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| 8 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman? | Discussion | abcd_trapshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:19 PM |
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| 1 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?I also do not look at people’s faces, lol. Especially when I am talking to them. Kinda scared to be judged on my appearance. Also I suspect autism. Do you now how your ex is being right now? We sound very similar, if she kills herself or stays a lonely lady with 100 cats she doesn’t even care about - I wanna know! And again, you were together for a long time. Did she provide something positive to your life? Maybe she was really in the moment with you, or really empathetic to you, or sex was incr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?That’s me than, totally. Know a girl like this, also. We both have very distant parents, both are only children. Both come from upper-middle class. Both have been socially isolated from childhood. Both have been different from other people: dressed like shit, cared only about our own success, overly egocentric. Depressed AF, constantly bullied by peers (in childhood). I managed to be a little bit less crazy than her, somehow, and was able to have much in common with guys and not turn into a slut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?What’s awful about them? Probably that they are “I-know-everything” arrogant dudes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:57 AM |
| 1 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?did she have any friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:54 AM |
| -2 | What are some red flags you've personally experienced from the opposite sex?Okay, “reasonable”. Did you notice it’s a man’s answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 05:52 AM |
| – | Feminists and leftists/liberals can be the most mis*gynistic peopleRage bait post from a fake account. However, I DO believe that men usually know a little bit more about the world and have more life experience than women since men are usually brought up more “freely” in terms of where and with whom they can go for a walk, etc. Also interests of men are more focused on the world rather then on themselves (why - IDK). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderThank you, I also want to say that I enjoyed reading your other comments and appreciated your thoughts. I see that you are interested in the question of the role of a man in a woman’s life as a “sacrificial prince” or a knight. I want to say that in such discussions I prefer to avoid generalizations and talk about personal situations. As for me, I recognize the presence of this culture in the media, but I see it as pandering to the female target audience, purely from a marketing point of view. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderMy ex-SO had always said: “One can be happy only if he does not put himself at the center of his universe and values something more eternal and greater than himself”. Did you mean the same thing when you raised the topic of happiness? The first time my SO said this was when I told him about my goals for life - “to travel and have children,” of course. And many, many of women I know dream about the same. I think women’s preoccupation with themselves is not a coincidence, but rather a gender thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsIt is true. For me as a woman, this sounds terrible - be valued because I can potentially give birth. Both cats and dogs can give birth. And my only value and respect are based on what animals can do? How can I consider myself a human after this? Besides, okay, I could earn my value as a person, but I don’t have such a genuine interest in studying science, immersing myself in some topic, as many boys have from childhood, when they become nerds in tanks, history, politics, etc. ... That is, my se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsBro you envy women because of likes? What’s your point? What is more, how many of those likes are from women? I think more than 50%. Women evaluate other women on appearance and beauty, since ability to look beautiful is one of the main feminine traits. Girls’ popularity among other teenage girls is based on appearance mostly. Moreover, what if those “likes” are the only interaction those women have? Nothing deep and fulfilling, just some digital likes are one of the main indicators of “friendsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsI want to discuss it a little bit more, if you don’t mind. Me getting in my ex’s way while he tried to become better was my personal mental problem and also me psychologically accepting how gender works (little venting: my BF dumping me is one of the biggest regrets of my life so far since I was so goddamn stupid playing a competition that I would never win). Now I would only appreciate if a man is better and deeper than me (and you pointed on that too). What’s more interesting, is that I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsWow, sigma vibes here Still, I agree a lot with ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | "Just work on yourself bro, your career and hobbies bro!" Mfs acting like being a wage slave and consooming products replaces actual bonds of love and companionship with other human beingsThat really hits different. My ultra talented and interesting BF dumped me because I was extremely jealous of him being very smart, deep and successful (both in careers and socially) and it was hard for us to be together, since I had been always feeling inferior. And now I understand that very few men and women (especially the latter) are interesting to the extent my ex was. I wish to find another man like him and become myself like him because he really enjoyed the life he lived and was valuabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:15 PM |
| 9 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Bro because if she decides to become pregnant and take parental leave their standard of living will drop by more than half and this would be very stressful. Of course a woman needs a man to rely on during these periods. And the lack of trust (“I will become so vulnerable, will he still be near me?”) is one of the reasons of fertility decline for middle class. Downvote me but this is my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?I am sorry for your ex-wife in general and that she became disappointed with her value as a woman. I was RP once and thought that I can start considering myself valuable only if I create a new life. You know, even in humor, Mom jokes are considered a gray area of acceptability because mothers are valuable. You can roast women in general, but with mothers it is rather “prohibited”. Therefore, it seemed to me that childbirth for women is proof of value, so I understand your ex-wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?And what if they want to have a kid eventually? Give us women the right to bitch around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Meh, being able to be an independent adult is a must nowadays. What if your lovely husband dumps you, who will drive you to a mall or buy you food? I do not understand this weird confidence that they will find a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:48 PM |
| 2 | If you fail to get a partner, do you visualize living your life alone for decades?Hey you, the stranger with beautiful views. Why do you have problems with having friends? Your personality seems so peaceful and kind, it is so valuable. Could you answer honestly, why? This is my view. Any friendship is about 3 main things: 1) Similarity, 2) Repeated unplanned interactions, 3) Trust and confidence in each other. In terms of similarity, I cannot befriend people who are too different. For me it’s unserious people, very social people, very quiet people, etc. They can be only acqua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:43 PM |
| 4 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?There are women who are ready to do all that to avoid giving birth and having periods, though. At least as they say on Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?How did she react when understood that you had spoken about herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:04 PM |
| -3 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Why do you think that? I agree BTW. Would not be happy to date someone who is always bitching, anxious, knowing almost nothing about important stuff and caring too much about his own beauty and health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Totally understand you, I want the same thing as a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?I see, you are horny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Are you talking about your male friends who are LGBT as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?I do not agree that girls interested in games are only doing this for getting attention from men. I am interested in games myself but either in simple and short genres like horrors, or in MMORPGs. I played in MMORPG with teams consisted of men and it was fun. But I quit gaming because it consumed too much of my time. I do not understand how working men can play VG and not feel guilty for wasting their time and also have time&energy to gather more knowledge in intellectual topics (history, politi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:49 AM |
| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?For me as a woman, this is very precise and correct. If I meet with a woman, we either just talk (which becomes boring after a couple of hours since we are running out of topics AND we have NO deep / specific issues to discuss, like analyze in detail a political situation, a sporting or historical event) or visit some typical touristic place like theater, cinema, etc. On the contrary, my ex visits his best friend every weekend and they just discuss politics, movies, play video games, etc. I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:39 AM |
| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?I may collect a bunch of downvotes for saying this observation, but I noticed that men who say they are “less talkative, more quiet” also tend to say they “have more female friends” and also regularly mention their wife in a comment in some positive way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:47 AM |
| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Thank you, for me it is similar with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Low self esteem is definitely there, but still I believe that I should be more knowledgeable to be an interesting person for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:33 AM |
| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Your view is beautiful and very logical. I hope that my long-term relationship will start in a similar way, and that someday your opinion on relationships will become the most popular among all people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?You would agree more if I said romantically or sexually? I believe, romantically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Also, I checked your other comments in this sub and you seem to really understand history and politics. This makes your position even more strong, and it is sad. Politics and history are important topics, and women (me and my female friends as well) just make themselves helpless and blind by not paying attention. I personally never had energy to study this on my own, so I don’t blame other women for not having natural interests. It is also sad that I am not interesting for you and other intellec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 0 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?So are your female friends the same as your male friends? Do you spend time with them equally? Does the level of discussions differ with your male and female friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?This. I didn’t separate hanging out and being friends in my question and I suspect that’s why many answered that they have female friends. I doubt they are friends with them in the same way as with men (deep discussions, shared hobbies). Most probably they are just included in same multi-gender social group rather than they are friends in personal level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:49 PM |
| 3 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Cough Cough So you also noticed that the deepest topic on which women have an opinion is sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?Sorry, I made it look like Bayes theorem: Given friendship between M and F, how probable is sexual attraction?😅 My main question is: do I have a chance to befriend a man if he is not sexually attracted to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:35 PM |
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