abb424 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	[FR, F-close] Fun night at the bar, plus a question at the end		abb424	/r/seduction	07/02/17 03:53 AM

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1	How do i go for the kiss? So this might not be the smoothest shit ever but i've been doing it lately and have yet to fail. Situation: you're flirting with her, she's reciprocating, you've already built up some kino (i like hand on the small of her back, especially if it's a bar scene so it's like you're getting closer so you can hear what she's saying and also getting some fairly intimate kino in). The way I talk to girls is pretty playful; I'll joke around and hopefully have them laughing and joking back with me... so I…	/r/seduction	21/03/17 02:44 AM
1	Fast escalation for kiss at a club? How do you know these guys don't already know this girl? For me, if I'm working on one girl on a night out, I'll be happy with just making out at any point. I don't really put a value on WHEN it happens, just IF it happens. It's not worth rushing and going for it and getting blown out instead of just waiting the 30-45 mins more it would have taken to have her be okay with it, you know?	/r/seduction	17/02/17 01:49 AM
1	Fast escalation for kiss at a club? Give it a rest bro. I'm not catering to any excuses I'm just answering his question. One of the good things about this subreddit is that it's advice for anyone whether you look like fuckin Fabio or beetlejuice.	/r/seduction	17/02/17 01:47 AM
–	Fast escalation for kiss at a club? Dude you're a prick. If he's labeling himself as a little fat he's probably aware he should be working out as well. How about answering the question? OP: Why do you insist on it being very fast escalation? I'd say that's not the best way to go about it unless you're literally in a huge rush. Only thing I can think of is if you get on the topic of PDA you could playfully ask how they feel about bar makeouts? And if they seem to play along just go for it. I'd rather just go at a normal pace though…	/r/seduction	16/02/17 12:53 AM
1	Working professionals, how often do you approach? I'm going to the gym 4 out of the 5 weekdays and I won't approach girls to hit on them there. I'll talk to people there casually though. 90% of my approaches are done friday and saturday night. I work 8-5 so I don't have a lot of time to do much of anything during the week other than go to the gym and cook dinner. So for me, I just go out to the bars/clubs with friends on the weekends. I don't mind it, it's nice to just release after working hard at the office and the gym all week. Makes me real…	/r/seduction	16/02/17 12:49 AM
–	Met a girl on tinder, she is going to stay at my house over the weekend and is bringing a friend. Can't believe nobody has said GET A FRIEND FOR HER FRIEND. Don't make it seem like yall are paired up, but the dynamic will just be better if you have someone for her friend to talk to as well Otherwise yeah what "letsgetrandy" said	/r/seduction	16/02/17 12:36 AM
1	[FR, F-close] Fun night at the bar, plus a question at the end I didn't get her number, surprisingly. We are friends on snapchat and we have sent a few things to each other but I'd be willing to bet they weren't "personal" snaps, as in we both sent them to other people as well. Seems pretty casual so far but I will play it by ear. I appreciate your advice man it's helping me evaluate my situation here a lot.	/r/seduction	09/02/17 02:00 AM
1	Acting weak and submissive in front of girllfriend in public Not sure what you mean by being feminine around her. But I've found that there's a fine line between making yourself vulnerable with a long term girlfriend as part of the process and being overly nice/submissive. If you are stoic at all times she will be frustrated that you can't be emotional with her after a while (i'm talking down the road like a year into it). BUT if you are too emotional she WILL lose respect for you. That being said i feel like I'm talking about when you're alone with her. …	/r/seduction	08/02/17 02:48 AM
1	[FR, F-close] Fun night at the bar, plus a question at the end bring up the idea of infrequently hooking up I picture the only window for this as being immediately before or after a hookup, right? I guess before would be better so that if she's not interested we don't hookup and I'm not "leading her on" even more? But also feel like she'd be more inclined to be down with this after sex, assuming she had a good time. (and assuming they've been friends before you rolled around) This is true. That's why I want to play it safe	/r/seduction	08/02/17 02:42 AM
1	[FR, F-close] Fun night at the bar, plus a question at the end Hahahah fair enough you got me. But good call on her motives as well. I hope you're right!	/r/seduction	07/02/17 10:45 PM
1	[FR, F-close] Fun night at the bar, plus a question at the end Do you mean talk about it/my intentions after the fact now? I feel like that would make it more awkward than leaving it alone?	/r/seduction	07/02/17 10:44 PM
–	Texting a Girl (Noob Q, I know) I think you're overthinking it. Have yall talked at all since then? Nothing wrong with just saying "Hey had a good time on saturday, how about we get together again this weekend?" If you're real worried about being too eager, wait till mid week sometime. Might be better honestly so you can try to set something up for the weekend (or whenever you want) Edit: do you think she's trying to do FWB or have a relationship? Just think about that so you can frame how you talk to her	/r/seduction	31/01/17 02:15 AM