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1	Some tinder match crawled out of the woodworks 3 years later	MALE DEPRAVITY	accounthrowaway123	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 01:53 PM

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1	Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen." That's true for both genders. There is always people who age well across both genders. It's just laughable when you think one gender ages vastly better than the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/20 05:17 AM
0	Being the best you can be is the best thing you can do for yourself Maybe those of us not pairing off are those not meant to be with anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/20 02:20 PM
4	Being the best you can be is the best thing you can do for yourself I would say better to stop looking it's not in your control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/20 02:16 PM
4	80/20 rule is more like 50-60/20 rule according to data Isn't thay applicable in every study. People can lie??	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/20 01:35 PM
12	Being the best you can be is the best thing you can do for yourself Yes you can focus on yourself doesn't mean you are going to get your match. It just means you are equipped and capable of living by yourself even if you don't get anyone. That's not a bad deal. Instead of settling for someone incompatible or beneath your expectations when you put100% into building yourself you are better off by yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/20 01:30 PM
2	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Because that's the narrative that they want to convince themselves is true	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 05:36 AM
3	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Listen if you want to be bitter and alone. Do it by yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 05:34 AM
1	What are the men that you know who are highly sexually successful like, personality wise? I've only interacted closely with two guys who are 'good looking' and quite popular. And I am friends with one guy who is ugly but is in a band. He gets a lot of female attention as well. I don't think there is anything common with all three of them. The conventionally attractive guys are more confident. More goofy, more easy going. They were also packing so I dunno if that plays a part ( the good-looking ones, the other is a friend so dunno)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 03:58 AM
5	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Maybe that's why your relationships don't last	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 05:40 PM
3	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Says you	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 02:42 PM
3	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? If I guy invites to his home on date1 it's a no go for me. Men prove their superiority from proving they actually care. My bf never brought sex up untill.much.later. he's always been kind and respectful to me. This is the reason why despite going on so many dates, he's the only guy I've dated/ fallen in love with	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 02:39 PM
6	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Like I said it's all about reciprocity. In fact both of our primary love languages is words of affirmation and touch. In the beginning I had difficulty being comfortable with physical affection and him with telling me how he feels. Slowly we've both changed and now am pro cuddling and he texts me lovely things. On another level when your partner does things for you, you go out of your comfort zone and do the same. I love how you jumped to things about our relationship without knowing the bare mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 09:04 AM
9	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Uh huh. Have you read about love languages? Or do you only see your partner as a mirror of your desires. You tell me what acts of romance you've used to woo your partner and I will be suitably awed	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 08:48 AM
20	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Yes saint. Please eschew consumerism and live in your hermit cave. Only women buy things	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 08:38 AM
9	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Honestly we are all moulded by the things we see. I've seen lots of women give and receive nothing. I would have been bitter if the one-sided nature in the relationship continued till we broke it off. Probably would have seen men as selfish now. But instead he showed me in his own ways that he cares. Like getting me medicines when I was sick or dropping by desserts cos I was craving some. So am appreciative of these recent developments and am (if possible) more enamored	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 07:39 AM
13	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? Lol I don't know what bollywood movies you've been watching. Anyway 1billion people do not fall under the singular stereotype, imagine the shock	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 07:20 AM
17	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? I am an Indian so is he. Also am 5'7 and he's 5'8 so wrong on both counts buddy	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 07:17 AM
12	Are women romantic? Are men more romantic? I would definitely say I am the more romantic one in my relationship. For our first V-Day I got him imported chocolates from Japan while he forgot it was valentine's. I've given him small gifts of things he needs, always with a little love poem in it. For our anniversary I took him to a nice dinner, sent him flowers etc. He's done none of these. Reciprocity is key in a relationship. I could feel my attraction to him dying because of these actions. But slowly he's started putting in marginally mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 06:47 AM
2	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? Yes ofc and every individual applies their own discretion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 06:26 AM
3	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? Lol I see your point as well. I am just comparing between the two, and I would see myself as a 7/10 and would probably pick someone between 6/10 to 8/10. So yea in a way that smv is relative to mine. Now if the choice is between 5/10 who is interesting and interested In me, he would obviously rank higher than the 9/10 with terrible texts. As far as misogyny is concerned it honestly depends on actions over words. My uncles and grandfather are men who would laugh at you if you said anything femini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 06:24 AM
2	If women think you are creepy then it is your fault There are two things at play. 1. Men get called creeps way more than women do, largely because women are more threatened by men than vice-versa. Attractive people across genders will get called creep way less than unattractive people. Now creepiness is subjective to an extent, the hot frat boy insisting that you take a drink despite you saying no twice is a creep. Maybe the younger girl will laugh and say yes not because she's attracted but also because she's scared. Also the fat girl who texted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 05:37 AM
6	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? This is a why SMV has no impact on me. At the end of the day who I end up will be based on his efforts to me. A HVM will be a man able to hold conversations and genuinely attracted to me. He would rank higher than super hot Chad who would not return my texts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 05:21 AM
1	If women think you are creepy then it is your fault Good for you if you've experienced this. Me and my group of friends have always huddled around to prevent this kind of invasion of space. In real life I've only flinched at this kind of move and would be completely put off. No matter how drunk I was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 03:31 AM
0	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? Yes I agree. But if they are supremely petty or spam you, blocking them would be ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 03:26 AM
5	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? I think the low effort makes the person low value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 03:01 AM
10	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? Standards are different for different genders..ooh like TRP always claiming how multiple sex partners for men and women are different. Got it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 02:53 AM
5	Blocking low effort people- a good thing or a petty thing? The key concept is reciprocity. I have a friend whose been putting up with her bf's low effort for the last 5years. Finally after nearly bullying him they've gotten married. She's terribly unhappy in the marriage. You can't force someone to love you. So if they don't care about you, cease communication and move on	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/20 02:52 AM
3	CMV: For women, sex is a means to an end. For men, sex is an end in itself. The corollary is that every man's end is just sex. Whether you are his wife, LTR, mistress. The point is sex and you as a person don't matter. /S Every woman should take herself out of the situation where a man only wants one thing from you and you should want one thing back commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 04:04 AM
2	Would/Do you judge men who’ve been patrons of sex workers? Yes I have no issues with that. Prostitution and high n counts can also mean greater importance xposure to std s. Nothing wrong with wanting to avoid that and th moral implications	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 03:48 AM
2	Are most of the couples you know in life looksmatched? Nope but I would say the difference is negligible. Mostly the women are prettier, but a very few where both the parties are very good looking. I just know one couple where the guy is much better looking than the girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 05:57 PM
3	Self-reflection is an important practice that many people lack, resulting in a lot of entitlement. On the contrary most people look for opposite temperaments in life. I like how you ignored the organised part. Most easy go people I've dated have also been disorganised and relied on me to keep track of things. A relationship is give and take. You don't look at exact qualities but rather parts of them that compliment your drive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 01:28 PM
1	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. There js no absolutes in reality. Men who portray submissive characteristics would still be considered HVM	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 10:06 AM
1	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. I am not saying these are beta men. I am saying that's how the manosphere would see such men. In reality these would be highly desirable to many women. Guys who are chasing sex are like little dogs to me and I don't see them as potential of anything, not for sex, not for a date, not anything A vast majority of women see this the same way	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 10:04 AM
1	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. I am calling it like how the manosphere sees it. And no such a man would be highly desirable to a vast number of women. This is the kind of men when women describe their bfs, the friends go "you are so lucky, I wish I could find someone like that"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 10:01 AM
1	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. The study you linked show that despite having a decreasing desire women still had sex with their partners just as frequently. So ultimately a woman's desire doesn't really reflect on the frequency of sex within a relationship. Yes a man who might wait and form an emotional connect with their partner will be more desirable than a man who doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 09:59 AM
3	Correction on that "Online Hypergamy" Study posted 5 days ago Yup. Do men and women who exchange msgs end up dating. Do the couples who date down actually last?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 09:55 AM
2	Self-reflection is an important practice that many people lack, resulting in a lot of entitlement. While there is the issue that the qualities I have may not be the qualities I look for in another person. What you have and where you stand, in reality is a good metric it is rather the society that tells us what we really are. Who I am is not what I get. A balding millionaire with a gut with get 18yr old ass model easy. The 16year old blonde bully who made fun of the nerds can still be running a profitable business while also married to thr hot rich guy. Shitty personality, ugly self etc doesn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/20 09:54 AM
7	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. Depends on what you define as "bringing to the table" FDS would argue fidelity, emotional support, future children, combined finances post marriage would be what a woman could bring to the table. While TRP would argue that most of this should be given and finances are not all qualities that a man wants. He wants submissiveness, femininity, some maternal energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 08:31 PM
13	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. What you define as beta or simp might as well be FDS HVM. A man who will abstain from sex till the women is ready, be exclusive, want a relationship, pay for dates, impress the woman, have good sex, be communicative, marry the woman within 2-3 years. Isn't all this the definition of beta simp as per TRP??	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 07:57 PM
1	CMV: Women like a lot of things inherently that men only like because it gets them women. I've never thought of it that way. Perhaps it could be that the so called 'cooler' avenues of profession like perhaps surgeons or lawyers have only been recently available to women. And gaining visibility in fields could make them pioneers ( well not exactly but something close) motivates them to pursue the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 07:48 PM
4	The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties. I feel like both FDS and TRP are approaching relationships at a purely gendered perspective and need. TRP seeks at making men more desirable. Aka find more women to fuck. It's not really looking at women as wives or LTRs. So what happens to these women, they can't be in the market indefinitely. What about biological clock or the wall? So basically they get pumped and dumped. The alternative is to shed all identity and be completely submissive to a man who may wife you. But you could be cheated o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 07:43 PM
1	CMV: Women like a lot of things inherently that men only like because it gets them women. I think people are more likely to pursue their desires as a combination of what others will perceive plus what they want. I don't think it's a gendered issue. I've seen plenty of men pursue passions full time without any desire to what attention it will bring from the opposite sex. Look at famous artists or writers, lot of them lived and died poor and broke I think the average man and woman it's a combination of both. Though I think the phenomenon of women pursuing big dreams and high paying car…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 07:04 PM
49	What have we learned about women now that they have economic, social and sexual freedom? In all due fairness so did a lot of men. Which is probably why disciplining was so harsh and the concept of 'children should be seen not heard' came up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 06:46 PM
1	How do we find good men that can join us in our interactions with women? Again this post is by an alien who has consumed all media and is unaware of how people from this period talk/write. I am on to you alien!boy	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 06:51 PM
1	If tinder and online dating are so great for women, why aren’t more using them? Yup. I mean women hardly get anything out of casual sex. Higher risk of std, pregnancy and never an orgasm. So what's even the point, if you are subjecting yourself to such a grave risk might as well for some male Adonis( who might knock you up, give you and std and ofc no orgasm)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 06:39 PM
6	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. Yes I feel the same way as. I feel like slowly moving towards a future where I don't want to be with anyone or rely on anyone to be with me, would be ideal	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:22 PM
12	How would you handle different cheating scenarios? In all the scenarios leave. However in the last 3 run like the devil is on my heels	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:15 PM
3	Getting a gf isn’t that hard Men who are married, or in relationships etc aren't getting action. Wasn't it proven that people in relationships get more sex than single people doing ONS	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:14 PM
2	Getting a gf isn’t that hard I don't see 80% of men being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:09 PM
8	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. I think a lot of men and women experience that. Though I feel there is an invisible pressure on men to kind of pursue this casual sex narrative	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:09 PM
5	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. Aw thank you for reading. Honestly writing so much I doubt anyone would bother	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 01:50 PM
6	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. Am glad to hear it. I may hit you up for advise 3years down the line of I take up a similar path. I plan of developing some engaging hobbies, being financially independent and perhaps adopt a child in my mid 30s. Honestly I wish there was no stigma associated with people who chose to stay single for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 11:01 AM
2	Getting a gf isn’t that hard I highly doubt that you couldn't find a single girl. Either your approach is wrong or you are shooting your shots and very attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:52 AM
1	Getting a gf isn’t that hard Yes but Shrek is not average. He's well below average	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:43 AM
21	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. This read like an alien in human skin wrote about what he thinks human sexuality would feel like	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:41 AM
15	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. I don't think you should be called names for not having sex or eventually developing aversion to it. I think before having sex I was also disgusted by the whole process. I think in the future if I don't find love I would be perfectly content not having or thinking about sex or companionship. I think lives of people like that are peaceful	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:38 AM
7	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. Do you think your relationship put you off sex? Were you always aversive to casual sex or did it lose appeal latter in life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:34 AM
9	Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change. I didn't have sex till 26-27 so I guess I qualify as a volcel. Till 16-17 I was an ugly duckling, at 17-18 I had my glow up 1 where I lost weight, developed some curves, dressed better. At 26-27 I had a second glow up where my some of my baby fat went away and my face started looking sharper. I think in between I was just awkward and confused. Sex kinda terrified me and that level of vulnerability scared me. At 24 u thought virginity was something I needed to get rid off so I actively pursued th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 10:29 AM
1	Communication is the most important aspect of a successful relationship. Who do you think needs to hear this advice more - men or women? My love language is words of affirmation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 08:50 AM
3	Getting a gf isn’t that hard Happy cake day btw. Either that, or above average Actually this is also a possibility. If you are then you must try and meet women of you equal intellectual calibre. Unless you have very specific niche interest and refuse to date anyone outside of it. That doesn't mean that it isn't confusing at all to anyone I agree with you. As a late bloomer I had a lot of difficulty understanding dating culture. Instead of diving head first into something I didn't understand I centred myself. Not to say ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 08:49 AM
6	Getting a gf isn’t that hard So by your own definition you are not normal or average. Normal people do not have difficulties, if you do you probably are below average. Men and women do not have identical sex drives. You cannot be that dumb. A vast majority of women don't look at (even a very hot guy) and think I am gonna ride him into the sunset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 07:28 AM
2	Communication is the most important aspect of a successful relationship. Who do you think needs to hear this advice more - men or women? My bf is like that. Since I am not a physically affectionate person it used to throw me off. And mostly when we started dating I used to wonder if it was just a prelude to him initiating something more. I was super uncomfortable with him touching me constantly. But slowly as I learned to trust him I became more comfortable with casual touches. Sometimes we meet people at the right time, I am sure if I were younger I would have rejected him. I would have assumed the worst. Don't blame yourself fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 03:05 AM
1	Communication is the most important aspect of a successful relationship. Who do you think needs to hear this advice more - men or women? Neither. I think the self determination is a good factor to weed out people unsuitable for mating and parenthood. If you can't find a mate and reproduce maybe it's for the greater good of humanity. I am a woman in her late 20s and despite having a career and average looks if I can't find a husband and have kids. Evolution has taken me out of the gene pool I am a-ok with this result. Maybe my genes aren't worth passing on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:53 AM
5	The myth of human female sexual selection Lol to start off with 'survival settling' is no longer important. Women picking their mates on traits such as charm, looks, commitment etc would be the determining factor for establishing the ideal next gen. The rape myth? What historical era are you alluding to. By the middle ages most countries had the monarchy, the established working class and people married according to wealth and ability to provide. Wealth and ability to provide are still the most determining factor in picking a mate btw. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:47 AM
9	If tinder and online dating are so great for women, why aren’t more using them? Men can definitely find sex if they are okay with commitment with their looksmatch. The reality is that men don't want relationships and will only settle for the 8-9/10 and only wants casual sex with the average woman. Even in dating apps so many men have straight up claimed that they are only looking for something casual. So for the low percentage of women looking for casual can always level up. Men can keep searching for plates to spin as RP puts it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:31 AM
10	Q4W: What have you thought of men who have stopped pursuing you in the past? I am not exactly the kind of person to run away or play games but I definitely expect recriprocity. If the guy is dragging his feet on making plans, or not texting etc I take it as a sign he's not interested. I've never regretted making the choice, I've only regretted putting in too much effort. I am with someone who made it very certain he wanted to be with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 03:48 PM
1	How did the TRP subscriber count grow so fast?? Because of a flawed perception on what entails relationship. If the perception of a relationship is only maximising personal gain then you will never truly be happy or content in a relationship. Views from TRP and FDS focusses way too much on developing self which is good to an extent. In an LTR you would have to make sacrifices for the other person without any personal gain. And if the benifits are on spinning plates and casual sex then it will have limited success. You may or may not be succes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 03:53 AM
-1	A guy is an X/10 if when he goes out to bars he can regularly bring home a 7+/10? Well you can always go gay	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 03:41 AM
2	Are you aware of/do you agree with the Halo Effect? The said cognizance of mental motivations are purely individualistic. Like for example a man is particularly attracted to big butts and wide hips. This ass over tits preferences can be attributed to the era he is from, his socioeconomic background, an evolutionary perspective, hell even his testosterone. Each of this phenomenons have been individually studies. A millennial, upper class man with a preference for a nice big ass is a cliche. Would this awareness stop his individual preferences. Bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 03:26 AM
3	Are you aware of/do you agree with the Halo Effect? I think anyone who is aware that such a phenomenon exists may be aware there actions are influenced by it. Like how someone who is aware of the theory of gratitude may implement it in their day today lives. But awareness of a phenomenon and your reaction to it is such a personal journey. This question is needlessly gendered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 02:37 AM
4	Are you aware of/do you agree with the Halo Effect? The question then is kinda pointless. It's like asking why do women like staring at the stars? When humanity likes staring at the stars. It's not a gendered trait so why would one gender have a different opinion to the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/20 02:00 AM
4	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring . I find my low-IQ male friends to be more interesting than my spectacularly high-IQ female ones, for example. So, not about intelligence. Yes on average who you find engaging is your personal preference. It is not the universal truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 09:34 AM
5	Both Sexes are Equal Na the gender that risks rape and murder is the one that's more screwed. How far up your own ass must you be that you think getting your dick wet is greater priority that someone at legitimate and permanent harm?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 09:07 AM
4	Q4 Blue Pill Pretty much. Any sign of a mental illness is a total deal breaker for normal people. My bf has straight up told me that if I ever cut myself he would be out. Which is harsh but fair	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 08:18 AM
9	If men are as "socially" priveleged as feminist women say, how come OJ Simpson has been cancelled but Carole Baskin has not? I think the biggest show of male privilege is how one man kept s straight young man doped up and drive him to suicide and another grooming barely legal young women as literal wife+slaves for his zoo but the woman is the most hated. Her allegations are speculative at best. But I've seen more posts hating on her than the abusive men. All three are terrible people but boy oh boy do people love to hate on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 03:11 AM
8	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring So basically your personal preference is what determines an intelligent person. You do realise that both genders can make similar arguements? I discussed with a female friend on the current socio economic implications of the Covid crisis affecting migration of labourers in my country. I couldn't find a man interested in discussing ethical implications of policy implementation at all. Infact there are more women pursuing PhD in sociology than men. I find men boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 03:01 AM
6	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring Pretty much. I am using the quarantine to read and cook more. People who complain thay others are somehow obligated to entertain them are truly the worst sorts	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 02:57 AM
7	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring Nope	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 02:52 AM
8	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring If you find an entire gender boring the problem clearly lies with you. This post read like a misogynistic version of r/iamverysmart	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 02:52 AM
10	[CMV] Women are fundamentally boring I have to say I absolutely love your response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 02:21 AM
0	Guys really should pay on the first date. If you ask someone out you pay for the date. What's so confusing about that. Also aren't you putting your best foot forward? Personally I hate going Dutch. If you pay on location 1 I will pay on location 2 etc. With my bf our date went so great we popped over to another place to get ice cream and I paid. We mostly took turns to pay till we broke it off. After which he pays for 70-80% of the dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 01:05 PM
3	FDS illustrates one of the many reasons men aren't thrilled about high n-count women Tbh I think the problem there is from women who've cared too much in the past and are aware they will care to much in the future. If you have a better vetting process you will filter out men who will take advantage of you. Personally I am a very sensitive person and very affectionate to the people in my life but at the beginning stages of dating am a grade a bitch. So most men don't stick around. And those who do are usually kind and mild mannered. That way even if am 100% vulnerable and clingy …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 10:25 AM
1	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Yes there must definitely be a cultural difference then. Honestly even in india, the socio economic class, state etc make a difference in perception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 08:30 AM
2	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Of course they do! I do not understand the context of this statement. Are you saying indian women are more likely to be spoiled brats? If that is what you are saying, have YOU met indian men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:46 AM
8	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Awful people exist everywhere unfortunately. But I am indian/Indian so the rights in my country and the condition of women is deplorable. However it's steadily improving and I would like to hope that things will change in the future	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:31 AM
8	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? I wouldn't want an arranged marriage in the first place. If you pick a shitty life partner as a woman, he can rape you without any consequences. You could run away and he could demand restitution of conjugal rights. So no I would marry for love and honestly in my social class you are likely to hush up things for society's sake. Low divorce etc so it's very unlikely that my wife would file a fake dowry claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:24 AM
3	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:18 AM
6	Women. Knowing what you know and what we discuss here, if you were a man , would you get married? Yup. Most of what women demand are equal rights and men in my country are spoiled af. I would date the same girl for years, be her friend and get married to her. I wouldn't demand dowry or expect her to always cook and clean and make sure she's happy and healthy. Most of the women I've seen in my life would be a delight to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 02:16 AM
1	It's time for the return of this study - the only study that attempted to measure hypergamy in online dating Because most of the female lawyers married for love, they married men of various professions and potentials. While all the male lawyers married either women from wealth or women capable of making money. Way to twist my words around desperately to fit your narrative. Most men with professional degrees are huge gold diggers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 01:52 AM
-7	It's time for the return of this study - the only study that attempted to measure hypergamy in online dating Na men get the better deal. Because fewer men are willing to settle for marriage and monogamy they get a better pick of women and get the best. Women don't. An average woman is fucked as far as marriage/commitment market is concerned	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 06:19 AM
6	It's time for the return of this study - the only study that attempted to measure hypergamy in online dating Even irl I've only witnessed men marrying up. In my batch of 80 in law school graduate the women have married outside their race, occupation, economic strata etc. All the men have either married fellow lawyers or daughters of rich lawyers. I've always found it laughable when TRP and incels claim that women are the selfish reachers when I've only found it true with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 05:04 AM
2	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? Lol do you lack basic reading comprehension? Not surprised though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 04:02 AM
1	How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money) I feel like approachable and the boy next door look is the most popular amongst women and they truly live a different life. I've read about how men struggle but none of the men I know irl have struggled so much. That being said I know two men who are above average and get a lot of female attention. Like casual pick up lines work, women make excuses to talk to them. One of them had a shitty date and the girl straight up offered him to "chill" at her place afterwards. This guy had women straight u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 02:49 AM
1	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? Yes this is very true. Even though my partner doesn't have a high n count I do not like hearing about his exes because they make me insecure. It brings this realisation while everything I am feeling is brand new and strong, he has already felt this way about someone before. That irrational thought puts a severe dampener on things	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 02:23 AM
8	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? I find it very surprising that you have issues with what is clearly my personal preferences. I know many women who adhere to similar standards, just because we don't conform to your very narrow world view doesn't mean we don't exist. If you want more context, I didn't lose my v card till I was 26 and was insistent that my so take an std test regardless. If I were more traditional I would have waited till marriage or got married earlier but then again marriage conflicts with a.lot of my personal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 02:21 AM
55	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? Yes I think high partner count is definitely a impulse control issue and someone who doesn't value relationships much. I've only been with one person and my partner has been with 2 other long term partners. I definitely think people who consider sex as just an act of pleasure may have difficulty attaching emotional context to it. Other than my STD phobia and belief that high n count men will have difficulty pair bonding. I would not want such a man	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 07:22 PM
1	Having a beautiful wife = most important thing a man can secure So here is key then for your universal statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 05:52 PM
10	Having a beautiful wife = most important thing a man can secure You definitely don't belong to the medical or legal fields. Here it is definitely important that your wife is qualified, if you just bring a pretty young thing you will be judged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 05:30 PM
3	Online dating is actually great for meeting people of similar value to yourself OLD also caters to putting in least bit effort, like tinder with its 'swipe' feature. I think that's also why people ghost rather than confront what's going wrong with the situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:59 PM
2	Online dating is actually great for meeting people of similar value to yourself I think the issue is the infinite options. I am a super shy individual, online dating definitely opened options for me. But as time went on I realised noone actually wants commitment. Literally everyone wants to flirt, maybe fuck. If things don't immediately click both parties lose interest. Most people who get into relationships through OLD are hung up on their exes, looking for something better and the options are infinite. The minute you lose the sparks you can walk and find someone better. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 01:54 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Yes a lot of men raised in the west are astoundingly liberal in my perspective. Even the RP ones, who are considered conservative. I would admit that I am curious about what RP d fines as female nature. But from thr small tidbit of conversation I had with you, you sound like a good person. I sincerely hope you find a fellow nice person who reciprocates your love and affection Because I believe that ultimately recriprocity and appreciation is what truly makes a relationship. If you don't have a c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 05:02 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... themselves but it's also very attractive when a woman is good at these things and is also willing to do them for a man. I think that's because you want to see your partner care for you. That can be acts of service, like cooking a meal or gift giving. On that note I am curious you would like a woman who cooks for you, would you then like spending money on her. What's your equavalent for reciprocity? The red-pilled side of me would probably make you take that back, lol. Can you tell me why this is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 04:21 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... I think reading your post makes me think you are just different from the average guy I've met. Because most of the times I've met guys who prioritise looks over everything. Ideally feminism should allow woman to.make whatever choices she wants to make. I am a feminist I can cook and clean, that's a basic life skill. There are no awards for doing the bare minimum tbh. I come from a traditional patriarchal country, without going into details, I've seen what an average man expects from his wife. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 04:00 PM
0	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... You mean men will fuck a woman just because. Men have just as many conditions when it comes to commitment. makes every woman attractive enough for a man to at least talk to her. But in your previous post you already stated that women find men attractive regardless of looks. So that means a man can always level up. But for a woman beauty is her only selling factor and that too is contingent on age. So if she's not attractive she's doomed	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 02:53 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... That's two different issues then isn't it. Whether women go for partners prioritising looks? Or how men rate themselves. For a relationship to form and sustain, just looks isnt enough. And looks can change depending on perception. But haven't men stated the same, an extremely hot woman can lose her charm depending on personality and a cute woman can become beautiful depending on her personality. That's interpersonal relationship. But purely from visual appeal it means men rated themselves higher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 02:34 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... If the opposite s x (who you want to attract) doesn't date you as high as you rate yourself, that means your rating is flawed not the person/people rating you. If an obese woman rates herself a 8 but the men rate her a 3. She's a 3 not an 8. So in this case the men overrated themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 01:33 PM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Which is pretty much the og post	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 09:33 AM
5	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Yes but women getting abandoned when they are sick, wen getting cheated on during pregnancy are stats you can look up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 09:13 AM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... That's the thing though the women are taking about relationships and the men fucking. Most men fuck anything so sexual validation means nothing from a guy really	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 08:59 AM
3	Is a monogamous relationship/marriage really that important if it’s just a want? Depends on what you want out of life. On one hand I think companionship, fidelity. I also think stable home for our kid, an opportunity to pool our resources and be better. Establish my roots, imitate what my ancestors have done. Other hand I am financially stable, sex is a want not a need and I can do without. Companionship is a luxury and without fidelity and recriprocity it is not worth it. I can adopt a child if my maternal instincts are that strong. My family would help out and my child wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 08:53 AM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Just because they don't pick you doesn't mean they don't know what they want	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 08:47 AM
3	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Men would never go for girls below their looks. Every single girl knows this. Men have always always been shallow, hell even if they date/marry a beautiful woman the moment she becomes sick, gains weight during pregnancy she's out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 08:29 AM
2	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Not really. It builds resentment towards women they think is their looksmatch when they are not. They are shooting out of their league and pretending it's the woman who needs to settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 08:27 AM
-1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... So never have conversations? There is even a study that showed men rated themselves higher than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 07:57 AM
1	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... To an extent yes. Aesthetics can be appreciated even if it's not your personal preference. Furthermore actors, models and insta has kinda proven that tehre is definitely preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 07:55 AM
11	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... Lmao yes. Not a LARP or anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 06:15 AM
21	Ladies, it’s time to take our own advice... I've met men way more delusional about their looks than women. Had a male friend call himself better looking than a model (I was shocked) or my guy friends casually comment some actors not being that good looking and "not getting the hype" when they couldn't hold a candle to these men. I think the funniest was this guy I turned down and commented that my bf isn't that good-looking. It's hilarious 99% of women would pick my bf over this dude, yet he's over there deluding himself. Men are not obje…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 06:14 AM
1	Do you believe in love? If you don’t then tell us why. Of course I believe in love. To quote Eric Fromm love like anything else needs to be practiced to be good at. To sustain the emotion it needs work and patience. Once the initial euphoria of touching them and holding them wears off you need to love them in their lows as well. When they are irritated, sad when neither of you can put in 100%. I do hope the person I am with, also realises that love is also effort. At the end of the day for it to work both parties need to give 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 02:58 AM
2	Advice for girls I want to tell you this, more than anything you can tell her show her what a good man/father you are. You can say all the pretty things in the world but the reality of how she grows up depends on what she sees. Seeing you treat your mother, your wife etc will have the greatest impact on her. Tomorrow the kind of man she chooses for herself will depend on the kind of man you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 07:56 PM
0	The Hypocrisy of FDS Wow yes internet stranger. Educated law makers are dumb and TRP touting teen is the one who is correct. I can only laugh at the sheer stupidity of your statements. Btw look up percentage of men who actually pay up alimony or child support or the fact that a vast majority of men don't even contest custody (aka they don't want their children) it's laughable that you think the world is catering to women when it clearly is not(domestic violence, murder, rape, trafficking statistics will show you how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 07:10 AM
2	The Hypocrisy of FDS I don't follow any principles irl because to make a happy relationship both sides have to make sacrifices. Basic info you would know if it wasn't for the fact that you merely look at the opposite gender as a means of exploitation. Women are begging for laws because less than two decades ago marital rape wasn't a thing, child marriage is still not illegal in 48 states in US for the rest of the World has to go long ways to catch up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 06:50 AM
1	The Hypocrisy of FDS Wow you sound like an all around terrible person. If laws are the only thing stopping you from acting in the best interests of a fellow human being then you are the reason why such laws are put in place Overall men like you are probably why FDS exists. You just told me two comments back not to bring in "history" because the modern woman just benifits off her ancestors. So by the same logic you are just a modern man complaining and riding the coattails of your allegedly exploited men from history	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 06:32 AM
2	The Hypocrisy of FDS Doesn't TRP predate FDS by several years. So wouldn't it be more accurate to say FDS has been made to counter TRP. I agree with the vetting process. Both genders should vet heavily before committing to someone. And then work on the relationship together	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 05:55 AM
0	The Hypocrisy of FDS Lol by the same logic it's not a woman's fault if she drains a man of his resources. Women have not historically looked out for themselves. Historically women were property and tools for oppression, pleasure and procreation. Women seldom had agency in teh choices she made. having sex is not equal to a Man accepting the woman. Exactly. A sentiments that FDS often repeats. Thus the stringent vetting process and ensuring that a man is truly committed to you before having sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 05:38 AM
2	The Hypocrisy of FDS Your answer is very hypocritical because I am sure you are assuming spanking v man spending insane amounts of money. When in reality one or two dates isn't amounting to much. Also either party can not chose to go on that date?? Your statement holds up in your head	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 05:11 AM
2	The Hypocrisy of FDS Have you been beaten. There is a reason why it's illegal to do so. Aren't the men agreeing to pay for the dates. So you are saying consent negates impact. So a woman agreeing to get hit is ok but a man agreeing to pay is not ok?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:59 AM
1	The Hypocrisy of FDS I think it's human nature to develop an attachment to someone you are having sex with. Women more than men. So ideally they should have a much better vetting process to ensure that the man actually likes them before sleeping with them. To prevent alpha widows right? I bet half of those alpha widows are just women who fell for men who did not reciprocate their feelings but made them think there was a chance. Leagues have nothing to do with it. Any man who rejects you must be out of your league an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:57 AM
4	The Hypocrisy of FDS You say you are not draining women. Except you also have the term "alpha widow" so by TRPs own admission they realise that they can permanently damage a woman's mental well being by leading her on. Resources (aka the paltry sum paid on dates) can be re-earned, but taking yourself out if a mental headspace is way harder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:48 AM
2	The Hypocrisy of FDS So there you have it folks	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:45 AM
0	The Hypocrisy of FDS The end goal of FDS seems marriage (which have statistically proven beneficial for men on their health and overall happiness) and for RP is to pump and dump many women. What seems better to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:34 AM
5	The Hypocrisy of FDS So you are equating BDSM to paying for dates? Are you of the opinion you "take" sex from a woman and somehow beating her into submission in bed is what equates paying for dates? Wow	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 04:21 AM
5	What if men's physical changes have also changed men's behavior and that's why people disagree on what men are like? You know I am with you on this. Also I think a lot of younger men channel their aggression towards video games which is probably why they hate women in such spaces. I think humanity on the whole needs to divorce from technology for a little bit. I've taken up cooking and I find the whole process quite relaxing and cathartic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 07:53 PM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump I must admit that English is not my first language. I did not think of investment as in returns but rather what you put into a relationship. I've read the fundamentals of love is care, knowledge, respect and responsibility. And by investment I meant that you put labor into a relationship so you can be happy together. And house children not as assets but a happy house, loving children etc. You can choose not to have children but I would want them. And I believe in marriage, stability and fidelity…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 10:00 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump Yes don't you invest in a relationship? I do not understand why investment is such a bad for you. That’s the type of “relationship” one has with an object she intends to use to achieve her life goals. I do not understand this at all. Do you expect your wife to have married you for assets? For financial dependence. Does your wife not bring in any of her own assets into the marriage? To me an investment is a life together. Where we have a house, children etc. There are so many negative assumptions…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 09:26 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump And I can't be in a relationship where someone thinks my interest in them is an investment rather than a two way street. A relationship is a two way investment for a future. If that's not it I don't see the point of a relationship. I can walk, I have no use of cars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 08:58 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump I will put it in a different way, I see my body as sacred and only someone that I have truly given my heart to can my body belong to. To be casual sex or sex without commitment is absolutely pointless because without emotional attachment I do not truly desire them. I might desire a Bently, but the Audi I am saving up for is the car I intend to drive. I do not want to take the Bently for a test drive. There are so many stages of making a genuine emotional connect before it developing into sexual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 08:37 AM
3	Do women actually speak like this among their female friends? Personally you shouldn't date or be with someone you don't find attractive. Isn't that common sense. If you start dating someone under the assumption that 'because they are ugly they will treat you better' then you are doomed to fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 08:27 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump I think we have very different perspectives on what makes for a good relationship. Sexual comparability is just one aspect for me. I see no point in pursuing a relationship with someone who only sees me as a sexual object and no utility outside of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 07:50 AM
5	FDS isn’t good dating advice I would disagree. There are definitely points that you need to modify according to your principles and dating preferences but most of it is good advice. I agree with the parts about waiting for sex, having a better filtering process, looking for reciprocity etc. I don't agree with dinner dates or one party paying for everything but that's about it At the end of the day you have to make better choices of you want. LTR	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 07:39 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump You are assuming sexual and relationship desire as two mutually exclusive things. I could desire someone on the street but that's not the same as desiring someone to have a relationship with. Attraction can be a plus in a relationship but purely physical attraction does not make a relationship. So a woman abstaining from sex before entering into a relationship does not mean she doesn't desire you. Merely that she distinguishes abstract desire from having a fulfilling relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 06:12 AM
2	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump But if she’s already crossed that Rubicon, she’d be signaling that she has dichotomous standards an I don't understand the dichotomy. If she's not a virgin but has only had sex in LTR would these conditions not apply? She's adhered to the same personal standard consistently and she's looking for a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 05:22 AM
1	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump Sexual comparability isn't the sole factor determining comparability. Personally interpersonal relationship fuels sexual comparability for me. Someone I have great rapport and chemistry with will translate to sexual comparability. Because if I am affectionate towards a person that transfers to the bedroom	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 05:19 AM
8	None of you edgelord fags are going to wait 3 months just to pump n dump And if multiple men decide to pump and dump her after 3 dates or she leaves after 3 dates she's a hoe with high n count. You know there is no winning with men like you	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 05:14 AM
0	Arranged marriage is more BASED and successful than marrying for “love” (ie: sexual attraction which fizzles out eventually) Also not true. India has a huge spike of young married women killing themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 07:26 PM
2	Arranged marriage is more BASED and successful than marrying for “love” (ie: sexual attraction which fizzles out eventually) Yes you do seem incapable of love. I think people forget that real love is also work. But if you are operating under the assumption that staying in marriage is what makes it successful then in also makes for some deeply unhappy people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 07:18 PM
4	Arranged marriage is more BASED and successful than marrying for “love” (ie: sexual attraction which fizzles out eventually) Nope because arranged marriages are rooted in deep social and economic imbalances. Since am sure you are a man and quoted india in a previous post I will tell you what will be expected from you: Your wife can chose not to work, that's an a-ok decision on her part. But stay at home still means she will have or force you to get a maid. She can gain weight, infact most women post giving birth to children do. There is no expectations of staying fit or looking good post marriage (except for the upper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 07:12 PM
3	Do you think this sub will be able to go back to normal after this purge. Due to all the racism I don't really know. This will be boiling under people's skin for a long time. I completely agree. Oftentimes am at odds with the right wing while I cannot completely align with the left wing either. Both seem extreme nowadays	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 06:44 PM
6	Why the fuck are there so many black women on this sub? Yes I completely agree. And getting the guy or girl is just level 1. It is hard work maintaining a relationship, it's seeing them when they are sick, angry, even when you are exhausted. Attraction and sex is the bare minimum of a relationship and everyone is vehemently arguing on that. And love makes it worth it, if only they could see past their massive egos and self-righteousness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 10:03 AM
6	Why the fuck are there so many black women on this sub? Yes and they overvalue there own opinions. Yes I know you have a dick doesn't mean you are entitled to anything, which men in this sub do not seem to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:55 AM
9	Why the fuck are there so many black women on this sub? People here are bitter af. Goodluck finding anyone to love you if you think the entire gender is fucked up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:42 AM
2	Be honest. Does the self confidence of Black women piss off men who are not physically attracted to them? You are an insecure dumbass	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:38 AM
12	Why the fuck are there so many black women on this sub? Same. It's just amusing af	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 09:34 AM
2	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment Haha what? Misrepresentation is a crime, so is deception. In what world is lying not a crime?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 05:36 AM
5	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment Actually everyone is entitled to honestly. That's how our society and law functions. Do you think you are not entitled to your partners honesty when they have an std? Or a friend's honestly when you lend them money? In most cases it's illegal to wilfully misrepresent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 05:35 AM
1	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment No it's a bad idea to wait untill marriage because there might be sexual issues that you never realise (I say this in context of holding on to your virginity)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 05:28 AM
9	Sorry ladies, you aren’t entitled to men’s commitment Lol exactly. It filters out red flags, keeps the men who are genuinely looking for serious relationships around. Also no pesky feelings developing post sex because we are both on the same page about what the relationship entails. I literally cannot fault this logic	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 05:17 AM
5	I LOVE the Purge Yup and my periods are painful. Sex is the last thing on my mind then	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/20 04:26 AM