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Move on?
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:24 AM
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Thumb war. May be a little childish, but it has touching, competition, and something to joke about later.
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:59 PM
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Do things that 'just a friend' wouldn't do. Things like physical contact/touching (kino - see sidebar), sexualized conversation, playfulness, teasing, etc. Don't stress, have fun. You're a great guy, remember that.
/r/seduction11/05/12 02:46 PM
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At first I was like, "pff, whatever dude" but now I'm like "ah, I see what you did there"
/r/seduction18/04/12 07:39 PM
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Dat last line...
/r/seduction20/03/12 01:39 PM
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Don't playa hate
/r/seduction29/02/12 04:21 PM
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You have to be the one to decide what you want out of the 'friendship'. If you feel attraction and want to pursue it, do it, kiss her. Kiss her hard. Show her what she missed the first time around. If she wants nothing to do with it, that's fine, you may continue as friends. If the friendship ends because of your advances, then I would put the 'friendship' itself into question. Remember, you are living your life for you, as best you can. If she wants a piece of this man-meat called M1n1true, gre…
/r/seduction28/02/12 06:00 PM
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The fact that you took the time to write this shows the answer is yes, you should've kissed her. It seems you have built up enough rapport/comfort with this girl, so why not test the attraction? Really, the worst that can happen is she says 'no' again. Big D. Seriously guy, she's into you. Kiss her and report back.
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:28 PM
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Doesn't matter. You could have busted your lip on her teeth and bled everywhere. Keep your inner game pimp-tight and the rest will fall into place. What happened happened. Now you gotta move forward in a positive frame. You're money baby. You're so money you don't even know how money you are. Edit: Watch Swingers
/r/seduction24/02/12 08:59 PM
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Good work. Try to go for the k-close earlier on in the interaction, that way you avoid the 'awkward' ending. Speaking of which, it's only awkward if you let it. Use the fact that your kiss was awkward to make jokes or set up future dates. It's all about mindset brah, keep it up
/r/seduction24/02/12 08:37 PM
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He's referring to Link, the protagonist from the Legend of Zelda series of games. puts monocle back on
/r/seduction15/02/12 05:37 PM
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If you don't want to be simply friends, then that is a perfectly normal stance, fuck that shit. If that's what she wants, respect it, but move on. I've read here on Seddit before that people have had success telling girls that have friendzoned them "I'm so happy we're just friends...". If you want to, and the mood is right, you could try this approach, for science. Get back to us
/r/seduction01/02/12 03:59 PM
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Ryan Reynolds
/r/seduction23/01/12 07:11 PM
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Minivan = pimp machine
/r/seduction13/01/12 04:41 PM
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Great point, being too humble can be harmful, as someone may interpret that humility as low self-confidence (which, as I've said, is not necessarily true). The trick is to strike a good balance between humility and the confidence that you project out to others. Thinking "I'm awesome" to yourself is great, but some of those feelings need to be expressed outwards so that other people (women obviously included) can feel that confidence. Being too humble would clearly interfere with someone's abilit…
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:18 PM
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I'm going Greek
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:33 PM
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Humility and self-confidence are not mutually exclusive...or to sound more humble, you can be humble and self-confident at the same time.
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:21 PM
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By 'came to you', I meant in terms of attraction. In literal terms, you went up to them.
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:10 PM
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Good stuff, man. I liked how you kept it simple, and the girls came to you (good sign). For the other readers, are there places where you would have changed anything? Anywhere you would like to improve on for future nights out?
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:08 PM
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Good post, I like the end part about internal validation. I think that to be a true PUA, one must not need any validation/approval from anyone but himself. This goes beyond picking up women too. An Alpha is confident in himself and proud of his life, failures included. Failing = learning
/r/seduction22/12/11 08:57 PM
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Upvoted. Totes commenting to save the post... and then saving the post.
/r/seduction22/12/11 07:33 PM
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I feel these are kinda goofy, but I like where your head's at. You gotta keep your head on a swivel when you find yourself in the middle of a vicious cockfight
/r/seduction21/12/11 02:17 PM
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Well played, sir. Seems like no matter what would have happened with those girls, you would have had a great night - that's key! Some HBs got thrown into the mix and you made good. If anyone can chime in and explain how to escalate from any of the above stories, that'd be great. Kino? Getting 1 on 1 time?
/r/seduction13/12/11 06:38 PM
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This is a pretty normal thing that happens to many guys. Just stay focused on your long-term goal. Maybe even open another girl, or start from the top of that pattern you described, but with someone else. Once you do that, I bet you'll find the thing(s) that make that one girl 'special' are actually qualities/characteristics that many girls have.
/r/seduction12/12/11 08:48 PM
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