abhilives Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Best pickup line I ever used	Conversation	abhilives	/r/seduction	18/02/22 04:42 AM

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2	Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay?? Confidence	/r/seduction	19/06/23 02:32 PM
16	To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life? I got divorced at 31, and played the game for five years until i met the one, the girl I'm married to now. I can say it was a lot of fun, thrills and spills, played out like the first half of a fun comedy movie. I was trying to master seduction, so rejection didn't hurt, it kept me going. The thrill of uncertainty made it a lot of fun. I never had any negative impact mentally because i was closed off, but i did hurt a few along the way. I can say that if i had not gone on that journey, i would n…	/r/seduction	10/06/23 09:32 PM
0	How do I get past my limiting belief of age? 32 is a great age, you're sorted, your insecurities are largely dealt with and you will be reasonably economically stable. You will attract women from 20 onwards, you can take your pick. Try social events, art exhibitions, comic cons, book shops, cafes, or any place that caters to your hobby.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 03:06 PM
2	Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf? This happens a lot, so as you progress you will realise that you should finish the lay on the first date itself with peak attraction and peak chemistry. The morning after will begin with re evaluation of life choices and the drop out rate is surprisingly high especially once she realises that you're a player.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 02:45 PM
20	Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone? It's not like you're entering into a relationship, do the bang if she turns you on. If you rub one out you will never get out.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 07:44 AM
50	How to not get friendzoned by a girl? Express interest and escalate as quickly as you can. Same day, within the first 20 mins. That way, you get the answer quickly and won't waste too much time wondering if you will get friendzoned.	/r/seduction	02/10/22 06:41 PM
14	Sedditors from nine years ago or successful sedditors disappear after a few years? Why is this? Seduction is a phase that can last months or years. You will eventually meet someone who is special and you'll get bored of this lifestyle.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 11:28 AM
1	When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer? My answer typically was "watermelon sangria"	/r/seduction	09/07/22 10:08 AM
107	Am I a Sugar Daddy? This is a nice temporary relationship to have, she is the perfect side chick. You clearly know that she's not qualified for a long term real relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts	/r/seduction	04/07/22 12:13 PM
1	so i tried out peacocking I and a friend once wore party hats and walked into pubs. Half drunk women just came up and spoke to me for no reason. We made friends and got a few numbers and had a good time. The vibe i gave was that of a "fun person", easy to relate. I never did that again though, could not bring myself to do it fully sober xD	/r/seduction	29/06/22 02:24 AM
1	What backlash should I expect because of my relationship? 26-year-old male dating 19-year-old female. There is no norm that you should date someone your own age. Just look at history. That's a pile of bs that women who can't get dates after 40 propagate. Women always prefer guys who are a little older (sometimes much older) and it's totally ok. You'll get no backlash from anyone, just some angst from said older women and "lucky dude" comments from your male friends.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 03:49 AM
1	I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the year Do something fun for yourself, everyday. Girls are not that important, you don't need timelines. After talking to the first fifty, you'll know how to talk to women :-)	/r/seduction	22/06/22 06:59 PM
3	26, been on a dry spell almost 3 years. This year is half over already. I don't think my situation will change by year's end. First of all - your dating pool INCREASES as you get older. When you're 30 you have access to women from 20-30 and they all will be attracted to you. You're coming from scarcity. With that mindset you will get nothing. If you're not getting chicks, ask yourself this question - Are you having fun in your life? Are you excited with your life? If you are not, no amount of training will help you. Start having fun and be excited with whatever you do, and the chicks will come to you and you'll enjoy a…	/r/seduction	12/06/22 01:09 PM
1	How to know when to stop trying. The best connections happen quick -. Within the first 5 minutes, you hit it off, talking laughing forgetting the world around you. This happens maybe 3 times out of 100. But that's a shot worth taking, you never know what the person has to offer until you start talking to her. Hence, approaching without fear of outcome is the key. When you have cold connections which appear to require too much work, you just quit and move on. Don't waste time and energy.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 01:01 PM
1	Is playing guitar on the street to possibly meet women a stupid idea? You don't want them to think you're there just for the chicks, do ya. You need the excuse of a 'purpose'	/r/seduction	11/04/22 03:55 PM
1	Is playing guitar on the street to possibly meet women a stupid idea? Great idea if you're using an excuse Eg : Playing for charity / Playing for ukraine / playing my dying friend's guitar / anything Mention it on a placard so people don't confuse you with a homeless person. Guitar is one of the dumbest and easiest way to get chicks.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 07:42 AM
6	How do rich dudes get women at a large scale? Is this even a question? If you're rich and showing it, chicks will flock to you like flies to a light.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 07:38 AM
0	Anyone else feel like getting laid is such an important part of life as a guy? It's a phase you need to go through. For like five years, all i thought about and worked for was to get laid. Then you reach a point where you say ok, that was fun! Let's try some other stuff.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 04:44 AM
1	Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar? Can happen, has happened, but only a couple of times. No friend will ever let the girl go home with you. I'm talking about India, and it is almost impossible here for a same day lay from the club.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 07:14 AM
4	How to stop being a nice guy and learn to escalate? Meet women outside your social circles. I.e. bars and dating apps. Go to a bar and sit at the bar, not at the table facing each other. Build a connection, be relaxed, aloof, and listen to her, and put your arm around her. If you've gotten this far, the next steps will flow naturally. Escalation is natural and simple biology. Society has conditioned us to control our natural expression. The alcohol (just a drink or two) should help you overcome this. Also remember that this is not the only time y…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 09:04 PM
25	As a male, you MUST move out "A real man lives on his own" is a juicy myth that modern day women worship. I was perfectly happy to live with my parents during my hunting days. I'm the only child and they needed some taking care of. I however just told these women that i lived alone, and i had a condo to take them to. My uncle had a house which i had to take care of. That's where i used to have my encounters while i continued to live with my folks 😂 You don't need to confirm to norms just to get laid. Since these relationshi…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 09:00 AM
2	Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate? Start with the arm around the waist. Things will fall in place naturally.	/r/seduction	13/12/21 07:53 AM
1	Girl who is super out of my league wants to keep seeing me and I have no idea why. Feeling pretty intimidated. Would appreciate some advice on how to proceed. The problem here is that you don't like you as much as you should. She likes you because she sees something special. You don't see it yourself. You have conditioned yourself to believe that you're some sort of a loser. It's all in your head. Please free yourself from your own confines and live free	/r/seduction	13/11/21 07:53 AM
1	How to view women as people? DO NOT practice game in your own social circles. Example your friends wedding where you hit on chicks. It will hurt your social circle. You have to view them as people there. You can view them as at targets in dating apps and in bars and clubs where you are there exclusively for the hunt.	/r/seduction	09/11/21 10:17 AM
31	As a guy how do you build up sexual tension with a girl? I have a set plan which has worked 90% of the time. Take her to a place with a view, and ensure you sit NEXT to her and not across her Listen more, talk less. Will seem like she's auditioning and not you Disagree with her or neutrally agree. Never emphatically agree with her. Speak slowly, use your deepest chest voice. Get close physically. Gradually. You will know how to navigate this as you gain more experience. Throw in some palm reading. They all know it's a pile of horse shit but they'll pl…	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:01 AM
2	Game in India, what has your experience been like? Start by asking girls the time. Or just introduce yourself, see where things go. Do not be attached to the outcome. Just enjoy the game for adventure, and you'll be fine. Ensure you you your best and smell great, and stand straight and confident.	/r/seduction	17/11/19 03:55 AM
2	Game in India, what has your experience been like? Interesting question. First of all, there is NO game in India. Girls hardly get approached and some of those pretty ones go through their entire lives never having been approached. This puts you in a position of advantage as you have almost zero competition. Girls do not expect you to talk to them. You can shock them and take them down. Don't expect same day lays, particularly when you're cold approaching. Not impossible, but not easy. But you could get a phone number or a make out and then take…	/r/seduction	17/11/19 03:45 AM