abicrais Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Dating for men is a race to the bottom You're weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 12:15 AM
5	Dating for men is a race to the bottom Women are not beholden to be in relationships with men they don't desire. That's been the case in the past before women could reach financial security on an individual level. But to want to be in a good relationship is a HUMAN thing, and both men and women are human believe it or not. Many women are choosing to be single at a higher rate than ever, and they seem pretty happy. Men who want to stay single are happy too, so what's the big deal? That a perceived unequal ratio of single women who may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 12:14 AM
–	You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degree Yeah I'd much rather associate with men on a personal basis to get to know them as individuals and people, not because I'm looking for them to fulfill some kind of utilitarian role in my life. Men can be wonderful friends, colleagues, teammates, and partners but it gets to be a hassle when it seems like the only things they value in themselves are their ability to bring sperm or money to the table?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 03:00 PM
–	You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degree only the women who breadwin or make their own money are truly equal A woman's value to a man bar none is increasing as time goes on and a man's value to a woman is decreasing. We can make our own money, we don't need to be tied to a man to own property or achieve anything. Unmarried, childless women are year after year the happiest demographic in 1st world countries and unmarried childless men are the unhappiest and live to reach a significantly shorter age than married men. We don't need men as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 02:31 PM
4	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. women don't want to be bothered, leaving almost everything up to chance encounters and organic interactions. Well, yeah. Most women are more comfortable with organic interactions. You know you can just talk to us like we're people, right? I don't want to assume that you're the kind of person who would only talk to women for the purpose of pursuing us...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 06:20 PM
9	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. women don't want to be bothered, leaving almost everything up to chance encounters and organic interactions. Well, yeah. Most women are more comfortable with organic interactions. You know you can just talk to us like we're people, right? I don't want to assume that you're the kind of person who would only talk to women for the purpose of pursuing us...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 06:19 PM
-3	How is using "the best interest of the child" to force a man who DNA shows is not the father, to continue paying support, any different than just pairing any random man with supporting any random child? It would be just as much in the interest of that child wouldn't it? I also want to see where this is coming from. I've never heard of it. Is this a thing?	/r/MensRights	11/04/23 11:56 PM
1	Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich? Are you a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 11:11 PM
0	Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich? Woman here. Like the majority of the other women who have replied- money is not a turn on. The men disagreeing with us- why? We're just giving honest answers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 11:10 PM
1	New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual dates Too much female energy? Where's the science for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 06:47 PM
-2	Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”? We're you raised male or female? I wasn't even raised Evangelical or catholic- I was Lutheran and I still had many a 'women's lesson' with the other young women in the congregation about how the most important job is being a mother and wife that gives everything to her husband.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 04:52 PM
-17	Why is it okay to teach a man “how to treat a woman”, but not to teach a woman “how to treat a man”? Clearly no one here was raised in a Christian community. Molding women into submissive and obedient baby incubators is what they're the best at. Literally go pick up a Christian chick, they expect nothing from their partner lol.	/r/MensRights	23/05/22 12:19 AM
-3	Astrophysicist in SI swimsuit edition - Remember when it was sexist to objectify women who just want to be taken seriously in their careers? Not anymore ... I guess? I agree with your first point about objectification, but I'm a little uneasy about your second point. Astrophysics is mostly associated with men, isn't it? I don't think that assumption is going to change because one or two women in the field are glorified.	/r/MensRights	20/05/22 03:48 AM
0	Astrophysicist in SI swimsuit edition - Remember when it was sexist to objectify women who just want to be taken seriously in their careers? Not anymore ... I guess? Why can't a sexy woman be taken seriously?	/r/MensRights	20/05/22 03:39 AM
1	Are men really pressured to repress emotions in order to appear strong? So we can agree that most men are able to feel their emotions, but are socially conditioned not to express them in the same way women do.	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 04:53 PM
1	Are men really pressured to repress emotions in order to appear strong? Oh I'm sure there are men who are the same, otherwise a character like Harley Quinn wouldn't be able to retain her popularity. The psycho trope is more prevalent in media for women audiences like erotic books and so on because of the ages old story of beauty and the beast. The message is that even a man who is psychotic or monstrous could fall so deeply in love with a woman that he changes his ways starting with her as an exception. It makes sense this would be popular if (according to evolution…	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 04:52 PM
1	Are men really pressured to repress emotions in order to appear strong? I took stoicism to mean complete apathy	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 05:39 AM
0	Are men really pressured to repress emotions in order to appear strong? Wait you're saying that is seems like you feel nothing to other people? Otherwise it would be paradoxical to have a heart beating out of your chest yet feel nothing.	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 05:39 AM
0	Are men really pressured to repress emotions in order to appear strong? Unless you have schizoid personality disorder I don't think people are naturally inclined to stoicism. We have fully functional frontal lobes, don't we?	/r/MensRights	14/05/22 07:33 PM
3	"Women attempt more, but men use deadlier methods when attempting suicide" Right, because women are more likely to use less deadly methods. Women are socialized to be more open to expressing their feelings and receiving empathy, which is a result of the "wonderful woman" stereotype and lack of social acceptance for men who struggle emotionally. :/ Sucks.	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 11:28 PM
2	"Women attempt more, but men use deadlier methods when attempting suicide" Why is attempt in quotations	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 11:21 PM
3	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? That depends on what you view as the utility of marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 04:22 AM
-3	Women may pay the price for finally closing the gender pay gap There are a shocking amount of people here that don't believe the gender pay gap ever existed. Yes, more women are getting educated and are being paid more but that should be a net win for any society to have a more wealthy and educated citizenry. This whole upset seems to be rooted in that men feel that they aren't able to meet the expectations of child-wanting women, but if anything it's become harder and more expensive than ever for anyone to raise a child. I don't see why it's an issue for w…	/r/MensRights	18/04/22 08:36 PM
1	What would the feminists do during war? Correct me if I'm wrong but I figured that the male-centric nature of military drafts is also a "patriarchal" machination? I agree it's silly of feminists to deny participation in military drafts and I think we shouldn't have to have drafts in general (an IDF-like system would be ideal) but I thought that it was mainly because of the stereotyping of men as the "stronger, harder-working, disciplined, more aggressive sex" that led to more countries drafting men over women. I'm not totally familiar…	/r/MensRights	24/02/22 03:57 PM
4	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. This is a good take. Diving further though, is there a larger proportion of women socialized to act childish than men? I'm thinking yes, but I wonder why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 05:02 AM
3	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. I like to be hopeful and think that most men don't want to hurt women physically. Nonetheless, most men have the physical capability to do so and it's something that happens because of that power imbalance. I dunno about the stats about emotional wreckage. I think if it's true then maybe it's because of the emotional socialization most men receive in their upbringing that lead them to have a hard time coming to terms with their own emotions and vulnerabilities. F in the chat for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:57 AM
2	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Ahhh, I see. The double-standard on part of the woman. Well... At least for when she rejects an innocuous guy for coffee it's probably just because she isn't attracted to him. As for going out with red-flag men? Dunno. Could be looks, could be something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:54 AM
6	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Somehow I understood what you mean haha. Guys can act differently towards someone they're pursuing, yeah. But I think that goes for both men and women. Well, on second thought maybe moreso men because they're expected to make the first move?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:51 AM
2	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Hope your dad gets left alone by scammers. Though, I wonder if it's only that men are expected to be seen as more crafty and manipulative than women in a dating environment? Haven't you also known manipulative women? But other women in men's lives aren't going out of their way to protect the men that associate with her. Idk	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:48 AM
4	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. A catch-22, I won't disagree	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:44 AM
7	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. I like this point. I think it has to do with the portrayal of attractive male behavior in media. I'm sure you've heard of or seen the over-romanticisation of fictional bad-boys and social pariahs. Not sure what causes this, because we kind of know that irl those behaviors are red flags. Hm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:43 AM
3	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Hey, bingo. Do you think it's an inherent quality to men that makes them better at judging the character of other people? I thought the trustworthiness-to-attraction ratio was the same for men and women in general? Not to say that it isn't true that women can overlook 'creep' behavior when they see a conventionally hot guy, but I'm more concerned about women being perceived as less apt at navigating social situations/judging people. Doesn't that sound wrong somehow? I thought women were the soci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:39 AM
8	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Yeah, see, but I dislike the premise of any adult having their adult colleges and romantic interests assuming they aren't capable of making decisions. I'm not anywhere near an expert on this kind of sociology, and I barely have education on evolutionary psychology but I don't know where it all comes from in the first place. Is it the media or porn that portrays women as wanting to be submissive/ portrayed as adolescent that gives men and women an idea of what women ought to act like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:34 AM
3	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Are they right about those men you chose or not? There's more than one reason women associate with men, many of them fickle like for attention. Just because they're right that a guy isn't "long-term material" doesn't mean a woman loses her reason for wanting to associate with them completely. Eventually it sinks in that women don't want men's protection and we walk away. I run the risk of sounding "DonT hOLd the DoOr fOr uS BecAusE we aRenT hELpLess" -esque when I assume some grown women aren't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:30 AM
44	Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones. Hot take but as a woman I'm getting tired of the notion that women are incapable of making the choices that are best for them. That when we talk to 'sketchy' men we're the naive ones who 'need to be protected' by the well-doing men in our lives. Of course we get fooled by some. Of course we get hung up on who to trust. We're human. As far as I'm concerned so is everyone else. Men get duped too but there's not nearly the same preoccupation with who they chose to trust. Maybe that's because women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 01:47 AM
3	How do I get out of rock bottom? I agree with every part save for talking to random people at a mall...	/r/seduction	03/03/21 12:40 AM
5	How do I get out of rock bottom? I am lazy or procrastinate a lot. How do I stop this? Simply enough, make changes that you're willing to adhere to. For example, if you're making changes to your diet I'd suggest not to force yourself to change to things you don't like or can't sustain. I see some folks make the mistake of elaborate diet changes that revolve around complicated superfood meals that require a ton of prep or ingredients uncommon to most grocery stores. They exasperate themselves over the hassle and quit altogether …	/r/seduction	03/03/21 12:38 AM
12	How do I get out of rock bottom? The majority of comments prioritize working on one's looks before all else, and sure it helps increase confidence but it takes time and is hard enough that without immediate results it can seem futile and easily be quit. I also agree with momasss in that you should take the time to talk to women. You seem genuine in your desire to improve and I think this is a great way to brighten your outlook. As they've also mentioned, getting a job or simply finding a routine is also a good way to begin to s…	/r/seduction	03/03/21 12:20 AM