abettertake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	My boyfriend watches porn and is redpill You know as much as anyone else that you need to leave. There is nothing left for you to gain from staying. I know it's not simple, but you have to find whatever solutions you can to get out of there. Move back in with your family for a while, or where ever you can go. Just get away from him. The more time you spend with him, the more damage it will do to your own self esteem and your independence. I know you want the truth, you want to understand more, but in reality you already have the truth,…	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/26 06:03 PM
3	Thoughts on halo effect? I generally don't think about it. I don't know why anyone would.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/26 12:27 PM
2	How to move forward? So first things first: therapy. Otherwise, what's the point in spending more time worrying and fretting over the time that's passed? To just waste even more time? Get up and go and enjoy your life. Go get on with the things you didn't get on with before. Stop letting the past interfere with the future you want to have. You can't change what happened, but you can change what happens. I can reel off a bunch more cliches if you like but I think you get the point.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/26 10:45 AM
1	Orion Taraban / Tim Baltz - lookalike twins I pray nobody ever makes an Orion Taraban movie. Unless it's one exposing how everything he says is utter bullshit. That man could tell me the time and I still wouldn't believe him.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/26 11:13 AM
5	Should k quit self improvement ? need advice It really depends on what you mean by "self imprrovement". The reality is that most things that fall under "self improvement" won't actually increase your chances of finding a partner. A lot of it can be good for you in its own right, but it's likely you were already in a good enough place to find a partner a long time ago - even back when you thought you were "low value" - and you don't actually need to "improve" any more to find a relationship, you just need to go out there and actually meet p…	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/26 08:30 PM
2	Is there a divide in who you should date as to whether they’re red pill brainwashed or right winged and you’re left winged? You're not alone in this at all. Especially right now, there's a growing trend of men moving to the right while women move to the left, and the more each side moves, the more the other side moves. And yes, social media - especially through algorithms - are playing a huge role in this. What I've learned over the past years is that you can't change someone's mind unless you understand where their views are coming from; not just who/what is influencing them, but what emotions and/or struggles those…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/26 05:12 PM
26	Womendontlikemen subreddit In the wise words of Shannon L Alder: “Arguing with idiots is like playing chess with a pigeon. No matter how good you are, the bird is going to shit on the board and strut around like it won anyway.” Don't waste your time on a sub like that.	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/26 04:48 PM
2	What kind of support actually helped you get out? I can't talk about getting out, because I was never in. But I think what stopped me from ever getting in in the first place was that I had friends who were women. Like my social circle, right back as far as I can remember, has always been mixed genders. I didn't need some douchebag podcaster telling me what women like, because I knew women. And honestly I think that's the best thing anyone going down this road can do. Get yourself a diverse group of friends. Put yourself into social situations w…	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/26 08:45 PM
9	Deprogramming Yep! I'm glad you're getting to find that out. This is also true with feminists/feminism in general. They will cherrypick and misinterpret almost anything labelled as feminism to try and tell you that it's about bringing down men and destroying masculinity etc when in reality, feminism is actually very much about helping men live better lives just as much as it is about supporting women's rights.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/26 12:52 PM
2	It’s over complicated…most people pick their partner in simple ways based on proximity and frequency. That's basically it. Their stories about women "losing value" with age because men want to date younger women is bullshit. Most people typically want to date someone around the same age. I'm 36 and like maybe 30 is my bottom bracket. I can say it's the same for literally all of my friends, regardless of gender. All this crap about "value" in general is just nonsense. Obviously there are those people out there who think like that; the people who care so much about social status that they honestly…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/26 05:40 PM
5	Worried I will never get out of this With regards to cheating and the above links: If you want to know how common criminals are in society, don't survey a prison. I have no idea what the hell that "Inkyverse" subreddit is but a quick scan tells me it's toxic as fuck, so don't be surprised when you find plenty of toxic stories there. But just because those stories are there, doesn't mean they are representative of society as a whole. Yes, some women cheat. So do men. That doesn't mean that all, or even most women or men cheat. As yo…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/26 01:00 PM
2	Paul Elam's past Why would you care about any MRA person? Dodge those people like the plague. I have no idea who this guy is and I am certain I am much better for it.	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/26 12:46 PM