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Dr Ramani is a narcissist in denial and usually has no idea what she's talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:40 AM
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ableism 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:39 AM
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I mean the quote is great but she manipulated her daughter to use for her own gain. i think the only reason she wanted her to stay away from Diego was because he would've helped her realize the handler was manipulating her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:18 AM
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white supremacists love fetishizing east Asian culture, especially japanese
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:41 PM
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you don't have to put down women of other races to uplift black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:39 PM
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puts headphones back in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:54 AM
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that sounds like a psychological problem that needs to be addressed through therapy asap before it becomes much more serious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:25 PM
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I've lived in both the west and an Asian country and I 100% agree. they're still men but at least they're well groomed, dressed nicely and hygienic 😂 men in the west really don't care about how they present themselves at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:18 PM
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I can only hope my little brother isn't watching porn :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:11 PM
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knowing how depraved they are, they'll probably see it as an invitation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:47 AM
2

this reminds me of when I was around 10, I made a YouTube channel for games because I thought it was cool. deleted it not too long after because of constant vile comments from men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:16 AM
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I hope the family reported this shit. disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:50 AM
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so he is jealous of men who RAPED her while she was an unconscious minor?? this is just disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:40 PM
2

get a memory foam pillow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:56 PM
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OP, he's not cheating because he needs external validation, he's cheating because he knows he'll get away with it and you'll stay with him regardless. this man is destroying your self esteem and harming you mentally. he's not going to change. it's good that you found FDS and realized you need to leave. you need to kick this guy out. once you do leave him, you will heal and recover your self esteem. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you deserve way, way better than this cheating, lying assh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:58 PM
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this!!! his cheating is definitely not a coping mechanism, but even if it were that doesn't make it okay. at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:53 PM
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aileen killed in self defense though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:18 PM
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for a lot of men, sense of humor in a woman just means she'll tolerate disrespect disguised as jokes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:39 PM
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they know having sex with men is degrading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:02 PM
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how pornsick do you have to be to say something like that and right off the bat. yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:39 PM
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14 :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:22 PM
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he cheated and probably still is cheating. why else would he lie about them? why else would he have pictures where they were posing like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:11 PM
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do you date them because they're white though? because that's the case with race fetish men. they only date women of x race because they are of x race
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:05 AM
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disgusting racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:23 PM
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https://youtu.be/V-4NPyqpTOA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:04 PM
9

yikes. he sounds so much like my ex. I'm glad you're away from him now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:09 PM
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right, and the fact that he talked to OP on snapchat just confirms it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:00 AM
14

what did cats do to you? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:44 AM
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usually, the more a couple posts about their relationship, the more miserable they are in reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:48 PM
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yeah, and they still whine about how women are shallow whores or whatever bizarre projection they conjure up in their ape brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:46 PM
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kink?? this is literally rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:15 PM
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so anyways men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:10 PM
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yup, this is entirely how they're raised, both the woman and the man. women tend to be raised to be caretakers and men tend to be raised to be lazy and incompetent and expect women to mommy them. but that doesn't mean they can't realize and change that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:52 PM
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I completely agree. I'm bi and I've never dated a girl, but I'd like to. most men don't have a personality outside of their dick and their video games or their sports or whatever. and 90% of men just look disgusting. girls are better in ever way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:17 PM
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social media is full of these body types because they're all photoshopped. but most men have brain rot and can't tell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:38 PM
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this is why I carry a pocket knife and pepper spray
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:30 PM
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also your value as a woman doesn't depend on your looks. you need to stop attaching your self worth to your physical appearance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:53 AM
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why do you care about what males think of you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:51 AM
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I used to do taekwondo. felt good beating them in sparring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:51 PM
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Ikr lol. the words "Filipino woman" and "submissive" do not go together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:25 PM
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be careful, though. men can keep up the HV act for a while. my ex was like this and he still cheated 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:22 PM
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Um what? I'm also diagnosed with BPD? And these are observations I've made in myself and others I've met with BPD?? And theres better ways to communicate that my comment was stigmatizing than starting an argument, twisting my words, and calling me a narcissist. Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:07 AM
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Uh, read my comment before putting words in my mouth. I never said you're all pickmes, or that you're all sex positive, or easy. I never even mentioned easy, nor do I know what that means. What I said is that women with BPD are more vulnerable to becoming pickmes due to their upbringings. That's not stereotyping or stigmatizing, that's my own observation. How is that invalidating anyone's experiences and choices? Or blaming women? Are you just looking for someone to argue with? I don't understan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:50 PM
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why do incels idolize him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:17 PM
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Most BPD women are pickmes. They were usually abused/neglected as children, usually by their fathers, which causes them to seek out similar relationships as the one they had with their father. And BPD have low self esteem, so they tend to attach their self worth to attention/validation from men. This makes them very vulnerable to pickmeism and "sex-positive" culture. FDS can really help these women, BPD or not, process and work through their trauma, and develop a good sense of self esteem and va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:20 AM
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3 weeks. before that it was, "I love you unconditionally, you're my soulmate" blah blah. Wrote me poems, sent me love songs. Then after 3 weeks it was all gone, didn't even say "I love you" to me. Good thing I dumped that POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:59 AM
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*12
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:33 PM
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but the thing is you don't even know if they're really gay. I've heard too many stories of straight dudes pretending to be gay to get close to girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:58 PM
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I'd say yes, make him get his hopes up, then not show up. then block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:08 PM
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I'm late gen Z and I've been thinking about this a lot lately. 99.9% of this generations males are pornsick. the only ones I've met that didnt watch porn were asexual and didn't have much interest in sex in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:16 PM
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What was he thinking? "this is a completely normal thing to put on my profile that will make me desirable to women." like what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:20 PM
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reminds me of the Dworkin Quote that goes something like, "Many women deny feminism because it is an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny which permeates culture, society, and all personal relationships."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:17 PM
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yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:00 PM
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Where are you getting these statistics from? up to 15% of prisoners are ASPD, which is the disorder with the reputation of being criminal, so 80% for NPD sounds ridiculous. Also, where do you think personality disorders come from? these disorders develop as the result of being abused. You don't get to pick and choose which victims you empower and which victims you scapegoat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:56 PM
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I see this everywhere. even on this sub sometimes. most people don't realize that casually throwing around BPD/narcissist/sociopath and armchair diagnosing anyone they don't like with a pd is ableist though so idk how to feel about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:36 PM
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Ok this person is tripping because Viet girls are beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:26 PM
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that emoji by itself is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:06 AM
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being told to eat something or put on some weight so I can have "big tits and ass"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:08 PM
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You forgot Five and his mannequin lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:04 AM
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I am so glad I dont post pictures of myself on Instagram antmore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:53 AM
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Yes it is! but he tried to convince me that it's normal and I'm the crazy one for thinking otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:00 PM
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you're absolutely right, he was a completely different person when I first met him. Then about three weeks in, so many red flags started showing up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:59 PM
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I agree, I never gave any sexual favors though, and I'm glad I didnt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:58 PM
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I mean if the price is the issue, you can find lots of good quality rings that are inexpensive and beautifully designed. This is just lazy and you're gonna end up with green fingers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:48 AM
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No ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:18 PM
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Its amusing how men think our biggest priority is to be attractive to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:05 AM
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"kinky" guys just use bdsm as a way of abusing women in a way that's socially acceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:00 AM
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I'm a nice guy. I cheated on my ex... but I'm a nice guy, trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:44 PM
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Also have sisters. Idk, I've noticed that men who were surrounded by women growing up are a lot more respectful and empathetic than men who weren't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:48 AM
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I mean birth control has a lot of uses that aren't sex. And I have mixed opinions on SSRIs, mostly because they do more bad then good in the long term and most doctors know that but keep prescribing them for the sake of making money...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:24 AM
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Juul is a type of vape that's marketed as a way to quit smoking. But in reality it's a lot more addictive. I know because I used to have one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:20 AM
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What works for me is dressing rich and acting very confident, almost narcissistic. that will scare most of them away because lvm will look for an easy target, someone who is insecure and will depend on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:27 AM
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I'm genuinely confused though... what is unattractive about her body? I thought they liked the slim thick body type? did their pornsick brains just stop working because they saw a natural human woman that hasn't been edited tf out of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:02 PM
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I hate pickmes that talk on behalf of all women to please these delusional men and feed their bizarre fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:54 AM
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He really thought he did something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:21 AM
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Assume the worst until they prove you otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:44 PM
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The only reason I can think of is fear of committment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:45 PM
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She's still pretty badass and was a better role model than the other Disney princesses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:15 PM
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She's amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:26 PM
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The most beautiful men are the same attractiveness level as the average woman/girl. Men are just ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:36 PM
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Whenever someone says girls are too much drama, 9 times out of 10 she's the source of the drama..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:12 PM
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I feel ashamed to be INTP now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:17 PM
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Kai from EXO is beautiful. These men could never 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:44 PM
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Because they're desperate for any female attention and they think that women feel the same way about male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:56 PM
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That's not even a trope, that's something probably most het women have experienced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:04 PM
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I remember reading in a post that said men hate cats because they're creatures associated with femininity that aren't obedient/submissive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:55 PM
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Ik, I'm just pointing out how ridiculous of a line it is because you'll never in a million years see women being so depraved that they have online lessons for how to rape men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 03:56 PM
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That's why straight guys tend to be so homophobic towards gay men. They're afraid gay men think of them the same way they think of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 12:35 AM
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"BuT mEn GeT rApEd ToO"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:29 PM
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Men don't deserve women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:15 AM
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I used to. I don't wear makeup at all anymore. I like how fresh my face feels, and I like how I get a lot less unwanted attention from men. I also get ready in 10 mins now instead of an hour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:21 PM
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The u/ is still visible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:44 PM
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"He won't find out"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:54 PM
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what is it with grown men trying to talk like teenage girls on twitter? I keep seeing that lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:33 AM
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I guess to tire you out until you give up and eventually stop arguing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:18 PM
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They think male attention is the highest priority for us. I used to be really underweight and whenever I'd say "damn, i wish i wasn't so skinny" some guy would show up out of nowhere and say "actually i love skinny girls, lots of guys think they're sexy" when my comment had nothing to do with what guys think. And they couldn't understand that I could care about my weight for other reasons like health and strength instead of male attention, they'd just keep repeating the same phrases trying to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:31 PM
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That's why I deleted my personal Instagram and dont post pictures of myself there anymore. So many creeps and perverts. I had one tell me "guys he know" (probably himself) were masturbating to my pictures. The pictures I posted on there were of my face and my outfits, nothing sexual...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:15 PM
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My shrink used to work at child services and she said that cases of men adopting/fostering children and sexually abusing them were not uncommon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:11 PM
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She was probably raped herself and that's how she copes with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:14 PM
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Thigh-high socks and fishnets also. I really like that aesthetic but I stopped wearing it because the unwanted sexual attention I get when I dress like that is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:41 PM
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Unless the man is gay or ace then probably not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:29 AM
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They think that their anger is logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:21 AM
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They both look like theyre on meth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:39 PM
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Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:51 PM
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Stop attaching your sense of self worth to your appearance so much. Every time you look in the mirror, you gotta tell yourself that this is me and I'm good enough. You said you are fit, intelligent, and people like being around you, so you already have a lot going for you. You have to stop holding yourself to impossible beauty standards, and make a change in your mindset by reminding yourself that the way you are is good enough. I used to be a perfectionist too, but I started gradually stepping …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:24 AM
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What made me suspicious is that he contacted her from an in patient mental ward. Never heard of a mental ward that allows outside communication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:23 PM
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Yeah that's what i mean. But so many men act like women are choosing men based on height alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:46 AM
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I dont understand men's obsession with being 6 feet tall. Literally never met a woman who's that picky about height, yet men are always whining about it and lying about their height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:54 PM
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No, just posted about me constantly. If he continues to email you though, you might wanna contact police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:39 PM
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Yeah, it kinda bothers me when people armchair diagnose shitty men with disorders that people actually suffer from, to try to explain their behavior. Hes a shitty person because hes a man, not because he has some rare mental disorder that makes him that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:56 PM
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I came to my senses and cut him off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:34 PM
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I've been in a very similar situation. My ex would cheat on me by flirting with other girls and tell them I'm his crazy stalker ex when they found out about me/asked about me. He'd also take texts I'd sent to him completely out of context and send it to his friends as "proof" that I was stalking him, like a text of me saying I've arrived at his house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:53 AM
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Their sons gonna grow up to hate them for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:37 AM
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I carry a pepper spray and a pocket knife for these situations. The pepper spray is for use but the pocket knife is mainly to show that they shouldnt mess with me, usually they'll back off after I pull it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:19 PM
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Omg stories like this are why I have trust issues. You never have a way of knowing if your boyfriend is doing stuff like this behind your back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:20 PM
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I experienced this when I opened up about the abuse my ex put me through. All of his female friends sided with him despite the fact that there was evidence right in front of them. I personally think its more pathetic than sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:01 PM
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It's probably because Im 5'2 and look 12 but people are always condescending to me when I dont wear makeup. I get treated like a kid when I'm bare faced. People also dont pay that much attention to me. When I wear makeup, I get stared at by men, hit on, etc. Women also compliment me more and are warmer towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:46 AM
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