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Field Reportaaron_the_just/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:34 PM
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I never said these relationships weren't highly enjoyable for me. I would daresay there's a certain sick pleasure I derived from running D/s game with a self-proclaimed feminist, especially after I decided to be blatantly open about being anti-feminist and conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 01:45 AM
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Adult men don't rape other adult men. Thus, rape is an utter non-issue for me. It's simply about as likely to happen to me as being struck by lightning. I have no thoughts or concern about either thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 01:44 AM
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How much do deer agree with hunters and their rifles?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/15 10:59 PM
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I've had stressful jobs. Never been called after I'm already in the bar to work late.
/r/askTRP14/02/15 09:56 PM
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The proper thing to do is go join her at her job working late, and bang her in the broom closet. The lack of imagination these days horrifies me
/r/askTRP14/02/15 09:55 PM
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Yeah, most of the severe D/s or S/M relationships I've had have been with avowed feminists. By 'avowed' I mean 'work for a social justice organisation, are active in local and national politics, or work for a politician'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:32 PM
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I fail to see your point. Most of us have been in fights with people bigger than us before Unless this is some completely anonymous stranger, most guys are going to get their revenge. But it's kind of pointless to talk about this, because outside of prisons, men just don't rape other men. It's not what we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:31 PM
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Marriage is about a lot of things besides sex, and a relationship with a woman whose main way she wants to spend time is in kinkier and kinkier sex acts is exhausting. I don't have time for 3 hours a day of kinky sex stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:30 PM
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Depends on how deep / strong the fetish is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:30 PM
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I never said the guy's a paedophile. I just said he has a fetish for his partner dressing up and acting like a 10 year old. And the fact one guy is considering you wife material despite having fetishes is irrelevant to the conversation - the question was how RP "feels" about fetishes. Generally we advise steering clear of men (or women) with strong fetishes. Doesn't mean people don't marry them all the time, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:29 PM
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Yeah, but that's like saying Communism should be about peace and light and joy, even though its implementation usually involves vast killing fields like the Stalinists or Khmer Rouge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:28 PM
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Well, it's on the Duluth wheels. Breaking up or threatening to break up is also considered domestic violence. So you can't just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:27 PM
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Well, in this case, I don't want a sexual relationship with this particular woman. But telling her "No" seems to just amp things up to the level where she sees me as harder to get, probably because she knows that I would tell any woman, from her to Mila Kunis, "no". Enough rejections and eventually a woman does move on and shuts down and moves away from you. That's definitely true which is what I think you were alluding to. And in the context of a pre-existing relationship, rejecting a woman's s…
/r/askTRP14/02/15 09:27 PM
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Ok, let's flip the script around. Let's say a guy had a sexual fetish for his partner dressing up like a 10 year old girl, talking like one, acting like one, etc. Would this give you pause before marrying the guy and having kids with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:15 AM
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A woman who derives sexual pleasure from being slapped across the face, told she's a worthless whore, and then having uncomfortable, painful sex without lube? A woman who ends up NEEDING this long term and won't respect a man who can't continue to elavate her to higher and higher highs with these BDSM fantasies? That's not a good person to make the mother of your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:14 AM
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Funny how the feminists are the ones who are all obsessed with BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:12 AM
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"Verbal violence" is on the Duluth wheels, alongside "withholding sex" which is also a form of violence, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:11 AM
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alfalfa has already stated he/she wants censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:10 AM
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Of course it does. Partof RP is that male and female sexuality and sexual strategy is different. TRP teaches how to mold women into plates to be spun for the man's maximal enjoyment. Most women don't want to be plates, so RPW teaches something different. There can be mutual goals like long term marriage, but most guys aren't interested in that right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:10 AM
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The original position that alfalfa holds (who seems like a troll trying to make BP look bad, for what it's worth) is that since one person at one time has said something "rapey" in TRP, the whole of TRP is invalid and should be silenced. I don't think anyone reasonable agrees with that And no, none of us would blow the rape whistle. We might beat the living daylights out of a guy who did that, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:05 AM
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Indeed. I'm strict about noporn, and have, on occasion, received nudes unsolicited, which I do not appreciate. The more feminine women will at least ask first, perhaps with a text saying "nudes?" or "do you want nudes?" The proper answer is always "No."
/r/askTRP11/02/15 12:01 AM
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In times past, feminists would have called this author a "guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 11:52 PM
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It's a good article. It highlights one of the problems with feminism: it "challenges" existing behaviours by "shaming" bad behaviours it doesn't want, like men going after bimbos. Problem is, men still go after bimbos. It takes much stronger frameworks than feminism (which is mostly shaped around telling women TO do what they want, not vice versa) to overcome the innate female lust for the stereotypical alpha bad-boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 11:50 PM
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A common joke amongst RPW and TRP is that the two groups don't ever really want to date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:46 PM
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So you think censorship and shunning are good things? Do you think free speech is a bad thing? Do you think the government should control our speech so that nobody ever says scary or rapey things?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:44 PM
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Since I maintain a strict noporn regimen, any such nonsense would be immediately deleted - although I probably would never have it in the first place If I want to look at naked girls, I'll look at them live and in-person, thanks.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:43 PM
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Go read Keifer's "Carb Nite Solution".
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:42 PM
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I'd deadpan "redhead with green eyes" (unless she were a redhead with green eyes, then I'd deadpan "blonde with blue eyes"), and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:41 PM
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Excellent post. I would reiterate that not only should you elude to sexual elements during dinner or on the date, but that you should have a constant stream of sexual innuendo (or just straight up filth) flowing out of your mouth towards her at all times. Is there really anything else worth talking about with a woman? ♂
/r/askTRP10/02/15 05:40 PM
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Do you believe immediate censorship and shunning of any community where someone says something that is "scary and rapey" is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:32 PM
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Perhaps you should allow women to choose what they want to believe and to choose their own political opinions. I respect women whether they are feminists or not, Republicans, Democrats, etc. I would never say I "just can't take" a woman solely because of her political beliefs. Feminism is not "equal rights and equal treatment under the law" either. It's a whole bunch of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:21 PM
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Perhaps there are legitimate reasons why women believe in TRP, and their experience is that it is neither misogynistic nor hurtful. I would argue that feminism is hurtful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 05:06 PM
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Dark Triads are dysfunctional, broken human beings who give off the same signals as alpha males do - since women are not very intelligent, they can't tell the difference. Frank Underwood is a fictional character.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:12 AM
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I'm not sure what all this "accountability" talk is. Before I became a feminist, the only place I really heard the term was at a (Bible thumping fundamentalist) church. All about trying to control people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 01:09 AM
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Bingo. I was a leftist idealist myself in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 01:08 AM
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Saying that someone who is not a Scot is not a true Scotsman is not a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 01:08 AM
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I happen to enjoy the company of women who are closer in age to myself. Age 22 - 23 seems to be ideal, but a woman in her late 30s is often a pleasure as well. Nobody's talking about marrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 01:07 AM
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I defined BP behaviour as more of acting like a feminist man would be expected to act: not ordering for the woman in a restaurant; always picking up the bill; not pushing for physical contact too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 01:05 AM
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This sort of attitude is very common: http://www.xojane.com/issues/unpopular-opinion-it-pisses-me-off-when-men-call-themselves-feminists Along with a persistent feeling I wasn't doing enough to advance the feminist or lgbtqqia cause. I'm still friends with the people from those days who didn't act like religious fundamentalists about everything. But they're a distinct minority. Coming out of Progressive/feminist circles felt like leaving a cult. It saddens me when I see MRAs heading in a similar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 08:50 PM
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People who conflate having personality disorders with being a leader who other men and women want to follow are incredibly dumb Borderline PD women are more attractive too
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:44 PM
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Define "Nice Guy" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 08:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 08:42 PM
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Just stop wasting time on girls like that.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:09 PM
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Of course you miss her. I miss my very first love when I was 13, even tho she's a divorce train wreck who recently hit the wall. I miss an LTR when I was in my 20s even tho she'd gladly date me now. I miss my old dog and my grandparents too. Let bygones be bygones. Cherish pleasant memories.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:08 PM
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Get a flip phone
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:06 PM
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I am in the same boat. Endless opportunity, love every minute of every day, but... when I check my Sleep Cycle app, I average 5:30 hours a night.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 07:06 PM
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That's because you've been taught to use shaming language around "prostitution", which is a relic of religious morality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 07:05 PM
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It's something I can "just tell". I choose to avoid people who do not live by strict monogamous marriage or celibacy, so I don't have to deal with competition for attractive mates. Competition instead is of an individual's merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 07:03 PM
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Yes. I flip flipped between BP behaviour and RP behaviour when going on blind dates. After a few months of this, it was obvious most women (in a large US city, college educated, middle class, mid 20s, mixture of races) preferred RP behavioural patterns. I also found it pretty soul destroying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 07:00 PM
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One of the reasons I abandoned feminism and stopped associating with feminist friends was all the deep suspicion I got from people who should've been allies. There really wasn't any point to trying to join a club not interested in having me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 06:58 PM
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Alphas don't make excuses or hide lies.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:52 PM
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Next time, ask her out to a first date at the gym Works most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:51 PM
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A girl who hangs out with her friends at parties is a plate, not LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:50 PM
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Take caution; this ex-gf is primed to be a plate.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:48 PM
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Lots of athletes who are a big deal aren't rapists. I argue that someone who inflicts violence in someone else for their own personal gratification is an ill person. Doesn't mean they're visibly ill. Also doesn't mean they aren't responsible; mentally ill people have agency to varying degrees. But they aren't "normal". They're sick, and need to be either isolated from potential victims, or need to demonstrate they are able to exercise enough agency to not further abuse others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 06:22 PM
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Anyone who rapes another human being has something seriously wrong with them. If I were king, I'd execute them all. But I'm not king.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 09:51 PM
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Rapists would congregate on college campuses and especially at parties, due to easy access to lots of potential victims. I worked Student Affairs long enough to see this in action (along with some other unpleasant realities, like rapists being overwhelmingly student athletes with poor academics from unprivileged backgrounds).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 09:50 PM
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How could such a thing be implemented without an oppressive police state with a great deal of surveillance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 09:47 PM
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I think that lust and covetousness are sins, and that those who indulge them merit both earthly punishment and, if they don't repent, eternal punishment. So, yes, I'd say it was a good outcome and the government did its job.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:51 AM
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What, and attract even more attention? I already had the attention of detectives dressed up they're in a bad 1990s crime drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:49 AM
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In one instance, strongly advised by campus security not to report it to the police because "it's probably just your friends pulling a prank". Interrogated by the cops for about 10 minutes, then a proper report filed. Insurance paid out. In another instance, cops sat on my property for a week (whilst impound fees piled up), then pulled me into a room and interrogated me for an hour with a good cop/bad cop routine, alleging that I faked having my property stolen to get insurance money. In the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:25 AM
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My understanding is that he was smart enough to do the groping when nobody could see it happen. I don't think he had a boss (absentee owner sort of situation, most senior partner in the company). And yet The System still worked, and the employee in question got quite a payday. I have literally never worked anywhere where groping a coworker would be remotely acceptable. The response would not be a "not cool", but would be something more like getting pulled into an office and either fired on the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:17 AM
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We've been conditioned not to doubt accusers, which means we doubt the accused instead. In short, society really has ended up exactly where you want it. Unfortunately, I don't think we're much closer to any form of restorative justice. As a man in his 30s I avoid even the appearance of any situation that I might be around teenage (17 / 18 / 19, just to be clear) girls or women in their early 20s. Don't spend time with them alone, avoid too much closeness even in group settings, avoid driving the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:11 AM
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None of the burglaries committed against me have ever been solved, but that doesn't mean we live in a "theft culture".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:07 AM
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5% is awfully close to the number of anti-social personality disorder people we have running around, assuming that the college admission process is biased into getting more of these than the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:04 AM
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Do you really think it's desirable to have a society where a one-time grope results in arrest & prosecution?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:01 AM
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A few girls complained (he probably did it to 3 or 4 girls he worked with), dude ended up sued and lost a good chunk of change in addition to copping a plea to enough charges to end up under house arrest. Stop believing the propaganda about how these crimes are under-reported and don't get successfully propagated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:42 AM
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I personally know of someone who did, and spent a year on house arrest with an ankle bracelet on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:28 AM
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Just because 1 in 4 women get sexually assaulted doesn't mean 1 in 4 men are rapists. Quite likely that a very small fraction of men have a large number of victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:22 AM
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(1) The traditional way to deal with is to simply encourage young people not to drink and to avoid those who do. (2) Those of us who are men who don't want to rape avoid hanging out with men. I don't have any "bros" who are squirrly, and if I find out one of my friends is, I don't associate with him anymore. I have zero control over his behaviour, though. There is this strange idea that I have the ability to do something about the criminal behaviour of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:21 AM
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The idea that man and women should have the "same" rights is a cute but childish concepts. Since men and women are not the same, they cannot have the same rights. Women can get pregnant. Men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:00 PM
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SirNemesis, I'm not sure I'd agree with you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 07:17 PM
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Societies have traditionally dealt with this by requiring shotgun weddings for teenagers who get pregnant out of wedlock. Or execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 07:16 PM
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Men have the right to refuse to become a parent; they can choose not to ejaculate inside of a woman's vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/14 07:15 PM
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I view with suspicion most men who get tricked into living with women.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:15 PM
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Let's get back on topic; do you find the OP to be as "traditional" as she clains?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 07:13 PM
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Why? It would be more effective at addressing wealth inequality than our current welfare state is. If you want to live in a place where poor people literally starve to death... I hear Cambodia has pretty open borders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:36 PM
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I stand corrected. Although I question how "red pill" someone is who is dating a porn star. Porn stars might be useful for getting laid with, but not expending valuable resources like a half hour at a coffee shop and $5 on coffees.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:35 PM
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This. You have the right to not be assaulted... ... but that doesn't mean you won't be assaulted. You also have the right to defend yourself. For what it's worth, you'd be much better off for a number of reasons carrying a gun than carrying a knife. Defending yourself with a knife requires a lot of training.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:34 PM
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The only date rape drug that is regularly used is alcohol. Other drugs are extremely rare and concern about them is essentially a moral panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:33 PM
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Harm 4.3, Fairness 3.7, Loyalty 2.0, Authority 3.3, Purity 3.7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:31 PM
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Johnny Soprano is a fictional character created by Hollywood, which is a giant factory of blue-pill concepts and is operated by and for feminists.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 06:22 PM
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Google "guaranteed minimum income"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:22 PM
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Money does not end poverty mindsets. Read up on obesity in Nauru, or read up when Nauru (where guano mining gave the entirely population much, much more money than any of them needed) started an airline which basically flew empty planes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:22 PM
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I think the child could grow up in better conditions with proper social expectations from family, church, school, government, and neighbourhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:21 PM
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Perhaps men shouldn't father children they don't want to pay child support for. If divorce / breakup seems to be a significant possibility for a man... it would behoove him not to create children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:20 PM
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"The government" does not pay for kids. Taxpayers do. I think fathers or sperm donors paying is preferable to expecting me to pay for kids I had nothing to do with creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:20 PM
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Check out extremely liberal / progressive churches; they don't really centre much around fundamentalist faith systems and focus more on living out by certain principles. Of course, you'll have to be around a lot of feminists and people with leftists political values, so just be prepared for that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:19 PM
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People live together and sleep together because of love. People get marriage licences and have weddings due to social expectations, or due to wanting legal and economic protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:17 PM
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Well said. I'd like to open the OP's mind to the idea his wife might not enjoy the meat-market atmosphere at a typical gym.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:17 PM
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That's good for you. Most men want to have kids, especially traditional men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:16 PM
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Nearly all women who are "traditional" (you are an RP woman, which is a very, very rare thing in the west) are religious. This person displays no signs of being either religious or of being actually traditional, yet seems to consider herself entitled to be treated like one.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:16 PM
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I would mostly agree with you. My solution for rape situations is, of course, to punish rapists. Any person who practices pull and pray and then whines about needing a "financial abortion" is a man I have zero respect for, and I believe the threat of financial ruinous child support payments is an effective disincentive to such behaviour. Unfortunately, it's not a disincentive to women to tolerate such behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 06:15 PM
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nod I can just understand why his woman would want to avoid the "meat market" atmosphere at a typical gym. I mean, I'm a guy, and I get hit on regularly there, and I'm not even that good looking.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:58 PM
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Sorry, but a woman who doesn't want to have kids is a giant red flag for marriage (assuming that's your goal here). Most men want to have families with their wives. Men who don't want to have kids... certainly don't want to be married to some woman who wants to bring random kids and teenagers into the house under the guise of adoption. Working towards owning 300 acres is not something that men will be attracted to. Men don't work that way. People who have been obese in the past are likely to end…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:57 PM
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"A slut is just a girl who's had more sex than YOU would like her to have" is a classic feminist line. I was a pretty serious feminist for much of my 20s. You can't slip that rubbish by me.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:55 PM
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Marriage tends to be close in age; but intimate relationships are far less restricted. Legal Western marriage is more of an economic / social arrangement, so it's not particularly relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:54 PM
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I know hordes of single people in the 28-35 age range - this is also the age when people who got married in their early 20s are getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:54 PM
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I'm in better health and am more active in my early 30s than I was at 25. I also have had more luck with young women (18, 22, etc.) than I did when I was 25. So both of us are just trading anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:53 PM
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Anyone who has spent significant amounts of time picking up girls eventually figures out roughly half of girls are fine with a much older guy (e.g. 18 and 30), about half of girls want a guy closer in age. I have no idea idea if the converse is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:52 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. Men just (at least traditionally) tend to act more and speak less than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:51 PM
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No. A minority is. Probably 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:50 PM
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Why are you so focused on preserving the right of mothers to reproduce irresponsibly? I think there should be harsh incentives against both men and women to disincentivise non-responsible pregnancy and childbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:48 PM
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"substandard care" Have you spent any time in a social work or family court setting? Money/welfare does not mean kids get ANY kind of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:46 PM
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If the state's interest were in making sure kids were provided for, they'd make single motherhood illegal and just give children from single moms over to adoptive parents (who are willing to pay $$$).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 07:46 PM
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Women like sport-fucking with attractive alpha dominant men, whom they then try to domesticate and turn into husbands. Not quite the same thing. Men would all love to have sex with supermodels. Since neither most women nor men can achieve either of those things, we tend to settle and look for other attributes. For example, women might find that instead of an apex-alpha serial-killer cult-leader, they might enjoy life with a guy who is a stable provider. Men might find that instead of an absolute…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:45 PM
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Indeed, sir. And a gentleman does not try to turn a slut into a wife. Turning a wife into a slut in the bedroom... that's entirely different.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:42 PM
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Huh? A slut is a girl who gives up sex too easily with men who don't value it and value her. Please take your feminist garbage somewhere else. "My Secret Garden" is a terrible, stupid book. Women's fantasies are just like men's: depraved and sickening. Women fantasise about being raped, choked, murdered, etc.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:41 PM
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Proper frame is that you never "owe" her anything.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:40 PM
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Most girls have a fantasy of a devil's threeway. Threesomes are a bad idea for LTRs, even with another girl, although it's possible to make that work. Generally threesomes are the domain of skanks, and devil's threeways are the domain of very skanky skanks. Be grateful she shared the fantasy with you; now put a lid on it. You aren't being "hypocritical" just because you want a 3some with a girl and not with another dude. They're two entirely different things.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 07:40 PM
1

I'm not even sure you should want to encourage her to work out when you aren't around. Gyms are notorious for being meat markets, and when people work out their hormones and bodies are amped up - it's prime time for affairs an cheating. (Whereas if you work out, all that energy gets focused on each other.) I would restructure your life so that you have more shared time to work out together. I have valued career/money higher than my body in the past and it was a very, very foolish decision.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:38 PM
2

I would like to throw in a few extra remarks. You describe yourself as "traditionalist", but I don't see much evidence you actually are. I know lots of very traditional women. None of them are in favour of "reproductive rights". All of them consider abortion to be murder. Some of them consider certain forms of birth control to be murder. A few of them are quite vocal and outspoken about this, just like you are. They are successful in attraction similarly-traditional men. None of them would EVER …
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:36 PM
1

Consider an "inclusive" sort of religion like Universalist/Unitarian, where people who are atheists, agnostic, etc are just as welcome as everyone else. Clubs aren't a great place to make friends.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:31 PM
3

If you want to stop being the man in the relatinoship, stop being the man in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:29 PM
1

Every woman likes to travel so that's irrelevant Women who love to bake are easy to find too. You need to consider how to be someone who would be a MAJOR asset to a man's life. In exchange, you will be a good match for a man who is a major asset to you. Otherwise, you're going to keep ending up with guys who manage to still find you an improvement in your life despite numerous red flags - like not wanting to have kids (yet wanting to adopt???), history of being obese, etc. You need to be awesome…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:28 PM
1

My mother occasionally calls me one of my brothers' names. I occasionally called an ex-gf my ex-wife's name - especially when we were arguing! It happens.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:27 PM
1

There has been no birth control that was remotely reliable since the 1960s. Herbal abortifacients were also not reliable and often dangerous. There was no safe method of abortion before the late 19th century, either. Historically abortion / infanticide was seen as evil. It is an absurd conspiracy theory, though, to claim the midwives and people knew of reliable methods of birth control in the past. Even today we still don't really have it nailed down. Other than IUDs most methods have a signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 04:24 PM
1

That is an incorrect generalisation. Compared to the general population (and I am familiar with the sexual habits of both), they are less so.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:21 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 04:21 PM
1

The number stays the same. The topic is misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 04:20 PM
1

A better question to ask yourself is: for the kind of guy you want, exactly what are you bringing to the table to make his life better/to offer him?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 04:18 PM
1

So is lying in a one night stand situation more acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 10:17 PM
1

Before: Decent game, not too bad. No complaints. After: Having to fight off women with a stick. Girls approach me in the gym, come up with excuses for me to hold their phones. Girls ask their parents to try to set me up with them and invite me to dinners at their houses. Plates, ex-gfs, ex-wives beg me to come to their house and have sex with them. Plates want to try stuff like dry anal or ass-to-mouth. It's like living life on easy mode.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:44 PM
1

Exactly what do you hope to accomplish by having affairs with married women? If you want to sleep with her, she's game; I'm not sure why you are busy chasing lonely 34 year old women though.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:42 PM
2

In this particular case, she's just giving you advice about what hairstyle will look better on you.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:40 PM
2

I second everything this gentleman says. ♂
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:39 PM
1

Their marriage is certainly in trouble. It's not your job to fix it. If I were you, I'd find better people to count as friends.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:38 PM
2

If you like it, you like it. One of my best friends prefers girls with pixie cuts or boy cuts.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:37 PM
0

I avoid eye contact with every beautiful woman I see, but if one does catch my eye, I don't break it until she looks away. I try to pay attention to more useful things out there in the big wide world than pretty girls. You'd be amazed what you'll notice once you stop always staring at chicks.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:37 PM
1

Women have not had reliable birth control until the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 09:32 PM
1

They've slept with you, yet they're the sweetest and most innocent women married to someone else? Do you not see the contradiction?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:31 PM
1

Hey, I'm not saying lying is a good thing and I eschew it myself. I'm just asking how the problem should be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 09:30 PM
1

We'll go with "Mormons in Utah", it's close enough.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:29 PM
1

It is well established most women don't like virgins for either ONS or relationships. So what should sexless, 30 year old virgins do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 07:19 PM
1

Folks, we've been trolled.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 07:18 PM
1

I don't understand how the number of female virgins can be decreasing. Every woman is born a virgin and either dies celibate, or loses her virginity. Perhaps you mean women are losing their virginity at an earlier age? I don't think sexualising 13 year olds is a positive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 07:09 PM
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Lies have a tendency to catch up with you. And besides, don't RPers get indignant at the thought of women lying to them about their sexual history? I am curious how much success you think a man will have with women if he announces he's 30 and a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 07:00 PM
0

Both LDRs and relationships with people from abusive households are doomed to failure.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 06:11 PM
1

I'm around women who are pretty and who don't do the things you described much at all. But I guess that's the "reward" I get for being religious and living in a traditional subculture.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:05 PM
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A girl who'll give up sex when she's a plate is a low quality woman and is a poor choice for a wife, considering the risks involved.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:04 PM
2

I just think it's especially bad for kids, unless you want your kids to grow up with a mainstream cultural worldview.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:04 PM
1

I have one girl who gets really upset whenever I say "Ok" either on the phone or in a text. Which, of course, makes her want to do me more and makes her even more madly in love than ever. ♂
/r/askTRP21/08/14 02:03 PM
1

No intelligent man marries a whore or tries to turn a whore into a wife. A woman willing to be a plate is a woman who will not make a good wife.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 02:02 PM
1

I also live in my mother's basement, have bad acne, am obese, and am addicted to hentai.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 02:02 PM
12

Be an alpha male; make sure you're dominating your wife; raise your family in a traditional lifestyle. Socialise with other families who live traditionally. Consider getting rid of your TV.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 02:01 PM
1

Interesting. So you believe women lack any sense of moral agency, or, really, free wills at all?
/r/askTRP21/08/14 02:00 PM
1

I'd ask myself "why am I wasting time here?"
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:21 PM
1

it's truly amazing how awesome life gets when you have multiple women working hard on losing their muffin tops just to please you. I almost feel like I'm doing them a huge service.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:21 PM
2

just send her a link to fitness websites, after you get the pics
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:20 PM
2

I have actively encouraged my plates to engage their orbiters more just so they can have a bit more validation and support in their lives. They all know that if they banged any of them, I'm gone for good. Of course... they'd rather die than sleep with any of their BOs.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:20 PM
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plates don't make good wives I would, however, let her cook for you and clean the house as much as she wants. "Housewife" is a most elevated occupation only reserved for the most excellent, top 1% of women. Tell her to quit thinking so highly of herself.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:17 PM
1

I experience "k" all the time at work, mostly from middle aged men and women. It's a response that communicates absolutely nothing other than "I read your text, and decided not to respond to it, but want you to know this."
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:14 PM
1

You do whatever you want. Who cares if you get to bang her again? It's ideal not to have girls at your own place. (Best if they can have difficulty figuring out where you even life.) But the best way to kick a girl out is simply to go out yourself and do something. It's not like she'll stay at your house by herself. The texts you get - ignore them until you are bored and then just respond with telling her where and when to meet you. Tuesday is a great low value evening, by the way. "All we do is…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:13 PM
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Get off social media, block her profile, block her number (change your phone number if you have to). Of course you might not be able to stick with doing this. But you can at least relegate her to very, very low priority plate status. If you keep engaging her, at least only engage her for what you want.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 05:07 PM
1

Religion dampens the influence of SMV significantly. It also enforces assortive mating which works better for LTRs (since SMV does eventually change over time). I don't know anyone would have a goal of an LTR, though. Who wants a long term relationship that's still going to end at some point? More fun to just spin plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 04:49 PM
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All sorts of things can cause this behaviour If this is a woman you are interested in who is acting this way... relegate her to low priority plate status, and pursue better women.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 04:45 PM
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Excommunication is a lot less important than the social ostracism one experiences from one's friend and family when engaging in a frivolous divorce. I'm not LDS, but nobody I worship with gets divorced - if they do, they're on the outs. (This does cut both ways: men can't get divorced either, even if their wife turns into a real shrew. But, frankly, men's impulses and urges need restrained just as much as women's do.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:47 PM
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It's not really Red Pill since RP is mostly concerned with individual behaviour not group behaviour - RP, for example, would tell every guy in my religious subculture to get out because sleeping with women outside of marriage is forbidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:45 PM
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That would put you in the minority. One only need witness feminist men sobbing about how they can get any feminist girls to go on dates with them to understand the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:44 PM
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The fact it is 2014 does not make feminism any more or less valid than other moral philosophies. I do feel people who want marriages and romances should seek like minded people to have them with. Of course, plenty of famous feminist authors write about how they prefer "bad boys" to dating other male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:44 PM
1

The proper thing to do is treat a marriage licence for what it is - a legal and economic contract. Each party should assess their counterparty risk (which includes the vagaries of enforcement). The other aspects of marriage, social, religious, etc. should be evaluated on their own merits.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 03:42 PM
2

I think the whole concept of non-verbal "enthusiastic consent" is silly. I'm a human, not a bonobo; if I want to consent to something, I say so. If I don't want to, I say no. And if I feel afraid to say no, I seek the protection of stronger people willing to advocate for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:41 PM
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"Most men" want a submissive sexslave for a half hour or so every few days when they're horny. The rest of the time, people want, well, normal marriages and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:40 PM
1

I have an acquaintance who: molested his younger stepsister is homeless (due to getting kicked out of his house) is unemployed drinks / smokes lost his car, now sleeps under bridges is fat or obese. not attractive at all Then I learnt he has a quite attractive girlfriend. I also learnt through the grapevine that they are having regular sex. So, yes, appearing mentally and socially unstable is like catnip to a certain variety of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:39 PM
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Yes; you're looking for one edge case and generalising out from that. Family courts are biased against men. If you don't agree with that, we won't be able to have a productive discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:33 PM
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The only social services in my county that exist for men are ones for guys in child support arrears to basically yell at them to get a higher paying job. (Never mind most these guys have criminal records, no car, etc so good luck for them even maintaining a minimum wage job.) How much funding is enough for police, prosecutors, and courts? Remember that all "services" can do is enforce the law more. We can see in Ferguson right now that more law enforcement isn't really helping. Now they've got t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:33 PM
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Funding is less of an issue so much as insufficient qualified people to staff such institutions. Do you know how expensive a qualified judge is? Many judges are staying on the bench well past retirement simply because there isn't a good candidate to replace them. And I won't even get into the problem that most qualified people to staff such institutions - are not of the same ethnic group or even speaking the same language as the people they are serving. That makes providing good services really …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:31 PM
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I know plenty of good people who won't do foster care because of (a) the stigma attached to it ("only child abusers want to be foster parents") and (b) the significant amount of liability attached to it. I knew the risks going in. I don't know if I'd do it again. I certainly would never be a foster parent to adolescents. Too risky. If the "system" screened out more bad foster parents, there'd just be me more bed sharing or more kids going into institutions. If you want to read research on this c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:29 PM
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Whyen I said "don't get called for real cases" I mean the abused victim WON'T call and reach out for help. We do still have a 4th amendment, so social workers can't exactly do door to door checks and intrude on people's privacy. Education does not stop DV. Abusive people are fundamentally abusive. It's not like you can just tell them "Hey, slapping your girlfriend is not cool." and they'll go "Oh wow bro, I had no idea. I'll stop doing that right away!" The only "education" that helps is knowing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 03:26 PM
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Mostly involved on-again, off-again relationships where one party wanted to exact revenge on the other party. Sometimes after accusations had been levelled, the parties would get back together again and the accuser would want to drop it (which isn't really allowed). It's impossible to adjudicate such a mess. FYI I consider having sex with someone in a state of intoxication (legally unable to drive) to be sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 02:42 PM
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An old TRP theory I don't see discussed much is that women crave emotional highs and lows; men with "dark triad" traits or who are in/out of prison feed into this highs and lows very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:39 AM
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Staring into the abyss of human behaviour and emotions does feel "dehumanising". We're animals, and we act like it. TRP is just a glaring reminder of how thin our veneers of morality, ethics, and justice really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:37 AM
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I see similar in my community. Most people who leave the church or want to marry someone who doesn't have similar beliefs - end up in tragic divorces 5 or 10 years later. Our culture just doesn't have enough to sustain marriages on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:35 AM
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One obvious solution here would be to avoid romantic contact with anyone who identifies as a feminist, since they standard for consent is probably unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:26 AM
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This advice is about as useful as "don't wear a miniskirt".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:25 AM
2

Amazing how well the church's teachings work, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:24 AM
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I used to work in a Student Affairs dept, and I can assure you we had our share of blatantly false accusations. Very time consuming and troublesome to deal with. Probably a lot worse now in the Dear Colleague-letter world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:23 AM
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A very simple solution would be to simply avoid sexual contact (or romantic contact at all) with students who attend the same university as you. You're there to learn, not to hook up. There are plenty of places to meet romantic partners who don't go to the same school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:21 AM
1

I think we need to be clear that rape convictions are rare. What's not rare is university disciplinary action for sexual assaults, which is an extra-judicial process; and what also isn't rare is misdemeanor domestic violence, which has legal ramifications like a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:19 AM
2

I strongly recommend figuring out what your own worldview is and what you consider right and wrong. Part of your worldview and right/wrong will encompass how you let others treat you; a solid worldview and moral understanding will set off alarm bells much earlier in your head the next time you encounter a situation like you did with your ex-girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:17 AM
1

I'd beware of biological essentialism. We are more than a tribe of primates driven only by hedonism.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/14 05:16 AM
1

Plenty of sexual abuse leaves no physical evidence at all - like exposing young children to adult sexual behaviour, or pornography. When trying to assess a child's situation, we certainly listen to what they have to say but we also understand children have imaginations and often mix in fact with fiction. You should also consider that nearly every situation I am exposed to, the children say something utterly hair-raising and bad. At first I reacted strongly to this. Everyone else in the system to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:15 AM
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The overall society I live in is one where individual sexual prowess is considered a good thing (for either men or women). TRP exists as a way for people to achieve what our dominant culture considers valuable. If our culture valued ascetism or chastity, nobody would be interested in TRP. My personal morality considers fornication to be wrong, adultery to be wrong, really any sexual expression outside of a lifelong man-woman marriage to be wrong. That's not a moral code I feel interested in enfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:11 AM
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First, prisons are excellent places for abusers to become more hardened and hone their craft even better. (Not to mention they can find victims in prison as well.) My exposure to frivolous DV is mostly from listening to cops who actually are the first responders to these situations. A common frustration to hear is that they don't get called for the "real" cases where someone is actually being beaten to an inch of their life - instead, they do get called when a couple is having an argument and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:08 AM
1

There is plenty of research about foster homes, a significant amount are abusive but not 80%. The accusation rate is extremely high, although it varies significantly from place to place. Because of this, social workers and law enforcement end up stuck having to use other means to evaluate if abuse is going on. Most foster parents don't do it for the money - those who do are the ones taking on a LOT of kids. I broke even as a foster parent but did not turn a profit (and that's assuming that my ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 05:03 AM
1

Of course I'm not going to expose my identity. In my county, I know of the (fairly secret) locations of women's shelters. I don't know of any men's shelters other than homeless shelters and they are, generally speaking, not available to men facing DV charges. This is a significant problem since men in marginal living situations often end up homeless when they are accused of DV. There are very few services for men who are victims of emotional abuse or physically violent partners. Common wisdom gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:59 AM
1

How much time do you actually spend inside a courtroom or working with staff like social workers, CASAs, police, etc.? It is categorically absurd to claim that there is no gender bias inherent in the system. I'm not an MRA so I'm not even convinced some of this gender bias is a bad thing. But it's silly to claim our system is completely gender egalitarian. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:55 AM
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RP just says "this is how human emotions work" My belief system of morality and right and wrong proscribes fornication and adultery. RP teaches me how I could fornicate easily and effectively; but the choice is up to me to decide if it's right or wrong. In my belief system, engaging in deep emotional manipulation is also wrong, for any purpose. I would eschew such things, even if it means enduring privations and want. Of course, my actions have not always been in alignment with my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:54 AM
1

Apology accepted; however, I /did/ state that I can take an unlimited amount of verbal abuse. :) I hope this discussion has been fruitful for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:51 AM
1

I'm being dead serious - you would really benefit from participating in a group like NAMI. One thing I sense from you is a feeling of being isolated / feeling like nobody else understands what you are going through. The emotions you have expressed are more common than you think. You would do well to learn from other folks who are going through the same thing and have figured out how to deal with them. I wish you the best on this journey. (And I hope the cops leave you alone in your home!)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 04:50 AM
2

A lot of TRP dogma like "women have no loyalty" are exaggerated claims - women just have a different kind of loyalty than men do, and less of it. I know a great deal of kind, good, excellent women. (And no, I won't make any introductions.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/14 12:02 AM
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"amoral" means it doesn't try to make a judgment about right and wrong. If you want to know what right and wrong is, read a philosopher, talk to a priest, or read books about ethics. You are writing from a particular viewpoint that sees morality and ethics in making sure a man is always maximising his kindness to a woman. I respect your viewpoint. I live by my own personal moral code which is not much different than yours; however, I don't generally march around telling people to comply with it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:58 PM
1

Pray tell, sir, what is "real love"
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:48 PM
1

Pray tell, sir, what is "real love"
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:47 PM
1

A secondary problem is that the marriage contract can change at the whims of a third party - if divorce laws change, your original marriage contract just magically changed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:47 PM
1

These dynamics with a mechanic can be mitigiated: Go to multiple mechanics and evaluate what each says Go to a mechanic whom a friend who knows a lot about cars trusts, and thus that mechanic does not want to risk losing that friend's business by ripping you off Choose a mechanic who works for a larger business structure where there is a manager to complain to if you suspect foul play
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:46 PM
2

Observe polygamist societies that actually exist and that have strict sexual codes
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:45 PM
1

I disagree with this (becoming rather popular lately) assertion. A woman says she's not a feminist, and then someone else tells her "You are actually an egalitarian feminist but just don't realise it." Classic Scotsman fallacy
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 11:44 PM
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Red Pill simply states how sexual strategy works, either for (straight) men or women. It never proscribes a specific moral philosophy or system of right and wrong. You seem to be interested in forcing your particular version of morality on everyone else. You remind me of a televangelist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:29 PM
3

It's questionable if feminism has "done a lot of good for both genders". Feminism has certainly been beneficial in helping well-off, upper-middle-class people, both male and female, become even more well-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:25 PM
1

I believe you are confused about the definition of schizophrenia, sir. Perhaps it would do well for you to volunteer some time with a group like NAMI which assists people with mental illness. You could also gain some life experience from being around actual schizophrenics and understand better what they go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:22 PM
1

I don't get your point. You're angry? Civilised people restrain their anger, and they also restrain the anger of others when it spills over into violent confrontations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:20 PM
1

I can accept an unlimited amount of verbal abuse (and have accepted a great deal) without resorting to responding with violence. And I've had my share of confrontations. And I highly doubt anyone posting here actually has diagnosed schizophrenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:19 PM
1

Duh, of course abusers don't care about something being socially unacceptable. And being "brought to justice" makes no difference, most of them don't care about being in prison or subject to community service/fines. Courts are completely clogged with frivolous DV claims, which makes it even harder to levy justice against real abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:18 PM
1

Speaking as a foster parent, I can attest that the accusation rate of adolescents against foster parents is extremely high (something like 80%). 80% of foster parents are not abusers; it's impossible for social services to really do anything to act on these accusations. If you think the problem is bad, become a foster parent and make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:16 PM
1

"Understanding" pain does nothing. There are concrete steps one can take to make things better, like becoming a CASA, a foster parent, working with a boys/girls club, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:15 PM
1

Children do not give effective testimony and are unreliable when interviewed. Law enforcement, social workers, and volunteers like CASAs all know this. I'm very sorry you weren't believed when you were not lying as a child, but I regularly hear all manner of nonsense from children. It would be pointless and absurd to try to act on everything a child says as true. It has nothing to with being a male or a female child, either. (Generally speaking I'd say what male children have to see is even less…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:14 PM
3

It's interesting how explaining how you were in an unfair domestic violence situation has caused other commenters to castigate you with every TRP stereotype they can think of... despite a quick read of your posting history showing you aren't exactly a hard core TRP person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:12 PM
1

It's nice that you believe gender is not relevant but that's not how courts or related support services or laws like VAWA work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:09 PM
1

"Support services" serve women, not men, at least in my area (USA). And before you act like I don't know what I'm talking about... let's just say I'm a person who's a mandated reporter and whom judges and prosecutors regularly listen to. So I know the family court system pretty well, and in a certain manner of speaking am actually a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 11:09 PM
1

When your example is patently false, it casts doubt on the veracity of your idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:34 PM
1

Being perceived as narcissistic by people with no credentials in psychology is different than actually having narcissistic personality disorder. Trying to act as something you are not is as old as humanity itself. Witness teenagers trying to seem like punks, or seem like thugs, etc. when they are no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:33 PM
1

Exposes too much information.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 05:32 PM
1

I haven't really seen many signs of NPD amongst TRP folk. I've had the misfortune to know an NPD and an HPD person, too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:31 PM
1

How have I been an asshole? I'm just clearing up some language confusion. I never said being a single mom is necessarily a good or a bad choice. I'm just clearing up that it is sometimes a choice. Being a widow is not normally a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:31 PM
1

People naturally have a sense of sympathy towards widows (who presumably don't choose their state) vs single moms (who may or may not choose their state; most in the West intentionally engage in acts that result in them being pregnant without being in a state of wedlock first). Confusing the two terms is nothing but a cheap play to garner sympathy for single moms who make active choices to become single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/14 05:27 PM
1

I rescind my assertions. The fashion industry is run by straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 04:58 PM
1

Your example was counter-factual. Could you try again with an example of something RPW actually believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 04:58 PM
5

The fashion industry is dominated by homosexual men. Are we seriously debating this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:43 AM
1

Yes, I do. But you would be better off reading the philosophers, holy men, and psychologists who have influenced me. Søren Kierkegaard, Menno Simons, and Jacques Lacan would be a few I can think of off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:43 AM
1

Are you going to admit your error in claiming RPW people are against weightlifting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:38 AM
4

You got caught being classist and racist. Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 02:38 AM
1

If anything, RP guys are trying to have less fragile self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:03 PM
1

Ask philosophers, holy men, and evolutionary psychologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:02 PM
5

I had a wife who watched too much reality TV and some of it is fairly entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:02 PM
1

next thing she'll be nagging for a ring, and you'll give in because the sex has just been slightly starting to slack off
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:01 PM
5

More than 3%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 11:01 PM
7

I believe SirNemesis is from India, so maybe you could stop your whitesplaining to him about how things are in his home country?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 10:33 PM
1

I'm sure that LTRs with a single mom were out of the question for you in the past, too.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:15 PM
1

She might be worthy of a pump and dump, but I'm not sure. Why would you stick your penis inside something that another man's child has slipped through?
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:14 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with women who want to be feminine trying not to be too masculine. But the consensus in RPW is that lifting won't make you more masculine. We have a powerlifter there and another woman who isn't a competitive powerlifter but likes lifting a lot. Why do you feel the need to direct so much hatred towards RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:40 PM
2

Incorrect. http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/basics/definition/con-20025568 "But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem, vulnerable to the slightest criticism."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:38 PM
9

I've watched plenty. Auf Wiedersehen! (If you're trying to shame me by saying "lol aaron is such a homo", it's not going to work.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:37 PM
1

A feral state removes societal constraints that encourage women not to be aggressive and anti-social. Whereas our societal conditioning has (historically) encouraged men to be aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 09:37 PM
5

Gay people are 3% of the population and I'd daresay more than 3% of men in fashion who make decisions about what models can look like, are homosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:51 PM
2

TRPers try to give off signs of having those traits in order to be more attractive to women. Nobody actually tries to be more narcissistic. Come on. Part of narcissism is feeling deeply inadequate on the inside and like you don't measure up. Are TRPers trying to do that??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:49 PM
1

I had to sit in a courtroom all day for a minor traffic thing There were 4 domestic violence cases being heard All of the offenders were female. It was an absurd spectacle, since the "victim's advocate" had to be there, asking the judge for penalties in excess of statutory minimums. It's silly to say that physical aggression is a male problem. In other species, both males and females are aggressive. In most civilisations, females are "domesticated" to quit being physically aggressive. I don't th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:48 PM
1

I object to your assertion that "hating women" is Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:44 PM
8

When grownups speak, they use generalisations. It is impossible to have every edge case clearly documented in a reasonable conversation. Most men like cheesecake models and porn stars, not aging actresses with stringy muscles and runway models who look and have the asses of a typical teenage boy. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:43 PM
3

RPW isn't a set of rules for living or a moral philosophy, but the idea that RPW thinks lifting weights will make women less attractive is categorically absurd. Women who complain they want to be more fit/more attractive are encouraged to try out weightlifting. It's common in such threads to have to dispel myths like "but if I lift too much I'll look manly". Please educate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:39 PM
1

You're talking about organisations, not the belief system itself. Governments have lots of politicians who make money off of government, but that doesn't mean all government is a bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:57 PM
0

Endless whining about how tragic and sad it is when a white woman is with a black man.
/r/AlreadyRed12/08/14 05:56 PM
1

No one feels respect for either party. Respectable stable married families want nothing to do with people who try to have affairs with married women and do everything they can to keep them away from them.
/r/AlreadyRed12/08/14 05:55 PM
0

RP men will end up being the patriarchs and "alpha males" of the neoreaction movement (and will hopefully miss some of NRx's pitfalls, such as the tendency of neoreactionaries to place femineity on a pedestal).
/r/AlreadyRed29/06/14 06:48 PM
0

I think you're missing the point of Red Pill. Men who still have at least one testicle don't need to negotiate with women about a damn thing.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 06:47 PM
1

In a boxing match the goal isn't to dish out pain to your opponent - no sadism there.
/r/AlreadyRed29/06/14 06:46 PM
1

The whole point of religion is to get more people to engage in good values and create some kind of social contract where people don't always have to act solely in self interest at the expense of others. The west is currently in free fall since women don't participate in that social contract (and our religious institutions have stopped placing any kind of expectations on women)
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:45 PM
1

There will, of course, be plenty of a fight, but generally when faced with challenges, humans rise to the occasion. Americans have no challenges anymore.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:43 PM
-1

I'm not seeing the problem. What are some good qualities about your husband?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 06:41 PM
2

Bingo! I'm sure there's no shortage of ugly women who'd be happy for a romantic encounter...
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 06:40 PM
3

Please take your debate to /r/PurplePillDebate We don't think men and women are identical around here.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:39 PM
1

Indeed. If you aren't a religious person, stay away from anyone "chaste" over age 20 or so.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:39 PM
1

Lol if you think you'll find chastity anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:38 PM
1

I think you've got things exactly backward. A person should first take care of themselves, and then those closest to them and whom they have a duty to take care of: their family. After that, community, nation and people group, and then the world. In decreasing order of importance.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:37 PM
1

Indeed; I'm dealing right now with turning down some 'olive-branch pussy'. Nice term. ♂
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:36 PM
1

No kidding. I don't pretend to know more than biologists, but every biologist I've run into talks about how great rats are because of all the similarities to humans.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:35 PM
1

So I don't want to spend time and money driving to her place. It puzzles me you don't think this is a realistic option. Edit: and I don't placate women. If she wants 90, she gets 0. I don't give her 10 and she thinks she's "won" because she got 20.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:52 PM
3

Think of a job as more of an LTR or a marriage. Nexting is your last resort, but dread game is still essential. Your boss needs to be concerned every day about losing you. Mine in, and my boss and I have an excellent working relationship. In turn, I am concerned about doing what it takes to retain the person who works for me.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 06:31 PM
5

Sorry, but my experience of spinning plates both as a man in his early 20s and in his early 30s is that they'll never stop driving stupidly far distances to see you. What's challenging is convincing them that driving up to see you in a bad blizzard is not a good idea and they should stop. Are you a woman?
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:30 PM
0

Actually, negotiation is what kills desire. Are you a woman?
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:29 PM
3

That's why there's a time-honoured tradition of meeting your date's family after a few dates.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 06:28 PM
4

My hat's off to these Japanese men who are the Beautiful Ones.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 06:27 PM
1

In effect, it fights control with control. Part of the blue-pill outlook on the world is try to get rid of control altogether. It's a laudable, but impossible, goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/14 06:27 PM
2

Indeed. Hipsters are busy reading RoK; those of us in RP are trying to figure out how to develop TRP into a philosophy that can be sensibly applied to LTRs and marriages on a man's terms.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:45 PM
2

So, corporate life literally makes us into psychopaths...
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:40 PM
2

You can next your boss - you just need to have another job lined up, or know you can go get one, or know you can live without one for a while. And gaming your boss works best when she's a woman.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:40 PM
2

And let's not forget the forbidden piece of the Dark Tetrad - sadism - which is probably the most useful personality attribute anyone can have in day to day life. Learn how to switch it on and off.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:39 PM
2

They're in the same spot as white girls in America who date black men. Whilst white men won't see them as great dates, the black guys think they've hit paydirt.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:37 PM
1

Correct, sir. The low-status alpha is a gentleman who is unable to provide any of the positive beta-bux attributes that, yes, women do want; they're just often happy getting alpha fux from one man and beta bux from another. The ideal situation any woman wants is AFBB from the same guy. I've experimented with doing this before (albeit for only a month or two at a time, as I'd rather not spend all my Beta Bux in one place). The effect is has on a woman's psyche is overwhelming. Traditional culture…
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:36 PM
0

LTRs are the enemy unless they're on the man's terms.
/r/AlreadyRed27/06/14 05:32 PM
4

In that case, I would suggest seeking out someone of the same sex. Men and women are complimentary, not identical.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:31 PM
1

Human genetic history has no real influence from men who would mate with different women 2-3 times a day. There are a few like Genghis Khan. Nothing significant enough to cause new traits to arise.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:29 PM
3

Yup. With that said... I'm happy to oblige their need for rough, soul-piercing sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:23 PM
0

Gross. Just utterly gross. MMOs are like some weird substitute for community. It's the male equivalent to girls using Instagram to get 100s of likes.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:22 PM
1

Just the experiences of lots and lots of men.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:59 PM
8

Without seeming creepy? She's already banging you. Tell her exactly what you want and how you want it. Get your ex-gf to move to wherever you are. Why'd she move away?
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:30 PM
1

There's a ton of good Red Pill and PUA stuff out there about approaches.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:16 PM
3

Actually good advice. The girls I haven't scored with? The ones where I never got myself to say "hi".
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:16 PM
1

Indeed. If I want to hook up with her within the next few days, I'll go along with it. Half the time she's busy masturbating herself whilst she sends this crap. You can usually notice when she gets off, too. Suddenly she won't want to hear crude sexual talk from you anymore.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:15 PM
2

That's fucked up. Nepotism doesn't work well, especially when you have to pretend to be with some girl to get a job. Seriously, man, WTF? I like the Machiavellianism of this situation, but I have doubts you're controlling the situation enough to pull this off.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:14 PM
2

No kidding. 2 hours of hard, rough sex is better than a Xanax for a chick's anxiety.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:13 PM
2

Congratulations. You had a female beta orbiter. The reason she was such a perfect friend with you was because she wanted a lot more. You can either date her, or walk away from the friendship.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:12 PM
9

You could (a) plate your ex-gf (which is the proper thing to do with most exes), and (b) keep meeting new girls. 2 hook-ups is not close to enough. Also, you can train girls to have better sex. Teach her how to be a moaner and how to act sexy in bed.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:11 PM
4

Get to know a man's parents. If the mother is masculine and doesn't seem like the kind to provide any nurturing, you'll probably end up being his mommy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 04:08 PM
2

Yeah. Feminists have been pushing so hard to get parity when it comes to the number of men and women incarcerated. Right.
/r/PussyPass27/06/14 04:06 PM
0

Let's face it: you and I probably both make things happen to women in bed that very few other men can offer. At least, that's why my plates have told me they keep comin' around.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:04 PM
1

I'd expect any woman who plays MMOs to get to 300+ lbs No consequence, the guys orbiting her will be fatter.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:03 PM
2

"Date rape" drugs like Rohypnol have been found in <1% of blood/urine tests Alcohol, on the other hand...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:01 PM
3

Frankly, I'd admire any woman who executed his strategy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:56 PM
1

Yep. I got (allegedly) sexually assaulted by a girl whilst I was passed out drunk. I got no STDs from it, no unplanned pregnancy, so as far as I'm concerned... it's just another notch count. (And in typical female fashion she was really really shitty to me about when she told me months later.)
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:55 PM
7

Amen, brother. Sex with me is a prize, and every man needs to internalise that. (If sex you with you isn't a prize, go fix whyever it's not before you even think about sticking your penis in a girl.) One of the best experiences of my life was dropping plates who used to be exes. There's no power quite as strong as that of saying "no" to pussy. And the reward in the end is a lot more pussy...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:54 PM
1

... and don't forget to plate her!
/r/askTRP27/06/14 03:53 PM
3

You're asking women to be men. Women want whatever makes men who give them tingles want to fuck them and date them. Now, most of what you're talking about is just women competing with each other for stuff men don't care about. Stuff like manicures, pedicures, new hairstyles: this all stuff solely to jockey with other women. We men do the same thing, but we're a lot more practical about it: we'll call each other a few rude words, roughhouse a little bit, but we're very good at establishing hierar…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:52 PM
3

You can still see your own comments after they get deleted, but nobody else can. Hope that helps. Edit: I'm not sure I'd equate religious upbringing to good parenting, but the two are often found together.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:49 PM
6

Well said, sir. Hamstering, female solipsism, and hypergamy are what make women women. I don't want to date bros, so I embrace those things and I love them. The other day, a girl was in a bad mood (admittedly, in the middle of her period) and I was having no part of it. Got back to her house, went inside. I told her she needed to chill and then told her to come over and let me hold her. She curled up into a tiny ball and clung to me for about 5 minutes. Then she said "I'm sorry". And then she wa…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:49 PM
4

What's really being said here is "Why don't any men who give me tingles notice me/want to date me?"
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:46 PM
4

Beauty is defined by what attractive men want. Attractive men are defined by what kind of men give women tingles. People mistake the form of beauty for its substance.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:45 PM
0

Glad to see you're enjoying her for just what she is (a woman) instead of expecting her to be a man and getting angry about it. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:42 PM
1

Feminism is about increasing female power for unattractive, dominant, highly intelligent women. Everyone else gets screwed.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:40 PM
2

I don't think he's saying "be more like India"
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:39 PM
2

Indeed. I learned a long time ago how to identify real rape victims: they don't tell their stories for years, and they've long since given up on any revenge. They just want to move on. Society had ways of dealing with rape (which used to be a crime against a man for lowering the value of his property); state prosecutions of boyfriends and girlfriends is not that something that has ever, or will ever, work.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:39 PM
1

Rats are a model organism for humans, especially for things affective social behaviour. Any biologist knows this. And rats have complex social interactions every day.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:35 PM
2

Yep. You can even become a patriarch, and make your own new society. Which will thrive for a while, but will eventually fall, long after you're gone.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:34 PM
1

People whose genes predispose them to engage in behaviours where they do reproduce will just take over for the people who opt for childlessness. The Shakers were wonderful, lovely people, but they're extinct now.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:33 PM
1

This is just a theory, but I think the Beautiful Ones developed a sense of introversion.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:33 PM
1

As oil gets more expensive, we will become better people. At the height of cheap oil, we lived in the 1980s. Our work products were two nuclear superpowers with their fingers on the button, 1980s hair, Wall Street becoming synonymous with greed, and the beginnings of 3rd wave feminism. Give me expensive oil.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:32 PM
1

Indeed. Living a Red Pill life in a semi-rural area is pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:31 PM
2

Indeed. The men have found a way to make life worth living... for themselves. Takes two to tango.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:30 PM
2

4 pairs is enough to avoid inbreeding problems leading to less fitness for the purposes of this experiment.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:29 PM
2

The MGTOW rats made the best of a lousy situation. "Enjoy the decline." Interesting how the female rats figured out how to stop reproducing without even introducing birth control or abortion into the mix.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:28 PM
3

And there's a huge difference between the two. It comes down to appropriateness. I grew up around a ton of nursing moms who also dressed modestly compared to the societal norm. Never once did it feel obscene. And we have laws protecting breastfeeding in public in all 50 states. Meanwhile, I go to establishments with signs saying "No shirt, no shoes, no service." I don't feel oppressed when I have to put a shirt on if I'm driving around shirtless in a Jeep on a hot day.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:24 PM
2

Indeed. That's why hairless apes started covering themselves up. There are cultures where people are, or are mostly, naked, just wear a loin cloth, if that. Or you can just join a nudist colony. I'd rather continue to wear clothes and be around other people wearing clothes. I like civilisation.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:21 PM
3

It's appropriate to wear a bikini at the beach; it's not appropriate to wear one in the grocery store in the Northeast in February. The word "appropriate" is lost on these people.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:20 PM
2

Nobody wants to live in a remote African tribe, and once those people can afford to buy and launder T-shirts, they all do.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:19 PM
1

I have no idea. It just started to change in my 20s, and I realised in my 30s that I could go two times in a row. Being in excellent health had nothing to do with it - I got fatter and less fit in my 20s. Part of it might be attitude and in my mind. In my 30s I got a girlfriend who was much hotter than my wife in my 20s. That might have helped...
/r/askTRP27/06/14 03:18 PM
3

Reddit's a much more productive place to debate than Facebook, especially when you do so anonymously. The poor guy is hopeless. "Attraction shouldn't matter!!!!!" Should hygiene matter?
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:16 PM
9

Imagine if we judged women solely on their behaviour, and excluded what they're wearing or their beauty. Maybe that's not such a bad idea...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:12 PM
22

Don't know if you're experienced with turning down women for sex (esp. in the context of LTRs), but this kind of reaction is not uncommon until it's happened several times. It takes a while for them to realise the market clearing price of their pussy is $0.00 to you.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:11 PM
8

Disgusting. Good on you for overcoming it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:10 PM
8

I would also run away screaming from any girl who likes MMOs
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:09 PM
9

Girls who retain their chastity usually do so out of fear of violating religious conviction alongside fear of disappointing their family.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:06 PM
7

I know chaste girls who are 9's - although I do have to take issue that every girl, even the chastest 6, is still hypergamous. It's just harder to detect. But trust me, it's there.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:05 PM
3

I'm around chaste girls all the time (religious), although that's not useful for the non-religious man. Unfortunately, it's very difficult to tell the difference between chastity and LMR. You're best off pushing past enough LMR that you can start to distinguish the two.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:05 PM
1

If I were, I'd go make some more male friends and spend time with them.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:50 PM
1

I actually do have close male companionship, and also have a number of decent female friends. A lot of girls these days are very lonely, and their female friends are just all busy competing with them/stabbing them in the back. Sucks for them.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:50 PM
2

Geez, go bang her at 4:30 on Sunday. Nice.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:49 PM
1

"lol I get stupid when I'm drunk"
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:48 PM
1

After reading and responding to some comments, you said you have an instinct you want to break up with her. Break up with her. Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:48 PM
1

I'd go "I only break up with fat chicks" and poke her belly.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:46 PM
1

king, please repost this to the main TRP sub.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:46 PM
1

And right there is your problem. Why don't you spend time with guy friends? Guys who have no male friends don't HAVE high value. One of the best ways to instill dread in a woman is for her to know you'd rather be with your buds until 3 AM than be busy banging her pushed up against the wall in the kitchen.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:45 PM
1

You aren't in an LTR and you and she aren't exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend. LTRs don't do GNOs where they get dolled up to the 9s. You say you want to break up with her - just fucking do it! You can meet another girl. And chances are this girl will end up being your plate and probably even being exclusive to you. Best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:44 PM
2

Way too rapey. She's your girlfriend, not some chick you just met. If she doesn't want to have sex, she can break up with you.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:43 PM
1

Girls cry all the time. Get used to it. Just make sure they're crying over you.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:42 PM
1

The only reason to discuss anything is to incite dread in her.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:42 PM
-1

That's because LTRs are usually a shit choice and life path for men in 2014.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:42 PM
1

Start taking her for granted: show up at her house, bang the hell out of her, then check your phone and say "gotta run!" Take her out on fewer dates Ignore her phone calls/texts or do 3:2 like if you were running text game In short, game her like you would any other girl. The need for game never stops, unfortunately. That's why most men want to get into LTRs or get married, so the shit tests and game can stop... but the end result is what you've got.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:41 PM
1

Yeah, I thought I'd hit this point about 3 years ago, and then I started running into my oneitis at social functions this year. Now I've got a full blown case of it, and banging ten other women in the ass hasn't cured it one bit.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:40 PM
1

I keep wishing my oneitis from 10 years ago would hurry up and meet/date someone else.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:39 PM
1

Most of my plates are 2 - 3 hours away. Life works much better. You just have to keep some texting/phone calls going or the occasional Skype. I use a separate phone number (check out text.me or Google Voice) so that if she starts to get annoying, I just turn off the notifications from the app. I've successfully spun long distance plates with gaps between seeing each other as long as 3 months last year and 7 weeks this year, and periods of no contact for 5+ days.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:38 PM
1

And it's usually worth joining their clan.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:37 PM
1

Her dad sounds great, and it even sounds like he likes you. I'd maintain that friendship and use it to your advantage. I'd much rather be friends with a successful businessman than with some broad I'm banging. Unless you want to take over the daddy role in her life, leave things be. I have an ex-gf who eventually became a plate - am still friends with her dad. In fact, he's one of the people who encouraged me to make her an ex. Smart guy!
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:37 PM
1

I switched from being one of the guys who needed hours in his teens to a guy who needs about 15 seconds in his 30s.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:34 PM
3

Sex with an alpha male is relaxing to women and cures their anxiety. Some women have tears of joy during an orgasm, too. Congrats bro
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:33 PM
1

The manosphere considers tattoos and short hair non-negotiable deal-breakers for marriage, because girls like that seem to spike the divorce statistics/getting fat after the wedding statistics from the usual 50% up to 99%. For pump and dump or plate spinning? All that matters is the boner test.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:32 PM
1

It's no different than if she were missing an eye or her legs were horribly deformed: it just makes her less attractive. In general, tattoos that show poor judgment are a big warning sign that you shouldn't enter an LTR/marry her.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:31 PM
4

Family members and friends fitness test each other, but normally fitness testing receives severe punishment in such settings. Unfortunately, women in 2014 become accustomed to fitness testing any man they run into - even ones who are not mates. And maybe his sister wants to fuck him now that he's lifting more.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:31 PM
1

My sister and I have a good relationship although we don't see each other/talk very much If she ever started doing that kind of garbage to me, I would treat her like she were dead to me.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:30 PM
1

The easiest thing to do is to simply move out of your place. Move all your stuff (I'd advise doing this sooner rather than later, before she starts destroying, stealing, or hiding your things), then tell your landlord you're moving out and you've got an angry ex who moved in without your permission.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:26 PM
1

Great to hear, man. Go listen to Lee Brice's "That's When You Know It's Over"
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:25 PM
2

Feel free to share down here in the comments!
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:24 PM
1

Indeed. The girl saying "I have to drive so far to date you!" is just shit-testing. Offering to meet her half way is FAILING the test.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:02 PM
1

You have so many women trying to hop on your dick that there aren't enough nights in the week to see them all. At that point, it's time to tone the asshole down.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:01 PM
3

But a girl who's stuck up or radiates anxiety - ain't getting asked out. So far, I haven't seen a single thing other than "I'm pretty!!!" and "I'm a virgin!!!" Not exactly a great sales pitch.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:59 PM
1

We get people like this periodically in RPW, the comment section of TheRulesRevisited, etc Chances are she thinks she's a 9.9 but in reality is a 5 with a very health dose of self esteem. Ick.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:58 PM
1

Feels like you've been eavesdropping on my dates.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:57 PM
2

This is 2014. Guys don't bother to approach girls who are busy reading a book/studying (other than rude guys or pick-up artists, but you will only date "good guys"). And nobody bothers approaching gaggles of girls. If you're the most attractive girl in the group, I'd go and approach the 2nd or 3rd most, or maybe the bottom tier one. I never bother with the prettiest girl. In short, your problem is you want an alpha male to approach you, but he also has to a beta male when it comes to who he real…
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:56 PM
2

It's really amazing how perfect she thinks she is, isn't it? Even when the market signals are telling her price is set too high.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:54 PM
1

Good Lord, this reads like text conversations with some of my plates. Excellent job. At this point, I'd say she's probably already a plate. You can probably go bang her whenever you want her. Expect a non-stream of insanity, though, whenever you talk to her. Edit: Don't forget to be extra careful she doesn't have 3 kids. Anal, condoms, plus pulling out.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:49 PM
6

I guess I'd just like to see more discussion. Red Pill has become surprisingly widespread; I've run into people in real life now who advocate it, and who aren't really Redditors. As much as I might be pro-RP, I have a hard time believing there are so few ex-RP people. I'd be interested to hear more about your process that changed your mind.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/14 03:43 AM
2

Easy enough for me to do. Not so easy for people who have kids, shared assets, and have to deal with losing their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/14 03:26 AM
2

I'm accustomed to being part of a fringe community which doesn't experience widespread acceptance from others. I learned a long time ago that it's best to fit in with what other people want/think you to be, at least in settings like a workplace. I keep my political and ideological opinions to myself. The issue with doxxing is that someone will try to figure out who your employer is and then leave harassing messages with anyone they can find. Regardless of your ideology, that's not good for your …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/14 03:21 AM
9

Adults tell children a lot of lies "A college degree will be worth it." "Study what you're passionate about; don't worry about getting a job right now." "You're fine just the way you are." "People should accept you for you." It's analogous to the old lies adults used to tell children: "You're stupid and worthless", "You'll never amount to anything", "I wish you'd never been born." I was lucky to grow up with parents who nurtured me but told me the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 10:49 PM
2

"you're a monumental dick that nobody wants to be around" My experience with guys who live RP is that this is not true - they're insanely popular
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:45 PM
0

It would be more accurate to say dread game is utilising fear of loss of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:44 PM
2

Define "equal". I've never dated someone who is my exact clone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:44 PM
2

It works. Couple counselling doesn't. Tried both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:43 PM
1

Indeed. In any relationship, I aim to use as little dread game as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:42 PM
1

I've spun plenty of plates, and I've never cheated once in my life - the closest I ever came was a sort of emotional involvement with another woman (long phone calls) whilst I had a different girlfriend. Why does everyone think spinning plates = cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:42 PM
-1

Dread game is being willing to leave a partner when you are unhappy with them and they aren't treating you the way they want to. How is that shitty and insecure? Should I stay and be mistreated?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:41 PM
2

Hi there! I spent 1 year unemployed of our 7 year marriage. A few months after unemployment, separation. I then got a high-falutin' job offer, and lo and behold, she wanted to reconcile. It's nice that you're a perfect wife who doesn't do that stuff to her man - but some of us are imperfect men and I've never been able to find a perfect woman. Or at least, not a perfect woman who's also attracted to me. I have to settle for imperfection. And I learned that being unwilling to ever, ever, ever lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:40 PM
2

What should one do when one wakes 5 years after the wedding and finds himself in a relationship with a childish woman who uses petty tactics like dread game?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:37 PM
6

So, what should I do so that women stop treating me badly? E.g. hitting me or throwing things? Since I'm the 100% problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:36 PM
2

Well, it's not like I wouldn't rather live in a blue pill Disney movie universe. But that's not the real world. Regular communication, asking my partner about her feelings, always being available for her to talk, etc. has resulted in getting cheated on, sexless relationships after a few years or months, and ultimately being abandoned. It's entirely possible that the women who are attracted to me are not functional adults, but what exactly can be done about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:35 PM
1

Being cheated on is never justified, yet it's happened to many people, including me. Being hit / having things thrown at me is never justified, yet it's happened to many people, including me. Being sexually assaulted against my will is never justified, yet it's happened to many people, including me. So what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:33 PM
1

You speak as if we've never tried talking to our LTR partners or spouses before, been in couples counselling, marriage counselling, and so on. Tried all that stuff. Doesn't work. Ignoring text messages/phone calls for a day, however, works utter complete magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:32 PM
1

I don't see how it's a well adjusted response either, but either I'm the one threatening it with abandonment or the other party is. I decided after being willing to stay through thick and thin that it's better to the abandoning party than the abandoned party.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:30 PM
0

Cheaters and DV perpetrators are amongst the most frustrating levels of assholery, and in Red Pill we don't advocate sadism or domestic violence - even though those techniques are very effective. Eventually, you just have to accept that one of the hottest girls like being with a guy who keeps hitting them. Who knows, maybe behind closed doors she hits him back. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:29 PM
1

For some of us, the only women who are attracted to us are the type of women who are attracted to assholes. I tried the whole feminist blue pill thing. (I truly, honestly believed it, and wanted to believe in it. In fact, I still do.) But eventually, I got tired of being lonely, single, and sexless. My only female friends were other feminists who were busy dating assholes. I went back to being Red Pill and life went back to being normal. Yeah, so lots of women are attracted to assholes. So what?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:28 PM
1

Either I've exclusively dated asswipes, or this is a normal part of female behaviour. I prefer to believe the latter. Maybe it's a bias, but it's hard for me to believe that every woman I've been with is that conniving and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:26 PM
1

If a woman stops showing signs of being attracted to me and I suspect she's ready to leave the relationship, how is it wrong to display that I'm also willing to leave the relationship? Most people learn that being willing to stay in a relationship at any cost and being desperate for the other person to not leave you is NOT healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:25 PM
2

So, when you say "I like your hair prettier this way", and your partner does the exact opposite... ... what exactly is the right thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:23 PM
0

Do you believe in absolute truth and absolute morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:05 PM
1

I used to be sly, but now I just say what I want and what I'm thinking. Works surprisingly well. Probably requires being attractive.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:04 PM
3

Is your mind at all open to being changed? Every day, I try to figure out what I'm an ideologue about and be open to changing my worldview. And it has changed, several times, and I don't pretend for a moment that I have a monopoly on truth right now. Would you ever be Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:03 PM
3

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:02 PM
3

Then why are you participating in PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 10:02 PM
1

My experience with men of all stripes and colours is that they exaggerate their partner count. No, no published studies. My job involves doing clinical research all day. I come on Reddit to get a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:55 PM
6

Would you mind posting more? The conversation in PurplePillDebate is unreadable at this point.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/14 09:54 PM
1

RP people are assholes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:53 PM
2

What advantages do you gain from this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:53 PM
3

Tautology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:52 PM
2

What's the point of Purple Pill Debate without redpiller comments? Wouldn't it make more sense to go talk at one of the mainstream subs then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:52 PM
3

Well, of course, I'm never going to convince you. Unlike myself, you have a belief system that cannot be changed under any circumstance whatsoever. It must be comforting, being a fundamentalist like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:52 PM
2

Nuh uh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:51 PM
1

Then why is "non-RP is mainstream, RP is a fringe group" such a popular argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:51 PM
3

You don't have empathy for guys who aren't naturally good with women like you or me. You just think they're morons. Empathy is always a good path to choose, even with people who are kind of repulsive (like guys who can't get laid and get attracted to MRA or PUA)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:50 PM
3

beams
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:48 PM
2

I fully expect to get downvoted into oblivion whenever I post. At the same time, I feel it's worth pointing out this is how my ideological opponents behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 09:47 PM
6

Oh, I see. So this behaviour is excusable. (The RP thing, of course, is to ignore / find ways to use this to my advantage. Which is exactly what I'm doing.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 02:15 AM
2

Either use the mobile site, a Greasemonkey plugin to disable custom CSS, or click the user's username, find the comment, and downvote it there. If you're asking if people are going to a lot of effort, or using automated means, to downvote us: yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 01:04 AM
1

I would recommend considering a diet heavier in meat, good fats (Omega 3s and saturated fats and MCTs like coconut oil), and go easy on the carbs. Men really adapt well to low carb diets (and so do women!) because they can keep eating yummy stuff. Check out TempestTcup's blog if this subject fascinates you. http://tempesttcup.wordpress.com/
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 01:04 AM
1

One thing most people need to appreciate: nearly EVERYONE has it badly when it comes to love/dating/romance. Even attractive people often get themselves in terrible relationships. When you are feeling crummy, a bit of empathy for your fellow humans can go a long way. You probably don't have it worse than most other people.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 01:02 AM
-2

As man I'm telling you, we don't like capris. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:29 AM
1

It's built into the male DNA to lie in the other direction (sorry, I didn't specify the direction of the lie) about their partner count. Rather than getting annoyed with the fact nearly all guys do it, I just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:28 AM
6

No, RP women want to attract men they are attracted to. Let's face it, most TRP guys aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:27 AM
2

What would sex-ed in early puberty be, then? Long sessions letting boys know they're all potential rapists? Because I don't think that's productive. I think it portrays a toxic view of masculinity, and I think ultimately it alienates boys from actually listening to what any of the academics are saying. The best sex ed anyone could get (male or female) is "don't drink until you're 21", but it'll be a cold day in hell before that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:27 AM
4

US sex education is devolving from the abstinence-only garbage of the 1990s to the current pablum dispensed on college campuses: rape, rape, rape everywhere. It's nice a pipe dream that someday there'd be sex ed by people without an ideological agenda, but I doubt I'll see that in my lifetime...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:11 AM
2

For starters, most RP women are married, so that knocks them out right off the bat We get men posting in RPW all the time gushing "you gals are awesome!! I love you". Now put on your RP-tinted glasses for a second, and try to think about why this wouldn't work. In essence, TRP guys don't seek RP women because RP women are too good for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:10 AM
2

No moral judgments. Of course, there are people who keep posting "blah blah women have no honour blah blah women are lying cheating whores". But RP is not a moral philosophy. Whether or not cheating on a boyfriend/girlfriend is wrong is something outside of the scope of RP. I smack down people all the time for complaining about how women "have no honour" when what they are really expressing is that women don't have a masculine sense of honour, and expecting is really a blue-pill belief. Part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:06 AM
3

Most guys in TRP are young, and want to date around/spin plates. Or they're already in established LTRs. And even for a guy who's hunting for an LTR - a typical RPW isn't going to be the most fruitful match for him. Men and women have different, competing sexual strategies. For example, an RP woman will be acutely aware of being gamed/played. That doesn't bode well for a novice TRP fellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:03 AM
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I'm not particularly complaining about being treated this way; I'm just observing that it happens (and in this sub, we aren't supposed to be downvoting, period). I think it's an example of groupthink and the desire to punish anyone who feels differently than you do. My position is that Blue Pillers engage in this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 12:02 AM
6

For the last time: /r/RPW is not a collection of women trying to figure out how to get guys who post in /r/TRP to date them. Red Pill women are women trying to improve themselves as much as possible and bring as much harmony to their marriages or relationships as possible. For single women, the focus is on how they can make themselves attractive to the kind of man they want. For most of them, that's NOT a guy who posts to TRP! TRP is the reverse: men who are trying to figure out how to attract t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:59 PM
5

I think it's safe to assume that when someone says "plate", they're implying they've had sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:44 PM
2

There's nothing for me personally to gain from pretending the world isn't sexist, and a heck of a lot to lose.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/14 11:43 PM
3

Did it ever occur to you that maybe she's been the one abusing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:40 PM
0

This is fair enough. I pretend to be a male feminist in certain social spheres, like the workplace. Safer that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:39 PM
2

Quite a few RP women are bad cooks and don't know how to sew. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:38 PM
3

There's little crossover in RPW and TRP types going for each other, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:38 PM
1

"without the toxic environment of TRP" The "toxic environment of TRP" has attracted 50,000 subscribers and there is a "Thanks RPW!" post almost every day. Considering the huge, vast number of other woman-centered subs... maybe, just maybe, some women actually WANT want Red Pill has to offer and don't want to be "rescued".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:37 PM
4

/r/exredpill is 130 subscribers, and mostly mods sitting around talking to each other. Few people there were ever active in TRP at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:35 PM
1

Go over to /r/TheBluePill and observe how they talk about Red Pill women in order to understand what I mean.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:31 PM
4

A world without sexist men or sexist women would be nice, but doesn't exist, so I have to deal with living with both of them.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/14 11:29 PM
2

I think modern society gives privileges of all kinds to different classes of people. Women have some privileges, men have others. (I'm not an MRA.) RP is simply realistic about what the privileges are and who has what. No moral judgments. I don't see feminism as a threat to my position; if anything, feminism has made the plate-spinning lifestyle possible. Nobody bats an eye about me doing what would be unthinkable 50 years ago: having a horde of attractive, young women eagerly having sex with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 11:25 PM
0

Of course you as a woman think they're "elegant" and "European". I'm trying to tell you that, as a man, and one who overhears what other men think - we don't like capris, not even skintight yoga capris.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 11:23 PM
0

For the sake of your marriage, I'd quit now.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:22 PM
1

He's already plated this girl, so he's not really an extra "option". She just wanted someone to whine to. And/or she's hoping this guy will step up and make her more than a plate.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:21 PM
-1

Because you're falling out of love with him, and in our culture, when a woman falls out of love with a man - she divorces him and strips him of every dollar he's worth.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:21 PM
0

Make up an absurd problem (and phrase it in a way that makes RP look bad), then ask for advice and do so in a way to get more examples of how evil RP is to post on the SRS and TBP subs. If that's not you, my apologies.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:20 PM
1

The idea of a husband and wife (or any romantically involved couple, really) working in the same office... positively insane. One of you will need to quit the job and go work somewhere else.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:33 PM
0

That's exactly what trolls do.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:32 PM
-1

If I were in her husband's shoes, I'd be looking for a good divorce attorney
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:31 PM
2

Of course. Some of the plates I've been with are starting to understand that the slut -> girlfriend -> live in girlfriend -> wife -> kids trajectory doesn't actually work. The true trajectory is slut -> girlfriend -> plate. If you're smart, skip the girlfriend phase...
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:30 PM
2

She's a slut - and sluts are enjoyable to bang as much as you want. I'd downgrade her to a plate until you're so disgusted looking at her that you don't even want her slobbering on your knob anymore. That's the point at which you become really busy with work and stop responding to her texts/phone calls. Go get your ass busy finding more plates.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:28 PM
1

Be careful. Crazy tends to be contagious. And she's probably not as lovely and thoughtful as she seems to you. I've made the mistake of being friends with people who were loving and thoughtful to me... and later found out they were essentially a living satan to other people.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:21 PM
1

I appreciate the younger guys who are my friends (who aren't just deranged parties or people otherwise doing nothing with their lives). I'm sure some older women would enjoy your friendship as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:19 PM
1

Geez. Even the thirstiest of guys know better than to try to sleep with all the girls in their social group.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:18 PM
1

The fact he lets you live in his house for free and wants you to move to California with him says all that there is to say. Stop worrying so much.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:15 PM
1

If you over to TRP, a lot of the guys who discover it are sad, angry, and emotional - there's an unpleasant phase everyone has to go through when they find out that live won't be like a Disney romance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:14 PM
1

(1) Not being giving in the bedroom is an alpha trait, not a beta trait (2) I would advise not "getting on him" about eating healthy and exercising. Instead, just make food to eat that's healthy. Give him his space to go do fun things outside with his friends, and he'll exercise that way. Guys like to play sports, not slave away on elliptical trainers in gyms.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:12 PM
1

Once a man hits puberty, getting the most sex possible is on the mind of most men all the time. But then again so is eating cookies and ice cream for most humans all the time. We learn to control our impulses and not let them control us, so a lot of guys look for a stable steady relationship and are willing to give up "playing the field" or don't even want to bother to try, even if they do fantasise about it. If you want to find men who want to save sex for relationship/marriage you'd need to fi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:08 PM
0

Unfortunately capris of any sort are usually a fashion nightmare
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:05 PM
2

Well, of course, what goes on behind closed doors is an entirely different topic... men want a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:05 PM
12

It's actually easy for women in their late 30s or 40s to meet men and date them. What's hard is to get the top 1% of men to which they might be accustomed. Guys in their 30s/40s who are single and looking are either divorced/have kids or else are not very attractive, just the reality of things.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:04 PM
1

I'm a virgin who sits in my basement, so never
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:31 PM
3

She's an on and off again plate. If it's anything like my plates, he doesn't really give a shit what she thinks. Doesn't even care about shit tests. If she pisses you off or stops fucking, ignore her, maybe for a week, maybe permanently.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:21 PM
7

I'd have probably responded at the end "If the whole point of this conversation was that you want me to fuck you, next time just ask."
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:20 PM
3

Tinder, Kik, and Snapchat in your notifications bar. My man.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:19 PM
1

I keep telling certain plates of mine that I'm an asshole (they agree) and that they should really date one of the many nicer guys who'd like to be with them instead. So far, hasn't ever happened.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:18 PM
1

No, they aren't my enemies. Becoming plates is something that "just happened". Some of them are exes. All of them are girls I once had romantic designs upon, but there was a dealbreaker or two or 50 that meant I didn't want to be tied to them for life. And it's their job not to be spun, not my job not to spin them. It's not like it happens without a plate's full knowledge and consent. I've tried to break off these relationships before, in fact - it's hard to quit spinning a plate when she offers…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 08:12 PM
2

Ma'am, I was about as subtle as a freight train, and you still don't understand what I said. The practice of pickup artistry is a male profession. You're trying to snag a high value guy who's probably better looking than you, to start with, but you don't just want a one night stand with him (and that's all pick up artists hope to achieve) -- you want a full blown commitment from this guy! Did you used to post a lot over on The Rules Revisited? Your dilemma sounds familiar to me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 08:09 PM
1

TRP advocates whatever you can make work for your specific situation to get the results you want. (Moral boundaries you'll have to look for elsewhere - TRP doesn't prescribe a specific set of moral dogma.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 07:52 PM
2

Nice guy can be used as a GAME technique... as a life long technique, tho, it comes off as slimy/manipulative to people. Slimy/manipulative can work as an aspect of game for specific situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 07:34 PM
5

The anti-aging campaign should start on day #1. Also, I'm not sure what you mean by "nice assault there"
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:19 PM
2

I spent years as a feminist, especially in academic and activist circles. Feminism is NOT about making things more equitable for men. If it were, there wouldn't be this gigantic vacuum that makes the MRA movement possible. When's the last time feminists went to bat for equal enforcement of child support orders against both men and women? Or even acknowledged it's a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:51 PM
1

Does the fact women have experienced a hardship mean it's somehow positive if I experience it too? (And the women of Red Pill Women experience the most hateful, vengeful doxxing. Pretty ridiculous, all things considered.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:50 PM
1

Because if we weren't, we'd get doxxed and we'd have a horde of people trying to make us lose our jobs, get evicted from where we live, etc This is the way you want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:08 PM
3

The topic at hand was SPECIFICALLY the arena of divorce. I'm not a Men's Rights Activist and I won't be in Detroit this weekend. I think men have a lot of natural advantages, if they care to exploit them. But men don't have any advantages once they get married and they certainly have no advantages in family court. (I'm in favour of making things equitable, by the way. Or do you think men commiting suicide post-divorce en masse is a positive thing?)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:04 PM
1

Where's the irony? I'm not busy invading feminists' spaces to bark at them and tell them how wrong they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 06:03 PM
5

The type of guy who comes to TRP for advice is a virgin, or has had 1 or 2 long term girlfriends and that's the only sex he's ever had. You need to grow a sense of empathy for people who are not as lucky as you. And I highly doubt you could teach hapless betas pickup artistry. You'd just yell at them for being "angry".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 05:41 PM
4

Who said their experiences are irrelevant? I'm simply saying men have it worse off than women. This is analogous to white guys with high tech jobs who sit around complaining about "affirmative action" because they think it's personally oppressing them. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 05:40 PM
-1

They simply cannot broker the idea that anyone who doesn't agree with their ideology can find like minded people and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:54 PM
1

And she's currently over on TBP, busy talking about how bad and evil RPW are. How surprising.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:31 PM
1

Large spread once a week, small "spread" a few times a week. Always having a few frozen meals ready to go was a lifesaver. You might want to check out that "Dinner's in the freezer" stuff that people with huge families do. They turn their house into a mess kitchen once a month, mass produce 30 days' of meals, and freeze it all.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:15 PM
5

I am no Men's Rights Activists, but the fact some women leave their first marriages depressed and destitute doesn't change the fact men are 6 times more likely to commit suicide after divorce, more likely to be destitute, less likely to be awarded alimony or child support, and more likely to lose all custody of their kids. I'm aware some women get fucked in divorce. As hard as it is for you to believe, I have friends who are women and have watched the family courts chew them up and spit them out…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:09 PM
1

You live a TRP endorsed lifestyle. You are a TRP guy. You exhibit TRP behavior. You just portray a SJW persona online to get acceptance from fellow redditors. It's really quite stunning how he can't see this, isn't it? I adopt an SJW persona in real life (and, who knows, maybe in my alt Reddit accounts) to gain acceptance from other people. The only difference is that I at least, when posting on this account, don't continue to lie about everything I am and what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:08 PM
2

There's a strategy where being a "nice guy" can work. If it works, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:06 PM
3

If your acquaintances had hundreds of partners and you had tens you are indeed a "pick up god". You have no business telling beta males how to behave and your advice for them will just lead them to more nights spent home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:05 PM
2

Indeed, a notable TBP person has gone and started /r/getfeminine with the whole idea "being an alternative to RPW".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:04 PM
1

Good thing, bad thing? Depends on what the man wants. If the man wants a soft harem, good for him. Most men who think they want a soft harem try spinning plates for a while, and eventually they just want a boring ol' LTR / marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 03:03 PM
2

As much as I appreciate yoga pants, there's something about them that doesn't scream "wife material" unless the wearer is actually doing yoga, is working out at the gym, etc
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 02:09 PM
1

I'm honestly done caring about this. You go to a university, the rules are that if you have sex with someone who's drunk, you get expelled. Them's the rules. Learn how to game girls who are sober and bang girls who are sober. Or just don't go to college. Nobody says you can't bang college chicks without being a student first.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:05 PM
2

You are a disgusting, sick person.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:57 PM
5

Not to mention complaining about "downboats".
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:55 PM
1

Might even be an avid reader of a few pick-up blogs, or at least he pays attention to Barney on How I Met Your Mother, and always wears a suit.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:46 PM
1

That might actually be your problem, then. Seek out more mature friends whom you can look up to
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:35 PM
1

Geez no. If I were a girl I'd be hot like Jessa, not a disgusting butter troll
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:35 PM
1

Youth is wasted on the young
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:33 PM
1

I didn't know "next her" and "lift more" applied to RPW too
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:33 PM
1

I'm starting to feel like I'm in an episode of "Girls"
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:32 PM
1

That's how children act. You're an adult now. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:31 PM
1

Facebook stalking isn't "getting to know someone".
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:28 PM
0

Whenever someone thinks "X works for men, thus X should work for women, too", just stop and realise what you are thinking is untrue
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:28 PM
2

The idea "if he won't be monogamous with me I won't stay" is silly. Most plates I've spun said the exact same thing. 8 months later, I've broken up with them and still see them every few weeks for sex, and they're utterly unable to move on and start dating other, more quality guys. Not a good path to go down.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:21 PM
1

What would a female pick-up artist do? Go meet guys in clubs, sleep with them, and never call them again?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:20 PM
2

You have oneitis, a most distressing condition, and your love is unrequited. There are other good men out there. You would do best to continue to improve yourself, and be available and display interest the next time you run into a good man. One of them will probably like you back and try to date you. Being fixated on a perfect guy who's busy playing the field (so not so perfect, eh?) just leaves you unavailable to show any interest to guys that are actually attainable. You also run a high risk o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:17 PM
1

I did it for 7 years of marriage with a wife who was on and off depressed. The choices were eating out, cook for myself, or starve. Eventually I got a system down involving making large meals which left a few days of leftovers, and also found ways to make cooking a joy and a hobby, instead of a chore. Now, one of the high points of my day is deciding what delicious meal I'm gonna make.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:05 PM
1

This happens all the time. High school people suck.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 01:04 PM
1

Yeah, that is real power, but after enough of that it just feels boring. Plus there's a certain soul-destroying element to knowing a girl's blowing her next month of food money on a single night with you.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 12:50 PM
1

That woman and I did not have a dom/sub dynamic going on. The last time I was legitimately sexually harassed at a work function, the person doing it was easily 50 lbs heavier than I was. Yikes. Fortunately, a few other coworkers convinced her to cool her jets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 12:49 PM
2

The idea of asking any black men I have conversations with not to harass me is so laughably absurd, I'm not even sure how to give this a response. I have pleasant interactions with black guys I don't know all the time. And then people who are my friends... I certainly don't need to ask them not to harass me. The only problem here are strangers I don't know and who wouldn't listen to me anyway. Which is exactly the same problem women face with street harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 12:48 PM
1

Most outside blue pill advice is just the same old "be yourself, the right girl will come along" stuff that already hasn't been working for them for years. Pain, resentment, and anger are things that must be let out, and then overcome. If you gave constructive advice, good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/14 12:47 PM
1

Child support is definitely mostly a paternal thing. Enforcing a child support mother against a mother who doesn't pay is difficult. Enforcing one against a father who doesn't pay is quite simple. CSEAs get federal incentive money for paternal orders, and the staff of such organisations tend to have an ingrained bias in favour of mothers. As far as being legally forced to have custody over a child you don't want - parents cannot just abandon kids. Doesn't happen. Check out what happened when Neb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/14 06:06 AM
3

What was your purpose in TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/14 06:01 AM
-1

It's a fun game I play from time to time. Sometimes, to truly treat your girl like a whore, you have to actually let her be a whore. For extra fun, pay her mid-fuck when she's not expecting it. I'll never forget the look in her eyes as she stared at the money in her fist after I handed it to her. A woman is truly naked and exposed to you when she realises she cannot hide the degree to which we is your slut and your whore.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 09:54 PM
2

What post of yours was censored there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 09:53 PM
3

Most people from the non-RP viewpoint want to shut TRP down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 09:53 PM
1

A typical woman in a typical large city has a $35k or $45k insurance or HR job and has student loan debt. That's a "good job" for a typical female bachelors degree like English or poli-sci.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 09:52 PM
2

When I read TRP, I like to turn off the Men's Rights and Blue Pill Example flairs. But men need a place to vent. TRP is a good place for them to do so. I have run into no one who doesn't experience success on TRP, save one example of a guy who's (a) a complete asshole, (b) has major health problems, (c) bats way out of his league. Everyone else learns to overcome their approach anxiety, meets/talks to girls, improves their looks, improves themselves overall as a man, and ends up finding out that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 09:51 PM
1

I'm arguing that the biological dad should be involved in his child's life from day #1. If he's not, and another step-dad type situation walks into the picture... then by all means, do a step-parent adoption. As far as "make" someone responsible for their offspring? Well, we have paternal child support, and men don't get to make decisions about what happens to children they don't want. Only the mothers do. Tough cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 09:49 PM
1

If he got the girls to pay him back with interest, that man is a true genius.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 09:48 PM
3

Spinning plates usually includes informing the plates being spun that they are not exclusive or girlfriends. I've never cheated on a plate, and never spun one without their consent. If someone wants to be a liar, they can lie to a girl about exclusivity; Red Pill is not a moral philosophy. The general consensus, though, is that a man with the balls to tell the truth gets treated like a man with balls, i.e., gets treated better by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/14 09:47 PM
7

Most of my plates are constantly broke, despite having decent jobs - they just make poor spending decisions, over and over. It's sad. Sometimes leaving a $20 on the pillow brightens their eyes to a surprising degree.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:05 PM
11

Watching sports is neither negative nor positive - although most men would be better off PLAYING sports.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:04 PM
24

Their "hobby" is acquiring positional goods and otherwise trying to display a social status/class greater than the one they actually have.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:04 PM
2

You, sir, just betrayed my strategy in 2012, when I befriended as many Obama and Democratic U.S. Senate campaign staffers and volunteers as possible. 2013 was a good year...
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:01 PM
1

Competitive career women are not alpha women - they're alpha MEN - they can attract and dominate other women, and beta males, but they are the last thing any alpha male wants.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:57 PM
1

Alpha males who can attract any woman they want generally don't bother with women who give off the "she's going to kill me in my sleep" vibe.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:56 PM
1

What on earth does the term "alpha woman" even mean?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:56 PM
1

Your opinions conflict with my real world experiences of what women with "mommy issues" and "daddy issues" are like.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:54 PM
2

I think you're 100% dead wrong Men look for LTRs their whole lives, they're willing to also have flings and STRs until they find that girl who's worth it to them. I also question "I won't give sex outside a relationship". Have you EVER had a sex outside of a relationship? If so, any man who entertains a relationship with you and waits for sex is a fool: he pays a high price for what another man was given for free.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 07:52 PM
3

I would like to state that it's wonderful to see women doting on their husbands in this thread. With that said, I can't help but notice how everyone's list is... completely different. I think a specific man is either a good match, or he's not. If he's a good match, all the things about him that make him good become "the list".
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:49 PM
3

Men experience street harassment across class or ethnic lines. The usual response, though (exactly like what feminists are doing with street harassment) is (a) hatred and (b) placing of responsible on all members of the specific group, as if they somehow have an ability to police their own members. And men and women are much, much more different than people of difference classes or ethnic groups are. The attitude on RP is - to understand why women don't like (some) catcalls, one most understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:47 PM
1

In my experience the partners who cheat on their partners are usually ones who have lost interest in the relationship. Cultures with arranged marriages, early marriage, and strong social norms to keep marriages intact don't suffer from the epidemic of fatherless children and resultant poverty that we do in the west. I don't really see any end of it in sight, but I think it's very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:44 PM
1

We're engaging in ideological debate with two sides. salami_inferno and I are representing one side. It's fair for us to chip in and support each other's viewpoints. Stop clouding the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:39 PM
4

Of course you aren't. You have a stereotype that RP = bad person. RP isn't a moral philosophy, so my desires of men and women being valued as people have to come outside of RP. My feelings about the "ideal" state of the world would probably be closest to what is called humanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:38 PM
4

I've never become boyfriend and girlfriend on the first date.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:30 PM
2

I think what's killed her attraction to him is that he's tolerated this extended shit test of her being a deranged feminist and refusing to cook for him. If he dumps her, she'll probably be attracted to him. C'est la vie.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:29 PM
4

Interestingly, my experiences dating feminists are that they want to cook for me, do my laundry, and you can make your own assumptions about the sex acts they want to do. She's using feminism as an excuse for not being attracted to him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:28 PM
2

The law doesn't see that (and fighting for custody isn't a fight that can always be won), so the more usual situation is you're the legal father - mother leaves - you lose custody of the kids - you pay child support for another guy's kids. And that makes no sense to me at all. Child support is not parenting or fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:25 PM
2

Indeed, and I'm fairly vocal within the manosphere/RP that whilst virgin 18 year old brides might work well as an overall social structure, I don't think it's much of a guarantee of a successful marriage at all, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:24 PM
2

I'm not. This is the comment thread I see: http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/28mfdi/treating_someone_like_a_human_being_substance_vs/cicjs53
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:23 PM
2

Hey, /u/la_sabotage, are you going to apologise for calling me, an adoptive/foster dad, someone who has "some irrational disgust for kids not born of your sperm"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:15 PM
3

So you want women to be valued in the same way men are valued. That's a weird, male-oriented view of "value". I think women are valuable as people right out of the box, including in their stereotypically feminine ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:14 PM
7

And I don't agree yours is, which is why we have this forum for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:12 PM
3

I've been followed down a block before. Usually able to outrun before someone grabbed me. I'm in the same boat you are. What am I going to do if confronted with an attacker? I carry a gun, so I could shoot him... do you really think I want to be the white guy who shoots some random black guy on the street? No. All of us have to deal with the threat of violence. Not just women. And we often have to deal with it in an inter-gender or inter-ethnic setting. Maturity is learning to realise that viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:12 PM
3

I don't think street harassment is a positive social good and I don't want there to be more of it. Why would you think I would?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:10 PM
3

I haven't seen extended hatred (instead, it's just a phase men go through that they thankfully get over), illogic, and ultimately ruined lives on the Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:09 PM
2

Kindness, generosity, and compassion are no guarantee of a fruitful romance, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:09 PM
7

I don't try to silence anyone over in TBP or SRS or /r/feminism or other places on Reddit. You have your space, you should be left alone and allowed to express what you want. I generally don't join in circlejerks of "omg look at the horrible things this person in /r/feminism said!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:08 PM
9

I know a lot more people whose marriages faltered during times of joblessness than people where they were strengthened. It would be nice to wish that this were not so, but it simply is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 07:07 PM
4

No, street harassment happens. It's just something we deal with as men or ignore. It would probably be nice to not have it at all but I don't see any path towards that. It's not something you can "educate" people out of, the people doing it aren't educated. And I don't know who's going all this mass downvoting on PPD, but it's not very nice. (It's not me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 04:27 PM
0

I read a source stating Dutch (upper middle class of course, nobody cares about poor people) women had achieved some kind of female nirvana because they could pursue their careers, but then go on protracted part-time maternity semi-leave without sacrificing wages. Guess it was bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 04:11 PM
5

I have nothing to do with their experiences. And I do have experience with being street harassed too. Just because violence and harassment isn't gendered doesn't make it any less real. "HEY WHITE BOY, YOU BETTA GET RUNNIN!" certainly made me feel terrified at the time, but it would be completely absurd of men to lob general complaints at black men for the evils of how they harass skinny white boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 04:07 PM
1

I've encountered nonsense people like this before. Pretend she doesn't exist, or that she's a 5 year old. Treat her as you would a 5 year old. Your friends will get over it. If not, well, they're shitty friends and not the kind of men you want to associate with.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 04:01 PM
7

In other words, "just get it" Men who don't "just get it" are asking the honest question of how they can treat women better. And, no, asking them to vote Democratic or join feminist groups on Facebook isn't what they're asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:53 PM
3

You seem to think I've never been sexually harassed by a woman in the workplace before. The harassment itself wasn't what bothered me, what bothered me was worrying that if I turned her down, she might try to turn the tables on me and report me for sexual harassment and I'd get in trouble for something I didn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:52 PM
-1

People tend to be dehumanising towards other people. The more differences between them (class, age, sex, race, language, and so on), the deeper the dehumanisation. What the MHRM guys want is for women to humanise them, but I doubt they'll ever get it. It's just not built into our DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:51 PM
2

I don't meat traffick, sexually harass, or domestically beat women. So telling me women are having problems with those things is not something I can fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:49 PM
4

People tend to follow a script defined by their gender over and over. I spent years trying to believe this is not true. It's actually quite discouraging and disillusioning to me to accept that it's true, but I can't deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:48 PM
8

The TRP sub is not heavily censored and men are allowed to express male emotions there, including frustration, hurt, and anger. I'm not sure why silencing men is so important to so many people. TRP is a tiny place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:47 PM
4

A typical TRP man has major problems interacting with women before reading RP and some pick-up websites. Afterwards, he has far less and reports his glorious successes in getting laid, getting a girlfriend, and so on. It's nice you were a kept man for 4 jobless years - when I was unemployed I ended up separated [from marriage] within a few months, too. Your experience is not the norm. I quickly learned not to rely on women, but instead to rely on myself and my male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:46 PM
1

You're creating a definition of social value where you want "women as males" to be valued. It doesn't really make sense. "People" is a term that necessarily encompasses both maleness and femaleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:45 PM
3

Industrialisation reduced workers to commodities, and this led to more "equality" between men and women. But not really in a positive way. Men still make up 93% of workplace deaths. I'd venture there hasn't been as much progress on this front as you'd like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:44 PM
7

The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire led to significant legislation and social change. Men had been dying in fires due to locked doors for centuries before that. Nobody cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:24 PM
4

I can't speak for Belgium, but in The Netherlands the lifestyle for women is to essentially work part time jobs once they have a family yet get paid as much as men working full time do. Obviously this increases overall happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:22 PM
0

She gave me a wallet she crocheted out of old plastic grocery bags. (Odd, I know.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:16 PM
2

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:16 PM
9

I'm not a street harasser. I suggest you take up your complaint with those who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:14 PM
1

These men are, generally speaking, not rewarded in the dating/sexual marketplace. Sad, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:09 PM
1

Why are you so afraid to make the biological father responsible for his offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:08 PM
1

I think all children should be raised by both their mother and father. If they don't live together, 50/50. If one parent doesn't WANT to raise their kid, I think they should get tossed in prison or a work camp for neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:07 PM
3

Maybe men don't want to be in their 60s when they go to their daughter's high school graduation. And maybe men would prefer not to have find someone 20 years their junior to have kids with. (I know, you'll find that shocking coming from an RP man.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:06 PM
2

That's part and parcel different from raising kids you think were yours, but your partner tricked you and had someone else father them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:05 PM
2

Where on earth did I say I don't want to marry women with kids? I said that if I were married I don't want to raise a kid who is not biologically MINE where my wife/partner has fooled me into thinking the kid is. I think that child's OWN father should raise the kid. As far as my irrational disgust for kids not born of my sperm... My longest term of fostering a baby was 10 months. It was supposed to be a few weeks. I never planned to be an adoptive parent, as the need for foster parents is great,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 03:01 PM
1

They're covert and unimportant for men. It's impossible to distinguish a "true" RP woman from a fake. Women are really, really, really good at pretending to be the woman you're looking for.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:55 PM
4

I've dated plenty of girls my own size (I was 180 lbs, she was 180 lbs). Please check your size privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:53 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:52 PM
11

If a woman told me that, I'd be amused and wouldn't mind in the slightest. See how the golden rule doesn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:52 PM
0

You seem to presume I haven't been hunting for women who are "good human beings" since my early teens. I have. The results I've found is that truly "good human beings" are rare indeed. Everyone has to compromise a bit. Yeah, it would be nice to get a really nice "good human being" who's never cruel, says mean things to me, and I'm also attracted to, but at a certain point I have to be cognizant I'm not perfect either, I'm not the most attractive man on the planet, and that maybe, just maybe, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:51 PM
6

The term "deserve" implies there is some moral arbiter assigning good people good partners, and punishing bad people. I see horrible women with nice guys all the time, and I see guys who are utter dicks with nice girls all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:49 PM
1

The social instances where a girl's invited me over to her house under the guise of cooking dinner / watching old horror movies, and it not being sexual, are precisely zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:42 PM
0

:) Give us a field report when the soon-to-be-ex-gf joins your new girl for a 3some.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:42 PM
0

Sure. She can make any choices she wants. And I can walk away from the relationship. In my experience, most women become very interested in what I want once they realise I'm serious about walking away. Normal process of negotiation between two humans.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:42 PM
1

Experience.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:41 PM
1

Men with a hard and fast rule they always have sex on the first date or don't see the girl again, will have a hard time finding virtuous, traditional women since sleeping with a man on the first date is not a hallmark of traditional virtue. I think most RP guys are ridiculous a lot of the time including the RP sub's founder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:40 PM
0

I don't see how telling men who want to have sex with girls who don't want to have sex with them that it's not a romantic relationship equates to men being entitled to sex. Nobody is entitled to anything. But if men want sex, they would be wise to seek out women who, in turn, are attracted to them. Not chase women who state over and over their LACK of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:40 PM
2

I'm in my 30s, was married 7 yrs, divorced now, was a foster parent for 5 years. There are plenty of women out there who don't have kids. And if I married a woman with kids... I'd expect their own father to have a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:38 PM
0

... the dubious advice to try to be attractive/valuable to a man in some way other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:37 PM
0

Well, every girl wants to travel. They don't realise it's their genes seeking diverse genes to pair with. I don't think any girl sets out to have a UN conference in her vagina, even tho that's always what happens.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:36 PM
1

Agreed. If it's a different man each time, not much of a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/14 02:36 PM
1

I had an "in" with the Obama campaign in 2012. Tons of very pretty girls and volunteers there, made lots of connections, then in 2013 banged 'em all.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:35 PM
1

I decided to look at people actually in LTRs. These seem to be the qualifications: Is attractive Doesn't do unattractive thing (not showering for weeks, etc) Is not an obviously unstable, cruel man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 02:33 PM
0

You forgot "not unattractive to me".
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 02:31 PM
1

Did the men you dated / slept with match this list?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 02:25 PM
2

Ma'am, what you speak is the exact opposite of truth.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 02:23 PM
6

Yep. Around some people, I just come across as a feminist progressive anti-meat-industry thing. These are people who can't appreciate what I actually believe. My true friends are the ones who actually know what I think. Everyone else exists solely for what they can do for me. ♂
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:31 PM
0

It's not "smooth", but you just run standard game. Dread game works best. Generally I don't bother with an official breakup, but just let things take their natural course. She'll probably want to fight or argue about something. Or you can just tell her that you've decided you need to see/fuck other women, but that doesn't mean you want to stop seeing her. The latter works surprisingly well: I have yet to have it ever fail.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 07:27 PM
6

That sounds good. Now just get out of the bitterness stage. You sound a lot like the angry guys over at TRP who complain all women are hypergamous whores, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 07:07 PM
8

I don't get it, man. If a girl goes overseas to "find herself" she better understand I'll be finding myself whilst she's gone.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 07:06 PM
1

It's not a guaranteed thing but the two often go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 07:06 PM
1

Depends on how hard she works to keep getting fed the dick. Most downgrades I've done involved me not wanting the relationship. For example, I had an LTR girlfriend. She spent a week in a mental hospital. After that, she was a plate. Still had great sex, but I didn't see myself marrying her/having babies with her.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 07:05 PM
1

Women like this are very useful to game. The money doesn't even need to be real. She just needs to think you have money.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:49 PM
2

"I love me too"
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:43 PM
2

Why not? If you want to keep having sex with her, do it. Eventually a plate will so disgust me, or I just get tired of her, that I don't even want sex anymore. Then she's officially dropped.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:41 PM
0

She sounds like a nice girlfriend, but not the kind of thing I'd marry. I would never let an LTR girlfriend go on a trip abroad, anyway, they're just excuses to go ride a lot of straing, AIDS-ridden dick.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:41 PM
1

I tone down my advice here compared to askTRP simply because I don't like to talk here with the level of crudeness that's often needed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 06:38 PM
3

Unfortunately, it often works that way for men, but it doesn't work that way for women. You can either be bitter about it or you can choose to make the most of life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 06:29 PM
1

Thanks for sharing with us. Quite enlightening.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 06:28 PM
1

Unicorns exist, but she's not even close to unicorn material. The things you listed aren't enough to qualify. Just keep spinning her. That's all you do with unicorns, anyway. Keep spinnin' and spinnin'. If you want to go monogamous, go for it. You guys are obviously not close to being at that point.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:16 PM
2

Ex girlfriend, sure, but she'll be back and want to be back with him. The right thing to do here is downgrade her to plate status + use her as a reliable source of threesomes.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:14 PM
6

Tell her, "cool, let's do a threesome".
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:14 PM
1

I'd just ask her to make a slutty outfit and then bang her in it. You have a girlfriend who has a pathological need for attention. The good news is that most girls are like this, so it's not really a big deal.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:13 PM
1

Good point. People who randomly accuse you of cheating are probably cheating themselves.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:11 PM
2

Believe it or not, some women are attracted to me enough that they try to do things to maintain my interest besides just sex. In my experience, a woman who tries to get me to come over to her house with tales of the great meal we will share together, is sexually interested in me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 06:09 PM
1

I would like to note this is a hit-and-run commenter who has not responded either here are on askTRP. We've been trolled folks
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 06:05 PM
0

It really is, unless you're religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:53 PM
0

I actually do this all the time, with both plates and with new girls I'm dating, precisely because it drives them nuts and flips the script. But it's a luxury most men don't have. Most men don't have the problem of hordes of women trying to hit on them/sleep with them every time they go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:51 PM
2

I did not "deny a study". I said that the published data point is an average. Why do you keep on insisting it's something other than an average? Also, what's your personal vendetta with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:50 PM
-2

Something every guy has to eventually get over. Incidentally, us RP talk about the quandary here all the time. The non-RP position is to pretend the quandary doesn't exist... which is clearly not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:50 PM
0

Okay, I'll answer it directly. Men and women have different goals and thus pursue different strategies. A man's lowest risk strategy is to try to get a woman to put out on the first date, and then later decide if he wants to commit to her. A woman's lowest risk strategy (with a man she isn't sexually interested in but wants commitment from) is to try to make him wait for sex as long as possible. A woman's lowest risk strategy (with a man she is sexually interested in) is to just put out. And tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:49 PM
-1

No; please let him stay. He makes the non-Red Pill position look a lot less reasonable than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:47 PM
-2

If you're on a second date and the guy pressures you for sex, I'd advise you not to put out unless you really think you can snag him, because there's such a high risk of being played/plated. But I give men and women radically different advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:46 PM
1

I used to not have sex, and neither was the girl I was dating (or "courting" if you prefer). She'd make dinner at her family's house and invite me over, she'd try to figure out things I'd like and make that. I know doing anything nice for a man is a crazy concept here, but there are some women who have figured it out without having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:45 PM
0

If a woman cooks for me, sings for me, plays music for me, and tries to dress in things she'll think I find attractive... it's almost guaranteed she's got sexual interest in me, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:44 PM
0

If your female partner doesn't want to have sex, it's not a relationship, she's not a girlfriend. It's just some weird screwed up friendship involving unrequited desire. Two people wanting to have sex, but choosing to wait, is entirely different. If a girl's never had sex without dating 3 months first, then it's reasonable to wait 3 months. If she's had multiple one night stands... it's not reasonable if she expects me to wait 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:42 PM
2

I argued with RedPillSchool about this very topic a few weeks ago on IRC. In short, he's stuck in the quandary that he wants a girl with traditional values but who also will put on the first date. I've managed to solve this problem for myself by establishing frame that I want to wait a certain amount of time for sex, and flip the script so the woman is the one pressuring me to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:41 PM
0

trupoo, perhaps you and I are not good candidates to date one another, then. For the record, I usually wait 2-3 months from dating until I have sex. Just my own personal way of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:39 PM
0

Trolls from TBP and SRS go into the RPWomen sub and try to stir up trouble all the time. The fact they're genuinely happy seems to really rustle the jimmies of TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:38 PM
-1

The goal is to find a woman who isn't normally promiscuous... until she met you. And thanks for insulting us again by calling us "TeRPers". Hey, we get it. You'd like all of us to get skin cancer and die. Why don't you let us know again how stupid and worthless you think we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:37 PM
2

All the CDC study says is the AVERAGE. It doesn't go into detail about distribution, so we can't infer (either for a RP position or a non-RP position) about such things. If your position is that every single man has 6 sex partners and male virgins don't exist, and men with 60 partners don't exist - well, we all know that's not the case. "Look in the fucking mirror, nitwit" I see DocileBanalBovine is back with his/her pleasant contributions to discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:35 PM
2

I shame male sluts all the time. Men who don't use protection. Men who get women pregnant, and then whine about it. Men who orbit women, exist in the friendzone, and then complain 1 specific girl doesn't like them. Men who keep dating sluts, over and over, and then complain all women are slutty. I slut shame both genders equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:34 PM
0

Women don't have casual meaningless sex with the same man, over and over, over a period of months or years, just like any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:28 PM
5

RP opinion is you can do whatever you want but that an "open marriage" is usually a bad deal, and is usually a bad deal for the man. If a couple wants to be footloose and fancy free - well, we have a term called "spinning plates" for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:26 PM
2

The study never said "no men are virgins and no men have partner counts in the 100s". It said "the average is 6". 1 out of 100 men could have 600 partners and everyone else none, and the average would still be 6. But please do continue with your stereotype that Red Pillers ignore science, statistics, etc whilst you subscribe to the most holy of scientific truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 04:24 PM
1

My way to deal with drunks is to just not be around them drinking. If she wants to drink herself into a stupor at home, or do stupid things at the bar with her coworkers... not my problem. I've set rules before "you must be sober when I hang out with you". That may be called for in this case, if he chooses to convert her from LTR gf to plate.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:22 PM
2

I'd turn her from a girlfriend into a plate; she's not valuable long term material, and her drinking will probably get worse. I speak from experience. You've got a golden opportunity here, though, for unlimited wild sex. Since you weren't a "relationship guy", you should have no trouble progressing to the plate stage.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:21 PM
5

Just cut and paste and give us a summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:33 PM
0

Well, the DV conviction rate of black people is way, way, way out of line compared to the general population. (Although it's rising for lower class whites, as the white family gets systematically destroyed with single motherhood and welfare.) You're right, tho, most of what I saw when I lived in a ghetto was little kids getting beat by their mothers. I honestly never saw/heard a man beating a woman, and the walls were so thin I assure you I heard EVERYTHING. But when a woman got really mad, she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:33 PM
5

Since you were banned/comment deleted, nobody has any idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:18 PM
1

That sure explains a divorce rate past 50%... "Most people prefer something they then choose to walk away from."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:16 PM
0

Averages aren't useful if there are long tails of people with very high partner counts and 0 partner counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:15 PM
-2

Black men were the first victims of feminism. The early feminists like Margaret Sanger had a stated goal to implement eugenics to exterminate the black race. Today, they're the biggest victims of the domestic violence industry. "Why won't these horrible black men stop beating their wives?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:14 PM
3

I thought we had MTV to thank that shows like "16 and Pregnant" exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 03:13 PM
1

Well, I don't believe women are plates to be spun and holes to be fucked. A few of my closer friends know of my actual beliefs. I recently "came out" to one of my friends, who is progressive, pansexual, polyamorous, feminist, and vegan. I explained to her I would have loved to be more open with her a lot sooner, but I feared her reaction and/or losing our friendship. She did the usual reaction of "What's wrong with believing women are people?", etc. and then calmed down and apologised for creati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/14 02:56 PM
6

I'll save you the trouble of going over to /r/AskTRP. Next her. She's deranged, crazy, and insane, and she is going to get worse with time. She needs to join Alcoholics Anonymous and/or go to a mental ward for a week.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 02:51 PM
5

I've given a girl a "test drive" before bothering to try to hang out with her, etc. If I don't enjoy wanking to one of her specially-curated Facebook pics, which are undoubtedly cuter than her in real life, she's probably not worth the trouble. And I also assess, post-wank, if I still feel like hanging out with her. But this is something that should only ever happen once. There's an old saying: "jerk off before you do something stupid". You might find /r/nofap interesting.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 04:06 PM
2

This is really not what happens Instead we have situations like "I think my wife is cheating on me" "My wife is gone until 4 AM on a regular basis" And since the WIFE is probably considering separation/divorce, we tell the MAN he has the right to consider the same thing. He has to get in a frame of mine where his entire life is not wrapped around maintaining the marriage/the wife.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 04:01 PM
7

LTRs/marriages are an acceptable lifestyle choice in TRP, but we won't sugarcoat the truth. Most men need to at least consider divorcing or being separated. Oftentimes part of their dysfunction is a refusal to consider it at all, and thus their wife has infinite power in the relationship (despite her own willinginess to leave at the drop of a hat.)
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 04:00 PM
2

I consider gaining enough weight to be unattractive from beer "having a drinking problem". Then again, I'm more judgmental than most. I don't buy that "an alcoholic must realise they have a problem on their own" garbage. If someone else tells me I need to curb my drinking a little, I LISTEN TO THEM.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:35 PM
1

I thought he said he's not looking for something long term/marriage. It's okay if someone wants a short term fling.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 03:34 PM
2

In The Matrix, it's never even clearly stated stating ignorant isn't the best path. I'd certainly rather live inside The Matrix than deal with living in a cave full of sweaty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 03:33 PM
1

The usual situation I see is younger girls (16, 18, etc.) being invited to a party where there is lots of "free" alcohol on tap. It literally takes 1 standard drink to get a 16 year old 90 lb girl without alcohol tolerance drunk to the point she can't make good decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 03:32 PM
2

No, I'm saying no-fault divorce should be no-fault for both parties, instead of a situation that doles out financial rewards to a party who chooses not to work. This situation really sucks for the 15% or so of cases where women earn more than the man, too. A friend of mine got stuck paying child support to her deadbeat ex-husband who was sleeping in his Jeep but who magically was able to retain a really good lawyer. (The people actually taking care of the kid... friends of his.) There should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 03:31 PM
2

Don't get her pregnant and go full-scale nuclear.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 11:23 PM
11

"next" is not the standard advice for married guys. Stop whining and go ask over there. If your attitude with your wife is as bitchy as it is here, I can tell exactly why she doesn't want to sleep with you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:43 PM
2

If a man sleeps with you, he's giving you a giant compliment. If he still looks at you after sleeping with you, that's an even bigger compliment. Get over your need to constantly be told you're beautiful. I get told maybe 3 - 4 times a year that I'm attractive, and I'm probably well above average. Somehow I deal.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:41 PM
2

If it backfires and your wife separates over you telling her "honey, your fat rolls are not attractive", you need to get off of Reddit and go get a divorce attorney right now. Do you have kids?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:37 PM
0

Not a sign of mental illness, since Christian girls are told "en masse" to "date Jesus", as if one can date a deity.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:31 PM
2

How about this "honey I think you have a drinking problem, it's time for you to quit"
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:30 PM
1

Seriously. One of the bridesmaid man. Ideally in the wedding dress and bridesmaid gown.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:27 PM
1

It'd be nice to just have a debate of "people who are not Red Pill" vs "people who are Red Pill" and not have to deal with all the noise from the TBP sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 10:26 PM
6

If you've swallow the Red Pill, why are you asking advice from a bunch of women? /r/askTRP and /r/TheRedPill are right that way.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:24 PM
3

"Forever alone" is a mental illness. Don't buy into it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:21 PM
1

Maybe he doesn't want a relationship that's not what he's looking for, either, and chose to be direct and upfront about it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:21 PM
3

Some girls I've been with preferred to dress modestly and not "flashy", and "plainness" was part of their faith. In short, they don't want to be noticed for their clothes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:21 PM
1

It's bad that she used some made-up excuse (him not liking her style) instead of the real reason. I suggest you get better friends.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:20 PM
3

"The Red Pill" is not a slur against everyone else. We're trying to have a reasonable debate here, instead of calling each other names. You seem to want to degenerate it into namecalling, which isn't productive. What's your real agenda? What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 10:20 PM
1

Of course, most guys' top needs are Sexual Fulfilment and Attractive Spouse.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 10:19 PM
0

That's a rather easily passed shit test.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:18 PM
1

I didn't say MY kid. The ideal situation is a kid of another race so it's painfully obvious to everyone involved it's not his.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:17 PM
-1

Tell your woman to go do something useful and that you don't have time to listen to her. Bang her. If she breaks up with you over this... find another girl.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:10 PM
1

Any suggestions on how to do so? My perfect world involves her getting married to him, popping out a kid, and it obviously not being his.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:07 PM
7

I tell her to put her phone away, or else I go find something else to do with my time. It's usually an outward manifestation of anxiety.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 07:43 PM
1

Considering he had an affair with her that basically wrecked my marriage during a low point in my life and hers... no, I have no motivation to lessen his suffering at all. I fully hope she does this to him involving another man. I'll just not be a party to it.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 07:39 PM
3

When she told me her plans to (a) steal my child from me and have it raised by another man and (b) trick another man into raising a child that's not his... I no longer saw her as someone I want to have sex with. I saw her as utterly worthless trash. I stopped sticking my dick in her because it feels worse than sticking my dick into a dumpster full of rubbish.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 07:16 PM
1

Tell her you want a threesome. I'm serious. You've got her eating of your hand; take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:14 PM
2

Are you religious too? Religious unicorns do exist - this is because her alpha male is God, and she's already "given it up" to him, so to speak. If you both have similar belief systems, a marriage like this can work. Whatever you do, don't get legally married. Marriage licences are a losing proposition for men.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:13 PM
2

TIL I learned medical doctors will perform piercings.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 06:05 PM
1

Why not go for her friends? I'm sure they're hot. And with any luck, her friends will be telling her tales of the sex they're getting from you...
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:57 PM
2

After divorcing me to be with her boyfriend, she started seeing me 2 months after the divorce was over. I'd say all her plans are crazy.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:56 PM
2

Taking a break from unrequited crushes is a good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:26 PM
2

(1) Taking a year off from men is OK, but your attitude often reminds me of guys who get frustrated and say "I'm gonna go be an MGTOW!!!". (2) Of course men prefer a woman in a miniskirt over business pants and a flowy button down. Those latter two things are not flattering. If you are being called "grandma" I suspect it's your attitude, not your clothing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:26 PM
1

So it would have been better for him to keep quiet, them keep dating, and form a deeper relationship bond when clearly both of them aren't going to be happy with each other?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:25 PM
2

"Well, he was kind of being rude and making it obvious he wasn't looking for a wife." Now we find the real reason she wanted to quit dating him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:24 PM
3

Your friend is kind of a moron. If a girl told me "I like you and want to date you", it wouldn't scare me off, although I will form the opinion she is a rather forward person. Without seeing the texts in question, it's impossible to know what was actually said. It sounds to me like your friend wants to complain about a guy she dated a few times to you and feel justified in ending it. No girl I have dated would have quit seeing me just because I told her her clothing style is "boring". Some of th…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:24 PM
2

Any job can kill you, carrotcake. I sit at a desk all day... but I travel a fair bit. I could get killed in a car accident driving to/from client sites. Certain amounts of money are indeed worth risking death over. I'd work a risky job if it meant I could have billions of dollars.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:21 PM
5

Typical 2014 advice: "be safe at your job" (he already said it's 3rd world health and safety, obviously he can't change that); "if you ever need to talk please feel free to vent" (as if he/she is a licenced therapist able to talk constructively about such things); "Be safe, physically and emotionally!" (some kind of weird veiled thread to tell him not to go nuts OR ELSE!!) Trying to make one's self feel better about a crappy situation by speaking meaningless words.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:20 PM
2

A word of advice: the five love languages are a poor way to describe human emotional needs. I'd recommend looking at Dr Harley's instead: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3300_needs.html Figure out what his top 3 or 4 needs are and focus on meeting them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:15 PM
5

I respectfully disagree with your dad's advice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:13 PM
1

Even if you do plan to keep fucking this woman... it's important for her to see you able to score with her friends, etc
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:07 PM
1

It's derived from "derp" / "derper", terms which mean "an ignorant person".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 03:07 PM
0

My first instinct is to tell him to try to bang the stepdaughter. That'd cure this problem once and for all.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:06 PM
1

Unless the crazy mother puts someone else's name on the birth certificate and/or files for legal separation before the birth. The husband would have to sue for a paternity test.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:06 PM
1

Just beware of unplanned babytrapping. My ex-wife wants me to knock her up after she marries her boyfriend. She actually thinks I'm OK with this plan...
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:05 PM
3

I see. So when a TBP person makes an offensive comment they're actually a "terper in disguise".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 03:02 PM
1

With my value system, it's not acceptable to lie or intentionally mislead people in general, outside of overwhelming circumstances. (E.g. if someone is trying to kill me or my family, lying to them in order to escape.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 03:00 PM
1

What a silly, useless question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 02:59 PM
1

I'm not unusually large, and one girl complained I went in "too deep" and hurt/bruised her cervix a lot. Also, try tagging girls in the ass. If they aren't used to anal, anything will feel huge.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:15 PM
-2

There are guys whose frame is so solid that women don't bother shit testing them. I've been in this spot before. Sometimes a shit test would start. I'd just turn on the TV. If she kept talking, turn the volume up louder. If she still wouldn't go away, bang her right there on the sofa.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:13 PM
1

Sir, that is very poor advice.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:10 PM
-1

Yes, it's possible, but it's not really productive. The best thing to do with someone who's caught in lies is to simply let them be. Let them think you don't even know. An arms race of hiding text messages isn't a war anyone can win.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:09 PM
0

High five to you, /u/robesta, as another brother who still lays the pipe with the ex-wife on occasion. The best thing to do for a married man in your situation is to be ready to detonate the whole thing at a moment's notice. Your bag should be packed, car full tank or 3/4, and ready to go.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:08 PM
1

There is no sensible reason she needs to delete this stuff to hide it from you. A polite "please don't read my conversation with my daughter" would suffice. Edit: her ex-husband's step-daughter? Why are they still in touch at all? That's a pretty stretched family relationship.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:07 PM
2

The richest rewards come to men who just go silent, go dark. But I'd see about scoring an invitation to the reception. Take a bridesmaid home.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:06 PM
5

To be fair, what's called "blue pill" would be more accurately represented in the feminism subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 08:04 PM
4

I tend to give reasonable responses to unreasonable questions. The only date rape "drug" I've ever seen being dispensed is alcohol, and I can't very well walk up to a girl and say "Hey, this guy is buying drinks for you. I think he might want to lower your inhibitions and sleep with you." Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 07:52 PM
2

Yeah, the plate I mentioned above did ass to mouth with me. I'd never tried it before, but she really wanted to do it... and then enjoyed it immensely. Meanwhile another plate I thought I'd nexted, badly wants me to knock her up after she gets married to her fiancé. (She's my ex wife and she cheated on me and divorced me to be with him.) I attribute this desire to do Alpha Fux / Beta Bux to resolute frame, including being willing to next both of them and ignore them. As soon as I got a girlfrien…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:37 PM
11

I would add that the term "TeRPer" is a slur, so if you're asking TRP people questions, you might want to start by not insulting them right out the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 07:35 PM
1

If I'm in a bar/club and see someone slipping pills into drinks (which is mostly a myth, by the way - alkaloids taste really bad), I'm going to get out of there as fast as I can and never come back. I'm not a bouncer, or a cop, and am not in a position to fix the problem. I've never seen my sister or mother drunk and in a bar. They're my family, so I have both a duty and a right to protect them that I don't have with random strangers in a bar. I have arranged to separate drunk, nearly-passed-out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 07:24 PM
2

I've been trying to drop a plate, and was clean for 7 weeks, and then she just managed to show up and do some of the crassest stuff possible. (Hot though.) I had a few new firsts. Get her to do a threesome with the maid of honour.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:17 PM
1

She'll figure out whatever it is that you lust after... and offer it. Trust me.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:11 PM
1

Yeah, the relationship with a goal towards cohabitation/marriage wasn't worth preserving, but hanging out with girl / having sex was. (That's the essence of platehood, really.) I don't see a lot of signs of a plate-spinner here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 07:11 PM
3

Women in LTRs need guidance and boundaries.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:10 PM
2

Well, everything you've said so far lines up with RP perfectly. It all makes sense to me. In fact, we predict stuff like this, and this story has happened before. The most fucked up situation was a guy I knew who banged a girl in what she told him was her sister's wedding dress. After it was over, she "confessed" it was actually hers. The wedding was within a few days.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:46 PM
2

Yep - just a whiff of the idea she won't be having sex with you anymore? And she gets ten times hornier for you. If I were you, I'd go. (Tell her to invite you so you and she can get "closure".)
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:45 PM
1

You're in one of the stages of opening your eyes after swallowing the red pill. How fucked are you? Well, life is still ramming you in the ass with its giant dick, but it, too, will eventually be sated, pull out, and your ass can start to heal. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:24 PM
2

I fail to see how expecting a girlfriend not to go to a meat market is "controlling and insecure".
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:22 PM
2

Offer her a return to plate status.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:21 PM
2

Yep. Once you say "no", a woman literally goes insane to try to get you. She'll offer you anything. If she thinks you want ass to mouth, she'll offer to do that. She'll want to do crass stuff like let you fuck her on her bed in her new house she shares with her husband. Send you texts whilst she's fucking him "I wish it were you right now". I strongly recommend you bang her cute friends. Are you going to the wedding?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:20 PM
2

You mentioned earlier you have oneitis, but have mostly gotten over it. I detect oneitis whenever someone cares enough about a girl to get on Reddit and post about her fairly at length, and he isn't sure if he should next her or keep on seeing her. It's just a bad sign. I am confident you have what it takes to do the right thing (with regards to yourself, there are no morals here). Just don't let her get her hooks into you.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:18 PM
2

And consider the fruits of so doing - her love and devotion to you will rise to stratospheric levels once she realises you are no longer hers whenever she wishes. Personally, I would go for DEFCON 1 level Machiavellian crap like banging her sister.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:13 PM
2

Of course. In my situation she had an IUD. But beware of the deviant things a woman will do to get pregnant. She asked me to impregnate her right before the wedding. (The wedding hasn't happened yet, it's still a few months out.) The basic thing you need to know is that women are allergic to beta sperm. The idea of carrying a beta's child is utterly repulsive to them. She will get crazier and crazier as she lives with this man, and deals with him pawing after her every day, trying to get sex--he…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:12 PM
2

Your overconfidence will not protect you, and you have much to lose in the form of your reputation from this. Your posts also reek of oneitis for this girl. You need to step back and assess what's really going on in this situation. I've been in an identical situation, and eventually I decided I was the one being played. The last straw was when she asked me to conceive a baby for her, but was going to have her fiancé raise it as his after the wedding.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:10 PM
0

Funny how their own fences are rather high, and with the equivalent of crushed glass atop them in the form of trigger warnings, etc
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:07 PM
1

You're deluded if you think you can "kick his ass" because you're bigger than him. Few people sympathise with a man who has sex with a married women. Women are notoriously disloyal creatures. The moment she's done with you, she won't care if you end up dead.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 05:00 PM
3

Not reliable enough to count on. Once a woman gets pregnant, she goes nuts. She might have the baby and decide it's a sign from God you and she are supposed to be together and put your name on the birth certificate.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:57 PM
2

I'd advise nexting her after the wedding. Find another slattern to suit your needs.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:57 PM
2

Watch out, bud. Next thing she'll try to is marrying her fiancé, but getting knocked up with your kid. I'm currently in a similar situation and it's fucked up beyond belief. I ended up nexting the girl doing it, because when I look at her, I just see utter trash.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:51 PM
0

I'd go hire a divorce attorney.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:49 PM
0

No offence intended, but why are you ugly and stupid and probably a man?
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:38 PM
3

I would run as fast as my spindly legs could carry me away from this situation. Either your parents are crazy and controlling, or there's part of the story you aren't telling us about WHY they are so controlling of you. The fact you have no drivers licence at age 23 and blame it on "anxiety" is a giant red flag. I've dated girls with utterly crippling anxiety - multiple panic attacks a day - yet they still manage to drive themselves to work each day. Any sane man would remove himself from this s…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:37 PM
2

When I was 31, I went from a girlfriend I didn't have sex with for a month at a time, to a plate. It's certainly possible.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:35 PM
1

Most of the plates I have right now were once in a committed relationship with me.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 04:33 PM
2

Thanks for terrifying us guys whose girlfriends have IUDs. Congrats!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 03:54 PM
1

I do. I like to talk about things online with strangers, but in real life, I keep this RP stuff to myself. Most people think I'm a male feminist, a liberal, a progressive, and that I'm anti-Men's Rights. (Well, the latter is actually true...)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 03:51 PM
1

Once again, this is a question for moral philosophers. Many people more intelligent than I have discussed what's right and what's wrong about the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 03:50 PM
1

What a person is entitled to is the domain of moral philosophers. I would defer to those experts in their field, but in practical terms, what a person is entitled to is mostly defined by the culture, society, and family they exist in. The short answer is "not very much". The idea that people are "entitled" to love is laughably absurd. Children die without love every day. Man kills man in brutal wars. Man enslaves man without mercy. You are entitled to some day die. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 02:45 PM
3

Occasionally I run into a beta male couple where both are happier than a pig in shit. I wish them nothing but the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 02:43 PM
7

If someone's happy being a BP beta male, more power to them. I wish them the best. RP exists for men who have experienced failure, and are looking for a new way. BP men chew them up and spit them out and offer no help or advice for their fallen brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 02:42 PM
2

Yes; divorce is a lot more egalitarian now than it used to be, gender-wise, mostly due to the activism of men's rights activists. (I am by no means an MRA; I simply want to acknowledge that they are responsible for most changes in the system, such as the end of the Tender Years' doctrine.) Stay at home dads are very rare compared to stay at home moms. Citing them is a red herring. Our current system punishes anyone who gets married and chooses to work hard and be productive and earn money. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 02:19 PM
2

A significant number of posters to TBP utterly hate us. A lot of them would like to see me dead, and have stated so. TBP's stated purpose is to mock RP and RPW. Why should RPW let people post there who do nothing but mock them endlessly? I'm also banned from TBP. You're welcome to check my posting history at TBP - it was mild and non-offensive. In short, you complain about the very thing you and your ilk do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 02:16 PM
8

Church is a poor place to meet future wives unless you are genuinely religious. Even then, it's still a place filled with treachery.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 02:14 PM
3

You don't "find" RP women. You create them. There is an excellent series here to read upon how to find women suitable for becoming RP women, and guiding/leading them into a fruitful, mutually productive lifestyle: http://www.reddit.com/user/OccamsUsername/submitted/
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 02:13 PM
2

Build value as a man, find a mission, do things other than chase chicks - eventually women will flock to you Then you can decide which one is what you're looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:32 AM
8

I just don't see why it's unreasonable to expect a father to raise his own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 02:32 AM
11

Actually, she's making the case for modesty that have been made in traditional culture since time immemorial; it's sad, though, that she feels like she has to apologise for wishing to live in civilisation where people cover themselves. Since she feels guilty about using traditional reasons (like the fact the religion she follows telling women who dress immodestly that they're sinning), she has to come up with some reason why it would serve the feminine imperative for women to cover themselves. S…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:18 AM
7

I have a shockingly high number of friends like this (we get along fine though) and I don't know how their husbands/boyfriends can stand being around them. Somehow they make it work... I often think what goes on behind closed doors in a marriage is very different from what my idea of it is.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:12 AM
6

It's difficult to find quality women when you screen out any woman who (a) doesn't have sex on the first date and (b) immediately next any woman who wants commitment/family/marriage/babies. Not to mention most quality women aren't going to be excited about joining a plate spinning harem. Not trying to shame you; I'm currently in the same boat as you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:10 AM
1

So much for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 01:48 AM
2

I strongly recommend that people do not discuss RP with their significant others until they've fully put the principles into effect in their own life. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 01:48 AM
1

Oh, okay, so you've excused yourself from any ideological consistency at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 12:29 AM
1

You disguised yourself well, then, since I can't pick out which poster you are. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 12:07 AM
4

Well, we tend to all be the kind of people who read Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/14 12:06 AM
2

(1) Exactly what position are you representing, then? (3) I still have enough shreds of concern about language from my feminist days to take offence at you calling me "retarded". Find another way to express yourself in a space like this. (3) What RPers call "blue pill" definitely IS a movement - it's the dominant social movement in the West, usually called "feminism". (4) Well thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 11:47 PM
0

Seems like your friend's girlfriend likes to meddle in her sister's life. "I'm asking for a friend, whose bf is complaining about his brother's marriage." Wouldn't anything you heard after this point seem a bit absurd?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 11:11 PM
2

I highly doubt anyone contributing in these threads has to deal with average amounts of resources available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 11:02 PM
2

They're irrelevant in a world of cheap oil, and where we (as in Reddit contributors) live in the top 0.1% of humans and get to enjoy unlimited resources for food, shelter, safety, and entertainment. They will be extremely relevant again once any of this charade ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:54 PM
3

I'd be fine with divorce if we made divorce no-fault for men as well. As it stands, men who are divorced are left with major financial problems, and if there are kids involved, "just leave if you don't like it" isn't a workable solution if we want to have both parents stay involved in their kids' lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:49 PM
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If I wanted to raise children that don't have my DNA, I would become a foster/adoptive parent. Which I've already done, and was quite fulfilling - but is an entirely different experience than being a birth parent. I personally consider raising some other dad's kid just because the kid's mom cheated on you to be a cowardly and stupid thing to do - DNA is important and kids should be raised by their own fathers. In saner times, men who didn't raise their own kids got sent to prison or got a thorou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 10:38 PM
2

There's just a lot of similarity. For example, RP has you always thinking about relationship dynamics and power dynamics. Feminism is the same way. Likewise, feminists teach that being nice to a girl just to get her to look you is a sneaky tactic that won't work. RP teaches the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 09:48 PM
5

Back when I was married, I was interested in a used car. I told my wife I wanted her to go along and act like a bratty woman who'd be able to browbeat me into buying whatever she wanted. The asking price on the car was $10,000. The sales guy and his manager went down to $9,000. My wife gushed about how much she wanted it, how it'd make her happy, etc. Sales guy offers me an extra $100 "if you buy right now". We then got up and walked away, which nobody expected. The manager called me 2 days late…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 09:44 PM
1

When I was a feminist or a fairly religious person, I ran into conflicts all the time between my vision of the world as it should be and dealing with how it actually is. Since going full blown Red Pill, everything in the world make sense and no longer feel a conflict internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 08:41 PM
1

I fight traditional gender norms all the time when doing so is to my advantage. For example, I have a woman who works for me on my team and I have to deal with coworkers engaging in a manner towards a member of my team that I don't care for. I use the toolbox of "fighting sexism" in order to gain advantages for my team, and thus, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 08:32 PM
-1

This advice is excellent. So good, it'll probably be ignored.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:25 PM
1

I just have high levels of empathy, including for strangers on the Internet I've never met.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 07:23 PM
1

Red Pill people range from libertarians to leftists to conservatives to anarchists, so there isn't really a mainstream Red Pill position that "women should be made to do X".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 03:44 PM
1

I don't want to encourage you to be ugly, but I see decent guys marrying fat, ugly women all the time. Unfortunately your words convey something that fills me with hopelessness and despair. You need positive energy in your life. A good start would be to focus on "I am improving myself right now" instead of starting off with "I am ugly".
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 03:00 PM
1

Okay. We can go back to enemies tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:57 PM
1

Many men don't, many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:57 PM
1

This assertion started with you: "RP needs to stop telling women not to get tattoos and short haircuts." If a woman wants to forever limit herself to men who like women with tattoos, go right ahead. All we're saying in RP is "you will be permanently limited to a smaller pool of potential mates". I don't need a citation for that. Nearly every woman I've been with has had a tattoo, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:56 PM
5

How about you cite evidence that men want to form families with women with tattoos? Posting a link to a porn site is essentially citing the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:21 PM
1

The situation I quoted is endemic to a typical TBP post: take something on TRP, quote it out of context, and try to make it seem much more outrageous than it is. You also need to acknowledge that one TBP and SRS have a stated purpose to shut all the RP subs down. None of us wish to silence you, but you wish to silence us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:21 PM
2

Sorry! I was agreeing with you that your post shouldn't be downvoted. "So sure men and women have different issues when it comes to sex", absolutely true. The difference between your friend and an awkward man is that your friend gets 10 seconds of attention. I know guys who literally get 0 seconds of attention, anywhere. They do stuff like get haircuts just so they'll have a woman pay attention to them for a few minutes and not look away in disgust. No, it's not insensitive to acknowledge what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:18 PM
3

There is a long history I'm not going to bother with citations for (as if anyone else here has used any) that men prefer slatterns for low commitment relationships, but "virtuous" women for marriage & family. Eventually, almost every young woman in America will probably have a tattoo. At that point, a tattoo will be a lot like having multiple earrings: no longer a marker of a slattern. And then we won't be having this particular discussion anymore, but will instead have it about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:10 PM
2

If one thinks she has a loser for a husband, it would be productive to find out if that's actually the case. It's usually just an excuse to behave like a scold.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 02:08 PM
4

There's "attractive enough I want to sleep with them tonight", which is something most women are capable of doing. And then there's "attractive enough he'll settle down with me and we can build a lifestyle and family together", which is actually a challenge. Tattoos don't help that, usually. You seem to think I'm not around any people with full sleeves or full body tattoos - I assure you, I am - it's something men find "hot" but when they want to get married, they go and find some boring gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:05 PM
1

Well good morning wonderberry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:02 PM
2

Okay. Would you care to address the problem of TBP people invading the RPW sub for the purpose of trolling it, or else the problem of quoting TRP/RPW people out of context to try to make us look bad? For example, I made a post stating: A woman who isn't complete gutter-trash will rightfully be concerned about anal hygeine. A wise man will not misinterpret this as LMR, but instead will learn to recognise the difference between hygeine boundaries, which are acceptable, and excuses to maintain impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 02:01 PM
2

No need to downvote. I just sometimes forget how bad life is for such people. Women don't get penalised quite as much for being socially awkward (unless they're unattractive, too - then, forget it). Guys who are socially awkward... hopeless. I guess I care about them at some level and want to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:55 PM
2

I think OP is more interested in how to retain her current boyfriend. A reasonable request.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:54 PM
1

TRP / RPW is still in the business of offering a better life path and hope for these women. Part of the offering, though, is the truth about the exact situation. It's analogous to telling a guy that his SMV is low, he's socially awkward, his personality is bad, and his hygeine is bad. Knowledge of one's problems is the start of fixing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:53 PM
5

For every suicidegirls link (which is a porn site), I could provide a bunch of examples of women with tattoos and short hair most men will not find attractive. The reason we advise against tattoos is simple: it's a permanent change, and often a decision made in one's youth. Many (most, probably) men either find it unattractive, or find it a sign of a girl who's "sexy" and easy to get into bed, but otherwise not a girl he wants to commit to. I think it's fair to warn young women of that. You can …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:51 PM
1

I wouldn't say the RP view is that a woman needs to "rely" on her man. Think of it more as a team where you have searched and found someone who provides quality leadership. You COULD make decisions on your own; you just don't have to now. Since you say you have a boyfriend, the only person whose opinion about tattoos is relevant right now is him. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:49 PM
1

Go make an alt, subscribe to RPW, read the advice there, and eventually post questions if you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:47 PM
7

Well, first off, I wouldn't advise dating a TRP guy, assuming that attracting a guy is even what you want in the first place. (You've failed to mention your sexual orientation, for example.) Secondly, "better person" is defined by moral philosophy. I don't know what your moral philosophy is. TRP doesn't make moral or value judgments. It just says "Most men prefer women with these qualities".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:46 PM
2

You'd have to decide what you want first. If part of what you want is attracting a certain type of person, then you become the kind of person that is "quality" in their eyes. Generally speaking, for men, becoming more "quality" means taking what they do in life and having a stronger sense of purpose/mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:45 PM
2

I was an ideological third wave feminist for several years, and there actually is not that much difference between that and RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:44 PM
1

You can do whatever you want with your life. Some people report great success in going to the RPW sub, reading the sidebar, and following the advice there. What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:43 PM
2

I find your comparison of behaviour someone can control (joining the TBP sub, whose only purpose is to mock the TRP and RPW subs) with something someone cannot control (being born black, and being born into a visible minority which experiences significant negative discrimination) offensive. Nobody in RPW really wants to spend their time accommodating people who have already expressed hatred towards them and a desire to have their subreddit shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:41 PM
2

I'm gaining an appreciation for just how bad life is for socially awkward people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:39 PM
2

So, let me get this straight: TBP is about just pushing down guys who are hopeless and calling them "Johnny Nopussy" and making fun of them because they are too stupid and deserve to be miserable. That definitely sounds like a movement I want to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:39 PM
1

That's a reasonable position; alas, it is a rare one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:38 PM
2

Well, that's certainly productive Purple Pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/14 01:37 PM
1

Sex is the easy one to get (and is barely even in the category of "behaviour that should be rewarded"). Get your minds off of sex, and go after the big prizes.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 01:35 PM
1

I think, at this point, I know all I'll ever need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:57 PM
2

An MGTOW is a man who eschews women (or can't get any women to pay attention to him, and rationalises this), and just does everything by himself. There's a subtle joke here. I leave it as an exercise to the reader.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 09:55 PM
3

What if I'm currently MGTOW? I would be in a position where I would need to make sandwiches for myself. Also, the plates I currently have on rotation have been slipping in their cooking skills. For example, one of them recently brought me a breakfast sandwich, but it was just this: http://www.hillshirebrands.com/~/media/JimmyDean/Images/Products/Packaging/sausage-egg-cheese-croissant-sandwiches.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 09:48 PM
2

(1) I am not sure how admitting that you are participating in the RPW under a false identity in any way supports your stated position (2) I happen to know some people in RPW outside of the sub. They are certainly not men posing as women. Perhaps you are a man posing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:42 PM
3

Let's not forget about you wandering into RPW and bothering married women in their 40s and 50s, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:36 PM
3

Can us TRP guys post pictures of sandwiches we make for ourselves?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 09:33 PM
3

I'm glad there's no abuse in the sex worker industry where you are. It's a rather sordid affair around here. So I don't tell guys to go contribute to making the problem worse. "Be the change you want to see", etc. (You should remember I spent a few years as a hardended blue pill feminist and still have plenty of friends from those days. So, for example, I get to hear first or second hand about the amount of sexual assault at a particular strip club.) Red Pill basically is common sense. Common se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:04 PM
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Cool, let's keep attacking specific people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 08:04 PM
3

You'll find the paleo/low carb adherents don't believe in sandwich making due to the high carb content in the bread.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:45 PM
1

Any community which does allow troll posts/dissent ends up turning into 4chan /b/, with extremely hostility or just pages and pages of outright noise. I don't march over to /r/feminism or /r/atheism and attempt to debate everyone's ideology. It's rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:39 PM
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Someone over in PurplePillDebate claims they posted this just to prove that RPW is full of "censorship" and "doesn't allow debate/dissent".
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:34 PM
1

I'm reasonably confident this is the SRS/TBP crowd attempting to troll RPW and then provide "outrageous" examples for them to complain about.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:32 PM
1

Attractive people. People with very low thresholds for what they consider attractive enough in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:29 PM
1

However men have typically behaved throughout recorded human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:29 PM
6

I made a full switch from feminist to Red Pill. Switching back would require me to become disgusted with the hatred, internal inconsistency, and ruinous effects on people's lives with the Red Pill that I saw under feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:25 PM
2

I don't recall RP ever claiming that women in their 30s are less promiscuous than women in their 20s. Locker-room talk in TRP is that women in their 30s are "easy lays" and "desperate". My own experience certainly confirms this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:24 PM
3

"By all means, if you think there's a chance of that in your particular circumstances, you're right to stay away from it." Given how sordid even strip clubs are, based on what I know, I do not advise people to patronise them. "Then he should work on organically and honestly improving himself in body and mind to a point where that doesn't feel impossible to attain." That's the essence of what Red Pill inner game is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:11 PM
2

I did answer the question. I assume in women's locker rooms that the women who are friends talk to each other, some ignore everyone else and just want to get changed, etc In a high school setting I'm sure there are cliques, fights, just like outside of the locker room. I can't say it's something I bother thinking about a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:10 PM
1

Red Pill and PUA are not the same thing. Red Pill has a strong aspect of self improvement. However, RP does not deny that PUA techniques sometimes work. A common RP path is to try out PUA techniques, go "wow, now I can get girls to talk to me" - and then to embark on the journey of real self improvement instead of PUA parlour tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:09 PM
1

No they don't allow people like you are hostile to their ideology posting for no reason other than to cause trouble, and who aren't interested in any responses. Why haven't you made any responses in your thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 07:08 PM
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Most RP people don't have a problem with Mark Manson and sometimes recommend his articles. We just don't agree with the ideological brand of feminism he's chosen to adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:46 PM
4

Given the nature of how the sex trafficking business works, and the nature of who ends up in prostitution around where I live, I'd say there's definitely a moral angle to it. Not to mention personal danger. A typical involuntarily celibate young man desires both sex and romance - usually with the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:44 PM
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I have no idea what goes on in the women's locker room. I stand by my remark, however, that "locker room talk" generally refers to men's locker room talk. Please be cautious of trotting out pedantic anti-sexist speech tactics with me. I was a loyal feminist for years, and am skilled in such debating tactics myself. They are as foolish now as they were back when I employed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:43 PM
3

So, you admit to posting just to get reactions out of people, instead of actually wanting to engage in serious debate. That is why TRP and RPW do not allow dissent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:43 PM
1

This belongs in /r/asktrp, but the only sensible thing to do here is plate her (if you want to spin plates), or just get her out of your life completely. I've made the mistake of forgiving girls who've done this, and it's never ended well for either of us.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:42 PM
2

"Women, would you be apprehensive about dating a 25 year old virgin who is so by choice due to religious convictions" will get different responses than "Women, would you be apprehensive about dating a 25 year old virgin who has wanted to have sex since he was 13, but can't find anyone he's attracted to willing to sleep with him"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:39 PM
3

How come you haven't responded to anything? Were you asking a real question, or just posting to stir up trouble?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:36 PM
5

The topic at hand really isn't virgins - it's the topic of involuntary celibate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:31 PM
5

I have no idea. I don't intrude on female-only spaces, and do not wish to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:30 PM
0

Currently, I only see fighting hate with hate. For example, on PurplePillDebate I was told I am "bad at life" and "not a person worthy of being helped to become good at life" a few minutes ago. Edit: Solely because I am a "Red Pill" person (not because of anything I actually said/did).
/r/ExRedPill12/06/14 06:19 PM
6

People who CHOOSE to be virgins are a different topic than young men who would have liked to have been having sex starting at age 13, but have been wholly unsuccessful at doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:13 PM
4

"Locker room talk" is an idiom that refers to men's locker rooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:11 PM
3

The reason RPW doesn't tolerate debate is because it always follows this pattern: post a hit and run question, don't actually respond to anything, then go elsewhere and complain "My post got removed" (when it actually wasn't). It's impossible to have reasonable discourse with bad actors like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:09 PM
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Are you really advising young men to go seek the services of prostitutes? Where I live that is completely illegal. And a typical young man who can't get any female attention at age 25 doesn't just want sex. He wants female attention at ALL. There is more to male/female romantic interaction than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:08 PM
2

The topic at hand is "Why do TRP and RPW not allow dissent" I think you just answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:07 PM
0

Look at typical behaviour of women over recorded history, average that out, and bingo, you have femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:07 PM
4

"We no longer need men to fight for us, hunt for us, etc." What are most soldiers? What are most police officers? Who works in most slaughterhouses, or works in fields that grow crops?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:05 PM
2

Most women are attracted to physically fit, somewhat muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:05 PM
3

You started by stating "these people have religious beliefs that messed them up" When someone pointed out the only "religious" beliefs these people have are atheism or agnosticism (or a few pagans), you backpedaled with "I just make crap and up and never bother to validate my claims". People like you are precisely why I quit being a feminist. Truth and facts do not matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:04 PM
1

Most of the women in RPW are atheists or agnostic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:02 PM
3

People who post/comment at TBP try to infiltrate RPW and cause dissent, chaos, or run false flag attacks to try to get RPW portrayed as being racist, homophobic, etc TBP's stated purpose is to mock anything that is RPW. The RPW girls don't want people around who have nothing but contempt for them and want to mock them. I don't know why you're shocked you're banned. I'm banned from TBP, but I don't whine about it every chance I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 06:01 PM
3

That's nice for you. What should be done with guys who are hopeless in real life unless they find an online forum that explains to them how to be attractive to women? Maybe they should just be assassinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:59 PM
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Is assuming a complete lack of any sex correlates with being socially awkward a poor assumption as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:55 PM
5

The majority of involuntary virgins at age 25 can't get any of that stuff to work for them. That's why they become PUAs or are attracted to the Red Pill: nothing else works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:55 PM
0

Aha. Virgin not by choice = socially awkward. Socially awkward person = undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:54 PM
1

TBP is a subreddit of people who are obsessed with pointing out how bad, evil, stupid, misguided, racist, homophobic, etc people in TRP are. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:52 PM
3

If you believe that (a) I'm bad at life, and (b) not a person worthy of being helped to become good at life -- why on earth should I tolerate your presence in my space?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:51 PM
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Girls aren't allowed in locker rooms, normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:51 PM
2

Do you post to TBP or SRS?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:47 PM
1

It's still there, and the original poster hasn't responded to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 05:45 PM
1

I think he's pulling out and then pulling off the condom.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:41 PM
1

Makes no difference, but generally, living like a slob is stupid for other reasons.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:36 PM
1

You'd be better off posting to the main TRP sub.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:31 PM
2

Indeed - he's offered her a position as a high-ranked plate (still be friends, just friends with benefits), but is no longer evaluating her as a wife/LTR candidate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 05:26 PM
0

Why should a girl get paid for sex? Sex with ME is the prize; if anything, she should be the one taking me out afterwards.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:24 PM
2

I do, but I don't recommend most men do. I only pay in situations where my frame is strong, or where paying elicits social dominance--for example, going to places my date can't afford that she doesn't really want to go to, but I want to go to. The average guy needs to limit himself to no more than $5 at a coffee shop spent on a girl.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:22 PM
1

I'd start being a complete asshole to her, starting with ignoring her for days or weeks at a time. Why do you not want to come off as an asshole?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:20 PM
1

Get really drunk first - you won't want to remember that you did this.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:17 PM
1

Would anyone else object to caxica quitting his or her troll posts?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:15 PM
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There isn't a dislike of marriage and LTRs here per se, unless the marriage or LTR is antagonistic toward's a man's needs and wants.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:39 PM
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"Clearly if she believes she has achieved without standing on the shoulders of generations of feminists she is deluded." As if female singers never achieved success before feminism
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:00 PM
2

You're just as likely to encounter a guy who finds a shy, downcast look to be one that triggers him to follow you. Alternatively you can spend the rest of your life a shut in because there are dangers in the outside world.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 06:41 PM
2

Not making eye contact with strangers isn't going to prevent that from happening again. A competent stalker/psychopath will prey on women who DON'T make eye contact.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 05:32 PM
1

I think you should just be a man and do you what you know is right. As far as I can tell, you care about this girl, she respects you, and she submitted to your authority telling her you were driving her instead of her friend. I'd focus on continuing to pursue your own mission (like learning German for your job), and when she's back, see if she continues to submit to your leadership. If she does, eventually, she'll drift away from toxic friends. It's telling that she didn't want to be around them…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:00 PM
1

You don't need a coach. You just need to stop caring so much about stuff that doesn't matter. If you're talking to girls just say whatever you want. You probably should spend more time in loose, casual conversation with guys you don't know well or at all as well.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:54 PM
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(1) Congrats, you own her soul. You'll have to decide if you want to keep her around now. (2) Ignore her complaining. She's basically shit testing you to see if you'll give in to her illogical, emotional behaviour.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:50 PM
2

My personal policy would be to simply find someone else to stick my dick in.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:45 PM
2

It's good to see a man who is disgusted by slatternly women. Good luck in your quest to find a less filthy woman.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:43 PM
1

Most men are not "beta", but conditioning in Western society makes men very blue pill. In addition, most men are unattractive these days, thanks to sedentary lifestyles, which lead to poor fitness and being overweight or obese.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:42 PM
1

A better question is why any good husband would want to live in the mess that is NYC. If a man is in the top 1% earning wise, why would he want to live somewhere where all that means is can afford a studio and can't even afford a parking spot for a nice car or truck and a workbench with some tools?
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:39 PM
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Have you actually been pursued by a random, anonymous stalker? I think you are not assessing risk well.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:38 PM
2

1/#2 is the advice mothers and grandmothers have been giving their daughters since time immemorial. Do not, under any circumstances, allow your vagina (or penis) to choose a relationship. Just don't do it!!! Wait to have sex. Of course this advice doesn't work once alpha widowhood has already solidly set in.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 03:27 PM
1

Right. But I prefer to just be a man rather than being a sneaky snake. I care a lot more about earning the respect of men than the respect of women.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:20 PM
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I wish I could get back the five minutes I spent reading this
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 12:47 AM
1

I think calling the BDSM community "one of the safest sexual communities" is just feminist nonsense From what I have experience, it's full of dangerous people, control freaks, would-be rapists, women who top from the bottom, and domestic violence is a real problem. The only people making excuses for it are people in the community itself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 12:44 AM
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Custody of one's own children is a resonsibility. It only becomes a "privilege" when it gets paired up with an income stream solely because one has the custody. If you knock child support out of the picture, what does it look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 12:41 AM
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No, they don't. They like men who they don't realise are sneaky snakes. Women hate pick up artists if they know they are pick up artists.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:40 AM
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Under such a regime, the person at fault will be stuck not getting their choice of child custody/not paying alimony/etc., under the assumption they breached the marriage contract (which is all marriage really is). If two parties wish to separate in a no-fault manner, there will be no awarding of alimony. There will be a presumption of joint custody, with no concept of child support. (Each parent takes care of the children equally, without need to pay the ex partner.) Since most marriages end in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/14 12:39 AM
1

(1) Never had these bad old days as a beta when I was being friendzoned and invisible to women. Yeah, I had girls I had crushes on, some of them I dated, some I didn't. (2) I have not experienced girls being incapable of returning affection and love and loyalty. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 08:25 PM
1

It's not a matter of penis size and attraction. If she liked her ex-bf more than she likes you, and he's the one who left her, the relationship simply won't be good. You can't overcome it by trying harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 07:48 PM
1

In the Victorian era, illegitimacy rates were lower than they are today. Parental irresponsibility today is as high as ever. Yes, both parties are to blame. Blame doesn't help anyone when a father is absent, or is a criminal and in prison. We have an 80% of kids for a particular ethnic group born out of wedlock. In the 1940s this ethnic group had a LOWER illegitimacy rate than the general population. Across all current ethnic groups, illegitimacy rates amongst the lower economic classes are cree…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:59 PM
1

BDSM is probably already illegal (there are BDSM activists who are trying to change this). I'd sure as heck never want to be male, or a dom, and find myself on the receiving end of a criminal inquisition.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:54 PM
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People on TV get laid who don't get laid in real life. Women like strong, confident men, not sneaky snakes.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:53 PM
-1

For a good example of just how annoying sarcastic men are, go watch South Park's "Sarcastaball". ♂
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:53 PM
1

Marriage still is an economic institution. If I get married, have kids, my wife meets someone else and wants to be with him and divorces me, and for some reason my ex-wife doesn't make as much money as I do, I have to pay her a significant amount of money. If she's a SAHM I have to pay her even more money. That's really what the problem at hand is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:52 PM
1

Here's what we have: OP saying "Thats what I have always taken away from it; having a madonna whore complex is tricky..." before getting any RP replies "Truth. Just more examples of why there little club is absolutely ridiculous." OP saying "I don't want to be aggressive here, cos I really want an answer from TRP, but jesus christ." Do you want debate, or do you just want to repeat your own talking points?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:46 PM
1

Men who throw resources casually around at women are not high quality men. Men who engage in irresponsible sexual behaviour (no condoms, getting lots of baby mammas pregnant, getting STDs, etc.) aren't high quality men either. But over all women have spoken, and most women don't consider a man with a high partner count ot be a low quality man, provided he hasn't done the above things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:42 PM
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I, also, am not concerned with partner counts; I think they're a proxy for "alpha widowhood". Over time, men get experience that it's difficult to have a fruitful relationship with a woman who has an ex-bf who she considered more attractive overall than you. Women with low partner counts as less likely to be such a woman. It's utterly presumptious to think "I AM the best"; you aren't George Clooney or Bill Clinton
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:41 PM
2

Red Pill is not of one voice when it comes to SAHM situations. A lot of Red Pill Women prefer a SAHM situation (although a few notable examples are married, childless, and the wife works). Many Red Pill men only want a wife if she works. Others want a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:39 PM
2

I advocate people find a moral philosophy. If they're religious and their religion tells them not do things like fornicate or commit adultery, I tell them to stick to that. I also ubpraid any guy who doesn't wear condoms in casual sexual relationships. I express the uttermost contempt to men who don't take caution not to impregnate women who aren't their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:39 PM
2

I don't have a problem with alimony in a fault divorce based regime. I do have trouble with alimony and child support in a no-fault divorce based regime, because there's a strong economic incentive for the lesser-earning party to get divorced if they don't want the marriage anymore, even if the person who wants to keep the marriage has done nothing wrong. "You are both agreeing that the one who stays at home is sacrificing earning power and that has a financial impact on the other." Yes, but is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:37 PM
2

So far most of the comments have been "I want an RP person to respond to this, but Jesus Christ, they are so god damned stupid!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:29 PM
1

While it's not statutory, lifetime alimony in California is quite common in divorce settlements for people who've been married over 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:28 PM
2

Marriage has historically been an economic institution, not a romantic one. Read the book "Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage" (which is fairly mainstream/feminist book, not a Red Pill book).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:27 PM
3

In what universe is custody of children not a "responsibility"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 03:25 PM
59

Slightly related: being snarky or sarcastic isn't being confrontational; it's essentially being feminine. If you've got a snarky or sarcastic bent, stop it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 02:41 PM
0

Based on my experience when I was part of a Rainbow Allies group on campus, and also auditing some social science classes, BDSM is not only accepted, but explictly encouraged. It's almost like some kind of religious sacrament.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 02:29 PM
1

One of the premises of RP is that unicorns are, in part, raised, not born.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 10:44 PM
2

Feminism seems to have an undercurrent of trying to make language meaningless. Yes means no, and words have all this "power" so to create social change we just have to stop using certain words like "retard". As if not saying "retard" will actually make life better for mentally disabled people.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:33 PM
6

When I was a 2 year old I was an empowered, gifted, free spirited little asshole who thought it was funny to push babies over and hit kids on the playground so I could get to the top of the monkey bars.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:30 PM
7

She has a whole "sex education for men" series on YouTube that is basically a how-to guide in how not to get laid.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:29 PM
2

hopefully we don't have to read "wow red pill women are awesome!!!" threads regularly either. I do regularly go into those threads and try to inject some RP wisdom, namely, that it's a lot more useful to have fun with banging women than just sitting around your bedroom hating them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:29 PM
2

I think you confused the OP's topic The topic was "good places to meet guys" not "will Ultimate become a national league"? This sub-thread is a good candidate for /r/TRPOffTopic now.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:28 PM
1

The hateful TRP threads are more masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:19 PM
2

A better way to look at it is, men aren't really interested in "dominating" an unsubmissive woman. We'll just go off and find some other more fruitful area of life to conquer.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:17 PM
13

This tiresome woman has made literally hundreds of YouTube videos, including the ones about how "yes" often means "no" when it comes to consent before sex. Also: "But I'm biased what with having a wife of 13 years, a mom, and a very rude but empowered 2-year-old daughter." The last thing this world needs is more empowered 2 year olds.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:15 PM
2

I don't have a damned idea what you're blathering on about. (1) Ultimate attracts all kinds of females. There are a few lesbians in my league, but no more than the general population. There are also a LOT of attractive women, including some who are quite feminine. (2) The guy that plays it and is bad-mouthing everyone else is probably mad he hasn't been able to hook up with the female players (3) Ultimate is an awesome spectator sport - I just spend the weekend watching a couple reruns on ESPN3 …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:10 PM
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I blame feminism for a lot of things that I don't blame women for in the slightest Many women were opposed to feminism (and still are)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:29 PM
5

Your mistake, young grasshopper, is mistaking the women here as any different than the women you could be out approaching and meeting right now.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 04:02 PM
7

Unless you don't value your job, don't date coworkers. Get out there and approach more women.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 12:33 PM
1

I think you should ignore her and pursue someone else.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 12:31 PM
1

Once I have a plate spun up well enough, I can go without seeing her for 7-8 weeks at a time without really having any consequences. (Other than her complete state of misery)
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:56 PM
1

Most girls love being spanked, hard.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:56 PM
0

Oh. In that case, you seem to have a good marriage (enjoy it, but for God's sake get her to lose some weight). Go and enjoy cheating on her on the side. We have a fair number of guys here doing this, some with their wife's full approval.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 07:53 PM
1

Of course plates can be re-spun. Any girl can be spun into a plate. For now you don't need to give it a second thought - when you're back in three months, you can pursue her, and other girls. Who knows if you'll even care then?
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:52 PM
1

Okay, in that case, your issues are all 100% mental. You've definitely got women up on a pedestal. (Including strippers: good grief.) You need to overcome that. What do you actually WANT to do with your life? I hit the point a while ago where I want something besides fucking girls.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 07:00 PM
1

This all sounds OK but ultimately what kind of relationship do you want? Do you want one where your man decides to not live with you for months at a time? I would never want such a relationship with a girl, on-again off-again like that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 06:59 PM
1

This stuff is absolutely amazing for preventing red razor bumpies: http://www.mmproducts.com/bumppatrol/
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 06:14 PM
3

Dollar Shave Club stuff is pretty good. I got tired of paying $38 for an 8 pack of Gillette Mach 3 Turbo 5 Blade With Lubra-Strip Space Age Flying Weasel Cartridges.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 06:12 PM
5

I don't understand the thing about getting drunk at parties. I have to worry about a whole heck of a lot if I get drunk anywhere. Fights, being robbed, dealing with not driving, being taken advantage of in taxis, etc
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:17 PM
5

It makes me uncomfortable too, but we don't live in an ideal world. I might get killed, murdered, or robbed through no fault of mine. I can lower my risk of those things but I can't get it to zero. There might be a war I can't avoid being involved in, one I never wanted to fight. On the other hand, life in the west is so amazing right now I frankly wouldn't want to live in any other time. The level of resources and experiences available to the average man or woman is amazing. It's normal once yo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:16 PM
9

Now let's just hold on here. I've driven girls to an ER or dr appointments before. It depends on your frame with the women. If your frame is strong, and she is sufficiently weak, your actions end up being actions of strength , n ot of supplication. Besides, any guy who can get a girl to start seeing a psychiatrist has my utmost respect. Regarding losing his home in a fire - yeah, he should be careful leaning on his woman too much, but every now and then that's OK. And I've encouraged nearly ever…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:14 PM
2

I used to write and be a "musician". I'd find places to go (for starters, I had friends with studios who didn't mind me dropping by). Our house also had more than 1 room, so if I really wanted to be in the house and be left alone, I could be. Claiming you two need to live separately so he can get his creative juices flowing is either the worst excuse I've ever heard, or you're such a horrible person to live with that he really DOES have to get away from you to get any peace of mind. I'm really h…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 01:59 PM
8

This is a case study in why cohabitation before marriage is bad idea, and often results in... no marriage at all. Just lots of heartache, wasted time, and wasted resources.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 01:56 PM
0

Yeah - at the same time, guys like that just need to be a man already. If he ignored her bitching and whining, she'd probably respect him more. I doubt he'd leave her over it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 01:35 PM
1

U.S. exchange rates to other major currencies; price of gold, silver, oil, and natural gas.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:32 PM
1

It's not even a school prom. It's a 'homeschool prom', which is an independent event that, in theory, anyone can apply to go to. It sounds like she would have been happier going to a 'feminist prom'.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:32 PM
1

When you're married and choosing not to cheat, every girl who's hotter than your wife ends up on a pedestal. If you can boost your SMV, do stuff that will boost her SMV too. Switch to low-carb/paleo cooking; start working out more. (Just don't let her SMV rise faster than yours.) Thanks for your discussion and participation here. ♂
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:31 PM
4

Yeah. It's a lot like a guy who's tired of being henpecked, and he wants some time with his buddies, but he tells his wife he needs to work late instead.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:15 PM
-2

How did he cheat the same night he asked you out? Did you guys go exclusive that fast? The concept of "cheating" doesn't really make sense without some kind of context to put it in. In the context of marriage, it absolutely makes sense. In the context of boyfriend/girlfriend and other ephemeral relationship statuses, it's virtually meaningless.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:14 PM
1

The relationship is a bad thing. Get rid of it as quickly as possible. If you wait until you move away, you'll be pining for him out there, and start some kind of goofy text message/chat based long distance friendship with him. You really don't want that holding you back.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 06:51 PM
2

We're just pointing out that you are way, way overestimating his SMV. This is sort of like when I talk to a guy who is friendzoned, and he describes the girl he likes as an 11. I ask him for a picture... and I would barely rate her as 5.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 06:33 PM
2

How on earth is a 19 year old "high value"? Did he strike it rich in his teens and is a hedge fund manager now, despite living in a town so small it has no other attractive guys in it?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 04:55 PM
1

Are your guy friends "real" friends, or do they secretly want to date you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 04:54 PM
1

I find it incredibly hard to believe that there are no attractive guys either in your town, or a short distance away.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 04:53 PM
1

I'm tellin' ya. Lowering your carb intake will get rid of that horrible "MUST EAT EVERYTHING IN SIGHT" gnawing black hole of hunger you're probably experiencing multiple times a day.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:34 PM
2

Yeah. I had a courtship/near-engagement with a near perfect unicorn go sour after a year. (I decided one day I needed to "find myself", had an Internet-only long distance fling, basically acted like a faggot.) The cost was pretty high: I lost most my friends, had to leave that church, and ended up moving an 8 hour drive away. Took about 10 years to get some of the friends back.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:33 PM
1

Get some no-sugar chocolate. Doesn't take long to get used to the taste, it's VERY satisfying, and cocoa butter is good for you! You can get it at World Market. I've had to just accept that there will be no snacking, period. Too many calories.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:32 PM
1

Yeah, that wouldn't be my first strategy but if I were stuck with "rapist lists" being handed out you can bet I'd start making ones with every AMOG I could find on them.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:31 PM
1

I'm 6'1" and doing around 1,600 calories to lose weight. Friend who is 6'4" is doing 1,700 and experiencing excellent weight loss. Of course, we're all doing high-fat/moderate-protein/low-carb.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:24 PM
2

The CPI is a useless bullshit metric, especially since the introduced the concept of the "chained" CPI.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:23 PM
1

Yeah, I've gotten that. "You're the smartest person I know", though, is not necessarily accompanied with any kind of attraction.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 03:23 PM
1

For what it's worth, I have a few girls who aren't fat who are glad to drape adoringly over me. It's not that hard once you have solid game and frame. But you'll find yourself longing to pursue other things.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:22 PM
1

Then negotiate and use other tactics to keep it.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 03:21 PM
1

Up the good fats. Omega-3s, MCTs (coconut oil), saturated animal fats or dairy fats. Avoid industrially-produced "vegetable" oil.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:21 PM
1

I've been ejected from clubs before or denied entry due to nebulous rules. I don't think I ever made a blog post about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:20 PM
1

"No man can handle me" sounds like a warning.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 03:20 PM
2

That's your opinion. When I stopped eating Mac 'n' Cheese made with skim milk and no butter, but started eating enough cheese and butter that I'm going through a block of cheese a week and a brick of Kerrygold every two weeks, I've lost weight.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 10:15 PM
9

Yep! One of our own is out there and makes field reports from time to time. It's like shooting fish in a barrel, except... you're truly and utterly fucked if you get a woman pregnant. Your options are to fly somewhere for a vacation and an abortion or flee the country.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:14 PM
9

... until you denominate the stock market in something besides dollars, like how much food or gold you can buy.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 10:12 PM
1

I just made one of those cheap postal scales part of my kitchen. If I'm adding an ingredient that might have some calories in it... place measuring cup on the scale, tare it, and then add it to one of my recipes in MFP. I find the nutrition facts for places like Chick-Fil-A, etc. are spot on. They pretty much industrialise each step of making food so it comes out identical each time.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 09:39 PM
1

Hey, that's just how I think. "Given I were stuck in this situation, how would I use it to my advantage?" This looks to be a very easy way to knock out competition.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:38 PM
3

Well, over in RP, we have an idea that outer change can lead to inner change. For example, lots of guys start lifting to get better looking so girls will be more attracted to them. But then they find out that they actually like being stronger, fitter, and healthier - the change becomes inner change.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:55 PM
2

I have my opinion, and you have yours. My opinion is that fats are not bad for you, and refined carbohydrates (like found in pasta) usually are, at least when eating in the USDA recommended daily amounts.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:54 PM
1

No, I was referring to low-carb along the lines of Taubes. I'm not a paleo person although I don't really have a big problem with it. I weigh my food on a scale (or else the # of servings is obvious) so scanning a barcode works like a charm.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:52 PM
1

Foul language or overly sexual talk is not very "lady-like". Refusing to use it will let you retain some feminine mystique.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 07:43 PM
3

Lots of us are experiencing good success with high-fat (including lots of saturated fats and cholesterol!), high-protein, low-carb diets. Sweets, milkshakes, frappes, fast food, etc are loaded to the gills with carbs.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 07:29 PM
1

A select few % of girls find this sexy (I know a girl who banged a guy because he liked to talk about theoretical physics). This is NOT the norm and "talk to girls about physics" is horrible game advice.
/r/trpGAME16/05/14 07:01 PM
3

I'm not a pussy, but I'm not going to stick my dick in a woman who considers Frank & Claire a healthy marriage: they murder people, cheat on each other, Frank is bisexual and bangs his secret service agent with Claire cheering him on, and abort their children. Any wise man would RUN RUN RUN away from the OP.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:58 PM
2

Maybe you aren't intimidating. Maybe you're just a huge pain in the ass, and you aren't hot enough to make up for it.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:57 PM
2

My ex-wife and I's apartment kind of smelled like smoke because the downstairs neighbours chain-smoked all the time, so I let her keep it. Do whatever is financially advantageous for you.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:46 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:46 PM
1

This is exactly it. An alpha male is a male who leads an army of beta males.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:45 PM
1

Sorry but I quit comforting girls whose cats die or their friends' cat dies. Get over it already.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:44 PM
1

I've had sex plenty of times with a with tears still streaming down her face. Let's face it - sex is comforting!
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:44 PM
1

Yeah, I do.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:43 PM
1

Nearly every woman prefers a guy who is attractive/muscular but doesn't need to work out, lift, etc. to look that way.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:38 PM
1

Are you doing a low calorie low fat high carb diet? Those just plain don't work. If they did, America wouldn't be full of fat people. The MyFitnessPal app is an amazing way to track what you eat. You can just scan any barcode on grocery store goods, and it has most chain restaurant meals in it too. Once I started using it, I found out about 500 "hidden" calories I had no idea I was eating.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:36 PM
6

There are reasons to avoid a rejection other than poor self-esteem "Intimidated" by just means "she's sufficiently attractive that I think I have a sufficiently low chance of any success that it's not worth the risks".
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:32 PM
2

If you're less approachable, fewer guys are going to approach you. I have a limited amount of time in my life, and even less time to hit on girls. Given a choice between one that's approachable and one that's not... guess which one I'm going to approach?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:30 PM
3

If a guy's afraid to ask YOU out, then he's not a good match for you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:29 PM
9

That depends on what the social costs of rejection are. I don't hit on girls I have mutual friends with, or hit on girls at church, because for me it's a numbers game, and hitting on 20 girls at church and getting 1 to go out with me will effectively end my social life at church. (Not to mention once other girls at church hear I'm asking girls out and getting rejected, they aren't going to want to go out with me either.) I've probably been rejected 2,000 - 3,000 times in my life so I know what I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:28 PM
3

That depends. If a guy *really likes a girl, but he knows the likelihood of her wanting to be with him is low, and he's got significant risk or social stigma from being rejected or she's got a husband or boyfriend... no, he's not going to make a move.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:26 PM
1

Choosing not to have children is, biologically, identical to being infertile.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:21 PM
1

If a guy complained about getting thrown out of a prom for being dressed too thuggish, yeah, I'd mock him too. The difference is, he wouldn't be on the front page of Gawker and Jezebel, and also wouldn't have anonymous strangers around the world offering to donate him enough money to give him a free ride to college.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 06:20 PM
1

I prefer a docile fat chick draped over me adoringly than dealing with a hot chick who's really not that into me. Of course every man would rather have both.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 06:19 PM
6

I would like to add that turning down sex most of the time is not a "Red Pill Woman" at all. The opposite is taught around here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:18 PM
3

This girl doesn't sound like good wife material or even long term relationship material. Mirena IUD can have a chilling effect on libido - she could try going back to Paragard. But does she think her lack of sexual drive is a problem, or not? Doesn't sound like she's willing to work on it. My ex-wife has had Mirena for 7 years and was (and still is) completely crazy in bed, although she had a little bit more drive before she got it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 06:14 PM
1

Yeah. Works every time.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:44 PM
1

I can converse with a 16 year old or a 61 year old just fine. The only reason you're pretending you aren't attracted to 16 year olds is because you're still worried about getting approval from feminists.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:44 PM
0

The number of diseased people a girl has had sex with definitely does affect how diseased she's going to be. If you "hit it first", she won't have herpes, period. Pretty safe strategy.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:43 PM
1

No. Fertility rates means people who actually give birth to a child.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 10:40 PM
1

The girls at the university campus I was at were extremely hot. (As in, it made the Playboy top 10 hottest campuses list.) Maybe the uglies stayed out of sight.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 10:40 PM
1

I'm unconvinced. When I was on college, I was constantly distracted because I noticed 99% of the college girls.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 07:52 PM
0

4-5 minutes is fairly average for sex. If you're some kind of sex god like me, you can keep going for 20 minutes. If a girl doesn't get off from penetration in 5 minutes she ain't ever getting off. "Premature ejaculation" is usually in more like the 4-5 SECONDS range.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:50 PM
-1

High-risk strategy. Your kids might end up being insane, hating you, and torturing you at the end of your life.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:49 PM
1

There's another option: dying. Which is what old people are supposed to do.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:48 PM
1

You're a student, not a teacher. This isn't the time to display leadership skills or to educate.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:48 PM
2

Successful marriages are really about creating incentives where what your wife thinks will be best for her is aligned with what's best for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:47 PM
1

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance A popular alternative when disrespecting TRP ideology is Projection.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:46 PM
1

You can bet your ass that if a heterosexual male got bounced out of a prom for being dressed "too slutty", I'd be paying attention to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:45 PM
1

I hear a smart guy can negotiate down to $500. (Or $0)
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:44 PM
1

It's best to get her to say "you're an asshole".
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:44 PM
1

In "normal" conditions (i.e. not excessive resource abundance), female hypergamy is a good thing and contributes to societal stability. It completely falls apart in a world with plenty of resources (read: cheap oil), a gigantic standing army so nobody will invade the west, and reliable birth control. Never before has the world seen such things.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:43 PM
1

I'm pretty glad with how I spent my 20s. Marriage 2.0/no-fault divorce is just a very, very rotten deal for guys in their 20s, unless they've got stratospherically high value and frame.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:41 PM
4

I actually said something like this recently. Disgusted look, sigh, "You've turned into a bro and a douchebag", and then sex. Thanks, I think.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:41 PM
5

The best cure for oneitis is to go get another girl.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:40 PM
4

Yeah, as redpilled as a married guy can be. As I grow older I realise more how he's right about everything.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:38 PM
2

She just sounds like she's really nervous. Some people have a lot of social anxiety, especially when it comes to meeting new people. If you enjoyed your time, go for a second date. She'll probably be less nervous once you're a "familiar" person.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:38 AM
3

This is the one and only time I will tell you to supplicate, supplicate, supplicate. View your teacher as your boss, or your slave-master. Your goal is to make your teacher feel good, and not feel intellectually challenged in the slightest. Pick a non-controversial topic.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:28 AM
9

Ignore it Agree & amplify, "Yeah, I get that a lot." Goofy, "I just make stuff up." She's basically tossing a neg hit in your lap.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:27 AM
2

If you've got that "vibe", lift more, wear clothes that you think make you look good, and do things that make you feel like a badass.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:25 AM
7

What's the shit test fight? Maybe we can help.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:24 AM
2

Write on a napkin, "I want to get fired." I dated a few staff at hotels I worked at. I had to switch hotels immediately. My boss at the time was dating the concierge at my "main" hotel (which had the cuties on staff), so that's how I knew that the key to getting them out on a date was to mention you're already checked out.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:22 AM
11

The first rule of red pill is that you don't talk about red pill. Tell her you're fine. I assume you lift more now. Tell her you've been lifting more, and all the blood rushing to your bigger muscles means you don't talk as much, or something.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:21 AM
3

My personal diary (I call it a journal) is handwritten and I am the only person who ever sees it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 10:17 AM
3

The only extrapolation that makes sense is "the rate of change for college-educated is less than the rate of change for less educated" If college-educated people are going from 0.9 kids to 0.8, and the less-educated going from 7 kids to 5, the above quote is correct, albeit misleading.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 10:14 AM
4

Spoken words are usually a result of cognition, not base emotions. And women, at a cognitive level, want beta bux, not a cold, hard alpha. People are notoriously bad at putting their emotions into words, or really being able to reason about their own emotions at all.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:11 AM
3

I do something nice for a girl when I feel like it. Basically matches my moods. My reward? Today a girl told me: "I can't stand you being sad" ... "I don't want to feel like I made you sad cuz I did X" "Just don't be sad... I want you to be happy". They become invested in your happiness.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:10 AM
4

What matters is when a girl asks a man for his number.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:07 AM
3

Indeed. Describing how a guy was a complete asshole and yet snagged a 17 year old virgin will make your average clueless beta post about how sorry he feels for her... ... and then start thinking, "Gee, if I'm a bit less of an asshole, I bet I could get a girl too! I wonder what those TRP people are talking about."
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:05 AM
8

Male relatives = protection of women = stable society
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 10:02 AM
3

Imagine if he'd done 5,000 cold approaches.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:57 AM
4

Are you sure? I found high school to be a rather contrived experience. The real world is pretty different. American high school didn't exist in the 19th century.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:54 AM
1

Marriage was a mostly-comfortable way to spend my 20s, and I came out financially satisfied in the divorce. Net for net, I think I came out ahead. I still wouldn't do it again.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 09:52 AM
2

Escorts can charge $2000/hr. People pay for what they value.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:51 AM
1

After wasting some time reading the comments, other people who were there noted what really happened. Basically, one woman who was a chaperone told the subject to leave, under the guise of "unnamed men are complaining you dressed immodestly". The complaint, however, is lodged against the patriarchy. Gawker latched on to this as "Pervy dads staring at girls at prom, make girl leave because she looks too hot". No TRP here, just a blue-pill example, although I sure wouldn't want to be a chaperone a…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:50 AM
0

That's why it's tagged "blue pill example".
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:47 AM
0

The attention-seeking is writing a blog post about it, and then getting one's sibling with a fairly large readership to syndicate it for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:46 AM
3

"Boys who like computers are taught that we DESERVE sexual attention from women." Do we know what person invented this idea? I like computers, but I sure never remember learning this. The idea is just so laughable to me that I deserve sexual attention from anyone.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:11 AM
1

Casual works best. I like to go with girls to the mall in the winter. Usually I can get a bit of shopping done whilst I'm at it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:10 AM
1

$156k a year. And you know for damn sure she's not reporting most of that on her taxes.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:08 AM
1

Crap, now I kind of feel like a beta for buying a mattress that I let a plate keep. Damn things are just a pain in the ass to move. On the plus side, banging her on one of those little-kid trundle beds got old. She's short, but there's still not really any room to do anything...
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:07 AM
2

When you read this, don't get angry. Instead, ask yourself what the fuck you're doing the next time you're rawdogging some slut and shooting a load inside of her, instead of on her face where it belongs. Do you want YOUR kids raised by a woman like this?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:05 AM
1

I'd do this. Easy way to AMOG the apex alphas on campus by getting them on the list.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:03 AM
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