aburnerobvi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Regrets and apologies... It seems like you aren't that into her and she's not dtf...so what are you going on a second date for? I'd definitely prioritize other options and if you can squeeze her in then fine, respect yourself	/r/seduction	02/09/21 05:56 AM
1	Sudden attitude from a girl? 1) she may not want that with you or be hung up about the idea of being exclusive (age and context matter here) 2) there's a train of thought that it's masculine to want more women right? so by you being the one to want to make it exclusive it's sort of a turn off, cuz...she has you, you're committing, if you really want to be exclusive I'd say go reverse psychology, start seeing someone else (who knows you may end up liking this someone more bc they don't give stupid attitude) to make her have …	/r/seduction	02/09/21 05:36 AM
2	How to approach this girl at the gym? what was the red flag that made you turn down the older gym girl and why?	/r/seduction	02/09/21 04:50 AM
1	I quit I'm into certain things similar to you and also used to have depression, thought I should say that if you like reading I read a great historical fiction book called "Creation" a lot of which focuses on various eastern philosophies and made me recalibrate my devotion to nothingness	/r/seduction	02/09/21 02:49 AM
1	I went to a party at the house of the girl who rejected me, it was miserable I think the point is there should be no committing	/r/seduction	02/09/21 02:31 AM
1	When you meet the woman this is "just right". it seems like you're pretty successful, and quick gems of advice?	/r/seduction	31/08/21 07:46 AM
3	Why did she ask to bring her friend? honestly my experience is that early in college girls do not want to date they want to have fun, invite her out with your friend group around 3-4 on a friday, and then when things get a little sloppy close from there	/r/seduction	31/08/21 07:02 AM
1	Lessons about texting and asking a friend for advice. Couple things 1) don't overthink these things, yes it could be your texting, but it could also be that she liked you a lot but wasn't ready for something serious and thought you were serious material so didn't want to keep dating you, people are just weird and complex, best thing you can do is find another girl 2) "I thought she was different and I don't really have to play games" this is never true as you've learned 3) it seems like you got too into her too fast, ideal situation is to have date…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 06:27 AM
1	The difference between me and women is just too big depression is your biggest issue here bro, I wouldn't even worry about women right now, we need to build you up, think of it as a quest to improve your self image "The best way to feel better is to be better." - Me This is what I would say if you were my brother Step 1 - First thing is to improve your social life, do this with things you enjoy first - video games? Magic? wtv it is, there is probably a meetup for it somewhere, go to one, don't have any expectations your goal is just to go to one,…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 06:17 AM
2	Is going to a bar/club alone a good put strategy this is one of the best ways to get good at socializing, just make sure you go somewhere busy so it's not obvious you're alone and keep moving and opening with different groups of people (not just women) eventually you'll sorta have friends for the night and will give you more opportunities when you do talk to women because you won't look so anti-social - my 2 cents	/r/seduction	31/08/21 05:49 AM
1	Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting? please do not text her that sappy shit "it's fine to reject me" no bro, you're already overthinking it and that would def kill things, I think you still have a chance here but need to take thing's slower/chiller - why? because if you're texting her and she's offering to chat downstairs she's probably like 6/10 interested in you, but "just coming over for wine" makes it seem like you're trying to get her straight into bed and she's not interested enough for that yet - 2 options - 1) wait a bit an…	/r/seduction	31/08/21 05:30 AM
1	Is this a rejection or valid excuse? you've already noted all the reasons that she's just declining politely, if she was into it she would find an hour or 2 to see you, but to add something, it could be that your offer to come an hour on the train makes it seem too serious, it's not spontaneous (let's be real if you had more options would you really ride a train 2 hours to see a girl? no) this is not attractive, I would try again when you get back to college in a chiller way	/r/seduction	31/08/21 05:15 AM
1	[deleted by user] why did things go south? was there something in particular that happened? if it was after you tried to escalate things it could be that she is having hangups about actually having action happen and was just kinda using you for fantasy/escape - another thought is that dude saw your texts or confronted her about it so now she feels guilty - I would call one night, not text	/r/seduction	31/08/21 05:09 AM
2	Bro. love this "shooters fucking shoot" reminds me of "I'd rather go 0-30 than 0-9" - Kobe	/r/seduction	31/08/21 04:55 AM
3	I went to a party at the house of the girl who rejected me, it was miserable exactly this, OP it sounds from context "she didn't want to commit" "I was starting to like her a lot" "distanced another girl" - it sounds like you got to serious too fast, for her and also for you, need to adjust your mindset with this, ideal situation is to be seeing this girl and the other girl at the same time	/r/seduction	31/08/21 04:32 AM
1	Started to get into pick up - approached 3 girls, no luck 1) You really have to do more than 3 of these to know if you're doing something wrong, especially in these settings, try like 20 and if they all go this way then I'd say there's a problem 2) You say yourself you dress poorly, that's fine but not for chatting up women 3) what do you do making 185K??	/r/seduction	29/08/21 07:50 AM