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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | It's not that women prefer jerks, it's that they desire the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk.All jerks are non-needy. Not all non-needy guys are jerks. Women like non-needy guys. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.I completely agree with you. Being yourself while having high standards and right values for yourself is the goal. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.Lacking social skills or carrying around emotional baggage (anxiety) are not personality traits, so I don’t see how these are characteristics of someones ‘authentic self’. Introversion-extroversion actually are (and I hate to beat a dead horse but introversion ≠ shyness, socially inept, insecure). | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.Your authentic self is you stripped of your fears and insecurities. Why would you change yourself, besides ridding yourself of insecurities and anxieties, if you feel confident and worthy? I assume the answer (you will not say out loud) for that question will be to get more validation and approval of women, which is needy behaviour. Trying to become an extrovert will be very stressful as you will wear a mask all the time. It will give you a fake sense of confidence, as your portraying an identit… | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.‘Naturally confident’ is a pleonasm. If you rid someone of his/her insecurities around his/her self-image, you are left with someone who is secure in his ‘natural authentic’ self, a.k.a. confident. This is also the way we are supposed to be, naturally. You think nature intended some of us to be naturally insecure and self-doubting, how would this serve a purpose evolutionary seen? What I suppose is that, being in tune with your personality and having self-compassion (love, worth whatever you wan… | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:59 PM |
| 40 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.As much as you want to improve yourself, you should have self-love and self-acceptance for yourself and respect your personality as it is. Trying to become a outgoing chad while deep down your a cool, calm and confident introvert is not the right interpretation of ‘improving yourself’. So it indeed should be: Be the best, most skilled and confident self while staying loyal to your authentic self. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:24 PM |
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