abyssiniancatbird Archive

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1	Do girls constantly have cognitive dissonance from being viewed as sex objects? My point is simply that you get a higher concentration of propositions from all kinds of men across the board, but the only category of men that being attractive really helps with is men of status and wealth, because those men tend to be choosier. In my anecdotal experience, my less attractive friends are more likely to be seen as relationship material than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/18 11:01 AM
1	Do girls constantly have cognitive dissonance from being viewed as sex objects? Not necessarily; you only have a better shot in terms of men with money and status, and it's a numbers game in terms of chances you'll be rejected by the guy you're interested in. But you get propositioned by all kinds of men. Men can also be extremely jealous, paranoid, and possessive when they date you, and put you on a pedestal in which you can't possibly humanly reach. It's more nuanced than "hey, good to know".	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/18 10:14 AM
1	Do girls constantly have cognitive dissonance from being viewed as sex objects? I don't mean to toot my own horn but I am a conventionally attractive young woman, and it really does bleed into every single aspect of my life (I have been able to make money off my appearance as well). I do think that my personal experience is not unique and is experienced by most women though. I have to be extremely vigilant and careful when it comes to making male friends, to the point where I now constantly question the true intentions of every guy that tries to be friends with me. Being a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/18 04:32 AM
1	Ain’t Nothin’ Like a Hard Workin’ Man That's only because all life is suffering, and in life, you consistently keep having to work at it. Therefore, a man who works hard is truly living life, and that has to be quite attractive to any woman. If a man isn't working hard, he is doing something fundamentally wrong and can't be expected to attract as many women, because he has no idea really how to "live life" and thus, can't sustain hers or anyone else's (namely offspring).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 04:56 AM
1	Q4All: Why aren’t men told to stop dating Stacies? This is true. Hot girls know they have a million options and if their partner is lower SMV and knows it, they are more inclined to spoil and take more of their shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 04:34 AM
1	Q4All: Why aren’t men told to stop dating Stacies? How about early career Kim Kardashian when she was more 'ethnic' looking and didn't have a tumor for an ass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 04:19 AM
6	If you used to be BP and changed, what made you reconsider feminism? Also, his interview with* Camille Paglia changed my whole perspective to RPW.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/18 06:40 AM
13	Alpha, beta and the ideal RPW marriage. Here's a great article on what it means to be a virile man in ancient Greece and Rome. But Roman virilitas was even harder to achieve. A man with virilitas had to be tall, muscled, handsome, tanned, and well-endowed. (Roman men spent a lot of time naked at the baths.) He also had to be clever, energetic, confident, and politically engaged. But the defining quality of virilitas was self-control. Virilitas was an ethic of moderation, in which strong or “vigorous” powers were kept deliberately rein…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/18 03:48 AM
12	Alpha, beta and the ideal RPW marriage. Naturally, looks fade, but priorities change as well. Imagine being, for all intents and purposes, an "old hag" who still acts like she's still 19. Whether that means she's the same party girl she once was or the naive bookish college girl, an older woman who retains juvenile characteristics is an undesirable partner by default—whether or not she invests in any physical upkeep. Not only is she completely undesirable as a sexual partner, but a life partner as well. And of course, if you've succes…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/18 03:31 AM
1	Female teachers who sleep with male students - a question about evo-psych Thus chick is a total butterface, slightly chubby, just wearing lots of makeup. She's not hot at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/18 01:09 AM
1	Men need to stop putting down gold diggers Why the hell can't these two dichotomies of rich/hot be seen through the lens of being used a means to lure partners in versus the ultimate reason they stay with each other? Obviously the latter happens, but I see the argument constantly being argued as a black and white issue and completely one-sided. Unless the RP man fully admits that they have absolute no fucks about women's looks and only fuck them for their personality, 1) they are not truly red pilled and 2) they are being disingenuous as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/18 06:59 PM
1	Feminism needs to stop pushing young women towards casual sex The last part is reminding me of one particular bisexual, bipolar blonde girl (BBB!) on Buzzfeed... I'll let you guys figure out who that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/18 01:06 PM
1	Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive. Oh, I'm definitely attracted to Asian men, and men in general with darker features (tall, dark, and handsome, anyone?). Though I suppose I prefer Asian American guys over fobs in general since I prefer less of the 'soy boy' thing, I don't like girly looking guys. I guess I prefer more masculine, macho guys in general, so my preferences are less about race than it is about culture. I love guys with cute faces, don't get me wrong, but I do like guys who have a higher BMI than I do. And I'm 5'5 and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/18 04:27 AM
2	CMV: A lot of the anger from the manosphere is a result of women complaining even though they are in a heavily advantageous position. Of course men have that pressure, although there is an expectation for women to have it altogether by 35. Men have more leeway in regards to a biological clock. Older men have the stable resources and mindset to settle down and have a child pretty much any time. Although 1 year is clearly not enough time to get to know someone enough to trust having a baby with them, I think waiting 5 years with a guy my age is too long. Unless I date a trust fund baby with virtually zero student loan debt, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 06:02 AM
9	Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive. Man, a lot of projecting going on in this post. I disagree. It is established that the hormone testosterone makes you much more conscious of your surroundings on a visual acuity level to all women in general, but ESPECIALLY to attractive women. FtM trans guys immediately notice a marked difference in that regard and begin to feel the physiological effects of I-couldn't-help-but-stareness common in all men. However, vanity and by proxy, narcissism isn't really considered an attractive trait in me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 05:40 AM
2	There is nothing wrong with manipulation There's a fine line between having an agenda and being manipulative, though the two are completely interchangeable IMO. Every single person has an agenda, whether they're aware of it or not. Many things are simply just laying there in the unconscious and can be fairly benign and non-threatening, but everything you do is done with a purpose in mind. Manipulation on the other hand, refers to the actionable stuff you do, and how much of your specific actions interfere with some sort of trajectory s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 05:14 AM
2	CMV: A lot of the anger from the manosphere is a result of women complaining even though they are in a heavily advantageous position. I guess so, though I would argue that in place of sexual desire, there's more pressure on me to find a suitable mate to have a baby with, no? I'd think that would be the female equivalent of that. I'm 21, and most guys my age are not even concerned about that, everyone is preoccupied with finding a casual sex partner and is completely immersed in hookup culture when I already feel my biological clock ticking, no matter what feminists are telling me. 35 may be the new 25, but biology and evolutio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 04:54 AM
2	CMV: A lot of the anger from the manosphere is a result of women complaining even though they are in a heavily advantageous position. Well, if it comes down to that, then that's just extremely unfortunate and pitiful IMO. Perhaps I* am biased because I am, for all intents and purposes, a "gatekeeper of sex", but I do not place sex that highly in my pyramid of priorities—and I have a high sex drive. And my point my just very well prove your point on an inverse plane. I mean, are we getting to a point in our social universe and the general manosphere where women have to check their "sex privilege" card now, though? Snowflake-y, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 01:16 AM
1	Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers? Yup. Just look at women like Wendi Deng Murdoch, for example—she's hardly just a piece of arm candy and mantle piece. She's got several degrees and an MBA from Yale. You really have to bring something to the table in order to partake in this high value dating game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 09:20 PM
1	Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers? Edited for clarity and context. :) Anal is definitely not an everyday thing for us, but it's fun on occasion to spice things up a bit. I really have to be in the right mindset to do it right and without pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 09:06 PM
1	Is there a red pill for women who want to find attractive beta providers? I've managed to secure a high value guy with a high end career like this (though he is not beta) and this is the list of requirements, at least in my opinion and pertaining to me: Be an actual 8+/10, if the scale you're using is "10/10 is a unicorn ideal and does not technically exist." You have to have a very pretty face and nice body; being fit and curvy is universally attractive. My measurements are 36-25-37. Sharp wit and incredible intellect. University degrees REALLY help. High value guys …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/18 08:34 PM