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| 5 | (Ex) wife separated from 1 year old. How do you deal with?My friend you are your own island. The only way you are affected by your ex happiness is if your thought process is in her island. Wake up tomorrow and conquer you! Everything starts with you! Stay consistent in your daughter life (even if it’s virtual)…you have a choice , remember that your daily practice = your life ! You want to get back at everyone, be the best version of you ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/24 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Spent $40K on defending in mediation back and forth. Finally went to court and her motion was dismissed in less than 1 hour.The reality is the client always loses because you are all caught up on the emotional BS. Child support is scaled , community property and spousal support . The only thing worth litigating is custody issues, community property differences (when it makes sense), and term of alimony. Most people end with the same judgement they would have had on day 1… you spend a ton of money on mediation to get no where, discovery (to discover things u both already know)… such B S right ? Best of luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/24 08:48 AM |
| 3 | I Can’t Stop Crying TodayMy brother the reality is the more you cry the more she runs. Woman are not as sympathetic as us men. The worse thing u can ever do is cry and kiss ass. If she’s treating you different she is either banging someone else or has an issue with you. Silence is power, so if u want a chance u need to be a big boy and give yourself the self respect you deserve | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 05:53 AM |
| 6 | My family says I should stay, but I want a divorceI’m a family law attorney and no one should sacrifice their life to be with someone they don’t want to be with. People stay together for the children or what friends and family may think. Have the cojones to do what u want to do. Ultimately you will be a better father , a better friend, and more important will be happy. There is no price to happiness | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/24 05:50 AM |
| 18 | Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation todayA word of advice, I have never been cheated on (or at least I’ve never found out)! If a woman cheats on you once, and is forgiven you are doomed. When a woman cheats 90 percent of the time she enjoys the emotional bang with who’s she’s cheating with ,and she will continue cheating on you for as long as you are together. The nice guy always loses. Glad you check mate her. Move on and remember, like in business the nice guy always loses. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 06:33 AM |
| 13 | No more Mr nice guyIf I can give you one piece of advice is that the nice guy always loses. The game never changes… this applies to relationship, business, and life in general. This has nothing with being respectful, a great father, a great family man , and so on…. The nice guy in all other endeavors always ends up in 2nd place. All my friends that have had successful marriages (including me) play by the same rule! The bad boy always wins | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 06:23 AM |
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