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| 1 | Lily Phillips situation/reaction is grossI think ( some) men miss the point. If you were crazy would you know you were crazy? If a psychiatrist did not diagnose you with anti social personality disorder you might go through life thinking you were different but not really know you were a walking psychopath—as long as you weren’t violent. Not saying she has ASPD but there could be an( undiagnosed ) mental illness of some kind and just because she is an adult doesn’t mean she knows what she is doing. We can call it infantilization now but… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?BBW are very sexy. But the skinny this is like you can’t have too much money and you can’t be too skinny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenI agree with your analysis of the average guy versus the average woman. And I think it is because a woman can easily find sex, but she can’t find a relationship and that’s what she really wants; ( I know many young women will vehemently disagree) so if they both want relationships, I think it’s an even playing field. But if they both want sex it’s an uneven playing field tilted to the woman’s advantage. I have dated very attractive women for a serious relationship. For a casual relationship I’ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | do I look fat/overweight to you?No. You look amazing. Your thighs are perfect! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/23 02:09 AM |
| 2 | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?Men are becoming neutered. A female friend once told me to instead of gawking at a woman tell her you like her dress or her necklace and she will know what you mean. Well today you might be called creepy so men are playing with one hand tied behind their backs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.For women confidence is very high on the list of attractive traits but arrogance is not. The problem is that a lot of women can’t tell the difference between confidence and arrogance before it’s too late. By the time they figure out the confidence is arrogance they’ve already bought the act and have slept with him. Then they dump him and repeat the cycle all over again until they can differentiate confidence from arrogance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 01:24 PM |
| 37 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?Kindness to children and animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | What is personally a hot man for you?I think men a way more shallow than women. I’m slightly above looking and I have never been without a GF. If I was a woman I would not have as much success. Sure maybe I would have an easier time finding a hookup but for anything serious? Nope. I’m glad I’m a guy. Women are much more forgiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?When men don’t drop everything just to have sex with them. When men are preoccupied with their passion it is more important to them than sex. Women don’t get that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.When women like you they want sex all the time. It’s actually hard to keep up with them. This is coming from a guy who thought it was easier to steal the Hope Diamond than it is to get a woman to sleep with you. But once they like you look out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?I think women have more varied tastes. It seems the other way around because there are 20 different shapes and sizes of women whereas there’s only maybe four different shapes and sizes of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.I agree with the title and thesis. And I always believed women were doing me a favor until a WOMAN told me it works both ways. Basically the notion that it’s a one way street is one of the best kept secrets for women. Women do control the sex but, little did we know, they get just as much out of it. She gave away a secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Another one bites the dust...You make good points. But don’t you think evolution wants a man to spread his seed in as many places as he can? That guy for some reason was selected by many women. Is he an alpha male and they are hardwired to select him because their vaginas are more attracted to him than their brains? | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/05/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Another one bites the dust...But what about the guy who sells his seed to a sperm bank; doesn’t evolution reward him for discovering a clever way to people the planet with his progeny? Evolution rewards the guy able to spread his seed in as many places as possible and stick some unlucky bloke with the bill. Evolution is not quite the art of “thinking critically.” If that were the case most women would marry the guy who can afford the biggest diamond. That is to say she isn’t quite “thinking” about that decision. Evolution m… | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/05/21 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail.Yes. I agree. It’s cyclical: she wears the bikini, gets positive reinforcement and now she’s confident. And now that she’s confident she wears the bikini. Repeat ad infinitum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail.I agree with this 100 percent! Viewed another way, is a woman confident because she can wear a red bikini or can she wear a red bikini because she’s confident? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail.Men tend to punch above their weight when it comes to looks. On the other hand if you are a very good looking guy with low presentation/ presence/status you will not get that beautiful woman. Of course P/S/S is subjective so a gorgeous woman who never finished high school probably wouldn’t be sophisticated enough to respect a man with a PhD and average looks. But a beautiful woman with a PhD would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I don’t accept your premise in total. Yes I will yield on your premise about women and their rush against the clock. But as far as your theory about men you have no period where a man wants to be serious. You say from 18-29 he goes from not having his shit together to getting his education, career, house and then he has so much confidence that after 30 he just wants nothing serious ( taken from your title). If that’s the case when is a man ever serious? By your reasoning that period would be 22-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character?I don’t know if it’s the chicken or the egg, but just look at the billion dollar beauty industry to know how cultural it is for women to want to be desired. I once visited a lover and since I couldn’t stay long I left without having sex. Well the next day she said “you left without even making love to me.”’ And here it is I thought I was being a gentleman by not eating and running. I desired her very much. But all men aren’t sexual creatures all the time. But still I learned that it makes a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 7 | What Sex Means To A ManI like the way you think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?“I mean it’s almost like an anger that breeds from entitlement.” That’s a very perceptive comment. Whenever I wasn’t looking for a woman that’s when she appeared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?Maybe if a woman sees her loving brother go through these dating issues she will feel his frustration because she loves him. And then she will have an epiphany. But other than that I just don’t see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double StandardWomen are surprised when men aren’t in the mood. But did we do it to ourselves by acting like sex is our priority in life or did the media perpetuate that myth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 5 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"I have a similar frame as yours ( 5’10” 165) and I like to look at women who weigh more than me but THEY tend to like bigger guys. Anyway my “type” ( Women have types why can’t men have types, too?) is slimmer women but I will definitely date outside of my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Before I finally found a GF it was easier to steal the Hope Diamond than to get a woman in bed. Now I find myself looking for reasons to get out of having sex. So I guess I am in agreement with the monogamy theory. In my experience when a woman likes and trusts you sex gets a lot easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 35 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingA lot of what you say is so spot on. For instance, the inbox. On other sites I had posted profiles of attractive women. “My” inbox was flooded all the time. But while women did PM me ( my real self) they just didn’t chase me like men chase women. I have a friend who is a ladies’ man and they don’t even chase HIM. He says he compares it ( dating) to baseball: twenty five percent is average and thirty three percent success is hall of fame. Women have no concept of this. And I have no concept of sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Shouldn't women worry more about polygamy than a man worrying about hypergamy?I’ll grant you that they hide things better. They can be fucking your best friend without you ever suspecting. The only clue is your friend is a lousy liar. But I takes more for them to cheat. That’s my point. But yes when they cheat they are big time masters of the clandestine. No argument from me on that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Shouldn't women worry more about polygamy than a man worrying about hypergamy?I agree. I think the vast majority of women need a good reason to cheat i.e. lack of emotional intimacy or sexual inexperience, sexual absence, etc. Men, by and large, don’t need a good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 94 | I HAD A GIRL HOME WITH ME FOR THE FIRST TIME!There’s nothing quite like the feeling of success with a girl/ woman. I’m very happy for you. 😊 | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Theory guy taking action DAY 2You work out so I’m sure you have the goods to go along with your confidence. I like when she said you skin was already good. That was a subtle flirt on HER part which had to make you feel more even more confident. I had a lesbian friend teach me how to get over my phobia of approaching beautiful women. She told me to approach every beauty when the urge came to me but to leave my ego home. And if/ when I get the phone number DON’t follow up; make it an exercise. This worked! I wasn’t afraid beca… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Theory guy taking action DAY 2Wow! You were so smooth! Well done. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 03:46 AM |
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