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| 2 | How do you handle the silver bullet?Just commenting to say I am in the same position but you are lucky you have your custody hearing in a few weeks. My ex partner took the child when I told her I had filed for court and I still don't have a first hearing date set a month later | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 2 years out, I feel stuckThink you have identified the core issue there then. Put all your effort into working out how to find someone you can be comfortable starting a family with. Given you waited so long before, you are possibly risk averse and you state you are having trouble trusting, all of which sounds completely understandable to me. Therapist? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being the bad guy to kids and exI think you probably already think this but It's very difficult to get them out of a bad diet early if they were allowed to have one elsewhere, and before. Nigh on impossible I would say. You may find some middle ground items like baked beans and fish fingers can be better? And then long term you could keep eating something they might like and one day they will ask you to try it perhaps. I think you might feel better thinking long term. Don't give up. Adapt in a way that works for you and the ki… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 09:05 AM |
| 1 | 3 months in and struggling with my health.Our situations mirror each other so closely I'd lean towards this as the cause of the health decline but who knows dude. Been cohabiting since she told me we were over at the start of January. Got a mediation appointment to discuss the childcare going forward next week which has been a huge weight on me as she has been trying to instigate something not fair to the kid or me (not 50/50 and not appropriate days separated from each parent). It feels like limbo. Some days I feel OK and other days I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 11:45 AM |
| 2 | 3 months in and struggling with my health.Mate I am going through a very similar thing right now and it is nice to hear someone else voice it. My health has deteriorated quite significantly over the last few years of no love and pressure and it really feels at times like my body is letting me down. I don't have any answers. I am exploring both mental and physical health in parallel in a more structured way (dietician, tests, CBT) but I do have the inkling that the moment we are living in separate houses my wellbeing will improve. If sim… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/26 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Maybe Divorce Made Me a ChauvinistFair play regarding the stats of divorce rate. And also fair play in regards your comments on nature/nurture. I have always thought of it as mostly nurture (and still do) but I am making more room in my life for nature too as I interact with others. If your position is that it makes biological/evolutionary sense for women to move on after some years post having a child for instance then perhaps there is merit to that, and in my opinion that would not be necessarily sexist to think (although ther… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/26 12:15 PM |
| 12 | Maybe Divorce Made Me a ChauvinistCan I just say I understand where you are coming from but I think there is a disconnect that can be summed up as: 'Human's are shits sometimes. Not just women.' It is kind of built in to humans to be selfish (to self preserve), and defensive (also self preservation) - to protect our own egos and blame others instead (see the concept of 'The Other' in literature). We have to fight our basic instincts and learn to reflect. Humans. Not women. It's just that you are heterosexual and so your partner … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/26 09:13 AM |
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