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I never understood those people who say "do x activity for yourself and not for women" when, according to Freudian psychology, everything we do is for sex. If women were somehow reprogrammed to be attracted to skinny betas, every Red Piller on this sub would quit his gym membership, drink soy products, and fast everyday like it's Ramadan.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 09:43 PM
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If you're one of those socially awkward virgin programmers who's already set in his ways, then, unfortunately, my advice won't do you much good. I wrote this post for those who are willing to break out of their comfort zone and make changes with their lives. Otherwise, you're better off coding a side project or something. If you are willing to make a change, then you must embrace the suck. Of course, lifting weights and cooking healthy meals are boring, that's why there are more obese people tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 02:24 PM
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No, it isn't. I listed six points in my post, and you only brought up one. Read it again.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:16 AM
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Yeah, that sounds about right. But with any other career, make sure you spend A LOT of time researching the field before investing time and money into it. Before I got into software development, I was also told that it was an in-demand field with a shortage of tech talent. It wasn't until I started applying for jobs to discover, to my dismay, that the so-called developer "shortage" is for senior-level developers with 5+ years experience in the hottest 2-year-old languages and frameworks, can mem…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 08:18 PM
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As a front-end developer who codes as a career, I agree that "learning to code" should NOT be suggested as a Red Pill hobby. It won't make an iota of a difference in your social or dating life, in fact quite the opposite. For reference, I wrote a post called "Programming destroys your social skills". The only way I can see myself continuing in this career is getting my sexual needs fulfilled regularly, whether that's via spinning plates or an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 05:58 AM
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That's the first time I've heard that developers get paid too little. Here in the U.S., software development is one of the highest paid professions.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:48 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, what made you leave software development?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 03:18 PM
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As someone who actually has a career in software development, let me tell you that in 99% of these obsessive coders is their fear of women. If he was starting a business, that's one thing, but even then you can treat yourself going out twice a week to avoid burnout. In addition, when I have access to sex regularly, I am so much more productive at work. In a dry spell I'm lazy and unmotivated as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:01 PM
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I had an epiphany after the sex. While I was enjoying the greatest feeling man could feel, somewhere out there, there was an incel jerking off to porn, an angry MGTOW writing a bitter post about women, and an obsessive programmer coding his "side project". It's a shame none of these men experienced what I did at that exact moment in time.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:23 PM
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I asked her if she had slept with any foreign guys before, and she said that I was the first foreigner she every fucked. Not sure if it's true or not, but if it is, that's a pretty awesome feeling.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:16 PM
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100% this. Also want to add that there people who alternate between both depending on where they are in life or the time of the year. For example, in summer I just want to mate to my heart's content, but in winter I prefer an LTR to cuddle with.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:13 PM
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I was just having fun. When I'm in a nightclub, I'm completely outcome independent. If I find a lover, great. If not, no big deal. Showing off your aesthetics in a nightclub is a polarizing act: some girls will love it, some will hate it. At one point, this girl came up to me and said something like, "It's 2018. Nobody cares about looks anymore." Bullshit, look up Aziz Shavershian, Jeff Seid, or Connor Murphy on YouTube. I simply smiled and said, "I'm proud of my body. I'm just having fun."
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 07:10 PM
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Playing video games alone on a Saturday night is Blue Pill. Playing video games with a partner after sex on a Saturday night is Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:57 PM
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What do you think of the YouTube videos where the aesthetic bodybuilders take off their shirts to get girls' numbers?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:49 PM
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Translation - An Arab fucked my girl.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 08:47 PM
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It's funny. You originally mentioned Persians, who are not Arab whatsoever. Persians fall under the Mediterranean subtype of White/Caucasian people. After that, you go on about Arabs, which I never once mentioned in my post. Your ENTIRE post history consists of Indian/Asian men dating white women. This is concerning. This tells me that you're battling some deep-rooted insecurities of being an Indian/Asian male in the West. If you really want to date white women so badly, just follow the steps I …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:57 PM
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Sorry for the somewhat late reply, but I'm glad you resonated well with my post. You definitely sound like the alpha male developer I'd want to hang out with. And congrats on making it to the Ivy League! There seems to be a modern trend in the tech industry where coding 40+ hours a week in your 9-5 job isn't enough. That in order to be a good developer you must be: working on "side projects", contributing to open source, being up-to-date with the latest and greatest languages/frameworks (which g…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:23 PM
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No, first HTML, then CSS, then JavaScript. Learn JavaScript only if you want to do front-end. If you like back-end, there are many different languages you can choose from.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 03:19 PM
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I'm a front-end web dev, so JavaScript, CSS, HTML.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:24 AM
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Please tell me you are joking. Indians are the lowest SMV ethnic group in the U.S. and your entire Reddit history consists of nothing but insecure race-whining. Arranged marriage is the only thing keeping these men contributing to society, or else their sexual needs would go unchecked and they'd stop contributing. Even my South Asian coworkers admitted that they wouldn't stand a chance dating in America, since they never learned how to game women (because their mothers did all the work choosing …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:34 PM
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When you're around low-testosterone betas for 1/3 of your day, it rubs off on you.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:05 PM
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There are plenty of Asian and Indian men making six-figure incomes in Silicon Valley with no woman in sight.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:18 AM
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That is also a valid statement.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:17 AM
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I never said it had anything to do with their job skill. When Mediterraneans are out socializing, they are never in a logical state, but always in an emotional state. Your first sentence I agree with.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:14 AM
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Do you have any advice on pursuing non-tech activities? I'm already an avid weight lifter, but it's not a very social sport.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:12 AM
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Thanks for checking yourself out of the game. Less competition for the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:09 AM
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From what I have seen, women (especially Northern European) despise these men and avoid them due to their sleaziness, bad hygiene, below average looks, and the fact that they come on too strong. You just described the average Indian male in America.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:06 AM
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Sure! Build up as much experience as you can. Attend tech meetups and have business cards with you at all times. Pass out your card to every person you meet. Make a profile on freelance sites like Upwork. Think about how much you'd like to make an hour. Make an estimate of how long a project will take you. Multiply your estimate by your hourly rate. When first starting out, charge your clients less per hour and work more hours. As you get more experience, charge more per hour and work less hours…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:42 AM
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Do you mind elaborating more on your experience leaving tech? These days more and more people are quitting their jobs to enter tech.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 03:26 AM
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I'm a web developer, and web dev is one of the most remote-friendly fields in the world. You can either freelance or work remotely for a company that allows it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 06:06 AM
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You may want to consider taking a sabbatical for a few months to avoid burnout.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 06:04 AM
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I never understood the tech industry's obsession with "side projects". We're expected to put in 40+ hours of coding a week AND lock ourselves in our rooms during the weekends just so we can learn React version 16.3.0? Fuck that. +1 for travelling. As soon as my loans are paid off within the next year, I plan on spending extended time abroad.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:59 AM
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And yet you offer no rebuttal.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:56 AM
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You sound like the Chad programmer I would want to hang out with.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:53 AM
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No need to appear that nerdy during interviews, but definitely ditch the suit and go for a business casual look.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:46 AM
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Working in a steel mill or oil rig is masculine as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:44 AM
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You could start off by sending me a cover letter and resume.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:40 AM
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Your work schedule sounds similar to mine. I work at a startup, so I can get away with coming to work at 9:30am. I rarely leave work at 5:00pm anyway. Since I'm a hardgainer, do you think I can replace the protein with mass gainer? Any issues with mixing mass gainer and creatine?
/r/askTRP04/02/18 07:02 PM
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Thank you for the feedback and video.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:21 PM
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Focus on other places. If you really don't enjoy bars and clubs, then you're wasting your time. Daygame tends to be easier than nightgame anyway.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 03:47 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I decided not to drink because drinks at NYC nightclubs are ridiculously expensive, and the $50 cover charge was already off-putting. Normally I pre-game, but in this case it was too late to do so.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:43 AM
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The great thing about game is that you can try out different methods and see what works and what doesn't. Thankfully where I live, there is no shortage of hot women to experiment with.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:31 AM
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I try to think more about having fun dancing to EDM in a nightclub rather than getting laid. At the same time approaching, dancing, and making out with hot girls is fun too, just not the main focus.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:29 AM
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Thankfully I've got both v-neck AND crew neck shirts in my wardrobe.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:23 AM
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I remember when I first started approaching girls post-TRP. I thought to myself that I could impress any chick just by 3 months of Stronglifts results. Whenever I got rejected, I thought to myself, "How is this possible??? I lift weights, read TRP, and act alpha just like those field reports talk about!!!" This is the problem of reading these humblebrag field reports. Nobody ever talks about how many rejections one had to endure before striking getting the magical ONS with the HB9 (more likely a…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:22 AM
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Thank you. I hoped I could share to others that there are both highs and lows in the Red-Pilled life.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:07 AM
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There's definitely an evolutionary justification of why our primal urges kick in when witnessing a potential mate with another male. Except instead of "killing the alpha" as our primitive ancestors did, I'd rather get shredded and fit like Aziz Shavershian and attract women with my hyper masculinity. Btw, your comment is very deep and well-written. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if you write for a living.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 05:04 AM
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I'm glad that I could share the less talked-about side of the Red Pill, since everyone only wants to share their success stories on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:52 AM
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Well said. At the end of the day, it's all a numbers game.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:44 AM
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Yeah, it could have gone a lot better, but my game was so rusty from the past couple months.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:44 AM
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Great idea, hopefully the next successful field report will come soon.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:42 AM
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How so? If you're getting rejected, that's completely normal. Even Chad gets rejected.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:41 AM
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Thank you. I hope that my post inspires some people to go out there and get over their fear of rejection.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:40 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Nightgaming sober was definitely worth experimenting with. Also didn't have to wake up with a bad hangover.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:37 AM
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And what exactly is your solution?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:32 AM
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It looks like you're a non-RP woman based on your comment history. Your lines are calculated and fake-sounding. What lines? I'm literally saying what's on my mind and making my sexual intentions clear. It's a lot better than acting like a "Nice Guy" who orbits a woman and expects sex in return for his niceness. You're playing a game with women rather than trying to have an actual conversation. It's like you're shooting at targets rather than showing any interest in anyone else. Dating is a numbe…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:31 AM
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This doesn't make any sense. Persians are white people. In fact, the first white people originated from Iran. It is literally called the Land of the Aryans.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:37 AM
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Positive: -Spent a great Christmas with the family in the quiet suburbs -Started the New Year off with a house party I was invited to in the big city I reside in -Did HIIT exercises everyday since I had no access to a gym Negative: -Still recovering from an injured rotator cuff, so no bench press in a while -No dates planned
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 10:50 PM
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Where do you live? I'm actually planning on living a geoarbritrage lifestyle in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 04:59 AM
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Go on meetup.com and find meetups that mesh with your interests. Don't go exclusively to meet women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 02:25 AM
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Lots of them lonely out there waiting for you Is this really the case nowadays? In the smartphone generation, any girl can whip out Tinder and find a Chad to fuck right away.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 02:11 AM
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Do you mind telling me your experience with this? Do you ever feel guilty about faking being "in a relationship"? The reason I ask is that it while it seems dishonest, keep in mind that seduction is all a game. And it's a game that women are playing just as good, if not better, than men.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:10 AM
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I know I blew it, but it was a learning experience. For some reason, I had a bit of a confidence boost hitting on girls while having a "girlfriend". Convincing myself I was taken put me in a IDGAF mentality, and women were more receptive towards me.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:06 AM
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People want what they can't have.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:00 AM
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This is true. You have to employ a certain level of confidence to pull this off. Introducing yourself and mentioning a girlfriend right away will come across as creepy and try-hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:58 PM
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I can't imagine having a GF overseas would realistically play out for very long. Not too many women would fly overseas just for a guy unless she's from third world and looking for a visa. However, there are plenty of people who have LTRs in other cities or states. If I could fake having a girlfriend long-distance and reap the rewards, then why not.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:54 PM
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Thanks. I'm surprised I never employed the "fake girlfriend" trick before.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:49 PM
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For seduction, I always ask for the girl's phone number. I rarely ever give out social media, since it kills the 'mysterious' vibe. As far as Tinder goes, photos of high SMV female friends works. I've been debating whether or not to show a picture of me with 3 hot girls, or one with just me and my ex-gf.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:42 PM
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Then how do you balance lifting and martial arts?
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:39 PM
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It is often said that a good programmer is worth 10 so/so programmers and it is true. This is true. I hear this all the time in the tech industry. Secondly, to your classmates who didn't get a job...start a company. Develop that app you have been thinking about. Do an internship. They still have options. Starting a business is pretty hard, especially for someone straight out of school with no work experience in the field. 9 out of 10 businesses fail. Nonetheless if you're in tech, you have optio…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:42 PM
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Sure thing. If you have any specific questions, please free to PM me.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 04:09 AM
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Thank you. You're living the dream. How did you establish yourself as a digital nomad?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 04:08 AM
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That sounds awesome. Never heard of a year-long bootcamp.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 03:55 AM
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Upcoming Field Report: "Drugged out orgy with 5-10 women"
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 03:42 AM
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5'9" White This is highly subjective, and I play around with different hairstyles and facial hair. I used to be skinny fat. I can post up a picture of my gym progress later.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:13 PM
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+1 for getting into sales or the trades. I should have clarified that if you go to a four year UNIVERSITY, then STEM majors are the only ones that are worth the time and money. As for the late blooming, it still sometimes bites me today, considering that I had so many opportunities to kill it with women. It's one of those questions that always comes up during drinking games.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 11:08 PM
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Thank you. What city do you live in? That sounds like a great deal. While going the bootcamp route worked out for me in the end, I wouldn't recommend this route to everyone. I had to hustle my ass off, filling my calendar with networking events, applying to jobs every day of the week, going through dry spells, and still feeling uncertain about the future. Many of my classmates never found jobs in the tech industry. There's a bit of a saturation in the entry-level market because of all these boot…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 10:58 PM
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I love NoFap. I actually reached 90 days hard mode once. What helped me was living in my family's house in the suburbs, where I had little exposure to women and more peaceful surroundings. However, being in the big city (lots of beautiful women walking around) and working as an engineer (lots of analytical work), it feels more difficult now. The longest streak I've had here is 3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:04 PM
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I had to take into account that the year isn't over yet, as of this writing.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:53 PM
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Better than living in your mom's basement.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:14 PM
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Then you would know that 70k doesn't get you far without roommates.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:19 PM
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Dating leads to sex. Sex leads to plates.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:26 AM
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I realize that and agree with you. I've been spending less than 25% of my monthly income on rent in Bushwick. It's not a great apartment by any stretch and the neighborhood can feel a little ghetto at times, but it's definitely cutting down expenses. This post isn't so much about where to live for value, but for logistics.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:21 AM
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I like this comment a lot. Renting a short-term sublet makes logical sense.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:08 AM
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Why is Hoboken better?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:05 AM
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I don't see any harm in getting a short-term sublet like someone else here stated. At the very least, I can get it out of my system, plus a shorter commute to boot.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 03:03 AM
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You obviously don't live in NYC.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:54 AM
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This seems like great advice. Thank you. I have a couple questions though. Why chinups all three days? For push days, that seems like a lot more tricep work than chest work. Can I incorporate more chest work instead?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:33 AM
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Do you mind sharing your routine? I work 9-5 so that would mean waking up much earlier than usual and then sleeping earlier as well.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:18 AM
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While I agree that too much social media is a bad thing, it has its advantages in the SMP if used effectively.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:28 AM
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Yes, How To Meet Ladies.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:22 AM
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Currently I'm lifting 4 days a week per my routine. It's the one activity I refuse to sacrifice. It's practically my part-time job and absolutely crucial in the SMP since women love big, muscular guys.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 03:55 AM
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How do you deal with the work/life balance?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:53 PM
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Any advice on getting started in yoga? I've never done it, but it's really trendy nowadays.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:26 AM
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I already feel like I don't have enough time since I work 9-5 and lift weights at the gym after. By the time I get home, eat dinner, and shower, it's already 9:00p.m. Definitely considering finding time for yoga on the weekend.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:25 AM
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Salsa isn't my thing. I tried it several times during my stint in Colombia, but I'm not a fan of Latin music. I'm more into EDM. Improv is on my to-do list. I've considered guitar, but since I'm more into EDM, I think DJing would fit better for me. Never bartended before. Wouldn't being a barista be just as effective in meeting girls?
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:20 AM
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I'm a Web Developer.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 02:13 AM
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I got brutally rejected by a girl today in Union Square. These posts make me feel better, and now I want to go out approaching again.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 07:34 PM
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I'm pretty OCD when it comes to lifting. If I don't have a routine, I don't lift.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:13 AM
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PHUL and PHAT look interesting. Do you know if there's an app like Stronglifts that tracks your progress with those routines?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 10:13 PM
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What numbers do you recommend to get until it's time to switch?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 10:02 PM
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What is RPT?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:58 PM
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I can't afford a trainer at the moment. It seems like I need to continue 5x5 for a little while longer until I can splurge on a personal trainer.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:52 PM
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I've stalled a few times throughout. I eat healthy, but I'm thinking of giving mass gainers a try because I have a fast metabolism. I've been skinny my entire life. My height is 5'9".
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:51 PM
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156lb
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:20 PM
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