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Most white people condemn such rhetoric. Violence even more so. Most altright and even *nationalist, nrx and DE 'participants' or proponents don't support such racial attitudes either. In fact from my perspective the true cause is that of good vs evil, wherein the globalists are evil and they can only get away with their weird pizzagate abuse of innocents by keeping good people divided by race or gender. Menicus Moldbug launched the movement and what he describes as the multi tentacled monster o…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 10:07 AM
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Yah most female trump supporters I know say the exact same thing. Women can certainly be right wing. It helps if they have conservative, strong, redpill men around them. But he's just the altright posterboy, and if anything was the candidate for a Morgan Freedmanesque "stop talking about it" approach to the gender wars. Clinton wanted to turn gender into a bigger issue. Which is probably part the Soros agenda to divide and conquer. Even trp is a result of the division which has been manufactured…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 09:55 AM
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Exactly, watching your dad get cucked in your own home for your entire life has got to fuck a boy up. Edit: in my mind therefore, you are not the exception. You might not have had your dad around, but at least you didn't experience him being continuously cucked
/r/MGTOW20/10/16 06:51 AM
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I'm sure his info is sound. I just don't have time to spend on the internet lately, so I get most of my information from audiobooks and podcasts. Dom is much easier to listen to. His postcasts and Q&A sessions with Tim Ferriss are excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 12:57 AM
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This is deep, and very real. Every fucker I've ever spoken with about this shit who was raised by a single mother has had this fetish. Just be glad that you're unplugged. Much better to be a bull than a cuck, if you have to play this fucked up game (you do btw, escaping into religion only makes it worse)
/r/MGTOW28/09/16 12:55 AM
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You would like Lyle McDonald. Patrick Arnold has some funny things to say about the guy. I personally think that Dom D'Agistino is much more rational and information dense. If I ran into Lyle McDonald I think I would end up trying to break off the conversation quite quickly. If I ran into Dom D'Agistino I'm pretty sure I'd buy him a coffee (or a pure fat lunch) to keep him talking at me.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 12:34 AM
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Congratulations man you've turned your wife on with a tiny bit of excitement and minor dread. Do not DEER, do not use straight talk to discuss, or you will ruin the opportunity. Also, the boringness of her always knowing where you are, and also always getting sitreps from you on demand, must be a constant drain on her libido. Good thing you've found the leak: there is no sense in actively destroying her libido by leaving the tracking on. Think about it, she has had tingles from imagining what yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 06:08 AM
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Firstly, I cannot see my son unless I go through a 12 month Duluth model course. Courts disagreed but social workers have overridden them. I'm actually happy to do so because I'm aware that years of trying to fit my manhood into a blue pill box has fucked me up in ways that even Duluth model might help. Secondly, you are wrong, one can be charged with crimes for exactly the kind of thing that /u/PemBayliss listed. It's actually a good development because a) only the very stupid will get married …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 04:36 PM
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Don't talk to cops or the press or this can happen to you: http://m.exeterexpressandecho.co.uk/exeter-male-supremacist-links-8216-red-pill-8217/story-28791080-detail/story.html I should do a full post on this but in the meantime for the unconvinced, read the fountainhead or watch idiocracy
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:19 AM
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You're a lucky man. Good to know old people can have fun :P Thanks for the advice regarding RPW and serenity etc but my wife's never looked at MMSLP or anything. She spent hours finding the nastiest anger phase posts on TRP and then obviously went to my pastor. I don't blame her anger phase posts are sad, sad things. He's asked me to promise to not thing or do RP for a week. Not sure if I'm cool sacrificing my marriage for the sake of a week of 'peace'. Hey at least one of us newbies is moving f…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 04:52 PM
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At the same time, I am not going to tolerate my wife being controlling and puppet me around on what and how I should act towards them. You were doing fine up until then. See /u/dev_on - he hit the nail on the head. You know what is right and best. Just because your wife happens to have said it out loud first doesn't mean you shouldn't step up and do the right thing. Lesson learned: if you don't want her saying it first, in the future you'll have to make the right decision quicker, based upon wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 07:52 AM
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Also, be nice FFS. This. Eat, sleep when you can. Sure but my primary focus is that she gets some sleep too. I keep on resorting to BP attitudes in the hope that she will sleep. Interestingly it backfires spectacularly. She will eventually. Feeding an underweight newborn means we start from a not super well rested state. My diet is going fucking awesomely the past two days. Ah going to go make a spirulina smoothie and porridge for breakfast. Thanks! It's weird how one can forget to eat when fram…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 07:23 AM
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You might have fucked up but your advice is gold. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 12:25 PM
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Woah this is so weird. My wife 'busted' me like 2 hours ago. I just finished feeding the baby and sat down to post a question about this, and this comes up!!! So, TheGreasyPole (er, Mrs. TheGreasyPole) - you're not alone. Mrs. Scourge is currently reading through all my posts as we speak! :D Which is fine. I'm halfway through NMMNG and MMSLP and ordered WISNIFG. I'd like to have a bit of time to digest all this before it blows up if my face like this. Especially because I've got a lot of improvi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 11:53 AM
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Thanks. I need to read WISNIFG then. I'm halfway through NMMNG and SGM. You're probably right, that I need to fog. So far I've just been A&A and either humouring her into my frame or if I totally fail, trying to force her to get in my frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 10:27 AM
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But again, it's too much, maybe impossible, to ask someone who is newly aware of RP knowledge after years of betahood to not act on it in any way for 9 months. The first time I read this I didn't understand how true this is. RP is dangerous in that if you take it, it WILL affect you. I've got pretty good self control and I've still tried going RP before and after the birth. And the worst part is I can't tell if it's BP-me domineering mode, or RP thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 06:35 AM
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Yah that was always the plan but c-section has made it hard. almost 4 weeks in and we're still breastfeeding but it's a struggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 06:32 AM
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In my experience my reaction needs to align with hers. What do you mean by that? I think I'm just starting to get into loyalty tests but I don't understand them at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 06:30 AM
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Thank you for the constant reminders. I've literally spent the last 12 hours in and out of her frame. It's been 12 hours of non-stop fighting, and every few minutes I'm waving the betafagbootlickingmangina-notaman flag. It's hard because she can tell that I have a frame now and I'm able to hold us in it (sometimes) so it's a constant battle. If I know her fairly well, she's just refusing to give up something (the ability to control my happiness and all our conversations). And she's by nature ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 06:25 AM
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My problem is that the only instinctive response I have to shit tests is to tackle them head on, react to them at face value and explain why it is BS what she says, or command respect. This is where the plot thickens. What you are describing is exactly what guys do to establish hierarchy in the absence of stripes. That behaviour implies that you are equal to the person to whom you are calling their bullshit. And I'm good, really really good, at doing exactly that. I'm a quick thinker and I can c…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 05:23 PM
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As someone who's served as a Royal Marine, and knows what damn good job they did in these explorer situations 300 years ago, I just think "that is really fucking inefficient and risky. why would you not just have a proper Ctp/FO, back them up with a huge pile of musclebound marines, and be done with it. history proves that only navies who actually did this were effective in the long run" You've made your point though. And in Marriage 2.0 we might just have to resort to the inefficiencies and bar…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 05:04 PM
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My wife is much more RP than most women and even rarely throws shit tests my way. In a way, though, she's too much like a stereotypical guy -- doesn't emote enough, hahaha. Yes an introvert will be like that. I bet she gives a lot more shit tests than you're aware of. Also comfort tests. I used to get worried about how to tell them apart but with an introvert it is pretty obvious. My wife has ALWAYS been RP. They all are, just some are a bit more clued in to the game and everything else going on…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 04:56 PM
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This cannot be said enough. I've been working on my frame for a while now but I totally lose it when illogical wingeing and complaining like that comes from my wife. Sometimes I even let it show. Literally biting my tongue is going to have to be my next resort if I can't learn to just hide my thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 04:31 PM
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she plays along. then the time comes and she decides she's too tired. about 20 minutes later she announces she's going to bed, and she does. i wait about ten minutes then follow her in and say something like "really? is that your final answer?" we argue I'm still a newbie myself but I've learned that you shouldn't be having serious negotiating conversation ... in the lounge or wherever. Hey don't sweat it. We're all at various stages, moving forward. If you love her, and you try your best nothin…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 04:27 PM
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Ah fair point. Interesting to me then that the brits and dutch did much better at sea long-term. Both had marines to ensure that the FO said 'how high' when then captain said 'jump'.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:04 PM
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Oh wow! And yes you're right there will be lots coming into this sub soon. I've noticed guys with such mentalities getting married over the past few years. Many many of them follow you here. And good job for getting out of that rut. I haven't played a game since my freshman year. But I struggle with the same fundamental problem: working on the computer in the evening. I've decided to wake up at $ungodly_hour and do it then instead. Easing myself into the transition at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 09:02 PM
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The democracies and republics of North America and Western Europe don't exist in the 1950s anymore. Those days are gone. If a woman does not hold some kind of job, she is leeching off of a man, or the government, or both. I consider the bulk of the married women who do not work that I know to be leeches. They are in BP marriages, and don't put nearly the effort into running a household that a 1950s wife did. Considering the number of husbands in that group bitching about dead bedrooms, the only …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 08:59 PM
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I guess i see it more as captain/fo during the age of exploration, away from civilization for years, with no MPs or government backing you up. Like Captain Cook? Vancouver? Do you realize that they had Royal Marines on board to ensure that rank was respected? Still, pirate ships had positions just like an FO. Perhaps. The OP and I are taking exception to the exact term being used (FO), the general image it conveys, and the thought which it instils in the minds of MANY men. As both a MA in Histor…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 04:41 PM
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In retrospect you are right. However, my major problem turned out not to be the wife. My major problem was me. This is always true. Directly or indirectly, it is our fault. The man is the leader, biologically, morally and civilly. Even in marriage 2.0 it is still our fault. Anyone who says otherwise is in major denial.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 04:38 PM
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What are your thoughts on working with/around females? I always thought it would be total shit working as a Dr or elementary teacher. I've been linux programmer > Royal Marines Commando > Consultant linux programmer and feel I've been fortunate to work in a man's world (until recently: I'm starting to get a lot of BAs, PM's, "agile experts" and "scrumasters" who are female, esp. in large/government clients). It seems like you work in technology of some kind as well. Do you not make an attempt to…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:29 PM
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And, yeah, wanted to sort out my life. Just decided to. Once per month during pregnancy years was not enough. Not crisis mode. That is crisis. The worst period of betaness I ever went through was the first trimester, but even then it was daily outside of a few medical problem weeks. It got better after second and third trimester and even with a c-section it didn't take 3 weeks to get back to twice a day. I still view the entire first 3 years as colossal failure on my part. It doesn't matter thou…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:21 PM
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I know my post was very long, but it was because i gave a detailed point by point counter argument to your stuff. I'm not sure if you skipped it because it was too long, or you hamstered it as if I was agreeing with you. To be fair to the OP, I think you missed his original point: Cpt/FO or even Cpt/2IC are both very very very bad terms to use for the dynamic. I've thought it, the OP thought it, and they you just spent a long time explaining WHY it's a horrible analogy. So we all agree. You even…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 03:16 PM
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If I want them to learn quick, I must focus on budgeting teaching opportunities. It is more work for me, but that is what men do. Yes but that is also your wife's responsibility. See Montessouri for details but the gist of it is thus: spend the time to allow children to learn to do things for themselves when they are 2, so they aren't hopeless and helpless with their motor skills when they are 5. This includes paring, cleaning and peeling for themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 02:39 PM
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I still need to finish reading the wall of text by /u/strategos_autokrator but I'm sure it is excellent. Pirate ship is probably a better concept than Cpt/2IC. And NMMNG will help you. I'm halfway through it right now. I am also ex-military (bootneck) and I too struggled with the Cpt/2IC model. In fact since I'm a beginner, it has caused a lot of problems. Most time she falls right in line (which surprised me, but it's a huge turn on for her), but then she can err on the side of asking for direc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 11:16 AM
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Wasn't getting any though. After cockblock #2 arrived decided to "reset our pattern". I was aware that what we did 12m after he was born would likely last 20years. Oh so you were still looking for help. With the recent DE/NRx connection to MRP, I think there will be a lot of guys wandering in like myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 09:34 PM
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There is a reason I do this... I didn't come into the red pill in the way that appears to be very standard in these parts... Blundering accross the red pill because my relationship was in the shitter and I was desperate for a way out. Any way out. Yah I've noticed lots of guys are like that. I'm curious as to how/why you found MRP? Personally, I did the typical old-school life changes when expecting our first child (he's 3 weeks old, on my lap right now). First, building possibly the biggest bac…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:20 PM
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Are there any who are not catholic?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 03:03 PM
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I clicked to look for a proper exegesis of Genesis 3:15. Both failed, although freenotherner had some commentators who get it. It's RP as fuck, and my 'does his own thing' father has been right about Genesis 3:15 for two decades, but no one in the blogosphere has done a proper handling of it. Maybe we could get some of the freenortherner commentators to fill the gap? I could do it but my Hebrew is getting a little rusty. Btw are there any non-catholic manosphere/NRx bloggers?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 03:03 PM
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All four of my kids have a middle name which ties back to a loved relative. Yah we do that as had 3 generations before us. The mother's maiden as a middle name thing was a massive neg for me and honestly just a sign of the feminist state they were in at the time. Perhaps I'm reacting against it so strongly because I had to live through 5 years of feminist separation, rejection, power-tripping etc before my mom decided to actually be a mother and woman. And once she did it was great. And none of …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 11:00 AM
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She's an introvert who works in a position that requires a lot of interaction with other people, and she goes to the gym every day, so when she comes home she's genuinely tired. This is usually her response to any advances I make during the week. Wow you just described my wife pretty much for the first 2 years of our marriage. Introvert, sweet, schoolteacher. When we got married I wanted her to cut back to 2 days a week and spend the rest of the time cooking and baking and dressed sexily. It wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 08:24 PM
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Do not allow the "middle name" thing. My mom's maiden name is one of my middle names. What reward did my dad get? Instant separation, alienation. My first 5 years were in a broken house because my mom got her way about adding in her maiden name. Thankfully my dad redpilled up and they got back together to have 5 more kids (no maiden names anywhere) and here we are 30 years later. It's fucked me over so many times and it's only on my birth certificate. My wife (old country) thought I was gentry a…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 06:50 PM
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It's a fact that holding a firearm of any kind will make you appear larger, more alpha, bigger muscles, and more of a turn-on. source Personal experience: I met my wife while doing some pretty extreme military training. By the 9th month of the course I was >8%bodyfat and VERY cut. When I showed her some silly photos I had taken during a weapons cleaning break (berets, no clothes, holding a large bullpup assault weapon in one and a 7.62 chain-fed weapon in the other), it was a maximum turn-on for…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 06:40 PM
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60 years have been spent ensuring that technology and techniques are improved to implement the lessons we learned from the soviet's mistakes. last-minute exits won't be possible this time around.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:14 PM
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I did the same more or less, but I disagree that you're going to restore patriarchy to America or anything. The tipping point was passed a while ago. For every guy like you or I, there are dozens of welfare queens and single mothers cranking out boys and girls who will blame men for every problem known to man. The progs decided on an r-selective reproductive strategy, and it turns out that it will probably work to out-breed our types. Especially when we're footing the bill. Doesn't matter if you…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:02 PM
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Marry a college-educated, 25 or older woman, and your odds of divorce in the first 20 years of marriage Ahhh so you get 20 years before getting divorce raped. Sounds like a good deal to me! 20 years is an eternity isn't it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:11 PM
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love letters are a man's thing. Don't get me wrong. Women will ask/demand (depending where in training they are) for a love letter. And we will write them, if we haven't written one already. But it will end up crumpled in the bottom of a drawer. I used to get mad at her for not appreciating poems and love letters, not storing them. At least at my worst, I was man enough to not uncrumple my works and put them in an envelope. Now I realize it was just because she despised me for being romantic lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 01:39 PM
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Yes. It's a really shitty deal but it's just like playing the game turned up to maximum difficulty, no respawn. Those of us who can succeed (wish me continued success!!) will find it very very easy once The Cathedral comes crashing down. I can't imagine any worthy woman willingly having children out of wedlock. Yes, that's not even close to being a solution. At all. If you're looking for genetics that you want in your children, you're looking for her to have enough backbone to ask for and get a …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 01:33 PM
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For the sake of your children, shouldn't you turn it up from 'mild' to 'normal' ?? Dread is such a turn on, do your wife a favour and give her the whole dose, do your girls a favour as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 01:24 PM
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Oh totally. In fact I'm starting to think that 'thou shalt lift' is the best soft dread around. It's pure arousal and light on the guilttripping/insecurity. I'm almost full RP package now, having eased into it kinda cautiously. I will back into a bit of beta during the labour and nursing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 11:04 AM
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Thanks. I think we've planned as much as we can for the post-partum period. My mom has lots of experience with the process and recommended the Babywise or Parent Directed Feeding books which we've read. Hopefully that will give us a framework for keeping marriage frame. I fully expect to have some really tough periods though, thanks for the tips.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 11:03 AM
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Plus we getting a great house for a great price. Hmm no such thing as a free lunch and if it sounds too good to be true.... but hey make lemonade from your current position. Never live in the past. The kitchen remodel is put on hold for sure. I put my foot down. Great. Perhaps buying a house won't be as catastrophic as I was imagining. Overall, I'm just glad there's hope. Just have to be patient and plan the long game. This is 100% positive. You had things go sideways on you faster than normal, …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 10:56 AM
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Sorry, original link
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 01:46 AM
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yah don't worry about it you'll get this sorted. first, come over to my thread and start to get your head around what effects pregnancy might have on the RP process. (tl;dr: RP still might work great, it's worked fine for me and others, but there are some basic cautions that you should know). Oh, and btw it's the same advice for how much sex during pregnancy is 'normal': it depends. My wife is due in 5 days and we've had the steamiest crazy sex every night of the week this week. Including the mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 12:44 AM
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Yah I've accidentally discovered the same. YMMV yes but I would like to get some workable principles on the subject. Great to hear about saving your marriage though! How long ago did you RP? How's the baby?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 12:04 AM
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I think of it this way: Red Pill is part sexual game strategy and by getting pregnant with your baby she's dropped out of the game temporarily. Right and I've been trying to RP with things like that in mind, but I'm looking for someone to chime in and say 'I did something (like dread) and it was a bad idea'. I want first hand reports. Not to downplay your thoughts at all, I totally agree with your theory. It's just that my experience has been contradicting the theory.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 12:03 AM
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thanks, this is an area that seems hard to advise on. it seems that my experience (accidentally) and /u/alpha_n3rd and others is that well-executed dread can work. guessing that: a) you need to do good dread, not 'create insecurity to get more sex' dread. i really think 'dread' is the WRONG term, because properly done, 'dread' is more about making wet panties than dreadful women. b) women are sometimes very sexual during pregnancy, and that's a great time to get your alpha on but then the cautio…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 12:01 AM
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Yah I was kinda hoping to have someone mention that there are two sides to this coin. I didn't want to go preaching on it yet because one or two of my anecdotes do NOT a wiki entry make. My experience is very similar to yours but I didn't want to build a theory on it. So far: started reading 3 weeks ago, started doing frame right away. We were already into our 7th month of wonderful pregnancy sex (we've never really had a particularly dull point since we got married 3 years ago, as I'm probably …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 11:55 PM
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Ok she is pregnant and an emotional wreck? To clarify, she's not. She's never really been a 'wreck' in any sense of the word, but during the pregnancy she's been great! Yah the occasional test etc but on the whole, really really pleasant!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 06:45 PM
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Her whole biology is focused on the quite difficult task of making a new person, so don't do anything drastic right away. Very true. And a man's natural (and good?) reaction is to be ambitious to do his very best. Sometimes with weird effects (the first time). 8 months ago, when we first told my dad that a baby was on the way, he related a relevant story: Basically, when my parents were expecting me, there were many couples in the village having their first children at the same time and the runn…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 04:06 PM
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I'm aware that '12 stages' is linked in the wiki. But it's not obvious to someone who has limited time. And who is avoiding 'dread' anyways (as I was) because he has enough knowledge to be dangerous. I.e. knows that 'dread' is not what he needs to be learning right now. Therefore won't click on that link (12 stages), therefore won't get the warning. And won't get some of the subtle nuances of what can end up being 'dread'. Even lifting, 'focus on gym and your wellness' can end up dread if one is…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 01:50 PM
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i'm confused. you think there is a difference between feminists/progressives and christians? they are the same heresy, disguised slightly differently source: i am a believer in christ, and have seen a very clear pattern of our faith being turned into a prog 'pep rally' it's really sad
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:36 PM
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She is just charming and was trained... I don't think I'll ever get married because I don't expect to find a woman with charm. Your mom isn't the way she is because 'from childhood' anything. That might have helped, but I would guess that your dad expected, demanded, and if all else fails, trained her to have charm. And as we know, expecting something is the same as training. That's TRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:53 PM
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ah, i understand now. i want to be effective. and yes, within the context of a marriage, being effective is often no the same as being right. sorry i was a bit slow to understand. i was thinking too broadly.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 08:17 PM
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i don't think there is a conflict between the two. perhaps i don't understand?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 06:48 PM
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right, so use humour, which doesn't need to be rational. when she 'oh can we get a new X, poor me, our X is perfectly fine but i want a shiny one' - do the same. imitate her, stick out your lower lip, do a sad puppy face and say 'oh nooos whatever did people all throughout history do when they not only didn't have a shiny X, but no X at all???' it works a treat. sometimes you end up making an inside joke. we have several inside jokes which started as her shit tests. the great thing is, every tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 04:03 PM
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edit: sharing details. Weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 03:50 PM
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I am INTJ as well. First time I've "met" another. Me too For you first point, I mean "alpha" or RP or whatever...they are all just terms. The point is that I do honestly believe I am living in a natural state of marriage and it is a happy one. Yes and you do have advice which would help those who would listen. Thanks for taking the time to avail yourself to others. Concerning church. I don't follow all of your terms. Not sure what you mean by "part of The Cathedral," "tradcons," or "unicorn comm…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:29 PM
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surely you've gotten you wife to laugh at her * tests, even if after the fact? i did that long before RP, just 'cause i thought it was funny. and she does too. doesn't stop her from coming up with new ones but eventually she'll run out. if she doesn't just stop outright first.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:12 PM
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She's seriously jealous of the porn stars. stretch goal: fix that.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:09 PM
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welcome, very similar situation myself, although we've been married 2 years and so just finished the adjustments phase. I wonder how many questions you'll get since RP isn't about being alpha, it's about strategy. I mean, if you understand things, then great. My experience is that most alphas don't, at all. I never considered myself alpha. Physically and everything, I match the description. But I'm a total INTJ, and for years I thought 'the only way to win The Game is not to play' < the way I ap…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 01:12 AM
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totally BP. think about it, if she wanted betabucks, she'd be happy for you to do that (or at least happy that when you're done, you'll be in no position to game anyone or anything)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 12:53 AM
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wait, i don't understand what you're getting at.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 12:35 AM
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Thanks, I do a few of these things and some of them I hadn't even thought of.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 05:07 PM
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Yah wow. You're totally right about immersion (and emotion to a lesser extent). We do get totally immersed. But I fail a lot of times. I really do need to work on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 05:01 PM
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do you think its possible that with the right balance of leadership, support and responsibility, one could basically make it to not be so? i've just noticed that in the last 3 months, the "you won't love me anymore after the pregnancy" etc has just turned into a laughing, inside joke. she still says it but more to laugh at the silliness of the test? i've done this by accident for years. turn a shit test into a joke, make it playful and funny that she would be worried/angry/depressed over such a …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:54 PM
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yah i totally agree. i've been trying to walk a fine line between implementing what i've been reading and supporting her in her pregnancy. i appreciate your words of wisdom, and if it re-assures you, i've been erring on the side of support and gentleness. she would be the first to say i've supported her health and relaxation all the way through. i'll continue to support especially for the first few months of having our newborn baby. the nice thing about this phase is i'm the one that needs to ke…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:48 PM
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cum and O are two different things
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:17 PM
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cool i've already been doing those two things. I'll continue to focus on them. Also, started lifting heavy today. And just owning my own shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 07:05 PM
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it sounds like your frame and game are going well. work on yourself a bit now. thou shalt lift. morning routine (shit, shower, shave), read some poetry, read some moldbug. do the dad thing, but from your initiation (something like "i'm taking the kids to the park for an hour, do you want to come?" - shows strength and independence) we work well as a team but it's easy for me to slip into depending on her for all the logistics for everything. which is good i'm just throwing it out there to give h…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 10:11 AM
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yes there were a few places where it was not patriarchal enough. speaking of joseph, he was alpha as fuck. it's for good reason that the wife he ended up getting is given some mention. i know PUAs will say he should have gone for potiphar's wife but thats stupid. a real alpha doesn't hide and cower and cheat and get manipulated by hypergamous sluts like potiphars wife. a man keeps his honour intact as much as possible. p.s. i think he might have been an INTJ sigma to be a little more precise
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:21 PM
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you're totally right but: it's probably totally made up. the geography (in the supposed anatolian location) doesn't make any sense at all. if it happened at all, it happened in north cambridgeshire and the gog magog hills, but whatever. i'm just saying that this is an old example of fairy tale and surprise surprise the fairy tale is feminist slant. regardless of it the whole thing was made up or not, the movie certainly shows a huge case of ONEitis. And while it had the decency to show hector an…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:27 PM
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a made-up story. not the first, and not the last, example of feminist propaganda. message: "killing and horrible things are GOOD as long as it's pointless, irrational, and all centered around pedestalizing a woman" movies today are the same: going on a rampage because of ONE-itis? Great! any other reason? evil (or at best perhaps slightly pathetic, in the case of Rambo I) edit: the rambo sequels got a dose of ONE-itis. if i remember correctly.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 01:23 PM
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Also, side note, homeschooling is fantastic. Once she starts, she will likely find a lot more women who think more along the lines you two do. Have her check into the groups now as she might find play groups or other groups that she could join now even though your child is a baby. She found a "montessouri play group" organized by a homeschooling lady in town, and I took Tues morning off and we went together. It was great, as you say, just for the networking. Interestingly (for our area) she was …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 09:32 PM
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wut i thought TRP was passive income, drop the high powered career? which is it??? someone tell me quick before i dump my top 1% career :)
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:19 PM
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I've been a libertarian for 14 years, but how long have you been reading NRx? Thats what I meant. the rest of what you said Translation: "I'm actually NRx, I just don't know it." The part about "open - by definition, it is the opposite of RP." Yes, in fact, I responded directly to it... Did I miss something? Yah that was only the first sentence of the first paragraph. I should know better than to lead with the most striking point, especially if it wasn't really my main point at all. And judging …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 08:16 PM
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wow this is awesome. describes me almost exactly, except we are about to have our first child. and i've only been reading for 3 weeks. need to get my ass in gear now. i cam across it from the NRx scene on reddit, which i found in a bleak state of "but the world our firstborn grows up in is going to be shitty", which was probably negs from trying to act beta sinc shortly after we got married. weird. the sad thing is, i think it was when we joined our church together that i started going BP/beta. …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 08:02 PM
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Yes, no, we are, and we will, been planning on it for years, since before we got married
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 07:40 PM
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I've looked in to the neoreaction/dark enlightenment stuff and it just doesn't ring true to me. Maybe it's just because I'm naturally a bit of a libertarian libertine. The tradcon side of TRP has always seemed out of place. shrug I'll give you a year. There is a reason we (NRx) call ourselves post-libertarians. Over the past decade I've read every libertarian and anarchist author of every kind. btw tradcons are the anti-thesis of NRx. Just as much as we fight The Cathedral. However, I definitely…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 07:34 PM
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my wife's had similar scary moments with: small embraces of minimalism (her idea): instant attacks both subtle and forthright from the herd (including her friends, family and ex-coworkers) doing a little less catalogue-inspired nesting and a little too much actually preparing (montessouri, simple toys, simple mobiles) for the baby. way too much for the herd's taste. she has been taking it in the neck, especially on fb. she's agreed that it would be best to have better outlets (she's considering …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 07:18 PM
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thanks. it's good to hear gratefulness. and it reminds me to be grateful. i've had similar great things happen recently, both like yours and like the OP's story. mrs. scourge is pregnant so that might be helping, but if i can step up my game we'll carry it though and into the future :)
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 07:01 PM
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open - by definition, it is the opposite of RP. and the opposite of how reality works. OP, you and your wife are the exception that proves the rule polygyny - this has a proven historical track record for working well and being very RP. See: the story of Isaac (and basically the thousands of years before and after). Also there are polygynous groups in the world today, mostly Christian groups which are a throwback to the reformation and before. I.e. groups which were NOT part of hyper-calvinistic…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 06:51 PM
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thanks! I personally think that's a tad bit pie in the sky, but Diana herself is living proof it can be done. this is exactly what "exception that proves the rule" means. TRP rules are proven to be true because someone like her is obviously an exception. i don't think there's anything exploitative of men in a truly traditional setup. are you familiar with neoreactionism/dark enlightenment? Is she? Because which "traditional conservatism" and 1950s might have been exploitative of men, full neorea…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:42 AM
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who is this feminism LOL lady? what's up with her saying "what we don't want is to go back to a traditional culture" > lol really? so we want to continue circling the drain? we will go back to a traditional culture, right after mad max meets the road.... everywhere also, that chick is out of jail after a few months? wtf
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:07 AM
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so you're trying to convey basic, core RP dogma. marriage 2.0 - very very bad for men all the alternatives - VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY bad for women. but it's going to happen anyways. the number of blue pill guys is getting smaller every day. you won't get banned for making a VERY good corollary to RP essentials :D
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 09:40 PM
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http://no-maam.blogspot.co.uk/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:47 PM
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Use biology to your advantage. If she wants a kid, then you lay down the groundwork. Change the situation for the better. Do it properly. Be a man. If others get on your case about it (her family), don't be afraid to point out things that you expect to be in place. Do not fear being mocked for wanting to put things in place for such an undertaking (although it's not hard): it will only show maturity on your part. Learn to negotiate. Hold her (and her family's) feet to the fire. Become alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 05:21 PM
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http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.co.uk/2012/07/minimalism-threat.html
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:58 PM
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who is rollo? the blogger? did you get my pm?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 08:29 PM
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Sorry, I should have said that most of what you said was really good. I guess I mis-read that one part (which I had quoted). You weren't saying that she's not a help-meet or a net benefit (my diatribe was just going off on how one IS better off with a wife). Obviously a good wife will be a help, just not in "the mission", as you say. It's just that while she might be able to be onboard with the mission, she's not going to be able to contribute to that mission properly. And I get that (now that I…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 10:35 AM
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Part of the pain of taking the pill, though, is the realization that she is unable to love me or provide for me like I thought (or she thinks) she should. I am on my own there. My mission, my happiness. If anything, her role is as spoiler in order to keep me sharp by chucking crap at me. I disagree. Experiment, but don't do you insane plan for long term. Not without reading about neoreactionism and the NAP. There's a reason even moldbug has to balance his statements: we've left the cathedral of …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 09:43 PM
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I have a question. First, let me say that it's super weird: even though I've never heard of redpill before now, I've had a VERY similar cycle to what you describe. But the only time it turned out well (as you describe) is when I was too tired to cave in and make overtures. But the positive result was exactly as you describe. We are still fairly young in love, and coming to the end of our first pregnancy (so as others have said, I'm being a little more beta, and structuring my alpha better so it'…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 01:37 PM
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