abnormal_flora Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	What is the right and healthy mindset to adopt if you’ve never had success with women before? I came here to say, just focus on you! So I love that every sentence starts with "you". Develop and dive into your interests and hobbies. If your confidence is tied to how you looks, then take time to work on yourself. You are the only one you can control. I feel like doing those things, will make a woman want to be part of your life. It just straight up feels sexier if I'm interested and chasing, rather than some guy encroaching my space. I'm not saying that you guys should never approach women…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:34 PM
3	Does smoking weed get you laid? Very true. When I was younger, before I had kids, I smoked all day every day. I started when I was 16 or 17. Then, when I was 24, I got pregnant. I had to stop for the first time since I started. It really gave me perspective and I finally saw the benefits of keeping a good balance. I don't smoke before work, I don't smoke then drive, I don't do it before any obligations having to do with my children. I feel like I use it for my mental health. My job is so high pressure, I can't find another way…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 07:43 PM
3	Does smoking weed get you laid? Woman and weed smoker for around about 20 years give or take some because I quit for various reasons over the years (for jobs, pregnant) if I'm about to be dating someone I feel the need to put it out there so they know. Some guys are just against drugs in general, which is totally their right. But I need to know that it will be okay and accepted in whatever relationship I may be entering. Also, I would never depend or expect someone else to buy it for me. I don't like to run out and I get quali…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 06:22 PM
5	So I like this girl, and we've been flirting a little, and im seeking advice on the best way to ask her. Nah, I don't think she'll think you've just wanted to friend her to get in her pants all along, as the other commenter said. I wouldn't anyway. After 4 years, I definitely wouldn't think that. Even if you had done that, it shows dedication so maybe points anyway. Anyway, I would say "Hey do you ever wonder if we'd make a good couple? I can't seem to get it off my mind lately, and just thought I would put the feelers out to see how you might feel about it. No pressure obviously because you're a g…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 06:01 PM
3	Confusion Oh, well then, what a bitch. I mean she has the right to not be interested, but it is shitty af to out you on IG. Good riddance, I say.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:54 PM
1	Confusion Was she in the middle of exercising when you approached her? If so, some people just don't want to be interrupted and find it annoying. As if this person felt so self-important, as if they are giving me the pleasure of knowing them, they thought it was okay to stop me from what I am doing? Do you think you'll never see her at the gym again? If so, I can see maybe just going ahead and shooting your shot. If you've seen her before and think you'll see her again, I think it should be built up over …	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:50 PM
1	i have been rejected by every girl I've asked out The robot brains joke is not too weird. I thought it was somewhat humorous. I mean it's not a knee slapper, but I couldn't see someone disliking you over it. Same with the cigarette in the hat. Now, the drive by joke and dark jokes about death, I think those types of jokes should be held back. At least in any early meetings with a chick. Edit: Some girls are literally too shallow to understand more sophisticated jokes. Agree with user above. When in doubt, keep it simple!	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:11 PM
1	i have been rejected by every girl I've asked out I would always work based on the assumption that she's not, but you should still know that you can change that. Since no one here can help you pinpoint what exactly is going on, I agree with a user above who said to make notes after your experience. How the conversation was started, what was said, etc. then try and find the common denominator in the encounters. The crappy thing is, you really shouldn't have to hide parts of yourself to find a meaningful relationship. I mean, if you're just tryin…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:03 PM
1	i have been rejected by every girl I've asked out I'll say, personally, if a dude I didn't know walked up to me and starts out with "You're cute, let's swap info" I probably wouldn't swap info and when he walks away, I'd give my homies the crazy eyes and be like "Da fuuuuq?" It gives off this air that 'clearly the female should be interested in me, I'll go interrupt whatever she's doing to give her the pleasure of knowing me' You may not feel that way, by any means. But like you said, perception is reality, and you can't know what perception a …	/r/seduction	14/06/22 12:20 PM
1	i have been rejected by every girl I've asked out Female perspective here. I'm just gonna be straight up. After reading this whole thread you seem a little boastful or overconfident compared to what you actually have to offer. I mean, you came here, asked for opinions and have literally shot down every suggestion. Everyone has pretty good ideas from different angles. None of those things could be your problem? Really? Not even one? I mean, from the way you describe yourself, you're flawless. So, it must just be the way the planets are aligned a…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 12:28 AM