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Oh boy... The first few days are not the roughest. Just wait until the Mrs comes out of her initial shock of the change. I would say a month or two in your going to see push back in a huge way. That will test your frame, your resolve to lead. It's like battle where you catch your enemy off guard... Eventually they regroup and then you know what you're made of. However, don't be discouraged... This isn't a race, or even a marathon, it's life now. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 07:26 AM
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(No judgement, just advice) No matter how much that sounds like a good idea... ditch porn - even together. It messes with your dread game, will inevitably invite a shit test, and is anti comfort/loyalty. You're also inviting a male with a higher SMV than you into your bedroom. The mental stimulation messes with your ability to perform. Seriously, ditch porn and you will perform better. Make your environment better than a porn movie and enjoy the woman under you. Think DEVI: Dominate (Watching po…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/15 07:55 PM
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Yup. The moment my marriage started turning around is when I no longer needed her. She needs you, so if you need her, she can't rely on you. She's not there to support you ... She's there to support your mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/15 04:16 AM
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I second the notion of a paid-site. I have a lot of technical background (web-application architect) and would be more than willing to handle the technical side of creating an online community dedicated to TRP, MRP, and/or RPW. My reasons: There is a lot more I would like to share but there comes a line when an outside person who lurks might be able to identify me... so I have to be careful. I think more men are in this position especially in LTR and Marriages.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 07:51 PM
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Nicely done.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 04:38 PM
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For me - the moment where the awesome kicked in was when I realized that my relationship will go the way I want it to, as long as I have the balls to go there. I'm in a marriage and since applying TRP my wife worships me. Why is that depressing? Sure, randomly screwing girls and spinning is going to get boring after a while. The real good stuff is in LTR's in my opinion, as long as you don't go BP in the process.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 12:23 AM
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That's hilarious. I regularly employ this technique at pubs when out with the boys. I'm not super model attractive, but I dress well and have a confident gate. Every once in a while I'll isolate a girl by withdrawing from whatever the boys are talking about, find a girl and just watch - waiting for eye contact. Once I have it, I hold it until they they either look away, or cast eyes down and blush a little. At this point, I wait for them to look back up, a smile or wink, then return to my conver…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 01:36 AM
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It's going to hurt regardless if you make a decision or not. I've found less pain in forgiveness and reconciliation with my wife but there's no way it would be successful if I wasn't in my frame.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 01:06 AM
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I've been there. Almost exactly word for word - I could have typed it out myself and it would be my story. Guy... you don't even have 1/100th of the truth yet. Fuck are you going to have a shitty 6-12 months. I hate reading posts like this only because I've lived it and there is only 2 people in the entire world I would wish it on, but - you're going to need to start surrounding yourself with some alpha guys. My advice at this point... Take in TRP and MarriedTRP, and all it has to offer. Read, L…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 08:12 AM
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I just re-read the book of pook, so: Ego and Desire. If nothing else, read the fifteen lessons. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:58 AM
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"It's like you forcing the other person to take you seriously." I love it; that's gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 02:43 AM
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I find the rational male and the book of pook the most liberating. No bullshit, and straight to the point books. Plus they're entertaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 06:16 PM
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Stick with Dad. If you think less drama is at your girlfriend's parent's place you're dreaming. Your mom branch swung as your dad is on his way out. He held his SMV over your mom until he was almost 80... Prick or not, I really want to hang out with your dad.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/15 05:56 PM
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Up your game before the bedroom. A lot of people will suggest cave man sex, but that's not always the antidote. I posted an evening of mine that helped immensely the other day. Use seductive dominance, mystery and immersion before you get the bedroom. She'll be ready to go by then. Once you're in the bedroom, the first moment she speaks... Put your finger on her lips and seductively shhh her. Spend hours on her exploring her.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 06:40 PM
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Atta boy. Remember, you are the captain. She is scared... She just wants to know you're confident of the course. Own it, charge forward. Stop fighting when you're ready, on your terms.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:08 PM
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Stop worrying about her.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 05:49 PM
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Dude, you're cage fighting. You are not guaranteed to be fine. That's okay. The message isn't "I'll be fine" but "I'm not afraid".
/r/askTRP31/01/15 04:54 PM
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Inconsequential. It was the dress I picked, that's what's important.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 02:18 AM
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Dominance over her shouldn't be the goal. That's easily had through a variety of poor tactics and is largely false. Her submission is the goal - this is real and gratifying. Focusing on dominating over her is still focus on her. Focus on a better you and she will willingly follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 04:06 AM
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I have a contrary opinion to /u/RedPillJohnny. I found out after being married over a decade that there was a recent affair. For a man who swallows the blue pill - an affair is devastating. I was diagnosed with PTSD because I emotionally relived 'finding out' daily. She was done with me. Then I found TRP and MarriedTRP. I made a choice right then and there: If she's going to leave - fine. She's going to leave the best god-damn me she ever left. I don't even need to decide if I'll keep her - I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 08:59 PM
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I want to tell my wife everything. Even when I see that not telling her everything drives her so wild she tries to fuck it out of me... I want to reveal my every intention, desire, fear, and thought. Understanding that she can't handle this is so tough, but I can't deny the truth in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 03:32 AM
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You know what's not respectable? A loud angry person. Quiet anger is the real respect earner. You ever really screw up with somebody and see them hold frame? That's when you know you're not going to have to deal with their volume, or their fists - but their cold, calculated, response. When you yell - you just spent the emotional debt that they know they owe you. Hang on to that and use it when it's to your advantage. Think of this example. You screw up at work and your boss calls you in. Scenari…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 08:21 AM
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I've only swallowed the RP recently, but from what I've learned... placing a high value on your own life is part of it and thus, drinking and driving is ultimately lowering your own value. It's not about social responsibility as much as self preservation because you're worth that preservation. The entire shit-test could have been avoided by taking a cab. At some level, it's an insecurity that allows us to drink and drive. Women sense that and want to turn that rock over. You broke frame when you…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:10 PM
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California. So, yeah.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 12:12 AM
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I'm operating very mysteriously. I don't tell her where I'm going or when. She thinks something is up, but I'm getting a ton of attention in the bedroom. +1 for dread. Perfume worked perfect because she noticed it in me when I came home, but also had a new haircut (could have been the hair dresser - her hamster and to that conclusion) I neither affirmed nor denied.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 12:12 AM
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