women. GOOD FUCKING LUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:14 AM
12

No marriage. Ever. In the current environment, there is nothing that a man needs to be married to gain and a lot that he can lose from being married. I have a great girlfriend (she's 46, I'm 42) and I plan on keeping her forever. But I will never marry her. It puts me in a position of legal and financial vulnerability that doesn't make sense in any other context.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:02 AM
2

It isn't my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:53 AM
8

I would imagine that it's the same problem that women have: We are pulled in by physical attraction, but we don't realize that it takes that and then some for a long term relationship. Pair that with the fact that most people aren't self aware, then you have your answer and that isn't even factoring in the mask that people first put up to attract others in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:15 PM
8

Whatever you say. You aren't really doing anything except demonstrating you can't debate your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:36 PM
9

This is how you admit you're unable to provide a retort. I get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:29 PM
6

Simply saying "nope" isn't a valid rebuttal. Maybe you can try something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:27 PM
42

You mean the line they give to the men they're happy to keep around to do stuff for them, but will never give them a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:29 AM
3

What are the "good" qualities of the "good guy" who struggles with dating? What are his values and behaviors that demonstrate them? When we discuss the "good" guy, it's through the lens of behaviors in men that women find acceptable. That's why it's a trap for men to try to fit that mold because it doesn't put them in a position to get what they want, but to provide women with the things that they want. "Good" men are told that they need to be willing to sacrifice for women, to never question a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:28 AM
3

Whatever you say. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:53 PM
4

Whatever you say. I'm not really interested in debating your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:22 PM
7

Projection, a short story by u/Sharp_Engineering379
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:04 PM
3

I've often wondered why they would give me the time of day. I basically earn nothing. Let me tell you why: I'm 6'3 That right there puts you in the upper 90th percentile and a lot of women place value on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:48 PM
5

Ah, another day, another set of bad assumptions. First, you aren't asking in good faith because you think you already have the answers. "It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows." -Epictetus But I'll answer as if you actually cared about what men think. Why not seek someone with more education and intelligence as your partner? It's not a factor in our dating calculus. All other things being equal, we wouldn't mind but the problem is (with the education part) that to ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:46 PM
1

No. I see it as cheating (along with tattoos). If I want to augment my looks I'll do it the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:42 PM
0

I interacted before she was snarky. Once the snark turned on, I lost interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:43 AM
-2

Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:23 AM
-6

Romance? Fuck that just give me what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:00 AM
11

Always posting the weirdest strawmen shit period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:53 PM
2

Unless my inaction would cause harm, I am far less inclined to help women without prompting. A history of entitlement paired with ingratitude has left a bad taste in my mouth at the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:33 PM
1

If female attention isn’t special, why are we men trying to cultivate it at all? Because we overvalue it despite it's abundance. It's artificially inflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:40 PM
6

Who would have ever guessed that people like systems that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:51 PM
2

Neither. When faced with shitty options, opting out is the only choice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:37 PM
7

With how hard dating is and how valuable of a commodity female attention is. Attention is only currency in girl-world. Female attention isn't special. Would you be willing to walk out on a good loving girlfriend who cheated on you She isn't good or loving if she cheated. and is sorry about it ? She's welcome to stay, but she's lost any right to demand my exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:27 AM
39

What kind of question is this? Someone is in need of assistance and they could be hurt if you don't intervene. This isn't a "red vs blue" question - it's a question of basic human decency. Ffs man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:18 AM
2

Okay. We're done. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:45 AM
2

Whatever you say. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:52 AM
4

Once again, you demonstrate that you're not here to debate in good faith. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:57 PM
2

Different people have different standards. Pretty clear about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:41 PM
3

ugly fat women are catching dick from chads day and night which "inflated their self worth," And hey are so sexually repulsed by "land whales" that they couldn't even get it up. Are not mutually exclusive. If you can't imagine people having different standards than you, that explains why you can't comprehend this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:31 PM
3

“Watch what they do, not what they say” Phase find anyone who says this applies to women and not to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:29 PM
1

Sure, but I never said they couldn't. You're out here pretending women don't choose who they fuck. You done being wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:24 AM
1

Do women have agency or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:31 AM
1

Okay, sure. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:33 AM
2

Way to try to dodge there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:30 AM
3

I like how you're removing female agency from the equation in order to try to make your point. If you're not going to admit that women choose who they want to fuck, then you're not worth debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:25 AM
1

Don't get in your feelings about the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:24 AM
5

Your entire post is invalidated by the staggering number of women who fuck hot losers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:13 PM
2

Absolutely nothing would change because the foundation of the sexual disparity is based on one question: who has more to risk with pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:58 PM
2

I don't form my opinions off what others think You're weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:43 PM
1

Neat. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:43 PM
1

You aren't making sense and I don't have the energy to try to translate your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:21 PM
18

If that's the case, why are women on the apps so fucking miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:17 PM
2

Beta buxx is attempting to buy attraction with money. Hiring an escort is buying sex. There's a difference, and it's that the man who pays for an escort isn't delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:13 PM
1

Whatever you say, have a great day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:12 PM
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Whatever you say, have a great day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:11 PM
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I have and I'm not shy about it. But let's be honest: the only men who get stigmatized for using escorts are the men who are perceived to be unable to attain sex through the means that most men are forced to resort to - the expenditure of their time in seduction. Think about the common stereotype of men who are perceived to be the primary clientele: fat losers who can't get laid any other way. The shaming language isn't based on their use of the escorts, but their personal SMV. The reality of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:09 AM
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Muh "women are so oppressed". If you live in the western world, you are not oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:03 AM
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I don't care how old she is as long as she checks my boxes. Fit Feminine Friendly Fun Family oriented My current one is a few years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:31 AM
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Ah the "women are wonderful" defense. But regardless, this isn't a valid rebuttal of the need for prenuptial agreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:39 AM
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In this clip from the Steve Harvey show The king of pandering has nothing that men really need to hear. His brand is selling copium to women. 2 women panelists talk about how prenups are a sign that the male is planning and preparing for a divorce. And that is not a healthy way to start a marriage. Pure gaslighting. Analogy time. Imagine that you wanted to take a drive somewhere but you have a 50% chance of getting into an accident and the majority of those accidents (roughly 70%) are because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:23 PM
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Whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:06 PM
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I don't do that stupid shit. Why would I put someone in a position to fail on purpose? It doesn't reveal anything except that people might give in to temptation that they would otherwise avoid. I'll use myself for example. I can't get enough of sexually aggressive latina and black women. I know this about myself so I avoid situations where I'll meet sexually aggressive latina and black women. Would it be fair if my partner "tested" me by putting me in a situation that I've been trying to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:23 AM
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The only question I ask is "if she's this hot, why is she single?" You always have to watch for the red flags. They can hide them for a while but they always drop their guard eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:21 AM
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Wait, you want us to judge you based on your actions and not the actions of your peers yet you're more than okay judging all men here because not enough of us adequately berate men to your satisfaction? Tracking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:19 PM
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Bookmark this for when a man-hating feminist goes on a tirade and she isn't excoriated in a manner that we deem fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:42 PM
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Whatever you say. I'm not gonna argue with your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 07:12 AM
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this type of message suggests that you as a woman are basically WORTHLESS if you don't meet the criteria. Not worthless. Just not the preference of most men. That it's wrong to have a loud personality and opinions You can do whatever you want, if you can accept the outcomes That you're not worthy of love if you have made some mistakes in the past. Not unworthy of love, just not the kind of woman most men want to give lifelong commitment to. You cannot shame us into accepting women we do not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:58 AM
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Cool opinion. It's based on what you think red pill is, but you do your thing. I'll just be over here, getting results.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:52 AM
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Nope, you need both. You know what we call someone who doesn't have sex with other people and doesn't have sex with their partner? Celibate. Celibacy:Monogamy::"off": television channel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:33 AM
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Never in my life did I think I'd agree with this guy but... He's right. Specifically: Since men can't get pregnant, many don't care about abortion People tend not to give a shit about issues that don't impact them and abortion is, at best, an experience that men have second-hand. Usually, it's an intellectual exercise that men have the luxury of walking away from when it gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:52 PM
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Complaining about the dating market is stupid and unproductive. It's fine to openly discuss it, but ultimately the other gender does not give a fuck about what you think should take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:50 PM
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Having had both, I'll take option 2 any day of the week. Monogamy is predicated on only two conditions: We have sex with each other We don't have sex with other people In a relationship, sex is the only thing I cannot outsource. I can get everything in option 1 from other places and other people (and most people usually do - placing the burden of satisfying all emotional needs onto one person is unfair to both parties).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 11:47 PM
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We have nothing further to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:14 PM
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So believing that women are a hive mind and not people with their own beliefs. Okay. Whatever makes men feel no accountability for their own priorities and actions. Thanks for demonstrating to everyone why engaging with you is a waste of time. You purposely misrepresented my reply to take a dig at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:59 PM
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I dont understand how guys dont see that as offensive. It's only offensive if you look at it on the individual level and not the societal one. Dating doesn't exist in a vacuum - it's a market and it's subject to market forces. The rest of your post is mewling so I'll just get to my point: As women are quick to say "if he won't, someone will" - the sexual market is here for one goal - to fuck. If women, as an aggregate, reward a specific set of behaviors with reproductive opportunities, then thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:57 PM
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You won't get a coherent reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:55 PM
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There is such a thing as a high value sexually open woman. No, there isn't. Value is not determined by the seller, but by the buyer. Cost is determined by the seller, but cost and value are two different (often conflated) things. Let's say I'm selling a horse. I set the cost at $30000. What is the value of that horse? It depends. To a farmer, that horse might have value, but not at that cost. To a horse breeder, that horse might have value, and that's a steal. To someone who doesn't have any int…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:21 AM
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Like I said: RP knows that attraction changes the price of goods on the sexual marketplace. The only reason this particular slut is demanding a higher price is because she isn't as attracted to you as she was to men that she offered it to for less. Here's the thing about "sluts" - if a slut wants to have sex with a man, odds are that other sluts do as well. If one person is offering a good or service for a much higher price than the overall market, the buyer will get said good or service elsewhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:13 AM
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Whatever you say. I get results, you cry on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:21 PM
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This is black pill nonsense. You can be the better catch and no matter how initially flattered she is, the woman will likely flake a some point. If she flakes, it's an attraction issue. A woman who is attracted to a man will remove hurdles to be with him. You just can’t seem to win as a guy these days, social media and OLD have essentially ruined dating. You might not be able to win now but that's because you didn't spend the time building your value. Alternatively, you're playing a rigged game.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:00 PM
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Nope. What we don't like is when sluts put an arbitrary cost on something they transacted for almost nothing with other men. (Note: RP knows that attraction changes the price of goods on the sexual marketplace)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:52 PM
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Because the exchange doesn't work for men. People (men and women) do not enter into relationships when the thing they want can be had for a lower cost When women get power (a thing men generally don't value, because they can attain power on their own) they usually have to trade their youth and fertility (the one thing men need from women).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:52 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:47 PM
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We don't care. We are simply using that as an example as to why everything women say is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:39 PM
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Whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:34 PM
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Well, I love when women answer for men because it's always the wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:54 AM
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Modern women: asked to comprehend analogies, get stuck at "anal"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:53 AM
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It isn't going "past red pill". It is a direct result of an over emotional person who is unable to manage their emotions or reality. If they had a father, that father would have taught them emotional resilience, a key part of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:17 AM
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A lack of father figure causes men to grow up with daddy issues and consequently view women in a negative light, this making them more prone to becoming red pill. This is wrong on its face. A lack of a father figure leads to blue pill thinking due to an abundance of female influence. Women don't want men red pilled because red pilled men are less likely to satisfy the female dating strategy (maximizing resources from as many men as possible while minimizing sexual output). Men become red pilled …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:15 AM
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Here's why you're getting the disconnect: Women do want men to be nice, but not at the cost of attractiveness. Attractiveness comes first, then "nice" becomes a factor. People who think being nice is mandatory are people who want to discount the necessity of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:24 PM
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This is untrue. First, a woman will not offer sole sexual access to a man she doesn't respect and, as evidence bears out, nice guys get cheated on all the time whereas women go out of their way to appease "buttholes".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:09 PM
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Women will never stop spreading that lie because the men that believe it are both filtering themselves out of the dating pool and providing women benefits that are in line with their optimal sexual strategy (to get as many resources for as little sexual investment as possible). Just like men, in general, will never tell women "hey, you can't fuck your way into a wedding dress" (because it's not optimal to our sexual strategy of getting as much sexual access for as few resources as possible). If …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:47 PM
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Men see women who give away sex easily the same way women see men who give away money easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:07 AM
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You are extrapolating your dating options onto men as a whole and it's weird. Now if you'll excuse me, my bangmaid has made me breakfast and is serving it to me at my gaming PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:08 PM
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Wtf is this strawman shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:06 PM
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If it's so disadvantageous, why do women keep trying to do it? Seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:05 PM
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Well, the sexual marketplace is opaque by design. The people who decipher it and use it to their advantage are seen as somehow "bad" and given labels of "golddigger" (for women who maximize their strategy) or "player" (for the men who maximize theirs).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:01 PM
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Anything turns out better when you know the rules and you've prepared. Dating is no different, yet there's a taboo surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:53 AM
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Just some things, but I'll lead with this: Men should never take dating advice from women. being kind and loving will lead to a romantic relationship and eventually sex Reality does not bear this out. Plenty of men who aren't "kind and loving" get plenty of sex. Porn often features attractive men having sex with multiple women in the most demeaning and disrespectful ways, leading him to believe that this is what attracts women. That's assuming that you think men aren't smart enough to discern be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:16 PM
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There is nothing I need to be married for that I cannot have without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:26 AM
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There is nothing I need to be married for that I cannot have without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:26 AM
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First: men are not a monolith That's actually it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:11 AM
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If she brings up age, it would be rude to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:07 AM
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I usually tend to agree with you about taking each post on its own merit, but sometimes you have to look at the source. There's a guy named Steve. Every time Steve gets invited to someone's house he finds an excuse to shit on the rug. He may not do it right away, but he will get around to it. You could be having a perfectly lovely evening, and he'll just drop trow and shit all over your rug because that's what he does. Would I be out of line in saying "maybe don't invite Steve to your house agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 AM
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No that's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:48 AM
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You don't understand TRP, so I will explain it simply. TRP is this: understand the way interactions between men and women work, and make your own choices. That's it. It's just understanding reality and making your own choices. People who demonize it are people who don't want men knowing how it works and remaining slaves to BP mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:44 AM
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take a gander at OPs history here. You'll have an "oh shit" moment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:23 AM
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You've made it clear that you consider men's interests to exist in a vacuum No, that's a cute strawman though. When you're ready to actually debate, I'll be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:50 PM
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Not as long as you have your axe to grind against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:22 PM
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Unlike you, I have a full life that occupies my time. But, like all of the other dumb whores, I'll give you the spare time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:38 AM
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What a waste of a post. Understand this: people will act in their own best interest. Look at people's actions through that lens and you will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:21 AM
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Then why the fuck are you here? Only a loser wastes their time on things that don't matter. I don't comment on things that don't matter. Because I'm not a fucking loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:17 AM
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Not really an argument, but you haven't made one yet so I'm not expecting you to start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:07 PM
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If you haven't figured it out by now, you're not going to be able to shame us into behavior that you deem acceptable when that behavior goes against our interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:15 PM
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Look, more shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:26 PM
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Ah, shaming men into behavior that offers them zero benefit. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:03 PM
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You failed again. Yes even if solo, he is "interacting" because his brain is learning to associate sex with a screen The question I asked was: "Is he interacting with the woman?" Nice dodge. You admit he's solo, you admit that he is interacting with a screen. Yet you can't seem to somehow wedge this other woman into your answer. Is she receiving his attention? That's the question. You answering the question you want instead of the one I asked is becoming a pattern. Well that wasn't the answer, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:20 PM
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Whatever you say, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:42 PM
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I'm not obligated to engage with your red herring. Will you address my original point or will you continue to demonstrate that you're only good at logical fallacies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:32 PM
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No you did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:31 PM
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Yes even if solo, he is "interacting" because his brain is learning to associate sex with a screen Is he interacting with the woman? Is she receiving his attention? his perception of sex, arousal, appearance, etc IS being modified. This wasn't the question. If you choose to do it anyway that's on you, but it doesn't change the science/psychology behind it This wasn't the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:31 PM
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Try answering the questions I posed rather than just reasserting your position and you might get to the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:40 PM
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They are absolutely saying that. No they aren't, and you even acknowledge that. The comparison you make is equivalent to "having previous partners is cheating" and now you're trying to make a wholly different argument: "If you have too many previous partners, you can't be faithful." Which isn't the comparison. If you can't debate honestly, then just don't debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:39 PM
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Who is he giving sexual attention to? Is he interacting with this woman in some way? He's interacting with an image.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:27 PM
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This is a faulty comparison. Men aren't saying "having previous partners is cheating."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:25 PM
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I think you missed my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:26 PM
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Porn is like cheating in the way that watching tennis makes me an athlete
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:22 AM
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Female... Loser? Are we allowed to point out that women can even be losers here? That's the problem though. Male losers are told, daily, "you're a fucking loser and you're getting what you deserve" whereas nobody ever calls women losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:33 AM
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Just because you don't want to run doesn't mean that you're not in a race. The fact is that everyone is competing and those that improve have better outcomes than those that don't. You can do whatever you want though, just don't mewl when you're not getting the outcomes that people who are trying get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:49 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:36 AM
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I feel bad for women's clothing options when it comes to pockets. That is the real struggle for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:46 PM
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What a cheap way to avoid the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:21 PM
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Save your flippancy for OP. I don't share his opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:40 PM
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I think you misunderstood me. I'm agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:29 PM
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Imagine being so wrong. Women don't care if a man is a bad boy or not. They only care if he's hot. What you're suffering from is not seeing the relationship between attractiveness and what women will accept. If you're attractive, nothing else matters. If you're unattractive nothing else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:26 PM
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And this is why RP is correct. You just said the quiet part out loud and the BP won't like it: Women need more sexually attractive men That's all they care about. That's it. No amount of "personality" or "being a good man" or whatever bullshit that BP pushes makes a damn bit of difference. They want you to be hot. So do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:24 PM
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Theres a segregation joke involving your username somewhere in here...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:57 AM
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If women aren't a monolith and don't communicate what they want, they are expecting men to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:54 PM
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Whatever you say, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:14 PM
2

Whatever you say, Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:01 PM
2

You know what, whatever you say. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:22 PM
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Stop trying to put excuses for yourself I can't help that you're unable to understand something that's been spelled out for you. And sex was never amoral. Sex, like all actions are amoral until a thinking agent assigns value to it. sex involves feelings, intentions, physical involvement, diseases, children, orgasms, brain chemicals and marriages historically And, based on the individuals involved, those variables can make sex moral or immoral. Morality is subjective and based on what humans perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:54 PM
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You have a problem with definitions. He wouldn't be degrading her at all. Degrade: treat or regard (someone) with contempt or disrespect. He would be degrading her, since the act of degrading is based on the person doing it. She may not feel degraded due to a myriad of factors, but that's irrelevant to the fact that he is degrading her. which reveals how degraded he is 🤣🤣 Is the word you're looking for "depraved?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:50 PM
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His evaluation of "sarah" isn't worthy or relevant as he probably based it on wanting to harm her. Possibly. It's a made up scenario and I would even say that in the scenario he is degrading her. Unfortunately the scenario doesn't support the argument that OP was trying to make. To have sex with her knowing that means he is a really bad person with no morals and obviously hates women and thinks sex is degrading to them. It would apply to the man in that scenario. But, again, the scenario doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:42 PM
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Np
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:38 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. I'm literally saying this multiple times: Sex is an amoral act. The people involved in it assign it moral and ethical value. It was even in the post you replied to! Your inability to see me responding to a specific scenario and being able to distinguish it from abstract concepts is your shortcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:36 PM
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This is a great question. Because it speaks directly to the things that determines degrading relationships - agency and power. Do you think prostitution is degrading to women if it's their choice? Provided that they are not coerced into it, prostitutes have agency and receive direct benefit for their choices therefore it cannot be degrading. What do you think about men who use the services of prostitutes? Provided that they are engaging in an honest transaction of goods for services, those men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:33 PM
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First, we need to make sure you're not thinking "immoral" = "amoral". I'm going to assume that you know the difference, so this paragraph was largely for people who don't. Simply put, humans assign morality to acts. Moreover, that assignment is subjective to not only the people involved, but the situation as well. Sex is just an act, without morality. Depending on your ethical framework, the motivations or outcomes determine the ethical value of the action. For example: John has sex with Michael…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:29 PM
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You're arguing semantics to avoid arguing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:24 PM
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Lol. No I'm not strawmanning Yes, you are. I'm making my point very clear and you're asserting I'm making points that I'm not. You just deny the arguments you don't know how to answer as "strawmanning" and ignore that. I've answered every honest argument you've put forward and I've been exceptionally patient with you. You believe sex is an "amoral act" All acts are amoral until a thinking agent assigns social, moral, or ethical value to it. so you need to give so-called "value" or some "moral" b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:22 PM
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would you find it equally degrading if the guy decided to give her commitment but deny her sex instead? If one party is getting something from an arrangement at the unwilling expense of another party, I'd say it's degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:18 PM
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I'll just say it first before you again talk about that "strawmanning" again Maybe you should fucking stop strawmanning then? You need a serious therapy So you're moving onto ad hominems. I'm not even gonna report it, but if you reply I'll be wanting an apology. you really believe that sex is an amoral act. I'm gonna blow your mind here: All actions are amoral until thinking agents assign social, moral, and ethical value to them using whatever framework that they apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:17 PM
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So sex is "only acceptable and not degrading" when it happens in commitment or love? Hey, you just admitted that you are actually seeing sex as degrading Holy fuck. Last time. Stop strawmanning. Sex is an amoral act. The people involved in it assign it moral and ethical value. Edit: if you lack the intellectual agility to transition between your narrow specific example and concepts as a whole, don't give specific examples and just ask a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:53 PM
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Then you believe that consensual fwb or fuck buddy relationship is degrading? This is a strawman and you will stop making them or we will stop talking. I will say it plainly: Sex is an amoral act. The people involved in it assign it moral and ethical value. Your situation made the sex degrading. "Sarah" went from expecting and wanting sex and commitment to being someone just deemed good enough for sex. That is a degrading situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:52 PM
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I'd say no. Sex, of itself, is an amoral action. The value it has is dependent on the parties involved. Edit: I was responding to OPs specific scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:45 PM
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Sex doesn't entitle anyone to commitment Agreed It's something that has to be earned and built with mutual effort. Also agreed. But my point was missed. If the expectation is sex and commitment and you're not getting the commitment while providing the sex, that's where the degrading part comes in because it reduces the partner to a thing to be fucked regardless of their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:38 PM
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Still you are basically implying that women are having sex begrudgingly to get commitment from men This is a strawman. I did not say or even imply that. I mean...I don't see the problem of the sex with zero intention to give any commitment Then what's the issue you're having with "Sarah"? I'll tell you. It's that she is now seen as nothing more than sex when she was before seen as sex and commitment. It's the desire for commitment and the refusal to give it while getting the sex that you have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:37 PM
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There are lots of men who truly believe that men who have lots of sex is "Alpha male" And that isnt related to women at all. successful player but women who had lost of body count are just a slut You mean sex is seen as degrading to women when it's given without commitment like I said earlier? Please respond to what I said instead of your feelings about what I said. A lots of men in this sub also see sex as degrading to women. Find one who sees sex in and of itself as degrading to women. It's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:32 PM
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Dating is full of unfair double standards. You can't do shit about it and caterwauling isn't going to make people give up a double standard that benefits them. All you can do is understand that it exists and move accordingly. Yes, men have to come to the market as winners. They have to be ready made out the package. Women are allowed to come to the market unprepared and uncooked. It's unfair, if you're a man who isn't prepared for it. But if you know the rules and you're ready, then you can make…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:25 PM
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There isn't "you both submit to the other". That's a deluded fantasy. Someone is in charge and has the final say, and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:20 PM
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Your framing is wrong. but most men seems to seriously believe that sex itself is "degrading and shameful" No. We don't. If we did, we wouldn't have sex with women we love and cherish. What really surprised me was not the fact that those men had absolutely zero respect for this women "Sarah" What really disturbed me was that those guy seriously believed that sex was somewhat "punishment" for women. It isn't the sex that's the punishment. It's the sex with zero intention to give any commitments. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:13 PM
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If they want to pimp themselves, that's their business. However, never miss an opportunity to tell them that they're making themselves low-price whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:05 PM
2

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:31 PM
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Red pill men can care about whatever they want. The only thing about red pill is simply understanding women. What they do with that knowledge and their personal goals are up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:02 PM
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Embracing the red pill doesn't come from inexperience with women. In fact, the more experience you have with a broader subset of women, the more you will observe behavior and patterns that will lead you to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:01 PM
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All the things on this list are dependent on if the woman already finds the man attractive. wash the dishes - if he's attractive vote pro choice - if he's attractive be vulnerable - if he's attractive explain a very complex nerdy topic passionately - if he's attractive call instead of texting - if he's attractive If an unattractive man had any of the behaviors above, it might be nice but it wouldn't make a woman attracted to him. Plenty of men try to negotiate attraction doing these things with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:28 PM
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You aren't yet you think that you can speak for the hivemind when it suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:56 PM
4

I don't believe what women say, because women (as an aggregate) give contradictory advice. Watching what women do though...that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:43 PM
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You can make a personal attack, but it doesn't make anything I said wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:49 PM
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Quit the bullshit. The only difference between "assertive" and "creepy" is how attractive the man is to the woman. Even "guy striking up a casual conversation about a shared experience" has been received poorly because - shocker - the guy wasn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:24 PM
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as men all we do is complain about women Don't project your problems onto us. we don't listen to or even understand womens issues with men You don't listen or understand. The rest of your post is just silly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:21 PM
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You missed the point. But what's new?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:48 AM
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Black pill is nothing but cope for people too lazy or stupid to develop the traits their preferred demographic finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:25 PM
5

Exactly. It's not that fucking serious for normal people. Porn is a thing, we aren't writing doctoral dissertations over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:31 PM
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The wall is a cope A black piller talking about cope? Have we come full circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:29 PM
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I love seeing them eat each other alive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:15 PM
13

Given divorce rates Women are the ones getting divorced. Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:52 PM
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It's eye opening as fuck isn't it? How women can casually get away with sexual assault and shaming men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:55 PM
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I'm in agreement. They should be looking for someone they’d gladly invest a lot into. This should apply to all of our endeavors, not just personal relationships. What's the point of engaging in something that you're only going to give minimal effort to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:53 PM
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That's why they hate TRP. They do not want men knowing the rules to the game. If you're playing a game and only one side knows the rules, that side usually wins unless they're just terrible players or extremely unlucky. When both sides know the rules, the game suddenly comes down to who plays better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:51 PM
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It isn't exactly 4D chess to use the literal metaphor that red-pill men have been using for years. If you wanna self-immolate, by all means, here's the kerosene. So I think men put a disproportionate amount of emphasis and feeling of anger into this dynamic The "anger" isn't at the dynamic. It's at the notion that these peddlers of used cars (often with kids in the back seat) want to sell at new car prices. If they were to lower the price to the appropriate market value, there wouldn't be an iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:48 PM
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GOD DAMN REKT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:21 AM
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Nobody is reading all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:20 AM
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Jesus Christ. It would be better to force people to stay miserable or abusive marriages? It cost money to prove fault an automatic disadvantage to the lower wage spouse. So it’s particularly difficult for stay at home moms who are financially dependent on their husbands. You do realize men and women were killed at equal rates before domestic violence help came about for women? Because they had to kill their husbands in self-defense. The same number of women are killed but the killing of men by i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:53 PM
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If we didn't have no fault divorce, I'd say you have a point. But we live in a world where people can get divorced because it's Tuesday and they aren't Haaaaaapy, so all you're doing is inferring motive with no way to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:56 PM
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When divorce happens it’s the women who leave. We give up after asking for so long…🤷‍♀️ Also men cheat, beat, and abuse substances more. Ah, the "women are perfect in relationships and do nothing wrong" defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:33 PM
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Women leave relationships at least 70% of the time. Quit your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:14 PM
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Briffaults Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:14 PM
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If I'm sharing an experience with someone I'm going to talk to them about it regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:02 AM
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In this thread: OP complains about women engaging in consenting sex. Get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:00 AM
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Radfems edit: liberal feminists arent to be taken seriously when it comes to this topic because their position changes to suit their needs. Is porn harmful? Only when men enjoy it. It isn't harmful when women "create content". Does it objectify women? Yes, because women have absolutely no agency and aren't at all volunteering to make it for money. Well, can men enjoy AI porn? Somehow, that still hurts women. And all of this is not even mentioning that women have multiple synthetic phalluses and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:23 AM
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I honestly do think women deserve to be treated with skepticism at every moment. Skepticism is a logical position to hold with every claim, not just those made by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:53 PM
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There is. Innocent until proven guilty. I agree. When the girl says "X raped me" she doesn't have any PROOF. Therefore using the logic outlined in the constitution, X has NOT been proven guilty. The next step is to treat it like every other crime. Edit: and your logic is fucked. Therefore using the logic outlined in the constitution, X has NOT been proven guilty. Granted Therefore X is INNOCENT until proven guilty Granted Therefore, X did NOT rape her because X is currently INNOCENT. No. X has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:30 AM
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Yeah, and, unfortunately there's no real solution to that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:36 AM
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Here's the problem: The men who are committing rape don't give a fuck. They're not coming to the table to discuss it because they don't give a shit what you think. They know how you feel and they actively choose to say "fuck you." The only men at this table are men who care enough to listen. And you know what those men are bombarded with? They're constantly told that men are the problem, that men need to be better, that men should be taught not to rape. It's counterproductive because the message…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:31 AM
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I think our legal system has a thing about needing to prove guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:19 AM
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I don't excuse it. I have the capacity to understand positions I don't agree with and to see things from perspectives that I don't hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:10 AM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:31 AM
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Most men are naturally rapists Please don't project your inability to control yourself or exercise basic human decency onto the rest of us. most animals in the wild are Well, the amazing thing about having this overdeveloped frontal cortex is that we have the capacity to say "no, I'm not gonna rape. I'll just have a coke instead." They are only restrained by laws and societal shaming Let's logic this up a bit. If we make laws and societal tools to control this, why? Maybe it's because we decided…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:01 AM
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That's a consequence that I can live with. Putting aside the obvious "it doesn't hurt me" aspect there's a thing that a lot of women don't want to admit that they're forced to come to grips with: They like attention from men, even men they think are "undesirable." Women do not like feeling invisible to men. It's a crushing experience for them. Every woman, no matter how homely is accustomed to some level of attention and preferential treatment from men. I don't bemoan this, it's just part of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:56 AM
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That isn't a solution that I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:50 AM
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Just finished reading up on it. I don't like how the court of public opinion deemed him guilty before facts were uncovered. That's why we need, as a society, to emphasize that investigations need to be done and facts should matter. Ideally, the police would have done an investigation before this man suffered political, social, and economic consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:32 AM
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No one is objecting to rape being prosecuted. The me too movement was designed to make women feel comfortable coming forward with their accounts of powerful men who commit rape. Why were they uncomfortable? Because powerful men avoided prosecution for rape. What it did was create a culture of fear. The culture of fear was always there (and still is). You have to be a reality denier to ignore the experiences of women. And it also led to some really condescending statements directed at men. I'll a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:57 AM
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No. It doesn't solve the problem It teaches bad habits, specifically that he doesn't have to do the things that make men attractive to women and that he can have sex by just throwing money at it. (I'm not opposed to prostitutes, only men who have to use prostitutes)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:34 AM
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Luck is fine, but it doesn't beat effort. But, and this is important, you can't control the things you can't control, so using them as an excuse is cope. Control your controllables then worry about that shit. You'll find that if you control what you can, that having an internal locus of control will lead to living a much better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:23 AM
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The "me too" movement was never something that bothered me. I think rapists need to be locked up and the only way that happens is if they get reported. Every accusation should have an investigation, and I can't imagine anyone having a real logical argument against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:14 AM
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If you say so. Edit: She knows that she's not the most important person (or thing) in my life. Men who center their lives around women end up not living their lives for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:53 PM
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Whatever you say. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:48 PM
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The difference is, I don't need to get off by living vicariously through another man. I can get it in person. And you've missed the point. As I said, you're beyond help. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:46 PM
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So why do you feel the need to watch another man I like the variety. Can't you use your imagination? Why do you watch television, see movies, or read books? Can't you use your imagination? Also, if you were attractive Lol I'm a god damn stud. you wouldn't need to chase. Even sex that's locked in (like, with my girlfriend for example) still takes time and energy. That says a lot. Says that you don't understand what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:43 PM
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Lol okay Edit: actually I'll turn this into a teaching moment for the onlookers (not for you, you're beyond help). Men who are busy are busy. We don't have time to chase ass. Hell, we barely have time to engage in the ass that we have available. Moreover, because I'm "high value" (to use a counterpoint to your term), I have a list of things that take priority above sex and I'd rather take a fast 5 minutes to get that urge out and get on with my day than put exorbitant effort into sex. Your comme…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:32 PM
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Not true. It's just convenient when you wanna fire out a round and you don't have the time to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:18 PM
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What the hell are you even trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:29 PM
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Like confidence magically comes from nowhere, right? Moreover a man can have all the confidence he wants but if he can't back that shit up, it's pointless. There are plenty of confident people who ain't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:37 PM
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They're just trying to fuel the cope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:14 PM
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Because when you get different results when one variable changes, you can attribute it to the variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:14 PM
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That's exactly it. It isn't that women can't detect it, it's just that some men are so attractive that women don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:06 AM
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It absolutely improved my dating life. Having a great body didn't fundamentally change who I was as a person outside of maybe my dietary habits but what it did do was broaden the number of women who wanted to get to know me. It opened my dating funnel up exponentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:02 AM
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That isn't what the comment I'm responding to is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:41 PM
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That isn't what the comment I'm responding to is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:52 PM
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And it helps that he's tall and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:54 PM
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WTF you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:43 PM
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"WHaT aBoUt tHe MeN" Why can't anyone make a statement about women without someone trying to redirect to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:49 PM
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And that's the thread folks, see you next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:08 PM
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Some of you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:03 PM
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Do not agree. Feminism has no benefits for most men. Once you hit that top 15%, it's an all you can fuck buffet and you aren't pressured into giving them anything except a pack of Skittles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:53 PM
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They're a lot more innocent By what metric? and vulnerable Only when comparing raw strength. Firearms and social protections more than make up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:51 PM
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I was not only clear, I even gave you a definition. Anything past this is a waste of my time. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:26 AM
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You're asking for a bias that doesn't exist. Just because you have that handicap doesn't give you license to call those of us without it liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:30 AM
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Cool, but I didn't say that. Stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:29 AM
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I don't care so long as the references and background check clears.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:28 AM
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I wouldn't trust my kid to be babysat by a random anyone. But you know what i wouldn't do? I wouldn't trust a god damn fucking bear with my child. Your question is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:02 AM
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I did bust my ass for my body. Why would I settle for someone who looks like I used to yet wouldn’t give me the time of day previously. Because you're a man and you're supposed to do what's good for women regardless of your wants!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:57 PM
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Wild how men are shamed for having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:55 PM
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That men who don't rape, don't approve of rape, and have on occasion prevented rape aren't fans of the notion that men are generally more dangerous than bears? I wonder why we feel some kind of way about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:53 PM
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Did I say that? Why is it that whenever someone suggests that women are accountable for their own decisions, some blue-piller always tries to deflect back to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:42 PM
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Women are not innocent creatures. If you have agency, you have accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:29 PM
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Bullshit. Advertising works. If a woman is wearing a T-shirt that says "hotwife" she's going to get excessively more sexual attention than a nun. Your whole post is cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:51 PM
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And the guy is acting like he's just lucky to be there. Most men are happy to have access to pussy without the burden of commitment. I have definitely in my own personal observed experience, in real life and online, noticed an increased uptick in older single women [emphasis mine], and this includes in their forties, with young (late twenties/early thirties) boyfriends who are your typically generically attractive dude. Older. Single. Women. Congratulations, these women can get fucked. Hooray! W…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:08 PM
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American women benefit from living in a country where the vast majority of men don't have the experience of seeing how trash the American woman is compared to women from other countries. Sadly, the men here don't disabuse them of that notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:52 AM
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I tend to have a pretty good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:23 AM
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Okay cool, whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:02 PM
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Cool Anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:32 PM
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Let's say, for the sake of argument, that it is indeed "old fashioned". First, what's wrong with that dynamic if both parties are okay with it? My wonderful girlfriend cleans my house, cooks for me, and does the dirty sexy shit I love. Modern women would call her a "pickme" or a "bed wench". But they're doing it as single women without a man. In return, I do those "old fashioned" things like make sure she doesn't spend a dime of her money on our relationship or on me (I even get mad when she buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:06 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:35 AM
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I don't give a shit about her entertainment. If she isn't fitting into my life, I have no use for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:49 AM
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I think a lot of men are angry because they played by the rules and didn't find success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:38 AM
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Well, I think it's awesome that radfem thinks she knows what a man thinks. You hate men. Shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:35 AM
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Cool. Embrace aging. Don't mewl when you aren't getting the results you got in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:05 AM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:31 AM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:22 AM
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It's a dismissal because you're not a serious person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:22 AM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:05 AM
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You just see hoes because your radar is scanning for hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:05 AM
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You're making but you believe to be true your reality. WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SENTENCE?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:56 AM
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bro, I am so happy. Happy people don't have to tell others how happy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:56 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:55 AM
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No, I'm not. It's a hypothetical for me because I don't have a daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 02:55 AM
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Yes. I would hope that I was enough of a positive male influence in her life that she didn't have to fill the void with meaningless relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:21 PM
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Women are absolutely looking for dick. They're just looking for the right dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:16 PM
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Lol k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:14 PM
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Lol you wish. We live in a society that caters to the fat, dumb, and lazy. Those people have political and economic power and they won't trade their comfort for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:13 PM
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Did you not see the argument? You didn't make one. You, like many red pillers, are preemptively excluding women based on no criteria whatsoever because red pill is far, far more concerned with finding fault with women than it is with actually helping men date. You have nothing to back up your assertion and there's a pretty good chance you're going to try and deflect with some tedious diatribe about what red pill REALLY is that somehow never aligns with what every other red piller says red pill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:11 PM
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I should run more, but I hate that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:09 PM
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It's like you didn't even read what I wrote. Edit: put away your snark and address my point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:08 PM
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They don't get it because it's not an experience that they have to undergo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:59 AM
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I just don’t understand You're a woman, it's a lived experience that you don't have. why you guys need 🐱 to be a little productive The desire to reproduce is hardwired into all of us. If a man wants to reproduce, he has to demonstrate that he's the best choice for a woman and, in this modern era, financial success is a powerful indicator. Don’t you care about a place to live? Food to eat? God damn. A man working minimum wage can easily do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:58 AM
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You can't debate them. That's why you opted to go for a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:38 AM
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So you just made me laugh which, normally, is fine. But not while smoking a cigar. Bad news bears. Onto the reply. I think there a pretty huge distance between the types who go to these events and guys whose lives are speed dating events. There is. But the women who go to these things want what every woman wants... And it isn't the kind of men who attend events like these. (Caveat: the exception id make is for professional/business related events for singles) Surely desperate women would settle …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:20 AM
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I have been on the receiving end of women screening me for husband material and it was very unattractive. They said the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:13 AM
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Pursuing pussy and not people This is a fundamentally flawed take. Men and women interact with each other in a romantic sense with the goal of sex. We pursue pussy just like y'all pursue penis. The mistake that's usually made is that one party breaks the taboo of being overt with their goals despite both parties knowing what the end goal is. The emperor must wear clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:12 AM
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155 lbs Lightweight. (I'm just poking at you)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:07 AM
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Weird amount of personal attacks against someone you don't know personally. Perhaps it's because your debate skills are, how do you say... Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:06 AM
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You get the outcomes you deserve in the dating market. If you're not winning, you are: Not developing the traits that your preferred demographic likes Have unrealistic expectations for where you sit in the market There are too many fucking people in the world for anyone to say that they're unable to find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:05 AM
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Every time someone says that, I do the over/under as to whether or not they're obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:02 AM
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Sometimes you'll be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:00 AM
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simping pandemic is on the verge of being over Simping will never die. Simping is a viable, if inferior, mating strategy for those who can't use other methods. I mean, there's a reason that some men choose to simp - because it has some level of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:59 AM
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I want to attend one just to see how bad it's gotten since I've gotten out the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:50 AM
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You said something that you didn't even know was powerful: even the lower level desperate men have finally started to realize it Women, on a societal level, need the lower level desperate men to have hope. It's that hope that causes those men to continue being productive members of society. The 75%-85% of men that exist that women don't see as "attractive" are still required to keep this shit afloat. What happens when those men get wise to the game and decide to only be productive enough to meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:48 AM
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You can even be chubby! Just don't be a god damn headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:38 AM
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It's a bit fatalistic and black pilled to say that only the top 5% have a chance. It also flies in the face of observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:37 AM
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Cool. You gonna debate me or make underhanded insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:35 AM
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The kind of women who attend these are leftovers. They have failed so miserably that they cannot even attract attention on dating apps. The men who attend these are signaling their desperation since they're probably paying to compete for these leftovers. That makes the women even bitchier to the men. The kind of men these women want would never attend one of these things. Those men don't need to go to speed dating events because their life is a speed dating event. Men, in general, have better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:15 AM
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I never say that only looks matter and I challenge you to find me saying that. I'm saying that looks matter more than anything, and ignore that at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:45 PM
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Find me a man who thinks enthusiastic consent is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:41 PM
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A lot of women think being visibly enthusiastic A lie told by women to other women. You think men "slut shame?" That is a market cornered by women. Please, point out one man who thinks that enthusiastic consent is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:16 PM
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I was just telling my girlfriend about the funnel earlier. The purpose of the funnel is to get everything you want into the cup, and the wider the aperture at the top, the more you catch. Physical attraction is that aperture - if you're lacking it, your funnel effectively becomes a straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:15 PM
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Give them equality and watch them suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:12 PM
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Women are very open with talking about negative experiences we've had in past relationships or just with men in general and I think it would be a good thing for men to do so as well. Just wanted to talk about this. Women are lauded for sharing their pain. There's usually an outpouring of sympathy and a dearth of "well, what was your part in this?" Men have the opposite experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:40 PM
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Flowers? No. But small acts of appreciation are always welcome. My best girl has this thing she does where she makes me a cocktail when I get home from work and I love her to death for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:52 PM
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As a RP man, we have a simple rule: "If it isn't an enthusiastic"yes" it's a "no"." But the BP men don't really understand women so I'd suggest just telling them that you don't want to have sex with them in plain language.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:45 PM
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This is for all you "nice guys" out there. I think it's great that you're nice. Women like men who are nice too. You know what though? Women don't give a shit about "nice" unless "hot" comes first. Yes, it's unfair, but deal with it. The good news is this: if you do the things to get hot, you have an advantage over the guys who are only hot. Get to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:39 PM
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You can be, if you vomit up that black pill. The fact is that dating is intrinsically biased and unfair. But you gotta control your controllables. You control your physique. You control your education (which is related to your income). You control the level of discipline you exercise in your life. Sure, there are some things beyond your control, but letting those things control you is the road to madness. Shit, I'm an autistic black man in AmeriKKKa. You think I wake up saying "nobody will ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:37 PM
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A lot of them are selfish and have been in relationships without disclosing it to me, I'm always afraid I will die buy murder suicide when their boyfriends or husbands find out or walk in on us. Bro. I was seeing a woman who told me that she was broken up with her ex. Guess who came by my house one morning. Now, I'm a rough and tumble guy and I have guns and the training to use them (in a state where I'd have been totally justified to give him that ol' "hearts and minds", no less). But I looked …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:33 PM
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I know the way women treat men they don't see as hot vs the way they treat men they see as hot since I've been both. When I was a scrawny broke loser: Women happily confided in me, but never saw me as a person with feelings that needed to be regarded Women engaged with me on a purely conditional basis - if I wasn't doing anything for them in the immediate moment then I was worthless. I was never a romantic option and genuinely didn't see why women picked "assholes". I was privy to the way women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:28 PM
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You: modern relationships don't benefit women Also you: im in a relationship I swear, Summa Cum Laude from clown school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:17 PM
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Then just date women and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:48 AM
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You’re acting like it’s easy to find decent men, when it’s not. For you. It isn't easy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:45 AM
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More words to avoid the point. Most relationships are ended by women, not by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:32 AM
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I do appreciate that you said "some men."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:33 AM
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That's a lot of words to avoid my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:50 AM
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Yes, that's why men are notorious for leaving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:01 AM
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Y'all care more about him than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:52 PM
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Whatever you say, username checks out. You're right, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:09 PM
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fair adjective impartial and just, without favoritism or discrimination. Dating is a process of discrimination. Ffs I'm done with your BP caterwauling when you're purposely missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:09 PM
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Wait, you're comfortable asserting a claim with no evidence, but when a similar (albeit gender-swapped) claim is made with a similar level of evidence, you readily dismiss it? Bias identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 PM
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The misogynist views on this sub are plain to see. A lot of people confuse being critical of women and their behavior as "misogyny". Genuinely, why do you want relationships with women you hate? Maybe - just maybe - they don't hate them and women just can't handle criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:59 PM
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It absolutely does A man who is 6'0 will have an unfair and unearned advantage over a man who is 5'6. A fit woman will have an unfair, if earned, advantage over an obese woman. A person with inherited wealth will have an advantage over those without. The dating market is inherently unfair due to unearned and earned advantages. Why you don't see this is probably tied directly to your blue pill programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:54 PM
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People have different levels of attractiveness. There are no real "equals" in relationships - there is always some level of difference. Edit: moreover, the competition isn't fair either. Some people are born with greater advantages than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:46 PM
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RP acknowledges that dating isn't fair. That is a big difference from complaining about it. Hell, RP is literally about understanding how things are (as opposed to mewling about how we want them to be) and making our actions based on that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:51 AM
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Because of all of this. Your lack of a specific example is noted. You're being vague because you can't really provide evidence of anything I've ever said, past or present, that justifies putting that label onto me. Almost all the posts I’ve seen are men angry that women aren’t giving up tail easily or are giving up tail easily but not to them 😂 this whole section is about how men find dating so unfair because women don’t put out or don’t give them a chance. Take that argument up with them. I mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:35 AM
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It’s not. It is. Like I’m so serious I can tell, and it's sad that this is your best. Maybe yall will have more luck with women if this isn’t how you acted. What makes you think that we, as an aggregate, or even me personally has bad luck with women? Do you genuinely think talking to women like this is gonna make them hot for you? No, it's usually the height, muscles, confidence, disposable income, and my je ne sais quoi that makes them "hot for me". Much less want to marry you? Marriage isn't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:10 AM
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Cool strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:01 AM
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you don't mention that YOU use the equivalent when women do the same? I'm accustomed to women avoiding their responsibilities and I know that trying to shame those who feel no sense of shame is a waste of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:16 AM
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A common complaint is that dating isn't "fair" A common blue pill complaint. RP knows that dating is inherently unfair and the only way to win is to play the game better than your competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:37 AM
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You are the society tho. I wasn't aware I was God-Emperor Leto Atreides II
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:36 AM
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Why should it be specifically "man up"? Because I'm talking to a man? Yet i've never heard an equivalent of "man up" for them [women] or even a gender-neutral one. Take it up with society, not with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:59 PM
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The only time I advocate the term "man up" being used is when a man is trying to avoid the consequences or responsibilities his actions brought about. Every other time it's always an attempt to get him to do something for someone else against his own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:24 PM
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I answered and you weren't satisfied with it. Quit mewling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:36 PM
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This is bullshit. For most people, there is nothing wrong with being your authentic self... ... If that authentic self is also attractive. If you're attractive, those traits are seen as good. If you're unattractive, they're weird. Case in point: Henry Cavill builds computers and plays Warhammer 40K. In no universe will that ever count against him. My friend Johnny also builds computers and plays 40K (terribly)... And he's also overweight and balding. You think women overlook those things for him…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:50 PM
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No. If she isn't sexually attracted to me, what's the point? I'm not interested in duty sex and I have enough friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:44 PM
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If asking that question is grounds for divorce, then that woman needs to be a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:43 PM
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Cool, I guess you can read my mind. How damn dishonest of you. Edit: I didn't have time earlier, but I do now. Jfc. No one is buying this subterfuge in 2024. I like how I can outright say what I mean, and the place this person went was "he must be lying". That's not a problem with me, that's a problem with their experiences in dating. First, I have a girlfriend and I don't allow her to pay for dates (or vacations...or really anything. She doesn't even drive with me). I'm in a far better economic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:34 PM
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There is no resource in the known galaxy more abundant and therefore absolutely worthless to women than dick. From men they aren't interested in. From a man she wants? That woman will upend her whole life and drive across the country in a diaper to secure that dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:28 PM
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I pay for the date because I'm the man. The corollary to this is that I expect the woman I'm taking on the date to act like a feminine and appreciative woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:27 PM
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The only thing you said that wasn't horseshit is this: disregard any advice given by women The rest is trash and the solution is this: "Be attractive to the groups you want." That's it. If you can't manage that, then tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:45 AM
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You lie for attention. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:38 AM
2

You lie for attention. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:37 AM
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You're all over the place, and you know what? I think you're a liar. First you say men have nothing to offer, then you say you aren't single. You say you aren't on the apps, yet here you are saying what you match with. You have to lie on the Internet for attention and that is the most damning indictment of you that there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:49 PM
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You're lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:35 PM
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So there’s 3 billion vaginas yet you can’t even get a handful of them to sleep with you 😂 What a sad attempt at a personal attack. Moving on. Oh and a lot of average guys pay for sex and even above average. Wait, I thought you said men have nothing to offer? Didn't you say you weren't single? Me thinks you're a liar. Well yeah a lot of women are remaining single or dating each other it’s much better. Is that why lesbians have the highest divorce rate and highest rates of domestic violence? The f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:35 PM
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Oh cupcake. The algorithm matches you with people they think are on your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:23 PM
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I'm just wondering how long you're gonna be here with your penchant for personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:22 PM
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I don't expect women to do anything except what's in their own interests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:51 PM
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Well, as much as people want to moralize about it, I have one again question: "How are you going to stop the men with options from exercising those options when it's women who are willingly participating?" When women stop preferring to share top tier men over having average men to themselves, this will end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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Because men don’t have options. Okay sweetie, if you say so. Your entire existence here is bemoaning your lack of dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:02 PM
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Fair enough. I'll edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:10 PM
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Absolutely. There isn't one non-paternity fraud reason why we shouldn't know 100%. It's obviously good for the father It's good for the child to know, if only so that they can track inherited diseases and genetic defects that may come into play later in life It's good for the mother if she's the kind that does sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:04 PM
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Funny, for a group that doesn't have "value or anything to offer", you sure are willing to sell your pussy to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:57 PM
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Ik what one I’d choose $$. You'd choose to be a whore? wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:56 PM
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Funny you say this all yet women provide sex which is an expensive commodity It literally is not. There are 3 billion vaginas on earth. I'm gonna tell you something you need to learn - the kind of men that women want to fuck aren't starved for sex. They get it for free, often, and usually turn it down in favor of other things. men offer NOTHING. Literally nothing. Funny, you seem really bothered that those people who offer "literally nothing" are giving you exactly that - nothing. Just go date w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:55 PM
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You can't say it because you have never been in a similar situation. I personally think that 99% of men would be rapists in this scenario. Lady just say that you think all men are rapists and skip past the bullshit. Save everyone some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:48 PM
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Naw. Let's just opt out of marriage instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:44 PM
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I reject the premise of your post because it presents an optimal situation for men and a worst-case situation for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:43 PM
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you bully any women who doesn’t meet your tiny beauty standard of being a barely legal teen with big tits and ass Holy shit who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:17 PM
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Men, just like women, use looks to determine if we want to be with someone. Men, unlike women, don't feel the need to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:51 PM
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We have mountains of examples of women choosing shitty men just because they're hot. Not a lot of evidence of women choosing Quasimodo. But you go ahead and keep living in your delusional world. I'm sure it's getting you the outcomes you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:34 PM
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Women barely ever use men. I mean what would we use them for? It’s not socially acceptable to use men for money. HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:26 PM
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It’s EASY for men because most women are genuine and want something real. Laughing.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:25 PM
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This is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:24 PM
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It proves that the only metric that really matters is if a man is attractive. Do you want the other stuff? Sure. Would you want it in an unattractive package? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:23 PM
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Women: "Men can't enjoy sex because they're porn sick." Also women: "I can't get off with men. Let me get my not-at-all-weird oversized penis facsimile."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:23 AM
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I gave you a solution. Either do it or mewl endlessly. I do not care which.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:50 PM
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"TaXeS aRe ThEfT" Move to a country where there's no representative government to tax you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:37 PM
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I do, but there is a very dedicated effort to keep them as egalitarian and non sexual as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:30 PM
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I reject two parts of your premise: There's no one specific way to be alpha. For example, in my social group, in matters of fitness, combat and martial skill I'm the fucking man. When it comes to financial matters, social etiquette, or other things I take the back seat and let my friends set the pace. Law enforcement is, in my view, the ultimate blue-pilled profession. They're literally the enforcers of the status quo, an aggressive arm of the state used to keep people in line with the BP rules …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:52 PM
2

Well, unexpected admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:45 PM
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This is bullshit. It doesn't matter how you talk to women, if it's "as a person" or "as a person you want to have sex with." It just matters if she finds you attractive. That determines where you fall into her zones. There's a weird lie in the BP universe that says that women respond to the way men treat and approach them despite all evidence to the contrary. Do women want men to be nice? Sure. But they'll usually take an attractive asshole over an unattractive nice guy. Why do you think the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:50 AM
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This is absolutely absurd. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:49 AM
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Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:22 PM
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I'm talking about the specific part I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:20 PM
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Most of the negative rhetoric I see is directed at male refugees/immigrants, often labeling them as “invaders” or “military-age men.” Additionally, women who are welcoming towards refugees are sometimes accused of secretly wanting to have sex with these men. All of this, all of it, is rooted in the insecurity of bottom tier men. And they're damn right to be afraid. If you - as a native of a country - get out skilled, out worked, and out gamed for women by a guy who doesn't have the education, cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:06 PM
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Lady, no. Quit your bullshit. Your argument wasn't "this is a terrible example and shouldn't be used" - most people would agree with you and you wouldn't be getting the pushback and attention you need. Your argument was: The women on Bear Grylls' The Island would have created a better place to live than the males' island Then you just go into your feelings rather than give any kind of logical argument as to why this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:51 PM
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They chose hot women instead of more outdoorsy types You notice their "hotness" while purposely ignoring that they didn't pick outdoorsy men either and they all got the same week of survival training. Bear himself (the expert) said that the women would have been more successful He was paying lip service to women because he can't just alienate half the viewer base by telling the truth of what we all fucking saw As it's reality TV, it was scripted for the women to fail What is your evidence of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:44 PM
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Had the cast and crew not kept interfering with the women You mean "keeping them alive." The women were so damn inept that they almost died of dehydration in a tropical island. The women were so incompetent they got lost looking for a beach on an island. You LITERALLY JUST WALK STRAIGHT Those women would have literally died had they not been given multiple bailouts by the cast and crew. I believe they'd have sorted it out and been more successful than the males in the long run. You can believe w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:39 PM
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Hot take, but you get paid $30 an hour to push carts at Costco ... The fuck? Id be in that bitch EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:47 PM
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It's only effective if you engage with it. I give people a chance to apologize and get back on task. If they don't, I just report them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:46 PM
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Had me in the first half, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:25 PM
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Ah and there it is. *pedophiles and sexual predators are flying to poor countries with low age of consent laws You are a liar. And I don't debate liars. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:10 PM
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Most western women are so bad that men are flying to get away from them. Deal with it. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:04 PM
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You can have your opinion, but it isn't really relevant to the men who have the time and means to leave this cesspool. The same problems exist in the west, it's just that the women here are mad that the kind of men they want are leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:57 AM
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Your entire reply is based on assumptions. The fact is that these women are mad at men who leave because those are the kinds of men they want. If the men leaving were losers, women wouldn't lose a minute of sleep. These men leave because the western woman offers nothing to them. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:46 AM
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Nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:21 PM
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Same reason some heterosexual women love it. You're overthinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:01 PM
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You can't talk when your entire existence here is crying about why men don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:26 PM
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And, these western women think that they're the best out there. Tell me, where are the men from other countries coming to make them wives or even coming here just to have sex with them? By and large, western women are bottom tier and the only reason men date them is because of proximity, ignorance, and the inability to get other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:47 PM
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Then why are women so fucking upset by them leaving?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:47 AM
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Well, then they would be able to do the same thing in their own countries. Yet... They're choosing to suffer the inconvenience of going half way around the world to get away from western women. That's a damning indictment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:45 AM
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In their minds every passport bro is an upstanding well adjusted citizen free of misogynistic tendencies and habits Cool, you're a mind reader. Let's see what you think: I personally think that Passport Bros are going to underdeveloped countries to prey on vulnerable girls who are struggling to make ends meet. You aren't here in good faith. You're just here to try to do your usual - denigrate men who don't see women like you as a good option. Every single post you make is, at it's core, "boo hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:43 AM
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I personally think that Passport Bros are going to underdeveloped countries to prey on vulnerable girls who are struggling to make ends meet. Cool. Who cares? These girls often are undereducated, poor, and This is a stereotype. don't speak English well. I didn't realize speaking English was important if you're not in a country where English is the predominant language. These women often live under even harsher patriarchal systems and lack the resources to identify or get out of bad abusive situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:37 AM
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I reject the premise. "Not preferring" isn't "demonizing".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:12 PM
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If you're getting low quality men, it's because you don't qualify for better ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:09 AM
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Is it hypocritical when a woman who is broke wants a wealthy man? Is it hypocritical when a woman who is overweight expects a man in shape? Most people's dating preferences are not related to what they themselves can offer in those same areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:01 AM
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Adorable. I don't give money, energy, attention, or time to people who don't add value to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:00 AM
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People are allowed to make whatever choices they want in regards to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:58 AM
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If a woman is a plate, it's because she chose it. Men don't control who women have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:43 AM
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Whatever you say buddy. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:29 AM
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We live in a world of being judged by people for everything. That's life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:26 AM
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Oh wow, shaming a man for... /Checks notes ... expressing his preferences Come back when you have something interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:24 AM
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Not a hypocrite to have preferences. Women want tall men regardless of being short. Women want fit men regardless of their level of fitness. Weird how their preferences aren't called hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:18 AM
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Women are free to disqualify me on whatever basis they want. I can't control that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:11 AM
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....it was an Ottoman. dont judge me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:04 AM
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Men don't make plates. Women make themselves plates. You aren't owed a relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:28 PM
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I'll bang a woman with any body count What I won't do is give monogamy to community property.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:27 PM
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Men who have to diminish other men in order to ingratiate themselves with women deserve neither women nor brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:25 PM
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Umm, where are you getting the notion that the quality of children born to women in their 30s is lower? https://www.chop.edu/conditions-diseases/pregnancy-over-age-30 Even the first article you linked outright says: By age 37, you’ll have about 25,000 eggs left. By age 51, you’ll only have 1,000 eggs left. That might still sound like a lot of eggs, but the quality of your eggs also goes down as you age. Your risk for developing conditions that can negatively impact fertility, like endometriosis …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:46 PM
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My only point is that it’s extremely common for women to have children in their 30s. Okay, but that's not really relevant if the quality of those children is greatly diminished.(I use the term loosely - I'm not devaluing children, but moreso comparing children born with birth defects vs those without) And the vast majority of those children are born without birth defects "The risk of chromosomal abnormality increases with maternal age. The chance of having a child affected by Down syndrome incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:45 PM
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Your link doesn't take me to anything that backs up your point. Can you reformat it? Edit, nevermind. I just realized that your position isn't relevant to my point. Even if what you were saying is accurate, the evidence is clear: maternal age is a huge factor in not only fertility, but the odds of birth defects. Again, younger women are preferable for reproduction and all the feelings on the Internet cannot change that. Edit 2: apologies, your link was fine, my Internet was shitting the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:29 PM
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No, I'm not engaging with your imaginary RP man or your strawman. I'm addressing what you said out your mouth: the manosphere is full of guys who want to have sex with people who are legally children You don't get to accuse people of being pedophiles then slink away when you get pushback. Answer my earlier question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:18 PM
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I'm not going to engage with your red herring. Stay on topic. Why are women who are old enough to do all those things suddenly "children" when it comes to the men they date? To address your edit: CITATION NEEDED (and if you start saying "18 is a teenager!!!" That's a legal adult.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:13 PM
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You were the one who brought up the wall The OPs question mentioned age and related it to fertility. Colloquially, "the wall" describes the point where fertility and attractiveness drops. You know that, but you're being dishonest because you have a biased agenda to push. a justification for the fact that the manosphere is full of guys who want to have sex with people who are legally children And there's that biased misandrist agenda. Tell me, how is a woman in her 20s a child? She is old enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:08 PM
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Redpill is extremely fluid, apparently I told you what it was. I'll say it again though: "Red pill is simply understanding the dating market as it is, not as people present it." Almost like it means nothing and just exists as a way to sell premium content to men who feel powerless I guess you knocked the fuck out of that strawman! Way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:03 PM
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I had both of my kids in my 30s Good for you. and I had no trouble getting pregnant. And some people drive drunk all the time and don't get into accidents. Just because you managed it with ease doesn't mean that it's a good idea or that others haven't suffered consequences. At what age do you think it’s useless for a woman to have kids? What a loaded fucking question. I'm not going to answer your question as you phrased it. What you could have asked, if you were asking a question in good faith, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:00 PM
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It isn't. I keep saying that TRP is simply understanding male/female interaction as it is, and not as it's presented. Once you understand it, you're free to do as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:32 AM
6

Fuck me, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:15 AM
19

Who gives a fuck. Be attractive to your preferred demographic or don't get them. The rest of pointless mewling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:59 AM
50

Then you don't understand red pill. Red pill is simply understanding the dating market as it is, not as people present it. What you do with that knowledge is up to you. Edit: if I were interested in having children, I wouldn't date her. But I'm not. She's a woman who treats me with respect and molds herself to my interests. In exchange, she gets my loyalty and my best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:17 AM
19

42
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:13 AM
1

Bicepual (I get horny for muscles) and I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:52 AM
66

Yes. "The wall" isn't a hard number and it only applies to men who have an interest in reproduction. My current girlfriend is 46. And she's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:50 AM
2

I would be insulted to hear about being “a real woman” Exactly! And thank you for being consistent and considerate. Men do not get to tell women what makes them "real women."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:37 AM
1

You're so caught up in your misandry that you failed to get my point. Please reread what I wrote. Edit: And apologize for the personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:18 AM
0

Men bashing single mothers are usually losers who aren’t good parents themselves. Single moms who demand that men see them as equivalent options to childless women are usually losers looking for help instead of a partner. (See, anyone can make baseless insulting generalizations with zero evidence.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:07 AM
2

"Real men" are not based on what women think of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:02 AM
2

Well, aside from the fact that women don't get to determine what men or masculinity consists of, you have several terrible arguments that don't support your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:48 PM
2

You can assert it, but you can't defend it given the way the comments here are going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:26 PM
3

It's a classic attempt to attack masculinity when it doesn't directly benefit a woman. You never hear "a real man [insert thing that benefits the man]".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:23 PM
2

It's weirdo energy to bring your kid on a date. Any man with a modicum of sense would quickly excuse himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:21 PM
32

I don't really enjoy this kind of thing. Sure, it's a statistical improbability but it absolutely can happen and the same kinds of men who would present these studies are also the ones who crow about "personal responsibility" to women when they get raped. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:37 PM
4

This man would never date a single mother. He has access to networks of women who give him everything a single mom can without the burden of a child. He doesn't have time to dance around a single mom's schedule. If he's going to bother to date at all, she's going to have to get on his schedule and his availability. Having a kid prevents that. The single mom is, for all intents, invisible to these men. They aren't in places or situations where there are groups of single moms. It's married women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:02 PM
2

Perfect response!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:55 PM
6

And I gave you a rhetorical answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:53 PM
13

Gohan sends Piccolo father's day gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:29 PM
12

"That's a bingo!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:28 PM
15

He applied the vacuous logic that was used in determining that men who don't want single moms must be broke. It's good that you see the flaw in it, even if it had to be gender-swapped
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:27 PM
23

Because shaming language is a way to ensure male compliance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:25 PM
4

Whenever a woman starts talking about what "real men" should be doing, it's always something that benefits women at the detriment of men and shouldn't be listened to. To directly address this post though: HVMs want children, so a single mom actually is bringing MORE to the table automatically We want our own children, not the children of other men. The conflating of the two is intentional and dishonest. Males who avoid single moms are just looking at women as a piece of meat This is a non-sequit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:16 PM
6

Looks to me like this woman is making herself replaceable. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:36 PM
3

It benefits us by liberating men from the burden of being good men in order to fuck. Now all we have to do is pass the attractiveness check. Thanks feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:22 AM
4

I'm gonna say that we don't get to tell women what to do with their bodies unless we get really cool with them telling us to do with ours. Vote with who you give your attention to. People will naturally adjust to beauty standards or they will get frozen out the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:08 AM
1

I don't agree with both parts of your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:39 AM
0

This: Do you believe that men and women experience and navigate the world in fundamentally the same way? Yes Does not match this: Is it true, in your view, that men cannot fully understand the female experience? Fully? No, not without transitioning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 04:22 PM
3

Are you denying that every woman has different sexual urges?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:54 AM
5

I'm okay with that assertion. I'm not okay with OPs framing of "men don't care about sex" because it implies that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:37 PM
3

Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:36 PM
2

Do you also not understand that men don’t really lead with their abusive characteristics in the beginning. But I thought you said "Now thanks to social media and feminism you can post the shitty behavior of your partner on the internet and have literally everyone know all about it." Which is it? Are men super sneaky abusers that nobody can detect or do feminism and social media inform everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:20 PM
4

A typo, thanks for pointing it out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:18 PM
8

Now you're just arguing hypotheticals and wish thinking. Women choose men for their attractiveness first then their behavior as a distant second.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:34 PM
13

Let's quit the bullshit. A man's behavior is secondary to how attractive he is. If a man's behavior were the metric by which women chose their sexual partners, there would be no women in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:23 PM
2

Women are the ones bad at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:22 PM
6

a lot of women take a passive role in sex and then expect men to know what they like and how they like it, then act shocked when a man isn't the pussy whisperer. That's what I said. What matter does passivity have during clitoral stimulation during penetration? See that's what you like. Some women don't. Some women prefer anal play. Each woman is different and a man cannot know what women like unless THEY LET US KNOW, a thing that a lot of women don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:22 PM
11

I'm gonna say that dating has gotten easier for RP men and much harder for BP men. Why? Because there are (in general) no artificial roadblocks to sexual access. In the past, there were social conventions that prevented the rakish and less-restrained members of male society from monopolizing all the ass in the area - the need for marriage, the social pressure, and the community expectation formed networks that kept most men in check. It made life easier for men in the lower side of attractive by…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:58 PM
8

You gonna address my point or just write your erotic fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:32 PM
4

Yes, the goal is to please the other person. That isn't what I'm saying. I'm saying that a lot of women take a passive role in sex and then expect men to know what they like and how they like it, then act shocked when a man isn't the pussy whisperer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:19 PM
13

This is pure projection. Women are notoriously terrible in bed to the point where they abandon their sexual agency and demand that the man be responsible for her orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:37 PM
2

What is the point of complaining? You're encouraged to find any post of mine where I complained or advocate complaining. You'll find that my position is the opposite. If you're expecting women to suddenly change their strategy to marry one y'all out of pity is also pretty ridiculous. Is this a question or a statement? Your sentence structure tries to blend the two and achieves neither. My point is that the concern is missing the real problem why women don't want y'all. Nice broad brush there, Zo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:35 PM
1

This might trip you out, but: People can have more than one set of pressing problems. But really, your post is just indicative of a gross lack of empathy for men and is essentially telling them "shut the fuck up, I get to tell you what is worth complaining about." It doesn't move the conversation forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:16 PM
2

Only 6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:12 AM
2

The answer is complicated. It's unfair to both, and it gets more unfair to those at the extremes of the dating market. For those seen as extremely unattractive by their preferred group, it's unfair because they don't ever get any interest based on their appearance alone. They don't get a ticket to the dance, regardless of how good a dancer that they are. For those seen as extremely attractive by their preferred group, it's unfair because they get inundated with interest from legions of people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:45 AM
3

By your logic, does it even make sense to say that dating is “unfair” Fair: impartial and just, without favoritism or discrimination. Dating is replete with favoritism and discrimination. I'm not assigning moral value to it, I'm simply pointing out that dating is unfair. In fact, the desire to make dating "fair" requires a party (usually the party with the advantages) to discard their own desires and accept things they do not want. If TRP is “reality,” then isn’t it also true that women’s standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:18 AM
1

The core of TRP is an internal locus of control. You can't control others or what they do. Your outcomes are a direct result of your actions and choices Not everyone is dealt a good hand. You have to play what you've got The ones who externalize are people who haven't swallowed the pill fully - they see the unfairness, but they haven't accepted that there's nothing they can do about things outside of their control and the only solution is to work on the things they can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:56 AM
2

Women approach attractive men all the time. They don't walk up, grab men's balls and say "babies now please" but they do make themselves accessible and pleasing to the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:07 AM
6

If you want to know who has the power, the question you should ask is "who can walk away from the table at any time and not be negatively impacted by it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:50 PM
0

Mine is a dirty little kink monster and I'm quite pleased by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:25 PM
1

Horseshit. Women are deluged with options. Their choices shape their outcomes and they - consistently - choose "ToXIC" men. It's fine with me, because I know the game and how to play it. But please let's not pretend that women are trying to find true romance and that they're victims of predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:43 AM
2

AND MY BOW!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:40 AM
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"Charisma" is a mask for "are they sexually attractive". "Upbringing" is code for "old money".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:35 AM
5

Oh I didn't say exceptional. A lot of people confuse the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:26 PM
3

No true Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:56 PM
-2

So the question remains: Why? Why are women pushing against this? Because it gives men the advantage in dating. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:15 PM
-2

I don't argue with blue pillers. I just let results speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:11 PM
–

I'll agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:03 PM
–

The fact that it's on the list means that it's important. That's why it's on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:44 PM
7

I like my men with self-respect. Don’t let someone tell you they don’t want you twice. Fuck yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:24 PM
3

Ah the gradual shifting of the goalposts begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:23 PM
11

Women absolutely chase the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:23 PM
2

Ladies: do not do this, it's a fast way to end up on "the first 48". If you screen your partners like this, you will push away good men with healthy boundaries and respect while keeping toxic men who see you as an object to be owned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:22 PM
11

Maybe, but now you're getting into black pill territory where you assign malicious intent to everything the opposite gender does
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:19 PM
11

When a man asks a woman about dating, it's pointless for two reasons: She cannot answer from a man's perspective - her interactions with women are as a woman so she'll be treated differently by default. Norah Vincent learned this the hard way. She can only speak for the things she thinks she wants for herself. If a man takes that and tries to apply it to other women, it isn't going to bring results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:04 PM
3

The problem that I have with this wave of "red pill" men is that they aren't red pilled. They found TRP because the dating calculus wasn't working out and they couldn't understand why. They were lost and they found TRP. Great. The problem is that they started to swallow the pill but then choked and got it lodged in their throat. They were on board with the parts that said "you can find success with women" but they didn't like the "life is hard, and you better get used to it" parts. They don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:55 AM
13

Women are always gaslighting low value men, every time a woman says "you're just pretending to be nice because you feel entitled to sex" That isn't "gaslighting" - that's just her perception. Misuse of the word gaslighting is rampant and I wish it never entered into the common parlance. As much as we don't want to admit it, men do want sex. Yes, some of us are nice, but some of us also do feel entitled to sex. A woman has no real way (outside of direct experience with an individual) of discernin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:39 AM
7

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you aren't being sarcastic. So... Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:32 AM
0

What is this even supposed to convey? That Women don't know what they're talking about when they say "emotional intelligence" Men are more emotionally intelligent than women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:29 AM
7

I don't need blue pilled help. I'm quite satisfied with my romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:25 AM
5

No idea. Maybe if they didn't reward those men with sex and rewarded the attributes they claim they wanted, things would be different. But they do give men with toxic traits sex. I don't really care why, I benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:25 AM
1

most men excel at two of the four quadrants of emotional and social intelligence. This goes back to women not knowing what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:17 AM
-1

From all the incessant mewling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:14 AM
13

You don’t have to listen to me at all. I don't listen to what women say. I watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:12 AM
1

That being said: when I hear women say the bar is in hell they aren’t talking about looks. They definitely aren’t talking about money. They are talking about behavior. They’re talking about partnership. They’re talking about doing the dishes and child rearing. They’re talking about showing love. And they're full of shit. Women will happily give attractive men what they want, even if they are bereft of "doing the dishes and child rearing. They’re talking about showing love."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:12 AM
7

Ok, but it seems that you think I am defining emotional intelligence this way. I didn't even imply that. that real bar, because they don’t actually care to try. And I'm saying that women, in general, grossly misuse the term "emotional intelligence" I think many men even believe that they shouldn’t have to. Men are more emotionally intelligent than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:58 AM
7

Over sharing and trauma dumping is not emotional intelligence though. Yes, I know. I think you misread what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:43 AM
7

I've been on both sides of the coin - I've been the sweet, sensitive, kind, caring man and I've been the muscular, crass, "misogynist". Any guess as to which one women rewarded with sexual opportunities? I'm not red pilled because of the Internet. I'm red pilled because I've lived in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:41 AM
12

Again, you ignore observable reality. If character, integrity, substance, and loyalty mattered even half as much as looks, money, and status, then we would be living in a much different dating market. As it is, men who cultivate the things that women look for first (looks, money, status) do exceedingly better than the men who develop those other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:39 AM
14

Apps fucking suck. Apps are a combination of delusion. They give the user a false image of the dating market. For men, we see a bounty of women and we think it's a buyers market - we just have to select the woman who gives us the most value for the least investment of resources. For women, they see a bounty of men and think it's a buyers market - they just have to select the men who give them the most value for the least investment of sexual access. Those two things combined lead to unhappiness …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:36 AM
7

men who refuse to develop their emotional intelligence and relationship skills. I can't stand when women start prattling about "emotional intelligence" - most of y'all don't even know what it is, and think it means trauma dumping or excessive sharing. It's one of those buzzwords that is over-used like "gaslight" and "narcissist".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:34 AM
44

It isn't "gaslighting". People are unique and want different things. The problem that people have is that they see their preferred demographic as an amalgamation of the experiences they've had. And they usually remember the worst parts of those experiences. Worse, those unsuccessful with their preferred demographic look for reasons as to why others are the problem rather than saying "what about myself do I need to improve or change to get better results" because change and the admission of inade…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:31 AM
63

Look... It's important to be a good person. It's just less important than money, looks, and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:17 AM
16

Pretending that a man's attractiveness isn't the primary thing women want flies in the face of actual observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:16 AM
0

Oh no. Please. No. Don't just use us for sex and not demand commitment. That is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:20 PM
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