abalmingilead Archive

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1	Men treat men worse than women do It really depends on the kind of things you're saying. And you having to make throwaways just to say them doesn't exactly inspire confidence, I've never gotten a hateful comment., but if you're man-bashing, don't be surprised when it's men who become angry with you, and cry, "women don't do this". 'Bud', 'bro', 'dude' and 'mate' are all pretty gender neutral so it's a leap to think they consider you as a man just from that. But if they do it probably comes down to most Redditors being men. Just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 02:33 AM
1	The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder? It's a feminist ideal but not a feminist reality. There's no point in claiming the purpose of a system is anything other than what it does. I doubt you'd see nearly as many complaints against the form of feminism that merely tried to socialize men in the same way as women. Current feminism seems to be more focused on grouping young boys, cis men, and transgender women with rapists and murderers, demonizing anyone who was born with a Y-chromosome, and spouting a "kill all men" and "all men are ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 10:14 PM
6	If you knowingly enter a superficial relationship you don’t deserve sympathy when it goes south! They were both in the wrong imo. She made it clear she married him for his money (which is wrong) and he went ahead and married her regardless (which is wrong).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/24 12:15 AM
1	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? Where does OP say any of this? WTF? Can you produce quotes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 03:59 PM
2	How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it? What led to that situation is he didn't do it, then he was accused, hence "falsely accused"	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 03:51 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Also I wonder why it's always the husbands fault for you? First the husband is a cheater and now he is a child and doesn't contribute to the marriage. Seems to be a pattern. It doesn't even need to be said, but: Some wives are like additional children. Some don't think they have to make any contribution to the family other than housekeeping or other than working. Poor spousal behavior isn't gendered. (I've yet to see an AITA post where the women complain about being mommy to their husbands, even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:27 PM
1	Have You Noticed This Trend in How Sexual Behaviors Are Gendered? ... yes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:35 AM
5	Why do we men have to lie about loving the way she is? No one's losing their shit that I've seen. But on one end it's 'get her support/marriage counseling' and on the other it's 'give him an ultimatum/tell him to get on that'. But I have to ask OP if his in scenario, he swore to stick with her in sickness and in health...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 02:33 AM
2	Have You Noticed This Trend in How Sexual Behaviors Are Gendered? In my opinion the issue isn't that giving up control is weak, it's that that strength is encouraged in both men and women, but 'weakness' is accepted in women and spurned in men. WHICH I KNOW came from misogyny and patriarchal ideals. But in modern society it harms men more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 02:24 AM
-1	Have You Noticed This Trend in How Sexual Behaviors Are Gendered? I do not think most men accept women wearing pants. Where in the West do most men not accept women in pants? Unless 'pants' is symbolic? In most marriages and LTRs I know, the man is functionally the ultimate decision maker, even if he does not have to exercise it very often. Once again, this may be region-specific, but also, what you see as 'him not having to exercise it very often' could just be... equal decision-making. Outside of the conservative sphere, I can't see a scenario in which two m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 02:19 AM
1	Have You Noticed This Trend in How Sexual Behaviors Are Gendered? It's an interesting question because men have always had more control over social acceptance in this area than women. What do you mean? It's not men who dictate the fashion trends, what masculinity means, what femininity means, etc. It's society as a whole. There's no patriarchal element to it. Basically, if a man walks down the street in a suit, perfect. A man goes out in a dress and heels, he'd probably be ridiculed, maybe yelled at, maybe heckled. If a woman goes out in a dress and heels, tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:58 AM
1	The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity Yes, he came up with a name describing the phenomenon. You know what else he said? There is, in fact, no analogy between the animal family and the patriarchal human family. The former is entirely the product of the female’s instincts, and she, not the male, is the head." He's describing animal relationships, not human. It's been co-opted well after his time to describe human behavior. But as OP said, saying humans should behave as animals do in nature is absurd. You know what else male lions do?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 01:41 AM
–	Q4 Egalitarian minded or feminist women: If there were no men or we lived in a female-led culture, do you think you can run the society, keep the civilization alive and gather the qualifications that are expected from men (also be creative and stuff to enhance the life experience)? [There's more] Then point out the weaknesses?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:37 PM
5	Do you support government programs for men ? I'm not going to lie, as an HS student I'd hate to have a radfem teacher, especially one that goes around in Reddit comments shooting down support for men and boy's issues. Could a MRA treat his male and female students equally? No? Then somehow I don't think you see the boys and girls in your class in the same light. Of course that's going to colour your experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:48 PM
1	Do you support government programs for men ? The SAT did that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:12 PM
10	Do you support government programs for men ? teachers and parents are already putting more time and effort into boys? Really? Can you give an example?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:10 PM
3	Do you support government programs for men ? For real. Is this misandry or plain old racism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:02 PM
3	Do you support government programs for men ? majority of you hate women and can’t be trusted to do that still puts women at a higher risk of being sexually assaulted, and places us in a situation we can’t defend ourselves from Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 02:01 PM
2	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. There's none You have intercourse with a person and leave perfectly pristine without a single hair askew? No injury, no fluids? There's no one who saw them entering the same room together? No one who can't provide an alibi? None ,,, you're so confident on this it sounds like it's from experience. Because in general that kind of relationship is valid and pertinent evidence to prove the victim was not in a state to consent. How? Please try to imagine how a testimony that doesn't match up with the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:09 PM
-1	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. Proof that the encounter occurred is the first one. Then witness testimony and physical evidence there was no coercion (like a boss sleeping with their employee, care worker sleeping with patient). From there it's a matter of proving consent in the moment with verbal testimony + cross-examination What evidence would prove a rape allegation true? And it's clearly being done. Not like no one's ever been convicted of rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:55 PM
0	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. "Isn't a reliable narrator" in court while accusing someone of raping you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:44 PM
0	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. Quick question, do you believe in "not all men?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:38 PM
0	Men have right to seek justice after being falsely accused even if it has a Chilling effect.. The same exact evidence that would be used for any other crime...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 12:37 PM
6	Men and women CANT be just friends (rare) Not going to touch your main argument here. But a gay man and a lesbian woman? An asexual man and an asexual woman? Heck, two opposite-gendered cousins? That's still a man and a woman, only they have no (sexual) attraction to one another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 08:38 PM
4	CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her book I really hate to imply you don't pass, but the brain is really good at assessing gender based on physical characteristics that have nothing to do with crossdressing. The effect of estrogen versus testosterone on the appearance is not negligible. Don't get me wrong, the differences within sexes are far greater than the differences between (not trying to be the 'we can always tell' person - recent events have disproved that), but even things like vocal fry, sparser eyebrows, finer pores, no facial…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 04:15 PM
14	CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her book When someone says 'this dehumanizes women' that doesn't mean they see human females as squirrels or something. It's just being unable to realize there's a person with a full range of human emotions in every member of that group. "Women are emotional", "women should be demure" or "women are sex objects" dehumanizes women by making them out to be a single 'feminine' archetype. Or "women exaggerate their pain" by doctors. Inability to recognize that behind that 'woman', there's a person capable of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 03:43 PM
14	CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her book Well I assume you've heard about male-specific struggles but (based on your post) dismissed them because men simply cannot have it worse than women. Even when a woman by birth goes through male life for two years and doesn't enjoy it, you say: duh she's a woman Implying... men don't experience hardship as keenly as women? Women are protected? Women can't handle life as a man? Are male hardships inherently worth less than female hardship? Even a woman undergoing a two-year experiment determining …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 03:09 PM
1	CMV: Norah Vincent's experience as a male was sensationalized to sell copies of her book Explain the difference please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/24 02:52 PM
0	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Funny seeing you here among the "clinically insane dregs"... But seriously, define warmonger. You seem to love using it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 01:00 AM
2	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Alright, by your logic: why should women enjoy male privilege when they won't abide by male obligations? Did you know women can have higher stamina than men? Have a lower center of gravity? Higher pain tolerance? Men are far less willing to kill woman combatants? As you said, all unearned benefits handed to you by female puberty? But we're not talking about infantry, we've been on the topic of service and management jobs this whole time. So please, can you name a male benefit in those jobs witho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:56 AM
3	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Considering they won't even put women on the back lines, or on any line at all, no, somehow I don't think men would put female soldiers on the front lines.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:47 AM
–	What do your moms/ sisters/ gfs etc think of your Redpill ideology Please define warmonger for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 12:43 AM
9	Women DO fashion for themselves. So look, but do not touch. Actually, don't look either, because then I'll record you and call you a creep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 12:51 PM
6	Mom who killed her 3-year-old blind son, stuffed his body in basement freezer and convinced his siblings not to worry, handed 60 years Max in prison Why are you bending over backwards trying to justify this grown man killing his blind three-year old daughter? And not only killing, but using his belt to beat her and kicking her in the chest and coming back the next morning to find her dead, because he "lost patience" when she refused to eat food? Not only that, but hiding her body in a freezer? Should they really be more lenient with him because he was 'overwhelmed'? Oh wait. (By the way, the charge was only second-degree murder).	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/07/24 09:50 PM