abrazenbeauty Archive

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2	Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms??? It would be interesting to see the correlation between men who are adamant about not dating single moms who later divorce their wives and leave them to be single moms. Something tells me it's an embarrassing data point. Also, there are plenty of men who not only enjoy dating women for who they are (including if they're already mothers), but also have no problem blending families or expanding the family she's already started. Date who you want but similar to the preferences conversation if your p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 04:55 AM
2	Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner " Women are grappling with the reality that the traditional wife, romance and happily-ever-after fairy tales were and still are all propaganda of patriarchy. It's not real. Until we start to see realistic partnerships in media and real life, there will continue to be struggle for men and women when it comes to determining what "equality" looks like in a relationship. That wasn't the way the nuclear family was designed, so it's unrealistic to expect women (or men for that matter) to just know what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:11 PM
2	Ladies: The reason why you don't encounter the type of women that men complain is because these type of women are normally decieving you. Women who have done the work see these women very clearly and have names for them: jezebels, pickmeishas, karens, and the list of maladapted, toxic women goes on. There's something I recently noticed among women that I find to be incredibly toxic, and it's this "be a girl's girl no matter what" woman. Example: There's this toxic situation with Justin and Blake you may have heard of, and there's pretty much a consensus on one platform in particular that Blake is the antagonist in the situation. P…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:58 AM
–	Men are too desperate for relationships Lol - I'd rather not get into that - but generally speaking same as yours except opposite gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:24 AM
–	Men are too desperate for relationships I spelled it out. The part that ignores that men are living up to men's standards and not women's. Men are not trying to impress women, they are aligning to patriarchal social standards, which have been established by men and only adapted by formerly subjugated women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:21 AM
–	Men are too desperate for relationships Some men, the desperate type you're talking about, are not going after what is appealing to women. They're going after what is appealing to patriarchy (toxic machoism). And they are attracted to women who also align with patriarchy because they can't quite come terms with feminist ideals. Feminism feels too much like a personal attack for them to stop and think critically about it, even though it is intended to rip patriarchal social culture to shreds. But they see men and patriarchal social cul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:13 AM
1	Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults. What makes you think this is even about blame? Do you even know what the word accountability means? You can go through life blaming everyone else for how your life turns out. Or you can take accountability for the fact that you are in charge of your life and do what you have to do to make choices and decisions that benefit you. It doesn't mean other people don't hurt you. It doesn't mean they shouldn't be held accountable. But what it does mean is that you are responsible and accountable for how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 11:44 PM
0	Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults. There is no side. That's your problem. You can't navigate through the world happier because you're too busy blaming the other "side" for why you are the way you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:45 PM
1	Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults. You mean accountability. He's not bashing people and blaming the world for things that are absolutely in his control. Yes. I love people who are accountable. He owned what he does and why he does it without calling women "bitches, whores, and sluts" in the process. Amazing how that's possible!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:43 PM
2	A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotions Emotional intelligence has an established definition. Emotions or emotional intelligence has an established definition. Your ability to be vulnerable does not make you emotionally intelligent. Vulnerability is a sliver of emotion/emotional intelligence, which is far more complex and nuanced. There is no your definition or my definition. There is the established definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 02:41 AM
5	Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults. Was I suppose to be combative because he prefers college-aged women? I read everything he wrote. I support his stance. It's honest without being disrespectful. Rare in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 02:38 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth You're right, women were forced to accept less, put up with abuse, and be subjugated. I wonder if men made themselves more desirable, if women didn't have to be forced to be with them. That in itself should be insulting, but I guess as long as he's getting fucked if if she's disgusted by him and only there to survive he doesn't care. Lol your argument is problematic anyway you slice that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 02:35 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth To spend your life comparing yourself to others and being jealous of "privileged" people is to be your own damn problem. The privileged people are no the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 02:32 AM
12	Only immature and dysfunctional (or opportunistic) older adults date younger college-age adults. I have a strong appreciation for this level of honesty without bashing women your own age. In fact, you were able to affirm women your own age. Damn! Realest post in this comment section.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:45 PM
1	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic It's not going too far to tell your partner. I never admitted anything of the such. I have no need to because I don't leverage simple physical attraction to found relationships. That's a pretty low bar. I also don't socialize with the kind of men who do this. I stated that people who exploit their attraction to others and act on it because they have no self control or standards are the ones who worry about their partner having an attraction to other people. Some of us can appreciate beauty witho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:30 PM
1	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic What exactly do you think empathy is that I couldn't empathize with you? Lol And what is "double empathy?" That makes no sense to me. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. I don't need to be a man to empathize with a man. I don't need to experience the exact same life you have had to demonstrate empathy. That is NOT how empathy works. So what exactly are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:27 PM
1	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic Excuse me? You really think people go through the world not finding others attractive? Lol Uh yes, emotionally mature and secure in oneself and their relationship, definitely looks like "Bae he's kinda hot! Have you seen this guy?" Oh yeah, that's so-so, he's been all over the place lately. Rising star. It's a fleeting comment. It means nothing. Do I think I'm going to get with some random ass celebrity I happened to find attractive? No. Lol but why exactly would anyone need to hide something so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:23 PM
1	For people who are coupled: how many of these posts seem to be from people who just need better parents, aunties, uncles? I was off PPD for a while but still having similar conversations in other spaces. I found that they were much more intellectually stimulating, productive, healthy, openminded and rational discussions. That redpill is even taken seriously is wild to me, but beyond that some of the men and women in this sub come across as very immature, isolated, chronically online, and often mentally ill. They not only have warped perceptions of men and women, but don't understand basic concepts like "emotional i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 09:14 PM
1	A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotions Stop conflating vulnerability with emotional intelligence. Just stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 08:59 PM
0	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic Are some women lacking in empathy and emotional intelligence? Absolutely. Men, however, suffer from it more because patriarchy has defined their masculinity in a way where it is a requirement. So by calling out that men lack in emotional intelligence, I'm calling out the social structure with which we live in more than anything. Women are exploited to make themselves available, aggreable, and sacrificial by everyone in their lives from an early age. They must be able to cook, clean, be the villa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 08:56 PM
1	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic If you date emotionally immature people, man or woman, you're going to get emotionally immature responses. My partner would laugh. He'd be well aware of men who I think are attractive, fantasies I have, etc. He'd also be secure in knowing I am completely invested in him and our relationship and that some celebrity crush or fleeting fantasy is not a threat to his position in my life. Keep in mind, the frequency of these conversations would be pretty fucking rare, which is the larger point here. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 08:50 PM
3	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth It's actually not natural. It's entirely influence by y'alls chronic screen life. Y'all are not the first short men to walk the earth. Lol, you think all the short men before you just shriveled up and died? No, they got out and lived life. As my post states, internet/OLD is what is ruining a lot of you because you catastrophize the little bit that you see online to apply to all women and basically destroy any potential experiences or development you could have. I'm not going to go down a rabbit …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:21 AM
1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth K, bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:15 AM
5	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic Wtf is Disney princess love? What is that even? I'm pretty sure there is a standard definition of love that has shit to do with Disney available for your learning. You can start there for what I mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:15 AM
-1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Yeah, the more you know has definitely doomed younger generations. Men were at an advantage when they didn't have these numbers to wallow in constantly. For some men, their entire personality is built up on what they can't do and have. Anyway, I am WELL aware of that dark hole. I've heard plenty of it. So please spare me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:13 AM
1	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males No actually she wouldn't have to be a different creature. Some women are faster and stronger than some men. And I am speaking both in general and in relationships. I can relate to your cousin in that before I went through the deconstructing and decentering work, I use to tell men I was a receptionist who made 40K, had a small apartment, and only graduated high school. I even lied about my height and car, and other stuff to come across a certain way as not to intimidate the men. Phone stayed blow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:11 AM
-1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Nothing I said invalidated the perspective of men. But being hung up on something that doesn't have to limit you is in fact a personal choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:06 AM
0	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth They flex on plenty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:02 AM
-1	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth I'm not wondering why they develop insecurities. I'm well aware of their complexes and why they have them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 12:01 AM
-3	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Nothing I shared disputes that women want taller men. We can thank society for that and to some extent biology. The point still stands, women absolutely do flex on this and studies show short men often get in their own damn way with the weird complexes they develop about their own height before anyone can get to know them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:34 PM
1	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males This question is weird. It's almost like you're suggesting this has never happened, which is beyond wild. Outperforming him in anything Beating him at anything Overachieving at anything Faster, smarter, wiser, stronger, wealthier Being his boss or superior in anyway Not falling into propaganda feminine standards Earning far more than he has She is incredibly beautiful and influential Any of these things and more can and does intimidate some men. They are insecure or hold deepseated beliefs that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:28 PM
4	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth The validation and attention seeking seems generational to me. The younger the poster, the more the conversation revolves around bullshit and people talking over one another. The same topics get repeated over and over and over again with no new takes. Isn't it obvious that women like taller men? Do any of you even know why? A lot of it has to do with body confidence and feeling secure. That doesn't mean women aren't open and flexible to dating men her own height or shorter. The problem is online…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:19 PM
1	There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in dating It has nothing to do with whether they are mutually exclusive. The point is instead of telling people to shoot for less, people should get to know who they are, what they can handle, and what they want/need and stay in tune with it regardless of what the outside world thinks. It's about how we inform our standards. For most women looks, money, and social status are negotiable. Setting a bar doesn't mean there's no room for anyone else. You have been commenting as if women are hung up on their st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:10 PM
3	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic One of the major arguments I hear from women is that men need to cultivate more emotional intelligence and this goes completely against that. This actually seems like more of the same shit we have now. Men who think that machoism and projecting some air of "hard" is what women want. I'd love to meet these women who don't want a man in control of and in touch with his emotions. What this sounds like is something a man designated that a woman should want. It sounds like a bunch of dudes got in a r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 11:02 PM
1	There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in dating You're going to lose a ton of credibility with me when you start referring to relationships and people in terms of "market value." The idea that women lose their "value" because a man touched her is wild to me. Because basically what we're saying is that men spoil and ruin and soil women. The more men you've slept with, married, had a life with, had kids with, the more your value goes down. So the depreciating factor here is men. Lol I wonder if that's ever been discussed in this sub because the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 10:43 PM
1	I don't understand how people are attracted to personality I suggest you review your study again. It is completely subjective. There are some things that we generally and collectively find easy on the eye. But to think that this suggests objectivity or some proof that some people are inherently beautiful to everyone is a stretch to say the least.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/25 10:19 PM
2	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males This is a very bad example of a "smart and confident" woman. Her personality is rude, abrasive, obnoxious and combative. She's seems to struggle with regulating her emotions in a crowd which makes her come across as overbearing. Listen to her shrilled protests, quick retorts, and simply not reading the room to temper her personality a bit. That's not picking on her because she's smart and intimidating, that's stating the obvious. And I hate to call this out, but she doesn't take care of herself …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 03:26 PM
10	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. Women absolutely do this, especially male centered women. They love the attention they get from it. Men do it, too. In my opinion, men don't lie about it whereas (see comments) women will fight for the lives to say they don't mean anything by it. Girl bye, you know exactly why you're stringing that man along. You're not fooling anyone. Not only is it a shit thing to do, but it is a dangerous game to play. I disagree that it only benefits one person. The one who agrees to be friend zoned also ben…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 10:47 PM
1	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. You were explaining it because you couldn't and still don't understand the point that I was making, so instead of critically thinking, you presume I must not know what I'm talking about or understand the phrase. Lol the point was not to demonstrate the current definition or affirm the meaning of the phrase. It was to intentionally rip it apart and show the flaws in it. The fact that we're arguing about this, in itself, let's me know that I need not waste my time trying to reason with or debate w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 10:32 PM
1	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. What? Constantly abandoning their children and then blaming the childrens' mothers for the hardships they suffered?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 02:51 AM
22	Women dismiss men's relationship stress, yet believe similar complaints from lesbian/bi women. Part of the current discourse between men and women is deeply flawed because women often fail to step back and examine their own role in situations, even when their male friends/family are telling them. When men open up emotionally or share frustrations, they’re often met with dismissal instead of validation. Instead of holding space to truly listen and understand, many women filter men’s experiences through their own trauma, biases, and past hurts. They can’t conceive of a situation where a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 12:50 AM
3	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Lol, let's get into it then. Your argument has several flaws and misunderstandings. You focus on the literal meaning of “single mother,” but that misses my point. The issue is how the term shifts blame onto the mother who stays, instead of holding the absent parent accountable. Your argument avoids addressing the real critique and distracts from the larger issue. Using Denmark as an example ignores the reality in the U.S., where single mothers face serious challenges like lower pay, little acces…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 12:07 AM
4	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Manipulative people don’t walk around wearing neon signs that say “I’m a liar and a deadbeat.” Deception is an intentional skill, and no one, not even your self-proclaimed man-radar, is immune to falling for it. Relationships are complex, emotions run deep, and trust is built over time,not in some magical man-to-man telepathy session. Blaming women for being deceived is just lazy logic designed to absolve men of responsibility for their own lies and abandonment. If you’re so good at spotting bad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:42 PM
0	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries I think I mistakenly labeled patriarchy a system of governance, when really it is a social structure. But I digress. I agree with your take on the governance structure, but I strongly disagree that patriarchy is dead. Here are my top five arguments/evidence that patriarchy is still alive and well: Women still earn less than men for the same work in many industries. I believe it's like 82 cents for every dollar earned by men. Men still dominate positions of power in politics, business, and media.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:29 PM
8	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. All you did is put on full display that you're bitter and angry. And that's ok, we don't need to argue your demeanor and personality. But it doesn't fill the void of lack of critical thinking or logic. No, you can not hold men or women responsible for being deceived by bad actors - ever. It doesn't matter how mad you are at women. It doesn't matter how many times you've been called an incel or rejected. People who are shit people became that way on their own. They know they're shit people and go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 12:59 PM
2	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. I have no problem with abortion. Never been against it. In fact, it's a woman's fundamental birthright that no law can restrict in my opinion. But I'm a bit of a rebel in that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:37 AM
2	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Consent to parenthood is literally a free pass. And it is an absurd idea for a trash society. Our society has enough issues, we don't need this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:24 AM
2	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. I literally emphatically said the opposite. You're arguing to give deadbeat parents free passes to be deadbeats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:17 AM
9	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Choosing a partner does not make a person responsible for their partner's actions, character, or lack thereof. This argument is so incredibly tired - and more of the same: blame the woman. Stop pretending like men and women don't put their best foot forward in relationships just to turn out to be toxic trash when the mask falls. To blame the duped party for unknowingly connecting with a deceiver is intellectually lazy, cheap, ignorant, victim blaming. You're doing the same shit that brought me h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:16 AM
5	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Consent to parenthood truly makes sense for a morally bankrupt and inept society. It is inherently flawed logic. There's really no other way to slice it. It is highly problematic. If you get in a car, then you accept the reality of cause and effect, "I could crash." Whether you were at fault or not, this is a reality. It will laugh at your demand for consent. Lol Arguing parental consent is so infuriatingly absurd. It's literally the equivalent of being born and punching the air while you declar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 11:03 AM
6	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Then we are not arguing about the same things. First, you can get into an accident, just like you can end up with a child without breaking traffic rules or failing to use contraceptives. Sometimes other drivers hit you just like sometimes condoms break or women forget to take the pill. The argument that we aren't addressing parenthood and childcare properly in society is extremely valid. I couldn't agree more. But what does that have to do with this conversation? Trying to insert "parental conse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:56 AM
–	Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and age Looks are highly subjective. Given this, there are plenty of attractive men to go around. And most women in their 30s and 40s are eager to get married and have children before it's too late. You really think they have time to wait around for the chance to marry a billionaire? Log off! Go touch grass. lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:46 AM
8	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. Roe v Wade was overturned and if the powers that be get their way abortion will be completely illegal. As a result of this ruling, women are already suffering medical consequences. I'm pretty sure a handful have lost their lives. So what's your point? Let's flip the script. I'll take "parental consent" as a legitimate argument when abortion is fully left alone and always an option to the woman. But until then, it's an empty promise and highly problematic. If you get in a car, there's a chance yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:44 AM
4	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. You said a whole lot of nothing in an "attempt" to challenge my point. Consent to parenthood is presumed unless either party was sexually assaulted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:36 AM
–	Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and age You clearly didn't. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:28 AM
–	Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and age Of course they want a man in their age range who make the kind of money they make. Lol are they supposed to date bums to get your approval? And yes, we all know of the 30 and 40 year old men who are happy to date 19 year olds. Not news.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:27 AM
-1	CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegal I never said she didn't choose it. In fact, in almost every case, she walked head first into the arrangement despite how shitty the arrangements often are. That doesn't change how society commodifies women. I didn't make up these rules. Patriarchy tells women they hold more value when they are 22 or younger, flawless skin, stress and trauma free, little experience with men, dumber than a box of rocks, never had sex or gave birth, completely able-bodied to get the lion's share of the work done wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:17 AM
–	Women who "had their fun in their youth", have their own job and career and want to settle down at 30 are unironically the best type of women to marry in this day and age Wait, women need to "lower their standards" from financial stability? Last I check many women in their 30s and 40s have their own cars, homes, businesses or lucrative careers. Are you suggesting that wanting to be equally yolked with a partner is somehow greedy or immoral?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 09:04 AM
1	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries If patriarchy is dead, what system of governance that rules now? I disagree strongly that patriarchy is dead. Has it taken some well place blows? Absolutely. Is it gone? Hell no. If it is dead, then you should be able to easily tell us what took its place. Pointing to the progress that is being made is not evidence that patriarchy is dead. It's simply evidence of progress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 08:53 AM
-1	CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegal How do you account for knowingly taking someone's body, time and vitality? I think we always focus on the physical aspect of this sentiment: money, assets, businesses. But men tend to value a woman's youth, virginity, womb, etc. And some men love discarding a woman when those things are used up and destroyed, she's had his babies, she's aged with stress from motherhood and domestic slavery, he's sucked the life out of her to build his whatever, and he finds an even younger woman and starts the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 07:59 AM
1	CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegal If you make it illegal, women who do the same thing to escape abuse would be screwed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 07:53 AM
19	Single parenthood is bad for the kids. The phrase “single mom” is fundamentally flawed because it misdirects blame. With the exception of LGBTQ couples, there’s only ever one mom in a family structure. So why call her “single” as if there’s a world where multiple moms exist? The term itself is a misnomer, designed to shift focus away from the absent parent and place undue scrutiny on the one who stayed. Last I checked, the definition of a nuclear family, according to patriarchy, is one mother and one father. So if there’s an issue in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 07:04 AM
6	Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards. You become physically strong, emotionally intelligent, and disciplined for yourself, not for other people. People who value those things, often attract those things. They also tend to set standards around them. Adding strings to characteristics that you should have developed for yourself sounds like some twisted form of prostitution. It's giving, "You need to pay me more because I took the time to be a well rounded, decent and capable human being. There's a catch." Frankly, that aligns with peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 05:30 PM
2	The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from women While uncommon and still emerging, I've seen some men listening to women's concerns, being introspective, engaging in critical conversations and making changes to their lives. And then, I've seen the men who notice this, get frustrated that they can't or refuse to do it and then misrepresent or disparage the behavior. These guys weren't seeking approval. In fact, some of them are already married and are just trying to figure out how to be better spouses, friends, brothers, and fathers. That's no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 03:42 AM
1	Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women. What do you consider to be "modern feminism" and what exactly about it is damaging?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:50 AM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger The reason this topic isn’t widely discussed is because it’s an uncomfortable truth, and your response perfectly proves my point. Rather than engaging with the actual issue of male victimization and its root causes, you chose to derail the conversation by injecting irrelevant points about race. This kind of deflection is exactly why conversations like these struggle to gain traction, people would rather sidestep the hard truths than confront them head-on. Your mention of race is disingenuous and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:43 AM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger Actually we're not, you're deflecting likely because my comment triggered you, you saw a brown avatar and derailed your own topic. Most physical and sexual violence is committed by men. Studies show that men are responsible the main perpetrators of sexual violence against other men. When it comes to physical violence, men account for around 80% of arrests for violent crimes like assault and homicide, and the majority of their victims are other men. Overall, men are arrested at an alarming rate f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:20 AM
2	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger I don't know if you keep bringing up POC because you think personalizing this will get you somewhere or validate your argument or what. At no point, have I stated that men are criminals. I accurately pointed out that men overwhelmingly commit more crime. When we talk about physical and sexual violence, men commit the majority of this crime. I never said men are criminals. Edit: Honestly, I think it's ironic that you don't want to stay focused on a topic you brought up: Violence against men. Now …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:09 AM
2	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger By deleting the evidence? I am debating in good faith. Men do in fact commit the majority of crimes and an overwhelming number of those crimes are committed against other men. Edit: Logically, if men are the primary perpetrators of crime (62.1% of all criminal offenses in 2023), they would also be disproportionately responsible for crimes against other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 12:00 AM
4	Do you support "old school" feminism? Unfortunately, there are many men who disagree with you to the tune of actively dismantling their rights as we chat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:54 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger No, before you edited your comment you said:"The victimizer is also often POC, right?" Your entire post is about a single gender, sir. And the fact of the matter is a single gender holds an overwhelming number of those attacks against males. This triggered you and you snapped back half assed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:51 PM
0	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger Awww, racism was your best bite back? I thought we were talking about "male victims." No???	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:48 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger It's rarely discussed because the victimizer is usually a man, or are we not supposed to say the obvious part out loud? Why don't men like to talk about the violence they commit against everyone at alarming and overwhelming rates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:43 PM
2	Do you support "old school" feminism? So many men demonize feminism as a whole and deliberately misrepresent it because they do not agree with these fundamental beliefs. They see this as a threat to their masculinity. They want to go back to their grandpa and grandma's relationship, which is often code for subjugating women. If they can overblow some flaw in feminism then that gives them a reason to demonize and trash the entire effort. This is incredibly common among incel types. Women who are controlled, subservient, and without r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:37 PM
2	More traditional marriages are easier and that's why they fail less often The traditional nuclear family is failing so many and it boggles my mind that people keep romanticizing something that really never existed in the way you all fairytalize it. Families that could afford to have a mom stay at home all day were pretty well off and still had housekeepers, slaves, and other help. What we need to come to terms with is that we either need to pay people more, improve family resources dramatically, and bolster the service industry -- making it more attractive as a career…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/25 11:17 PM
4	Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity" The post you’ve written is a poorly veiled tantrum rooted in fragility and ignorance. Your argument hinges on an idea that feminists are the ones perpetuating toxic masculinity, erasing male victims, and belittling men. But this is projection. Toxic masculinity is not born in feminist circles. It is forged in patriarchal systems that teach boys that vulnerability is weakness, that emotions are shameful, and that power over others defines manhood. You’re blaming the very people dismantling the sy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/25 12:32 AM
1	Why do you want the man to approach you? Why do you want the man to approach you? The question needs to be reframed. Why were romantic standards established wherein which men were made to approach women and initiate courting? Too often men get on here and blame women for standards their predecessors put in place. We expect it like a lot of things because that's what society has put forth as the norm. With that being said, I approach if I'm attracted. He simply needs to be my type and then I'm pretty bold and forward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 04:16 AM
8	How would women feel if someday android women become more popular among men for dates and relationships? I've been engaging in a lot of conversation about relationships and traditional gender roles. Lately, the conversations have gone deep into the invisible labor of women (and children) and how that has shaped America and its economy. By the end of these talks, we're typically both laughing: Hell, I want a wife now that I think about it! The way my life is set up - I work, a lot. Despite being heterosexual the idea of having a woman clean, cook, mommy me, be my secretary and therapist, and wait on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 03:48 AM
1	Women, what percentage of you would "pursue your own pleasure" while your country collapsed (due to your refusal to give up some of your own time / effort to do something that would stop the collapse)? Again, using children as an example - I know what the question was about. I'm talking about the poor choice of an example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 02:48 AM
3	Women, what percentage of you would "pursue your own pleasure" while your country collapsed (due to your refusal to give up some of your own time / effort to do something that would stop the collapse)? Using children as the example when women's reproductive rights are on the chopping block as we speak, when single mothers are rampant, when child sex trafficking is at an all time high, when 20 somethings are opting to get their uteruses removed, when assault is through the roof, when little kids who haven't even hit puberty are telling their parents they never want to have kids, was probably the wrong trigger for what is happening in the West right now. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 06:41 PM