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Promote men in these positions, When we wanted more Women in stem we set up bursaries and scholarships to make it easier for women to get into positions that we thought society would benefit for them to be in. Children without good male role models do worse and if we had as many programs to get men into education specifically primary and early years there would be a massive positive impact for the kids and the men. Stepping up without any support is hard, a man walks into a baseball team or scou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:15 PM
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Is that a point that voting was for the longest time unequal based off of wealth and class more so than gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:37 PM
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I would add Warren Farrel to this list
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 08:18 PM
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if you have 100 people with 100 matches and 100 people with 0 matches not everybody with matches is going to find a happy relationship from the app but thats better than all 0 people in the other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:08 AM
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There is but it's unbelievably hard to attain let alone maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:34 PM
3

It's not about escalation, it's about feeling like people assume that you are dangerous or they "wouldn't wanna bump into you in a dark alley" The second point works great for you but knowing that if I have kids and are taking them out, y'know like a parent does I'm liable for some shady looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:31 AM
11

Do you think that being automatically feared is a negative as well? Seeing someone at night and knowing they probably assume you are a threat to them? Doubly so if you are ever around kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:45 AM
2

This feels like justification for being a dick. Almost like when people went around harassing people recording it and using the "it's just a prank bro" as a get out of jail free card. Trying to "see how sturdy a man's psyche is" is a weak justification for just being unpleasant to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:52 PM
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this is the best response
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:41 PM
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I don't agree with them nor claim to understand why they think what they do, just using them to make a point that people can believe in plenty that isn't logical or appear reasonable
/r/MensRights26/09/21 07:03 PM
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You should go check out r/antinatalism if you wanna see people who are born hating the idea of being born, people believe some wack shit that doesn't make any sense
/r/MensRights26/09/21 06:49 PM
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Exactly, fancy your 1 in 9 chances to make it through?
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/21 01:58 PM
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the Wikipedia article also indicates that I believe
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/21 01:57 PM
70

2.4 kids is joke that refers to the "ideal life" that people envisage, usually something like a wife (or husband) house in the suburbs 2.4 kids and years vacations
/r/MensRights24/08/21 12:29 PM
6

you have to be crooked to be competent in a crooked game but you aren't wrong
/r/MensRights23/08/21 11:50 AM
9

Potentially yea but the whole women and children first mentality is what I think we are criticising
/r/MensRights17/08/21 01:58 PM
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It's not a dig at them it's at the gov for not allowing men
/r/MensRights17/08/21 11:29 AM
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I think this post is less aimed at the morals of the taliban and more the people who try to justify policy to only evacuate women and children because "men don't suffer under the taliban"
/r/MensRights16/08/21 06:55 PM
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It was about sending a message
/r/AntiFeminists07/08/21 11:53 AM
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Go on then
/r/MensRights05/08/21 07:37 PM
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and the kid can be totally chill they aint always gunna be kicking and screaming, I also love how the the officer was helping the guy (dad?) find his kid really good ad
/r/AntiFeminists02/08/21 11:56 AM
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Ah yes the option to fucking starve, no coercion here
/r/MensRights15/07/21 06:04 PM
3

Can't say I'm an activist not having done anything but if I'd like to think is join a march or something if I stumbled across one
/r/MensRights03/07/21 06:42 PM
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Legit im British lmao I just wanna see the answers
/r/MensRights25/06/21 05:04 PM
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Somehow changing diapers and working 10 hour days to buy those diapers arent both caring for your child
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/21 09:20 PM
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This reminds me of another story several months ago about some guy who went back into a burning building or something to that effect to save someone else and died in the process. Social media painted him as a hero, which they should, and then added that he was a real man, nice message to send that the standard for a real man is ultimate sacrifice.
/r/MensRights15/06/21 11:20 AM
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But men also are physically stronger and more capable of engaging in sex against the will of a woman, than the reverse. Which means that - if a woman gets too pushy with a man while she is drunk and he doesn't want to have sex with her, it's far less likely he'll be harmed in any way, as opposed to the opposite situation. Obviously this doesn't apply to all men and all women, and it should be considered on a case by case basis, but ultimately sexual assault while under the influence is always go…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/21 10:55 PM
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If anything we can look at how the impacts of motherlessness are being mitigated to lay out ways to combat fatherlessness
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/21 05:35 PM
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Appreciate the honesty
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:22 PM
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It's infantifilising you don't hold children fully accountable for their actions because they aren't fully independent and therefore some of the blame is shifted to their parent or guardian or whatever, similar here with women in courts
/r/MensRights31/05/21 12:26 PM
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There is other stuff like mens groups, stuff like Men's sheds, being able to talk and be more connected socially but year counselling and therapy are pretty good but expensive
/r/MensRights30/05/21 08:44 PM
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There was a study but it had rape and cat calling in the same category so they called everything sexual assault
/r/MensRights26/05/21 03:11 PM
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I think you are missing the point, let's say comfortable instead of excited and it might make more sense
/r/MensRights25/05/21 07:47 PM
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A black man in a group of white people is excited a white man in a group of black people is scared Who sounds like the bad guy now?
/r/MensRights25/05/21 07:15 PM
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You could draw the same parallel to other crimes, how many people who got robbed / burglarized and how many burglars / muggers do you know. It's far more a criminal victim thing than a men women thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 11:16 PM
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I've seen these being played on screens in my gym and it pisses me off to no end. As a young muslim man its funny how when Donald trump was saying the same shit about people like me 4 years ago he was a monster and a racist and all that, and now its the same rhetoric aimed at me for my gender and its perfectly reasonable.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 04:20 PM
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I don't disagree with the statistics, what I am saying is that given the disparity between attempts and and actual suicides I would assume there is some underrepresenting in the statistics potentially due to stigma around talking about mental health for men.
/r/MensRights01/05/21 06:12 PM
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its debatable, more women than men are recorded to have committed suicide but given the whole situation with men and talking about shit I don't doubt that number is at at least even if not more men
/r/MensRights01/05/21 06:07 PM
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Yea, I have no issue with people being on steroids for movies or bodybuilding or whatever, but its just that so many mostly young men don't know and think that the reason they don't look like arnold is cause they skipped gym that one time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:34 PM
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Yes lets treat women like animals I feel like this is getting cyclical
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/21 09:25 PM
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Clothes that you (a man) are wearing
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/21 02:04 PM
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I don't have an issue with having a gun, I have an issue with shooting someone who is counter protesting you
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:10 PM
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If they brought and were using guns to promote something I think they were spreading something worth protesting
/r/MensRights12/02/21 09:04 PM
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Thing is, Black/White/Mexican, Men will always been seen as more dangerous
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/21 11:14 PM
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Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:23 PM
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As a Brit I have never been so offended by something I 100% agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:20 PM
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Lmao are you pulling this out of your ass gay relationships have the least DV out of any
/r/MensRights01/01/21 04:48 PM
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" I’m a solo parenting at the moment, tbf husband a key worker and flat out but as per usual, it’s women who take the brunt. Currently have four jobs - home schooling, keeping house clean, trying to work and making a sandwich mountain each day! " Damn working full time when doing so is a major health risk but hes obviously not bearing the brunt
/r/MensRights27/12/20 09:31 PM
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Idk apparently at least half of Hollywood see it get way as she hasn't been fired yet but luckily yes the public are overwhelming done with her shit
/r/MensRights24/12/20 02:04 PM
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r/nottheonion
/r/MensRights23/12/20 01:58 PM
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just like the backlash against the study about female v male mentorship
/r/MensRights23/12/20 01:48 PM
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The second part of that is massive, its not that the streamers are predatory its that people dont have healthy ways to address their issues and end doing weird shit like simping and the real issues dont get addressed. Id recommend Dr.K for some pretty good takes on this kinda shit
/r/MensRights18/12/20 02:07 AM
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top 10 tricks and tips on how to violence domestically
/r/AntiFeminists16/12/20 07:36 PM
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Lmao that's perfect
/r/MensRights15/12/20 01:03 PM
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Yea stuff like drug possession should be decriminalised which is what most people think of when they hear non violent not the other stuff
/r/MensRights14/12/20 10:00 PM
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35% of 10% of the prison population is less than 19% of 90% of the prison population More men are arrested for drug crimes than women, it's just twisted stats
/r/MensRights14/12/20 09:59 PM
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Evidently the being a man was a big criteria too
/r/MensRights12/12/20 11:01 AM
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Female or gender neutral, thats a fun way of saying not a man
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/20 12:19 PM
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No its really not how they work, it would be like sending a victim of violence to a prison and expecting them to have the facilities to help them. They focus on making men less violent, not helping men who are victims of violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/20 12:17 PM
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its been out for 10 years
/r/MensRights30/11/20 06:20 PM
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What he did yes, the media setting that as a standard to live up to, no thats fucked
/r/MensRights28/11/20 06:37 PM
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Are you serious? To be a real man you have to devalue your life?
/r/MensRights28/11/20 06:25 PM
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It's not what he did he is undoubtedly a hero, it's about the two words "real man" sending a message to young men being a real man you have to sacrifice yourself. It reinforces a toxic message that to be of value as a man you have to work yourself to ill health or an early grave or go die in war. I'd recommend the book "the boy crisis" where it talks a lot about social bribes that boys encounter than encourage them to act in ways that sacrifice their health in the pursuit of heroism.
/r/MensRights28/11/20 05:03 PM
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Ty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/20 04:34 PM
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Anyone understand the #orangetheworld?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/20 02:51 PM
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yea, just like some people need their appendix out IF it causes issues, but you don't operate on newborns for something that COULD be an issue
/r/MensRights17/11/20 07:43 PM
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Some dudes wife died cause the village was too far away from a hospital, madlad dug a tunnel through a mountain for something like 30 years so it would never happen again.
/r/MGTOW214/11/20 01:20 PM
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They are making a point of being an advocate of women's liberation while supporting institutions that oppress their workers including women, and that double standard is the focal point. Its like if Greta Thunberg was found to be dumping metric tonnes of plastic into the ocean, loads of fishing companies do the same but the double standard of calling for the improvement of a social issue while supporting the perpetuation of said issue is the point.
/r/MensRights14/11/20 12:54 PM
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is she using sweatshop labour or not? title seems fairly to the point
/r/MensRights14/11/20 10:23 AM
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Give it a go I guess
/r/MensRights05/11/20 01:50 AM
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Yea courts being biased it's particularly surprising anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 09:47 PM
1

I agree its not as simple as do the opposite of what they do, but its more countering the good people bad people narrative and that you have the potential to become anything bad you see in others and being aware of that is the best way to prevent it. I agree you mostly orient yourself by positive values you try to emulate rather that negatives you avoid but both are valuable.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 06:20 PM
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Yea I don't think its a good thing, and its definitely more prominent in certain groups, race, religion, political groups etc
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:52 PM
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Yea, its probably referring to a phenomena of men more willing to mentor other men, like literally every group has ingroup bias towards their own and would be more comfortable doing so in most situations. But again, not required to be otherwise
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:39 PM
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Yea in all fairness that does make a lot of sense, good luck with to your brother with raising the lil man
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:31 PM
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It can be the duty of a senior member of staff to mentor all new hires but I would think that would be less enforced by managers as would be a social custom that would be sorted out between individuals. I agree that it isn't purely on the shoulders of the senior staff to have to mentor them and it's as encubent on the newer hires to seek out mentorship themself not have it delivered to them
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:22 PM
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Hmm, I suppose that could work but if I were in that situation is probably try something else but I don't really see anything wrong with that approach per se
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:20 PM
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That is a fair point, my point was to illustrate that the "evidence" they were convicted on is not thrown out even if it's obviously not bulletproof given that the sentence is later overturned by ether confession or by additional evidence as you mentioned
/r/MensRights30/10/20 03:21 PM
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Fair I wouldn't call it womansaplaining just completely disregarding the lived experience and wellbeing of an entire gender due to your own unwillingness to empathise
/r/MensRights30/10/20 03:10 PM
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Its a fairly normal way of socialising kids, and if it doesn't work there are other consequences than biting them back. if they don't listen to reason, as a young child like you mentioned might not, if they bite you, you don't play with them for a bit, they can't watch the TV or whatever they want to do. Pretty simple to illustrate that if they do that they get reprimanded and then things they don't like (that dont have to be biting) happen. Kids are fairly smart and by 3-4 years old they can un…
/r/MensRights30/10/20 03:03 PM
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It could be in response to, if you have a male and female new hire that the male may receive more mentorship due to the above issues however, if its not in anyone's job description to spend x hours mentoring new hires its down to the new hires to reach out to higher ups to ask for mentorship in a manner that the senior staff would be happy and comfortable to do so. And in terms of cost benefit, it could be more of a "nice" thing to do to make friends with newer hires and help them out which migh…
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:59 PM
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Equal rights for women. Lovely little contradiction
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:56 PM
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What are they explaining in the condescending manner in this case? That the threat of allegations is minor?
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:56 PM
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Teach women not to make false allegations, But on a serious note, maybe talk to the women you work with about your concerns and lean on the literature and court history that causes this fear to make them understand that you are willing to work with and help them but you might want it to be more in groups or public areas where you feel safe from allegation compared to with another guy you would not feel the need to take such precautions. I daresay most people would be reasonable enough to accommo…
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:55 PM
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There have been so many instances of false allegations leading to incarcerations with the accused being released after several years after a confession it was all a lie so I can't imagine courts are doing a great job of throwing out false evidence.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:53 PM
9

Its fucking horrifying that I genuinely feel that I need a body cam or someone to witness the fact that i'm not doing anything wrong to stop myself being accused of something I didn't do. Would love it if to not be accused of something I could just not do it.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:50 PM
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I'm not sure how well that would hold up in a courtroom boss. Maybe try to explain how they would feel if someone bit them as opposed to just chowing down?
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:49 PM
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Good iea.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:48 PM
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Because at one point they were an infant, much like you were an infant, and now they think in this way which to you seems insanely distorted. Don't be so sure you aren't infallible and that if circumstances were different you wouldn't be the one thinking like that. Understanding how these people think is critical to not ending up the same way.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:47 PM
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Nice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/20 12:14 PM
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the notion of gender equality "for women" is such a horrendous paradox
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/20 12:32 PM
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It's rather hopeful that the comments offer some sort of pushback and assertion that the quote is fucking stupid.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/20 10:32 AM
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Especially in younger years there is often negative feedback from parents like they can't comprehend that a man would want to spend his time taking care of 5 year olds without some backwards malignant ulterior motive.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 01:44 PM
1

That's a completely fair point of view, just because there should be a balance doesn't mean it has to be manually forced with quotas
/r/MensRights20/10/20 01:42 PM
1

Factz
/r/MensRights20/10/20 01:42 PM
1

Obviously the best fix is it being easier for men to flourish in teaching or modelling movements like "Men in education" like Women in stem or Women in business but how well that would work is dubious.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 01:41 PM
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I think this is the one situation where quotas are justifiable. Having enough male and female engineers has no impact on engineering output But male teachers have been shown to reverse some of the negative impacts of fatherlessness in young boys so have male teachers in early education can actually have a significant positive on the students as opposed to a completely female staff with the same teaching ability. However, making the environment more encouraging and less hostile for men would be b…
/r/MensRights19/10/20 02:46 PM
1

faaaaaaaaaaaaaacts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:29 PM
2

He advice seems very focused on, If every single individual does x y and z to help themselves improve then the group comprised of those individuals will be much better of rather than focusing on systematic change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/20 02:41 PM
2

I really liked his book and found it fairly helpful. As a religious person his lectures on the biblical stories and how they metaphorically signify the greatest aspect of humanity and some of nature was really interesting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/20 02:40 PM
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At least within universities there are still scholarships and programs that are woman only or woman are favoured to enter to "fix the gender gap" that has already gone in the other way which serves to exacerbate the issue. Making applications truly blind so no gender has an advantage over the other might be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:11 AM
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Yea she will totally do that, Adulterers have such strong moral compasses
/r/MensRights16/10/20 03:51 PM
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Ah yes my hatred has rational reasons cause I am always the victim and your hatred is cause you are incel. Revolutionary
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/20 10:27 PM
2

Can't link to anything but I've read some stuff, not trying to prove anything but you can imagine that there are some people at the extreme who are deranged enough to believe it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:33 PM
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It's been supported legally, I.e. much lower criminal repercussions for the rape itself and then a judge signing off on the child support
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:12 PM
6

Some incels do but they reading their shit makes you question their sanity but most reasonable people agree there are real causes of male suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:11 PM
2

Jeans and a t shirt that fit properly but generally yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:01 AM
3

disagree, going from dressing without any thought and going to a decent level of care with how you dress makes a massive difference, ​ After that and getting super into it and going for really expensive brands and such is less important
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:20 PM
7

Generally when 16 is the age of consent that's for intercourse between two people who are between 16-18 not between 16 and a 40 yr old
/r/MensRights29/09/20 11:41 AM
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As much as it should be applying to both sides this is some of the most reasonable shit FDS has come out for, I mean we shouldn't be surprised a subreddit that straight bans men is only talking to women.
/r/AntiFeminists17/09/20 10:49 PM
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"show your emotions" "wait fuck no not like that psycho"
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/20 04:51 PM
62

wow you might have just found out you dad died of cancer and go to the bathroom and lose your cool in a way that causes maybe $100 worth of damage and hurts literally nobody fragile toxic masculinity at it again smh
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/20 04:48 PM
34

That is correct, I thought the context was obvious
/r/MensRights29/08/20 09:57 PM
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Men are subhuman basically, I wish I was exaggerating but take a look yourself
/r/MensRights29/08/20 09:42 PM
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Fuck r/fds All my homies hate r/fds
/r/MensRights29/08/20 07:56 PM
1

It is kinda weird saying, I love you so much im telling the government so we have to stay together.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/20 04:31 PM
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Insults that don't drag in people with medical conditions are preferable in my opinion
/r/AntiFeminists28/08/20 03:15 PM
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Yep
/r/AntiFeminists28/08/20 02:52 PM
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Technically retarded is a mental condition you are just stupid lmao, mostly using that word is peak for people who have the condition
/r/AntiFeminists28/08/20 02:22 PM
1

I mean, you go to a lawyer to get it done so when it's signed it should be legally binding and fairly hard to annul
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/20 11:56 AM
6

I'm British so this might be different but can you get a prenuptial agreement there? Essentially from my understanding it completely removes alimony from the divorce if there is a divorce, you get the prenup when you get married Child support is still a thing but the whole lose half your shit is negated. It's been more popular recently as people get married later in life and have more wealth accrued by that point I assume it will be a bit different in the US but maybe you can find an equivalent …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/20 01:40 AM
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ho no Ma heart toooo wholesome
/r/MensRights18/07/20 11:44 AM
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