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There are few post about it because they have already defined what a HVW is. It is the first section of the handbook, which is labeled "REQUIRED READING" in the handbook. There are no post about it because everyone there knows what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:42 PM
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lol a lot of the women on fds are young. If you cant find a HVM, it sure is easy as shit to find a LVM. So its a choice between a LVM and single. FDS chooses single. What you view to be "good men" are probably LVM in FDS standards. Men act differently to women, so if youre not a woman youll never know. Sounds like you cant get over the fact that women pick you, cope harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:36 PM
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Onlyfans does not represent the actual market as its only a select few that make that much money. One of my fav analytic blogs did a post on them and found that The top 1% of accounts make 33% of all the money. The top 10% of accounts make 73% of all the money. insert bernie imitation here Onlyfans is the young girl's Amway. It operates just like an MLM: a small percentage of users make most of the money, users get a commission for each person they are able to make an account through their refer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:21 PM
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Its even less than a few hundred a month. It's zero fucking dollars. Most accounts take home less than $145 per month (after commission). The modal revenue is $0.00, and the next most common is $4.99. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:10 PM
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Finding the chosen one is everyone's white whale. No one can perfectly match the ideal conjectured in your head. Dating a lot to make an informed decision for the future on the other hand, is understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:01 PM
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It's not being an incel as casual dating/sex is potentially still an option here. You're just choosing not to marry as you think no woman can meet your standards. Seriously, what's wrong with not settling if settling is so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:52 PM
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Don't date if honestly believe that, lol. Women on tinder are typically looking to fuck (where personality does not matter), not looking to date long term or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:49 PM
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What's wrong with the option of just not marrying anyone if you don't find that person whos truly* compatible? Like, just don't settle? *I personally find that it's impossible to minmaxx the dating game to find someone whos "truly" compatible. It's impossible to find someone that doesn't conflict with you in some way to some degree and you're gonna have to put in work to overcome that unless you decide to bail. Realizing that trying to minmaxx to get the best life partner was a fallacy because n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:02 PM
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Honest question, why does that even matter if he's able to get more dates than the average man? The end goal of dating is marriage, which is with one person, so at the end it doesn't matter how many dates one could secure if you're just going to marry one person. Dating many into marrying one and dating a few into marrying one procure the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 03:33 PM
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Probably because its a different perspective. A breath of fresh air. I find that FDS is quite similar to TRP (how to win the dating game, basically) but FDS goes harder into the idea that it's better to live alone than to be with someone that is a net loss for you. Women aren't expected to have that mentality so its novel to see it proliferate so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:32 AM
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Dude, you sound unhappy. Your wants and needs matter in relationships. If its not being met, bring it up with her or break up with her. You both sound like you want different things in life right now and are thus incompatible. I really sympathize, as the worst breakups are when both people love each other but their paths in life aren't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:23 AM
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From my experience women see all forms of looking at "staring at lust" based on how uncomfortable they seem. If youre looking at her long enough to notice that she is getting uncomfortable, you're staring at her for too long and you're creeping her out. No one is going to get mad over a glance or two. Some women are sensitive to male glances cause they went through trauma in their past so you can't blame them for being uncomfortable, especially with how sexualized women are in general. Seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 06:25 PM
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Look, as a woman, taking a glance at me is fine if you find me attractive. Everyone does it. The problem is when men just stare at me for a long time. For example, I could be sitting on the bus with headphones on and a guy sitting across from me just keeps staring at me and my boobs. Like bro, I'm just trying to get from point A to point B, can you not just leer at me like that? Doesn't matter how attractive you are, its fucking weird and rude to stare at people and it makes the person you're st…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:49 PM
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In OLD, girls have a shit ton of men in their messages. I can personally attest. Compared to dating irl, OLD needs almost no effort. Everyone who's used tinder has opened the app to swipe out of boredom or to lazily swipe before bed. There's also the social disconnect between two people that have matched on OLD: you saw that you got a match but because the match is just a person on your screen it's hard to start to develop an emotional connection with them. OLD isn't worth it for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:59 PM
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I think it's true that on average women have more power over men sexually. But I think it happened because men put women on a pedestal for millennia. This can be seen in old tales. Female mermaids are temptresses to sailors, there are stories in the Bible of men doing stupid shit because they are horny for a girl, novels written by men about how alluring the young teen in their neighbor is, etc. Thus I think that this isn't my fault and I don't really care enough about it to do anything with it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:52 PM
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Bodybuilders as in those who attend competitions are a solid no. I just don't like them so large. Those people who are toned/atheltic? Hell yeah. I like to do active things so it'll be great if my partner could do it with me. My current partner is overweight and it does worry me a bit but he's a vet so I'm sure he can keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:07 PM
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1) Nah. When I was a preteen, yeah, but it really means nothing. 2) Only when I'm on a rebound phase, and even then I feel pretty icky with myself afterwards. I don't like meaningless sex. 3) If by casual sex attention you mean flirting, I'd pick that. Encounters IRL are more meaningful and substantial. 4) Mmm, yes but with some caveats. I'm a touch and cuddle heavy person, so it's the lack of touching someone I am intimate with that makes me feel undesired. Haing sex doesn't necessarily make me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:01 PM
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I'm 5'9" - 5'10". I prefer taller partners (male and female) cause I'm tall. I won't reject someone based on height unless they're really short. Like under 5ft. This goes for women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:34 PM
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Sure she won't be able to make such money right out of the gate, but won't take that much effort either. I think you really underestimate how thirsty/desperate men are. Women are still doing the whole $5 Shapchat thing, you really think it be that hard for a woman to gain popularity on onlyfans? As a woman, I know how thirsty men can get. I also know that the more people using a platform, the harder it is to establish yourself. That's basic numbers: it's harder to spot a person or make yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:41 AM
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No, it's because of inflation and the inability of the government to adjust the min wage for inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:32 AM
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Sounds like a very vocal minority. it seems like the average man is happier during the quarantine because they have an excuse to not go through the hazing and high expectations of dating. Oh yea that totally offsets the fact that they may have lost their job, they can't see their friends, and they are worried about their health and their family's health.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:08 AM
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Lmao at thinking that being an ethot is a privilege and that it's the only job that people in poverty can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:04 AM
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why did huge government expansions take place (and continued to take place) within ten years of women’s suffrage? Min wage is stagnant while the cost of living had increased. They're bandaids that don't fix the problem. You do know the expansions focus on everyone is need, right? Women are indeed scared of men. Women sub-consciously treat every man as a high potential threat of being a rapist or assault man. Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 12:55 AM
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The introduction of this video is completely disjointed from the rest of the media. To the point of irrelevancy. You did it, you found the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:39 PM
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Twice. Almost all of my sexual experiences have been with men who know how to please me because I tell them what I like beforehand. They told me what they liked, and we both ensured that we had a good time. The two that I left on essentially said they didn't care about my pleasure. So I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:01 PM
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If I find out a man doesn't know where the clit is or doesn't care about my pleasure I will literally stop mid sex and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:42 PM
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That type of behavior is classic slut shaming: A man can fuck as much as he wants but a woman shouldn't as her hole would be loose and that is a disservice to her future husband. Since, yknow, a woman should be tight enough for him to please him. Imagine if people said women can fuck as much as they want but men shouldn't as his cock will get smaller due to the pressure of fucking a lot of women and that is a disservice to his future wife. He should try to keep his dick as large enough as possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:39 PM
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That is the most virgin thing I've read in my life. Imagine having an end goal of just looking at pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:34 PM
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Dude, what subreddit are we on right now? Yes people will judge. It would be a PR disaster for a company if the public found out that one of their upper management employees had their nudes online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:33 PM
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So if I'm gonna get judged either way, I might as well get paid a lot for what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:21 PM
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Sugaring isn't about being paid for sex. Sex is involved, but it's not like prostitution. It's more comparable to girlfriend experiences. Sugar daddies go on dates with their sugar babies, take them traveling, and give them gifts. They want a young lover and know that it will be almost impossible to find due to their age, so they use money as a way to sweeten the deal for them. If you want to know what it's like go and check out r/sugarlifestyleforum and read top posts from actual sugar babies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:56 AM
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MGTOW isn't afraid of women. Women are terrified of men. Your feminist masters tell you so. Bro what. The feminist movement is literally about a woman's right to not rely on men. Women aren't scared of men. The entire feminist movement is paralyzed without men. Feminists need male allies. MGTOW doesn't. Because initially women received pushback when they tried to enter politics, which was an all male space. So they needed someone on the inside to advocate for them. That's what vetting is. You ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:30 AM
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Its the hot guy who gets laid not the guy who is the most generous lover. Mmmm no. If the generous lover doesn't know what he's doing (does a lot of things but doesn't ask me what I like or how I like it) I might as well just go for the hot guy. I'd rather fuck someone who's attractive and not attentive than someone who is overbearing and not attentive and makes the sex feel like a chore. If the generous one listens to her and is invested in her pleasure, then he'll always be picked and desired.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:05 AM
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If I find out that a man doesn't know how or care to find the clit, that man will never see my pussy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:57 AM
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"Men are victims, Men are rapists." The women who say that are a vocal minority. They're hypocritical feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:56 AM
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Replace SJWs with TRP and that's exactly why I post here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:52 AM
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Why the fuck would I want to test my partner like that? No one does that stupid shit. If a girl expresses her doubt of how she looks in a outfit she's self conscious. Even the hottest of models were self critical of their looks at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:50 AM
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Aside from that, guys who recognize you in real life might also proposition you more aggressively and frequently because in our minds, camgirl=easy lay. I imagine this could very annoying very quickly. I already get that shit because of my body and I don't post nudes online. It'll be horrendous. Except that its basically a form of prostitution? You're right, but if I'm gonna do something risky like make an onlyfans account I might as well just go all in and shoot for the big bucks. As I said ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:44 AM
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Wrong use of the word privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:21 AM
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Butch dominant lesbians definitely made me gay and I'm 100% okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:35 AM
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I've noticed that girls that are shy and insecure are either more reluctant to try new things in relationships or are very agreeable and don't have their own voice. Everything that's done is suggested by the boyfriend and not having an active contributing partner can get exhausting. I'm very feminine but have traits that are associated with masculine women (assertiveness, adventurous, masculine hobbies, and sometimes aggressive when challenged) and I'm tall and have an athletic build and don't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:34 AM
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It's exploitive to both men and women. Why are people put in a position to post their nudes on a website to pay for rent or medical bills? Why are people buying their subscriptions and staying subscribed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:11 AM
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Its more a result of social media than the current economy. I can agree that both contribute to it A woman on onlyfans can make an easy couple hundred in a day for something that took say 30 minutes to do. Name one job that can remotely come close to that in terms of effort/time/etc needed. This only happens after she's established herself on the platform or another platform where she links her only fans. That takes a decent amount of time and active media engagement to create. So at the start f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:09 AM
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Oh come on, some people can make it with this economy despise the economy why not you. Because some people have more privileges at their disposal. You can't tell me that an orphan has the same shot as a kid with well connected millionaire parents. It's just a fact that prices have gone up and wages stagnated. I'm not gonna debate this. But the funny thing is why not ? I answer this in a different comment, go and check that one. I'm on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:04 AM
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The main reason is that I don't want to have my nudes out on the internet that can easily be traced back to me. It could come back to me later and hinder my future professional career. The other reason is that it all seems exhausting. I can barely keep up with talking to all of my matches on tinder. I also tend to be active on social media in short bursts (really bad ADHD) so I'll never be able to consistently entertain a fanbase. Edit: also, sugaring is a better deal. It's not online, the retur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:00 AM
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The intro was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:55 AM
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It's why I can't really fault women who post on onlyfans especially in this economy. The money is just really worth it if you have a good body. I won't lie, I've considered it doing it to pay college tuition. It won't take up a ton of my time like other jobs, so I can still study effectively, and I'd probably have extra to put into a savings account. So I can graduate with minimal debt and a decent savings? All for putting up lewd pics online and interacting with subscribers? It's a sweet deal. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:47 AM
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See I do think that girls shouldnt post on onlyfans because it could come back and bite them in the ass, but that being said, it's free real estate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:24 AM
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There was actually a good YouTube video about the rise of onlyfans I saw the other day. The YouTuber actually interviewed girls who post on onlyfans and men who subscribe to girls there. Its a really interesting watch. https://youtu.be/djMojvschs0
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:21 AM
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No facial hair, they’re short, their voice is higher pitched, their jaw is less square. You got it. That's it. That's why it's attractive. I usually prefer taller partners as I am very tall for a woman myself, but for some reason, it doesn't matter for butches in particular. Tall butches are great but short ones can get it too. Why would a woman find all of that attractive? They sure as hell don’t find those low-testosterone traits attractive on men. So why is it suddenly attractive on a woman? …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:14 AM
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Why not just sign a prenup?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:49 PM
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Masculine women are hot as fuck. I love me a good butch lesbian. If I had to choose between a man and a butch that I have equal amounts of attraction to, I'm picking the butch. She's a woman, she knows how to sweep a woman off her feet better than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:47 PM
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I've been in polycules before and all responses are in the context where all partners know and consent. What makes you get bored of monogamy and desire the explore a new body? I don't get bored of monogamy. Just never did. I don't actively search for new partners, it's just if I meet someone who I want to have a deep connection with and if my partner likes and thinks I'm safe with them, then I'll start to create a connection. The desire isn't for a generic body to fuck, it's for that specific pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:40 PM
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Solid advice. Good communication is always useful. Then I'd point out that sex has been blown horribly out of proportion in our modern pornified world. It really has. I really enjoy sex but I know that it's become very intertwined in everyday life and I really don't like that. Too many people are willing to admit that they're perverts to people they don't really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:25 PM
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Also, you Magic fan are animals, lets admit it straight up, there used to be orgies, in the Magic club of my uni, like a lot of them, you people are so odd, only the furries are worst than you, lustful creature. My experience with Magic was much different than yours haha. He taught me Magic after I was bored and his place and I said "yea fuck it teach me" and now I have a commander deck and I'm building another. It truly is a money sink. My uni is a rather hardcore and STEM heavy one so no one a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:21 PM
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What advice would you give to a couple that married but didn't know they were sexually incompatible because they were both virgins? Sexual compatibility is a bit important for me and I personally wouldn't like it if my partner was inexperienced and not interested in things I like sexually, so I can't really understand the view of the abstinence until marriage crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:12 PM
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I'm in my early 20s, so for me I'm assuming that they rejected me in their late teens. I'd give it a shot depending on their current personality. I know I was a bit of a shithead in my late teens and I cringe really hard when I think of those times. The person who I was in highschool is much different than the person who I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:05 PM
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The anger than red pill men, incels, and mgtows harbour for women is honestly kind of fascinating to me. A lot of it is from past trauma and instead of processing it and moving on, they internalize it and immediately think that all women are the same as those bitches that hurt them in their past. Coupled with the fact that men are less likely to reach out for professional help with their traumas, it kind of creates the perfect echo chamber where they believe they know exactly how women act and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:02 PM
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This is a different partner. I tend to date people that play DnD and have nerdy interests because that is what I'm interested in and I meet them through those interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:42 PM
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Considering every one of my exes say I have a huge ego i'd to love hear why you think I have low confidence Pretty sure they mean "you" in a general sense, not specifically to you, bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:23 PM
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I think that some people are born with it and without it. I also think that the people that were born without it can learn it over time. It's a skill and all skills can be honed. I think that he's born with the skill because he's an excellent communicator with everyone. He's got a masters in management so he also literally went to school to know how to talk to people well haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:20 PM
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Imo, a guy with good game knows how to communicate with women well and highlight his positive traits. He's interesting as a person and interesting to talk to. He's also confident in himself. The type of confidence that shows that he's comfortable with who he is. Personally, I really like it when a guy remembers shit I say that I like and uses it to make me happy. I offhandedly mentioned to my partner I wish I had a japanese english dictionary for language practice and I'm sad that Amazon shippin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:16 PM
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My current partner is a nerdy dude that red pillers would deem a total beta. 5'9", a wee chubby, average fashion sense. He's smart, a bit too lawful, and knows a lot about DND and Magic. He has a decade long Magic collection and a 6ft tall bookcase full of cubes just for drafting. But he knows his way around words and can easily pick up girls. His communication skills is definitely better than the vast majority of of people. Thus he knows how to talk to, listen to, and understand women. And sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:01 PM
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Do you think that men who masturbate and/or watch porn have a harder time experiencing and appreciating those sensations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:49 PM
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I don't even want to imagine the future where my child discovers nudes I posted on the internet. Shudders
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:46 PM
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Literally just look at this thread about the popular opinion of caring about men's suicide on r/unpopularopinion https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/g3hhkm/_/ People think that no one cares but there's tons of support
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:07 AM
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"oh, men just need therapy to help them manage their emotions". It's like saying "oh, the woman who was raped just needs therapy, no need to deal with the person who raped her". I may need therapy, but our society needs to be fixed. ...Yes. That is exactly what she needs, to deal with the person that raped her by pressing charges and then going to therapy about it. She needs to go to therapy to help process her trauma of being raped and go back to her normal life. You are correct. I didn't blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:40 AM
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How can you tell that? We were having a discussion about why society should get rid of benefits for personal choices. That rant was about showing you that men are treated like adults in society. You brought up very specific and personal situations and due to your phrasing you showed resentment for women based on your experiences. At the end of it, you said that talking about this makes you want to commit suicide. Gave up on what? On learning how to express your feelings in a productive manner. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:22 AM
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But why? So you can learn how to manage your feelings and handle them in a healthy productive manner and be a better person for yourself. From that rant I could tell that you don't know how to process your emotions on that topic effectively, and by saying that you don't want to get help to work on that because one person you know didn't get the effective treatment that he needed, you're resigning your fate. You already gave up and I don't mean to be rude, but it's pathetic. Look, the fact is, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:04 AM
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So it sounds like you have a lot of built up resentment towards an idea of women that you've created in your mind because of your own personal events and your perception of women "invading" male spaces. Get off Reddit and go to a therapist dude, they're doing phone appointments in quarentine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:56 PM
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I can't believe you're comparing WW2 to this supposed war that women started holy shit dude. Let's just ignore the recent economic depressions, the lack of jobs for people that live in rural areas, the opoid crisis, the fact that men are more likely to have undiagnosed depressed, men are more likely to be alcoholic, and that men are less likely to have a support network. Because it's all women's fault. See this something that can easily be figured out. There have been tons of research that expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:58 PM
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US has the highest number of plastic surgery operations. In South Korea, it's a bigger business and has the highest amount of surgeries per capita. They're more professional and viewed as the plastic surgery capital of the world, but there is the large barrier of entry of knowing Korean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:13 PM
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See I actually care about men's issues and have written to my representative about it. Women caring about it doesn't fit their world view so they just reject the possibility of a woman fighting for their rights ever happening. It alienates the group, and it's quite possibly the worse thing you can do to get people to not care about you. That being said, I find that the group of men that advocate for men's rights have very narrow views towards women (like... AWALT is a term lol), blame most of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:06 PM
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The suicide rate of men has been high before the mainstream feminist movement existed. You can't blame it on something that didn't exist at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:49 PM
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No, the solution is to get rid of the whole thing because people are adults, they need to be responsible for their actions and their choices. THat's how men are treated, like adults, that's how women should be treated. Instead, women are treated like children incapable of taking responsibility for their choices. Hm maybe the suicide rate of men is so high because they're treated like that and not given assistance when they need it. It's almost like...we should have everyone pay for...the health …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:45 PM
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America is handling it better than Italy or Spain, both are more socialized countries. Saying that there are social programs that some how are doing what they are intended to is a far cry from saying that a society is only strong as it's weakest, which on itself doesn't imply the correct route to tackle the problem in the first place. America is behind on testing their public, relief to the general public, and has the highest amount of deaths to COVID. We're not doing so good. I checked it again…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:28 PM
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Or we can teach men to not lie, manipulate, and be abusers. It's seriously not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:34 PM
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Again I am not sure from where do you pull these unsubstantiated claims. Venezuela was governed for the past few decades on the belief that their society is as strong as their weakest, how are their weakest doing now then? You can just take a look at other developed countries reactions to the COVID crisis. America is being hit the hardest and is taking the longest to help their people. Venezuela is always being used as why social systems are inherently unsuccessful but there are other countries …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:32 PM
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I don't think that you realize that "many" does not equate to "the majority". Single moms widows are a different story, and I think everyone on this sub agrees. They didn't choose to become single moms. Victims of rape could have chosen to abort. Victims of domestic abuse chose abusive partners. The point is that the system should not be paying for people's personal choices, and right now, it does, but only for women's personal choices and not men's. I know many doesnt mean the majority. I still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:17 PM
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It doesn't matter if they don't like the name, they still are single mothers. They are a parent that doesn't have a partner who is raising a child. That's is a tax status because usually widows would be inheriting money from their deceased partner and that has to be clarified on their tax returns. A widow is a subset of a single parent. The percent of single mothers who are widows is such a small, small percentage. Yes, and? They would still need assistance if their partner didn't leave them wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:09 PM
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Says who?? everyone can pull moral duties out of their ass, incels might say that you might have a moral duty to pity fuck them does that make it right? A society is only as strong as it's weakest, so if you care for the society then you must care for those that are the most vulnerable. If you want to be a part of the society and just reap the benefits of being a part of it while not assisting others who need help then you're just as bad as those who rely on welfare for the rest of their life. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:03 PM
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Anyone I choose to seriously date, I am considering to marry them in the future. So for me a LTR is us saying "we love each other and care about each other tons and if this keeps up we'll marry". I understand that my definition is different than others. That's why I communicate my definition of an LTR to my partner and I expect my partner to do the same so we both can know what to expect from the other. And if our definitions aren't compatible, then the relationship isn't compatible so I'd break…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:36 PM
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If it's just comments like the ones you gave, I couldn't care less about them. If they kept bringing it up then it would change the way I view my friends because clearly they are more superficial than I thought. If the comments were about how they thought that his actions were abusive or harmful then that is a different story. "Eww, he's not attractive at all, you can do so much better" is way way worse than "Eww, he's not respectful to you at all, you can do so much better".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:30 PM
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They want everyone to feel sorry for them because they can’t find someone to have sex with, but have no problem with innocent children starving and being homeless. The hypocrisy of these genetically defective males is pathetic. The worse thing is that some of them will say that you're white knighting for saying this... But this isn't simping for women it's just making sure that children are taken care for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:17 PM
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Perhaps the bad boys shouldn't be bad and pretend to be reliable? They're not expecting them to settle down, they're expecting them to take responsibility for cumming inside. And if the pregnancy was an accident, they're expecting them to take the responsibility for taking the risks of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:15 PM
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Of course it is the women's fault, women are the sexual selectors, men look at the men who are selected and try to imitate them So in that case it the fault of the men who were dishonest and deceived women. You can't be angry that women don't take responsibility for their actions but also be okay with men who don't take responsibility for their own actions. A sound system must not relay on the moral of the actors, it should place such incentives in place that men and women who disobey the norms …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:11 PM
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You spent inches of text on abortion to push that narrative, which I'm all for by the way, then a sentence of adoption? Come on. We're talking about getting rid of a problem. It shouldn't matter either way. You suck out the kid, or you abandon the kid. Either way it solves the problem. I know much more about abortion issues compared to adoption in America, I don't like to drop misinformation, and I'd rather debate something I'm more knowledgeable about. If you see it as simply abandoning the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:50 PM
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The last thing society wants is for them to turn to a life of crime or be unemployable, which would greatly affect and cost society as a whole later when they become adults. I also feel that, ethically and morally, it’s cruel to leave these children without food, shelter, and other basic needs. This is my main argument for the support of assistance to single mothers. In a strictly rational mindset, those children will eventually become productive members of society. It's a long term investment. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:24 PM
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A single mother can be a widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:19 PM
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If women would like to lower the percentage of men abandoning them, they need to severely tighten the sexual market and reward appropriate men with correct values in place. Ah yes, the "it's the women's fault that the men are being shitty, not the shitty men's fault" argument. Men abandoning women and their children is the fault of men who don't want to take responsibility for their own actions. And now when the mother is taking responsibility and trying to raise a child on a single persons inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:18 PM
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Or lying about rape to cover up an unexpected pregnancy, in both cases, abortion/adoption apparently doesn't exist. It's laughable that you believe the lying about rape is a rampant problem. You don't understand how hard it is to get an abortion if you live in some states. Live in a state that has a total ban? You're fucked. Notice you're pregnant too late (which is possible because periods are unpredictable and you can misinterpret pregnancy spotting for a light period)? You're fucked. Couldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:11 PM
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However, it’s naive to think many of these single mothers have the lofty goal of “getting back on track and have a viable future”. There is a definitely a class of women in the US that intend to “use” the system to get by in life. There will always be people that abuse the system, no matter what the system is. That being said I think the number of women abusing the system is exaggerated. Is it worth dismantling it to stop the cheaters from cheating at the cost of the lives of the people who actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:37 PM
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If I was a king and had to rule over a land of peasants throwing some coin to poor single mothers to help them raise their children seems like an easy decision to get the common people on my side and have healthy boys to fight in my wars. I 100% agree. Investing in singles mothers is essentially investing in their children and helping them become valuable members of society and giving them a life they would have never had. I'm American and I think a lot of the pushback comes from the "pull up yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:11 PM
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I don't think you realize that many women become single mothers because of reasons they can't control. There's becoming a widow, being a victim of rape, and being a victim of domestic violence. Shit happens in life and sometimes people need assistance in order to get their life back on track and have a viable future. If welfare for single mothers are a net loss for the government (idk if it's true, but let's assume it is), what are the statistics for the contribution of the children of single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:05 PM
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I would say so, yea. I'm curious, what are the differences you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:51 PM
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I also wished I was male when I was younger. I was closer to my male relatives and I wanted to fit in more with them and was a bit envious. I grew out of that and I'm very happily female to the point where in an alternate universe where I was born male, I'm almost positive I would be trans. Could it be that feminists are right and that femininity is more limiting than masculinity? As a young woman, I find that femininity is simultaneously more limiting and more freeing than masculinity. I can pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:40 PM
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TRP overstates how much lifting helps and they are focusing on the wrong aspects with working out. While working out makes you more attractive, to me it signals that you know the benefits of long term gratification (sign of maturity), you can take care of your body and thus are likely to have other healthy habits for physical and mental health, and you're strong so you can protect me when needed. This is assuming you're working out to improve yourself, not only to get girls. If a man is doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:35 PM
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Mhm, you make a convincing argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:15 PM
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You sound like a younger guy who needs to step up his game and mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:12 PM
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You're correct, but you missed a key word that I said, and that is "likely". With finding a partner, a woman's most valuable resource is time because she likely already has other potential partners vying for her attention or can easily find another potential partner. Therefore, dating kinda turns into a numbers game where it's better to invest more time into scanning the demographic that's least likely to have deal breakers for her. So for example, Alice thinks that younger men are really attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:10 PM
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Funny thing is I don't go for older men either. And why is it your business if young women prefer older men? Younger men need to step their game up anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:35 AM
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I would be hesitant with hooking up with him regardless of that chance. I only hook up with people who I at least call a friend or acquaintance, so I wouldn't be in that situation. So I don't have an answer for you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:50 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if a decent amount of women have that hoovering trait. The societal role of women in a domestic relationship is that they are the keeper and manager of the home. Mothers are usually the one who remembers the children's doctor appointments, school meetings, and birthdays (ever noticed that most planners for sale are feminine coded?). So it's not uncommon for girls to see their mothers do this and to be conditioned to be hyper aware of their environment and future events. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 05:48 AM
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It's a maturity thing. Younger men are less likely to be mature and have their shit put together. In a relationship, no woman wants to be the mother to her partner and hold most of the emotional labor and older women are definitely more aware of their need for this since they have more experience. A guy can be super super attractive on paper, but if I have to remind him of basic shit and clean up after him, my attraction to him is going to disappear like a puff of smoke because I see him as a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:34 AM
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