absconder87 Archive

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1	Wanting less competition for elite or high status jobs is what really behind the sudden tradwife push in some manosphere spaces I have a set of books based on questionnaires sent to Civil War veterans in Tennessee in the 1920s. One of the questions asked what household chores each parent performed. When it came to their mothers, the vast majority of men came from rural backgrounds, so they answered the same over and over: she cooked, cleaned, cared for the children, carded and spun wool, wove the wool into cloth, and then used that to sew clothes. Laundered	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 02:04 AM
19	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior As a homely woman, I've seen this truth all my life, even as a teen. Guys barked at me when I was in high school. In the 1970s I worked in offices where the male executives treated the women employees like a bordello, demanding sex in exchange for keeping their jobs. Meanwhile, I was invisible. When you're invisible you see people acting without filters. After seeing many women I knew and worked with who had husbands and boyfriends who beat them and dumped them, I realized that in the long run I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 01:47 PM
-3	For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup? They may claim that, and it may be true, but bottom line we are all always being judged by the male gaze, which is ruthless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 02:56 PM
8	For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup? No, we just care about the bullshit. Yes, 'natural beauty' is the best. But the purpose of makeup is to mimic the natural look. Most men don't understand anything about makeup, what exactly it entails and how much time it takes to perfect, and how much time and $$ we feel obliged to invest in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 01:16 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men I'm a woman in my 60s, and have been unattractive all of my life (deformed face that can't be fixed with surgery, in fact surgery contributed to the disfigurement). It took me until my mid-40s to finally come to terms with it, which was very difficult to do because NO ONE, not even therapists or friends and family members, want to admit that some women are just considered trash and garbage. They say 'have a good personality, learn to listen to men!'. Since then I've learned to be happy. I've got…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 03:23 PM
–	"You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationships There should be a special flair when someone makes a definitive statement. I have scientific data to prove/disprove this. It's 'common knowledge', but I have no data. I 'did my research' on YouTube. Study it out!! Many women have admitted this to me. This is what my bros say, and I'm sticking to it. My source is that I made it the fuck up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 07:02 PM
–	Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard. Gee, perhaps this would happen less frequently if red-pill men didn't constantly harangue and berate women into disclosing all details of their sexual past. If they didn't ask women to rate their lovers. If they didn't demand to know how often they think about old boyfriends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/24 12:42 PM
–	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man No one says it should be ignored, no one says that men should support a child that isn't theirs, and please define 'common'. Is that 10%? If it's less than 40%, that is not 'common'. I've done a lot of genealogy research, and so I agree that it's not uncommon in the past when there was zero technology to prove or disprove. But one thing I am certain of is that is that it's massively dwarfed by the number of men who flee the responsibility of fatherhood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 07:38 PM
5	Are passports bros horrible people ? What I find odd is that so many of them are politically hard right wing, and yet they're often searching out Asian women. That's a bizarre twist on racism. And before you start screeching about 'not all right-wingers are racist', it's a fact that a lot are, often very proudly racist. I'm personally aware of three different men who deliberately acquired Asian wives, and then became very angry after the marriage when the wife didn't live up to their expectations, or else wouldn't put up with bully…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 02:58 AM
16	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man Why do you list 'child support' as #1on your list of egregious crimes committed against men? If it's your child, support it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 10:33 PM
0	Society looks the other way a lot more with women's toxic behavior in heterosexual relationships than with men's It's all that your blather deserves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 04:06 PM
0	Society looks the other way a lot more with women's toxic behavior in heterosexual relationships than with men's Bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 05:57 PM
1	Why are people still so hesitant to admit that two-parent households are best for kids and that fathers are important? Mostly because the majority of people who introduce that as a subject of conversation are trolling with a right-wing political agenda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 06:07 PM
2	Women justify their biases against men all the time, but men are condemned for doing the same Stop listening to Andrew Tate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 05:39 PM
–	Do men derive their self-esteem and emotional state from women Most men seem to be inordinately obsessed with how their bros judge them and approve of their women. What's the point of being with an attractive woman if you can't show her off to your bros? By the same token, men are absolutely terrified that their bros will accuse them of being with an 'unattractive' woman. I learned that in high school from eavesdropping on the male students.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 05:12 PM