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While I never considered myself a creepy dude I was a kiss-less virgin till I was 21.5 years old. In the span of time from my first kiss to now, a little over 1 year later, I've kissed 12 different women, had intimate relations with 5 of them, and dated 3 (still dating 1). Calling yourself creepy indicates to me that you're hyper-aware of every thing you do. Self awareness is good, but too much is bad and I think it makes you inorganic in your interactions. Women can see right through you. Also,…
/r/seduction05/11/19 02:19 PM
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Man oh man did I need to read this
/r/seduction24/10/19 07:07 PM
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General advice: if you're asking if you're overthinking something, you probably are. In this case, you are. I do it too, just learned to catch myself.
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:20 PM
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This is so stupid. The concept is true but you're obviously not telling the truth for whatever reason. No girl would say that to someone they're dating. "Word for word" lol
/r/seduction01/10/19 02:52 PM
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Got it, definitely following what you're saying now. Good input. As for the girl showing up drunk... Yikes
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:24 AM
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when you're with me put away your phone Hope that's not your actual wording my friend. Seems a bit off-putting I've never had a girl text out of boredom, most of the time it's their parents or roommates checking on them. I'd probably only go for saying something along those lines if she's tweeting or something, but I've yet to go on a date with someone hooked on social media/lacking the awareness of over using a phone on a date Knock on wood lol
/r/seduction11/09/19 04:09 AM
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Yeah I'm gonna try not to worry about it. It's the fear of the unknown, you know? And also the fear of the fire going out because we won't see each other for two weeks and we just started dating. I think I will bring it up if there's a next time.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:09 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Never thought of that. I have never asked before because I've always been assured when I go for the kiss, I wouldn't go for it if I didn't think it was right. I'll definitely keep that in mind. For now I think I'm going to wait a bit before I text her again.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:06 PM
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Oh my goodness that is brilliant. I never looked at it that way-- being too cool with everyone and never stepping on anyone's toes. I've never thought much of it since I thought it was only a good thing to be likeable by everyone. It'll be a challenge but now that I've got 5 weeks for winter break I've got time to be at the drawing board. I'll reevaluate things. Thanks for being so active and responding to people. It means a lot.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:15 AM
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No I don't do that. While I'm not stuck up/self absorbed I'm good at maintaining a "presence" if that makes sense. When I say goofy I'm saying humor like Jim from the office if you've seen that show. For example yesterday I caught a ride with a very petit, incident girl and when we walked to her car (tiny buggy) I said "oh, wow". She asked what's wrong and I said "I dunno when I first saw you I took you as a Harley Davidson or low rider type of gal" and she thought it was hilarious. You definite…
/r/seduction16/12/18 07:52 AM
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Good to see you active on snap again. What I don't get is I'm a "social butterfly"-- one of the most well known people at my institution. When I'm around people I'm lively and quick to make jokes, even goofy at times. I've got a good "switch", so I'm pretty good at being serious when I need to be. My looks are above average and I'm lean yet athletic. My theory is that people admire me but... Aren't attracted to me. Part of me thinks it's because I don't really fit in at all. Like I act "too whit…
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:18 AM
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I just came back :/ Feel indifferent. Nothing spectacular aside from being on my phone a lot less.. I didn't have any FOMO, nor do I feel less informed at the moment. Maybe I need a longer break or I'm just not as addicted as I thought I was
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:44 AM
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Lol going to take 1 week off from Reddit just because of this post telling me to See ya in a week
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:12 PM
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This was a cool read, saved it and I'll look through some of your other posts later
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:43 PM
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Dude... What are you talking about
/r/seduction12/06/18 02:42 PM
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"Nice guys" are essentially spineless. Just be a nice person with direction and purpose. The only people you should be bending over backwards for is your family, not some girl you want to hook up with or a friend who probably wouldn't do the same.
/r/seduction21/01/18 09:39 PM
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Allow me to translate "I dont give my phone number to everyone" = "I dont give my phone number to you"
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:59 PM
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You started out fine with your initial response but you fell down the slippery slope of cringe
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:23 AM
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IF she happens to be some flakey bitch IF that's how you refer to people, not just women, I think you need some time to mature or at least reevaluate how lowly you think of people That mindset will kill you man, there's no silver bullet to this situation. I would do what I always do-- live my life. if she wants to be a part of it then cool, if not, that's cool too I'm still living la vida. I think you're over-thinking it all. It sounds like you're giving short notice on events (yes, a couple of …
/r/seduction02/07/17 12:39 AM
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At least at my school, there are free therapists. Look for that resource. But I'm in no qualification to tell you where or not to see a therapist
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:38 PM
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I appreciate the advice. I'll keep up the conversations, and make those tactical retreats by not forcing anything.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:11 AM
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Thank you for the advice! Very helpful. I'll keep at it.
/r/seduction29/11/16 05:10 AM
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As a college student, snapchat is widely popular and it's a good medium of communication. I like it because I simply do not have the time to hang out with girls as often as I would like to. It keeps my foot in the door while I'm away. Unless you're actually some kind of social god, don't just dismiss something because it isn't your style. I downvoted you because you're not contributing to the conversation-- at least explain your comment instead of just saying "this sucks"
/r/seduction28/11/16 01:19 PM
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This is such a great comment. I hope a lot of people see it; I really needed examples and you just kindled my creativity flame.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:59 PM
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I just responded to three of about 15 snap stories, just saying "haha" You're 100% right about sparking the conversation. But the thing is, and maybe this takes practice, each convo started out well but kinda hit a wall. I just didn't know what to say, and as a general rule of thumb-- if you're not sure if you should respond, don't respond. I'm just not sure how to steer the conversation. These were just girl friends of mine, no one I'm trying to date. Edit: to clarify, your post is gold and abs…
/r/seduction28/11/16 03:46 AM
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The only successful interaction I've had was back in high school, and the chick slid into my DMs on Twitter. The point behind me saying that, is that was high school. Unless you're ridiculously attractive and the girl is thirsty AF, I advise against using social media as a means to get a girl on a date. Honestly, there have been times where I was in your shoes and I was absolutely tempted to send a DM. One thing I know, however, is that women are highly emotional beings (in the sense that they r…
/r/seduction15/10/16 01:58 AM
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Thanks, I really am just another guy (average looking) so I hope that adds some merit to my post.
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:40 AM
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I am binging their youtube channel. As for the product, as much as I want to improve myself, I'm a college student so I have next to no money for $500. I really appreciate the resource though, I'm going to continue to look through them.
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:00 AM
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Glad I could inspire, that was the goal. Check the update!
/r/seduction14/10/16 03:23 AM
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I would have but she was sitting on the hallway floor and I was standing up-- it would have been awk
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:40 PM
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I found out they're not official, they're just "talking". You're totally right.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:38 PM
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Very true. I'm definitely keeping an open mind.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:38 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted but yeah you're right about it being attraction. I'm going to spend time with her, but it's just against my morals to actually pursue her while she's seeing someone. Apparently she's just "talking" to this guy though, and the vibe I'm getting from her is that he's pretty boring.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:23 PM
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I appreciate it. It's been a little over a year and I try to practice the small things I learn at every interaction-- it adds up over time. Also, what is RDS MAX?
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:20 PM
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I think you didn't escalate physically or based off what you've told us you never tried to get past that initial stage of attraction. I think you're exactly right. I think I just got shy with the touching aspect-- I'll try to be better about it. Hope the ship hasn't sailed with this girl, I'm going to give her some time first (I'm thinking wait until wednesday/thursday) and try to meet up with her again. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction18/09/16 08:53 PM
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You're spot-on.
/r/seduction18/09/16 08:49 PM
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Thank you for the insight.
/r/seduction18/09/16 07:53 PM
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I do my best to see someone in person, in fact I really don't text much in general, but you're entirely right. I do overvalue text messaging and snapping because I see my friends with their girls or people they are "talking to" and they have 1243098 day snap-streaks and they're always texting. As someone who hasn't had a girlfriend (unless you count that one time in middle school), I have grown to equate that to a vital component of a relationship. I know the assumption is completely wrong, but …
/r/seduction18/09/16 07:52 PM
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I appreciate the advice. I'll try to approach texting differently. The girl I'm talking to right now isn't the type to text excitedly or with any emotion, but she's been getting pretty short.
/r/seduction18/09/16 01:53 AM
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Nah, too far north! One of the other five.
/r/seduction18/09/16 01:51 AM
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This is a quality post. You are right about the stereotypes. Being black, I have found it is possible to appeal to women while remaining true to your identity. Don't be surprised when non-black parents raise their eyebrows the first time she brings you home though
/r/seduction05/05/16 03:48 PM
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Okay sweet, I wasn't sure if you had. Good luck again.
/r/seduction26/04/16 09:35 PM
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I'm not in a position to gauge where your relationship will lead, but I will say FB is not exactly an ideal starting point-- especially since it seems like it was your only interaction with her outside of class. Good luck and I hope it works out, but if not, talk to the next gal in person. It's too easy to do things on the screen and lose all emotional communication
/r/seduction26/04/16 09:18 PM
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I absolutely agree. I went to a boxing class out of (almost) pure spontaneity this morning at 05:30 without any experience and I ended up having the time of my life. The women that were there were all milfs so I didn't really flirt, but I made a ton of new friends. Now I have a new hobby.
/r/seduction09/07/15 04:34 AM
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First, look at his username. I haven't looked at his profile or anything but that raises a red flag. I don't think trying to turn it sexual like that has any chance of working. Unless you've established a sexual vibe in person, turning it into that visualization instantly might come across as creepy. The comments above should suffice.
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:17 PM
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Great advice that people often overlook. Don't laugh at yourself to the point where people trample all over you, but definitely make light of situations that don't have to be serious.
/r/seduction19/04/15 06:26 PM
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