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Well there are lesbians ya know..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:45 PM
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I have to do this same shit as a guy and with my own wife to be honest. I will be frank. I agree with OP to an extent that women just won't fucking take initiative even to their own detriment. And you need look no further than women dating other women and how terrible they are at participating in it. Go read any lesbian sub or talk to a few for that matter, this part isn't directed at you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:42 PM
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That's pretty true. I found my wife on Tinder in 2013 and it was WAY better than today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:38 PM
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Accurate. Men need to start acting like women online and things would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:13 PM
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You functionally cannot have this and have a working society. Destigmatizing sex work would create zero barrier to entry and also make no downside this creating no rational for women NOT to participate. When the Market is half sellers the other half does what other than buy. It also creates a literal pyramid scheme of value per woman with connections. I can't imagine anything worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:16 AM
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A retarded sounding black guy who routinely advocates for white people, he had a hilarious interview with Destiny like 5 years ago. https://youtube.com/shorts/FmCQ9P8dbmI?si=LmgR4J13w-7sRIv3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:00 PM
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I thought you were describing Jesse Peterson at first lmao. I'm a 34 yo white guy, and I physically cannot understand people who watch or listen to podcasts about random stuff like that. Even while doing other stuff it seems like a huge waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:54 PM
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Who in the fuck is a Myron and what does he actually have to do with anything pill. Just because a person talks about a subject doesn't make them a spokesperson
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:05 PM
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You are flat out spreading the same hyperbolic statement which has been a common leftist strategy the entire news cycle and Republicans have known about for 8 years. I do not give a shit that Trump said "grab em by the pussy" when the actual message was, "when you're so rich you can do anything, grab em by the pussy". When you multiply this situation ad infinum and then Trump gets elected you can fucking see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:42 PM
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Hahahahaha ohhh my God you poor soul. As a guy who knows a LOT of women who date women, and since I date women, know the experience. Guess what experience men and women have in common that drives them insane? Dating women. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:25 PM
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Yes OP is correct and where you can look for the best data is homosexual men, which is disturbing It's been a while since I've gone into it, but when conducting interviews in the gay community it was discovered that homosexual men are raped, drugged, coerced, and put in unsafe situations at an insane rate, especially with how small gay community is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:31 PM
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Actually sane answer. It's not hard to have a decent amount of lovers as a guy you just have to be willing. I can get any guy in here laid with multiple women over years if you aren't just a retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:41 PM
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I don't know what's necessarily being debated here, but I have something to state on the orgasm gap. Any woman who has a massive disparity in sexual release compared to her partner is a complete enigma to me. They've either chosen a sexually incompatible partner, they didn't evaluate properly the importance of sex to themselves, or some other sexual based issue like being on SSRIs or something. I'm not a sexual god or gift to all women, but every woman whom I've been with who has been sexually o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:09 PM
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This is one of the best episodes of the Simpsons, and a personal favorite, and one of the worst comparisons I've ever read. No man, Blue pulled guys do not just coast through life and succeed that is not reality lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:27 AM
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Literally on, or before my first date with women I've already had a discussion on the topic of sex. I'm 33, this should be simple shit for most people. That being said, I am purposefully dating sexually open people and I've never met a woman who doesn't enjoy rough sex, at least sometimes, with a trusted male partner. This shit is as easy as talking about bedroom interests and most people who enjoy sex are going to discuss before a relationship ever gets too deep and if you don't you're a retard…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:33 PM
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My very real question to you is this: what are you going to do about it? I don't know if you are a man or woman, but are you working on any plan of self improvement? Doing things to make yourself more marketable? Are you kinky, driven, active into any communities you like? I'm a 33 year old man. I'm married. I recently became polyamorous 2 years ago. Dating is a whole new ballgame in this lifestyle and it's harder than hard. I invested a ton in myself and it worked out in spades for me. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:00 AM
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Do you have other fulfilling friendships or relationships in life? I've been single, married, and now in an open marriage. I've loved all of them. I need my autonomy. In fact I crave it. One of my big red flags in dating even to this day is what time availability people have and what their hobbies are, if any. As a healthy emotionally intelligent person if I identify someone and their hobbies are usually isolationist or things like scrolling social media, or binge watching TV shows I'm automatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:00 PM
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Ngl kind of validating when a slutty person chooses you to marry like, wow you like this dick/pussy forever okay lover let's go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:54 PM
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Venue of availability for sure. Tell a woman dressed up at a bar she's pretty? You'll probably be met with a weird look. Also pro-tip, older women/mom's absolutely love offhand compliments. Different generation so they will eat that up. Try telling the sexy milf at the grocery store on a Saturday/Sunday that you love her outfit. Guaranteed you'll be met with a good response if you do it right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:24 PM
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Actual Femcels like, NEET women who are ugly are very low on the totem pole, but similarly to actual Incel men, are still rare. People throw around the terms a lot but REAL incels are not common. People with 0 redeeming factors ugly inside and out. Just like with men, the term with women has lost meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:04 PM
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That's perfectly fine to do. Changing the relationship structure mid relationship is a big no no. Most professionals in the sphere advocate that if you desire an open relationship that badly you need to break off your existing closed relationship to start in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:04 PM
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I'm in an open marriage. Just to put my input, you never want to ever date some who's open just because you want to date that person. You have to decide and desire being non-monogamous before even starting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:57 PM
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Pretty much! It's fun at the end of the day and made me realize how much love I can give and happiness I can spread and it's very fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:43 PM
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I didn't say that part was. I say I am as a person. That's one part of my entire life, beliefs, and practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:36 PM
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Not really red pilled, more of an amalgamation, but I definitely identify more as conservative in many subjects. I'm in an open marriage and it's going pretty well. Stable things with wife, consistent girlfriend, meet casual partners when I feel like it once in a while. You probably would not call me a Chad but I got my shit together and am in good shape, responsible, have interesting hobbies, kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:14 PM
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Enjoy your displeasure with existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:50 PM
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Listen amigo. I don't owe you anything or expect anything, but you clearly aren't in a good headspace and gotta figure out some stuff in that realm. This is the problem I always find with people of a leftist mindset, and I don't care that you have one that's fine, but your entire personality and attitude is that you have zero control so why try. That's the sad and in some cases pathetic part. You're trying to change the world to fit your needs rather than taking the easy and more logical step an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:29 PM
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That's a societal problem though and we have no control over it. Seriously as some real advice I advise you to try to stop hyper fixating on external factors outside of your control. It's a complete recipe for unhappiness that's not changeable. You are never going to be happy if you focus on laws regulations and everything going on around you. Try focusing on self-improvement and things that you can change about your circumstances and it'll make you much happier I promise. That's what I had to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 PM
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I'm going to be honest. Looking at your post history alone you just appear straight up a sad lonely person. So my question to pose is not so much related to your OP, but actually are you Happy? I don't give 2 shits about politics anymore. I don't care if a person is proudly communist though I might think for just a second, "how misguided." But I do ask you how much of your mental bandwidth do your ideological leanings tie up in your day to day life and do some correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:48 PM
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As a man I assume any in shape woman at the gym or that I see out and about under the age of 30 is generally doing porn of some sort. It's sad. Unfortunately in the few times I've become friendly with these women or interacted enough for them to be comfortable they have confirmed this. All the attractive women at my gym, which it's a small gym, do OF. It gives me the perception that if I were to date any conventionally good looking women that it's just a given she sells content, or herself, or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:39 PM
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It's not even so much as always just active like physically fit. But all too often I meet women who literally get winded just walking down the city blocks. That's no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:02 PM
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Not being a fucking loser and providing something to society to build up on what our forefathers did, trying to fix and make better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:55 AM
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If this post is any indication, I'd say your mental health and emotional stability are shot to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:14 AM
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What you just described is an issue in itself with leftists. It's focus is solely on the sociological issues and structure as a whole and it offers no real or practical use and leaving people jaded and frustrated with no answer. Leftist belief as a whole is founded on an idealistic practice of "shits fucked we need to change everything for everyone as a movement." Red pill and people more on the right side say "shits fucked how can I come out on top and above."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:16 AM
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Yeah 10 at 25 isn't insane, but still considered high. I was my first girlfriends 14th, she was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:11 AM
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About the same? She's a teacher works 7:30-3:30, and I work 8:30-5. She fortunately doesn't bring work home. A normal day is she goes to work, I get up walk the dog, water/feed and get ready for work. I get home and she'll usually be watching TV/computer or sometimes have cooked. (I cook about 50% of the time). If she cooked we eat, or I cook then we eat. I walk the dog again, we talk a bit. Then I go to the gym, come home do dishes talk, fuck or whatever. At 9pm she sleeps, I put dog to bed and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:10 PM
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She cooks about 2 days of the week, however all dishes, kitchen cleaning, floors, vacuuming, car care, landscaping, laundry is on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:59 PM
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The latter unfortunately. Married 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:55 PM
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Statistically true, but my experience has lead me to never have that experience, it would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:53 PM
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People on here I think are a tad misguided. It's an accomplishment with a but. Did you move out and get your own place at 24 after college with a decent job? Great fantastic. Did you do it at 34? That's the bare minimum your behind in life. I'm 32 years old with a wife no kid, house and 2 running cars. I'm solidly middle class, decent life trajectory, no early retirement, and occasional vacations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:09 PM
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I have surprisingly heard the "feeling small and protected" comment quite often from both conservative and cut throat hardcore feminist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:45 PM
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People who don't live on the internet would never even think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:09 AM
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I refuse to believe that women are getting into relationships with men this functionally incapable. If they are then those women are just as damaged. Either way, you get what you choose and what's in your cards. Also feminist outlooks is just yikes. Modern American feminism is such a bastardized concept. Ive had a crunchy woman call me "feminist" and I just straight up do not want to identify with that. r/menslib is pathetic enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:52 AM
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My brother in law told me this when I was 15. "The unemployment rate of attractive women is 0". Always stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:30 PM
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A woman making significantly more than me would be unlikely to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:47 PM
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I made sure it was a discussion before marriage. Everyone has their own hills they will die on. Mine is financial security. It would be relationship ending for me if it was disagreed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:53 PM
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Joint familial goals. If I say I want to live a conservative lifestyle in order to retire young and live a life of financial security and my wife agrees to the same, but then turns around and is way over spending, in a way that's kind of reneging our agreed goals and future sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:41 PM
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See I'm taking issue with the word "submissive" itself. I disagree with it's use overall when identifying women in a relationship. Lots of women like being submissive, but situationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:36 PM
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People read too much into this. There's BDSM submissive, there's subservient housewife. In my opinion in the modern world this definition of submissive = agreeable to Husbands planning and future life goals. I don't expect my wife to see eye to eye with me in political issues, personal goals, and desires. But I DO expect her to see eye to eye with me on life goals and moving forward as a family unit. If she doesn't that's pure incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:24 PM
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It 4chan art piece. They always draw guys faceless, it's like a board culture thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:20 PM
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That's surprisingly high to hear 1/25 women would be interested in experimenting with other women sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:11 AM
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I am fully aware of these details. Nothing you or I said is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:05 AM
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Ho ho. Wait until you get into your 30s and 10% of your peers take the open relationship pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:18 PM
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Neither, I come here to shit post and spur anger. I am unable to be satiated. Hos down, I only get with homies with the meanest dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:56 PM
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I'm married and have a therapist but thanks amigo you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:48 AM
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I'm looking for it, but this was long ago now (8 years?) So it's hard to find. I found out lots of news stories about suicide get purged from the internet. Friend of mine did the suicide by cop thing and now you can't find a single thing online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:32 AM
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For anyone who wants context on the first kid. It was a 14 year old boy who got sucked into a grooming discord where the admins got his nudes then blackmailed him to telling his parents he wanted to transition to a girl or else they'd share his nudes. So he ended up killing himself. I know the grooming meme is a thing, but it was literally a discord of trans people blackmailing kids to transitioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:18 AM
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It's essentially the same meme as women waiting to settle down when they are 30. How men do it past their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:39 AM
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There was a bar in the shitty part of town I know called Crazy 8s. The place was known for stabbings, shootings, drug deals and semi cheap beer. I only went there twice because they always got shut down at night. A woman in our friend circle wanted to physically go there for the shitty men. Was literally confusion, like okay your kink and necessity for degradation is so high you're willing to get into real trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:34 PM
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It's definitely an exaggeration but also DEFINITELY the majority. I'm in my 30s and downloaded tinder not long ago. Lots of boss babes, kind nuts personality, very attractive, many divorced. Or, fatter women, usually kids as well, also divorced, very easy pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:07 PM
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You obviously have a pre-structured agenda and are not worth talking to. Acting like a professional victim doesn't make you one. Way to be the antithesis of feminism by setting women back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:25 PM
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You're opinion isnt just wrong here, it's factually incorrect. You do realize you can participate in BDSM without any form of physical pain or degradation, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:16 PM
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Hard disagree. You're take is straight up antifeminist yourself as if women cannot have their own agency to voice their own desires. If you knew anything about Kink you'd also know that the Submissive in a D/s relationship also holds all the power. I'm active in my local community, and I doubt you have any real knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:09 PM
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There's not a single dominated space that's going to be sex or dating related that will be female dominated unless exclusively to them. The fact FetLife is 56% male is functionally fucking miraculous, if you didn't realize that. BDSM and kink funnily enough kind of fall into gender roles, that's not a shocker. Women more often than not prefer to fall into a submissive role. This isn't news not a great Revelation. Porn did not make women prefer submissiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:21 PM
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You're post kind of screams about men with kinks and taboo sexual interests. That's always what "porn sick" alludes to. You gotta realize most people are very vanilla. Most of the taboo interests these days are being heavily pushed by women ironically. I know WAY MORE women who got into BDSM and kink than men. My wife is the reason I'm doing that. And I think many 30 year old men fuck off mainstream porn too. I know I haven't watched anything from a high production company in over 5 years, mainl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:44 PM
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There's a correlation there too because almost all young boys are out in sports, and girls way less often from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:17 AM
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30 is fine, it just may be difficult to progress a relationship to the phase of having children before you become "at risk" which is 35. Being a 30 year old woman is not old. What many guys who are unhappy about is that they are 30, decent career, no baggage and dating women in their 30s usually come with kids and ex husband trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:13 PM
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Lmao. I come here for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:35 PM
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I mean it's working for me so sure I suppose. However that's because I also chose a spouse from a southern conservative family and despite her liberal tendencies she is still attracted by a strong man of character (like her dad). It's going to be different. There's no right or wrong answer. All that matters is the guy is productive and able to solve problems. Whether he's blue or red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:22 PM
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I'm married and don't subscribe to the ideology, but I do all these except 3. Though I am working on my career path to do that in the next 3 years for when my wife has our first kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:02 PM
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The names are stupid but the differences are there. Like all things it's not white and black, or red and blue in this case. If a person asked me a line of questions I'd probably come off as Red pilled, but I don't subscribe to the ideology. My thing is, it doesn't matter what's wrong with the world, if the systems are failing people around me. I'm going to just do what is in my best interest to strive and ensure my family is safe and taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah, but that's why it's pathetic. You cannot do anything about it, except complain, and what is accomplished. Are you going to blame women for not dating you? Blame employers for not hiring you? Blame people for not befriending you? It doesn't matter if you do. It doesn't get you what you want, you have to do something yourself. Literally everyone needs to self focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:35 AM
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This is true, but men are actually much more likely due to our hormones to deposit fat similarly. Women can get really unlucky on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:28 PM
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You are misinterpreting what I am posting amigo. I am not claiming that people, women specifically, are predisposed to MORE fat. I am stating that like men's height are preordained, how and where a women deposits her fat is as well to their detriment or benefit. You can see skinny small women with no tits and a stomach pooch. Or absurdly thicker thighs and no tits. It's just a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:22 PM
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You are the only advocate and have the only agency for yourself. You cannot control the actions of any other party. When you take this in it helps tremendously. But, you then cannot blame anyone else, it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:58 PM
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I mean it's hard to have a poor shape IF you are healthy and fit. Just like you can be short as a guy and have a gorgeous face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:51 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you or any others nitpicking the finer details. But OP asked for a comparable measurable genetic factor to men's height, and women's pre disposed body shape is probably the closest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:26 PM
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Exactly. And they can't control that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:39 PM
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Pretty much my take too. I have loved some thicker women, but I've also met some women who have horrible fat deposits that I just cannot become aroused by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:39 PM
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It is one of the few factors though that is genetically predisposed just like our height. It also means some women may have to put in more effort to keep a certain appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:59 PM
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Well a V taper is sculpted in the gym, so I mean, whatever you find attractive on a woman, nice strong legs, with a smooth tight skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:52 PM
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I'm going to go with body SHAPE. This is affected by weight, but it is actually the way your body genetically appropriates weight around it. Some women may have huge thighs and ass, little too. Or massive belly, or be evenly distributed all over. It can make a pretty women really disproportionate in a bad way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:22 PM
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This was my go to as well. What if both parties agree to the divorce but the husband initiates it to protect the money from medical debt. Move money to now ex husband, who continues paying bills while debt accumulates for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:20 PM
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Absolutely not. It's not worth fucking up your born proportions for height. It'll fuck with everything else. I cannot imagine trying to be fit after having your legs lengthened but the same arm length
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:58 PM
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I don't know about you guys, but education, intelligence, emotional intelligence (not starting fights over stupid shit) and income are absolutely important to me. I would not have married my first girlfriend because the girl failed in community college. Looks are good, but ehh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:20 PM
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Man....I don't think that's even close to true. Most women want a man who knows himself and that means sexually as well. I think MOST average every day people want a partner who knows their sexual interests and are comfortable in them. So many people are into kink and bdsm these days I couldn't fathom people being into virgins in either side of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:19 PM
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Nah, just Dallas, Tx.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:00 PM
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A lot of this and also our whole economic sphere is fucking things up, at least in the U.S. on dating apps these days, a VAST MAJORITY of women I see that are attractive are sex workers, sex worker lites, or advertisers for their social media influencing. This is not inherently women's fault, but people's fault for supporting these endeavors. So many pretty women under the age of 30 now are selling sex, the number is astounding. And why not? They want to get ahead in life just like we do. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:34 PM
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This is effectively what it is. People are just starting to take notice that after a decade of girl power, women are the future, men are evil, that young men 18-30 are kind of checking out of society. There are some musings as to why, and my legitimate bet is that men and young boys these days have such low testosterone it creates a massive amount of motivation loss. It's already been determined that men today have half the testosterone of our grandfather's at their age. Something medical is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:57 PM
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Where I am, the teams can't play unless they have a certain amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:17 PM
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It's absolutely insane. As a very fit man I'm already in the 99% of physic fitness and I'm not even that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:30 PM
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If you are a woman aged 25 or older and are deemed at a healthy BMI or below, you are automatically more fit than 80% of your counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:25 PM
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The average woman today is literally overweight boarding obese. Men are not much better. I think 5'9" and 198 pounds is our average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 04:25 PM
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For men: ANY local music venue of bands you like to listen to (women will always be there), co-ed sports leagues, Farmer's markets and other art hoe shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:37 PM
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There are places, public gathering places, bars, friends of friends, bookstores, rock climbing, any form of out door co-ed hobbyist sports groups. The like. Really if you have to ask this question "Where can I meet people" you really need to start with asking, "Do I actively participate in society?" Chances are you work, come home and play video games or chill on your computer. If that's the case, try to find discord hoes I don't know. There's lots of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:35 PM
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Average marital age needs to go up. Everyone I know in my age bracket divorces at 28-29.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:26 PM
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People make that comparison because while society has changed many adults of that generation still remained married and are today as they approach their demise. The baby boomer generation is the first generation where divorce later in life really sky rocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:20 PM
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It is not something with a ton of detail but this is common, especially these days. Age gap relationships with an elder male and younger female are usually seen as disgusting because the man is "using" the woman for her appearance and his age and career status are leverage points for him. However, people forget that these younger women also leverage their looks and body for financial gain too. I dunno if you use any OLD but my god are so many women prostitutes now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:04 PM
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Thank ya. You too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:53 PM
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Im a guy but I even find these weird. Like yeah dating sucks, it's difficult, always has been but like what are you going to do? Right now school children learn in 3rd grade what other kids used to learn in 5th. Standards raise. Seems like standards have been raising in a lot of areas, including dating. I dunno, as an openly married guy I feel the struggle and I empathize with guys on it, but even as a lover of sex it's not the end all be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:13 PM
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I can also sing the entire album of Straight out of Compton front to back, and will do so loudly in the car with my date!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:04 PM
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It's probably my charm and my charisma. Also I can eat 6 whole hotdogs and buns in a single sitting, and I can make fart sounds with just my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:58 PM
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I know they do. I'm actually doing pretty decent at this moment. Both my wife AND I are specifically targeting ONLY other married people, no singles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:45 PM
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Thank you. I'd say she undoubtedly is, but why I do not know. She has been in therapy for a while now (it's how she came out as wanting to be Polyamorous). But other than that I'm just not sure. I definitely try to take her on weekly dates, small trips here and there as budget affords and stuff. I literally never chastise her for her choices or decisions on things. We have lots of fun together, talk a decent amount, but yeah. I definitely worry that whatever she has a kid will make worse and I'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:33 PM
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Yeah....I've thought about that too. It actually is what sparked us almost actually getting divorced a year ago funny enough, but that's a long story. I stayed with her through opening a marriage, even though that's going surprisingly well for me. I want a child too....I would be prepared to take sole responsibility of raising the child if I had too, I'd want them that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:47 PM
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We've talked about it. You can be skeptical all you want, but it just is what it is and I have options of either A) talking to her more, causing her to be pissed off and not changing. B) Doing ridiculous time management and just doing everything. I don't doubt your skepticism, but it is the honest truth. Her mother comes over and regularly asks her why she doesn't do chores. For context we are both employed, earning similar incomes, she's a teacher and has summers off, no kids. This summer she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:22 PM
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Read about that a bit on /fit/ heard it also has some addictive properties, but wouldn't be opposed to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:17 PM
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I know you're being real. But 99% of women I meet say "I like fun dad bod guys or the tall super skinny guys." If you are 6'1"+ and a fucking skeleton with an iota of fashion sense you are swimming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:34 PM
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Want to know how ABSOLUTELY wild this gets? When you include people who are married it's just as fucking bad. I am married and in an open relationship with my wife. My wife gets over 100 likes in MARRIED ONLY sections of a smaller dating app in 24 hours. I've had mixed results, but I usually will get 3 likes per week now as an extraordinarily in shape early 30s man. You wonder how the shit the ratio is that insane with COUPLES.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:32 PM
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This is why I always bring my trusty photo album to show what a swell guy I was. God quitting drinking has made talking to women publicly more challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:20 PM
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Where are these women who take care of us? I am married and have yet to experience this. My wife cooks, I clean, do yard/auto/house maintenance and all laundry and dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:06 PM
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