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What a revelation. Every logical thinking man can see that feminism actually has shifted the inequality towards man but doesn’t say anything because of fear of shame. When you call it out usually the woman respond that for eternity woman has been treated badly so now it’s the men’s turn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:32 PM
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Yeah it’s mostly got nowadays. 1984 is coming
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:58 PM
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„Romance“ actually can be used to get laid. But it’s not real romance tho. It’s just acting like it and telling things she wants to hear to get her in the bed. So doing romantic things with someone you don’t like beyond bed does work. So the advice don’t do romantic things for people you don’t like isn’t really true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:51 PM
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Yeah but only when there is Respekt and a potential reward. Otherwise why should you do it. AND DONT TAKE NOTES BOYS because for the woman it’s only important from the men they are interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:59 AM
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I think you forget that most woman aren’t as independent as they think meaning if a lot of people for some weird reason found bald guys hot over a longer period of time a lot more woman would join and find bald guys attractive. So they aren’t really picky just in a lot of cases not able to have their own opinion which is funny I think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:14 PM
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In most cases the ideological side of feminism took over so yeah good try but I don’t think this will help
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:15 AM
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Thanks for the info my mod bro :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:01 PM
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Honestly after experiencing all these kind of bs from the female dominated circles I used to be in the best tip I can give you. If you are not a predator and you know don’t give a single fuck about what the woman in your circles say. No matter if they are friends or family or just Colleges. Woman tend to be influenced by other woman in their surroundings. So don’t let them break your frame evens if you are afraid like I was of social exile. It didn’t happen and was only a fear in my head. Like r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:17 PM
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That’s a no you just don’t realize it yet
/r/seduction05/12/25 09:04 PM
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It’s simple. Get back to the gender roles we had for centuries. It has worked for ages and apparently it doesn’t work now with the feminist movements. Theory and practice like communism are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:01 PM
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"Ie, men are allowed to get away with being bad boyfriends because they dont know any better. But im expected to be a perfect girlfriend and anything less is unacceptable." I don't think all boyfriends are bad. Again and this would proof my point above is maybe you just choose the wrong man. I would ask myself why are you interested in these men "I have been physically assaulted and a man attempted to murder me. And all my friends have similar stories." This is a typical problematic claim. I can…
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:48 AM
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"Look. Dudes are encouraged to lie and be assholes to get sex and see sex as a need and complain about being lonely and blame us women and expect us to fix it" Yeah because the problem is that on average guys can get aroused easily but woman need time so that's why there is all those theatric acting because otherwise you wouldn't be able to "But I do get tired of bei g expected to pay 50/50 on dates but still do 100% of the domestic labor and relationship maintenance skills." In the talking stag…
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:47 AM
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You write the joke yourself and apparently only men get it. By the way where exactly do you have experienced inequality as a feminine human being. Not talking about woman in general but where have you personally been being treated worse than a man because of your gender. Also not talking about your perception but facts. That’s where you can tell somebody’s views are right or wrong. That’s how science works btw and that’s why we can say that the earth revolves around the sun and not the other way…
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:37 AM
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It’s so funny exactly that. Because feminism mostly makes the woman behave like men and that is not what we and them want
/r/seduction13/11/25 10:01 AM
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Why pay when you can have it for free that’s point number one. I am for equality in some sense but that’s what I am talking about: feminism is domination and not equality and the the woman don’t have the knowledge so I can show them logically that that is the fact. And for the third point instead of cat lady we can call you angry spinster lady alert. Better?
/r/seduction13/11/25 07:43 AM
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Stuff a hole obviously
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:45 PM
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Really true
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:43 PM
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Exactly this. Most of the times you can’t even admit this without having to face some real hate. What I usually do is: with the woman I want to sleep with I try not to discuss these things but with the woman I really am not interested in it’s fun to go in to full blast argument mode from time to time and seeing them really grinding their mental gears not being able to argue against logical arguments
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:39 PM
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Thanks actually for this comment because this proves perfectly my point of projecting one’s own underlying believes and worldview regardless of the actual discussed topic using shame/hate against man. And yes you are also right that I of course don’t get laid 😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:33 PM
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I don’t attribute it to feminism but they do and that’s the problem. Like I said you can’t talk with them about it because for them it’s only: „there is a patriarchy and men are bad that’s why the say let’s reverse the roles and treat man badly like they do to us“. Like I said you can’t even correct their views about feminism although they are wrong. Not that I actually like the late feminism movement but at least they should get their facts straught
/r/seduction12/11/25 06:10 PM
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Yeah that was my fault not bushing it off in a few cases. The three beyond hope I had I was really glad because with this worldview… well good luck
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:50 AM
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Like I replied in a comment above there were only three beyond hope. The rest was no problem when I brushed the topic off
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:48 AM
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The reactance independent club situation with friends is really funny. Will try it. Also what I noticed is that sometimes woman are like Pokémon. If they confuse themselves instead of you they are easier to catch. It’s a running joke among my childhood male friends i used to play Gameboy with back in the days
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:46 AM
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I only had 3 that were beyond redemption and kicked them right after the date because they really insisted. For the other woman the topic was not really that important to speak about but in all of them the underlying implication that feminism is actually always right was there. In most cases this hadn’t really screwed my laid because I simply brushed the topic off. So yeah maybe the best way is really to actually just not talk about it
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:41 AM
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Thanks man. This is really accurate. The few times I tried I was very upfront and I think that was the problem. Getting herself to these opinions and convincing herself is genius. A long time ago I read about it but forgotten ever since. Also that she thinks I want to control or influence her whatsoever is the problem. That’s where I screwed up. You have any other hints on this topic?
/r/seduction12/11/25 09:45 AM
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Thanks for the input. As always no generalization but I can imagine that solle man think this way. That’s why I wanted to see if this is the case writing about it
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:03 AM
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Good for you. What made you realize that they are better and not just good?
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:01 AM
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Keep on sucking I would advice. If you like it and those honorable men also then why not.
/r/seduction30/06/25 07:31 PM
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Could be. But what is it exactly?
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:58 PM
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Thanks. Could have clarified it more. Of course I know what a womanizer is but it was more of a philosophical question. Is it someone like you said who seduces woman for sex or someone charismatic that woman are drawn to or maybe it is someone already in a relationship that is appealing to woman without the actual intention to get laid by them
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:14 PM
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The question is what is a womanizer
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:47 PM
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Classic move. It’s always the same. Entitled to everything but not obliged to anything. Especially not working on oneself and going to therapy to not be a burden to everybody around
/r/seduction30/06/25 12:20 PM
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I do the same. Reducing screen time and social media is so important. I found that also sleep and exercise are key. Basically everything that can lift you up in a good headspace
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:27 AM
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Sounds good because looking for something means that you lost it
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:26 AM
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Yeah but not always because my point is that sticking in in every woman especially the „crazy ones“ is not good. Sticking in the normal ones very good
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:25 AM
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That’s exactly my point that fucking messy woman always had a bitter taste to it whereas casual with the stable ones left a great memory Edit: that is what I actually say in my second post after this one where I had time to think about it
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:22 AM
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If it is just something to boost your ego I find it to be shallow. There is actually a post trending right now from a different user that is exactly about this topic
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:19 AM
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Agree but I meant the masturbation
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:17 AM
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It is always those narcissistic nymphos that get in your head but from my experience there must have been traumatic experiences in the past that made them this way. Nevertheless I see it as my responsibility now to recognize them and distance myself from them because they are up to no good. Hooking up is one thing but over the years I learned that also friendships with them is difficult because they are often egoistic. So yeah everyone has the right to do what he or she thinks is best for them b…
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:16 AM
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That’s true. Dating apps aren’t the best way to get to know other people imho. Going out, doing what you would do anyway is the best way to get to know other people and also woman
/r/seduction30/06/25 05:39 AM
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Good point. When as a man you really just want your shot and are emotionally numb or something than there is no incentive for being actually fair or reciprocate. Sounds boring at least and annoying in the long run. Can imagine that as you said casual things with friends and trust in between is the way to go. Also Im sorry that you went through the sec for self harm thing. Mustve been a hard past for you. Hope you doing good and had the ability to deal with it. Do you believe that those harmful e…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:22 PM
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Really good points. I also see most of them usually as salespersons with numbers and everything but its not about the quantity but the quality. And if you seek quality you have to be qualified for it to. So you actually have qualities that are good for you first and than as a result of knowing to be a man of quality than you dont have to show it because others will see it whether they want it or not. So it is a win win situation because two quality (synonym with just good person) will create a g…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:14 PM
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Thanks for your effort and time writing this long answer. This sounds really mature. Dont know if being mature is a compliment or not. But having the courage to actually search for the true answer to the questions of what is happening and if it is good for me or not. Meditation and journaling sound like a really nice approach. I do the same and that is actually what led to these posts. Its funny because I wrote to see if it is just me but apparently not and its great to know that there are other…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:07 PM
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I really like your view. That is also exactly what I have been thinking. Of course there is contraception and everything but is not always working and I mean over the years I have started to feel responsibility. That wasnt the case when I was 18. That is something I never would have expected but well... And also your second part about spending the time with someone you care about (also if it is a short term thing) makes it much more enjoyable when you have to throw someone away or the other pers…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:00 PM
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OK I added so that you dont feel betrayed. Hope that is enough
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:23 PM
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Also I wanted to say that I really reflected after first post. Maybe the problem is not the woman but my ability to discern whether it is good encounter for me or not. So yeah I have been really reading through all commments and really thought about it and actually changed my view a little bit. Im curious did you have a specific moment when you realized it or did it come with time? Also if you are wondering why my english is suddenly bad take a look at this post there is a P.S. section explainin…
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:20 PM
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Yeah man I relate to a lot. I also found PUA stuff when I was younger and really messed up how I looked at dating for a while. Like everything was “how to get her” instead of “do I want her?” and I ignored how important emotional safety and good vibes are. The crazy part how long it can take to realize sex is only one small piece, but if you make it the main thing it ruins the whole picture. What you said about chasing a "10" and still ending up unhappy makes a lot sense, because I’ve seen that …
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:14 PM
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I said in prior comments. English is not my first language. So I write the text in my mother language and then let ai translate it so you can actually understand what I want to say. I want to make shure that I get my point across and not discriminate anybody or unintentional shame them. Should I add that it was modificated with AI or is it something against the rules? If yes I can put the post down no problem.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:04 PM
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Yeah man I feel this. Before I also think I want relationship, but when it really start I feel bored fast or like stuck. It was not about the girl really, more like I just want to feel wanted or not be alone. When I look back I see it was more to prove something to myself than real connection. Also what you say about go out just for sex, same here. I still enjoy go out, meet people, have some fun, but I don’t force things anymore. If it not feel good, I just leave it. Before I always try push it…
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:00 PM
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Thats good advice. But wouldnt you say it makes you kinda lonely? Just neutral asking, not provoking
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:56 PM
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Thanks that kind
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:55 PM
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Ok I can try answering the comments in „my“ English but don’t complain when you don’t understand
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:38 PM
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Thats actually true. My first language isnt english so I type what is on my mind and let ChatGPT formulate it to make it readable. Otherwise it would be really hard to read. Hope that doesnt take away the message
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:59 PM
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Damn man, that hits hard. I’ve heard similar stories where sex turns into emotional crisis management, not intimacy. And the worst part is, from the outside it still looks like “a lot of sex,” but inside it feels more like emotional hostage negotiations. You’re right. respect and comfort make all the difference. It’s wild how easy it is to mistake intensity for connection… until you’re stuck in that loop of “if I don’t give it, things explode.” Thanks for sharing that. Looking back, would you sa…
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:57 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:44 AM
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Really appreciate how honest and raw this is — not many people will straight-up admit emotional numbness or say “I go for innocent guys” without sugarcoating it. But reading your comment, I couldn’t help but wonder: Do you go for those innocent, less experienced guys because a part of you wants to feel valuable through their desire — like their softness fills something in you that you don’t fully see in yourself? Or is it more the thrill — like it’s hot to “break through” that innocence — but in…
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:41 AM
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Thanks for the input. How do you categorize? This isn’t actually meant sarcastic. I’m curious
/r/seduction28/06/25 05:28 PM
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Damn, I’m really sorry you had to go through that. What you’re describing isn’t just “bad dating experiences” — that’s straight-up trauma, and no one deserves to be treated like that, especially not when they’re being clear about their boundaries. Seriously, that’s messed up. That said, I think we’re kinda talking about different things. My original post wasn’t about blaming women or saying “this is what they get” — more like trying to understand how emotional energy behind sexual dynamics can a…
/r/seduction28/06/25 03:37 PM
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Thanks as you can see English is not my first language. Glad you could unterstand it anyway
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:18 PM
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I’m not claiming to be some all-knowing oracle of women or whatever. just sharing a pattern I noticed from my own experience. not saying it applies to everyone and I could be wrong also that’s why I’m asking for other opinions and yeah maybe it leans more purplepill than seduction 101 but idk, thought this sub was also about reflection and leveling up, not just “say this line get laid” type stuff. like, it’s wild how fast attraction flips when you realize the energy behind it isn’t confidence bu…
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:15 PM
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Fair points honestly, I don’t disagree with most of what you said. Yeah, men definitely use sex as a coping mechanism too, and you’re right — society doesn’t shame them for it the same way. That double standard is real. And no, I don’t think emotional shutdown in men = clarity either. It’s often just avoidance dressed up as stoicism. The post wasn’t meant to say “women = broken, men = wise” or anything like that. It was more about how, in dating, some patterns show up — like when people (men or …
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:10 PM
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Guys it’s not about not getting laid but actually having the thought that while she is ready and wants it being shallow and too sex driven paired with emotional damage and also thinking of oneself as high value is a turnoff. That’s the point. And also if it’s just me or if someone also had the same experience. But in order to experience it you also have to get laid first. So if you can’t relate that’s fine. Everyone is at a different stage and can have different worldviews
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:46 PM
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Could you point out what in this argumentation is wrong? Would love to hear where my thinking got into manosphere and what would be in your opinion the right way to see it
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:37 PM
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Yeah but the point is that there are red flags
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:34 PM
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Yes there is but man usually tend to get away with it better
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:17 AM
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They don’t want to understand to yeah should be no problem I guess
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:56 AM
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Could you phrase it differently please? I don’t get what you want to say
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:43 PM
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Open to hear your opinion. If you think something is wrong with this post or the comments than please report and let others decide. Maybe I am wrong. Who knows
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:37 PM
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Yes they said I should post here
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:35 PM
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😂
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:30 PM
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How can I respect her if she isn’t even respecting herself? Will not happen. Of course I wouldn’t use her and be kind to her and treat her like every other human being but I will never have respect for her. Hope you get the nuance but I am also eager to hear your view
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:26 PM
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Also true. But on the other hand there are no consequences to this behavior. Would be different if most of the people had standards. Wouldn’t you say?
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:55 PM
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I mean we as guys have struggles too so maybe there could be some fear of commitments
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:50 PM
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So is your main point not using woman or rather teaching woman to have self worth and being able to dodge the „bad guys“? IMHO there is also a certain play stupid games win stupid prices dynamic involved so if you don’t want to have your mental health screwed with than maybe you should be more curious about your sexual encounters. And please don’t call me out on victim blaming if there is no illegal behavior involved
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:42 PM
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But only when she is shallow. What would you say?
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:24 PM
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Good summary. Totally agree
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:36 PM
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Very good said. That could be actually it. Like I said the sleeping with guys is not the problematic part if there is a genuine connection but not having any standards and not even trying to be „pure“ just for the purpose of sex is like: are you really this cheap?
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:28 PM
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Like you said nothing knew but it seems that not everyone gets it
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:22 PM
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Sometimes there are also woman on the subs I guess so yeah would love to hear their opinions too
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:15 PM
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Being really boring as a sideguy is well like really boring and hearing about: „I am the nice guy and she did this and that to me“ also makes me vomit. Because like cmon you are boring and not nice. On the other hand being broken and to easy to get as a woman is recently really off putting to me and I don’t know if this is a „normal“ experience
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:14 PM
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Maybe you’re unattractive
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:55 PM
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Maybe it’s not that difficult for gods sake. Just don’t sleep with him otherwise you end up as just the girl for now which is kind of unattractive.
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:55 PM
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