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Stares. Double takes.
/r/seduction29/05/17 05:53 AM
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Lol no. Lived here for years. Very normal looking white guy. I get rubbernecked all the time.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:16 PM
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Ignore her. If she makes a real effort to hang out and it costs you no time/money/energy then keep an open mind but otherwise ignore her. Not worth your time to even think about someone who doesn't have the common decency to give a half assed apology for something like that.
/r/seduction28/03/17 03:42 PM
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And yet you aren't confident or comfortable around women. It's not enough to sometimes say hi to women. You need to have female friends that you're actually close with.
/r/seduction15/03/17 09:37 PM
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You need to let go of this age and time thing. Stop comparing yourself to people who achieved things at a younger age than you. It's useless behavior.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:27 PM
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Self. Improvement. Work to become better. That's all these books really are when you get down to it. You've been at that point 12 times? On the thirteenth, be brave and take another step closer to getting laid. That's called improvement. That's what we're going for here. The accidents phase is basically what lies between you as you are now and someone who goes out and picks up women fairly successfully and consistently. There is no jumping to that point. You are not that kind of man. But you can…
/r/seduction15/03/17 01:43 PM
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Yeah it does. You as you exist today is not good enough. You have to change. Change takes time. Change is hard. But it won't happen if you stamp your feet at the facts. You just need to get on with it. I lost my virginity at 21 very accidentally. It just happened. Most of my relationships were with women I wasn't expecting to meet, wasn't expecting to bed, wasn't expecting to fall for, wasn't expecting to be fallen for in return. Trust that these happy accidents will happen along your lifelong j…
/r/seduction15/03/17 01:17 PM
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There's no magic pill. You have to change who you are over time and with discipline. Join a gym if you haven't. The confidence that comes from looking and feeling better is a weird jumpstart into having the right mindset. Join a coed sports team. Join a book club. Volunteer. Do this with the intention of meeting women but not sleeping with them. Make friends with hot women. Only friends. Treat them like buddies because that's what they will be. Nothing more. Then you'll be comfortable around the…
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:47 PM
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Block on everything until you're 100% over her. Don't worry about seeing women casually and even dating if you're still thinking about someone else. It's not dishonest. I dated a girl for a few months while still being into someone else and it was mostly a healthy relationship. It only ended when I got over the previous girl (took off the rose colored glasses) and realized the person I was with wasn't really doing it for me either. It's ok to date and stuff while you're still a bit mixed up. You…
/r/seduction01/03/17 01:46 PM
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Mont Blanc Legend is a cheaper and less in your face fierce. Still projects but isn't as punchy. Plus you don't have to go to A&F.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:51 PM
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When I realized that no woman is more important than me. No person is. It sounds selfish but it's not if you think about it. I am the center of my universe. Why compromise who I am and what I want for another person that I don't know or am not close with? Once I'm in a relationship and that special person has become very important to me, then compromise of a deeper nature is healthy. But up to that point it's bad for you and turns women off. Stick to your guns.
/r/seduction05/02/17 09:39 AM
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Yeah ayn rand is garbage
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:53 AM
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Mine has been better. Refuse to peak in college.
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:27 AM
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Join a fraternity. They aren't douche-fests everywhere. Lots of very normal dudes, even nerdy guys. It's just a social group. You pay very little for an incredible amount of exposure to women and cool (enough), like-minded people. Mine helped me break a pattern of bitterness and forced me to interact with a lot of women. Even got a job as a sorority houseboy, doing chores and serving food. Absurdly good job for meeting women when the sororities are 200+ and the girls get all territorial over you…
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:20 PM
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Give her space. Don't spend way too much time with her. Better to see her twice a week for two great fun times than 6 or 7 times when you're not at your best. Work on yourself FOR YOU not for her. Don't get complacent with it. This is the time to double down on self improvement and gain confidence for it. It will make your relationship healthier. I agree with the looking sharp when you see her. Be yourself but your best self.
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:41 PM
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Tried dating girls I wasn't that into to get more experience. Had a relationship with one too. Not worth it. I've been with a number of women over the past 6 months that I didn't find that attractive or even interesting and it doesn't compare at all to someone you're super into. Hitting the cliche hard this year, hopefully it works out.
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:49 AM
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This has been my experience too. In my biggest breakup my ex was crushed for a bit even though she initiated the split, but bounced back quickly. It took me a few months to fully get over her and start dating again but I never had that inconsolable period. I was just pissed off and missed her for a while.
/r/seduction19/12/16 10:33 PM
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In any decent sized city there is a salon that cuts men's hair well. Salon doesn't necessarily mean femenine.
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:12 AM
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My last relationship was a bit like this. We were so good and caring towards each other but she was just not my type physically and was bad at sex. I loved her so much and she loved me back but the lack of spark killed the relationship. I thought things would improve and they never did. Eventually she lost the spark for me too and called it off, which I should have done months before. I feel bad for making her think that I was attracted to her on that level when it was just me in a needy place i…
/r/seduction16/08/16 08:08 AM
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Nah dude. I have a few bald friends and they all do fine. Yes the dating pool is a bit smaller but none of them have to settle for low quality women. 2 of them are in relationships with really cool women. It's because they own it and don't let it bother them. You put a lot of effort into your appearance but you sound really insecure about being bald, and women can sense that before you even open your mouth. You already care wayyy too much about their opinion of your bald head and that disempower…
/r/seduction15/08/16 01:52 PM
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"You can be bald or in bad shape, not both" - bald ripped dude at my gym - someone on reddit -michael scott. Read Models. I'm only through part 1 and I already feel way better and I know that's going to help me build healthy relationships (of varying seriousness) with women, which is what your goal should be. Don't care about other people's opinion of yourself. Develop a healthy and realistic opinion of yourself. You're in decent shape but not great shape, so get into great shape. You've made th…
/r/seduction15/08/16 04:01 AM
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I can tell by the way you write that you talk fast and talk too much. That's not an insult. I'm that way too. Learning to say more while talking less has helped me a lot. I'm a foreign teacher in Korea and I can assure you if you're here, it's not hard to find western girls. Just don't be a sexist asshole and assume all western girls are sluts. I've had to educate too many korean dudes about that. But the talking thing I mentioned is huge. You seem to write well. If you speak at that level you'r…
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:39 PM
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Even if you had the stats to back that claim, the most wealthy kids of any demographic don't constitute enough people to make any reasonable conclusion. It's also true that the most wealthy people of any race don't HAVE to achieve and therefore do whatever they want, not investing in themselves beyond staying out of jail.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/14 02:16 PM
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I find that hard to believe.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/14 06:38 AM
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You know a huge part of those statistics result from poor environments that are out of their control due to a history of institutionalized racism right? Yeah they're dumber, but not because of genetics. It's because they don't have the opportunities or support to invest in themselves as much as people who make more money in better environments.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/14 05:14 AM
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I really did this badly this past spring, thankfully on a smaller scale and with a girl who I'm not likely to run into much for the rest of my life, but it does hurt nonetheless. It's been 2 months since the bomb was dropped and I still have waves of feelings in various directions about her. I'm starting to be better about it and I've taken her off the pedestal I put her on, but it'll take time for me to fully move on.
/r/seduction27/06/14 01:19 AM
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