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ADVICEacarter8/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 02:43 AM
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Fantastic perspective and advice
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/25 06:36 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 01:31 AM
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Your winter style sounds awesome - I've been looking for something like this. I'm actually in a similar situation, back to pre-baby size and a sahm now. Can you recommend some places you get your sundresses? If you're comfortable, would you mind showing some examples of your style?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 07:15 PM
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So, so good.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 04:49 AM
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Such an astute observation. Wish my younger self could've gotten this advice 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 01:51 PM
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Such a great post. Thanks for this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 08:19 PM
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I know this isn't true for everyone, but the years I was on the pill (almost my entire 20s), literally made me neurotic. I felt like I could hardly control my moods or emotions. I was anxiety-ridden and unhappy. I had been to the doc and talked to a therapist. Tried medication, but nothing seemed to make a difference. Then, I stopped taking the pill when my husband and I decided to try for a baby. The difference was absolutely night and day. My husband noticed very quickly, and it was like this …
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 03:53 PM
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Thank you so much for this post. It resonates with me, and I feel like I can really relate. I am just starting the journey of understanding the emotional childhood trauma I've carried with me. It wouldn't be possible without my husband and his compassion and patience as I work through my shit. Huge kudos to you for owning it and making the conscious effort to change for the better. Wishing you all the best!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 10:34 PM
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Yay! So glad to hear! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 07:20 PM
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Best of luck to you. I really hope it goes well for you. Give us an update tomorrow if you can. :) I have terrible anxiety at the dentist and need to be sedated, so I have an idea how you're feeling.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 02:28 AM
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Thank you so much for such a thoughtful response. It's nice to read someone who has a similar perspective (though I'm sorry you had to go through what you did). I only have a couple people on my side of my dad's family that I am close with and fond support with. They have been divorced for years so I don't expect any of them to tell my mother (I don't they have even have her contact info even) except my dad. I suppose it's not really an expectation that he not tell her, but more so a broken trus…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 06:37 PM
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That's really great to hear, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 02:08 AM
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Yes, this is one of the things I'm worried about, too. We are also considering moving across country, which she also doesn't know about. Part of me sees this is a possibility to cut ties completely for myself and our child's well-being.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 04:08 PM
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Thank you! My husband has been so wonderful throughout our marriage and supporting me sort through my issues with her. I think I'll run some of this by him and see what he thinks.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 04:06 PM
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It's definitely been better since I've been moved out away from her and keep the contact to a minimum. A few years ago she decided to move down the street from me and would attempt to ingrain herself again in my life. She ended up having to move away several states and things improved again..Over the years though she has told me how hurtful and disrespectful it was that I wasn't close to her or involving her in my life. She pulls the guilt card, sending long emails, calling me her "hardened daug…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 04:02 PM
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I do, yes. As a child/teen my reaction was always to try to overachieve and excel to "win her love". And yes, that's exactly what I'm picturing happening: if she finds out without me telling her, I will have to spend time and energy trying to calm her anger.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 03:58 PM
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Thanks you for taking the time to answer. I really like the ideas you've written here and they make a lot of sense. And I'll be checking out that sub, thank you! I considered posting this question there before I posted it here. I've only ever lurked there once or twice though..
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 03:55 PM
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Thank you, this is very good advice. I definitely think boundaries are an issue between the two of us so that really hit home.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 03:31 AM
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Whatever you decide to get/make him, you can always spruce it up with a scavenger/treasure hunt. My husband loves that. I make up some clues and hide them around the house for him to find.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 08:47 PM
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