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Acaciduh/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:09 PM
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I think I love you lol 🤌👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:14 PM
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No is he a baby with no freewill? Why didn’t he have a threesome when he was single or before her? If having threesomes were so important in his marriage he should discuss that before marriage and they can go their separate ways if they don’t agree. Do y’all marry people without discussing huge things that are dealbreakers for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:47 PM
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I understand the RP sentiment - my point was that guy stating men aren’t staying they DON’T want marriage and kids. I’m also married with children and I also don’t think people should just divorce on a whim. Which is why amongst other things I don’t agree with BP on I’m purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:47 PM
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Great so then don’t get married and men can stop boo hooing they can’t pass down a “legacy” a win win for us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:19 PM
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Red Pillers constantly “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. Dudes come in here in droves saying they just want to be able to have casual sex like Chad and being a Beta provider is for fools. Marriage is useless with these horrible western women. So no there’s plenty that say they don’t want a wife and kids - they want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:30 PM
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Same 🙋🏻‍♀️ Let’s get this show on the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:15 PM
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I don’t have a problem with direct approach. My husband and his group of friends sent me and my group of friends a round of shots and the rest was history. He literally just asked if I was having a good time and we started talking from there. So yes asking about tattoo is a great opener. Coming up talking about aura’s is just weird and off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:28 PM
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All my “hook ups” turned into boyfriends or the last one my husband. I didn’t date men I wasn’t physically attracted to so they’re are synonymous. I had sex with my husband on the 2nd date I’m not trying to waste my time on mediocre sex 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:53 PM
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What a stud sign me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:42 PM
1

Now I have back problems, do you just hate me!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:59 PM
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I’m not trying to have those neck problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:57 PM
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Fine by me 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:56 PM
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That is crazy and horrific for the father. I think this is more about incompetency on the states part but it’s not actually legal. I get that doesn’t matter if you are one fighting for custody though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:55 PM
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That’s why I said legally. I don’t know of any state that allows a mother to give a baby up without the father’s consent. They can obviously lie and state they don’t know the father and never tell the father they have a child. Even in that situation though if the father becomes aware he can gain the child back even if they were adopted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:44 PM
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No height could save a man coming up and talking to me about my “aura”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:39 PM
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In what state can a mother legally give up the child without the fathers consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:29 PM
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Bingo if a man wants kids with me as my husband did there is no possible fucking way he’d get them without the ring. There’s plenty of dumb forever girlfriends to go around…couldn’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:08 PM
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No it’s always the RAPISTS fault. 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:23 PM
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No I got it lol I’m just saying there are some real fucking weird people out there 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:05 PM
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Jokes on you some men are into that! 👠🍆💥
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:51 PM
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I wouldn’t approach any man no matter how attractive I found them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:28 AM
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I’ve never had to. I’ve never felt the need to approach. Signals of interest - man approaches is what worked for me. And if no man ever approached I’d just go about my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:18 AM
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And women are doing better even with less men approaching. I didn’t have to I gave him signs of interest and he approached me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:14 AM
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I’m married with children lol so I don’t worry about dating as is. I think women will be fine with this - there’s not a woman loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:08 AM
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Yes and in the Middle East women are shamed showing an ankle. But we are talking about western norms and in western norms being single as women has been more normalized than ever while being single as a man is net negative socially. Which makes men more desperate than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:57 PM
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Biology is why men don’t reject women in thHe first place lmao. And the reason I NEVER pursued. But if in this hypothetical scenario where men decide who women should be attracted to and to stay in their “league” they will absolutely not pair with men they find unattractive they will literally stay single as they are doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:49 PM
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They will talk to men they find attractive - the same way they do now. They will not pursue men they don’t have attraction towards even if that means extinction. There’s absolutely no incentive as a woman to let a man penetrate you that you have no attraction towards - it can be literally fucking painful. Which brings me right back to what I initially said men’s biology will have them fold first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:43 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said? If anything women choosing not to sleep with men is the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:39 PM
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Who chooses your attractiveness number - is it assigned at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:22 PM
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Women will not start pursuing men they find unattractive because attractive men have stopped. They will just choose to stay alone. I don’t think you understand in this hypothetical game of sex chicken that women can hold out far far longer just due to biology. Testosterone is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:21 PM
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Literally how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:38 PM
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I take my marriage vows seriously I’ve been married almost 20 years but I also don’t feel it’s my business to make it law for people to be stuck in a marriage they no longer want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:31 PM
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Why does that have any bearing? They are both justified to leave for whatever reason they want. As I said they both have to decide whether the consequences for the fall out is worth it and that includes possible judgement from outside sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:38 PM
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You don’t need any justification for divorce. Both men and women are “allowed” to divorce for any reason and yes if either side feels insulted that their partner doesn’t trust them I don’t see any difference. Each will have to decide if the fall out and consequences are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:14 PM
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I was about to type exactly this. I think she’s mistaking that these type of men look at women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:36 PM
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That’s what TRP USED to be. Hold frame, personal accountability, understanding womens nature etc. has flew out the window and it’s now a huge amalgamation of black pill, trad-cons, and right wing/manosphere grifters. I agree old TRP was all about personal accountability but this new iteration is all about blaming everyone, mostly women, is causing all their problems. You can say that’s not true TRP and I would tend to agree, but that’s what zoomer boys and the general public is being fed that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:20 PM
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Yes which is exactly what the commenter above me stated that I replied to - apparently covering our drinks make men feel bad though 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:34 PM
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Well yeah lol I don’t expect church going homebodies to be partying at the bar. But in my case I got lucky I guess because we’ve been married 18 years. So it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:31 PM
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Bars are pretty much warm approaches though. It’s how I got with my husband lol. People are there to be social and have at least the expectation they may be hit on. Cold approaching just random women on the street will usually give dismal ROI’s for average dudes. However anytime I’ve suggested bars/clubs/festivals the dudes here act like I’ve told them must do trial by combat 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:18 PM
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“Women need to take accountability!” ….Women take measures to be responsible and accountable of their surroundings…. “NOT LIKE THAT!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:12 PM
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No I have actually noticed the opposite - the more entwined the more they’re compensating for issues - doubly so if they have a combined page like matt&ashley - someone’s cheating or cheated. I find the couples who rarely post on social media are the most well adjusted and secure. My husband and I rarely post and typically don’t do the happy birthday/anniversary posts, to the point people will ask and we are like we are too busy actual celebrating together??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:08 PM
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Bingo of course the dude who doesn’t care about women’s sexual pleasure wants to enforce women having to stay with said dudes instead of seeking out men who do care - what a shocker! He should have lead with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:29 PM
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This explains A LOT and why no woman should ever take you seriously- you should have led with this tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:27 PM
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The womenfolk get back in line same as it ever meant. The men are free to do what they want of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:18 PM
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Deal! I can’t wait to be one of the good ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:58 AM
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Sometimes I like to splurge 💅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:53 AM
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I’ll give you $3.50 and one banana for this astutely written book! Everyone knows women’s true feminine nature is to be demure and submissive it’s why as soon as women have gained rights and independence they continue to want to defer to men and be SAHM’s…..oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:12 AM
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“Women’s sexuality is inherently bad and must be suppressed for the good of mankind!” What a totally novel idea that’s never been implemented in the history of earth!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:04 AM
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Yeah I was wondering if religion played a part in this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:59 PM
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It was taboo 20 years ago in 2004?! News to me as someone who was dating at that time. And I can’t speak for every woman but it would be an 1000% dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:57 PM
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What? Who wants to hear unsolicited advice - if anything that makes people double down on their behavior not change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:01 PM
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Why do I need to call out random women idk and won’t affect my life in anyway? If it’s a personal friend asking for advice I’ll give it but I really don’t care if some stranger women decide to make bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:22 PM
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Exactly not my monkey not my circus. Feminism is about choice even if the choice is being an idiot 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:10 PM
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Yes agreed. Dating in your 30s I’d imagine a lot of the good people were taken off the market earlier so the pool is probably harder to wade through so I understand the need for being cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:35 PM
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I don’t think you should be in relationships like those and I think more men should choose to be single instead of getting in a relationship that’s not providing any value in their life. My comment was strictly in regard to the revenge fantasy that’s prevalent here. I don’t believe a majority of men in their 30s are dating for revenge or to stick it to women they perceived slighted them in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:24 PM
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Yeah I agree I think the rugged more masc look plays better as women get older. I certainly don’t see 19 year olds lusting after the Rock lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:45 PM
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Most adults in their 30’s are not thinking of ways they can avenge their perceived slights they received when young. Also most men who are successful in their 30’s were also successful in their 20s so they definitely aren’t thinking they need revenge. This trope of virgin shut in men who never received any attraction in their 20’s becoming sex gods in their 30s and making the evil women pay is wholly over represented on this sub and usually by 19 year old men. I do think it’s realistic to say me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:36 PM
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I’ve done it so I figured! It’s incredible instead of years of talk therapy doing like 6 months intense EDMR is eye opening. I recommend it to anyone interested in therapy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:22 PM
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EDMR?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:07 PM
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To post wall women maybe? But I thought according to terps they don’t count. Gen Z defn ain’t looking at the Rock as some sex symbol. I see more pretty boy androgynous types being lusted after for 18-23 year olds, Timothy Chalamet, K- POP, etc. I do think lean muscle plays well across most age women but the roided up extremely jacked is male gaze not female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:26 AM
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lol same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:47 PM
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I’m a woman and it gives me the ick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:12 PM
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I’m fine with adding women to the draft or getting rid of it all together and find it’s a pretty common sentiment among western women. The conservatives here are the ones most vehemently opposed to sending women. And I’ve had enough children at replacement level so I’ve got no dog in this fight other than I think there are plenty roles women can fill in the military to help or we don’t send young people off to be cannon fodder against their will at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:33 PM
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No one thinks widowers male or female are “unfaithful” for remarrying after their spouse dies. That’s a chronically YOU take and maybe feudal Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:28 PM
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So so much. The collective “ICK” men are baffled about women feeling- it’s perfectly encapsulated in that comment. Collective shudder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:25 AM
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Bruh you just want to be mad. Go reread what I said - men HERE literally on this subreddit. I’m not trying to fuck men on this subreddit. I’ve literally agreed with you that I don’t think men are like this IRL but it’s pervasive in places like this. We are in agreement but because I’m a woman you’re not even reading what I’ve said and acting like I’m against you what you’ve said ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:11 PM
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I literally just said I don’t agree with it. But that MEN themselves are some of the ones who perpetuate the idea. I think collectively it would be better if men as whole upped their standards tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 11:05 PM
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This is way too level headed and rational of a comment to be on this sub lol but I think most normal men probably feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:03 PM
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I mean I also think that too but if we take what many dudes here state it seems that way. I can’t count the number of men here that have told me “we can’t afford to have standards!” I think if you probe more that’s definitely not true but it’s a common enough sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:52 PM
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Yeah I don’t think it’s most men. I do think it’s more men than men think though if they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:11 PM
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I think women have received these kinds of encounters starting at such young ages that we accept it’s just a part of life. So unless it’s egregious (and sometimes not even then) we don’t say anything which is kind of sad tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:31 PM
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I mean if you took my entire body of words where I also iterated “it starts young af” you could have deduced what I meant but that would have derailed your need for victimhood and we can’t have that!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:28 PM
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Oh I know I’ve got a guy screaming about “stare rape” whatever that is. It’s disingenuous as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:24 PM
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If you don’t know the difference between a grown adult man constantly staring at a 13 year old girl in a bathing suit (my exact experience) and just glancing at a women I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:48 PM
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My great grandparents were Cuban immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:46 PM
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For me catcalling wasn’t that bad usually a yelled “hey girl you’re fine”. Men slowing down in cars while I rode my bike to ask for my number, or being cornered in a laundry room at 12 are far scary experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:50 PM
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I don’t think you have to call out anyone - just not being friends with those type of people is good enough. My point is the disconnect with why men seem to be baffled this a universal experience for women is the men behaving badly purposely do it when other men aren’t around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:46 PM
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I don’t think that’s typical. Most girls are at some point going without adult supervision - walking home from the bus/to school, hanging out at a park, riding bikes, etc. Great for your sister but that’s not the majority of women’s experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:42 PM
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That’s not typical but let’s say it is most sexual abuse is within your immediate family - there’s a reason the creepy uncle is a trope. So even if you were never alone in public you could still have experienced sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:37 PM
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Catcalling is not constant or typical in middle class suburban settings. The few times I’ve been catcalled have been at ghetto gas stations because it’s a low brow interaction so mostly low brow people do it. What most women do get is covert leering, making off color remarks about your body, attempting to get you alone, etc. and I don’t know a single women who has hadn’t at least one instance of this starting young af. Men don’t see it is entirely the point. Because men behaving badly when they …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:33 PM
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I don’t think sex is the ONLY thing important in a relationship but for most non asexual individuals it’s a high priority barring some medical complications.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:28 PM
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Same. Also when have women here stated a relationship doesn’t have sex? The small amount of asexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:14 PM
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WOW it’s almost like what was scandalous in 1950 is different 70 years later!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:00 AM
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Yup “you ain’t nothing but a hound dog” wasn’t talking about courting fair lady’s and chivalry bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:37 AM
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I’m down for people to choose what they want, whether that be marriage, cohabitation, or situationships. Personally there’s no way in hell I would have had children with my husband without marriage protections in place but I made that clear from the beginning and he had the informed decision to continue on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:17 AM
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That was the most batshit ppd user I’ve seen in awhile and I’ve seen some crazies 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:47 PM
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No I don’t think so either - the specific song and artist the op is alluding to though doesn’t either he just talks about giving amazing head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:10 PM
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That’s the PPD I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:00 PM
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Well how dare you a man and a woman can’t agree on PPD 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:40 PM
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Maybe I’m not saying he’s hideous but he’d probably be plowing thru slightly chubby single moms in their 30s and not Victoria secret 20 year olds lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:39 PM
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Yeah I agree the “pretty boy” aesthetic is much harder to maintain. It’s also why women’s looks are harder to maintain as neotonous are favored and why men growing into features that are more rugged can help them later. But yeah Leo doesn’t even try lol. Which is whatever I think both him and the women have a mutually agreed contract that is transactional and works for both parties 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:35 PM
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Haha as a millennial from a Miami I don’t think I’ve seen more white girl Becky’s yelling Dale! than the reggaeton renaissance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:29 PM
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I think that’s more his acting ability no? Leo of old was ridiculously hot. His face and physique has not lasted. He’s picked for character roles not leading sex symbol. Like she said without his status he’s not getting a string of 20 year olds. Some defn could though. Oscar Isaac as of right now could be a bank teller and clean up. I just don’t think Leo is a good example of this. He gets girls for tit v tat - he can springboard their career - not raw sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:24 PM
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I don’t disagree a majority probably will I’m just refuting the guy I was responding to that it’s a common BP belief that celebrities with status don’t have puss thrown at them. I can agree some BP subs virtue signal personality over looks and choose outliers which is why I’m purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:14 PM
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BP doesn’t deny having accolades, being rich, handsome, etc. will drastically improve your odds. It just doesn’t agree you MUST have or you’re doomed. Even terps agree you have to self improve. The OP stating only 6’4” waterpolo players with 500 mil have a chance is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:45 PM
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YW!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:51 PM
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Umm Elvis quite literally was banned for public indecency many times he was so extremely scandalous for the time they couldn’t show his hips on tv, Jim Morrison took his whole dick out on stage so yeah they were mostly pretty damn overt on the sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:46 PM
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Let’s keep it going until the mods kick us off I guess. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:42 PM
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No I don’t think I will
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:41 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:39 PM
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Well you’re wrong thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:39 PM
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Elvis, The Beatles, Hair Metal bands, boy bands, etc. but this epiphany came in 2024 at a Future and Metro Boomin rap show. The world must be a scary place for some of these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:36 PM
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Swoon 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:32 PM
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Yep. They also just add enough plausible deniability though. “Oh I would never do such a thing, but other men definitely will. They are also way more misandrist than the women here they accuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:37 PM
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You didn’t monkey branch on the spot. Throw away your woman card now!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:32 PM
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I think those 20% would be taken down quite easily. Also most men that threaten this shit in the west aren’t going to anything but whine on the internet. I do find it amusing the revenge fantasies men have on here is always get in line ladies or we will start raping. Shows a lot about who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:22 PM
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And would you partake in this behavior? Would most men? The world looks a lot different than the days of Khan - do you believe the majority of men would follow such a leader and start mass raping or would take up arms with women to prevent this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:17 PM
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My husband cooked dinner last night…I am a gold digging hussy confirmed!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:10 PM
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Do you think mass rape is a viable option for men in 2024 and you’re advocating for that? Say it with your whole chest don’t be coy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:03 PM
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Are you advocating for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:59 AM
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Yes I’m Cuban and he’s Puerto Rican we know very few Latinos who are circumcised it’s done but it’s not very widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:55 PM
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Oh wow sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:46 PM
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Like you’ve lost all sensation? 😳 Was there a medical reason you had to have it done?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:23 PM
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It’s definitely cultural even here in America I’m Latina and my husband isn’t circumcised and neither is our son. None of my other Latin friends are either. It’s very prevalent in our white friends though. I also see way more of the fathers wanting it done for their sons and the wives being ambivalent. I think it’s an abhorrent practice but idk if it would ever have enough support here to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:00 PM
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What? I have no clue what that has to do with stating your hard boundary is a paternity test and doing that when the time comes? If there is a suspicious activity you should check it out but you also have to be ready to face the consequences if you’re wrong. If I accuse my husband of cheating and start going thru his phone and he’s innocent I am fully prepared to know he’ll be upset with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:17 PM
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No it’s a boundary you set for yourself right from the premise. So it doesn’t matter if there is anything suspicious because you’ve already stated you will be paternity testing from the start and she agreed. So if she goes back on it then she’s at fault and cannot say your a peace of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:02 PM
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When you’re dating and early. “Do you want to have kids?” “Yes” “Great I would like to have a paternity test just for my own peace of mind” “No way” = break up “Absolutely no issue with that” = continue dating Ffs y’all make shit so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:38 PM
1

Ha! I was totally in camp just fuck buddies with my husband because I was not looking for a relationship and somehow he just wormed his way into my heart - that asshole 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:48 AM
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We met at a bar when he sent shots to my friend’s and I table. Then both my group and his group converged and by the end I was making out with him outside so lust at first sight lol? We went on a proper date the following weekend and been inseparable ever since - 19 years and 2 kids later!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:45 AM
2

Aww thanks Bebe ditto ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:05 PM
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I just want you to know I love how triggering you are to dudes in here. And I’m sure your partner is boo hoo crying making bank as a dentist with a hot wife while the alpha dudes of PPD whinge about being dateless ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:00 PM
11

Same and I met my husband at 23 lol. I just vetted for a non weirdo not obsessed with youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:49 PM
6

Sus my husband and children have not mentioned building me a shrine after death - rude and ungrateful!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:45 PM
8

I’m pretty sure it’s just the gender flipped version of the post asking women to pick which man they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:54 AM
9

Lmfao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:49 PM
4

And out of the 10% it’s 3% men and 7% women getting alimony. So not many of ALL divorces are even getting alimony. Why would it be higher than the 1960s lmfao when there are MORE women breadwinners in this day and age than ever before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:54 AM
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No you are socially adjusted and the autistic doomers here are gaslighting. They act like all the evil western hoes lied to them about personality being the end game. When it’s been obvious to anyone even 2% socially regarded that personality is after ATTRACTION levels are cleared. I’m western but 2nd Gen Cuban and my husband is Puerto Rican and both flaming libs I don’t see any of the neurodivergent BS Incelness shit that these dudes whinge about IRl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:09 AM
8

How does “society” change people pairing up with who they want that would be in any way attractive to a large swath of citizens?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:39 PM
1

A bunch a men just said “non natural colors” which is what I was commenting about so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:06 AM
3

That’s wild I’ve never noticed that - it’s seems a bit unhinged tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:51 PM
2

“An oversized hoodie with a backpack under to simulate fat” What? Is that a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:49 PM
0

I had a soft pink color for a while and I also got hit on way more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:36 PM
16

We literally had a post awhile ago that some men agreed they would rather be in an abusive relationship with a drug addict than be alone so it’s not all that shocking - sad and pathetic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:30 PM
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Is he even upset about this lol? Like he knew and still wanted to date her. He was 1st round draft pick in 2009 and didn’t marry her until 2015. It’s not like she concealed this or baby trapped him. He could have jumped ship a million times to 9s and 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:09 AM
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Why did he still marry her then lmfao - they weren’t married and had no children. He got back with her after he saw she went to his back up. Where’s all that male accountability 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:34 AM
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Yeah she said she dated the back up to piss him off because he didn’t want to commit and it clearly worked. Did he have no free will in this situation? I’m confused I’d assume the star quarterback could have picked another girl who didn’t date his back up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:32 AM
3

Yeah both my kids are in BJJ and it’s incredibly common. My husband played and now our son plays baseball it’s also common there. I do think men typically need a common task or general goal to be more touchy- which is why it’s so common in sports. I’m also Cuban and my husband is Puerto Rican and we are very much touchy people lol. It can definitely be cultural as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:56 PM
2

Lmfao this is flair worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:46 PM
4

My husband grows shrooms! And about the same age as you lol and yes yes yes god tier level sex. We also are home owning parents that have corporate and medical jobs. Like everything else on PPD nuance is dead and it’s either Mormon who can’t have Diet Coke or strung out junkie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:45 PM
21

Yup I don’t have any sympathy for guys who want casual sex but won’t put themselves in situations where the casual sex will happen. Zoomers are the most porn obsessed yet puritanical Gen it’s no wonder there’s issues. At least us millennials knew how to have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:42 PM
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I know this account by picture he’s obsessed with looksmaxxing and more blackpill bs and constantly says no one has ever found him attractive so I know he’s spouting shit he has no clue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:41 PM
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I cannot imagine this level of neuroticism. Are you making her orgasm ✅ is she enjoying it ✅ is she enthusiastic and reciprocating ✅ The fuck else you need. Dudes like this will be so afraid a woman got a great orgasm and he can’t compete. Skill issue honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:35 PM
13

Well then how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:31 PM
5

I think the grifters actually do want men to fail - the longer they can keep them in the anger phase the longer they can exploit and profit off of their rage and loneliness. It’s pretty grim and sad actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:14 PM
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Black pill is prevalent because it’s easier. Old RP told men they had to be accountable in their dating woes. It wasn’t shaming women it was trying to help guys understand female nature and what would maximize their chances with women. Black pill absolves you of all responsibilities. All women want 6/6/6 and a perfectly symmetrical canthal tilt and if you’re lacking even one of xyz things you’ll never be able to have casual sex or a relationship so no use even trying. It’s much easier to blame t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:04 PM
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I just think it’s actively hurting young men’s chances with women. And even more sinister FnF know this but profit off dudes not being successful. At least with Rollo or Kevin Samuels it felt like they were trying to help young men. FnF put on a veneer of being “Alpha” successful types when in actuality they aren’t pulling quality women. They pay sugar babies and OF models for sex. Any men with money can do that - there’s literally nothing more learn with this method. And one was dumb enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:56 PM
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FnF can tell you how to shit on OF models and almost get baby trapped by a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:47 PM
2

I’ve never seen a PPD thread more united - 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:07 PM
4

For real 😭 like he really really needs us to know he doesn’t give oral lmao. Average Fresh and fit viewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:59 PM
2

It is college educated women are more likely to initiate divorce but less likely to get divorced overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:49 PM
9

I must know a lot of chads. Lucky me 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:47 PM
4

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:34 PM
5

to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:28 PM
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They don’t know what the fuck they are talking about and it’s directly proving OP’s point. I’ve noticed this a lot on here over the years as the original theory of RP got twisted up with grifters like FnF and Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:01 PM
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Same if you go to a lot of the old RP subs posts they pushed back on a lot of these whiny ass dudes. Since the grifters took over it’s all rage bait farming and men perpetually stuck in the anger phase. I don’t think it’s even all that helpful anymore in its current form and actually actively self sabotaging many young men to stay in a constant flux of victimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:54 AM
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Okay well then maybe I misunderstood I certainly didn’t have an issue with men approaching and shooting their shot when I was single as long as they took my polite rejection. Men have quite literally made posts about having practice girlfriends so I was assuming you meant women need to be open to entertaining men they really are not interested in some long drawn out practice session. If that wasn’t your intention my bad. If what you mean is men should be able to respectfully approach women and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:02 AM
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I don’t assume he has dishonest intentions but I also don’t see why I would need to entertain him if I’m not interested. If I say a simple polite no thanks I think society is running fine. You seem to prescribe women doing something wrong for not letting men they don’t know and are not interested in to practice on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:28 AM
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Why do women need to be patient so men they don’t know can practice game on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:42 PM
2

Well a dude on here replied to me on a other post that a “bad boy” was a dude smacking a dates butt after a heavy make out session so it doesn’t shock me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:08 AM
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Well if we would all just get on the same page so they can cheat code their way into puss they’d be happier. All those pesky personal preferences and standards really ruin it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:11 PM
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Seriously why do they think all women have dated felons 😭 I don’t even know any felons. Do all the RP men here live in Compton and run with crips because the mindset is baffling and so rampant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:08 PM
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The terps on here cherry picking or just blatantly misrepresenting facts - shocked I tell you shocked!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:08 PM
2

Fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:14 PM
8

Yes I’m the women spokesperson it was at our last counsel meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:56 PM
2

I like my situation so no again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:54 PM
4

This was so aggressive it was jarring and made me laugh out loud 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 PM
2

No. I like dick thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 PM
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Yes. Also in the past children were a net positive in many ways at least in preindustrial eras where children were a work force and thus brought income and manual labor help to the family. Now they are a net negative, they potentially hinder your career trajectory, they are expensive, and time consuming. I say this as someone with 2 children. It turns out most women don’t want a baseball teams worth of kids and when we can control for that most of us do. Instead of trying to reduce women back to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:36 PM
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My husband has a shit ton of lesbian friends - perks of being an athlete in college and playing coed softball later as much as the cliche is thrown it’s very true lol. Anyway yes he said they make the best wingwomen when single. I don’t think in the slightest they make you more masculine as he was already and still is very masculine. I think it’s more having an opposite sex friend with no sexual desire or attraction. Also preselection - women like men they see other women are comfortable with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:01 PM
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Bon vo·yage 🫡 It’s not a problem I see in my neighborhood/community or with any of my western Gen Z cousins, Nieces/Nephews- they out dating and touching grass 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:54 AM
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I do - also one run of rants about uggo women at bars that would shun him even though he was higher league lol. But based on purge week posts pretty fucking low 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:31 PM
13

Yawn your grievances are getting stale - spice it up a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:31 PM
5

It’s so bad 😭 I have to sit in my son’s BJJ practice in what is essential a metal warehouse with no AC and if I couldn’t wear gym clothes or sundresses I would be passed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:36 PM
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It is summer in Florida 😎👙
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:33 PM
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There’s no consensus on what’s modest and what’s not. So in western society as long as it’s legal I’d say mind your business. You’re welcome to tell me a complete stranger I shouldn’t be wearing a crop top and I’m welcome to tell you to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:35 PM
1

Fuck there on to us!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:23 AM
1

You don’t know what your serving of Sunday Roast has in it💃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:40 PM
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You can’t be doing that in Colorado!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:35 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:43 PM
3

Alcohol/Drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:27 PM
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lol damnit but thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:05 PM
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Yes the one and only lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:31 PM
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I guess we should appreciate he tried to spice it up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:38 PM
2

Social media
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:37 PM
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I was more a Professor Plum kind of gal 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:37 PM
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Suspicious rise in poisonings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:27 PM
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Banning IVF is really going to help the Christian nationalists bring up their fertility rate 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:25 PM
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With this poster and his 1000 alts being mad at women he perceives on his level not reciprocating- it’s the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:23 PM
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Agreed I’ve said this exact thing here countless times. It may not matter for sex but it’s sure as shit going to matter for the potential mother of your children or a potential life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:20 PM
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Burlesque parody of Clue 👀 Is this a touring affair???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:11 PM
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So it’s more the intent? Which I can see from that perspective. I still feel it’s really not moral or immoral it’s really up to the couple to decide what their boundaries are. There are couples who are fine having their partners go to the strip club and others that’s a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:55 PM
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It’s not ethical or unethical - it’s highly dependent on what the agreed upon boundaries are within that specific relationships. Back in the day my husband and I used to go watch the ufc fights at hooters - it really wasn’t a big deal. But I also grew up in Miami - there’s way less clothing any given day on any of our beaches so I am probably just used to it. I can’t thought police him - we both will find other people attractive. Such is human nature - you just never act on it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:47 PM
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I’ve suspected this. Like why is this buccal fat thing a trend. Then when they are actually older they’ll have to put filler back in and it’s all starting to look super uncanny. Kylie Jenner for example she’s aged herself so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:39 PM
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I can’t to do your special brand of pessimism this early - check back after I’ve had my coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:27 PM
4

You can’t even agree with a women on here and SM as a whole tbh without a barrage of “white night/she won’t fuck you bro”. It will be the most mundane shit too - “you like to bring your g/f flowers - cuck!” Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:54 AM
3

Same like literally never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:18 PM
3

What? This isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:00 PM
8

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:13 PM
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And also men should be able to cheat but not the women because he’s “high value” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:09 PM
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Spitting facts. How dare you go against women bad, don’t worry you’ll be lumped into the white night/simps by the terps here for daring to go against the pervasive narrative that all women are jezebel whores that revel in the suffering of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:09 PM
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I’ve been on this sub for years and have stated this as have at least a handful of other women here that I’ve seen and when it really comes down to it men here say that’s all they want but it’s not. Most men don’t care if we admit shit if it doesn’t change the outcome. Maybe that’s not how you feel but I’ve seen it way more times that admitting this doesn’t do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:00 PM
3

Agreed this is my answer as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:11 PM
3

Same lol idk why he is overcomplicating motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:10 PM
2

What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:09 PM
3

This was a delightful exchange thank you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:15 PM
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Lmfao my time wasted on PPD stats will be concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:26 PM
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Yes? That doesn’t really change the possible outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:26 PM
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Well that was more at the downvotes if you didn’t it wasn’t aimed at you. It’s really not about ruining the group and I don’t think men who do this are ill intentioned but it’s just an inevitable consequence. Not always but highly likely because it’s awkward and then people pick sides, etc. Men can do it but they will have to deal with the possible fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:26 PM
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Lmfao boy I got y’all mad today I see. You’ll have to point out where in my comment I said men were evil. I didn’t even prescribe any intention good or bad - I laid out why one would be more successful than the other. Especially when I literally said the former can still be okay but it’s more likely to fail than the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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I didn’t suggest otherwise - he could have perfectly sincere intention’s. I advised waiting years into a friendship where a women only sees you as a friend and thinks that is your relationship will usually fail than the latter scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:39 PM
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I like how some of these dudes are like omg an actual child is trying to tell us about life are the same ones in every age gap thread so what a 50 year old wants to date an 18 year old - shes an adult! The jokes write themselves lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:36 PM
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I think it depends. Is it a male friend you’ve had for years and spent a lot of time cultivating a friendship and years of friend like activities only to find out he was just doing that for a shot at sex - awkward and almost always blows up the friendship and friend group at large. Is it a semi friend that is more just part of your larger friend group and asks you out fairly early - extremely normal and I’ve seen many relationships happen out of this and even if they don’t happen go on to still …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:27 PM
1

Yeah I totally agree. I live a pretty trad life as I wfh so do most of the child rearing and domesticated stuff so I watch some SAHM creators they talk about budgeting, recipes, sewing, etc. they have almost always have an all women audience- these sexy “trad wives” are 90% male audiences lol so I see the grift.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:21 PM
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I don’t believe she’s actively doing OF’s but she definitely hasn’t took her OF content down. And all her tradwife bs is very sexy lol so yeah people are either willfully ignorant or just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:09 PM
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I don’t believe I’ve seen her on the whatever podcast but she’s blond and goes by the “milkmaid” or something similar lol. It wouldn’t surprise me if there were others doing the same grift though. Grifters follow the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:59 AM
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The ones who are on SM with their boobs hanging out their tops kneading bread in a tight sundress are almost always posting for tradwife fetish. Hell there’s a really popular one who isn’t even married, no kids, and used to be an OF creator but now “found” Jesus. It’s a grift. The actual SAHM content creators that show homeschooling, how to budget for a 1 paycheck lifestyle, etc that are showing the actual realities of being a SAHM are not the ones getting shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:47 PM
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Is this Xennial love 🥹 thank you thank you as I take a creaky knee drop from too many Get Low twerks. Buy yes as seen by all stats us Gen x/millennials were drinking/partying/fucking more than zoomers. What a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:24 AM
2

He’s not. He’s really into killing my husband though he hates that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:34 PM
2

The hitman is my uncle we are in the mafia and he would never do that to his cherished favorite niece. Hubby is toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:33 PM
2

What if I hired a hitman and just unalived him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:32 PM
2

He would be in jail and my prenup would cover the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:28 PM
3

So now he or I is also beating each other up? Why would I ever stay in this marriage - so my initial point still stands and he can walk his ass out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:25 PM
3

Prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:22 PM
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If open sided means I’m kicking him out the open door forever, sure. Otherwise not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:17 PM
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Well that sucks for those men but I don’t see how the comment I replied to where he wants to force women to do this will help men or “the only way dating works”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:13 PM
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The only way dating works with women’s unrealistic standards is to indirectly force women to marry lower value men via dependency So Beta bucks? I thought men hated that. Also, that sounds miserable for the man as well and probably a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:31 AM
1

A man of culture 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:50 PM
14

That was indeed my dumb ass mistake 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:47 PM
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Nope. I started dating my husband at 23 and live in Miami - hot people here are a dime a dozen, especially in the club scenes. I’ve been hit on by semi pro athletes, model dudes, rich dudes telling me they’ll fund my entire lifestyle, etc. still loyal, never cheated. And on the flip he’s been approached by hot ass women and never cheated. Y’all just have some shit relationships with shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:36 PM
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Oh now I’m manipulative the power I have 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:02 PM
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By asking him a clarifying question? This is cruelty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:59 PM
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Accountable for what? No I am very interested in this so called cruelty I’m manifesting on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:29 PM
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Ooh I’ll bite - what is this cruelty I’m manifesting daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:53 PM
4

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:45 PM
8

There’s nothing to debate on someone’s Schizo ramblings 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:43 PM
9

New unhinged copypasta released.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:40 PM
2

The cope Lmfao - just because they’re not attracted to you doesn’t make all women lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:33 PM
2

Like for real the irony 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:27 PM
3

Right and that’s fine and I’ve never had a problem with a dude shooting his shot even if it was misread on his part if he takes no for an answer - which a lot of men won’t - which in turn makes women less likely to show affection to random men. All my male friends were met through social circles either through school, work colleagues, associated friends parties, etc. They did nothing different other than being my friend so that I know the affection I provide they know doesn’t mean I want to bang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:15 PM
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I’m not asking you to solve anything but everytime this gets brought up men cannot give specifics and it’s just vaguely stated. Women have stated repeatedly our friendliness is frequently treated as romantic interest and when we say no that’s not what it meant many men will get pissed about it - some violently. So women are supposed to go out of their way to give affection or attention to random men and possibly put themselves in a dangerous situation. And also usually blamed for leading him on …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:53 PM
1

Hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:38 PM
1

Keep it going king 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:37 PM
3

Reported for personal attack. Men the less emotional gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:36 PM
4

Okay so answer my other questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:33 PM
1

It has everything to do with this specific example that I responded to because the majority of women who are in this specific scenario come from a poorer socioeconomic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:33 PM
0

Matter in what way lmao we are discussing dating norms not whether I find them offensive. The type of women who would want a man with 4 baby mothers as this is “pre-selection” for them are generally in a lower socioeconomic tier this is just facts stop arguing emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:25 PM
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I said UMC college educated. Single mothers are not the norm and almost always due to divorce and not just sleeping with a dude because he was “pre selected” and has many baby mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:21 PM
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This is low socioeconomic women - no college UMC women are trying to be with a dude with 4 baby mommas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:17 PM
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It’s always the first on here wrapped up in the guise of 2 just like the muh birth rates - oh the humanity!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:16 PM
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So we are withholding affection? How many random men am I supposed to show affection towards? How much affection? What does this affection look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:13 PM
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Between this and you’re not a Chad if you’re not 4ft wide I think I’ve had a really different picture of Chad in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:24 PM
2

Same and a true bane on some of the guys here existence and I’m here for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:11 PM
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Yup and Grid already explained it to you succinctly you just want to be obtuse and bury your head in the sand to not get the point 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:02 PM
2

Fucking some fattie in the dark and without letting anyone know about it isn’t the same as said obese women being creepy and trying to stalk you around your friends and family now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:55 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:53 PM
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Great analogy - these dudes are picturing some cute becky and not a bipolar obese lady hell bent on wrecking their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:15 PM
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It’s the same it’s someone who you have so sexual or romantic attraction to that can potentially harm you. You’re still framing it as wanted attention from some women you’d fuck or date it’s not remotely close to the same thing and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:12 PM
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You would like another man who is 50lbs + heavier than you and would have no problem physically being able to make you do whatever he wants essentially stalking you? Y’all fantasizing some hot lady that just can’t get enough of you isn’t even remotely the same - how disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:56 PM
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Lillith is back! I’d say following me - I’ve had men ask for my number and I’d decline and then they would continue following me around a venue - like direct eye contact and would not stop until I left. Also when I was young much older men hitting on me like MUCH older and many of these were when I was very young teen. I’ve never found it “creepy” if a guy I wasn’t attracted to asked me out as long as he left me alone after telling him no. I’ve had more pestering encounters where they wouldn’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:19 PM
5

I stole this as my flair lmfao it was just too good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:08 PM
2

Lmfao I also just peeped your flair and it’s 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:04 PM
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None of the opinions on PPD matter lol. And no because I wasn’t agreeing or disagreeing with your point only commenting that who you lobbed it at was a dumb choice and I found that amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:53 AM
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Nope last I checked in the years I’ve been here nothing in the side bar or rules of PPD suggest you have to be western or even hetero for that matter. The virgin men on this sub that have no relationship experience love to debate about relationships they’ve never been in so it’s a free for all like that. It didn’t hold true for the person you threw it at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:41 AM
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She’s from Siberia and met her husband as a teen and is currently a refugee from a country at war you couldn’t have picked a worse person to rant this to lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:28 AM
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lol absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:16 PM
6

According to a recent thread a bad boy was a guy who squeezed a girls butt after she enthusiastically was making out with him so….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:00 PM
3

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:15 PM
3

I’ve already had two children so have I “sacrificed enough” I’d have no problem helping in others ways though if push came to shove - women in the US in WW2 did it just dandy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:01 PM
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Sometimes sure but I’ve definitely went out with the express intention of getting male attention and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that either 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:49 AM
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Haha nice yeah that’s been my observation as well people just let their guard down in the environment. Edit: just a thought I’ve just had it also probably has to do with being kinda of a bit vetted. You were invited for a reason and have a commonality so it’s an in instead of straight cold approaching strangers at a bar or club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:03 AM
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People like to get loose and romance is in the air I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:02 AM
2

Exactly I went to a “dry wedding” exactly once and said never again 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:02 AM
2

Same but reading these comments apparently we hang with an adventurous group of people lmao because I’ve observed this being super common but I guess not? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:48 PM
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Probably every other wedding I’ve attended there’s been at least 1 hookup so not everytime but pretty common. Me and my husband fucked in an adjacent ballroom at one but idk if that counts lol. But yes I’ve definitely seen it plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:46 PM
1

Hot Sluts Volume 2? I’ve seen this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:40 PM
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Exactly the cap in these comments. They don’t want a women with crazy heavy makeup but the majority want a women with light makeup. As the red pillers like to say watch what they do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:21 PM
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I can’t tangle with your flavor of pessimism twice in a day lol. I’ll catch your derangement tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:03 AM
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Exactly women looking for a ONS at a nightclub don’t care what long term benefits your possible career has. They’re looking to fuck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:01 AM
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I knew I had spent too much time on this sub when I start finding pill themes in shows and White lotus 2nd season they’re soooo many 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:53 PM
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I didn’t find either attractive like at all 😭 I’m also 42 so maybe this type is for the young girlies gaze. They look too twink for my tastes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:50 PM
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It really is but I’ve always felt it was such a realistic portrayal of a relationship falling apart - to the point it’s almost uncomfortable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:48 PM
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Blue Valentine - it perfectly encapsulates the breakdown of a relationship imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:04 PM
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Are people who have been drugged/blacked out capable of raping someone? She stated the person being raped is drugged/passed out not the perpetrator. They can obviously be raped. How would they have know? Women typically know when they’ve been penetrated- especially if there’s sexual trauma. Also people could have filmed it - that’s happened plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:36 PM
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It’s total hypocrisy for a dude who is on the same SMV/RMV level to these women maybe even lower to be so upset about the existence of them. This is no different than an obese woman being mad that hot chads keep pumping and dumping her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:25 PM
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Ok? You also can’t complain 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:50 PM
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I pointing out the hypocrisy lmao take it how you want 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:47 PM
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Run far away from this place lol. If you’re content to stay in this zoo read the side bar and it will give you all the descriptions on the pill types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:31 PM
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Objectively no - I did not suggest otherwise. I was more curious as to why he specifically is so disgusted by it as he himself has a shit ton of baggage and would objectively be a lower RMV/SMV then these women even if he was 20 years younger if he’s struggled this long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:55 PM
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So it’s the type of person she is and not just the dissolution of the relationship that’s makes her damaged goods? Isn’t that true for men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:31 PM
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Lol so what if it was just a boyfriend and they decided to go their own way amicably because they drifted apart. In your world women are not allowed to date again if they have ever been in a previous relationship because they are damaged goods?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:21 PM
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It wasn’t a personal attack lol I genuinely don’t understand his animosity towards “sluts over 30 who hit the wall” and have baggage - he clearly has a shit ton of baggage. Also y’all have no clue what a strangers sexual history is so it’s amusing it’s always projected women who are single at 30 were all engaging in the CC. I don’t even disagree with the OP but I find comments like this worldview fascinating. Also he just commented he hates women so there’s that lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:19 PM
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What’s the trait? Also why is it that a women was automatically just getting pumped and dumped because she’s single at 30 lol like I’ve seen way more scenarios where they had a relationship or marriage that didn’t pan out and they are back on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:15 PM
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Aren’t you 50 and have had no companionship for years - you don’t think you have a ton of baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:11 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:28 PM
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They hamster about it depending on the day and argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:37 PM
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The comment history and -1 karma isn’t sus at all. “How do you do fellow females”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:24 PM
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Spitting facts today I see - they won’t want to hear it though per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:40 PM
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Same! Worked out great - I’m not trying to stick around for some lame dick game - let’s get this show on the road and see if we’re compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:38 PM
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Yes this is literally old school redpill not whatever this dumb blackpill bs is now. The youths are perpetually stuck in the anger phase and wallowing in victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:32 PM
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But Thad said he loved me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:46 AM
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“Savored dozens of dicks” is my new redfem punk band thanks 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:29 AM
2

Again neurotic - I’m sure that’s working out well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:46 PM
5

Straight to jail bikerbats!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:23 PM
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Y’all are so neurotic I cannot. It’s perfectly acceptable to escalate while a girl is ENTHUSIASTICALLY making out with you. Clearly no one means to grab ass to a stranger. And no it is in no way “bad boy” things in 2024 maybe in 1944 it would have been after you take the gal to the malt shoppe and drive off on your motorcycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:22 PM
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So did MLK Jr. lol he notoriously got around - those were terrible examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:28 PM
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“Bad boy things” is grabbing your girls ass and saying she’s sexy now 😭 The kids are not in fact all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:48 PM
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Ha ha no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:20 PM
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Why would that scare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:39 PM
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Between this comment and the rant you tried to post that got removed the agent assigned to monitor your activities sure is having a hell of a morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:31 PM
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Lmao what in the world in her comment makes her entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:08 PM
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Alpha fucks / Beta Bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:01 PM
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30 day old account and all of it basically saying he’s a bad bad boy and he totally does the seggs with the totally real women, he’s touched bobs and vagene and everything - he’s very bad ass okay?! No one would troll like this!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:48 AM
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ALWAYS It’s never women we just want your empathy and compliments. It’s we want your empathy if it leads to getting more dates and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:27 AM
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“You’re” oops my bad lol No luck needed I married my Chad so this sub is just a fascinating exhibit into the current dating environment ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:20 AM
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I feel like this has been just one long troll to convince me your a Chad lmfao 😭 I’m happy for you bro I wish you well in your dating endeavors 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:38 PM
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I mean I don’t? I can observe quite easily they have it very bad. I think ND women probably have it harder than NT women though with a different set of challenges but yes I agree being ND as a man is probably very very hard in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:08 PM
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That’s vastly different than your other statements. This is just normal dating and there is nothing wrong with it. In your other comment you stated you dated women you did not find attractive - no one goes on dates with people they don’t find attractive other than to use them for something. This is the same as a woman going on dates with guys that have no interest in them from the get go just to use them for food and dates - I also think this is gross. If you’re just dating people to see if you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:51 PM
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Is this wildly researched or an anecdotal sort of thing? I have not heard of this - not that it’s wrong just haven’t heard this. I know Gen Z women in general are wildly more on the LGBT spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:41 PM
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Yes I agree I know ND women will have a way easier time dating - just that ND men will probably have a better chance with them than NT women for the most part. That’s an interesting link I don’t have time to read the e whole thing now but I’ll look into it thanks. I kind of suspected that would be the case - since you’re more likely to recognize issues and be more empathetic when you are hindered with the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:37 PM
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I don’t think NT men doing it is good either lol like what? Did I not just state in my previous comment I also think women doing foodie dates is also ridiculous? Yes most people think dating someone you’re not attracted to just to use them is bad - man or women. Like I said you’re welcome to do it but it’s just hurting other ND men’s chances so take it up with them when they complain 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:32 PM
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As long as you’re up front about it I don’t see anything wrong with that. The other dude commenting to me said he straight up wasn’t attracted to these women and just used them - which was my whole point on why women would we weary of dating men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:22 PM
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I mean I’m not? I just think it’s ridiculous to use someone as “practice”, just as I think it’s ridiculous for a women to use a man for foodie dates. You’re welcome to live as you please but you can’t pretend this is not part of the reason why women don’t want to date autistic guys and just as in that other thread I’m glad women are telling other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:19 PM
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I mean I’m not a man or autistic and never had problems getting commitment from men I found attractive so it affects me none. Now you’re fellow autistic dudes….then they complain why women won’t give them a chance, exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:10 PM
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Eww you were doing so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:58 PM
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Yes true I was thinking of the more extreme end. You can probably try and masc as much as possible to fit in more ND scenes but I’d assume that wd be exhausting in a long term capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:40 PM
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Sure that can definitely happen as opposites sometimes do attract. But the better ROI for a super introverted autistic dude will more likely have better success with an introverted ND girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:35 PM
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I’m sure it is and I’m completely aware it will be way harder for ND men than women. ND women have the flip side where they are more easily abused and used for sex. There was an autistic dude on here that said he had great success at conventions that were “nerdier” in vibes so maybe that’s an avenue you can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:26 PM
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I mean it’s been spouted on here plenty about getting a starter girlfriend to practice on so women are right to be a bit leery about getting with a guy with no experience past a certain age. Just as men don’t want to be beta buxxed, women don’t want to be the “you’ll do” girl. With that said “just date autistic women” is a valid and realistic approach. Whether they can still get dates with NT people is irrelevant- they’ll still be more attuned and forgiving of ND men because they can have the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:20 PM
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As a Latina I approve this message - latin men are 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:06 PM
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Agreed. I’m literally married because my husband cold approached me at a bar lol. I think bars, parties, etc. are really “luke warm” approaches. I think you’ll have way more ROI in places where it’s socially acceptable that people accept advances may be made as opposed to just some random street encounter. However, bar, rave, and club scenes I’ve suggested the years I’ve been on this sub have been met with abject horror and they’d rather pull their fingernails out then get in social scenes that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:31 AM
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Sure is 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:27 PM
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He doesn’t have a partner he’s a 30+ year old dude who’s “limerencing” (obsessing) on an unsuspecting aunt/niece duo he wants to fuck. This has been going on for YEARS. Obviously he can’t say this shit IRL so he comes to schizo post about it here and act like it’s intellectual and not just batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:33 PM
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Lmao I don’t live a cold and cut off life I have a wonderful husband and children and lovely friends - men included- who I compliment all the time. I can have perfectly friendly and warm interactions with men I don’t know without complimenting them. Why would me not complimenting random men effect my life in the slightest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:33 PM
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You’re not a woman so of course you are downplaying - I’m not surprised. Almost every woman has had an experience of getting insulted or worse because a guy got upset at a rejection. Women are not the problem - men have fucked it up for other men. And women protecting themselves is unhinged? Just lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:25 PM
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Not when it comes at the expense of my personal safety. I will continue to compliment my male friends and that’s good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:09 PM
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Women don’t have to fix anything as it’s not women who are complaining they aren’t getting complimented. I have and will continue complimenting men who I know and have been vetted to not take a simple niceness as wanting to fuck and insulting or worse harass me over it. Men have the power to fix this by complimenting each other. So go ahead and gas up your kings boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:26 PM
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I would love to do that…..except when you compliment a man they take it as showing sexual interest instead of an innocuous pleasantry the way a woman takes it. Then when you say oh no I’m not interested in that they call you a bitch or say you lead them on - both scenarios that has happened to me IRL and isn’t at all uncommon for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:21 PM
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It’s PPD so at least 13 more times and 6 remixes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:33 AM
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These are certainly choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:55 PM
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Lmfao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:46 PM
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I also didn’t think you’d get this much pushback but damn you were right on the money about how offended so many dudes seem to be about personal preference lmao. I’m the same in my reality no one would bat an eye at this preference so these responses are baffling lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:00 PM
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Okay? Other wealthy men clearly do see the benefit in marriage. In fact the majority do since the majority of millionaires and billionaires are married. If you want to live a perpetual batchelor lifestyle that’s fine and more power to you but that’s not most mens life goals. If you want kids the best environment is to have them in a nuclear family unit and most respectable women you would want as the mother of your children will not be doing that without marriage. In business married men are pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:08 PM
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I’m not trying to shit on single mothers because they are the ones who stayed but kids growing up with no positive male role models in their life has absolutely contributed to the issues today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:09 PM
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If they have slightly less incomes they’re still UMC and will statistically pick a college educated girl. If they’re average or below who cares because then they will have a way harder time supporting a SAHM some not at all and if you divorce you will be worse off. So once again it’s better to get your education first across all metrics - thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:07 PM
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Great then you should know most C suite executives, Finance bros, etc. are not wifing up hot baristas. They will absolutely fuck them though, and then wife up a college educated girl he met at Uni or through there shared social networks. The statistics do not support your theory in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:50 PM
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So you don’t run in higher socioeconomic circles and have no clue who these men marry. Got it I’ll add that to the ever growing list of things you’re wrong about just in this post. It’s become pretty extensive how embarrassing for you. Just FYI college educated women are more likely to be married, the least to divorce, and have an 8 out of 10 chance of still being married after 20 years. Seems women are right and not whatever you’re suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:39 PM
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I picked a man who makes well over 6 figures who I met at college just as the vast majority of all my married friends. And the majority of high earning men as well. Even at $90k what windfall do you think you’re getting - like do you not understand basic economics? Alimony is only awarded in 10% of cases and 80% of child support is unpaid. Then I also need to make sure he doesn’t leave too early because then I’m not getting shit. He could leave me the house which how will I pay for with my no in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:27 PM
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Women who are in higher socioeconomic classes have the means to maintain looking more attractive. They are typically from college educated families. And of course you can find a college educated dude that maybe will be willing to wife you up. Or he can use those women and then marry someone in his own socioeconomic class who’s just as or more attractive. You think there’s more attractive girls working at IHOP or in your Uni’s sorority house? . I’m starting to think you don’t run in these circles…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:02 PM
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I didn’t make the best of the situation my husband and I made the best decision to provide the optimal outcome for our children. Statistics agree with us no matter how much you want to bury your head in the sand. Lmao no the child support and divorce money won’t be huge on some dude who makes $50k a year. And once again welfare is only given when you live below the poverty line so yeah you’re kids are severely handicapped by that. You know who does get peachy divorce settlements - UMC people and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:54 PM
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And how many high paying men - 1 are out there, 2 want a SAHM, and 3 want a SAHM with no education lol you’re so out of touch. I’m UMC the amount of high earning men that are wifing up a 23 year old with no education is laughable. Even the SAHM’s I know all have college degrees. You know how you find these high earning men who are able to support you - COLLEGE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:31 PM
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I took maternity leave for 4 months (breastfed both my kids as well till they were a year btw pumping is a thing) and then my MIL watched my kids until around school age and now I WFH. You can study part time - ah so take even more time to get an education and more time off an ever changing job market who surely won’t penalize you for having such a long stretch of no work history. And if you don’t pick a good man you’re now going to be a divorced single mom working entry level jobs where you wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:27 PM
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Yes the mother can bond through breastfeeding but that’s not the only way to bond with a child - like are YOU a child because it’s really fascinating how someone can be so confidently incorrect it reminds me of arguing with my children when they were toddlers. The dad is funding her with what money? The average American lives paycheck to paycheck with TWO incomes but somehow there are large swathes of single men financially available to fund these SAHM - highly unlikely. You know who does fair b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:08 PM
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Women fair worse financially after a divorce lmao. So yeah I forgoe my education and ability to be financially stable now my husband leaves and I get to try and get a job on the market I’ve been out of for years with NO education. What a winning strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:01 PM
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Who watching the child after school - so the mom will need to also plan her education and classes around the child? Also what happens when the child is sick - she will need to take time from her classes. Sounds A LOT easier for women to get an education first and then have children. Also again who is funding these women? In all metrics children from higher socioeconomic classes fair better than lower. You’re not getting that by being a SAHM for Billy and his $50k salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:55 PM
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None of that is true lmao. Infants need to bond with whoever is the primary caregiver that could be bio mom, could be a a foster parent, grandparent, etc. The bonding is important not the who. And infants can most assuredly bond with other people like the father way before 2. Also I like how you dodged my other questions - who is funding these SAHM’s and who’s watching the 5 year old when mom is given permission to get an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:47 PM
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Don’t worry OP has stated multiple times money doesn’t matter at all in children’s lives. And if all else fails women always have welfare to fall back on. Because everything knows children that live in households that rely on welfare turn out the most well adjusted 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:38 PM
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I too am waiting on these sources lol. My kids must be some savants because they both said dada first and most definitely knew who their father was way before 2. Surely fathers having minimal contact with their children and leaving that as “women’s work” will totally not stunt and leave a trail of emotional baggage - cough boomers cough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:28 PM
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So no kids and no experience raising them got it just as I expected. Who will be funding these 23 year old SAHM’s? Is there suddenly an influx of men in their 20s wanting to be dads? Once she’s allowed to study who will be watching the 5 year old child she has birthed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:24 PM
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It’s scientifically backed that fathers are not important until 7 - can’t wait for these sources you’ll provide. Is it dadbeatdad.org? And children cannot recognize anyone but their mothers for the first 2 years just lolz. Again how many children do you have? I would like to know how much extensive child rearing you’ve done to come to these conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:05 PM
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Bruh as a mother of two this is absolutely bullshit. How many children do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:57 PM
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Donovan married a post wall fucking single mom Lmfao. Just like the majority of these RP grifters they do not live by their own “rules”. Because any self respecting non 304 would not put up with this shit. So they’re left paying for sugar babies and OF models who LARP they’re following these “Alpha” dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:02 PM
4

Thank you! My husband is a bit over average and some positions take extra “care”. This dude acting like women want a 9 incher hitting their cervix (painful not fun) like porn is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:53 AM
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He just told me I have a smaller than average vagina 😭😭😭. Lmfao I’ve pushed 2 children out this bitch lol but sure I have no clue!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:42 AM
5

Lmfao sure dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:39 AM
5

Even then - an average dude can be mind blowing. Just having a big dick isn’t all that. Size queens are a small majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:26 AM
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No I totally agree. They are absolutely not thinking of the wider implications. It’s totally reckless. I just don’t think most of them are thinking past “more views” like the more intentional terror groups. It’s just semantics though because whether it’s intentional or not the results result in this shit. It’s pretty ironic how the RP dudes in this sub were balking when the FBI have these dudes on a watchlist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:25 AM
5

If you think big dick means auto orgasms I’m going to assume you are get your info from porn. Unless it’s a legit micro - skill, enthusiasm, and actual care for getting the girl off trumps just “big”. If you think differently again you ain’t getting honest feedback from women - we talk…honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:20 AM
3

It totally is. I mean obviously a micro is going to be a problem. But the dudes who think that a big dick just jack hammering makes up for actual skill with an average dick are entirely getting their info from porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:16 AM
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He’s using porn as an example lmfao. I’m sure that stripper was totally in love with him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:00 AM
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I don’t think all RP creators are in it for nefarious purposes. It’s more like influencer culture and getting money for views and not thinking about the wider impact. Even Sneako seemed shook meeting a preteen young fan regurgitating misogynistic views and was all like “oh no, wait a minute, don’t say that”. I do fear how much of this is getting into impressionable young boys heads. Unfortunately boys with no good male role models can absolutely fall into this trap. Which is scary, I have a son,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:53 AM
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His flair could have told you that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:47 AM
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“Worthy” has nothing to do with it. It’s not a moral failing to not have had a relationship. You bear resentment but you are actively not trying anything to change. If you were fine being celibate you wouldn’t bear such bitterness. Why is it a better outcome to continue to be miserable than to try and see what you can do to change it. You would be probably unhappy in both but in the latter you have 100% more chances of improving your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:32 PM
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Least dramatic PPD user. Good lord. Yes if you can’t distinguish speaking with women in a potential flirty manner and harassment that’s on you. I figured you being a surgeon you would have enough social skills. Unfortunately as you know men will most likely be the one to approach - you of course don’t have to do that but then you really have no one to blame but yourself. I don’t care what you do frankly I just felt the need to call this out since you make comment after comment all woe is me, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:21 PM
-1

You have admitted you don’t even try to date - so yeah? If you’ve stopped trying what’s there to bitch about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:41 PM
3

Thank you! It’s defn an important issue to bring up. Babies cannot consent - it’s no different to female genital mutilation to me. Luckily I see more and more people rethinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:05 AM
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I tend to agree. I’ve been very anti circumcision- it’s not a thing really done in Latin culture. We didn’t do it to our son. But man A LOT of people are very misinterpreting about it and very judgmental. I’ve said here before I think we should treat it as taboo as Female Genital Mutilation. Edit to add: We had some anti circumcision protests here (FL) that was met positively by ironically more women and men that were very mocking. I defn think it’s a worthwhile cause to educate more on. It’s re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:56 AM
9

Tates Hustler University probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:14 PM
4

I didn’t even do Greek life but went to a big FL party school and gasp everyone was socializing! For real though college is such an easy time for this - you have built in socializing everywhere. Almost my entire social circle met there significant other there including myself. I don’t think college is for everyone of course but if it’s feasible as a young person it’s invaluable not just for a degree but the wider social net you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:51 PM
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Frats and men being in social environments give them a leg up with young coeds - who would have thought! Also what 20-25 year old hot girl is going “where are the good men” just lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:19 PM
10

This is just negging and you better be hot to utilize it - it also isn’t going to work on many women so you do so at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:00 PM
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There is no one size fit all solution which I know pains some of the autistic men in here who want a specific set of cheat codes. You can bitch and whine women standards are too high no one’s stopping you - it’s probably not going to help your dating prospects but if it makes you feel better have it. You really only have 3 options - Get good whether that’s fitness, mental, socialization, etc. to where you are now desirable in the market you’re in, leave for a market that finds what you offer des…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:44 PM
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It’s been completely infiltrated by grifters which is why the messaging is so convoluted. You got the biggest mouth pieces like FnF who don’t even practice what they preach and are simping paying for sugar baby’s and knocking up escorts, or tradcons who want to latch on to sell men the 1950’s dream in the modern world. It’s really not that difficult to see why it’s turned into this chaotic algorithm that just serves to rage bait for views and then young men are then in turn even more confused an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:12 PM
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Yes this is exactly my thought as well. Old school RP advised on the “rage” period but you are ultimately supposed to move past that and better yourself and that the ultimate accountability lies inward. Now it’s all outward and no accountability and looks like a lot have never gotten out of the anger phase and don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:29 AM
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Yes it’s a very complicated issue. Something that may work as people are more and more getting burnt out of dating apps that more third spaces will start being popular again. I think while on paper dating apps seemed cool it really has exacerbated these issues to the extreme. Also, focusing on the other issues I mentioned and lifting up men in other arenas could help them be more confident and that in turn help in dating success. Idk I don’t think anyone has the magic bullet unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:48 PM
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Well that’s honestly good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:44 PM
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Nuance and balanced takes - not on my PPD! But yes OP I generally agree with you. I also think it would be a much healthier discord if men could frame their issues in ways that aren’t about taking rights away from women and more working collaboratively to lift men up in places they are are struggling. Men’s mental health, homelessness, removing conscription requirements or making women also have to sign up, making circumcision as bad as FGM, etc. These are all worthwhile endeavors I think most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:34 PM
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You don’t think saying you want to rape, abuse, cheat on a woman isn’t insulting to all women? Just lolz. Like I said I hope you’re on a watchlist and you never are even in proximity to women much less in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:00 PM
6

Seriously I’ve heard some crazy shit in this sub but every self respecting man wants a woman he can cheat on and physically abuse is a new low.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:25 PM
5

The fuck?! Lmao I’ve never been so happy to be “low value” so my husband can’t cheat, and physically abuse me. I hope you’re on a watchlist somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:24 PM
4

Bingo / end thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:13 PM
25

Yeah late 20s, college educated, have the least likely divorce statistics for the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:37 PM
3

If all that’s needed is two that’s definitely doable I thought you were talking about Mormon trad wife style which most women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:53 PM
5

I still think we would need to change the culture around having kids, at least in the US. Even if you’re not carrying and can have them later in life you still need the money and time to care for them. Like I said I’m not against the scientific advancement I’m just dubious on how much of an impact it would make to TFR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:37 PM
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Knowing the type of women who comes on their podcast he’s an absolute idiot for sleeping with girls with no protection - oh no the strippers, only fans, gold digger women would try and baby trap a man for money - who could have saw this coming!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:29 PM
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I think you’re vastly overestimating how many people want infants later in life. I have 2 children who are self sufficient for the most part and school age. At 41 there is no way in hell I want to have an infant again to look after. I’m not against artificial wombs per se this could be really great for infertile people, single men/women, or lgbt couples but I really doubt people will start wanting 4+ kids or wanting them 50+ either so I’m not too sure how much of an impact it would make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:21 PM
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That’s certainly a take. I mean whatever floats your boat but most people would not entertain that sort of relationship. I don’t think it has anything to do with confidence either and more so people who are monogamous choose monogamy. If you’re into more unconventional or open relationships that’s of course fine but even in those really there’s usually not a power struggle - each person has to willingly want to have that type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:47 AM
2

Aren’t you also getting cucked? How is that powerful? I think my husband would much rather be in a non power struggle relationship and not have to watch guys fuck me in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:27 AM
2

Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:28 AM
4

If they want to live in a drama, potentially dangerous, chaotic filled life then sure go for it. And unless you elope immediately you’ll also be at risk for her to be poached. I also don’t think a women who allows herself to be perused while in a relationship is probably not going to make the best wife but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:06 PM
2

He’s a lawyer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:33 PM
8

lol I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:42 AM
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If it makes you feel any better in the years I’ve been here this is his at least 2nd LARP account. So I’d imagine your last sentence is most likely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:22 AM
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That’s unhinged! There was a guy on this very thread that said his own mom was similar and he’s still a bit fucked about it in his 30s which is horrible. Your nephew is absolutely lucky to have you and your husband. I dated a dude with a similar mom it was pretty much the whole reason we broke up it was just too much. I cannot imagine acting like a jealous girlfriend when my son will inevitably bring a girlfriend home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:23 PM
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Again I’m sorry you went through that. That sounds horrible. I hope you can eventually get into a better mental space which I know is probably difficult but good on you to take steps to remove her from your life. There are so many people out there that should absolutely not have been parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:07 PM
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She’s single, never married and no kids, by her own opinions she’s a gross post wall women since she’s 27, she clearly works which is also against her advice since we should all be SAHM’s. Oh and the icing on the cake is her own mom was a fucking CEO so a literal “boss bitch” lmao it’s comically ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:05 PM
6

That’s honestly depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:54 PM
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I don’t know but it wouldn’t shock me in the slightest. She’s said so much dumbass shit that she had her YouTube demonetized which lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:53 PM
5

Jesus 😳 have you gone no or low contact? I sure as hell would that’s wild. These people are the ones shocked why their families no longer visit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:51 PM
6

Yikes I’m sorry you had to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:47 PM
10

Lmfao this is so real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:22 PM
7

I saw that one! I suspect these women either are unsatisfied in their marriage or unlucky with men so they kind of have these quasi relationships that they transfer onto their sons. It’s gross and weird and I cannot imagine in anyway healthy for the sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:17 PM
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I certainly hope not 😳 it’s definitely not in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:10 PM
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You’re better off not knowing she’s insufferable. She wants to repeal the amendment that allows women to vote, has had a straight up white supremacist on her show, and has said she thinks 16 year olds are hotter than 26 year olds. She’s queen of the pick mes that’s never gotten picked 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:06 PM
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Omg “boy moms” are nuts. And I say this as someone who has a son lol. Like making your whole personality based around your child’s gender is weird and they have almost a weird incest vibe going on. Those moms all end up nightmare MIL’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:02 PM
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Yeah that’s fair some women are very hostile. I never minded a dude approaching as long as he was respectful and took the no and left me alone after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah it’s kind of nuts I did one just to see and put in any race, any height, any income, and not married and I still got like 7/10 delusional lol. I don’t think they’re high standards either - I didn’t want to date fat dudes so I get it. However Americans be fat so the skinny ones will be pushed to the top by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:01 PM
10

What a dreamboat 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:01 PM
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It’s this lmao - I’ve talked about dickmatized before here but realistically dudes talk a great game until they have went through a dry spell. Now basic Becky has pussy whipped them and all their red pill ”alpha” shit went out the window for a whiff of puss. Seen it manyyyy times. If the “sex wars” was about female Robber Barons and the teamsters were the male side - dudes would scab so fast you couldn’t blink them crossing picket lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:25 AM
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Girl please leave this subreddit if you’re actually listening to these red pill dudes - I’m not saying this to be condescending or an asshole 😭 Most of them are fucking bitter virgins who have never had a relationship and the ones who aren’t are fuck boy players who want to pump and dump. You’re 22! It’s totally fine to not be ready to date. If you look at stats on the least divorced are women married late 20’s - early 30s college educated women. It’s fine to look for dudes at this age - I found…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:49 AM
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I met my husband at 23 and him 25 and he still says the same 🥹even 2 kids later and he still makes me feel loved. Hats off to you bro. We can always appreciate young beauty we are not blind but that’s not a lasting love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:32 AM
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The “non pill” guys are gonna gaslight you, not on purpose but just because they’re not spergy enough to know the terms and are actually normal. I think most men and women have the propensity to cheat. I think those people will whether they’re high value or not. I think men just like women appreciate a partner that came in their life when they weren’t shit and stuck by them, which is where “goggles” come in. You loved me at my worst so I’ll remember you at your best. That may mean the world or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:27 AM
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They’re just as fucking delusional just like the 2x sub - BUT a minority. These caricatures that are deemed to be normies is just dumb af.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:56 AM
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No. No they fucking do not. Like this shit is delusional. They take a small percent of female thirst traps on Instagram and extrapolate it to ALL women. Guess I’m not a real women since I work a job and love my kids and got with my husband when we were broke af 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:21 PM
5

Cheers 🥂! I’ve also just finished cooking dinner and will enjoy marital relations later so I can remember why this subreddit makes me feel blessed everyday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:12 PM
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Haha same embarrassingly and I agree with all that. Especially in the US if you want a thin women even if you as a man are fit you’re already asking for the top. It is what it is but they love to tout the female delusion calculator but if you put in “reasonable” stats on the male delusion calculator you’ll get similarly dismal stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:10 PM
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I just want to say I love your fucking comments on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:04 PM
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Women smol brain 🥹 how could we ever figure out who we want to fuck without smart men to tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:59 PM
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No but HE KNOWS women don’t understand how our attractions work. That’s super obvious and totally doesn’t contradict why he made a whole post about women and their exes and all the women in the comments telling him why. He knows better than us don’t you get it now!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:53 PM
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Yep exactly. The number of times I’ve heard that or “he’s not here” when saying I’m partnered is considerable. And then they get super offended when it doesn’t work. I wasn’t even lying I legitimately had a boyfriend or was married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:19 PM
1

Yep exactly. The number of times I’ve heard that or “he’s not here” when saying I’m partnered is considerable. And then they get super offended when it doesn’t work. I wasn’t even lying I legitimately had a boyfriend or was married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:19 PM
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I have never “pissed bile” at a man for simply striking up a convo. On the contrary it was perfectly fine when I was single for a man to flirt or offer a convo. I literally met my husband at a bar because he cold approached me and offered me and my friends shots - so I’m clearly not opposed or believe all men are predators. I’m not discounting anyone’s lived experience- I said I lm sure it’s happened where a woman was being a total bitch for no reason. I just don’t believe it’s a large scale att…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:09 PM
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No you’re making assumptions. It’s very easy to understand if a woman is telling you no thanks, I have a husband/boyfriend, I’m not interested, and he still will not leave us alone it matters not what his intentions are and he is being a creep. A no is a no not a negotiation. It’s not a “social justice machine” - just lmao at that - to want a literal stranger to leave us alone when asked. Normal men understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:39 PM
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There are absolutely women who are rude and bitchy when it was entirely uncalled for. I’d honestly be happy this person showed her true colors early and you dodged a bullet What I have not seen that he’s talking about where men are being yelled at and called creepy for politely asking a woman out. I’m sure it has happened but I really doubt it’s as much as he claims. And tbh if you are constantly getting yelled at and labeled a creep anytime you approach a woman I don’t think it’s unreasonable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:30 PM
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Omfg I hate that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:23 PM
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This is unhinged levels of brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:45 PM
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I’ve seriously never in my entire life seen these “scenarios” where just asking a woman out will result in you being arrested or labeled a predator. I guess it can happen but I’m really doubting this happens at any high scale rate. And more likely this is once again fueled by internet rage bait videos. I have seen and been in the scenario where a dude will just not take no for an answer and is being a total creep. And even then the most that happens is a loud fuck off or you thrown out of the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:36 PM
10

Damn this was spot on 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:23 PM
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Nah no way not in NY - if you’re like extra white it’s a detriment tbh. You need some tan and game at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:50 AM
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It prob depends on which borough tbh. I fell in love with a Bronx bred PR guy who loves my Miami cuban ass after he moved to Florida. He said the NY dating scene is pretty easy just for the fact of how many people live there but the quality will depend on the area you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:46 AM
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Loss prevention hates this one simple trick!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:23 PM
5

Those floral prints aren’t going to buy themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:17 PM
1

Eww no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:13 PM
7

Same like what lmao these dudes do NOT live in an UMC neighborhood if they think that. I literally have maybe 3 single moms in my entire children’s school district and they are all single due to divorce and not some pump and dump criminal situation lol. The vast majority are college educated, married, home owners as myself. There’s no gaggle of single moms with 5 baby daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:29 PM
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Yes which is ironic because they are always complaining about “just world fallacy” but all their scenarios are hot successful chads are all manipulative assholes and poor nerd IT guys are nice and women just won’t give them a chance. When I’ve seen the opposite all the time lol. For the introverted no friends having dudes an extroverted tall hot guy with tattoos MUST be an absolute dickhead and not just a regular guy who’s extroverted and fun. I’m assuming it’s the neurodivergent black and white…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:02 PM
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This dude is definitely not happy lol. And I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s got a manifesto like what “you’ll reap what you sow” how edgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:38 AM
5

Haha bye 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:05 PM
4

No I haven’t I’ve consistently stated the people who are in age gaps or pro age gaps don’t give af about people criticizing them. The people who don’t like them have every right to criticize them especially if they are the target of this unwanted behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:29 PM
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Because once again most young women think it’s gross when creepy old dudes hit on them and we live in the age of social media so then they will relay that sentiment online. Older women do the same whether it’s jealously or actually concern really has no bearing. There’s so much that you can criticize women for doing by shaming men like shaming them for being short or penis size - I totally get that and they should be called out on it. The totally reasonable reaction that most women don’t like cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:19 PM
12

Do you think Leo cares at all what some mean people on the internet are saying? Why do age gap relationships have to be challenged it makes no sense. If the young women who are the target for age gaps are the ones that don’t want old ass dudes who is supposed to challenge this? Old men: “We should challenge why people don’t like age gaps” Young women: “Eww no most of us don’t like that” Old Men: “This is discrimination!” Like c’mon man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:05 PM
7

Lmao I love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:51 PM
25

They seriously act like age gaps are punishable by law lol. No dude who’s plowing through 20 year olds gives a flying fuck what some screeching rad fems on Twitter are saying. The absolute cope that it’s definitely evil post wall women hoarding all the available 22 year olds because if it weren’t for them you’d be drowning in coeds - and not said 22 year olds just not wanting to be with old ass dudes lmao. Between this and the “these women totally want to fuck me but their fattie friend got in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:33 PM
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Yeah this makes sense. There’s a reason super young marriages have a high fail rate. Now that people are marrying later when they’re more established, mature, etc. I can see that have a bearing on vetting better and that leads to more success. Anecdotally, as a college educated millennial married to a college educated Gen X’r. I maybe have 2 acquaintances that are not married. That could just be biased to what type of environment I’m surrounded by though. I also know a shit ton of boomers that g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:37 PM
36

Yes exactly. Men do not understand female friendships like at all. I think they are looking at it through a lens of what they as men would do and cockblocking being a big no no. They are actively trying to help each other get laid whereas most of the times for women it’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:57 PM
29

And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:50 PM
57

Sure absolutely that’s also why women go out in groups. I’ve never heard a girl complain that her friend cock blocked her but I have heard thank god you were there so I didn’t make a dumb ass decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:48 PM
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It’s the “we gotta go girl” lol. She’s the designated driver and there were implicit plans at the pregaming festivities that ALL women will be coming home together. Men don’t understand female friendships and the specific type of behavior that happens for clubbing/bar hopping/festivals. There’s a whole game plan, down to the outfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:40 PM
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I’m not saying that this never happens. But in 90% of the cases it’s absolutely because the girl has signaled to her friend to help extricate herself from the situation. And you’re dead wrong if a girl is really feeling a guy she will let her friends know - if this hasn’t happened then you’re just not the type of dude women do this for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:36 PM
13

I have absolutely no problem with it either! Just don’t pretend that they are 21 year old girls you got with your red pill games. And not 30 + strippers you paid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:35 AM
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Lol I know I feel like old men yells at clouds “they don’t want you to be happy they want you to be hooked!” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:33 AM
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I’ll never forget some “alpha” 40 year old balding dude bro yelling on twitter about how all females are done past 25. Showing himself on a yacht with all his 20 year old bitches……For said bitches to call him out that they were 1. Paid to be there and 2. All over 30 KEK 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:21 AM
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Lmfao for real this place is nuts. Meanwhile my post wall married for 18 year ass is still getting hit on. My widow great grandmother in her 70’s got married again to a nice man she met walking on neighborhood watch. I seriously find the idea that women can’t find men they like at any age so far removed from my reality it’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:16 AM
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Yes definitely! I don’t know how true “wife/husband goggles” are but I think maintaining that attraction throughout the different life stages is so important. There’s no way you’re going to have a lifelong monogamous relationship if you want a perpetual 20 year old forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah that’s so weird - also my husband was 25 so it’s not like I was trying to lock down a “36 year old established male” as these dudes put it. I wanted a hot guy my age that related to me and I wanted to have sex with and that just happened to work out we both wanted to keep doing that forever lol. If you want to last a long time like we have it’s definitely not going to happen if you think I’ll be 23 forever. I think mutual initial attraction is of course important but damn there’s A LOT more…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:51 PM
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Haha right and I’m - gasp - 41 now and I’ve somehow managed not to poof into ashes from my brittle ancient post wall bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:59 PM
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In my experience neither men nor women want to get married and pop out kids super young unless they’re in a more religious environment. It’s more likely young people date and crash and burn early because they are young and dumb and those relationships are typically volatile and immature. Super young adults also are more than likely to just be getting freedoms from their transition from their parent’s house and don’t want to be tied down. However, by mid 20s to late 20s people are usually more se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:49 PM
10

Based on all your comments I think it wd be best if you didn’t date at all. JFC it’s like you’re an AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:50 PM
6

Why is just wanting the option to have financial independence and a greater role on their reproduction rights wanting to live like a man? I say this as someone who has 2 children. It is that unfathomable to some people that maybe most women just don’t want to have 4+ kids or any kids at all? This was always going to be an issue as soon as women had birth control. It’s just ridiculous to me that women are being portrayed as Machiavellian evil master minds trying to break down the fabric of societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:33 PM
1

Lmfao - I too am now interested in clay pot. Father’s Day is coming and I have questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:41 PM
7

What in the world would make you think she’s seething with that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:37 PM
16

It’s huge here in Florida in the retirement communities. All those boomers doing key parties in the 70s continued their freak on into retirement lol. There’s massive stds rates in old folk communities 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:34 PM
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I took long maternity leaves with both my children. Then my MIL came and helped out. Latin families are very communal like that. Once again your scenarios are not based in reality - marriages can come in all types of configurations it doesn’t have to be one side doing everything for this and the other do everything for that. My husband still comes home from work to a home cooked meal he just will throw the dishes in the dishwasher after. Which he does happily because he’s not working 60 hours a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:28 PM
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SAHM’s that are doing all the domestic labor and child rearing aren’t having sex once a day - do you know any SAHM’s? I literally work 40 hours at week but a wfh job that has a lot of down time and because my children are school age I have wayyy more free time and energy than my SAHM friends that are doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:17 PM
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I’m a “career” wife and I get up later than my husband - I wfh too so I can take my kids to school and be with them after school. My husband doesn’t have to work himself to the bone 60 hours a week so he’s not tired af - so we have more sex because both people are taking their share of the load. I can tell you do not have kids and are not married - both scenarios are extreme and not accounting for actual reality. I don’t know any SAHM’s that are having sex on demand that’s laughable at best beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:02 PM
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I work 40 hours a week - my husband works 40 hours a week - somehow we still have sex 3-4 times a week. This is somehow unimaginable in OP’s mind lol. We also have 2 kids! I also do most of the cooking because I love cooking and we split chores pretty evenly - I prob do a bit more but that’s because I wfh and it’s a cushy af job that I have time to fuck around on Reddit and throwing a load of laundry in is easy as hell. Why are there are only 2 extremes for relationships here?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:57 PM
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No it doesn’t that’s some old boomer shit. As someone else pointed out it’s happy spouse, happy house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:09 PM
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Ah you’re one of those guys marvelous! Good luck bro good with your endeavors to bring women back to the kitchen I’m sure it’s doing wonders in your dating efforts lmfao. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:22 AM
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Exactly - let’s all play dumb like women weren’t the original Guinea pigs 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:27 AM
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So weird! I’m just here because I WFH and the time I drop my kids off from school till I pick them up is boring af - but this is brain rot on another level 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:05 AM
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I’m Cuban but born/living in Miami, married to a PR born/Bronx bred Latino. Latinas are very feminine and live pretty trad, including me. It doesn’t stop dudes here acting like we are all the most man hating feminists. I take with a grain of salt US men disparaging women here because I supposedly live in one of the most selfish/feminist cities in the US and I see way different than what they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:57 AM
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Haha you’re a fucking idiot. Go look up women’s “hysteria” or mental health diagnosis for women in history. Women were “treated” at best with some fucking creep fingering you or at worst female genital mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:11 PM
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I never said it was “all” being used. But the propensity to trick or deceive is easier because as I’ve said a lot of neurodivergent people have trouble reading social cues and nuances. It’s also why autistic men are probably easier to hustle as a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:16 PM
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Yes absolutely. I don’t think either are great. I do think dating other autistic people would probably help but it’s probably hard to find that realistically. I know OP is in an age gap but both are autistic so that probably helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah this is what I’ve heard and seen - girls are better at masking - due to societal expectations or biology I don’t know. Also, research has shown that girls are less likely to be diagnosed as autistic. Which makes sense as the history of women’s mental health being taken seriously has been laughable at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:55 PM
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I would assume it’s because women are conditioned from a young age to be “agreeable” so autistic girls have to learn to mask better. But from reading about a lot of autistic womens experiences they are way more susceptible to abuse and grooming because they are less likely to be able to pick out social red flags that neurotypical women can see - which is pretty dark and sad. I think autistic men don’t get any sex but autistic women are more easily used for sex and worse so there’s that. 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:52 PM
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If you can’t see how a culture of similarly looking people, with the same language, values, etc. in a market of 17 million people, would have a better time in dating then a market consisting of 331 million people, who come in way more colors, cultures, values, etc. I don’t know how to help you. And lmfao as if there isn’t a HUGE movement of feminists that want to decriminalize sex workers - you’re extremely misinformed if you think all feminists are trying to stop prostitution. Also wtf do you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:19 PM
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The Netherlands also have a very homogeneous culture for the most part, standard of living is frequently touted, and better work/life culture - but yes yes it’s definitely the prostitution. No one’s stopping you from starting your hooker movement - if you really feel this would solve all of America’s dating woes get to marketing this ingenious idea. I’ll go by what I’ve seen realistically as how your outcome will be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:03 PM
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Right which is why I’ve stated multiple times in this thread that making it “culturally accepted” is a pipe dream. It’s not going to happen. Realistically making it legal or decriminalized is more likely to happen and the places this is happening hasn’t done shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:45 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:43 PM
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Why wd lifetime monogamy be dying? Most people are still wired to want to be monogamous especially if they want kids. Marriage has gone down but that’s because cohabitation is not stigmatized. And the marriages that are happening the divorce rate has gone down - so I see that as a plus. Visiting a prostitute is not going to be culturally accepted - I see no way how this would happen. You can make it legal like I said - which it is in other countries - and nothing has changed in their dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:43 PM
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It’s a colloquially way of speaking dude lol is this really that pressing of an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:35 PM
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Oh I know I remember Cathouse on HBO fondly lol. It’s also legal in many other places and the dating market remains the same so idk why some dudes think this will flip the script in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:34 PM
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I’m not moving goalposts. You didn’t specify Canada so my bad. That doesn’t negate my point that in Australia it’s totally legal to get a hooker and the dating landscape mirrors the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:31 PM
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He said you “literally cannot not utilize it”. I advised you literally can - what’s confusing about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:24 PM
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What are you talking about you can literally visit a brothel and pay for sex in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:16 PM
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“Cracked and beyond repair” is ridiculously histrionic but okay. The vast majority of men are having sex and will be partnered by 30. It’s possible we could make it legal, even among feminists decriminalizing prostitution is floated - however, it’s not going to be socially accepted. And not just because of women, your fellow men will mock and ostracize men who use hookers. And that’s not even getting into the religious folk. So now you’re back to my original point it’s legal plenty of places and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:09 PM
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I don’t see it so we shall agree to disagree. It’s never going to happen here anyway so it’s really a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:54 PM
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But men can still utilize it which is the point. Australia has legal brothels - same dating as here. It’s almost like even if men can pay for it they still want to do the song and dance to get a woman who actually desires them - how shocking!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:52 PM
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I don’t care what men do as long as it’s consensual and legal. I still know it would not make a dent in the dating landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:50 PM
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I think you’re overestimating how many men will even use a prostitute. But once again it’s legal and culturally accepted in other places and the dating landscapes still mirrors the US. Also isn’t Japan in dire straits and about to go extinct - lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:48 PM
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I think you’re really underestimating male thirst. That aside, like I said if it would make a dent in the “market” just having it legally available wd help but it hasn’t. You’re taking a very niche market like Japan and extrapolating that would work elsewhere. There’s no western culture that will accept husbands using prostitutes and men still want willing women they don’t have to pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:36 PM
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I don’t either for the simple fact a lot of men still want to have sex with a woman that actually wants to have sex with them - not for money. Even if prostitution was widely accepted here it would just make getting a women to bed for free even more a status symbol. And the same dudes would still be bitching about “what Chad got for free”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:26 PM
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I don’t know how you’re going to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:18 PM
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I’d make better friends? I honestly have not come across this past high school tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:13 PM
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Prostitution is legal in Australia and Canada and I’ve heard the same complaints about dating from dudes there so I highly doubt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:09 PM
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Yes I can see that’s something you adopted. It must be very helpful for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:47 PM
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TO YOU Luckily “No_Sun_658’s worldview isn’t the same as everyone else’s. Glad we would clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:42 PM
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So then all friends are convenience even same sex ones and there’s no need to gender it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:28 PM
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Oh do tell? I guess small girl brain just doesn’t understand reality 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:26 PM
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Lmafao yep I’m sure 20 years of friendship is just for convenience!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:24 PM
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I wish you all the success 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:45 PM
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More women than ever before are fine splitting the bill. You think more women spit the bill in 1970 you can’t be that naive. You’re extrapolating “shitty women on tiktok” and not what the data supports.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:43 PM
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That’s willfully ignorant of the immense strides women have made to obtain gender equality. 40% of US households now have a woman breadwinner - that would have been unheard of in 1930. If women wanted a provider that wouldn’t have fought so hard to work and have independence. We would stayed with the status quo and all continue to be SAHM’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:37 PM
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You haven’t given any data supporting either. You quoted a lady born in the 30s which…can you think of how society was for women in the 30s and how that probably shaped what women needed from men? There’s been no change from 1930 to 2024?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:28 PM
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Because all you’re giving is anecdotes then she hit you with an anecdote and you did the same thing. It’s why anecdotes are pointless in a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:24 PM
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Alright calm down Patrick Bateman - usually when someone’s talking about “manifestos” and “you’ll be sorry later” it’s pretty nefarious. Once you’ve done all this and become the most high value man that ever valued and you show all those low value women what they missed out on I’m sure you’ll feel much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:22 PM
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So you’ve not even posted in good faith and don’t want to actually debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:16 PM
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Are you planning on shooting up a school? Should you been on some sort of watch list?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:01 PM
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This is some real high school shit for real lol. I also don’t remember the last time I felt in “competition” with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:30 AM
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Why would any of that say she’s a home wrecker?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:26 AM
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Same. All of my guy friends I’ve had for years, some decades - my oldest guy friend that’s like a brother I’ve known since middle school. They are all partnered and most with kids. If they had a “thing” for me they know that ship has sailed and none want to blow up a decades long friendship and their own family for sex and see me as just a cool ass girl friend who will watch their dogs/kids/house when their out of town. How novel some men see value in women without wanting to extract sex from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:23 AM
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It’s this. My dad rocks he can fix anything, treats my mom great, and is genuinely a really wonderful man. Why wouldn’t I want someone similar or at least with similar qualities. Also I love how “daddy issues” is something that gets thrown at women negatively and now having a good relationship with your dad is also negative lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:29 AM
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Makes sense - most women in their 50s+ that are single are probably divorced. They’ve had children and did the whole marriage thing and don’t feel the need to remarry. They can get sex when/if they want, take care of grandkids, vacay with other old ladies, and just live life. I would also assume getting into the upper ages 65+ there will be a lot of widows as well since women on average just live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:52 PM
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I certainly would hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:39 PM
7

Well how about we advocate that men are also victims of sexual assault and unwanted touching. Instead of saying nah women just deal with men grabbing and touching you. And you’re wrong I’ve seen my guy friends tell drunk women very vocally stop touching them. There was a very public admonishment of some chick trying to grope the Gaston cast member at Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:56 PM
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Agreed. I also think why do you want someone to just lower all their standards for you. Like who wants to be the “you’ll do” For men here who are scared shitless of becoming a beta bux you’d think they wd rather women not settle for them. Seems disastrous in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:08 PM
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You lost the entire plot here. Groping isn’t sexual assault? I assure if some dude who’s 100lbs heavier than you and towers over you starts fondling your balls you’ll feel pretty fucking uncomfortable. If some dude grabbed my breast or tried to cup my vagina - A thing that’s happened to me before - my husband would knock his fucking teeth out. Curiously men seem to not try this stuff when you have other men around you. It’s almost like even men know to be cautious around other men. But if they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 02:09 PM
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Great so we should be working to get more income prosperity and opportunities into underdeveloped communities. Free community college, access to reproductive healthcare. All of this would help way more than “making adultery illegal”. Which is far fetched in modern western society but perfect for religious fundamentalism which you’ve agreed is not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:30 PM
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Are men being stoned and honor killed for having sex outside of marriage or adultery?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:15 PM
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TFR is down across the board even in conservative countries. So it’s not “promiscuous” people bringing it down. Divorce rates have stayed consistent for 30 years and are even down now. My demo, college educated married in late 20s are having fantastic marriage rates and have the lowest divorce rates as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:59 PM
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Whats happening illegally on dating websites? Failing society to who? I’m not seeing the apocalypse anytime soon because men and women can fuck before marriage lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:45 PM
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Nah I know there’s plenty of people who are not religious that want to stamp on peoples rights. Like I said adultery is criminalized in the Middle East, and they also ban all types of social media. I love when the government can decide what social media its citizens can view - those are definitely places everyone wants to move to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:36 PM
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Lmao a study in medieval France is the substantive source for all human history in all cultures? You don’t even need to go to history. Right now you can go to Afghanistan and see for yourself how male/female promiscuity is treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:22 PM
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Ok and how would you like to stop people from sleeping outside relationships? Laws passed? You can go to most Middle East countries and live in this utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:19 PM
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All data shows for both male and females in Gen z they are way down for sex. My generation (millennial) was having way more sex than the new gen. And what’s promiscuous? The average for men is 8 and women is 4-6 if you’re a religious fanatic then I’m sure these are appalling but no one in modern times is gonna to care about this. Most women are not promiscuous but they can choose who they want to sleep with and when and how they do it without society judging her for it and I think thats great as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:06 PM
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This guy gets it ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:59 PM
4

Those 2 statements aren’t contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:58 PM
1

Ladies are supposed to be locked up in the house chaste, and pure, while I fuck my mistress duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:57 PM
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Men have always been allowed to be promiscuous they just had to keep it on the DL. Mistresses and fucking prostitutes were totally fine. Meanwhile for most of history women’s sexuality had to be suppressed - now that’s no longer happening what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:56 PM
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No they really don’t care. They would never make back to back posts about it. They totally don’t care though, doesn’t bother them one bit lmao. I seriously have no clue what upsets some dudes so much if a mid woman calls herself a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:13 PM
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Yes because this is a common enough occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:29 AM
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It was a close vote 1.9B Nays to 2B Yays The yays squeak by USING GOOGLE MAPS IS ICK 👩‍⚖️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:32 PM
12

Still avoiding my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:11 PM
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Not sane ones. And not the majority - I’ve never heard once in my life a women saying she was “oppressed” for wearing makeup. But that’s off topic you said men approaching is not biology - so then why do they approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:02 PM
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But they aren’t forced - they can wait for women to approach them or stay single. Yes women are not forced to wear make up - is there a new law in makeup wearing I’m not informed on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:57 PM
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Men aren’t forced to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:36 PM
11

There’s a dude arguing it’s “bigotry” if we don’t accept his unsolicited dick pics 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:15 PM
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Haha the fucking irony. “I have the right to send unsolicited dick pics” “Alright I’m going to forward these on” “Nooooo not like that!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:13 PM
2

Yes of course. We tell our son the same precautions. Which has been suggested multiple times in this thread. So why are we trying to have women take LESS and have men take them MORE?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:03 PM
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I’m actually quite shocked at how hostile some of these dudes are for women….not walking alone at night, being wary in a parking garage, taking a pic of the Uber license plate if riding alone, sending their friends location on a first date. Like these are just rational safety precautions. Apparently that’s paranoid delusions! I once again ask how any of this affects men who don’t want to harm women in any way and why some of you want women to be LESS cautious because it’s coming off weird as hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:11 PM
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Yes if my daughter were to take an Uber alone at night we would want her to get the license plate. This is a standard and good safety practice. Why are some of you upset women are taking these precautions- does it effect your life in anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:02 PM
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Daughter 1000% I bet his attitude would change. I don’t know ANY fathers of daughters including my husband who doesn’t advise safety precautions to their daughters. I want to know why some men want us to be LESS precautionary - seems sus af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:26 AM
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Ah haha man you again. It’s nice to have a fan 😘 Married with 2 children for many years. Don’t you have some more rage posts to make about how lonely and touchstarved you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:05 AM
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To YOU Nobody gives af if some losers can’t get relationship’s. The majority of men can and will pair up by their 30s. Like I said some of y’all are more misandrist than rad fems acting like all men are mindless creatures who will resort to violence to get some puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:52 PM
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Lmao it’s fucking nuts. It’s just wild to me that they will bemoan “evil feminists” for painting them in a bad light and then say “sex or we will force women back to subjugation!” It’s also why I say stay strapped ladies - your muscles don’t mean shit at the end of a Glock lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:22 PM
3

You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:10 PM
0

This doesn’t even make sense lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:06 PM
9

State assigned girlfriend or we riot! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:06 PM
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Standard “the sexless men will start an uprising!” Some of these dudes on here love living in their delusions - that because they’re a sexless loser ALL men are sexless losers. When in actuality the majority of men are having sex, are fathers, brothers, husbands, and boyfriends and would not be ok with rounding up women to dole out like Pokémon cards. The irony is they’re as misandrist as the rad fems saying all men are rapists and will hurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:53 PM
1

Yeah someone else just explained. I don’t play video games so thats why I was kind of lost lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:31 PM
2

I see I see thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:30 PM
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Like it wouldn’t work on them? Or it wouldn’t work if they tried it? I honestly do not understand what recruit difficulty means in this context lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:39 PM
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That makes sense - I’m sure it doesn’t work on every guy it just happened to work for the dudes I did it to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:37 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:40 PM
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Haha same we’d get in so many pointless fights because we were dumb early 20s idiots lol. Definitely with age came patience and maturity. We rarely fight now and I think it’s because we did the work to self reflect on what was not working and what did. 18 years and counting!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 08:49 PM
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I’d put myself in proximity of a guy I found cute, make some eyes, he’d approach, laugh at his jokes and find a way to touch him in a flirty way,. 100% success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:14 PM
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It’s pretty amusing you’re this worked up tbh. But anyway you’re going to be banned for this. Then you can slink back after you make another account and get mad all over again. As a forever alone over 30 year old man I’d think there’s more productive ways to use your time but if this is how you choose to spend it, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:07 PM
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Oh you big mad lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:55 PM
7

Haha triggered much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:24 PM
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God damn I think women wearing makeup is the least of this dudes problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:56 PM
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She’s at least 300lbs you got to know the purpulish lore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:22 AM
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It’s the same thing I said lol. They yell “just world fallacy” all the time. But some dudes here are convinced that the majority of good looking men are abusive assholes who will never commit and the below average dudes will be oh so loyal and will never do anything wrong. Which how convenient for their persecution worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:15 AM
1

Man I absolutely loved the hang the DJ episode of black mirror and unironically think it wd probably solve a lot of the dating woes with OLD lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:23 PM
4

I like this premise but maybe you can edit your post to include the pics? I do think you’re on to something because I find a lot of guys are as delusional as women can be about what they find as “average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:21 PM
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Yeah I can’t see him being a “perfect husband” but I’m not sexually attracted to him? I guess some can compartmentalize and just lay back and think of England but I’m not cut out to have mediocre sex for the rest of my life. Also the husband in this scenario would also probably be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:30 PM
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I mean that’s your preference and that’s perfectly fine for you to have. You don’t have to partake in it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:59 PM
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Why do you get to decide what another adult consents to? Dudes pay for dominatrixes to smash their heels into their balls or peg them. Are they not consenting because money was involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:33 PM
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It quite literally can as long as the one providing the sex work is fully consenting, not trafficked or coerced. YOU can obviously consent to not using a sex worker as is your bodily autonomy right. A sex worker can consent as it’s their bodily autonomy right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:56 PM
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Unless they are being trafficked they are consenting to provide sexual services for money. Whether people find it immoral, the pitfalls or sex work, etc. wasn’t the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:49 PM
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This is really it. If a man wants to have sex and no women are willing to have sex with him - he really only has a limited number of choices for consensual sex and I really hope the men here are all for consensual. Improve what looks/traits you can so women want to have sex with you, move to a place the looks/traits you have are desired so women want to have sex with you and or pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:24 PM
1

Hallelujah 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:28 PM
0

Haha it’s literally how I met my husband. His group of guy friends came over to my group of girl friends and bought us shots - we hit it off and the rest is history. 18 years and counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:24 PM
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I never said it was healthy but it’s effective for casual sex which is what the dude asked for 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:21 PM
1

What relevance does this have to my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:48 PM
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I can think of nothing less I care about than lf the men of PPD believe me. I would love to avoid my brother’s sexcapades and the ensuing drama that usually surrounds it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:07 PM
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Reading comprehension isn’t your strong suit either. Maybe more reading can help with learning women can be carnally desirous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:15 PM
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I don’t know why would you want to fuck my husband that’d be kind of weird dude - flattering but sorry he doesn’t swing that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:50 PM
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I love men AND carnally desire them especially my husband. It’s really great. I’m sorry you haven’t experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:46 PM
3

Imagine telling on yourself this bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:40 PM
10

For real imagine this is your world view so much your writing schizo screeds on the internet and some normal dude is just like “hey girl can I buy you a drink”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:03 PM
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Yep. Drinking and drugs have been the pipeline to casual sex since drinking and drugs were invented. Catch a girl on her “just broke up, ready to make bad decisions” and you’re golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:23 PM
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I know I’ve said this countless times - sometimes it’s right place right time and a “you’ll do”. I’ve seen this happen so much at clubs or parties lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:08 PM
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Very outgoing with large friend groups. Either very handsome or willing to go lower than him on looks. Typically always in party and drug environments. I’ve said this here before but my brother is this and he is no Chad. 5’7” and fat af and always has hookups - they’re usually as fat or fatter than him although he’s hooked up with a few pretty good looking women which I assume is just sheer numbers. He’s always out at bars and is the life of the party and has a large friend group. He’s very char…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:06 PM
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For real. I’ve added be at places people are drinking if they want casual sex and apparently that’s crazy talk. I don’t know how alcohol is the social lubricant to casual sex is so lost with these dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:59 PM
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They’re big mad lol I went to sleep and got comments mad that I said I’ve seen handsome men act sweet. Apparently that’s crazy and all handsome men are abusive rapists. Talk about “just world fallacy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:52 PM
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Nope just my lived experience you can believe it or not 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:50 PM
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Nope y’all just love to say handsome guys are always assholes - how ironic it’s just world fallacy that it just so happens handsome men are abusers and ugly men are always just so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:49 PM
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I’ve literally had a drunk 5’2 ugly dude yell at me and my friends that we were cunts because we declined him buying us drinks. I’m sure y’all will respond he probably wasn’t ugly but I’ve seen this happen plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:48 PM
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May I ask why lol? Not combative just always seen the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:16 AM
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It’s this at least on this particular subreddit. Like I’m not sure how else you’re to comprehend “all these females are cock carousel riding whores” wouldn’t be met with some criticism. And while I agree extremely handsome men will have way more leeway with shitty behavior I think some of these dudes go the opposite way that they’re claiming as just world fallacy. Somehow all handsome dudes are misogynistic dickheads abusers that women love to get abuse from and poor Billy beta would be so nice.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:16 AM
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It’s like the saying - any man that has to loudly proclaim he’s an Alpha is probably not. I tend to agree. I think true “alphas” I hate this dumb term are just confident, capable, attractive men, who just effortlessly display masculinity in a way that’s appealing to women and command respect from other men. I think what you’re getting at is performative alpha-ness maybe? They make it their whole personality and it’s ALL for trying to get women’s attention. Which I can see is similar to simps. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:32 PM
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Yeah unfortunately rage sells especially if you just really really want to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:17 PM
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I saw in the original OP it was a South Korean study, with 27 participants, based on tinder swipes, and the main reason for rejection was age gaps. Which is just lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:03 PM
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I honestly don’t understand any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:39 PM
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Based on his post history absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:38 PM
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Nothing is stopping you from praising and lifting up your fellow dude bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:23 PM
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A lot of women like men who are confident and take charge. You will still however need to read the room. What works in one environment will not in others. And as what I said earlier a lot of autistic guys aren’t going to be confident enough to pull this off in highly extroverted settings like clubs. At worst they are going to creep people out at best they’ll just be ignored. It’s why more low key environments are probably better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:48 PM
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Yes exactly! You can still have the social aspect but I think having an activity you’re all doing would prob help guys that’s are more shy or introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:07 PM
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I think from what I’ve observed and what they’ve told me is some autistic guys have a hard time reading social cues, nuances, etc. I also know some autistic people have really bad sensory issues so loud, chaotic places will be hard. This all translates to them coming off as “off putting”. That’s not going to help in bar and club scenes where everyone is usually very extroverted and looking to have care free fun. No ones giving social graces at places like this. They can however still try and be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:01 PM
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Yes because what’s the point lol. “I feel luke warm about this person let’s see where it goes” is usually not going to end up well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:01 AM
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This is also so true. Most people kind of learn through past relationship mistakes if they have any self awareness. I was WAY more impatient and kind of sucked with my first boyfriend and learned hey maybe work on some of this shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:56 PM
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For real my high school relationship would have failed miserably in marriage.. You know fuck all at 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:52 PM
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Oh not you you’re the bestest boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:14 AM
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How will they know if they are compatible for marriage without dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:45 PM
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It’s not lol that’s just what some dude here accused me of “implying” when I said there’s a lot of ND men here who can have problems with nuance and social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:43 PM
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Just what it sounds like? Attractive people are able to leverage their hotness for all kinds of things, free stuff, access to exclusive things, etc. They are going to have an easier time dating because some people will overlook their flaws to have access to attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:40 PM
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It stands for men in general as well. If a woman isn’t giving you reciprocal effort cut your losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:33 PM
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I didn’t have a problem with it. I said it’s not going to help with your dating woes and what I said will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:29 PM
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No it doesn’t. Yes women should absolutely block those men if it’s unwanted. They can still complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:23 PM
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No because men aren’t response for abuse. Abusers are responsible for abuse. You’re never going to get the entire other gender to do exactly what you want to make dating easier. So back to my original point YOU should be cutting off women who don’t make effort. I’d say the exact same thing to women who were not getting effort from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:19 PM
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Is women not putting in effort = abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:05 PM
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I’m also having trouble parsing out what the debate is here. That women don’t put in effort unless the man is HV I’m assuming? I think men need to stop giving women who don’t reciprocate effort chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:31 PM
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Lol defn I’ve been called a pick me or a raging feminazi depending on who I’m arguing with 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:32 PM
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Apparently there are no neurodivergent men here and saying so is a lie I made up to just insinuate men here are ugly thing I was told just 2 days ago in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:15 PM
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“Many of us here are neurodiverse” Careful I got crucified saying this and told I was just calling the dudes here ugly lol. Maybe if a man says it it’ll hold more weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:56 PM
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I think anyone that’s too extreme to either side is doing their self a disservice in the dating world. If I was dating again an out and proud MAGA dude would make me dry as the Sahara. I also wouldn’t want a guy screaming he’s a male feminist. My husband’s pretty left leaning but neither of us make it our whole personality. He’s stereotypically very masc, latin, played sports his whole life, but believes in abortion rights, that lgbt people should have rights and doesn’t give af where they go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 01:49 PM
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Which is why I said “some” and not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:57 PM
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“An hardline social conservative zoomer” Eww. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:50 PM
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What does this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:32 PM
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The vast majority of men 80% + reported having sex at least once, so yeah it’s catastrophizing. The black pill dudes in this subreddit are far from average. We are not Japan now are we? Maybe different cultures, values, practices, no? So we have no clue of what’s happening in Japan will happen here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:31 PM
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Yes I think that shows contrary to what some men here believe the amount of men having sex is way more than they try catastrophizing about and women are having less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:19 PM
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lol I just wrote that and gave him the new data. They LOVE holding onto the 2018 GSS and the decades old at this point OK Cupid study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:11 PM
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I never insinuated it did but you suggested women are not doing fine because they are having copious amounts of sex but by all accounts they are not since most surveys have indicated the average being less than 7 and that’s the high end. The CDC lists it as 4.3. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Your graph is also outdated. In 2021 women reported celibacy at the highest rate since 1989. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:10 PM
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It’s true how ever will they pair bond now!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:48 PM
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Lol my parents were partying it up in Miami in the late 70s I know they were up to all kinds of wild things. They can keep that to themselves though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:47 PM
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The average for women is less than 7. Also, even within the link you dropped - men were having more casual sex than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:38 PM
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“Those boobs look familiar” - Dude that went to Mons Venus the weekend before 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:32 PM
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Ah part of my bi awakening lol but yes I’m not sure why some of these zoomers think ye olden years of late 90s/early aughts were somehow less degenerate. By all stats my generation was having more sex and earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:25 PM
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They were in Miami for a spring break I went to and giving out shirts! I think by the end they were just doing straight porn with porn actresses lol. You burned so bright but so fast GGW.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:22 PM
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Haha now that was a bit TOO much - everyone knows you stay away from strange busses and the dudes holding a 30 lb camera on his shoulder!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:10 PM
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No camera phones 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:51 PM
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I’m saying! As an elder millennial these dudes would be positively scandalized - I’ll never forget you Spring Break 2003!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:46 PM
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Yes correct so I’m going by their words. I’m not. I’ve had comments here 100+ upvoted I don’t need them to prove or disprove my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:27 AM
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Nope - projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:01 AM
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No you just want to put words in my mouth I never said or insinuated 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:51 AM
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I never said that once in my comment. I simple said the neurodivergent men here have a hard time with nuance and social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:43 AM
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I can also make an educated guess they are neurodivergent by their words. Which is what I originally stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:30 AM
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Lmao I have no idea what the men in here look like. THEY say they’re neurodivergent- so once again take it up with the men here who say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:20 AM
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I’m going by what the men here have told me. Take it up with them if they’re misdiagnosing themselves 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:15 AM
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Is this OP’s post?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:16 PM
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Groping some strangers genitals whether man or women is definitely sexual assault and anyone who says so is not exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:07 PM
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I’m saying that life and humans in general are varied. You can extrapolate general trends but it’s not a guarantee to be successful, so you’ll have to pivot in a myriad of ways to find what works for you. Some people do not get this and want an exact sequence of events to get to their desired result and when that doesn’t work give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:59 PM
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I don’t agree with all the fatalistic doomerism that permeates some dudes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:49 PM
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This is perfectly illustrating my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:45 PM
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Many men here have said they are neurodivergent or on the spectrum in some way. It’s also glaringly evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:32 PM
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Yes attractive people have the benefit of pretty privilege, how astute. If you’re not you’ll have to figure out the nuances of dating and what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:31 PM
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“A lot” not ALL. Glad I could clear that up since you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:25 PM
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A lot of the men here are neurodivergent in some way so it’s difficult for them to process things in a nuanced way. It’s much easier to try and find some sort of “cheat code” that if you do x then y will happen. Which is obviously not how life works. There’s a lot of woe is me and victimhood as well - whether justified or not - that no matter what advice is given it’s met with deflection and derision. I agree with much of what you said but it’s going to fall on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:20 PM
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Haha same - these very plausible, defn happened scenarios are like Chad fanfics. It’s entertaining at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:39 AM
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Yes so back to my original point it doesn’t help just like ai won’t. Because of the validation men need.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:02 AM
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It is - doesn’t affect the actual dating market like that. Same problems the western dudes here bitch about - maybe even more because you have pimps, cheating and crime also to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:20 AM
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Lmao I’m Latin and defn no. Have you been to Brazil?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:07 AM
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Tbf she may have not known what the HJ meant lol because it was fairly obvious it was joke …but also it’s this sub so it’s not out of the realm of possibilities that suggestion wouldn’t be floated seriously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:50 PM
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I mean I think most people would reasonably have some care. I don’t even mind porn and as long as it doesn’t affect our sex life I don’t see any issue with it. But there are just some things that a lot of people find taboo and downright disgusting and it’s human nature that it could color their perception of their partner fairly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:27 PM
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There’s a kink for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:01 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:32 PM
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Dude having a drink or two at a bar and people being more receptive to flirty behavior does not = so drunk they can’t consent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:29 PM
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That’s just not how it works for 80% + people. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:15 PM
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I know two couples who met at coed soft ball - they do drink (both just socially) but they didn’t meet while drinking so it’s definitely a good option for sober people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:57 PM
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Oh yeah definitely- drugs and alcohol have been fueling the youths sexxing since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:45 PM
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Well then that’s fine - there’s plenty of places that I suggested where you can meet people without alcohol - many of the more health conscious activities won’t have alcohol but people are still open to mingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:41 PM
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Because it really doesn’t make any sense if as a woman the men you like are asking you? If a woman isn’t getting the men she likes to ask and is not happy about being single then I’d say she would have to be like men and be proactive about it. It’s simple supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:39 PM
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Damnit lol I just wrote pretty much what you wrote before I saw it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:36 PM
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There’s plenty of places that are conducive to meeting people in social settings, sports clubs, hobby clubs, coffee shops, etc. If you’re looking for casual sex though you’re going to have a rough go unless you’re hella attractive. Alcohol is the social lubrication that fuels casual sex and I don’t see that changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:36 PM
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Yeah he lost me there and this was my exact face 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:21 PM
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Women are also not immune to social validation. Women aren’t bringing their dildo to social functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:20 AM
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Bruh yes exactly mens insecurity is around sex and dicking down women - so why wd he not be insecure that other men get REAL women when he has to pay for it not also be tied to his masculinity- you’ve agreed with my whole point on why AI won’t satisfy that innate validation. Perfect we’ve come full circle and you’ve agreed with me 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:16 AM
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Nope you’ll always feel that deep down innate feeling you’re not good enough to get what other men got by lust. You had to pay for some code. It’s a nice complacency, like porn. But just like porn or hookers now it doesn’t compete against a males nature to be able to lay seed and out compete other man. Biological my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:27 AM
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They can’t because it’s not “real”. You’re always going to know it’s not actual attraction or love but lines of code. Which I mean I’m all for them for people who can’t find actual attraction to find ways to cure loneliness. But deep down as a human man it will never be “enough” because you know it’s fake. Men will still have feelings of inadequacies that other Chad men can get the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:22 AM
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Delusional - men on this very sub whinge everyday about Chad™️- about how they get women on pure lust. Mad about beta buxxing, worried to the point of depression that a woman may have had better than him, that a man may have gotten sex on the first date when he has to wait, etc. Robot sex dolls will be fine as a porn like device but then it’ll just make the men who can still get actual women even more men of envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:53 AM
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It doesn’t matter - you’ll still know deep down you’re not enough to get a real woman with free will to let your penis in her. It’s empty and doesn’t fill the base instinct to want validation that you’re able to obtain what other men are able to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:44 AM
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Validation that an actual human woman lusted after you. If men just wanted a warm hole the places where prostitution was legal would change the dating dynamics - it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:37 AM
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Delusional - I knew within 10 min I wanted to jump my husbands bones - it was visceral lust. I knew not one iota about him, whether he was rich or had status, etc. So what prizes was I trying to obtain other than he was hot af? Women absolutely experience lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:58 AM
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Lol that’s like 80% of this sub. I guess I don’t know how to have a successful relationship work going on 18 years in - single men on ppd defn know what’s up though 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:42 AM
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You think the majority of women in healthy relationships that describe their relationship as egalitarian that it MUST be an exact 50/50 split? There’s NO nuance there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:08 PM
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“Times of India” article sounds like a very rigorous study. No women are not suggesting that everything must be an exact 50/50 that’s not facts. They are saying they want equitable trade-offs where one person ISN’T doing all of the responsibilities that’s literally egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:56 PM
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I don’t know many women past high school maybe college age that have a legitimate backup person. And as I said if they do the relationship isn’t going to last because that’s the type of person to not be putting their all into the primary relationship. I’m not mouthing off I’m saying egalitarian doesn’t need to and in many cases is not a true 50/50 split because that’s next to impossible. How are women defining egalitarian relationship where the man or woman does everything? I’ve not seen that. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:38 PM
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Yep - but I’ve seen literal spreadsheets being drawn up on Reddit and I can’t imagine micromanaging my relationship to the point I’m stressing over you changing a diaper 1.5 x more than I did so now I’m mad lol. Seems a miserable way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:24 PM
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lol I didn’t see your comment but yeah man it’s the easiest type of relationship imo - we all got our strengths and weaknesses and the best part of a good relationship is enjoying what you lack the other is awesome at and Vice a versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:17 PM
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I’ve always wanted to wear a niqab and forced to not be out without male chaperones. It’s all women I know complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:15 PM
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Egalitarian doesn’t mean it has to be an exact 50/50 split. I’d wager that’s next to impossible in most relationships and tbh trying to calculate exact percentages is just going to lead to adversarial attitudes and resentments. What it does look like in heathy long lasting relationships is a complimentary split. One person picks up slack in one area, while the other does in a different aspect in the relationship. How that flows is going to vary by couple. And can possibly change during different…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:13 PM
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What are these “rules” and how would they be implemented or enforced?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:46 PM
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Not at all caring for your child is something your supposed to do - however, as much as single mothers are denigrated here I’m trying to see if he’s a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:25 PM
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Would you date a single mom? Being a single dad is also going to limit your choices way more than making $73k.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:07 AM
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We have a lot of immigrants where I’m from (Miami) it really doesn’t make any difference. Mainly because most of the immigrant cultures coming in already have huge communities within the region that it’s really not that big of a leap in culture from where they came from which is generally the Caribbean. I would think it may be a lot different if there was an influx to more homogeneous regions like the Midwest but big multicultural cities people assimilate pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:03 PM
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Lmfao I miss reddit gold cuz I would have sparkled you up with some.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:41 PM
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The only time I hear about age gaps is on Reddit. Nobody cares in grass touching land. Firstly, the amount of age gap 10 + years is minuscule compared to similarly aged people in relationships so it’s not something most people even encounter. And secondly most age gaps aren’t even noticeable to strangers. I’m going to press x to doubt a 31 year old dude out and about with his 23 year old girlfriend is getting tarred and feathered. Nothing is “spreading” other than young women saying they’re not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:34 PM
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Haha yeah I’ve done that catastrophizing but that’s prob just my anxiety lol. But yes if god forbid something happened to him I think I’ll just fuck off to the beach with books I’m not cut out for this modern dating scene 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:34 PM
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Perfect. My answer as well. He’s just my people and someone I couldn’t imagine a life without.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:58 PM
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As a person already raising two kids with a man and if I died I would absolutely know he would raise his own kids - I also don’t think men at large wd do this as evidenced by the amount of single mothers. But you’re right I’m absolutely seething. How will I go on!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:02 PM
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We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:54 PM
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I was just about to type this I wish this was more known lol even with his flair barely moral does not have the same relationship aspects that the majority of people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:47 PM
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Would you use this app now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:31 AM
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She’s literally the worst example for this lol. Dudes loaded af and owns like pretty much every luxury brand - he could have gotten a younger girl with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:25 PM
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As a bi woman I’m also fine with some thick thighs rough housing we are in this together 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:54 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:40 AM
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You sweet summer child I guess your new round these parts. If you’re asking in good faith - a man with a missing penis is going to be doomed unless he can find an asexual women, is rich enough enough to buy a wife to be celibate, or is willing to be cucked because most hetero women are not willing to live a lifetime with no sex from her partner just as men would not want such a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:06 AM
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Has the purge started early?! The fuck kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:54 AM
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I agree with the other poster’s sentiment what’s the issue? I’ve had guy friends since college/work and one as far back as middle school and they have obviously in that time frame found women partners who I was happy for them about and many have now come into the fold as my friends. Is this something that has actually happened to you IRL? I’ve never had a friend who was platonic find a partner that I then got mad at them for doing so - this is just a natural progression of adult life milestones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:29 AM
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Having sex with a man you’re not attracted to can literally be a painful event for a woman since ya know we need to be aroused. Also this sounds like a recipe for dead bedroom town and no one wants to live there. I’m all for vetting and looking for things other than just physical attributes but attraction is also a big part of the equation. Being in a relationship with a women who’s not attracted to you is not going to work out well for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:08 PM
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This is exactly how I know a good chunk of these pill space dudes are not hiding their “anonymous thoughts”. And it’s full cope that it doesn’t bleed into their real lives - true self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:48 PM
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No but you are benefitting the outcomes (sex) you are getting because she’s on it. If you really want to make a stand put your money where your mouth is - decree your penis is a no BC zone and you won’t date a woman who’s on it. Otherwise like I said you’re bemoaning the very thing you are participating in, which makes you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:14 PM
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You’re benefitting from the sex so that’s a cop out. Also, I feel bad for your girlfriend but glad she’s smart enough to be on BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:10 PM
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One that you’re participating in then. You could choose to not have sex or not use birth control - you chose the latter. Seems to be a bit hypocritical to bemoan the very thing you are benefitting from and participating in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:05 PM
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Then I don’t see what the issue is with birth control. You are literally doing the same thing the vast majority of women do including myself - get an education and get yourself in a secure place and then have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:55 PM
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So you’re not even practicing what you preach. Why aren’t you and your g/f popping out kids right away? May she be one of the many women who choose the stability of a career first - most women end up having children just not 5 and delay that till after education. Which is smart in this economy. I say this as such a woman who is married with 2 children that had them after getting educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:14 PM
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The fucking irony lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:11 PM
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Ah the “I don’t care about the words you wrote all of you are liars” Great debating skills - superb 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:00 PM
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Yep agree that’s why I said their constant need for male validation doesn’t stop once they get a guy - they thrive on it and will continue to do so- seen it played out IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:37 PM
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“Having solidarity with men or being trad does NOT a pick me make” I literally said the opposite. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:44 PM
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Never met a “I just can’t get along with women” woman not being the most drama filled chaotic mess of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:21 PM
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Pick me women are just the female version of simps. The ick men have towards simps is the same ick women have for pick mes. Just having solidarity with men does not a pick me make. A trad wife isn’t always a pick me. Pick mes thrive off male validation and throw other women under the bus to get it. I empathize with men’s issues and also have a pretty traditional relationship no ones accused me of being pick me. Also true pick mes are terrible for a relationship they will feel like they’re in com…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 08:17 PM
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I’ve had many cold approaches (one when I was heavily pregnant and clearly had my wedding ring on so that was weird af) - none that I accepted a date from though. I was polite and just said no thanks, or taken and for the most part the men were also polite after rejection. I will say cold approaches in the places you mentioned are excluded I did consider or started dating from. I met my husband at a bar and it was pretty much a cold approach that he did and obviously since we are married that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:30 PM
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No as an elder millennial I have no clue about all this zoomer doomerism and “missed milestones” that gets talked about on here. I dated and partied in high school and college, got married, bought a house, had children and pretty much everyone in my social circle followed this same trajectory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:24 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:06 PM
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Dude - you've invented a chick to get mad at I swear to God that 90% of this sub is dudes telling themselves stories about how awful their lives have to be Lmao this is literally 90% of the sub. You got guys in here worried about women they’ve never met and making up scenarios about how they’ll be cucked by their mythical future wives. It’s nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:58 PM
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Oh I know lol just like they cling to the 2018 GSS that said 30% of men are sexless when the 2022 should a huge reverse and showed women were only 1% diff - they only care about facts that fit their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:40 AM
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If it’s a ONS or short term situation just get a paternity test because who cares. If you’re married or in LTR situation spell it out early that one of your deal breakers is having a paternity test - this removes the awkward situation of accusing your wife of being a cheating whore while pregnant or post partum and full of hormones because she consented to continuing the relationship with the knowledge this would be happening. Or do it behind her back. I’ve had 2 children and I’ve said this coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:37 AM
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There isn’t - they use the 30% of men who did paternity testing were found not to be the father as the population as a whole. When in actuality it was 30% of men who already suspected their kids weren’t theirs did a paternity test and found out they were not the father and fear monger that this means out of all fathers 30% are getting cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:29 AM
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Excellent in Montgomery Burns voice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:35 PM
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Lmfao - fuck does this mean I’m kicked from the female hive mind I was enjoying it 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:29 PM
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Everything is a spectrum and will have to be calibrated to one’s own tastes but most people don’t like extreme things on either end. Luckily most people aren’t the caricatures OP’s laid out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:17 PM
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If you think saying dude and wearing pants sometimes is going to hinder a women in anyway from having a family I’m just going to assume you live in Amish country or are Muslim. In the real world this barely makes a blip and for a lot of men having a down to earth wife who can dress up or down, fun to be around and handle things capably is only a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:09 PM
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Saying dude doesn’t negate being feminine. Wearing pants doesn’t negate being feminine. Listening to rap music and sometimes singing along doesn’t negate being feminine. I do all these things and no one ever has accused me of being masculine. Because I can still do all those things and also wear dresses and have my hair done. Like I said I’ve never seen these things hurt a woman’s chances for a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:59 PM
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It really doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:52 PM
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I assure you saying bruh and dude and wearing pants isn’t going to stop a woman from having one. As a woman who wears dresses but also sweats and says dude a lot - but is also married with children. Sometimes my husband and I both even gasp sing along to those dirty rap songs and it hasn’t led to divorce!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:31 PM
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You’re welcome to just not date those women? I’m not sure what there is to debate and this is more a rant. Saying colloquialisms like dude and bruh are masculine? Get a grip. Every generation has slang this is not a new concept. There’s also always been men like you that have scoffed at women who defied “traditional” gender norms and said they were no longer being “proper ladies”. In the 20’s flappers were called masculine whores, 60’s those dirty hippies. Goth women, punk rock women, etc. etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:41 PM
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Beat me to it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:33 PM
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You hard nose megabitch! lol. I’m not sure why the default of most people just going about there day is an affront. When I was single I would just assume those people were taken, not interested in talking, or I didn’t even register them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:50 PM
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Yes. I am using the words you wrote - that’s usually how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:37 PM
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She said she had resting bitch face which is just not smiling and had head phones in - this is the default of most city dwellers across the world. You assigned all the negative attributes “scowling, hard nose, mega bitches” yourself, not her. Then tried to play victim that if a man were to look like this he’d be a predator when in reality he’d just be ignored and no one would give af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:26 PM
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If a man was not smiling and wearing headphones and ignoring people he wouldn’t be a predator he would be ignored which is what this lady is conveying. Also I love how you assigned her being a mega bitch by just going about her business like any other human.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:14 PM
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Yes agreed a lot of issues would be solved by this but the haze of lust and stupidity of youth usually clouds this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:08 PM
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I’m sure there are some women who are full stop against them but I’ve been here awhile and it’s usually most women upset that their husbands or bfs are asking after they gave birth and this topic was never brought up so it’s feels like an accusation. Im not opposed but I don’t see mandatory paternity testing getting approved anytime soon - Just set the boundary upfront and I think this gets avoided mostly and it removes the accusation aspect as this was an already agreed upon term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:02 PM
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No the most common response is not to spring it on the mother of your child after she’s pregnant or worse right after she had the baby. As a mother of two I’ve said ad nauseam here just do it behind her back or discuss at the beginning of the relationship that paternity testing is a deal breaker and you want one done then she has informed consent if she wants to continue the relationship. If it’s not a relationship and just a ONS who cares again just go get one done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:55 PM
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You’d have to ask them - they were both boxes for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:50 AM
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You and like 3 other dudes here are like the only normies that match my worldview on this lol. Like no shit not many hot or available young women are at Scruff’s pool hall - the Latin club or pop music fest and surprise surprise women galore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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The environment is entirely the reason there’s a difference. The ROI’s you’re going to get is ridiculously different at a library than at a house party or music festival with drunk and high 20 somethings. Sure if you’re the lone dude all by yourself in the corner it’s weird but going with a group of guy friend meeting a gaggle of girl groups happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:42 AM
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No - I had sex with my husband the 2nd night lmao. I don’t have sex with men I would not and did not have a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:37 AM
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We are talking on two threads and I think we are mainly agreeing lol - i was taking more to OP’s examples of extreme things. I’m sure some women may be okay with it but I’d air on the side of caution a one night stand wants full on choking or going into BDSM stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:38 PM
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Yes I meant in context of more extreme things as OP suggested like choking and slapping. Just slowly escalating and getting a good reception for the more mundane things I said I think is genuinely what most people think of around consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:36 PM
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I mean the easiest is just to discuss. What your turn ons/offs, what your dealbreakers are, set up safe words. You can also start off with less extreme things and gauge the reception - light smack of the ass, light hair pull, light pressure on the neck (not full on choking). This is why I also said it’s better in a relationship since the level of trust is there and not with a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:26 PM
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I mean that’s fine thats you’re experience. I wouldn’t do anything that crazy without being in the confines of a relationship with someone I trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:23 PM
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I’d assume we are still going to go on sexing. Which is what I’ll do but I guess .. go girl or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:31 PM
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You’re preaching to the choir I’ve said all this before here. The problem is a lot of the struggling dudes here are extremely introverted, or autistic, or antisocial, etc. so yes the extremely obvious that going out to social places with people who are there to be social while also having social lubricants like alcohol and drugs are going to exponentially shoot your chances way up for a casual encounter. However - they know this but won’t / don’t want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:26 PM
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Lmfao same - what about us married folks - do I get my woman card taken!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:19 PM
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I mean yeah I wouldn’t recommend starting something like that right off that bat. You can discuss before hand, have safe words, escalate in a slow way and see the reception. It’s a fluid situation that requires a bit of finesse and awareness. Although it doesn’t sound like you’re really into that sort of thing which is also okay just find someone sexually compatible with your style that you’re comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:05 PM
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Haha well yeah it’s still gonna take some finesse and nuance but for the black and white thinkers just straight to choking is prob not gonna be great for the lady
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:57 PM
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It’s typically not something you’re gonna try with a stranger or ONS and more once in a LTR where you’ve built up trust with the other person. As I am married I am willing to be more adventurous with my husband since I trust he’ll listen and wants us both to have an enjoyable time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:23 PM
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Depends on the day. Key is communication and consent. Sometimes I like a slow romantic session, others a more wild time. Also “loving and passionate” doesn’t discount wanting it “rougher” or vice a versa. I still am having a loving and passionate time with my husband no matter the flavor of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:13 PM
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If you’re trying to understand RP here isn’t it. There’s like 2 actual red pill dudes here at most and the rest are black pill doomers masquerading at RP. I found this sub idk how a few years ago and for the most part it’s at the very least moderated well - not turning into a echo chamber. What do I gain? Amusement, curiosity, like a car crash you can’t look away from - maybe all of the above! The worldview of some people here is so far removed from my own it’s just fascinating enough to keep me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:44 PM
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I come here for entertainment, though it's so depressing and offensive I often regret it I’m in this picture and I don’t like it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:35 PM
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Lmfao this should just be the motto of this sub at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:42 PM
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Yeah lol like he’s not chest thumping and growling at men to not look at what’s “his”. It’s more like damn you look good and thinking about taking that off later. It’s fun little sexual tension - why are the people here so neurotic and prudish 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:51 PM
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That’s pretty established 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:48 PM
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Idk maybe it’s just culturally different. I’m Latina and we dress pretty spicy - whether a wedding, a family party, holidays, the beach, etc. it’s pretty common place. I don’t really go out much without my husband as we enjoy time together though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:46 PM
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This has happened literally in this sub before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:43 PM
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“An opened buttoned shirt and sweat pants is a fucking terrible fit” lmao for real like damn I just want to look cute not homeless. Also my husband loves when I dress up to look hot - I’m sure the men here will say that makes him a cuck but I literally wear leggings and a hoodie or shirt 90% of the time so it’s a treat to get dolled up for a night on the town with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:30 PM
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Cuban American here and co-sign all of this. While I’m not that familiar with immigrants from the west coast border we have “fresh off the boat” immigrants and they are typically men so just finding women is already low and they are usually very unsavory. Which makes sense as trekking hundreds of miles trying to avoid gangs and criminals will probably make you pretty hardened. I’m gonna press x to doubt a dude who’s having trouble finding women in the states is going to have an easier time with …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 PM
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Idk I had two so I did my part. The rest of y’all need to get to raw dogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:54 PM
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Why would they care if they have lower libido? A meet cute like in a rom com or their hand I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:22 AM
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When in any of my words did I call you a stupid loser. Some crazy asshole dudes say I shouldn’t be allowed to vote and am a worthless hag - I don’t color my opinion of all men by those people. Most women have no problem with a man approaching them at a bar or club especially at a bar or club as it’s expected. If you’re gonna let some insane Twitter rants detour you that’s your prerogative but it’s definitely not going to be in your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:09 PM
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What? I genuinely have no clue what you’re on about tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:48 PM
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I think the men who don’t listen to what feminist harpy’s have to say on Twitter will also continue to be more successful than men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:22 PM
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We are talking about the initial interaction. The OP is asking about the pursuit. And why I explained the guy is most likely going to have to do the pursuing. Whether that’s for a quick fuck or a relationship has no bearing. How she reacts later about commitment is inconsequential at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:17 PM
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20 somethings out at a bar or club are not thinking about their future husbands/wives my guy. Not sure what kind of clubs you hang out at.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:07 PM
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What has to give? Men who pursue will continue to do so and those men will be more successful than men who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:06 PM
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What am I to do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:01 PM
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I couldn’t care less if a man wants to spend his money to go overseas as long as it’s legal and consensual - knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:14 PM
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Could be idk - still not going to flip women into wanting to approach more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:12 PM
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I said nothing about commitment. No one is thinking about commitment hitting on someone at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:11 PM
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Congrats you’ve found out the who wants it more game and 9/10 times it will be the man so you’re just gong to have to pursue. And if you don’t some other dude definitely will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:12 PM
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Sure sure prostitution lite. Meanwhile I’m married for 20 years, 2 kids in wedlock but you’re the bastion of trad values 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:43 AM
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I suppose that makes sense. I’ve been out of the dating game a long time but it does seem quite a divide politically between young men/women. I guess a return to more masculine/feminine traits might be seen more attractive after such blurred gender lines, or it could become even more divided. I guess we shall see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:42 AM
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Aren’t traditional man having a hard time dating now as is - so much so they hide it on their dating profiles? And the conservative dating app was huge failure. If you just mean maybe more old school masculine, maybe, but I can’t imagine full on trad con catching steam anytime soon with the 20-25 year old ladies crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:14 AM
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Lmfao what - is this a thing?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:08 AM
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We also had slavery and all kinds of fucked up shit that didn’t mean it was beneficial or good. No amount of “justification” you want to pontificate on will normalize bartering 15/16 girls to gross old men in civilized society. Also “an actual traditional man” while advertising yourself as a sugar daddy on the sugar daddy forum. Lmfao how trad of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:53 PM
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I know it’s just so gross when I see this stuff in the wild. Like I’m sorry I don’t think most adjusted men want to troll their local high school freshman class for a wife. Also I love their excuse of peak “fertility” when teens have an infinitely harder time in pregnancy. Like all the 20 year olds ya want dude but claiming mid teens are prime baby makers and wives is instant disgust as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:44 PM
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“Mid to late teens” - so you want 15-17 year olds to be married off to 30+ year old men. Gross. My husband wouldn’t let our daughter at 15 be married off to some 35 year old man thankfully we’ve moved past such antiquated ideas and I think luckily most men would find this pretty abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:30 PM
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They always try this tactic when I think the majority of women here are married or partnered up lol. And yes to all that when I was 20s I wanted to be out with hot 20 year old men. Got with my husband at 23 and him 25 - still married to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:19 PM
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Like I said your current state clearly hasn’t brought you any happiness but if that’s the way you want to live your life that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:58 PM
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I am a woman, you are correct. And by you saying “you preferred men who cheat and abuse you” it certainly was framed as a direct projection on me, as I have never been in such a relationship. I can empathize with someone being lonely, isolated, and feeling inadequate. It’s much harder to empathize when someone then paints the entire other gender as shit. It’s like if I took all the insane stuff men write on Incel.is and make that my world view of men as a whole. Luckily I am able to discern ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:23 PM
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I never asked for respect or for your “ally ship” just simply asked a question. But man that’s a whole lot of projection. I’ve been married almost 20 years to the same wonderful man, never been cheated on, not abused either. And yes it’s quite lovely to build a life and family with someone and if that makes me boring I’m okay with that. For someone who seems to try and project a veneer of self importance and righteousness I only ask how that’s worked for you because the underlying emotion you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:27 PM
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And how is that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:47 PM
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To what caliber of women? I don’t even know maybe but one man who has multiple “baby mommas” and that was literally just a man who got divorced and then remarried to another woman who got divorced and also had a child. This premise seems wholly dependent on the socioeconomic environment - either on the low end where I see this more common or at the far extreme end of the very rich where women will forgo the “baby mammas” part for the status and money this man can provide. I don’t know any UMC me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:54 PM
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Why would a Ukrainian women need to saddle herself to an undesirable man for a passport. She can hop a flight to a European country and apply for citizenship as a refugee and still get on Tinder for a hot euro dude. You couldn’t have picked a worse country to try this lmao. And as I’ve said a women from Gaza is most likely going to be Muslim - so you’re not even going to get the chance to trap her because you’ll need to get through her family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:59 PM
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This dude most definitely needs to be on some kind of watch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:40 PM
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If you’re not desirable enough that you have to entertain the only way a women can be with you is by literally trapping them - you won’t be a god you’ll be a mark. It’s cute you think Ukrainian women would have to resort to this. They are literally being welcomed open arms to most European countries. And good luck getting a Palestinian women - I’m sure their very Muslim fathers, brothers, and community will allow this to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:35 PM
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Oh good so no women will be subjected to you and this is all delusions. That’s a relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:21 PM
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Have any of these options worked for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:15 PM
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What did you get banned for? I agree though this sub for all its faults mods pretty well. I’ve been banned from other subs just for posting in this sub lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 12:36 PM
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This is a long time “female” poster unfortunately who thinks women can’t have an orgasm and NO women enjoys sex other to manipulate men for selfish gains. It’s a lost cause with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:25 AM
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This is a long time “female” poster unfortunately who thinks women can’t have an orgasm and NO women enjoys sex other to manipulate men for selfish gains. It’s a lost cause with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:24 AM
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He loves the biggums so some nuance needed. Purpulish girls are 2 to 300 lbs which is not what most men are thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:02 AM
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I just realized who posted this lol - he and his girlfriend are both very autistic and I think his situation is different than the usual I a 50 year old man want 18 year old puss. Idk why he keeps posting about it though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:18 PM
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Same! I literally could care less unless it’s my daughter or a female family member, and if that’s the case my husband would probably care more. I don’t know anyone IRL that even notices an age gap, as most people aren’t in one that it’s even noticeable enough to raise eyebrows. I don’t know why men who want age gaps need approval from women they don’t even want, as long as it’s legal, just do it. The worst age gap shaming I see when it’s like a minuscule 3 year difference is from 20 year olds f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:11 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:55 AM
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Oh good it’s not just me lmfao. Have the street preachers on the corner yelling I’m gonna burn in hell infiltrated PPD now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:12 PM
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Again I’m going to need proof and stats other than your mom and some people you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:10 PM
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I’m sure the torch lighting and subsequent concussion created a romantic ambiance ✨ but I’ll stick with my feather duvet all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:20 PM
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Hey now I’m sure the real women salute their silicon sacrifices 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:17 PM
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There was no raping and pillaging in ancient times? Got it you’re a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:04 PM
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Lmao I’m sure the people in Gaza consider themselves “lucky” because they have a lot of kids there. They definitely don’t want to live in a non war torn country. Idk you but this is delusional. I am married and have children. My children’s school are full of children, parks, playgrounds, after school clubs have children. You can say there is a backslide of how many people are having kids but this is catastrophizing on a ridiculous level. I do not believe in any capacity all you see are childless…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:00 PM
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But you could club a lady and bring her back to your hut! Checkmate modernist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:43 PM
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Where do you live Gaza?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:41 PM
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Well yeah when suggesting going out to a bar or party sounds like torture to some here when I’ve suggested it, I’m not surprised lol. I as the rest of my peers partied it up on the weekends and then got to class or work or both during the week and ended up just fine and somehow weren’t labeled delinquents, criminals, bad boys/girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:45 PM
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This - gang members aren’t picking up sweet sally from church. They’re with other similarly matched women in lower socioeconomic areas or into inherently risky behavior. Or as you said women with trauma and/or low self esteem. They are outliers. And no just because Chad™️ has a full tattoo sleeve as he walks to poli sci class he’s not a bad boy. Assortive mating still applies in the majority of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:25 PM
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I had one and it made it awkward af as I had a boyfriend and basically he got himself ostracized from the group because of it. I’d assume they probably would when we were younger but we are all older and married with kids now. I doubt anyone wants to implode a decades long friendship and risk divorce and separation from their children for a romp in the sack. I’m not the thought police though but let’s just keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:15 PM
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Based and I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:48 PM
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Nah I’ve thought the same lol. Also there was one girl talking on and on about being a stay at home g/f - turns out she was just the honey pot to lure other girls to cam for her b/f 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:31 PM
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Yeah for sure I definitely see some of that going on. I think a good chunk too is just some D/s lifestyle sex kink tbh lol. And I just lolz at this new “stay at home girlfriend” trend. So just not working and you’re b/f funds your lifestyle, sure some dudes might be into it. But I’d imagine I’d not be married today if I suggested to my husband “you know what babe, can you like just pay for everything for me while I sit around and get my nails done”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:55 PM
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Half of the bread making, farm steading, 1950’s pin-up or Little House on the Prairie aesthetic videos I see today are women who aren’t married, no children and some even ex OF girls. Most are grifters that found a niche that sells to the male gaze. They talk little about what it takes homeschooling your children, how to actually run a farm and more look at my tits while I tell you how to be a subservient good little woman. I have no problem with traditional gender roles I’m pretty traditional i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:27 AM
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Me either that would not be nearly enough in my city. Maybe if you lived in a very LCOL city.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:14 PM
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Man I wish we had awards still cuz you had the time. 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:52 PM
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Lol I’ve been married and with the same dude since I was 23. I’m agreeing with you there will be delulu woman I just don’t find it to be some grand conspiracy that large swaths of women are conspiring. All people are inherently selfishy just thinking about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:56 PM
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So you a man are being held captive by a 500lb woman as we speak - she just threw you over her shoulder and said you’re mine now JDWhiz96?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:48 PM
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But it’s not? How many HuffPost articles saying all men must have gay sex and you’re a homophobic jerk that is all about the patriarchy if you don’t have gay sex would make you want to have sex with a man if you were straight. It’s ludicrous to think an article or the fat acceptance movement as a whole is forcing men to date fat women. You can say it’s trying to make fat more normalized but that’s never going to move the needle on men generally liking thin women and it’s definitely not forcing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:43 PM
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A HuffPost article is forcing you to date fat women and women you don’t find attractive. The power they have! What legislation have they passed to make not dating fat women illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:34 PM
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I meant by literally keeping score. You only took out the trash 2xs this week and I did it 3xs is just going to be exhausting and someone’s going to be resentful by the end of it and probably spell relationship doom. I’m fine with an uneven balance like I said I don’t think true 50/50 is always possible. Life happens and sometimes someone is going to take more on - I think as long as one person isn’t always the one taking more on its a balance that works quite effectively. How that balance looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:28 PM
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Well most blue collar workers are typically with other blue collar workers - like roofer with nurse which are usually both physically demanding. Which in this case I would agree they should both do their fair share as equal as possible. I commented elsewhere it’s not gendered - if a women lawyer who has a high case load and has to work late in big cases and her husband just worked an easier desk job I would think it’s fair for him to pick up more slack at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:11 PM
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Then they will remain alone and become the single cat ladies some of y’all drone on about - what’s the issue you’re not forced to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:06 PM
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No absolutely not - it definitely can be just as stressful in a high mentally exhausting field as well so it doesn’t always have to be physically demanding. I think like I said it doesn’t always need or can be 50/50 - it can ebb and flow. Lawyers working a big case may need some slack from their spouse and will pick it back up when things are slow as an example. I just know I literally have 80% more downtime than my husband and like the set up that we have. The best case is to find a good work/l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:04 PM
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I mean ok lol, my husband isn’t blue collar but he does have a way more strenuous job. I have a cushy wfh job that gives me ridiculous amounts of downtime which is why I’m always dicking around on ppd lol. I like cooking and doing laundry takes like an hour a week. Plus I really enjoy being home with my kids. It doesn’t really feel like forced labor. It may not be for everyone but it works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:45 PM
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And it’s glorious unhinged. Good entertainment there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:36 PM
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The only thing I slightly disagree with you on is the income deficient the type of job can matter. If you’re a a roofer sweating it out on 100 degree roof all day and the other an office worker it would make sense the office worker may pick up at little more slack after work. If you both work a comfy desk job even if one brings in more I think it still doesn’t make sense one would do more house work. But I agree on everything else you said. My husband makes more but not by a lot and I actually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:33 PM
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It could be sure there’s tons of that on the internet. It could also be a genuine sentiment without underlying ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:53 PM
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I think women are more likely to not to come out and say you’re fat and use more encouraging language like I’m worried for your health or how about we go to the gym together. I don’t agree with promoting obesity because it’s a real problem here and do agree the fat acceptance movement is moving too far away from hey you can occupy space here without having insults thrown at you to glorifying being fat is ok no matter what and you should make no changes. I just think this rah rah you’re a 10 girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:49 PM
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I think those women will inherently find out they are not in fact 10’s. Delulu people can only continue to be so until they get humbled or are fine living in delulu land alone. It works itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:38 PM
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I just don’t see what there is to be “rationally mad” about that women compliment random women instead of denigrating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:17 PM
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Yes all those things happen - there’s female intrasex competition where women can be catty, rude, conniving, etc. Why do women need to tell other random women truths they don’t want to hear? They tell that to their close friends and relatives. Telling a woman she has a cute outfit but not telling her she’s fat just isn’t an issue I see worth caring about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:15 PM
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Giving a genuine compliment to a random woman is just that a compliment. I’m not sure why men are so emotional over this - if you don’t agree then you don’t agree. Why do women need to be “brutally honest” to complete strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:01 PM
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Haha hey Lalo! I’ve been less active lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:44 PM
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There’s a difference in insincerely gassing someone up and giving a genuine compliment. I also think most women have close friends they are brutally honest with. Most women don’t feel the need to be inherently rude to random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:33 PM
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I think most women and men really don’t have such extreme takes that they can never admit these things. Most women know an obese Walmart cashier isn’t a 10, that women can and do get pumped and dumped, and body count will matter for a lot of dudes. A lot of women like to compliment each other as a way to lift each other up which I don’t find a bad thing tbh in the world of negativity. Commenting on another girls hairstyle, nails, etc. can and most likely is genuine and not trying to “increase a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:23 PM
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Does this make the dating easier for the men? Since there’s such a discrepancy on the amount of available men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:27 PM
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I wouldn’t disagree with that. That’s why I think social proof for men is probably mostly about sex and probably not to the same extent or seeking the same outcome as women. Biologically it makes sense - women are at a physical strength disadvantage so if you see a man has had a relationship you can kind of discern him to be in the “safe” category. Not fool proof but I can see how even subconsciously this occurs. Subsequently just having women friends can covey this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:14 PM
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Yes for sure maintaining Idgaf will without a doubt tank a LTR - openness has to happen. But for initial attraction indicators it will come across more attractive than desperation probably 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:21 PM
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Yes aloofness or an Idgaf attitude can come off as confident and many women will be attracted to that. Coincidentally that’s usually the advise given - to not have a scarcity mindset. However, in practice I’m sure that’s easier said then done with men who have never had a relationship or they are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:11 PM
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Social proofing for men is probably more about sex and not about relationships. Like that Gina is great in the sack. Anecdotally I’ve had a few times when I’ve broken up with an ex and HIS friends have tried to hit me up after the break up. Which was an instant ick and I promptly told my ex his friends are gross and their bro-code is nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:01 PM
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While I think there is genuinely some sort of social proofing women go through I also theorize when a man gets a relationship especially one he is highly attracted to he is either consciously or subconsciously outwardly portraying more confidence which in turn is attractive to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:56 PM
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Yes this is not some revelatory concept. Very attractive people get very attractive people privileges. Men also ignore glaring red flags from women. Most people learn to be more discerning - some people never learn this and have dumpster fire love lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:45 PM
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Sometimes but the RP belief I can agree on is that attraction level can make you overlook it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:28 PM
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this in fact was not remotely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:43 PM
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I think the majority did back in my day because it was more organic. I’m not sure how that works on tinder so maybe less and less of the former happening but I’ve been out of the dating scene a long time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:50 PM
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I think not all women think like me I guess. I’m very much an I know instantly if I’m attracted and you can talk you’re way out of it from there lol. I don’t think I’ve ever had an instance of talking me into being attracted although I have heard some women operate that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:37 PM
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That I did that I did - dickmatized on jump 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:16 PM
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I had my only hookup with my husband so I don’t know it that’s counts lol. I had a bad breakup and my friends took me out wasn’t really looking to hookup but somehow ended up with him and his group of friends and he was hot and fun. I totally would have jumped his bones that night but alas he had to work so we did the deed our official 1st date and then liked each other so much we continued doing the deed forever. I obviously look back at it fondly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:12 PM
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It pretty meh. In the vast majority of cases rarely is popping your cherry going to be the best sex you’ve ever had and a lot of people find the whole thing underwhelming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:02 PM
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Yeah there’s some discrepancy in the US too. In big cities there’s less fat people - bumfuck middle America or the South fatties everywhere. Also racial discrepancies in fat distribution. But yeah as a whole the US needs to get its shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:20 PM
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If you’re religious or having to barter it off for 14 goats so your family doesn’t starve probably a lot. For the rest of us not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:16 PM
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Then don’t get married 🤷🏻‍♀️ I work for a living bringing in a substantial portion of the household income, just a wfh job which is why I don’t mind taking on most of the child rearing, cooking, and cleaning during the day. We are not religious lmao. Just because I do more work inside the home doesn’t mean we are trad con. If marriage is not for you then don’t do it. My husband clearly thought it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:39 PM
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You’d have to ask him as he clearly thought the risk was worth the reward and also wanted a marriage to bring children into. I take care of his children while he works outside the home, a shoulder to bear his concerns and fears, income to the home to make our life more pleasurable, intimacy, etc. there’s many things just as there are many things he brings. I don’t think either is looked at as a “prize” we are not a teddy being won at the fair. Just two people with deep love that decided we wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:22 PM
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What does that have to do with my comment I’m literally advocating for women to not have children out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:22 AM
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It’s 40% and you’re still statistically better off to have the dad stick around or at least coparent and pay child support on the chance you do divorce if you were married at the time the child was conceived so it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:16 AM
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Unmarried mothers are more likely to become baby mamas. I’m saying either of those situations are statistically going to leave you in a worse state than being married as statistically you are more likely to stay together married than if you had a child unmarried. Yes alimony has become less and less common as women entered the workforce. You can also mitigate it by going through a reputable law firm and contracting an iron clad prenup, not having one person forego all their career making years t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:39 PM
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Statistically you are far more likely as a couple who has children unmarried to dissolve. Also child support is widely known to be unpaid and alimony is given in about 10% of divorces so most women aren’t banking on that. It is in no way better to be an unmarried mother and really is to your detriment as a women to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:38 PM
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Females bad/Men good duh us uninteresting women could never be so deep for such riveting conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:08 PM
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I think mine was a similar timeline. No need to continue if you’re child free and want to live apart or some other major incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:02 PM
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Yeah first date is wild lol but I agree it should be talked about if you want marriage and kids in the future within the first few months for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:58 PM
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Yep same for me. My husband would not have gotten children with me without the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:54 PM
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I too have been the recipient of such an affliction!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:35 PM
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✨DICkMATIZED ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:32 PM
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What the fuck. You can still delete this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:54 PM
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That’s exactly what it is lol. How dare you not be pleasing to the eye and make me have horny thoughts about you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:53 PM
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Lol I can’t argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:25 PM
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He’s a diagnosed psychopath that got his wife from a homeless shelter to ensure he was the best she could get lol he has a very rigid way of thinking that’s very different from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:59 AM
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I don’t recall the law that made asking a women her body count illegal. If self reported data is no longer allowed then we can throw out all the “male loneliness epidemic” and “sexless men” as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:43 AM
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I think that’s pretty average tbh. Most men wouldn’t find that too high especially if it was all in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:15 AM
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Most women don’t have anywhere near that. So it seems most women don’t even need slutshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:36 PM
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Yes I agree. Also how it’s conveyed and the intent probably matters. “I want a submissive housewife because I think women are less intelligent and I won’t do no women’s work because it’s beneath me” is probably not going to have many takers. “I would prefer a more traditional dynamic as I like to be in more of the provider role and the women in more the nurturing role and would like to have my children raised by their mother in the home” will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:06 PM
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Advocating and expressing desire for something doesn’t equate to demanding it and not willing to compromise on certain aspects of it. I think it’s totally fine and healthy to bring up this dynamics when first dating so you can agree or not and part ways early. This isn’t something you spring on a person 3 years down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:29 PM
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The CDC is now “liberal anecdotes” lmao. “30% of teens said they had sex once, down from 38% in 2019 and over 50% in decades prior” So like I said by every metric gen z is having less sex. You just don’t like that it doesn’t fit into your world view. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/72/su/su7201a1.htm?s_cid=su7201a1_w https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2023/oct/25/gen-z-less-sex-tv-movie-trend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:17 PM
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I never commented once if men preferred promiscuous women or not. Some do not care and plenty care a whole lot. I was not promiscuous and my husband never even asked my body count. It didn’t come up until we were married years and it was lower than he thought and his was higher than I thought lol. I think genuinely my gen was just way more lax about sex, people knew and expected young people did young people things, dated around, found one person they wanted to keep doing that with and got marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:44 PM
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Well I don’t have a crystal ball but I find it hard to believe something most humans have done - pair up with one person and one person only - throughout human history will fall away. Most women don’t have casual sex or at the most try it once and decide it’s not for them and do look for committed LTR’s. The anxiety you have about this I find irrational and unfounded. There are a plethora of women who only want to be in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:26 PM
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Yes I know what AF/BB is, I’m not new around these parts. And yes I don’t know any person that got married to someone they didn’t find attractive. It happens I’m aware but I don’t think it happens to the degree in which some fear monger about - at least not in my social circle which is UMC college educated people. Most of the party people typically married each other. Proximity and social spheres are the biggest indicators of pairings and that happens A LOT in college. And I’m a millennial peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:21 PM
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Lmao for real that was so aggressively out of pocket for your mild reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:37 PM
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There’s enough monogamous minded people through the world even the western one it will truly never go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:25 PM
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That’s awesome! I wish you many happy years together ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:11 PM
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Lol yeah idk why it’s shocking single people do single things and then they don’t do that while not single. Also every one of the high n party girls I knew back in college are all married with kids and in the same parent pick up line as me contrary to “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife”. They are in fact all housewifed up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:08 PM
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Well since I’m the one who is home I will obviously do most of the child rearing. When they were infants he would change diapers if I was cooking or whatnot. He also would bring my infants to me to breastfeed at night and then get them back to sleep. This was extremely helpful to me as a nursing mother and he said was one of the best times in his life just having those special quiet moments with his children. He does spend a lot of time with them when he is home and goes to all their extra curri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:00 PM
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I’m mean I’m not a promiscuous women but I’ve seen plenty of women that have had casual sex while single to be totally monogamous while paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:53 PM
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No? How would you get that from my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:18 PM
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Yeah I read an article about it awhile back and was shocked - how French of them! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:18 PM
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Yeah I agree - it’s gotten a lot of negative connotations from both sides. I do like rational feminism that agrees it’s a choice and respects women who decide to voluntarily enter into a more traditional relationship. Not the screeching they are all brainwashed pick-mes. It’s incredibly condescending. I will say if I have to see one more sepia colored Tiktok with a women in a prairie dress baking bread telling me I have to be submissive I want to blow my brains out lol. I’m not scrubbing a toile…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:16 PM
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Yes to all of this. My husband basically has a “trad wife” I hate to use that term but I do all the cooking, most of the cleaning and is home with his children. With the added benefit of also bringing in a considerable income as I work a cushy wfh job that affords me more time to do it. He wouldn’t get any of that if he demanded I be his sweet little submissive wife that stays home. He inspires it because he’s a good man and deserves to have a loving home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:07 PM
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Lmao exactly the Nordic countries would like a word as well. Also Asian countries plenty of that going on they just keep it more hidden. I read cheating is rampant in Japan and no one really cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:59 PM
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Where does sexual freedom exist outside of western culture? Surely you know most of the Muslim world this does not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:56 PM
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I don’t doubt that it happens I just don’t think it’s to nearly the catastrophic levels I’ve heard here. Even within the 20% you listed I’d be interested in the details. Reported to HR indicates work - that’s a really gray area, there could have been power imbalance issues, etc. and usually you need to have a really good level of social nuances to pull it off. Reported to the police I’d imagine would also have to be more to it then just being hit on. If you walked into a police station and said …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:47 PM
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Lmao so you only want to accept the comments that confirm your world view despite all the evidence you’re wrong. Totally clear of a bad faith post how surprising 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:23 AM
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Anecdotal is just what it means anecdotal. I could say the earth is flat because anecdotally I don’t see any curvature when I walk outside. Just because you want something to be true because it feels better to confirm your world view doesn’t make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:50 AM
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Yup! I’ve said this so much if you want to read all the scare tactics online that you will be jailed for even looking at a women, the extroverted, socialized men, who don’t care and are willing to make the moves will be getting the women you’re too scared to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:32 AM
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Right so again you believe your “feels” instead of the evidence placed in front of you. So why even make a debate in the first place. You clearly don’t care about facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:28 AM
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Seriously I’ve been out of the dating game a long time but I still see ALL my zoomer nieces, nephews, cousins out doing the same mating dance at clubs, bars, beaches, house parties and kickbacks that I did back in the day. If anything you as a man have a leg up approaching because there are so many other pussified men who won’t. Cleared the playing field on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:19 AM
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So then no statistics matter, body count, male loneliness epidemic, rape, etc. We have raw data - you can take the raw data or we can go by your “feels”. You just want to solidify your already formed biases. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:11 AM
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The “sources” don’t even trust him 🙄 https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:02 AM
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You are absolutely wrong so throw that out. From 18-29 women cheat slightly more by a whopping 1% difference and then after that men run full steam ahead in the cheating department. So no “overall males are more loyal” is total BS. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:01 AM
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Yes agreed I couldn’t imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:07 PM
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Alright well the way you worded it was that you would be fine if your wife was bad at sex. If you just don’t want to wife up promiscuous women I don’t care lol that’s totally within your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:07 PM
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It’s so depressing! I don’t even know how it came up in my feed but I read a few stories of people going years in marriage sexless and I was like hell no couldn’t be me. We get a little cranky if it’s been a few days lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:05 PM
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Right but it doesn’t have to be an either or? You can just find a non promiscuous women who is sexually compatible with you or just not marry at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:02 PM
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It sooo does - I peruse the dead bedroom subreddit sometimes and it’s sounds horrific. I can’t imagine accepting years of mediocre or a non existent sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:56 PM
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What does that have to do with my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:54 PM
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You’re fine with mediocre sex for marriage? I understand not wanting a promiscuous women but not caring if she is bad in bed sounds like a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:46 PM
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Or the women also just wanted sex lol. If you are looking for LTR yes I agree men can lie and you should be vetting but you can have these convos with a potential man that doesn’t take 90 days and with SM it’s pretty easy to discern fuckboys. When I was single there’s no way in hell I was waiting 90 days to find out we are not sexually compatible but I’m fine if other women feel that’s more there speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:36 PM
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Waiting doesn’t bother me at all if that’s what feels comfortable I would encourage anyone to absolutely only have sex at the time they feel comfortable with. That’s going to vary from person to person. From some it’s longer, others shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:19 PM
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Lmao I don’t think that’s what he meant but this made me laugh out loud 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:12 PM
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It could be one I just think there are other components that weigh higher than a specific number of days to have sex, why not 30, or 45, etc. Compatibility, how they treat you, your common goals, morals, etc. I think are more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:10 PM
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41 / Female / Married - 2 kids one daughter / one son. I would rather teach my children values of respecting themselves and their boundaries, to look for partners who add value and hopefully they see good models in the marriage my husband and I have shown them, than following some arbitrary number of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:05 PM
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Mine was the second with my husband lol and 18 years later we are still doing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:01 PM
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God damn can I just say that whole exchange was beautiful lol 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:56 PM
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This was my same experience in my 20s lol. Like it was pretty standard for every other 20 something in my area. Most people had a hook up or two, dated around, grew up, and got a long term relationship and married. I also never knew anyone who would suck off a random dude in a bathroom, I’m sure it’s happened but I can’t imagine this is happening en masse. Maybe if you’re Leo or some NBA player this is a regular occurrence from women trying to steal your sperm 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:52 AM
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I’m sure it does it’s just not something I’ve noticed with my male friends - it might help that when approaching it’s more a “warm” approach. I also don’t think it happens as nearly as outlandish as some dudes here are talking about where they will be imprisoned for even looking at a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:18 PM
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For the most part, the worst that ever happened was they just didn’t hit it off. I’ve never seen a women act disgusted or try to send my male friends to jail or whatever insane catastrophizing I see some dudes here talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:33 PM
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Pretty much all my male friends are all married now but yes when we were young I absolutely did and would wingwomen when we were out plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:24 PM
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Yes for sure all the fun/good times outweighed any negative interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:40 PM
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Free stuff, ego boost, also flirting is just fun? Worst - aggressive persistent behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:17 PM
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It’s not hard at all. If it’s DM’s it’s quite easy, ignore, block, or report. IRL I just say I’m taken and 99% of the time they’ll leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:16 PM
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Yes countless times when I was single lol. Now I just tease my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:09 PM
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My mom looked like she stepped off a Whitesnake video in the 80s with a crop top and mini skirt. 70s women were in skintight sparkly jumpsuits, 20s flappers were quite scandalous for the time and very popular - like the first city girls lol, even in the 40s/50s they had pinups. Maybe if you want to go the 1800s puritanical pilgrim look - over the last 80 + years scantily clad women were a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:44 PM
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Same! My husband sometimes surprises me with toys - he was a college athlete lol. It’s as you said hot. Spice it up a little damn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:30 AM
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Agreed. When you’ve been married as long as I have trying out new things within in reason is optimal for a long and healthy sex life. Stagnation is just going to lead to dead bedroom town.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:32 PM
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Same I know what I find attractive - let’s get this show on the road 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:29 PM
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The great news is you don’t! You find someone you’re sexually compatible with and if using toys is a dealbreaker it is what it is. Many men have no problem introducing toys in sexy time and they can pair with the women who also enjoy them. I don’t see how it’s anything to do with attacking masculinity and I also don’t see how this is anyway related to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:25 PM
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Based on their post history I highly doubt they are even a “woman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:37 AM
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They’ll never understand this because most of them are completely touched starved and will never be in this scenario. Not that this was your situation but I’ve literally seen men want a relationship and the girl was like nah just the fuck thanks and be heartbroken. It’s pretty misandrist of some of the dudes here to act like men have no feeling and can’t develop them and are just walking dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:41 PM
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I’ve never said it never happens just that your assertion in your scenario is automatically “not in his league” which I don’t agree with, he could genuinely like her body type, she makes up for in other attributes, etc. it’s nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah it’s why I take “leagues” with a grain of salt - no one knows what’s actually going on in the relationship to where both people feel neither have settled. Maybe there’s other attributes that are being made up for the outward “flaws”. Obviously if you’re getting pumped and dumped all the time or getting taking advantage of all the time you’re prob shooting out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:28 PM
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It wouldn’t be out of her league if the man found her attractive enough to commit which is my point this whole time. Sure if it’s just a pump & dump or a ONS I don’t disagree but you said relationship - if she can get commitment that is her league. A 6’3” fit dude isn’t wifing up a 5’2” fat chick unless he’s attracted to that or he’d just pump and dump not seriously date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:14 PM
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Sure I never said the majority of people find this attractive. If a 6’3” guy wants to be in a relationship with a 5’2” fat girl why is it anybody’s business if it’s good or not? That’s for the individual to decide - you don’t have to do it obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:03 PM
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I find nothing irrational about people consenting and willingly entering into relationships. If you don’t find certain traits attractive you are under no obligation to accept them. It’s pretty simple actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:48 PM
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What does this have to do with looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:22 PM
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Same - the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:21 PM
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If she can obtain commitment from him then technically she is. Maybe he just likes 5’2” fat chicks 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:20 PM
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I was going to say the same thing as her lol but I welcome more normies here tbh you’ll realize some people are too far gone but I’ve had some interesting convos at the very least. Welcome to the car crash!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:00 AM
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It’s typically how you said more mixed groups ending up together than random women converging. It’s how I met my husband actually at a bar though not a club. As another commenter stated though the ladies room is lit, had many a colorful and fun exchanges in the girls bathroom at a nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:39 PM
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Ah club bathroom besties - you’ll have whole therapy sessions going on in there lol glad to see it hasn’t changed - good times 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:36 PM
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He’s a little troll “mr. 7 day old account” probably someone’s alt which is why he is getting my dumb ass responses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:03 PM
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It’s true my UMC neighborhood of 30+ married mothers are a figment of my imagination! The parent pick up is just 18 year old moms married to middle aged men. The feminist police try and round them up on the way out but we’ve luckily been able to thwart them ala Underground Railroad style.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:58 PM
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I know right?! I’m drinking coffee overlooking my lovely garden on a beautiful sunny day, while my children are playing with Christmas gifts and my husband is reading - it’s like the apocalypse over here!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:46 PM
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In middle school? I’m sorry I can’t believe I misremembered the great feminist cabal take over in 2013! Age gap couples being rounded up, feminist indoctrination camps to brainwash young women to not liking middle aged men. A truly dark time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:38 PM
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You’ve had multiple adult women not understand how adulting works? Seems strange. I assure you feminism was alive and well in 2006 when we started dating 😂. I’ve got nothing against age gaps per say but to ignore the literal statistics that they are inherently riskier would be foolish to do as a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:30 PM
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For the love of god do not take advice from FnF they are known grifters who don’t even follow their own advice and are basically just glorified sugar daddies. As for SAHM’s there are definitely women like you’re mother who are overworked, under appreciated and feel trapped but there are others who truly find it rewarding. It’s a gamble; you are literally forgoing your prime money making years and putting that into the hands of someone else and hoping it works out. I personally couldn’t do that. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:26 PM
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Lol what’s she going to find out you’ve peaked my curiosity? How long have you been married? My husband is 2 years older than me it seems to be working out a great almost 2 decades later. If we are just going by statistics here the larger the age gap the higher the risk for divorce so I’m not sure why “feminism” is being blamed. It’s just common sense for women to not want to enter into a risky endeavor that has proven to not work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:14 PM
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A grandfather at 32 is nuts to me lol but I agree once you have kids at any age you can’t imagine changing a part of your life that led to them being here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:36 AM
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Oh wow lol that’s wild! Thanks for answering! Yeah I got with my husband at 23 and didn’t have kids till later, but both my mom and grandma had kids at 16(gma) and 18 (mom) and scared the shit out of me having kids young 😂. It seems like you’ve bounced back though and have a great “second” life with your wife ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:20 AM
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What age were you when you had your kid/s if you don’t mind me asking? It seems like you found a wife in later years and are doing well so that’s great but I’ve known a few teen moms and I’ve seen it’s rare that they are able to dig themselves out of that hole and usually end up worse than if they wait to have kids when they are more established but this could definitely be easier as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:47 AM
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It can happen but you’re playing a risky game. Some men age great and have obtained enough resources to attract a younger girl for a family, however most do not. Waiting until you are almost 40 to find a woman to have a family is going to be harder for a lot of men. The pool of potential women are going to be smaller and possibly lower quality unless you have become high status enough or are willing to accept less desirable qualities like single mothers, divorcées, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:25 AM
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I agree vetting for more than looks is important - I say women should also do the same if they want healthy long lasting relationships. But, by and large, the desirable women carry very similar mindsets and pretending as if they don't seems to be like deliberate misdirection at this point These are your words and what I am disagreeing with. The vast majority of desirable women do not share the same mindsets as women on FnF because they know it would make them less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:12 PM
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How am I arguing in bad faith? I agreed these women exist I’m disagreeing with your assertion most attractive women think like this because these women on rage bait podcasts are attractive. The majority of women understand men will not take them seriously for relationships if they behave in this manner and most women want relationships so it makes no sense to emulate them. Which is why the vast majority don’t. “Fuck right off” No I will not we are on a debate sub if you don’t want to engage don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:00 PM
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The fact you even needed to say this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:53 PM
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Desirable is subjective - I’d wager many men would not find the type of women who go on these podcasts desirable, especially for a relationship, which is what most women want. Why would most women emulate these types if we know that will not lead us to relationships. They don’t - unless they want to grift for their OF and SM. They are just a subset of attractive women, typically loud, very exaggerated caricature of femininity. I disagree most women have the same mindset as these women. There are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:42 PM
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As a Miamian born and bred they absolutely are “handpicked”. You don’t see the 100’s of people who straight up won’t talk to the man on the street interviewer, or the reasonable answered ones. And that’s not even taking into account the ones who just straight up are fake and basically skits. All of the women coming on FnF and the like are there to grift - for their OF, SM following, etc. these girls are flown into Miami or make there way here because they want the sugar baby lifestyle. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:12 PM
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Your comments give me the Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:01 PM
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Even accounting for wealth disparities the vast majority of American women are not doing Only Fans c’mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:48 PM
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I was honestly just commenting on the top comment I commented to but yes for the OP you are prob right - the women who are lamenting “where have all the good men gone” IMO are usually the jaded bitter ones and not naive ingénues. I agree they are a loud vocal minority and have probably created the environment in which the very thing they are lamenting is self imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:21 AM
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Yes exactly. I feel for someone that may have been naive but someone constantly getting in the same situations and expecting better results is as the saying goes insanity. It’s not gendered either - you wifing the chick known around town to get with everyone cheating, expect to get burned. You getting with the dude who has multiple baby moms, it’s not shocked pikachu face he’s not sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:45 AM
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Lmao this is only what you type of “men” have now 😂. FANTASIES You think the men who have relationships with women; the husbands, fathers, the sex-havers are going to band together with the pitiful small amount of men who can’t figure it out want to subjugate women again? I’ll take my chances. Also stay strapped, biological advances are steadily neutralized at the end of an AR. Ladies/gentlemen get your daughters their very own home defense system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:30 AM
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The 1% diff is sharing him with other women which is a dealbreaker. I’m not trying to convince men to have obese women, single moms, or promiscuous women. Just as men have their innate icks this is mine. Non-monogamy is my ick. I want a masculine man who values family and rides for his - he’s not getting my loyalty and femininity without it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:11 AM
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A man who I need to share would not have everything I want. I want a partner, someone who’s in it with just me, father to our children, not slutting it up. That’s not the kind of family I want or for my children to emulate and normalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:26 AM
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This is exactly what I did! 20 years later it seems to be working out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:35 PM
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Exactly! 41 here and the youths here have no idea. The zoomers by all accounts and stats are more prudes they just conflate social media rage bait as truth. We were fucking and living lol all hail the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:46 PM
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I’ve been married almost 20 years with 2 beautiful children - tell me about your family you’ve built 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:18 PM
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Lmao what? I’m married I don’t concern myself if men are approaching or not. I would like to know where I said any of that. What I did say is like red pill 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:16 PM
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Well I’m telling you are wrong - respectfully lol. There are some women who like that but I know it’s not the majority. No matter what some Tiktok zoomers are spouting off - assertive, confident, strong, men are always going to be attractive to a lot of women. Zoom out - when you see a man who is successful with women, what kind of man is he usually. There’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:53 PM
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I don’t see where you’re getting that idea except from rage bait internet videos. Some women don’t but a lot of women absolutely prefer an assertive, strong man. I’d wager maybe most - do you think weak, meek, shy men are getting the most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:42 PM
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Who cares if they think it’s aggressive? Are these the type of women you want? My point is vetting for women who DO want this type of man will find this attractive. Who cares if some others are turned off they are not your target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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Why can’t you do that now? Find a women who likes the sports you play, likes your beard the way you do, etc? My husband plays sports, I’m not an overly sporty girl but I like how much he likes them and makes him happy. I don’t understand why you feel you have to downplay your masculinity when you should just be vetting for women who like your specific displays of masculinity. Plenty of women like bearded, sports playing, assertive gym bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:32 PM
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Do you have kids in school? I have 2 school age children and not once have either of them been shown or taught sex in “graphic details”. None of my wide social group of other parents have either. He is right it’s moral panic, no different than the satanic panic of the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:52 PM
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I was friends with most of my male friends before they / I got married. I did many of these same things while we were both single or I was paired up and they were single or Vice a versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:43 PM
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I’ve helped my guy friends move, picked them up at the airport, watched their children, pet sit for them when they are on vacay, I threw my best guy friend a surprise party, or we get together and watch ufc and I’ll supply drinks and they bring snacks - how in the world is any of that “using” them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:17 PM
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No I can only speak for myself and my social group but I don’t feel “threatened” by men in social settings. I think it’s smart though to mitigate risks, stay with your group, never leave a girl behind, don’t leave your drink unattended, etc. But those are just rational safety precautions. I don’t think every man I encounter is a rapist waiting to pounce and it doesn’t hinder having fun and being social.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:35 PM
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I like ya and I want ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:58 PM
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I would 100% rather be forced to work - I actually like my job it gives me a sense of pride and accomplishment and the best aspect MONEY to buy things I need and want. I then got to choose my husband not based on desperation but actual love which seems like an overall better deal than forced to marry for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:54 PM
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Generally MLM’s and Timeshares are not looked at favorably and people who pedal them and the people who get swindled by them receive no sympathy because they are very well known to be shit. Divorce laws are not there just to protect the women. They are there to litigate the assets acquired during the marriage and basically administration to divy up said assets in the dissolution of it. Alimony makes up less than 10% of divorces, and permanent alimony is even rarer. If you want to protect men - m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:21 PM
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I’ve been out of the dating game a long time but based on this sub if I god forbid were single again I’d think I’d just fuck off to an island with some books lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:06 PM
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Whether someone believes it will happen to them though is not the point. Most people have heard of the risks so again it’s about personal accountability - you knowingly and willingly enter into marriage. I’ve been married close to 20 years my husband obviously knows divorce is an option. He made the choice to take the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:57 PM
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Yes I think divorce rates, the fallout of divorce, child support, how the judicial system works are common knowledge and have been discussed and debated in mainstream media for years if not decades. You think men getting fucked in divorce, the whole divorced dad trope, men discussing child support are some fringe ideas no one discusses?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:44 PM
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Just as anything you are responsible to vet and do research before entering into a business deal, a career, a relationship, etc. Divorce rates are common knowledge, how the court systems work are common knowledge, men or women willingly enter into relationships and will have to weigh if the potential fall out is worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:40 PM
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If you believe that the risk of getting a divorce, losing custody of your kids, getting charged with rape or domestic violence is too high don’t enter into a relationship - it’s pretty simple actually. Once again you’re not forced to enter into one. The men who do have weighed the risk and decided it’s worth it to take the gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:37 PM
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The why is irrelevant because it’s something you voluntarily opt into. You decide if the risk is worth the reward. Like what’s there to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:13 PM
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Are women forcing you at gunpoint to be in relationships with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:03 PM
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This is a very good point. I have to be somewhat adversarial and aggressive in my career, the last thing I want to do is be that at home. I think it would be exhausting to have to be in combat mode 24/7. Some of the most sweetest soft mannered women I know are attorneys, on another note I know plenty loud and aggressive SAHM’s. I think it’s generally going to depend on the women’s disposition. I do agree though the really loud, “I am bad bitch”, lifted truck, I just can’t get along with girls ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:51 PM
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I'd certainly have to consider a post-term abortion for her if she decided to get an abortion This is just murder. Congrats, you’re now in prison for life and your child is in foster care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:29 PM
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This. He’s going to have way better chances around peers who encounter neurodivergent people a lot and can relate. Stacy’s that club on the weekend or just neurotypical people in general are unfortunately going to find some autistic people too off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:21 PM
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Sure I don’t disagree with you. My response was very simplified but my point was more to OP’s assertion that men view relationships as a consolation prize which I don’t agree with. It only feels like a consolation if you are not getting reciprocal effort and men who are very lonely and touch starved are more willing to put up with that. I can understand the motivations on why someone would put up with that though and yes I’ve definitely seen women put up with this behavior as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:12 PM
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Sounds perfectly reasonable and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:48 PM
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I think some men would rather take a shitty relationship than nothing. I don’t agree with it but I’ve seen men say it. Most men are not going to able to get NSA casual sex at any kind of consistent basis - there is just not enough women in the pool that want that compared to the men who do. On average men who are in a relationship are getting more sex than men who are single. Men will have to decide for themselves if that feels like a “consolation” prize. I can see how it feels that way if you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:10 PM
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I’ve been around! I’ve been taking breaks from here for my sanity 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:53 PM
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That makes sense - it’s hard to convey the vibe just in text. But like I said if your girlfriend appreciates it you’re doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:52 PM
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Lol it’s fine if your girlfriend likes them. It’s just funny because on paper it comes across very robotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:44 PM
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