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| 5 | Got any tips for first time hookup with a self confessed shy virgin guy? | accumben | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:58 AM | |
| 4 | [FR] The importance of good rapport? | Field Report | accumben | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 06:14 AM |
| 0 | [FR] “I'll show you how to kino” F-close | Field Report | accumben | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 02:43 AM |
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| 2 | [FR] “I'll show you how to kino” F-closeAlso, some of this stuff applies to all genders such as: -what I started the conversation about -kino/get the conversation sexual. The speed at which this is done may differ. -how I got sexual history information (which can be awkward to talk about) -how to figure out if your touch is accepted or not -I have him 'lessons' on how to kino while actually doing it. I'm not sure how well this would go down, kind of like 'I'm a PUA, can I show you how it works?'. It worked here in this FR by escalatin… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 06:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] “I'll show you how to kino” F-close"Women don't need to be taught how to get hit on, it just happens." No, it doesn't. If you're a HB10, okay maybe. I'm not. And what if we want to do the hitting on? | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 06:20 AM |
| 3 | [FR] “I'll show you how to kino” F-closeNo, the 'lessons' were an excuse to touch him and to get him to start touching me too. I had no intention of actually trying to help the guy out with his pick up skills, I'm a beginner at this stuff so what I was saying to him could have been bullshit for all I know. But it doesn't matter. This guy was a stranger, not an online friend so this is how we became fuckbuddies instead of strangers. In my case, seduction is a two way street, but his or her job is to make me feel safe if I initiate. So … | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 06:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] “I'll show you how to kino” F-close"Seddit doesnt really apply to women" Big misconception. It just does not apply to HB7+ submissive women. That's not all women and most def. not me! Think of all the unattractive women you wouldn't fuck. I've edited in 'about me' to clarify this. I also would prefer to do the hitting on, and not be hit on. The problem with seddit is that it's a sausage fest but where else can I post about seduction? You're right about the second point because most of the FR is about what happened offline and the… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 06:08 AM |
| 0 | What would you interpret this as?She probably is either against NSA, she may be the boyfriend or platonic friend only type. Or the opposite, she may have some sort of feelings towards you, and is avoiding that since neither want a relationship. But we cant mind read, so we can only guess or discuss further. If you dont want to, time to move on. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Active Community in Melbourne?btw, what's your age range and gender? | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Active Community in Melbourne?I'm from Melb (australia) but I have no idea about any communities. I havn't actually tried game with someone I havn't met online first, so I need to level up but I'm too chicken to go sarging alone. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How does an overly literal intellectual become a natural conversationalist?Good question! Meet ladies who would either like to get laid straight away or those who you actually want to have a conversation with. Unfortunately this may be easier said that done and this advice is better used by females because places where you can meet such ladies have an already high male population, such as online. Although it's not that simple for females either, I've experienced that most 'borderline-autistic nerds' are drooling over the HB9 at the club and turning their noses up at to… | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Any suggestions for a lady that is afraid to strike up a conversation at a bar?What helps me is understanding that not everyone has to like me. I wasted so much time trying to impress the people that don't like me and ignoring those that I already have a solid relationship with (life in general, not with picking up at the bar). It's not a competition. If these guys didn't like you, it's better to know ASAP so you can exit gracefully (I wouldn't call this slinking off) rather than having shitty or boring sexytimes or a relationship constantly trying to impress someone who d… | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Any suggestions for a lady that is afraid to strike up a conversation at a bar?What helps me is not preparing an opening, but preparing an exit. My 'fear' is 'what if this conversation gets awkward and it's obvious the person doesn't want to talk to me?' I give it a chance, then use my prepared excuse. "Oh my friend is waiting for me, nice meeting you, blah blah'. I also think 'if they don't like me, that is their problem, and they are also free to leave the interaction any time they please, I am not forcing them' and combine that with abundance mentality by thinking 'ah w… | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Got any tips for first time hookup with a self confessed shy virgin guy?Thanks, I have indeed read it - not the lot of course. I started a new topic because I'm looking for tips specific on how to make a shy person who hasn't had sex feel more comfortable. Or at least share some experiences on what would make them more comfortable, or how their first time was. I haven't yet read anything on this. I do understand that applying the basics helps (which is why I'm on this subreddit in the first place) such as the kino escalation ladder and even things like what I can do… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 06:21 AM |
| 2 | The ranking system for girls we use here isn't productiveIt depends exactly what the ranking means. If it's based on attraction, even physical photo only attraction, that's subjective. We're into different types of people, beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that. Who I think is HB9 (or HG - Hot Guy?) might be HB5 to someone else. But their HB9 might be HB7 to me - because I may be attracted to chubby while the other person likes some muscle and I don't. The glossary makes it sound a little more objective (or collective??) stating 'it also refer… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Got any tips for first time hookup with a self confessed shy virgin guy?"f he's uncomfortable he won't say anything, he will just want to lose that tag that haunts the teenage boy" This is what makes things a little difficult. He may find it uncomfortable to get intimate with a stranger, but still want to go ahead with it. Or he may not like me, and just be compliant because he's too shy to say or do anything to make it stop. Or he could be a real arsehole, who knows? This is the problem when people have casual sex for reasons other than for the fun of it. Ah well, … | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Got any tips for first time hookup with a self confessed shy virgin guy?Thanks. Whether or not he stays hard, jizzes his pants or whatever doesn't really concern me, I'm happy just to grind his flaccid cock. This is trying my fantasy of showing a virgin The Sex, but I am hoping he will have a good time, but I'm not expecting anything. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 10:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] SNL in a laundry room. Almost happened, need advice.She wanted your dick but wouldn't even take her own clothes off? | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 03:11 PM |
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