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Firstly your question is vague. Dude has a lot of opinions so you need to be specific on which ones you are referring to. You can agree on some and not on others. Secondly, as a result of the first, there is no collective rpw hive mind opinion on him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 01:54 PM
1

Kind of a silly question.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 01:48 PM
1

Depends if women value sex or not.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 11:30 PM
-5

Before the sex they already know if you're in the relationship bucket or fun bucket. Sex isn't what determines where you land.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 01:15 PM
6

Simple answer? Crabs in a bucket.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 01:24 PM
3

I see a lot of comments here about it being hypocritical that men want virgins but aren't virgins themselves. Women don't value virginity in a man the way men value virginity in a woman. Women tend to value experience over virginity. This sub will and has agreed that a promiscuous woman will have a harder time being happy with current_partner, and probably have a hard time staying in a LTR. This is actually proven via studies. Whereas men don't have this same problem. Men also can view sex as pu…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 01:18 PM
6

People should just use protection.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/22 10:54 AM
1

Shes objectively worse than the people she seems to hate. Funny how they never see it.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/22 04:00 AM
5

Do something else instead of going out to expensive restaurants every day.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 11:18 AM
7

More walks, lower calorie meals, better portions, dont drink calories.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 12:08 PM
8

this decision should be automatic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 10:37 PM
57

3 months is plenty of time to determine if you want to engage in an exclusive relationship. You dont need to decide if you're marrying someone in 3 months... but either you get semi-serious or you dont. In this case, you didnt get serious. If it hasnt clicked yet, especially after having sex, then it probably wont. Move on, cut your losses. Chalk it up as a learning experience and dont be bitter about it, clearly it was an enjoyable 8 months.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/22 01:12 PM
3

Keep things in perspective here. You said its nothing severe, and the fact that you're slowly noticing this at 3 leads me to believe it wasnt so obvious and therefore is a workable situation. It sounds like with the proper support and help, they can get back on track. I think you just need to instill a "we got this" mentality/attitude. Yes it sucks but we can do this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 01:10 PM
-3

ok relax bro.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/22 07:33 PM
-10

Still kind of sketchy tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/22 05:57 PM
1

book smarts arent really relevant. How smart are you when it comes to being aware of your actions and how they affect relationships? How smart are you when it comes to finding the right person, who align with you on things that matter? Are you self sufficient when it comes to handling yourself, your feelings, your emotions, etc.? Can you stop yourself when you're being a drag, can you identify situations where you need to boost someone else? Are you combative? Defensive? etc. Pretty much all the…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 12:51 PM
21

these are the same people who complain about everything else in their lives, and will continue to do so until they die.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 01:01 AM
73

Question 1: why did your previous LTR relationships end?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 07:09 PM
22

Agreed. We all know its exhausting and all, but you're supposed to make the most of it and enjoy it as much as you can, not be miserable. These are the people who cant live and enjoy life and likely are miserable/have a crisis later in life.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 10:40 PM
3

How to cope with potential friends turning you away for being “too feminine?” By knowing you're better off without "Friends" like that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 05:19 PM
2

No.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:11 PM
3

finally a proper response.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 10:19 PM
2

I find it hilarious that the only thing you said was He says I will be able to spend money and as long as I can tell why something is needed i can buy it. And then people in the comments are saying its abusive? LOL I think we all agree that having a stay at home parent is generally best for the family in a lot of ways (great for kids, allows other person to focus on work). But people seem to think that "in order to make that work financially, we mainly only spend on things we need vs want." is S…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 10:17 PM
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nobody is perfect, not even yourself. Does he nag you for things he doesnt like about you? you need to gain some perspective and learn to let go. Do you enjoy evaluating every little thing that happens around you and determining whether it meets your expectations? If you dont shut that off you're going to have a rough unfulfilling life.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 07:41 PM
3

participation award generation that being said, examples where we lie to not hurt someone's feelings appears to be more of a woman thing than man thing. "Dude, you're fat." or something like that arent uncommon phrases if called for.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 02:17 AM
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If you are a high earner and only 'date up', your pool is going to be extremely tiny. You are limiting your pool and excluding many good candidates because you are putting so much emphasis on something that at some point becomes irrelevant. Plan to have kids, and raise them yourself or at least for a number of years? Then your 'income' pre kids is also almost irrelevant when comparing yourself to a potential spouse. Just like they will know that your great job doesnt mean much because you will b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 06:15 PM
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so as a woman I don't have to worry about a guy pressurizing me for sex Not before marriage. But once marriage happens its expected. Lets hope you are both compatible and on the same page when it comes to sex. You not only get high value men Not always. Also you're definition of HVM seems limited given you are basing it on surface level qualities. I really think the dating scene is frustrating and not worth the emotional pain and trauma it leaves you with after a heart break. Arranged marriages …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 07:53 PM
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You've been talking to this guy for a month, and you havent met him? You started sending him pictures of dresses you like? That sounds like something you do with your friends not someone you're dating. Is there any real interest here? Also, guys like some skin, this shouldnt be a big surprise. It doesnt sound like he is suggesting something that is extreme either.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 01:14 PM
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Do it yourself if you cant stop commenting on everything he tries to do, or direct him to things he is better at instead. You need to stop doing that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/21 05:02 AM
8

Sounds like you're relying on him for your entertainment. You need to be able to entertain yourself to a degree with your own hobbies, and have your own friendships with others.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 02:39 PM
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i cant believe people have to live with this kind of stuff
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 02:39 AM
2

.... whats the point ...
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 02:27 AM
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Agreed. She even admitted to spending because she was bored. Imagine being the one saving for a future and the other person is doing this lol.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 01:46 PM
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I’m spending literally out of bordem. find a more productive hobby
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/21 08:33 PM
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I have serious anxiety that I’ll never be a mother as it is so to sit around waiting and saving for one would seriously hurt. This line. Sounds like you need to work on your anxiety. Secondly, doing the proper thing and saving for something, whether or not it pans out or not, is still the correct/adult approach. Especially if its something as life changing / expensive as a child. i don’t see the issue and I hate being made to feel guilty for using my own money after what life had thrown at me th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/21 12:31 PM
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Pretty much anyone who is surprised that 'professional looks' exist.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 08:08 PM
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I find it interesting that people dont seem to think men have to pay attention to their hairstyles as well, when it comes to maximizing how others perceive you, in either a work or social setting. Nobody HAS to do everything possible, but you pick an choose what you're willing to do to improve your chances. Nothing you do will guarantee an outcome, but its about maximization.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 05:06 PM
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If a guy doesnt take you seriously after sex, then either he wasnt looking for anything serious to begin with or you didnt turn out to be ltr material in his eyes. Sex is sex. Its the other stuff that will keep him around and pursuing something serious (or not). You need to show your 'wife' skills from time to time to portray your value to him and value brought to a potential relationship, rather than have him think you have none. Its also naïve to ignore the fact that women expect to see certai…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 01:03 PM
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are you working out?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 01:18 PM
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Sure, but we're talking about most here, not the minorities. I wouldnt give advice based on exceptions.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 01:45 PM
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Any man worth his salt will choose vibrance over youth any day of the week. Any man worth his salt will get both vibrance and youth.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 01:29 AM
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A feminine woman who also keeps up with her fitness and skincare routines is not going to hit any walls. It may not be like when you were in college, but you'll do just fine. You needn't fear the big 3-0. Disagree here. Ability to have multiple kids safely and effectively is a sought after trait for most men. Also no matter how good your fitness and skin care routine is, age takes its toll, and continues to do so over time.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 01:28 AM
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She's low class.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/21 05:05 AM
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I've always find it funny that people think gaming is a waste but those same people will spend many hours per day or week watching Netflix or on social media
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 08:48 AM
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Why is not getting the cream of the crop settling? What does a hvm even mean to you? Why would they not be settling with you?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 11:51 AM
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I dont know any women who would willingly share a man Are they with actual HVM? Even if they are, some wont, but MANY would.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:24 PM
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She could just be jealous he's moved on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 07:44 PM
2

Good luck. Seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 03:09 PM
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Looks, less of a past, fertility, etc. Also someone young is more likely to adapt to a man's lifestyle, rather than someone who is older that has their own lifestyle/career etc and set in their ways. Man will marry depending on if the dude wants to have kids or not. Also nobody is going to marry a woman who is purely eye candy and young, they need to be sociable, hold a conversation at events, etc which can be hard to find. Just like any other dating experience, the one you choose to marry needs…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 04:16 PM
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Look at it the other way. What do you bring to a man? You seem like a leader, can you step back from that? Height and weight? Where do you go to meet people socially/with friends? Are you unapproachable in a public setting or are you warm and friendly? What age range are you looking in? Are guys talking to you at all, or are you rejecting them all? See if you have any males in your life you can talk to and get their perspective (dad, brother, cousins, etc).
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 10:07 PM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 11:21 PM
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In this day and age, it's very difficult for men to carry the load financially. Two incomes are often needed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 10:59 AM
1

i obviously dont know all the details of your situation, but yes it can be very difficult. What you're describing is not abnormal.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 03:11 PM
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Keep trying, but dont expect anything serious from most women your age at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 02:51 PM
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most women these days want someone to have it all from the beginning, rather than achieve things together. You're 24, give it a few more years.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 02:38 PM
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How so?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 04:38 PM
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Women are the ones giving out the sex. If women are giving out the sex for free with no commitment required then most men will take the opportunity.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 03:44 PM
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I understand some women are like me when it comes to this 99.9% aren't. The problem sounds internal. Its very rare to marry 'your first'. So when you look around in the world, there is an extremely small percentage of people (man or woman) who are with 'their first'. You are not alone and not being able to kick it after this long is a problem. Whether it was casual or not, does it even matter? When it comes to casual sex its about satisfying an urge only, there is no emotional connection to it. …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 11:45 AM
1

Make extra, put extra on his plate, and watch how much he eats, and if he goes for more.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 01:01 AM
3

Sounds like its about her doing what she likes and leaving no stone unturned and no regrets, prior to having kids. That being said its up to her to decide what she wants to do and if she truly values it. Maybe its just not her priority.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 04:29 PM
4

'in sickness and in health' clearly you dont subscribe to that with this person
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 02:27 AM
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Many women get told what they want to hear from other friends/women, and men tell them what they want to hear because they want action. What ends up happening is many women ultimately cannot deal with situations that dont always go their way, and even when they do they think they 'deserve more' because they are special for some obscure reason. Its essentially the same thing that happens when you spoil your children. Every time i would ask "Why do you feel you deserve better?" or "Why do you feel…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 08:42 PM
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If he's HVM he doesn't care about your money. Be a champion in all other aspects. That's what men want.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 11:17 PM
3

What he is telling you in terms of how it makes him feel is not wrong. It is what men feel. That being said, after what he had done I dont see how he can fault you for it. Overall, lets call it what it is, hes never going to get over it, so this getting back together is simply not going to work. Save yourself the time. He also seems like a douche.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 05:55 PM
3

Nobody wants to text all day but people think it's a requirement. Just don't do it. On the other hand, don't expect some guy you just started talking to to spend lots of time on the phone
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 07:58 AM
1

Read it again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 01:20 PM
2

Yikes Read the definition again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:46 AM
1

Compare it to this situation and realize that its not applicable.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:33 AM
0

Look up the definition of adultery.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:30 AM
0

At worst its fap material. No biggie.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 11:06 PM
5

I say this because he was with his ex from 2010-17 (18-25) and they never got engaged. That shouldnt be a concern. I feel internally broken that I can’t even get a man to invest in a relationship with me, and I’m tired of being told how sweet I am while being dumped 😞. Need to figure out why you are getting dumped and work on that. Also i might be guessing, but i wouldnt be surprised if what is going on in your head is affecting how you are interacting with others, likely to your detriment.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 06:02 PM
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great industrial and economic boom succeeding World War II, which was due in part of the significantly increased percentage of women in the workforce in part sure, but very minor. en masse return of women to their homes would be catastrophic for the economy Obviously. Because the economy depends on people spending money on stuff they dont really need, but rather, want. The world has adjusted for a dual income household and now many industries/businesses/ways of life are now reliant on said dual …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 01:11 AM
7

It’s only been 2.5 months so I actually find the baby names thing in front of your mom weirder and more concerning than the rest of it. agreed
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 06:59 PM
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The honourable thing for a red pill guy to do is not string along women in their mid-late 20s. The honourable thing for any guy or girl to do is not string along anyone regardless of age. But clearly thats not how the dating world works today. So the advice given is how to best navigate the realities of dating while doing what is best for yourself, rather than talk about things 'should' be in the world. Also if someone doesn't want to be strung along then they need to have "that" conversation wi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 03:59 PM
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Short answer, no. In general, it greatly improves the lives of your family, which should be the only place your "status" matters. When your family does well it reflects on you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 03:34 AM
2

Haha, should be 99.99/100.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 12:17 PM
6

He could just be super busy, and may have a ton of stuff he needs to do once he gets back. Travelling can be stressful and when you get back things can be stressful too. Wait till he gets back and see what happens. Dont be overbearing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 06:25 PM
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Im glad you dont want to do that. Lying about your past because you are scared of being alone is so very wrong. You already accept and regret your past, and you're going to go ahead and make another mistake? Manipulate/lie to get what you want? Scary/disgusting stuff (not referring to you, but other people who have done so). Be upfront and honest otherwise it might end up biting you in the ass later on, plus you have to live a life knowing you're being dishonest to someone who loves you and want…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:23 PM
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Depends. Often times no.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:49 AM
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this statement asserts that 90% of the time, men see no value in women outside sexual or romantic potential. Correct. In general men would rather be friends/hang out with other men. The only reason they are hanging out with a woman is for potential sex or becoming more than friends. Of course men can see women as friends. yes, very rare though. Would they have sex with them if given the opportunity? 90% of the time, yes. lol... then they arent real friends then, because having sex would generall…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 02:38 AM
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That's true only for attractive women. false I'd not smash my ugly female friends. Maybe in your scenario, but most wouldn't be friends with people they wont smash. Men smash ugly chicks all the time. And just because you'd smash, doesn't mean that's the ONLY thing you are interested in. It's possible to have several interests at the same time. Not really relevant especially since once you smash that friendship is never going to be the same, and typically will end.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 12:42 AM
1

we both established that we wanted different things so did not pursue that and remained friends so you always knew he wanted to smash? But are surprised when he tries to smash?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 09:30 PM
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In general, there is no such thing as guy friends. 9 times out of 10 they would smash if given the opportunity. They are only sticking around because of the off chance there is a way in at some point.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 09:27 PM
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How can you trust someone again who kept something like that from you? You can't. Just one scene she says? Can't believe her. Didn't get gang banged? How can you believe her? You can't possibly know what else is out there. Too risky.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 05:19 PM
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So she doesn't care about the past itself, she cares that it came back to bite her in the ass despite doing everything to cover it up. She deserves it. Hope he leaves her. Not because of the video, but because there's literally no way you can trust her again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 05:15 PM
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However, I fear that he still THINKS about it, he still makes these comparisons even if he isn't voicing them. Who wouldn't? Wouldn't you? not sure what the issue is.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 05:15 PM
2

When you have a life with someone, time and optimization becomes a factor. Doing things in such a way that is inefficient reduces free time for both of you, time you can spend together doing things you enjoy. I cant imagine any world where that is beneficial for you as individuals or beneficial for a relationship. Its the same logic as "im going to cook for me and you can cook for yourself". As a full time worker I am sure you can appreciate and value your non-working time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 04:51 PM
0

This is ridiculous all around lol. It's no big deal at all. And he's being ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 10:28 AM
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with almost 1.5h drive, 3 hour round-trip, its VERY difficult to do during the week. Even on a normal work schedule. I think you're overthinking it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 10:55 PM
2

Because men having standards is seen as toxic/ misogyny/etc
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 10:38 AM
10

I always wonder why they are fine with defending prejudice? Never do they say "yeah its terrible and should be stopped but it's not racist", instead it's "black people can do no wrong. Period."
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/21 10:50 PM
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I guess. But if you dont correct that mentality then you will have it for life, so you will never truly be happy no matter who you are with. No person can be perfect. Relationships and marriage are not all sunshine and rainbows and many women dont seem to actually understand that, even though they say they do.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 01:59 PM
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dont chase a fairy tale
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/21 12:55 PM
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People dont often understand what a HVM is and what a life with them is like. They just think its the default "must have" or default "goal". Like nothing other than a "HVM" exists or would bring happiness. Its gonna be awesome! Im going to get treated like a princess and never have to lift a finger! One of these people is likely working a lot of hours, not home often during the week, might work weekends, maybe goes on business trips frequently, etc. Many women cant function in this scenario and …
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 01:05 PM
2

Top men are doing what they always have done. So are women. Only difference is with social media and dating apps it makes it so much easier for an average woman to access a top man for dates/sex/etc. You're no longer competing with people in your local area that you actually have to go outside to meet. Now people can go through thousands of profiles while sitting on their couch and are no longer limited to geography.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 01:10 AM
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Many reasons. Guys have to approach. Women have high expectations for men and date up. Most guys get turned down. Do this enough times and you ask why bother? Small subset of men are having all the sex, whereas women can generally have sex whenever they want. Then you can sprinkle in men usually getting the worst end of divorces, most of which are initiated by women. Cant blame them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 01:07 AM
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“I knew it! That scumbag was just using me all along,” she huffs. “I was his Practice Wife that he used to get all the benefits of a relationship without giving anything back, all while practicing how to ACTUALLY be a good partner for someone else. Now some other b*tch/whore/slut/whatever-other-insult-you-got gets to reap all the rewards of all the work I did to make him into a better man! Men are trash, never trust a man, don’t even THINK about doing a single thing for him until you have a ring…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 12:56 AM
1

hmmm. is he in an industry/position that advancement is essentially capped? Also keep in mind that if you guys are planning kids in the future, he probably already knows he will be sole provider for a while and things may get tight.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 03:47 PM
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handle you this implies work is not required and that anyone is fine as is. Which is false.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 12:56 PM
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If you're young and this isnt a serious long term relationship yet, i dont know why this is coming up as anything other than a brief convo? How often are you bringing this up? I can see it getting annoying if you keep going on about it. If hes in a living situation where hes not saving as much as he'd like, then i can see it being off putting to hear about needing to save more.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 11:54 AM
1

Is that twitter? You can say 'niggas' without getting banned?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 07:41 PM
1

What
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 02:27 PM
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Sure. But thats still consistent with my original comment
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 04:47 PM
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Not the same. Paying someone to do something will always feel different versus someone who is legitimately wants you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 04:11 PM
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In all honesty men want women for sex and procreation. If it was up to guys they would rather hang with other guys. In general, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 02:28 PM
5

A leader delegates authority where it makes most sense. A man may be the captain/leader, but he does leave quite a bit in the hands of the woman/2nd in command. Also, two equals could be at odds when it comes to a lot of things. That is not good for a relationship. Someone needs ultimate decision making authority, and thats the point of choosing the right person to give that authority to. And lets be real, a woman will not respect a man who is 2nd to the woman leader, at least not for very long.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 09:48 PM
-34

That is a terrible way of considering who is rich.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/21 11:05 PM
36

girls be sexually harassing male artists and actors erryday
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/21 01:25 PM
5

Does he talk to them all the time?
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/21 10:40 AM
2

Supporting 2 kids and a wife on one income could be really difficult. I dont know what your situation is, but if its that tight then its that tight and you both should work at meeting that budget. I can no longer order things online anymore is a massive pain Order things online with him and give him the equivalent cash back.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 08:25 PM
7

im not talking about the OP, im replying to your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 01:00 PM
38

Don't waste his time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 10:29 AM
10

A virgin of a certain age yes
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 10:23 AM
26

You asked him to bring you flowers? Lol...
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/21 02:18 AM
8

Yeah, you could get more help. However lets be real, nobody ever does childcare/housework as good as you lol. Plus your more flexible and can do different things at the same time whereas they cant necessarily do the same.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 12:20 AM
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if you're both working then you will need help around the house (housekeeper, etc). If you dont need to work, perhaps going part time or full stay at home would make things much easier for everyone? Probably better for the kids too.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 12:09 AM
0

You're not getting it lol. He doesnt care any more. But prior to breaking it off he struggled with it because whether you believe it or not, being with someone for that long does cause some attachment, and even minor jealousy is a thing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 10:08 PM
4

Without knowing much, id probably guess that your best bet for you and your family is to stay put and work at whatever issues are present in the marriage, as well as your own issues (weight)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 06:18 PM
0

So friend feelings. Not relationship feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:22 PM
6

he told me he doesn’t have feelings either again, gotta read between the lines Doesnt have feelings to continue in a long term relationship or get married. Doesnt mean he doesnt have any feelings at all.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 02:03 PM
14

Sounds like a half truth from him. He didn't see it going anywhere and wants to explore other options, but didn't want to come to terms with you eventually seeing other people.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 11:31 AM
13

It can be valuable, but not in the way most people would think.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 01:31 AM
10

She cheated. It's over. He's got a good handle on it. Relax.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 10:41 PM
1

Women are just different. And that is ok. The point is, in general, women are attracted to certain qualities in men, and men are attracted to certain qualities in women. The idea is to bring out and emphasize those qualities to enhance your life and happiness. Also, there is nothing preventing women from being funny and strong. Neither of those things are negative traits on their own. I dont know why you think everything you do is worse than a man. This is not true. There are things that women a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/21 03:56 PM
0

My point is, dating doesnt mean anything. Guys are willing to put up with a lot in hopes to smash with no intention of anything long term. Its possible that they enjoyed the company and what not, but doesnt mean they saw you as serious marriage material. Patterns of thought are important because thats how you think now and likely forever. Men are generally logical/fact based thinkers, so difference in pattern of thought can be perceived as red flags for compatibility to men. Im not saying this i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 02:01 PM
2

to be honest activities, makeup, etc dont really matter. You do you, whatever makes you happy. Its what you do for him that matters. Just look decent/appropriate weight, be supportive, follow his lead, dont be aggressive, etc. You can support each other's goals but they need to be aligned and not get in the way of what each of you expect in a relationship. Thats what most people dont seem to get. Its not about you giving everything up, its about making goals compatible with lifestyle/relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 01:25 PM
2

the men I’ve dated who liked me the most were the ones who I disagreed with on fundamental issues Where did those relationships end up? I think that may be your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 01:20 PM
6

Stress at work, long days, rough weeks, no him/unwind time, it takes a toll on sex drive. Try giving him some more freedom to relax and do whatever after work. You will look after the kids, etc. I know its hard to not see him all day and then stay away, but i know its rough coming home from a rough day and have your SO/dog/kids jumping all over you before you even get a chance to get changed. Sometimes it can feel like a second job and there is no 'relax'. Also, consider giving him oral and leav…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/21 09:11 PM
3

I suppose a man that wouldn't turn down a career improvement, like more responsibilities at a new job. at the tender age of 40+? Nah.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 11:51 AM
14

You say you are talking to men, and that they say you are perfect etc but dont do anything. So what are you doing? Are you interested in them? Are you asking them if they know anyone who may be a good match? You are 28. You arent old. But you need to take the reins a bit and start pursuing people you are interested in or have people help set you up. You cant expect things to fall into your lap. As you said, you dont have much experience so you need to adjust what you are doing if things are not …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 12:51 PM
3

No. If you're going to school you're in an environment with a ton of people your age. No need to waste time on social media for networking/relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/21 11:12 PM
3

Obama was president therefore racism is abolished.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 04:21 PM
6

Pets can be like kids. I used to get my wife some small token gifts on mothers day when we had our dog but no kids. She did the same for fathers day.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 12:33 PM
6

To be honest, your husband actually doesnt care. I know its hard to believe, but he really doesnt. He understands what has happened to your body over the last 9 months. He understands things will take a bit of time to get to near-normal. And its not like you blew up either. What truely matters in his head is that his child and wife are healthy and both are getting enough food/sleep.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 07:43 PM
26

These days not flaunting yourself like a piece of meat makes you different/special/desirable to the right kind of people. The kind of people who reward you for sexual content are the wrong kind of people who dont actually care about you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 11:36 PM
19

use vs abuse. its his choice, but id just ask him to do it in the best way possible to stay healthy, with regular doctor checkups.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 10:54 PM
42

Having a conversation is fine but ultimately meaningless. People will say whatever it is they think you would want to hear. Its actions that matter.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 08:42 PM
2

He was being sarcastic right? yes...
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/21 10:31 PM
1

Wait you mean my killer app needs people to download and use it in order for me to make money? Sexism!
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/21 10:30 PM
6

nobody is right 100% of the time
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 03:30 PM
62

I was advising him to take on another job to make more money lol wow. Also, the dude is 25 and you are 21. Let him figure out his own steps.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 07:28 PM
18

People hurt people. We live in a world where people generally just care about themselves. Best thing is to reflect, identify warning signs, learn, and be more vigilant. Actions speak louder than words so see what people do naturally rather than what they say. Don't fall for lipservice.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/21 11:41 AM
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Cant recall how many times ive seen fat chicks flat out say they dont like fat men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 02:34 PM
29

Man or woman, giving up on yourself and your own health is unattractive. Being unmotivated, lazy, apathetic, etc is not a good look. Will we always be in our prime? No. Its impossible. But everyone should strive to be the best person they can be in all aspects, always. There is give and take but you dont want to let any one thing get out of hand (mental, physical emotional, etc). When you're married I think attraction goes beyond "putting in tons of effort". If you dont let yourself go, have a p…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:17 PM
8

That one time I... ...therefore all...
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 01:43 PM
7

This was from 2017. Im sure they are all 3.5 years older and still single. More bitter though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 10:38 PM
4

i died
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 10:37 PM
16

"He messed up on the fourth date" LOL. i wish this was expanded on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 03:00 PM
20

So can we call women insecure for not wanting to date men with average jobs?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 01:43 PM
31

Would a stripper tell her parents and everyone she knows she's a stripper? No? Wouldn't that indicate that you acknowledge there is something negative about it? The you're surprised when a man isn't interested? Probably doesn't help that in a few years she won't be making as much money due to age and will be left with no skills or experience to show for when looking for a real job. Will likely become the dudes financial responsibility real quick
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 12:35 PM
7

Poor kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 02:25 PM
2

Haha, totally!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 01:59 PM
13

I thought so but once i saw the coffee pic at the bottom... shes definitely headed downhill. All of her other pics look like massive amounts of makeup or editing. Haha yes the city miles will come into play for sure. But i dont intend to find out for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 01:50 PM
25

And sadly, the older silver foxes enjoy being single and have no intention of settling down, and the younger blokes are only into booty calls. So they have it figured out, but you're salty. What does she model for? How much does she earn from modelling? May as well be unemployed because that wont last much longer at her age. Some of those pictures show her pretty old looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/21 01:15 PM
16

You're right. They think the grass is greener and they shouldn't have to settle. Having some dude validate it pushes them over the edge, but then after the damage is done they realize the dude wasn't in it beyond a few lays... So now they're in trouble lol.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/02/21 05:14 PM
8

99 times out of 100 i wouldnt raise someone else's kid. It would have to be a unicorn of a woman/kid for that to happen. I say this as a single dad, who understands and accepts that kids can be are generally are 'baggage' to others. I guess the difference is I can accept and could live with enjoying the rest of my life single. Whereas most of these women cant fathom that outcome, so they get psychotic when they get reminded of that potential reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 08:25 PM
1

I feel so bad for kids brought into the world like this... and have to live this kind of life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 03:33 AM
4

In a surprising result, 100% of the USA identified as women this week.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/21 05:56 PM
1

Yeah education is definitely part of it. But i dont know how much. In some extreme cases is someone unable to look something up online? Possibly. But there is no way that is the norm when over 50% of the population is overweight or obese. A list of cheap/healthy foods, and prep tips/recipes is all anyone would need to get started. That can be put together with a couple hours of research if you have internet access.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 11:57 PM
1

100% agree. Not only is it ridiculous, it says a lot about that person if that is the attitude they have. They seem to spiral in circles and the craziness becomes their identity.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 11:34 PM
3

Well in fact it is. The 50% of obese in the US is not due to self love slogan. It s due to poor living conditions and shitty hyperprocessed food. But you said its being poor. So 50% of the country is poor? Now youre spewing some other shit about hyperprocessed foodzzzz? yawn. most people obesity is not really a choice But it is though US where food standards are utter shit Better choices are there, its either lack of education or laziness, choose one.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 10:01 PM
5

You dont need a gym membership to be healthy. Healthy food is not expensive. Healthy food can be quick/easy to prepare if you plan ahead a bit. Many grocery stores pre-prepare things that are actually reasonably priced. Its about people's willingness to do the things required to make a change. Nothing to do with money.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 09:50 PM
16

Want to be fat? Fine. I dont care. Theres obviously serious health implications of that choice but you're free to make your own choices. Want to shove your views down on other people's throat (no pun intended) and inconvenience others because of your decisions? Going to shame others for wanting to eat well or being healthy? Not gonna take that. Nah.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 09:45 PM
3

You should go and read sociological studies then, obesity in the western world is highly correlated with the fact of being poor. When you 're working your ass off and have kids to take care of,you can t just go buy some good quality product. Even if this were true, your fringe situation is not why millions of people (50%+) are overweight or obese.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 09:43 PM
3

I strongly disagree in the sens that obesity is highly correlated with wealth. It costs a lot to be in shape and to be in good health. This is false. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 09:42 PM
8

I understand where you are coming from. I just caution the "must do X before all else" line of thinking may take other things off the table for you, or ruin the timelines of other things. Being a parent, hell, even being married, does require a lot of 'giving up' in general. This is important to understand as being married with kids with a career you want doesnt automatically mean its a utopia and you're fully content and satisfied with life. Far from it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 01:45 PM
9

do you think taking on a bunch of loans (given no savings) is going to provide you financial stability in the future? Do you want to have kids some day? Because if you're in your late 20s and go back to school, and want to have kids before a certain age, how many years of post schooling work do you expect to have under your belt before you need to take time off? Would you have your debts paid off by then, or would you still be carrying them? How would you go back to work with little ones, daycar…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 01:33 PM
2

Best part is when they say "they just cant handle me, too intimidated!" or some shit Nah, you just fat and nobody wants to handle that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/21 03:06 AM
2

For sure! Tough position to be in. But thats why i wanted to point out that being pushy may send men running. If you want to improve your chances then dont fall into that trap where you end up scaring someone off.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 03:59 PM
-1

People only want a half dose of the red pill I guess. Just the half that makes them feel better. I find it funny to have all the downvotes but nobody actually tries to counter my point.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 03:46 PM
-3

Just to note, guys know late 20s/early 30s girls are getting desperate. This often leads to behavior from the woman that can be off-putting (pushing, wanting to accelerate things, not wanting to take their time). As such men will get out quickly if this is what they see happening as nobody wants to be rushed into anything let alone a life time commitment
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 12:25 PM
1

im buying puts on that one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 06:33 PM
5

Child support and spousal support should be capped.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 03:32 AM
6

Its not to look better to other men. Its to look better in the eyes of other women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 01:27 PM
29

Maybes hes saving for the ring and stuff? You said he just got made permanent and didnt have much savings to start with. Or maybe its around the corner and he wants it to be a surprise? He wants you to trust him and that he had obviously wanted to do it in 2020 but that didnt pan out. So its not like he doesnt have the same end goal in mind. Just have an honest/open conversation with him to confirm you are aligned timing wise (with compromises if necessary) and then drop it. Stop stressing and o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 02:36 PM
2

Math based
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/21 05:13 PM
4

I assume fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 01:02 PM
19

People often 'like' therapy because they like people validating their excuses for their shitty behavior. Therapists just guide lines of questioning and make suggestions. its up to the person to solve the problem. Therapists have no issue charging you up the ass if you're willing to throw the money at them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 05:48 PM
3

4 yr old sun Wow hes got like 10 billion years left on him
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/21 09:59 PM
5

So shes going to stick with all of the negative qualities that per her in her dire situation in the first place. Bold move, Cotton.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 07:25 PM
26

a Sicilian message
/r/PussyPassDenied26/01/21 03:18 AM
2

Well, you lied. Imagine if he did the same to you lol. Advice: dont lie. if you were going to do this from the start, you should have just told him why you wanted to do it at the outset instead of pretending you were merging like agreed on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 10:58 PM
-7

dude shoulda got beat for holding her in.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 02:22 AM
68

Women spend almost twice as much time as men on unpaid housework (OECD countries) Dont men work more outside of the house though? unreal. 80% of women stated that they have been confronted with the phenomenon of “mansplaining” and “manterrupting” at work Considering pretty much everything man to woman gets classified as these, this 'stat' is inherently useless.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 02:00 PM
7

She has goals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 11:36 AM
4

Wait, he did pay for her tacos right? What is she complianing about?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/21 11:32 AM
46

fit girl/ugly face. Like i said, if you're overweight your face is irrelevant to men. Fit first.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 01:09 PM
125

I would say nice face is top, but a mans not going to care that your face is nice if youre overweight. So, assuming you're not overweight to begin with, face is most important. But if your overweight, your face is irrelevant. If that makes sense. Also note that losing lots of weight can change your face a lot too, so you can get body+face improvements while working towards a healthy weight.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/21 12:57 PM
6

That almost looks like a dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/21 02:16 PM
10

And a dog and cat... what the fuck. that house must be a zoo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 02:19 PM
1

For sure. They would definitely "get" what im feeling. And yes i understand that their kid would not be mine, ultimately I think with time, i would still love them as they become part of my life/family. Where I can see things get rocky is philosophies on raising children. But that could be the same with a married couple with no kids, but you'd hope they know each other well enough to compromise. But two single parents may be more entrenched into their positions for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 08:45 PM
1

Totally agree. You should be careful to begin with. This isnt supposed to be some sort of 'yea ok lets do it!' decision. It should be you marry the person you will be with forever, full stop. I think with my son though, because he could potentially be negatively impacted, i would likely shy away from situations that a childless version of me would likely pursue, because of the "What if" factor. Something that I may have said "Oh just a rough spot have to work it out", id now say "fuck it im gett…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 08:36 PM
11

Ive considered it. Im not inherently opposed to it. But as we see in some examples on this sub, gotta be super careful. I am defensive when it comes to dating as I dont want to risk putting my son in a bad situation, so realistically unless i find a unicorn woman im likely just going to go it alone/casual until my son is old enough to not be impacted by people entering/exiting his life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 08:06 PM
1

Poor kid.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/21 04:45 PM
26

As a single dad, i sometimes struggle with "Why would a girl young enough to have kids, but currently has no kids, want to date me over a dude without kids or divorce on their books?" Simple answer? They wont unless they have no other options, or dont want or are incapable of having their own children. I can accept it and understand it, but its funny how people like the one in the OP cant wrap her head around it. Maybe too much time spent on tik tok.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 04:30 PM
-1

Not really. Women actively treat people different to their face, or talk shit to others to create some negative consequences. That doesn't happen with men, they just internalize or vent.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 12:32 PM
5

Hello, confusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 07:36 PM
6

knocking down barriers? Prostitution is the oldest job in the book.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 01:46 AM
3

Not sure what happened, but racism is for the weak/insecure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 12:54 AM
3

(will be better when) "women arent afraid of going outside" Nah thats just you scared to go outside
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/21 07:03 PM
3

Is this a dude?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 04:16 PM
–

The man must take responsibility? Really? How many abortions are there a year in the US alone?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 11:31 PM
7

So what happens if the guy gets covid within one month? Would she do the same?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/21 09:13 PM
3

Not worth it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/21 09:12 PM
36

Proper diet and exercise
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 04:20 AM
5

Shadowcraft gang
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 04:01 PM
10

Gotcha Confirmed: am old. Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 05:56 PM
6

The fuck is curved? I assumed they meant curbed? Maybe I'm too old
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 05:50 PM
9

But they arent.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:24 PM
13

No, they aren't Yes they are. It makes zero sense otherwise.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:09 PM
10

Trans men can identify as whatever they want, no skin off my back. But they are biological women, which is why they are able to have periods. Im pretty sure when people say only women have periods, they mean biological women have periods. Not that somehow transmen magically stop having periods once they identify as a man.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:05 PM
9

Not at all. But i know that is the "go-to" attack from people like yourself, so i dont let it hurt my feelings. lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 02:01 PM
16

No its science. "Women cannot defend themselves from this nonsense! Unacceptable!"
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 01:58 PM
11

None of that sounds like "far right" shit to me, nor does it read like transphobia. I do appreciate you providing examples though.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 01:46 PM
36

far right conservative, By reddits standards, or by real life standards? trans-phobia and some racism Links?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 01:03 PM
2

Well thats definitely unacceptable then. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 03:51 PM
5

Define addiction? Is he just unwinding playing some games after work or is it 24/7 morning to night gaming? I mean this whole situation is kind of weird to begin with but in general you should respect other people's hobbies and what they need to unwind. Without knowing more details its hard to provide specific advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 03:49 PM
15

The upvotes and awards that post got is sad. Some good comments tho!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 03:39 PM
1

Agreed 100%! So many layers to health, focusing on a single figure on a scale is not even close to the whole story. Scary stuff when people even refuse to go for a physical every two years because 'im young and i dont have any issues!"
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 07:52 PM
84

BMI is a very poor indicator of health. It was never designed to be used as such, only as an arbitrary measurement. While true, in general its pretty accurate. You'd have to have a pretty obvious/solid reason as to why you are way outside the guidelines. Problem is evident when 90% of people think they are the 'exception'.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 07:39 PM
3

I find it hilarious that women are probably the worst enemy of other women on the daily. Yet men, who just mind our own business, are the bad ones. Imagine being so catty to your own friends. What a sad life.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 10:44 PM
5

How dare they name and shame her! But its ok when we do it! Who wrote the original article lets get em!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 07:40 PM
1

Multiple vises and a whole lotta Viagra
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/20 11:22 PM
1

RIP dress
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/20 11:17 PM
2

But women complain about the same thing? But we're incels I guess lol.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/12/20 09:17 PM
2

3 business days. i assume thats a joke. So weekends dont count in her 3 days? lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 07:03 PM
54

Thot Police
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 02:48 PM
6

i love lamp
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:55 PM
8

And have a stylist come with you and pick out all your shit for you! That would be awesome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:28 PM
13

I hate it too. But if i had infinite money and infinite time, im sure i could find some things i would enjoy shopping for. Even if its online shopping lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:09 PM
47

Who... who doesnt like luxury, travel, and shopping?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 05:57 PM
1

This totally didnt happen.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre05/12/20 01:19 AM
8

Youre not making them jealous.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 04:08 AM
39

prostitutes are celebrated and it's not even considered shameful anymore false there's even a push to normalize the idea that men should date sex workers. by fringe people. never going to happen
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 05:04 PM
1

Whisky? Rum? Gin? Beer?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 10:17 PM
2

im jealous
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 10:00 PM
1

But i like to discuss!
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 07:01 PM
2

Not all armor is the same. It's quite clear that Mando armor is a lot more sleek and fitting than traditional plate armor and doesn't have extra room like plate armor. This goes for both male and female versions. That's like comparing a sweater to compression workout gear. Also I'd assume plate armor fits big because of practical reasons (one size fits all, easy to produce). Times have changed, we can actually easily accomodate for different sizes, which is likely functionally superior than havi…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 09:16 AM
1

I guess using her logic jocks and other things that protect and contour to male anatomy is unnecessary and it would be just as comfortable or effective if they were flat as if nothing was there at all. Ouch.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/20 09:07 AM
1

Im surprised how calm he was. I woulda been calling her all sorts of names lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 02:44 AM
2

Do women next!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/20 11:34 AM
1

Agreed. First few dates should be casual drinks/walk etc any way. I cant imaging expecting meals to be paid for on the first date, especially given how many first dates people generally go on.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 04:54 PM
9

Wow
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/20 02:01 PM
9

Do guys really look at her though? And if so is it for the reasons she thinks?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 11:59 AM
2

Problem is the average lefty is fine with bully tactics and dogpiling. Show any public support for Trump? You're a legit target for doxxing and trying to get you fired. Your average righty isnt doing this sort of thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 06:53 PM
7

Or they try and get you fired for wearing a hat.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/20 06:52 PM
5

Kill Obama?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/20 06:41 PM
10

Who doesnt like doing fun, expensive things, and having unlimited time to do them? Its like when people say "I have expensive tastes". Duh, everyone does, the difference is the other people buy recognize cost/benefit and get by with what they can afford.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 03:09 PM
10

Why would this guy even go on a date after all of the red flags? Makes no sense...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 02:58 PM
3

I literally do this at dinner with others. It's so they know I'm not putting it on the table to look at it. I don't like keeping it in my pocket.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/20 02:06 AM
22

It took a day to unclog a toilet?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 04:44 PM
3

this dudes crazy
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/20 12:57 AM
18

If anything else, they prove they are unable to control their emotions/actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 09:37 PM
3

Men are required to control themselves whereas women are not. Equality.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/20 11:06 PM
4

What bothers me most is that men are expected to keep their cool and not succumb to emotions when getting attacked by a woman. No retaliation. Whereas women seem to not want to take responsibility for controlling their own emotions and not hit the man in the first place.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/20 12:05 PM
14

What bothers me most is that men are expected to keep their cool and not succumb to emotions when getting attacked by a woman. No retaliation. Whereas women seem to not want to take responsibility for controlling their own emotions and not hit in the first place.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/20 12:04 PM
3

That's not much
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/20 10:26 AM
12

Why is violence against anyone funny?
/r/MensRights26/05/19 01:20 PM
3

agreed
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/19 01:34 PM
3

Sarcasm?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/19 12:47 PM
6

Youre right. Sooooo many variables. “Roger has worked at or above this level for several years whereas Karen was offered this role as a promotion, with a significant pay increase. We think most people would understand that these factors would result in some difference between their individual pay,” he said. Proven individual vs unproven individual. Someone who was already making around that salary vs someone who wasn't. Internal promotion from Staff to Manager? You're not going to make the top e…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 09:50 PM
46

Oh for sure. I totally agree with that. But again, I've been here just under two years she's been here just under 3. She gets paid more, but I don't care cuz it makes perfect sense. Ultimately we will both leave soon for better pay elsewhere as like you said, it's usually the best time to leave. I would never stay anywhere for 10 years. Unless I was 10 years.from retirement and had a sweet.gig.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 07:49 PM
1

Me and this girl are managers. Both same qualifications. We both started at the same wage. She has been here one year more. Therefore currently earns 3% more than I do. WaGe InEqUaLiTy!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/19 06:31 PM
31

lol wtf.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 11:55 AM
2

So when someone asks you a toxic question, you are not allowed to respond with a toxic question even if its purpose is to highlight the toxicity of the original question? What an idiot.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/19 12:14 PM
1

Never in a million years would i kick her out of bed.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 05:42 PM
14

Data also shows that hours worked are lower for women. Adjust for hours, and the gap is pretty negligible. The fluffy "we dont ask for raises" is kind of thrown out the window in the grand scheme of things.
/r/MensRights09/04/19 05:40 PM
8

Meh, i listened to it. I didn't think he kicked their ass, but he did point out some issues. The part that kept irking me is "oh the handling of Kathy Griffin was a mistake", "so and so was a mistake". Funny how all of these "mistakes" only go in one direction.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/19 01:16 PM
21

this is what i would call, a giraffe JPG *plz dont drug me
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/19 03:49 PM
2

She's stupid as hell
/r/PussyPassDenied01/01/19 07:00 AM
4

Romantic.
/r/MensRights01/12/18 12:20 PM
4

And that's how Shameless got their plot for one of their episodes
/r/MensRights14/11/18 12:32 AM
6

Why? That guy speared her. His name? Ishmael.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/18 08:38 PM
1

A+ tackle though
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/18 08:37 PM
3

Causing aftershocks all over the world
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/18 08:36 PM
2

All those privileged white males who got mowed down going over the top in ww1... how dare we honour them!
/r/MensRights02/11/18 04:49 PM
0

It's interesting how I don't see the good Democrats calling out the minority who do this stuff.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 11:53 AM
1

Put one on your baby shower registry ya bitch
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 11:49 AM
-4

Shaddap
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 11:47 AM
11

Foul
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 11:34 AM
28

ok Serena
/r/MensRights10/09/18 05:50 PM
15

and blind and deaf
/r/MensRights10/09/18 04:39 PM
45

Do women need to officiate women's games now?
/r/MensRights10/09/18 02:24 PM
1

What an embarrassment to the sport
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/18 01:47 PM
9

Even women don't like to be in all women teams. They also prefer male managers. But yeah, males fault.
/r/MensRights24/02/18 09:40 PM
18

Ultimately I would see myself recommending trades to my future children over getting a saturated university degree.
/r/MensRights03/02/18 01:53 PM
1

Hmmmm.... i guess we know if she took the red or blue pill.... because she still got pregnant
/r/MensRights17/01/18 08:52 PM
3

Better approach is to go to their corporate partners. Ads that show up are highly individualized.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 12:03 PM
1

Hes gettin ripped up now.
/r/MensRights20/12/17 01:38 PM
2

Until people realize they cant do that and get away with it.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 08:13 PM
25

Four legs good, two legs better.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/17 11:19 PM
3

Why did she stop making vids
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/17 05:48 AM
8

Ivanka is so damn hot it's ridiculous
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/17 12:42 AM
5

Even if that logic was correct, the problem would be that you dont know if they would care before you do it...
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/17 01:45 PM
-1

http://www.reuters.com/article/us-mideast-crisis-iraq-blast-idUSKBN19018K
/r/PussyPassDenied09/06/17 04:46 PM
1

Edit: Several people have pointed out that this woman came forward voluntarily and that it would be a bad idea to severely punish those who come forth and admit what they have done on their own accord, because this would be a very strong disincentive for them to do so. This is a great point and I agree there should be leniency in such situations in order to encourage anyone who has testified falsely to admit doing so and try to make things right. If there was a meaningful false accusation punish…
/r/MensRights15/05/17 04:50 PM
10

But muh wage gap
/r/MensRights11/03/17 01:42 AM
2

Pretty sure at bars and clubs, when an average looking dude or below average looking dude approaches a girl to introduce himself, there is often hostility from the girl.
/r/MensRights05/03/17 11:47 AM
2

No kidding.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/17 05:41 PM
4

Is this where you guys get prankpassdenied and you get banned from this sub?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 02:52 AM
1

tare lmao
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/17 06:04 PM
8

Doing something nice for someone shouldnt obligate you into doing it forever.
/r/MensRights27/01/17 09:24 PM
1

Its because we use bitch instead. So bitch seems normal to us, whereas cunt doesnt. That being said, everything is objectively equally insulting. Just depends on what you are used to.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/17 03:37 PM
1

Its because you never heard it used as frequently. You are desensitized to 'dick'. Just like you probably think 'cunt' is worse than 'bitch'. Even though both are objectively equally insulting.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/17 03:36 PM
3

Agreed. It should also apply to roadways. I remember protesters blocking entrances to parking lots at my university and was almost late for my exam.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/17 02:58 PM
5

Whack
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/17 09:09 PM
2

Distraught? She should see a psychiatrist. These people have mental issues.
/r/MensRights23/11/16 03:56 AM
3

Bet she wouldn't give up her social media though
/r/MensRights15/10/16 11:11 AM
2

excuse me?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/16 11:11 PM
1165

The lack of awareness of their own hypocrisy disgusts me the most.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/16 03:34 PM
2

What happened near the end?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/16 02:30 PM
6

Are you ignorant or just trolling here ?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/16 11:58 AM
3

Solo shot first
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/16 03:06 AM
9

That was the best part. Sad that they cant control themselves in an adult situation and instead become hysterical like a bunch of 13 year olds. Weak people.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/16 08:20 PM
1

That was the best part. Sad that they cant control themselves in an adult situation and instead become hysterical like a bunch of 13 year olds. Weak people.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/16 08:20 PM
-1

Go for the eyes, Boo.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/16 04:49 PM
5

Chicks look at pant bulges all the time.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 12:50 PM
1

thanks. let me know if i messed it up again.
/r/MensRights09/08/16 04:21 PM
1

Wow. Get taken advantage of more I guess. Drop dead weight friends. They are not really your friends anyways.
/r/MensRights01/08/16 01:00 PM
1

The ugliest of women hate catcalling.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 09:45 PM
2

they are remaking ducktales
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/16 09:38 PM
2

smoking hot Hells ya
/r/MensRights19/07/16 06:20 PM
2

Well Freddy Krueger is fucked.
/r/MensRights15/07/16 07:42 PM
1

keepin it realer
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/16 11:56 PM
18

Her time was up once she jumped that counter.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/16 05:30 PM
6

I guess i missed the shooter's pledge of allegiance to the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights13/06/16 12:03 PM
3

Solo! Solo! Too Nakma Noya Solo!
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/16 05:58 PM
7

But I thought pregnancy was such a social burden on women? Why would these people want to get pregnant? Man, i cant keep up.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 10:24 PM
4

I think "men paying" is just carry over from a time where most women never worked, so they couldn't pay even if they wanted to. The problem is that women still expect the man to make the move. It's easier for her, she's the decision maker, and it will inflate ego. Oh you came to ME and I allowed you to take me out. Woo me or I will not see you again, this is your one shot. Clearly they know there is interest, so they take advantage. Although there are girls out there who want to pay their fair s…
/r/MensRights14/05/16 12:16 PM
21

If we can figure out a way to land on the moon, we can figure out a way to get men to give birth. LMAO. Every argument Jenna D seems to make has one thing or another to do with the fact women have to endure the most awful thing in the world - pregnancy. Flashin that pregnancy card 24/7.
/r/MensRights12/05/16 04:24 PM
44

I'd love to stay home all day doing stuff around the house with no financial worries as well. Getting to spend more time with the kids is always a huge plus. We want these things too...
/r/MensRights08/05/16 12:18 PM
2

Yeah, hes stupid. I agree. Replica, toy gun, you know what I mean. Realistic toy gun. From article: as if where he lives determines which toys she should let him play with.
/r/MensRights04/05/16 04:38 PM
4

He was arrested in school. During lunch. They brought him to his locker to confiscate the toy gun. If he was out in public pointing it at people I wouldnt be surprised if they shot him. The point is, its fucking stupid to be in public with replicas. And its extra fucking stupid to point it at people in public. And its extra fucking stupid to do all of this in an area that has a reputation for illegal firearms and gangs. Things change depending on your environment. I wouldnt wear my best clothes …
/r/MensRights04/05/16 04:24 PM
2

Kids shouldnt have realistic looking toy guns. Water gun, nerf gun, colored gun, sure. I am white, and grew up in a predominately white neighbourhood. My parents were not only hesitant buying 'realistic' stuff like that, but they also wouldnt let me outside with them. If i was 'old enough' to have a toy like that, i was old enough to understand why its an issue bringing them outside. A friend of mine was arrested after someone called the cops when they saw him around his school with a realistic …
/r/MensRights04/05/16 03:05 PM
2

I miss this guy
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/16 01:14 AM
1

That's a man?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/04/16 10:47 AM
13

Great news.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/16 05:35 PM
1

her bag of whatever the fuck that she dropped is probably going to get swiped by the time she gets up.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/16 12:05 AM
131

Classic. I wonder if she could even get up on her own.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/04/16 01:01 PM
5

I fart on your grave
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/16 11:03 PM
2

Dog fart
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/16 12:01 AM
2

Fatty
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/16 08:49 PM
1

bitch
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/16 06:31 PM
6

Please tell me she will never be employed again
/r/MensRights26/03/16 05:33 PM
12

Lol. What a joke. Can't explain it to his daughter? "The fans enjoy watching men more, there's higher prize pools for men because of that." Pretty simple I don't know how you can argue against those facts
/r/MensRights24/03/16 12:27 PM
7

She's a fucking idiot. I hope she never gets a job anywhere else. But I know she will just get hired by a SJW institution
/r/MensRights26/02/16 01:56 PM
2

That was a pain to watch. Went on for so long. Nobody did anything... If there was any situation to actually defend yourself and hit back, it was that. Although, he should have stood up and tried to walk to other ends of the car. Hes much taller than her so I would assume that would have limited damage.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/16 01:06 PM
-1

so wrecked
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/16 06:55 PM
4

Bitch got rekt
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/16 05:03 PM
22

I didnt realize that fit people couldnt have kids!
/r/MensRights02/01/16 03:35 AM
13

cherry picking. Besides, fashion models do what bodybuilders/figure competitors do, they prepare for the show. Which includes workout routines, and dieting down for the show. These 'super models' dont just walk around everyday looking like they do on the runway.
/r/MensRights02/01/16 03:32 AM
22

SJWs are sadly not fighting for making the world a better place for everyone. They want to make their own personal lives better (by feeling a sense of purpose in life, and finding friends). You would hope that these people would latch on to other causes that actually mean something. But I guess being a SJW is easy since you can do it all behind a keyboard.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 12:47 PM
3

"we have are the standards we need" Its based on a NEED, not some arbitrary target/goal. I cant believe people dont understand this.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/15 01:44 PM
3

Lmao oh man this was great. What a stupid idiot.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/15 05:57 AM
8

Fat as hell.
/r/MensRights20/11/15 06:34 PM
-1

these kind of women are so worthless
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/15 05:07 AM
1

So, whats wrong with promoting masculinity? we cant be proud or happy or embrace who we are?
/r/MensRights14/11/15 02:24 AM
0

Lol rekt!!!! What a stupid bitch.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/15 01:06 AM
5

squeaky wheel gets the grease.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 08:38 PM
10

lol. "we're afraid it might get violent, therefore no". Violent? Wtf? theres like a 0.01% chance of that. Thats like saying "we wont let it happen because people might slip and fall on the way to the event".
/r/MensRights10/11/15 05:50 PM
2

all men are CEOs i guess
/r/MensRights09/11/15 04:23 AM
3

Lol. Ok, I'm convinced, either trolling, or completely incapable of logic. No wonder people like you have a poor reputation and nobody takes you seriously.
/r/MensRights08/11/15 02:27 PM
2

People don't think others can think for themselves, so they try to make decisions for them and censor other perspectives? Holy shit, you would think educated individuals can weed through things people say and come up with their own opinion, or be selective as to what was valuable and what was not. But nope, people have to be censored. Why? Because you don't want to feel bad that they don't share your views? Or because you think people are incapable of rational thought?
/r/MensRights08/11/15 02:22 PM
2

I support free speech only when it helps me, derp
/r/MensRights08/11/15 02:17 PM
6

Lmao get outta here
/r/MensRights31/10/15 05:06 AM
1

Bullshit that I can't give birth!!! We are the same!!!! Help me science give me my rights!!!!
/r/MensRights31/10/15 05:05 AM
3

Gives a whole new meaning to "Go for the eyes, boo"
/r/MensRights16/10/15 02:49 AM
1

Thankfully, I wont need to confirm more than once. Lol!
/r/MensRights15/10/15 12:39 PM
1

Its ok, Id rather talk to real women. In fact, real women tend to say hi to others.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 01:16 PM
2

I can have my opinions, but i cant publicly talk about commiting violent acts against them.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/15 02:49 PM
2

Kill XYZ, in some contexts, is pretty bad thing to say or promote. Its not like she got a major charge. Id say im fine with it.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/15 02:47 PM
3

not just minds
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/15 02:45 PM
5

Should have faces criminal charges. No matter how minor, the point made is the key. We don't tolerate that nonsense grow up.
/r/MensRights06/10/15 02:05 PM
-3

I guess you live in bizzaro world.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/15 02:48 PM
-5

Sure bro. If a man went into a catholic church during a mass, walked up to the front and started to doggystyle a little boy mannequin, you dont think hes going to get a few shots from the people who rush/tackle him? Please. You're right, its a women thing apparently. Derp.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/15 02:32 PM
-2

If it was a dude, he wouldn't of just gotten dragged away.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/15 01:35 PM
-7

True but irrelevant to the topic at hand. You simply dont do stuff like they did in this video and not expect some sort of consequence.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/15 01:29 PM
-11

Cant kick her. But its ok to blatently offend/attack someone's religion. /s
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/15 01:09 PM
1

get rekt
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/15 05:32 PM
2

coughs military? cough cough
/r/MensRights28/08/15 06:05 PM
-7

Racism is ok, but responding to racism with 'fuck you' is not /s edit: downvotes? lol
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/15 04:35 PM
11

Poor joe having to small talk with these idiots lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/15 07:58 PM
9

Meh. I think shes out of shape. But not off the deep end.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 05:58 PM
14

Her face isnt bad. But its obvious shes overweight. Is she super obese? Maybe not. Is she healthy? Maybe. Does she represent the problem most of the western world faces of obesity? Probably not, and thats what the discussion is about. Shes all about providing motivational/self help BS to get people to accept who they are. Per Milo, if they want that, just go to a gym. lol.rekt
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 05:31 PM
37

First she talks about wanting bigger mannequins so people can see what they will look like in their clothes. Then later on she goes on and on about celebrating beauty and loving women. LOL. I love how all over the place these people are because they keep getting shut down and have to figure out another avenue to argue.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 05:29 PM
7

The funny things about this, the two women dont understand that taking broad numbers and calculating some pecentages doesnt mean there is a problem. The man tries to explain it, but they dont listen. Lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 06:12 AM
2

so did they release those figures?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 06:05 AM
-35

was axing
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/15 12:31 AM
2

She will be mixin some veggies in a blender for the next few weeks dough.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/15 12:29 AM
1

I love judge judy. Puts these idiots in their place.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/15 04:54 PM
2

Im sorry Ms. Jackson...
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/15 08:49 PM
6

rekt
/r/PussyPassDenied16/07/15 07:58 PM
9

That was great. Kind of sad that another judge didnt see past it though.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/15 04:43 PM
12

thats hilarious. well said
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/15 05:34 PM
3

lmao how the anchor puts a stop to it afterwards.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/15 01:14 PM
-3

Use your brain.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/15 04:39 PM
4

Holding her from behind is the stupidest idea ever.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/15 03:58 PM
7

He backed off on his own.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/15 03:57 PM
13

You serious? Anyone who thinks he escalated the conflict is stupid. She was getting progressively more aggressive and physical during the situation, and it got to the point where she was not going to let him back down and she was getting unacceptably physical. So he threw her to the ground then backed off. Why would he want to hold her from behind and get even closer to her? That leaves him open to headbutts/nut shots, and would likely enrage her even more.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/15 03:55 PM
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