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Don't get together trying to change the other.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/26 08:20 AM
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According to gpt only about 4 in every 1,000 users (≈0.4%) are geniuses. Professionals study for years and dedicate to solve problems on their fields.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/26 11:18 PM
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Define normie, pls
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/26 10:43 PM
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Those who see colors don't see hearts
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/26 10:34 PM
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You need a psychologist, not reddit
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/26 10:25 PM
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My thoughts, at your own risk. That is the wrong question. The right question has something to do with higher values, connection, relatability, intimacy and other things that matter way more. Sex is a way to make another human. Not something to do like we do. We are hypersexualized and we are making it worse imo. If you really like spending time with her, maybe that is the thing to look for, sex then will be even better. Sex without love is just mechanical, not as rewarding. If you focus on sex …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 06:22 AM
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I feel there needs to be an integration instead of an extreme and a separation, but a mingling of both perspectives. I do not know though. But I feel these are both different truths of a whole thing. But our fundamental identity is the existencial one, the one tied to the intelligence that beats our hearts, that connects with nature by breath, sun and water. That is. If we pay attention to the societal value we will miss the existencial value over a fabricated one which will always leave us thir…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 04:40 PM
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Where is love, compassion, empathy, kindness and unity in all of these thoughts? That is the problem I have with them, the thoughts you shared, they seem extremely egotistical to me in a very exclusive way, like the speaker is separated from the others and what he does and what he thinks, is higher than the whole of existance. That he feels independent of what consequences come, that he doesn't take responsability for the whole, just for his small self, forgetting his true vastness and the respo…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 04:01 PM
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Sex is about connection and trust, mutual interest and involvment. Only then it can give you a taste of something beyond. If your body is there but your mind is somewhere else it's never going to be satisfying. And with egos in the mix it gets even harder. You also need to work on yourself to allow that level of total openness and truth. Being human is not easy, but look at the bright side!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:19 PM
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It is fair to split up but, (1) have you tried to get to know your body and his together? (2) did you have a conversation about what you like sexually, and do you know what you like? (3) do you communicate or do you keep it to yourself until you cannot take it anymore? There is a book called the Kamasutra. Outdated in many ways but relevant as an example for - we are not masters of sex, there is always room for improvement. But if the other person doesn't make the effort, it's fair to split up, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:15 PM
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I ask her and do the way she likes, she likes me to cum first, then I will chill a while and later I will make her cum and cum after. So it depends. I don't make it a rule so it remains interesting. She likes to see me cum! I make sure to please her though, if I cum first, later on. But it depends. Some women can cum easier than others and that is not a problem!
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:05 AM
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Good post.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:29 PM
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Hoping that rational adult dialogues are welcome, and coming here just to see what this was all about, here is my constructive criticism: u/redpillschool calling people passive aggressors and liars, while making passive aggressive and unfairly prejudiced remarks about them being soy drinkers takes away from your whole argument in my view. A moderator should remain impartial. As for the rest of the post, nothing to say. Take care.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 08:47 PM
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Speak with him openly and explain, ask him to share some of the workload or find a solution to reduce yours. Now it's time for the baby indeed, that is why you invited him into this world, your husband should understand this, having a baby is a lot of work if you do it properly!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 02:10 PM
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What he is when you have fun is who he really is. His RP persona is a way he thinks he needs to behave in order to keep you with him, because that is what he thinks works the best. Prejudice and closed minds are hard to break open from the outside. Seeking to know more about life, investigating and reading about RP doesn't mean you are RP. What you are is never something like this. But you can behave mechanically and in that sense be RP, but it's fake. Be there for him, see if he really cares ab…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/21 07:50 PM
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It is at the top where I got it from. As to the rest of your question, I leave it for you to decide and investigate if you want to. Take care!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 12:11 AM
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Be yourself, those who like you for who you are will stay with you. If you feel like asking, ask. Getting rejected is a blessing that saves your time and allows you to find the ones worth spending time with. Don't follow rules, follow your heart. You will never regret it! A life lived in your terms. No matter what comes from it, freedom is the most important aspect to me! Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 11:54 PM
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If your man says he likes them, that is all you really need to know. Give him trust and don't shy away, see how he responds, see if it is really true! Men can enjoy it if you are assertive too. Own it! There are also some creams and supplements, push-ups as well like has been said. And getting a little fatter might help (if it doesn't destroy your health/ looks). Other than that you just have to take it. If I start dating someone and I really enjoy them for who they are, besides of course being …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 08:37 AM
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That doesn't matter, there is value in sharing knowledge. You didn't invent the english language. I don't need to reinvent the wheel. We are done. Take care.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 09:00 PM
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You got to be blind, I summarized, editted and spent a considerable amount of time doing this. Anyway, it is not for you to like, it is for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 06:48 PM
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Well, you cannot please everyone! I do it for my self ;) Some people will find it highly informative and high quality to get this information handed so easily. It also helps me to understand the book by trying to explain it. Take care!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:16 PM
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Thank you for your insight! This is my first time reading it as a 30 year old. Not to compare each other but I feel I am getting a lot of value from it. I will surely reread these pointers I am sharing with all from time to time, these are invaluable.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:15 PM
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No offence but there is always going to be haters like you, If you don't like it, don't read it and move on. No one asked you anything. This helps people, and I do it for me. To further elaborate, I don't think so highly of myself to be giving you advice on this subject matter. But I know for sure this advice is high quality and it can help those with the right state of mind. Take care.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:13 PM
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I see you get inspired by Sherlock Holmes a lot.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 06:08 PM
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I don't think this is true, but I don't know everything. What I know is what this book says has helped me tremendously, and if I am better for it, happier, more confident, I am 100% sure that I will have more interactions and that my "game" will be better as well. All the rest doesn't really matter. I cannot change the environment or my genetics.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 05:16 PM
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I don't know my handsome friend! Maybe you're just handsome! :D Thank you for allowing me to share and consolidate what I've been studying.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 05:12 PM
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It is, I said so in the beginning! Thank you for the feedback ;)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 04:26 PM
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Nice try but not true. Reality is what you make of it and biology remains the same. If you feed yourself those ideas it will be true for you. Besides, there are looks and matches for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 12:14 PM
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On a superficial level, you can be handsome physically, clothes, hairstyle, posture, body type, etc.. It can also be a shit test, if that girl is not honest and she wants to test how you respond to that, gauging how much you are needy of that validation. On a deeper level I believe you will be handsome if you are true to yourself, your identity & values. But on the girl's side she has to match too, and also the circumstance. On one side there has to be low friction. This to me means that the ext…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 10:40 AM
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That is funny considering the authority of the one who wrote them. Maybe you could consider your prejudices. Anyway, how come?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 10:18 PM
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Glad you enjoyed this share! I'll keep coming with more everyday until I am done with the book. You could read it, it is greay!!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 08:52 PM
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Going to check it thanks. But Why?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 08:17 PM
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This is what I meant: "Here’s a piece of advice: if you ever find yourself thinking, “That didn’t work,” or “This doesn’t work,” then you are performing and you are needy. Point blank. Period. The whole idea of something “working” on women, is itself a form of neediness. Because a sexual connection is not something you achieve. It’s not a level in a video game that you beat. It’s not something you can strategise. It’s either there or it’s not. When women emotionally connect with you and your des…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 12:46 PM
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I do not understand it like that. You compliment when it's honest and not as a means to get her to invest, when you really mean it and after she has already invested. As a gift. You don't want something in return.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 12:34 PM
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Well thank you for your kind words my friend! But I cannot take this compliment. These are not my words, but the words of Mark Manson, as I said in the quote in the beginning of the text. I can possibly take the compliment for the ability to recognise this advice as truthful and useful though! Which you also seem to be able to do, which also makes you wise in that sense I'd say. Haha. Thank you anyway for the kindness, have a great day!!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 11:15 AM
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Hi friend! Yeah I didn't read a lot about polarizing here so I thought I'd share this. I am glad this advice also resonates with you (it did with me!). Take care man ;)
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 11:12 AM
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Thank you for the tip, I will be sure to implement this. ;)
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 10:06 AM
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Hey, thank you for the compliment! I just found out about it, never read it from this perspective before. Glad to have found this book in this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/21 02:22 PM
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Ask him if he masturbates/ watches porn. He needs to stop and go on a cleanse. Don't be too hard on him. What ever happens being hard on someone doesn't help! Maybe he knows why going to the doctor wouldn't help. Because it's his crippling addiction. Does he want to loose the relationship you both have? or take back his power and grow beyond this obstacle? Transcend his limitations right now!? Exercise daily and get off PMO for 90 days at least. +/-30 days. Imho.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 09:50 PM
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Actually he is an animal (animated matter)
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:32 PM
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Okay, I don't know what else to say but to thank you very much for your insight, your time and your answer. I wish you all the best in the future! Take care!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 08:51 PM
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I read most women end up with partners that are not their main choice. This makes sense to me as women being the ones who decide to either allow someone into their lives or not, while males usually decide or not to approach and put themselves available for this to happen. This makes me think women will desire someone who sometimes may be above them in some way, such as looks, just like men desire to be with beautiful women. Which arrives at the first question: 1) Do you think this friendly behav…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 01:28 PM
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I am male btw! Do you think women in some circumstances might befriend someone who they see as a potential mate?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 10:38 AM
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I feel like sometimes men don't want a female friend because we waste time we could spend with someone who wants to be more than friends. Also, the fact that a woman just wants to be friends while the man is willing for more can be a reason for men to stay away. Sometimes I have this problem myself and I would rather have no friend that half of what I desired for the relationship. Keeping that friendship is a reminder of how I didn't get reciprocated, and since I don't give up the attitude it ca…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 12:56 AM
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That's the manipulation I'm talking about yes. So maybe you're saying we have to act in order to become? I thought about it before, now I'm reconsidering this. Where is the genuine part of us then I wonder!
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:36 PM
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Thank you for your comment, what I took from it was about the "attitude of expressly manifested traits" - got me thinking about when should we speak our minds, sometimes it's better to be quiet. I don't think this is all it entails, but it seems highly contextual. What would you say about it?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:34 PM
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Is it possible you are addicted to orgasm and you are using people as a means to get off? If so, don't you think this is the problem? Sex should be something divine, it is how we come to this world, it shouldn't be so "cheap". Maybe you wont find a good match until you have found within yourself the satisfaction you lack which makes you go out in search of short term pleasure. Because in my experience I am the problem, I break up with girls thinking they are not perfect and I will find someone b…
/r/seduction11/01/21 03:18 PM
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