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I've read RP articles where the game was intended to establish contact with the girl who is (a bit) interested in you and play making yourself the best choice for her. Before relationship.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/24 06:09 AM
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In short: IMHO there's no "game", just be a chad and you win even before "play". Change my mind :D
/r/TheRedPill30/09/24 08:21 AM
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What the chad did beyond "eye contact" and "tapping the shoulder"?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/24 06:31 PM
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As already said by the admin there are few details. The way you posted this story, it seems like chad did nothing, just showed up and the girl chose him. Which, TBH, is quite common.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/24 06:08 PM
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Blackpill people here are those who think that there is no hope, and everything that is not finalized to sleep with a woman is coping. They tend to refuse any opportunity to improve. Look is king, and a bad looking person is sentenced to pity life with no love. This is it, more or less.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/24 06:59 AM
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Sorry but I disagree. I'm european, and in europe TRP is really different. It is more similar to what you call black-pill. And the european black-pill is really extreme. Anyway, beyond these labels, the result is that that sexy girl preferred to tell she has a boyfriend instead of giving her number. It's OK to tell youself that you can poke girls as much as you want, but in the end results are what matter. Poking girls could be draining and very difficult for others, this is not always a zero-co…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 08:20 AM
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If they need to looksmax, then they are not so good looking, and they don't have the confidence either.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/24 07:35 PM
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This is also a clear lesson about 2 things: - when girls say that because you're engaged and they don't want to hang with you. It's a bullshit. You're just considered too ugly - when girls say they're engaged and they don't want to put at risk their relationship. It's a bullshit. You're just considered too ugly Boys deceive themselves by saying "I'm engaged, she'll never accept a cheater" or "She's engaged, she'll never want to cheat". This is a big bluepill. When girls want to get laid with Cha…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/23 07:34 PM
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Yep, a lot of success after quitting those stupid losers.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:48 PM
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Yep, a lot of success after quitting those stupid losers.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 01:48 PM
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Those are gold advice. I was in an ever worse spot. Girls in the group also refused to introduce their friends and acquaintances to me, as they did to other guys they considered fuckable. When I started to make my own way of improving myself and being more assertive, the entire group began to ostracize and not understand me. In their mind, I was the non-fuckable weirdo and I should stay in that role. In my case, I got rid of them once in a while during an argument about a girl outside the group …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 10:13 AM
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Like this
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 09:57 PM
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Like this
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 09:56 PM
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they are only with you because you’re the best “option” at that moment and the moment she finds someone better she will leave you RP is wrong because it says that ONLY women do this. Actually, all humans do this. Then, they balance the cost of leaving their current partner to jump into the new one. Sometimes people are also really engaged and they are unwilling to start a new relationship with someone whom they basically don't know. being in a college setting, I have seen more people be unfaithf…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 09:55 PM
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Yes, but I got called "incel" from other people that don't like my answers.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 12:03 PM
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Whenever I write something against the "common pinky rainbow thinking" giving concrete advices to people who are angry because of relationships, I get called "incel".
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 08:44 AM
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If she gets pregnant ask for DNA test. Dude, stop being so blind. Do this to yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 11:47 AM
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I was aware of "Redpill theories" long time before Redpill born. Redpill manipulated evolutionary and social theories and proofs to make people generalize and simplify everything. That's absolutely wrong. The other problem is that they sell those "theories" to young people who have no baseline knowledge and make wrong conclusions and actions (sad). To me, being in knowledge of how humans work had a positive impact on my life. I was too dumb before and I trusted everyone approaching people as "go…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 08:58 PM
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sex does not fix anything Ok, but you're saying that after doing A LOT of sex. How would you have been in your life with zero sex? Many incels have this complete focus on women because their testosterone is filling their brains, and they cannot focus on anything else, including improving themselves. I was like that, I am no more like this because I had (and have) the chance of sex. Then, I was able to give the right importance and priority to sex and focus on relationships, self-improvement, and…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 04:00 PM
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I don't feel like talking or giving someone the time of day because even when I was fucking twelve, if I didn't actually engage with some men I'm very sorry, I think this is a form of violence. the compliments are nice but only when it's meaningful and there are no strings attached This is 100%
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 06:16 AM
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Yep, exactly, this reasoning could be applied to enforce redpill. We can say "yes, if redpillers say so, they might be right, good for them". Who knows.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 08:59 PM
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I engage the fact that we say many good things but then people's experience is different. The same is valid with redpill, it says a lot of exaggerations but, in the end, the reality is way more complex than that. We can say that even then attractive men hardly ever have women just randomly come up to them and compliment them like that But the reality is that, as per OP, the HANDSOME construction worker tik toker got the attention of the girl. That's a fact, ours are just words. The "gotcha" thin…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 08:57 PM
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Sure. But Margot Robbie experienced rejection less than the average-looking girl. She gets more validation and has one less reason to pity herself. Anyway came up and started hugging that guy. She kept saying, "I saw you on tiktok omg!!" To me this looked almost like sexual assault This is validation (sort of a compliment).
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 08:37 PM
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Absolutely, but I was stressing the point from OP. Handsome and half-celebrities get compliments, non-handsome and average guys get nothing. This means that compliments (AKA validation) are not forbidden for men, but only the ones with the right look and tik tok account get them.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 08:34 PM
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Do you think ugly tik tok celebrities get chicks hitting around them?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 08:32 PM
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Did your mom complimented someone else? Brother/sister, someone you know...
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 07:46 PM
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But... in the end the handsome construction worker got compliments and OP not.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 07:44 PM
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During sex for them, there is no morality or such ethical thoughts. They have an experienced partner that satisfies their kinky desires. In a relationship, I think they don't even see the double standard, or they pretend not to see it and behave like everything is OK. I think that when the relationship is at break up they yell at the partner about his double standard. That's the moment of the truth. I see some couples like these, and to see what is ACTUALLY going on you should wait for a breakup…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:55 AM
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Some women get blind in front of a good-looking guy. They stop thinking and let him do whatever he wants, even having double standards. (The same is true for some men with good-looking women)
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 11:41 AM
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Because they are good-looking.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 10:58 AM
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It's not me, I just wrote YOU're considering (many) women as weak and broken The commenter on top of me considers women that get laid with redpillers as vulnerable women and open to being manipulate A careful and attentive person doesn't get fooled by redpillers and understands who to trust and when to stop trusting before being manipulated. To me, this definition is about a strong person. Blindly trusting people without judgement is not a strength trait, it is simply stupid.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 12:54 PM
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I overall agree with you except for one point. If many redpillers are getting laid with (many) women because they use abuse tactics this means that you're considering (many) women as weak and broken. Right? If this is right we should ask why society is building up so many redpill manipulators and weak women?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 10:45 AM
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You swallowed redpill because a girl wants to fuck with you. Now, imagine how many redpills ugly men swallow daily without getting laid. And imagine that in this process the same "innocent" girls tell them "it's because of your personality". Whatever fucking thing this means.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 03:24 PM
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I was somewhat alpha before but was unaware If you were an alpha why didn't you get laid with girls?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 08:07 PM
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I was angry, mad at the world, and isolated in my own head This community thus lead down to me becoming “Red-Pilled”. Redpill is not about being angry with the entire world. I know Repill men (and women) who are happy and enjoy their lives. Anyway, your problem is not about Redpill but your attitude toward the world. Redpill is just a way to see the world without filters, there are others. I, personally, follow another approach. It is disenchanted about the world but I'm not angry.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 08:56 AM
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Of course no.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 06:55 AM
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Choose an ugly one that other girls will never look at. You'll be sure that since you'll be the ONLY one option for him, he will commit 100% to you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 07:44 PM
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So you're disproving some facts you just reported as "hard to disprove" in this 3D.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:27 PM
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And get laid with Chad because "you're no more appearing as masculine to me". (It happened to me when I was young)
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 01:49 PM
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Absolutely true. I have a girlfriend that has some eating disorders and other self-esteem and self-acceptance problems. She's counseling with an expert. Sometimes it happens that she tells me how she feels, her thoughts and what she wants to eat and so and so. Since I was already knowing all the things reported here, I'm just sitting in silence, pretending to listen to her. It is just fucking draining just pretending to listen. After she "talks" with me, she has the illusion of being better. But…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 01:47 PM
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So, you're not having problems with women because you're nice and you're always respected, even by women that want to be with nice guys.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 07:46 AM
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Being "nice" is not the same as being "good". Often, being "nice" is a form of compensation to manipulate others to love us by adopting behaviors that match with them but are not spontaneous. Suggested read: No More Mr. Nice Guy (R. Glover) P.S. women, men, and people are first attracted by beauty, then stick to the attitude. Beauty enables sex, sex enables bonding, and bonding lasts because of attitude.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:43 AM
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Definitely this. Auto-fooling is the best way to get harsh once back in the eye opening world. Personality comes after, but to check into just sex personality is almost useless. And, maybe, even ugly people want one night stand. Or is it exclusive to the good looking ones? Yes, this sucks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 06:40 AM
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My pleasure.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 07:14 PM
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Yep, generalization everywhere. I mean, we don't need a full fledge theory to say "good looking and rich people have more sex". That's obvious.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 05:58 PM
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Agree. One of the problems of redpill is that often is explained as "women are bad" only. But no, in real people have bad traits.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 05:36 PM
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Never need this. No problem in findind sex. I have to admit redpill has some roots of truth, not the misogynist part, those are bullshit because men and women could be assholes, no distinctions.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 04:40 PM
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If one embrace redpill because of no sex the only moment to get rid of redpill is when having multiple intercourses with different women just because of smiling more. Otherwise it is just coping.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 03:30 PM
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HUMANS go for looks first. Yes, sometimes genetic is impossible to beat. But let's be open for any possibility.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 10:34 AM
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Try to ask your friend to meet some of their friends for potential date. If they avoid this or they present to you bad looking guys then you have a look gap with your friend that you should work on. If they present to you guys that are OK, then you're sending bad vibes.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 09:38 AM
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But it is not mandatory to radicalize, the majority doesn't go that way.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 05:01 PM
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Anyway, this definition is misleading because it mixes the definition of incel with the misogynist one. Why mixing them? Why treating ugly or behavioral limited men as aggressive misogynists?
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 06:44 AM
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Then what is the definition of non-incel people that have no sex life since forever even though they want to? Because to me it looks like incels are hating and ranting as a (wrong) reaction of being invisible. And those who are not hating and ranting are still invisible.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:28 PM
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Incel involuntary celibate. So, if they have healthy outlook but they are alone since forever they are incel.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:18 PM
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I'm not saying this is a "large scale solution" but before saying all incels have "negative outlook on women" it is good to check if it is the case. Because not all incels have insane ideas. Sometimes they just feel "not enough" and prefer being alone than try and get yet another fail.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:09 PM
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Question for everyone: how many times did you try to match an incel friend with some female friend or acquaintance in a "casual" meeting? To be honest, before judging incels, since we are all different, it might be insightful to look at how the incel behaves in real life. For example, a friend of mine was totally clumsy with the girl I brought "casually" and he had a problem of "I'm too ugly even to talk to her". I helped him by telling her this fact, and she took the initiative and they were to…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:46 PM
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The fact is that I've never seen good-looking incels. So, how a fancy haircut could compensate ugly traits like skinnyfat body, retruded chin or balled eyes?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:46 AM
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Most low N count guys don’t maintain low partner count because of some kind of golden halo of virtue, most the time its because he has no options with women to begin with. Ladies, if you really want to kill this double standard, why don’t you find yourself a nice male virgin to date? Because no girl wants to fuck with ugly guys. Because no boy wants to fuck with ugly girls. Killing double standard is nothing compared to have a proper orgasm fucking with good a looking person.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 10:18 PM
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